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Marriage advice please! UPdate pg5
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SuperConfused
Reg. Jan 2017
Posted 2017-03-29 10:37 AM (#7336528 - in reply to #7336494)
Subject: RE: Marriage advice please! UPdate pg5


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I'm ok and thank you all for your concern. I saw a therapist yesterday and that helped me a lot with all of the mixed emotions i was feeling. The plan is in motion just waiting a bit longer for the perfect opportunity. I also made a emergency to go bag in case i just have to bale and leave the horses which i really hope i don't have to. But you are all correct my safety is most important. I love you all!! And Thank you for everything!
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BarrelRacing4Christ
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Posted 2017-03-29 10:44 AM (#7336529 - in reply to #7336528)
Subject: RE: Marriage advice please! UPdate pg5


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SuperConfused - 2017-03-29 9:37 AM

I'm ok and thank you all for your concern. I saw a therapist yesterday and that helped me a lot with all of the mixed emotions i was feeling. The plan is in motion just waiting a bit longer for the perfect opportunity. I also made a emergency to go bag in case i just have to bale and leave the horses which i really hope i don't have to. But you are all correct my safety is most important. I love you all!! And Thank you for everything!

I'm just curious why you're continuing to put off leaving. Doesn't make a lot of sense to me. I'm glad that you're safe for right now though, but please... leave. ASAP.
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IRunOnFaith
Reg. Dec 2009
Posted 2017-03-29 12:23 PM (#7336562 - in reply to #7336529)
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BarrelRacing4Christ - 2017-03-29 10:44 AM
SuperConfused - 2017-03-29 9:37 AM I'm ok and thank you all for your concern. I saw a therapist yesterday and that helped me a lot with all of the mixed emotions i was feeling. The plan is in motion just waiting a bit longer for the perfect opportunity. I also made a emergency to go bag in case i just have to bale and leave the horses which i really hope i don't have to. But you are all correct my safety is most important. I love you all!! And Thank you for everything!
I'm just curious why you're continuing to put off leaving. Doesn't make a lot of sense to me. I'm glad that you're safe for right now though, but please... leave. ASAP.

Also very confused with why you didn't leave already...
You keep talking about a plan... You do realize you're on a train full speed ahead for a dead end... right?

Read the "Plan" I listed step by step earlier. Can't get much more simpler than that....
 
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NJJ
Reg. Jul 2006
Posted 2017-03-29 1:11 PM (#7336582 - in reply to #7336562)
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IRunOnFaith - 2017-03-29 12:23 PM
BarrelRacing4Christ - 2017-03-29 10:44 AM
SuperConfused - 2017-03-29 9:37 AM I'm ok and thank you all for your concern. I saw a therapist yesterday and that helped me a lot with all of the mixed emotions i was feeling. The plan is in motion just waiting a bit longer for the perfect opportunity. I also made a emergency to go bag in case i just have to bale and leave the horses which i really hope i don't have to. But you are all correct my safety is most important. I love you all!! And Thank you for everything!
I'm just curious why you're continuing to put off leaving. Doesn't make a lot of sense to me. I'm glad that you're safe for right now though, but please... leave. ASAP.
Also very confused with why you didn't leave already...
You keep talking about a plan... You do realize you're on a train full speed ahead for a dead end... right?

Read the "Plan" I listed step by step earlier. Can't get much more simpler than that....
 
^^^ This is why I stated that I felt she is "backpedaling" .... 15 pages and six days later and the attitude is to just wait and see???? See what.....to see if he will really harm you or your animals.....the longer you wait, gives him, the opportunity to discover your "plan" and then it will be TOO LATE ! ! ! 

He's a "cheater" ..... not going to change
He's threatened to harm your animals....not going to change
He's monitoring your every move and communication....not going to change

The ONLY change will come from YOU !!!!

 

Edited by NJJ 2017-03-29 1:15 PM
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Bear
Reg. Dec 2007
Posted 2017-03-29 1:26 PM (#7336587 - in reply to #7320337)
Subject: RE: Marriage advice please! UPdate pg5



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You have "mixed feelings"? About what? I can't imagine anything more cut and dried. My first reaction to your saying that you are seeing a therapist was that I think a therapist is the least of your concerns. After thinking about this for a few minutes and considering your having "mixed feelings", I realize you are right.
A therapist is exactly what you need.
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Fun2Run
Reg. Jul 2005
Posted 2017-03-29 1:26 PM (#7336588 - in reply to #7336528)
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SuperConfused - 2017-03-29 10:37 AM I'm ok and thank you all for your concern. I saw a therapist yesterday and that helped me a lot with all of the mixed emotions i was feeling. The plan is in motion just waiting a bit longer for the perfect opportunity. I also made a emergency to go bag in case i just have to bale and leave the horses which i really hope i don't have to. But you are all correct my safety is most important. I love you all!! And Thank you for everything!

This is a step in the right direction. I hope the therapist suggested some reading material for you, like "The Narcissist Next Door."  I believe you are married to one. 
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Bear
Reg. Dec 2007
Posted 2017-03-29 2:13 PM (#7336597 - in reply to #7320337)
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Maybe you should have children. That will keep him home and bring you back together.
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NJJ
Reg. Jul 2006
Posted 2017-03-29 2:21 PM (#7336599 - in reply to #7336597)
Subject: RE: Marriage advice please! UPdate pg5


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Bear - 2017-03-29 2:13 PM Maybe you should have children. That will keep him home and bring you back together.

LOL....have you ever heard of the saying .... "Once a cheater, ALWAYS a cheater"  ?????
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