Posted 2011-10-28 10:13 AM (#5971347 - in reply to #5963365) Subject: RE: Flowers for Jetzaflamin05
Northern Chocolate Queen
Just wanted to let you all know that I'd like to cut off the paypal donations tomorrow, the checks that are coming should be here early next week and then when we have a final total we'll let you know what we have decided to do for Jenn.
Posted 2011-10-28 8:01 PM (#5972418 - in reply to #5963365) Subject: RE: Flowers for Jetzaflamin05
Location: Lost in North Dakota....wishin on all the stars
this has been a rough rough week. As you can see reading mattys obiturary, my ex.husband chose to not include me. I have the memories of my son and and broken to the very core. When my brother died, I couldnt understand why my mom said she was broken...i do now, I will never be the same. On behalf of myself, luke, chance, kolby, kaycea and jacob, I thank you all...and would like to share this picture of my mom who passed away in august and matt who was 3.
Posted 2011-10-29 3:27 PM (#5973479 - in reply to #5963365) Subject: RE: Flowers for Jetzaflamin05
Location: The wonderful Big Sky State
Jenn - I am so sorry for your exclusion in the obituary. I can't even imagine the hurt in that but remember, they are only words. You are his MOMMA and you will always be his MOMMA. No amount of adult childness and bitterness will ever be able to take that away from you. You are in my heart as is your son.
Posted 2011-10-30 4:42 PM (#5974654 - in reply to #5963365) Subject: RE: Flowers for Jetzaflamin05
She's a Tough One
Im so very sorry about being left out of the obituary, I cant even imagine how painful that was for you. As if the grieving process wasn't hard enough. Just know that you know you are Matthew's mom and Matthew knew that you were his mom and that's all that matters, his dad can't take that away, the memories you and Matthew shared together, and the bond that mother and son have. I often wonder why people do the things they do during these difficult times and we will never know what your ex was thinking, obviously he wasn't. Seems like true colors always show through at the most inappropriate times.