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      Location: Midwest Farmer's Daughter: Central Illinois | ...selfie hater?
The speed at which society has advanced technologically has made people more narcissistic & attention-craving than ever. Every time I see someone post a selfie I want to comment "Here, here is some attention...is that enough to make you feel good about yourself today?"
I really have a problem with it. Not the occasional 'new hair' or 'dressed up' or whatever, but the CONSTANT selfie-taking & posting makes me feel nothing but disdain for the selfie-taker. Feel good about yourself because you like yourself, not because other people hit a 'like' button on a stupid picture you took. Of yourself. By yourself. With no friends because you're too wrapped up in yourself to realize that other people actually physically exist in the world, not just on your facebook page.
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      Location: Midwest Farmer's Daughter: Central Illinois | barrelracr131 - 2013-11-26 11:01 AM I hate constant selfies
The ones I post are normally funny or silly
I am more guilty of posting a million and 5 photos of my horse lol
I post pictures of Steve, my horses & dogs all the time & I'm sure I drive selfie-takers nuts. "Why does she always post pictures of her dumb horses?"
Because I'm cooler than you, that's why.
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          Location: DUMPING CATS AND PIGS IN TEXAS :) | I don't get it. The ones that are taking pictures up high so you can see their boobs are the worst. I have a friend that constantly does that and I'm thinking do you know how many people are looking at your boobies........I unfriended one of my sister's because she posted a selfie of herself without a shirt on. She was showing Facebook her sunburn on her back.........and the puckered lips......come on people......the raised eyebrows aren't much better...... |
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      Location: Midwest Farmer's Daughter: Central Illinois | LRQHS - 2013-11-26 11:07 AM I don't get it. The ones that are taking pictures up high so you can see their boobs are the worst. I have a friend that constantly does that and I'm thinking do you know how many people are looking at your boobies........I unfriended one of my sister's because she posted a selfie of herself without a shirt on. She was showing Facebook her sunburn on her back.........and the puckered lips......come on people......the raised eyebrows aren't much better......
Hate to break it to you...the boob shots are totally on purpose. Like the ones where they're laying down & you can see their *ss...then when someone comments on said boobs/*ss they get mad. Eye. Roll. |
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Imagine if all the time spent prepping for and taking selfies was spent doing something productive. |
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          Location: DUMPING CATS AND PIGS IN TEXAS :) | RLB - 2013-11-26 11:09 AM LRQHS - 2013-11-26 11:07 AM I don't get it. The ones that are taking pictures up high so you can see their boobs are the worst. I have a friend that constantly does that and I'm thinking do you know how many people are looking at your boobies........I unfriended one of my sister's because she posted a selfie of herself without a shirt on. She was showing Facebook her sunburn on her back.........and the puckered lips......come on people......the raised eyebrows aren't much better...... Hate to break it to you...the boob shots are totally on purpose. Like the ones where they're laying down & you can see their *ss...then when someone comments on said boobs/*ss they get mad. Eye. Roll.
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      Location: Midwest Farmer's Daughter: Central Illinois | LRQHS - 2013-11-26 11:13 AM RLB - 2013-11-26 11:09 AM LRQHS - 2013-11-26 11:07 AM I don't get it. The ones that are taking pictures up high so you can see their boobs are the worst. I have a friend that constantly does that and I'm thinking do you know how many people are looking at your boobies........I unfriended one of my sister's because she posted a selfie of herself without a shirt on. She was showing Facebook her sunburn on her back.........and the puckered lips......come on people......the raised eyebrows aren't much better...... Hate to break it to you...the boob shots are totally on purpose. Like the ones where they're laying down & you can see their *ss...then when someone comments on said boobs/*ss they get mad. Eye. Roll. Whyyyyyy???
Come on, Jenn - don't you see the pathetic look in their eyes? They're pleading with you to think they're sexy & beautiful. Never mind the stretch marks & the tramp stamps. |
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      Location: Midwest Farmer's Daughter: Central Illinois | barrelracr131 - 2013-11-26 11:14 AM Everytime I just think
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    Location: Midwest | RLB - 2013-11-26 11:14 AM LRQHS - 2013-11-26 11:13 AM RLB - 2013-11-26 11:09 AM LRQHS - 2013-11-26 11:07 AM I don't get it. The ones that are taking pictures up high so you can see their boobs are the worst. I have a friend that constantly does that and I'm thinking do you know how many people are looking at your boobies........I unfriended one of my sister's because she posted a selfie of herself without a shirt on. She was showing Facebook her sunburn on her back.........and the puckered lips......come on people......the raised eyebrows aren't much better...... Hate to break it to you...the boob shots are totally on purpose. Like the ones where they're laying down & you can see their *ss...then when someone comments on said boobs/*ss they get mad. Eye. Roll. Whyyyyyy??? Come on, Jenn - don't you see the pathetic look in their eyes? They're pleading with you to think they're sexy & beautiful. Never mind the stretch marks & the tramp stamps.
my fav is the god-awful messy house in the background
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     Location: Red Raiderland | Ridenrun4745 - 2013-11-26 11:09 AM Gotta say, don't feel like I'm missing out not being on Facebook. Am a little miffed that most of my family knows what my kids are doing by my mother-in-laws Facebook, but oh well, at least she loves them. 
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          Location: DUMPING CATS AND PIGS IN TEXAS :) | rodeoveteran - 2013-11-26 11:17 AM From perusing the "Casual Connections" on Craigslist (in times of complete boredom after looking at BHW and all of the nearby "Farm and Garden"s I am convinced that selfies were invented to post questionable pics you wouldn't dare ask friends to take. A la' Anthony Weiner type pics. I can honestly say that I have never taken one.....well except that one of my my hand when I was sitting on my colt for the first time to prove that I was actually sitting on him. Does that count? 
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      Location: Midwest Farmer's Daughter: Central Illinois | rodeoveteran - 2013-11-26 11:17 AM From perusing the "Casual Connections" on Craigslist (in times of complete boredom after looking at BHW and all of the nearby "Farm and Garden"s I am convinced that selfies were invented to post questionable pics you wouldn't dare ask friends to take. A la' Anthony Weiner type pics. I can honestly say that I have never taken one.....well except that one of my my hand when I was sitting on my colt for the first time to prove that I was actually sitting on him. Does that count? 
I actually have a hilarious story from the Missed Connections CL site.
Guy I work with came in with a MC post he'd found re: another co-worker. It was from a girl who had seen him at a restaurant & they had "shared a deep, meaningful glance"...she proceeded to find him on facebook, send him a huge long message about how she wasn't crazy & he should get to know her. When he forwarded me the message & the profile...it was a CRAZY girl I went to high school with. Still cracks me up when I think about it - oh & her facebook page is filled with selfies & pictures of her FEET. |
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    Location: Midwest | DD2012 - 2013-11-26 11:06 AM The dudes at the Chive have made a fortune convincing women that naked or nearly naked slut selfies were a good idea. God Bless you chive, and mirrors and camera phones.
oh lord, why did I even google this
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        Location: ND | DD2012 - 2013-11-26 11:06 AM The dudes at the Chive have made a fortune convincing women that naked or nearly naked slut selfies were a good idea. God Bless you chive, and mirrors and camera phones.
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DD2012 - 2013-11-26 11:06 AM The dudes at the Chive have made a fortune convincing women that naked or nearly naked slut selfies were a good idea. God Bless you chive, and mirrors and camera phones.
Right?
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              Location: Under The Big Sky Of Texas | heidiinaz - 2013-11-26 11:41 AM We live in a me first society. People now think that they are so important that they have to take pictures of themselves all the time and share. Guess what? No one cares except you.
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          Location: Riding Crackhead. | Never had selfie success. I attempted it once while my daughter was away from home for a week and she was homesick. I tried taking a selfie of me hugging her favorite horse. I'm not real coordinated and it ended up being the top of my head and Freckles ears and part of her eyes. I decided then and there I just wasn't cut out to be cool. |
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      Location: NE Texas | Kaycee - 2013-11-26 11:18 AM Ridenrun4745 - 2013-11-26 11:09 AM Gotta say, don't feel like I'm missing out not being on Facebook. Am a little miffed that most of my family knows what my kids are doing by my mother-in-laws Facebook, but oh well, at least she loves them.  Co-sign x 1000 to this!
Triple Dipple this!!!!   
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ETA: just to clarify, this is not my selfie. I only take mine in the bathroom or when driving 
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    Location: Where we still run to look when the siren goes by. | The only selfies I have taken are usually to show off the latest damage to my face.. like the time I slid my face across the ice & gravel flying off a tube attached to the 4wheeler. Or the branch to the face that resulted in 20 stitches. Or the goose egg and 2 black eyes that were the result of a car accident. These pics get sent to my loving mother and sisters for their enjoyment 
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    Location: Midwest | DD2012 - 2013-11-26 11:36 AM dhdqhllc - 2013-11-26 11:33 AM DD2012 - 2013-11-26 11:06 AM The dudes at the Chive have made a fortune convincing women that naked or nearly naked slut selfies were a good idea. God Bless you chive, and mirrors and camera phones. Right?
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| Rodeo Rose - 2013-11-26 12:19 PM
The only selfies I have taken are usually to show off the latest damage to my face.. like the time I slid my face across the ice & gravel flying off a tube attached to the 4wheeler. Or the branch to the face that resulted in 20 stitches. Or the goose egg and 2 black eyes that were the result of a car accident. These pics get sent to my loving mother and sisters for their enjoyment They do not make it to Facebook.
Must resist,,,,,,,,,
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          Location: 31 lengths farms | I look like a survivor of a train wreck in selfies, have tried a few just for sh*ts and giggles. Mostly they look like sh*t and I giggle and delete them. The only ones that make it to be posted are when I have done some kind of damage to myself, ie. when I loped myself in to a tree branch and put good size gash on my temple, when I was lunging my ADHD/Bi-Polar mare after she had been laid off a week and she did her Airs Above the Ground and I became a Dirt Angel Outline...that type of stuff. When its too funny not to share no matter how bad you look or to support how bad the wreck, LOL!!
I have an ex-gymnast that is very self involved, her entire facebook page is selfies, to me it is heartbreaking. I had no idea when she was in gym that her self esteem was that low that she basically sits home all day and takes pictures of herself. I wanna tell her life isn't about how you look but how you live it, get busy doing that please! |
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      Location: NE Texas | DD2012 - 2013-11-26 12:29 PM Rodeo Rose - 2013-11-26 12:19 PM The only selfies I have taken are usually to show off the latest damage to my face.. like the time I slid my face across the ice & gravel flying off a tube attached to the 4wheeler. Or the branch to the face that resulted in 20 stitches. Or the goose egg and 2 black eyes that were the result of a car accident. These pics get sent to my loving mother and sisters for their enjoyment
They do not make it to Facebook.
Must resist,,,,,,,,, to many jokes not enough user names
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          Location: Riding Crackhead. | Rodeo Rose - 2013-11-26 12:19 PM The only selfies I have taken are usually to show off the latest damage to my face.. like the time I slid my face across the ice & gravel flying off a tube attached to the 4wheeler. Or the branch to the face that resulted in 20 stitches. Or the goose egg and 2 black eyes that were the result of a car accident. These pics get sent to my loving mother and sisters for their enjoyment
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          Location: Blissfully happy Giants fan!!! | run n rate - 2013-11-26 12:34 PM I look like a survivor of a train wreck in selfies, have tried a few just for sh*ts and giggles. Mostly they look like sh*t and I giggle and delete them. The only ones that make it to be posted are when I have done some kind of damage to myself, ie. when I loped myself in to a tree branch and put good size gash on my temple, when I was lunging my ADHD/Bi-Polar mare after she had been laid off a week and she did her Airs Above the Ground and I became a Dirt Angel Outline...that type of stuff. When its too funny not to share no matter how bad you look or to support how bad the wreck, LOL!! I have an ex-gymnast that is very self involved, her entire facebook page is selfies, to me it is heartbreaking. I had no idea when she was in gym that her self esteem was that low that she basically sits home all day and takes pictures of herself. I wanna tell her life isn't about how you look but how you live it, get busy doing that please!
I am with you run. I can't remember the last time I tooka picture and it was just me. And I can't ever think of a time I would do that just for social media. Now, a pic with my horse or my hubby or friends-way different story. I love taking pictures with them! But just me? Um, no. I ain't that good looking enough to do that. If I was, say Charlize Theron, I might be persuaded to though!!!
Ashton takes pictures of herself all of the time. We get into the truck and she has her phone out taking a picture. Dude, we are headed to ride!!!! Not for a modeling shoot! I haven't quite figured it out yet but I am about to start making fun of her. |
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     Location: Texas | There are few pictures of me on my facebook, and 95% of them were taken and posted by someone else that tagged me in them.
My facebook mainly has pictures of my kid and my animals and a couple of my husband (he hides when a camera comes out lol). His Profile pic on his facebook is me and him 6 or 7 years ago lol, before we were even engaged.
I just posted 3 of my cat this morning lol.
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          Location: Bastrop, Texas | DD2012 - 2013-11-26 11:06 AM The dudes at the Chive have made a fortune convincing women that naked or nearly naked slut selfies were a good idea. God Bless you chive, and mirrors and camera phones.
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    Location: Midwest | HotbearLVR - 2013-11-26 1:28 PM DD2012 - 2013-11-26 11:06 AM The dudes at the Chive have made a fortune convincing women that naked or nearly naked slut selfies were a good idea. God Bless you chive, and mirrors and camera phones. I don't believe you. I need to see for myself.
Link please.
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     Location: In Ky following Barrel Races & Walker hounds. | I dont mind the "plain" selfies so much, its the ones with the tounge out I hate, and duck lips... and the "blow fish" faces..... |
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          Location: Bastrop, Texas | What are "duck lips"? I feel like I'm living in a time warp over here. Is that when self-absorbed hystrionics try to make their lips fat and pouty? |
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    Location: Quinlan, TX | HotbearLVR - 2013-11-26 1:03 PM What are "duck lips"? I feel like I'm living in a time warp over here. Is that when self-absorbed hystrionics try to make their lips fat and pouty?
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          Location: DUMPING CATS AND PIGS IN TEXAS :) | chrissyfouse - 2013-11-26 2:04 PM HotbearLVR - 2013-11-26 1:03 PM What are "duck lips"? I feel like I'm living in a time warp over here. Is that when self-absorbed hystrionics try to make their lips fat and pouty? yep thats what it is......stupidest look EVER!!
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      Location: NE Texas | LRQHS - 2013-11-26 2:06 PM chrissyfouse - 2013-11-26 2:04 PM HotbearLVR - 2013-11-26 1:03 PM What are "duck lips"? I feel like I'm living in a time warp over here. Is that when self-absorbed hystrionics try to make their lips fat and pouty? yep thats what it is......stupidest look EVER!! Raised eyebrows is not much better......
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          Location: Bastrop, Texas | I don't understand how duck lips are so attractive. I prefer my nymphs to look more natural. |
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    Location: Midwest | LRQHS - 2013-11-26 2:06 PM
chrissyfouse - 2013-11-26 2:04 PM HotbearLVR - 2013-11-26 1:03 PM What are "duck lips"? I feel like I'm living in a time warp over here. Is that when self-absorbed hystrionics try to make their lips fat and pouty? yep thats what it is......stupidest look EVER!!
Raised eyebrows is not much better......
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          Location: Bastrop, Texas | LRQHS - 2013-11-26 2:06 PM chrissyfouse - 2013-11-26 2:04 PM HotbearLVR - 2013-11-26 1:03 PM What are "duck lips"? I feel like I'm living in a time warp over here. Is that when self-absorbed hystrionics try to make their lips fat and pouty? yep thats what it is......stupidest look EVER!! Raised eyebrows is not much better......
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          Location: DUMPING CATS AND PIGS IN TEXAS :) | Here's a version of a pouty lip selfie.......this one is titled, I Am Too Cold To Take My Little Hat Off :)
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    Location: Midwest | LRQHS - 2013-11-26 2:23 PM Here's duck face and raised eyebrows together......It's really hot :)
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          Location: DUMPING CATS AND PIGS IN TEXAS :) | barrelracr131 - 2013-11-26 2:26 PM LRQHS - 2013-11-26 2:23 PM Here's duck face and raised eyebrows together......It's really hot :)
was I doing it right?
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          Location: DUMPING CATS AND PIGS IN TEXAS :) | BamaCanChaser - 2013-11-26 2:34 PM The ones that really get me  are all the pics of girls with their tongues hanging out! Put that dang thing back in your mouth for goodness sake! There's nothing classy about it.
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    Location: Midwest | LRQHS - 2013-11-26 2:42 PM BamaCanChaser - 2013-11-26 2:34 PM The ones that really get me  are all the pics of girls with their tongues hanging out! Put that dang thing back in your mouth for goodness sake! There's nothing classy about it. Alison, can we get a Miley Cyrus selfie so that everyone can understand what Bama is referring to??? 

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    Location: Deep South | barrelracr131 - 2013-11-26 2:45 PM
LRQHS - 2013-11-26 2:42 PM BamaCanChaser - 2013-11-26 2:34 PM The ones that really get me  are all the pics of girls with their tongues hanging out! Put that dang thing back in your mouth for goodness sake! There's nothing classy about it. Alison, can we get a Miley Cyrus selfie so that everyone can understand what Bama is referring to???  
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      Location: Never in one place long | Never have taken a selfie... I would be embarrased to do that! I think they are ridiculous... haha I heard on the radio that the newest popular word is....... SELFIE!!! Ugh make me gag! |
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Ridenrun4745 - 2013-11-26 11:09 AM Gotta say, don't feel like I'm missing out not being on Facebook. Am a little miffed that most of my family knows what my kids are doing by my mother-in-laws Facebook, but oh well, at least she loves them. 
Co-sign x 1000 to this!
I agree with that 100% lol, My thought is who has time for all this ? I sure as heck don't, and if I did my selfies would probably be me with no makeup, covered in hay sweat and horse crap lol ............and who wants to see that ?  |
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    Location: Oregon | Not a fan of selfies. My daughter stated that if I did what a certain person I know does(selfies every day), she would take my phone away from me. LOL! Perhaps they should really get a life and quit obsessing about themselves....zipping up flame suit.  |
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    Location: Midwest | LRQHS - 2013-11-26 2:28 PM barrelracr131 - 2013-11-26 2:26 PM LRQHS - 2013-11-26 2:23 PM Here's duck face and raised eyebrows together......It's really hot :)
was I doing it right? Oh, yes! lol....If I liked girls.....you'd have a stalker lol.....
I think we are the only people that find this funny, but I'm totes ok with that
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        Location: Arizona | LRQHS - 2013-11-26 2:42 PM
BamaCanChaser - 2013-11-26 2:34 PM The ones that really get me  are all the pics of girls with their tongues hanging out! Put that dang thing back in your mouth for goodness sake! There's nothing classy about it.
Alison, can we get a Miley Cyrus selfie so that everyone can understand what Bama is referring to??? 
Here is my favorite Miley Cyrus selfie...hot.
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| RLB - 2013-11-26 11:59 AM ...selfie hater?
The speed at which society has advanced technologically has made people more narcissistic & attention-craving than ever. Every time I see someone post a selfie I want to comment "Here, here is some attention...is that enough to make you feel good about yourself today?"
I really have a problem with it. Not the occasional 'new hair' or 'dressed up' or whatever, but the CONSTANT selfie-taking & posting makes me feel nothing but disdain for the selfie-taker. Feel good about yourself because you like yourself, not because other people hit a 'like' button on a stupid picture you took. Of yourself. By yourself. With no friends because you're too wrapped up in yourself to realize that other people actually physically exist in the world, not just on your facebook page.
Okay, rant over. I haven't had enough coffee today, apparently.
Couldn't agree more with what you said. As to the "selfies", I always think: Do these people look in the mirror and say to themselves "I look so awesome today I simply must share"? Or perhaps what truly drives them (which I tend to think might be more the truth) is being so insecure and so in need of attention and affirmation that maybe FB friends provide them with every "like" and positive comment. The bad part of that is what if they don't get the likes and comments......
Same thing with needing to tell the world amount their "amazing" or "awesome" boyfriend/husband, child, or horse. I love my husband, my kids, grandkids and horses but I just don't particularly feel the need to convince the world that they are totally awesome or amazing. I can say to my husband or kids in person what I need to without going through FB to do it. |
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    Location: Midwest | My favorite is when they criticize said spouse and TAG their facebook in the status update, so all of spouse/SO's friends can see what a ____ they have been.
Um, I got news for the chick...that just makes her look absolutely insane...also I am laughing at her |
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    Location: Deep South | barrelracr131 - 2013-11-27 8:15 AM
My favorite is when they criticize said spouse and TAG their facebook in the status update, so all of spouse/SO's friends can see what a ____ they have been.
Um, I got news for the chick...that just makes her look absolutely insane...also I am laughing at her
And then two days later same chick posts a huge paragraph about having the sweetest, most loving, forever keeper SO in the world complete with pic of the 534654 flowers he bought her!  |
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    Location: Midwest | BamaCanChaser - 2013-11-27 8:22 AM barrelracr131 - 2013-11-27 8:15 AM My favorite is when they criticize said spouse and TAG their facebook in the status update, so all of spouse/SO's friends can see what a ____ they have been.
Um, I got news for the chick...that just makes her look absolutely insane...also I am laughing at her And then two days later same chick posts a huge paragraph about having the sweetest, most loving, forever keeper SO in the world complete with pic of the 534654 flowers he bought her! 
YES
I'm not gonna lie, I secretly like reading their status updates and keep them around solely for the entertainment value |
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The selfie didnt like this post either, ha ha ha     Why dont you take a selfie picture of yourself and show us how pretty you are: I am so pretty so very pretty, this always pops up in my head when I see all the selfies pictures.   |
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| Im over it all. I feel like Facebook has lost its original purpose. Its more of an attention getter sort of thing now. I know some people that post every toe stub and ache they feel wanting someone to comment and show them sympathy. Then I have those individuals who post constant photos of themselves. I especially love the ones that are like from high school "look at the rockin body I used to have". I had one girl who constantly posted about sickness or blah blah. Then the ex Friend who constantly posted photos of herself. I especiallly hated the ones in the car. Not only will we have laws against texting but will now need ones against selfies while driving? Needless to say I deleted cause she took up space on my feed. |
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    Location: Midwest | Firemanswife - 2013-11-27 10:13 AM Im over it all. I feel like Facebook has lost its original purpose. Its more of an attention getter sort of thing now. I know some people that post every toe stub and ache they feel wanting someone to comment and show them sympathy. Then I have those individuals who post constant photos of themselves. I especially love the ones that are like from high school "look at the rockin body I used to have". I had one girl who constantly posted about sickness or blah blah. Then the ex Friend who constantly posted photos of herself. I especiallly hated the ones in the car. Not only will we have laws against texting but will now need ones against selfies while driving? Needless to say I deleted cause she took up space on my feed.
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   Location: Nebraska | I'll admit to one duck faced selfie. It was more of a joke than anything, though. The last selfie I took was back in August but it was because one of my uncles made me a name tag. Apparently my cousins had forgotten I was married when they put me in their wedding program! Most of my "selfies" are with my dogs or horses lol. My favorite is my latest profile pic because my heeler's face is CLASSIC.
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| Honestly If is wasnt for most of my barrel racing info such as shows, times, or any kind of that going on. I would honestly delete my facebook account. But so many organizations rely on that now to pass information. |
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      Location: sunny california | ok since this post has drifted from i hate selfies to venting about facebook diarrhea, it bothers me when people post little pics with sayings about getting rid of negativity in their lives and true friendship and do so on a daily basis. well I have news for you... you are concentrating on negativity so much that you are now the negative one! |
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   Location: Nebraska | BamaCanChaser - 2013-11-27 8:22 AM barrelracr131 - 2013-11-27 8:15 AM My favorite is when they criticize said spouse and TAG their facebook in the status update, so all of spouse/SO's friends can see what a ____ they have been.
Um, I got news for the chick...that just makes her look absolutely insane...also I am laughing at her And then two days later same chick posts a huge paragraph about having the sweetest, most loving, forever keeper SO in the world complete with pic of the 534654 flowers he bought her! 
Ugh I had a FB friend like that. Her hubby was in the Army with my hubby and she'd post stuff like "My hubby would give his life for his country, imagine what he'd do for me"....BARF. I only had her as a friend so I could creep when I was bored or be up to date on some of their training back when we weren't allowed phone calls. Luckily she defriended me after she made a post about how it was ridiculous that Costco had to apologize for putting a fiction sticker on the Bible. Apparently she took it offensively when I commented that I felt like if Christians had to apologize for "bashing" non-Christians, then non-Christians should have to apologize for "bashing" Christians. |
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OT, but that is a BIG Arse dog!!! Kinda scary looking. |
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      Location: NE Texas | Firemanswife - 2013-11-27 10:35 AM Honestly If is wasnt for most of my barrel racing info such as shows, times, or any kind of that going on. I would honestly delete my facebook account. But so many organizations rely on that now to pass information.
And it sure stinks for those of us who DON'T facebook. I wish producers of shows would remember that not everyone facebooks and there still is a need to actually post an ad on a site for all to see. |
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     Location: Exactly where I am supposed to be | Herbie - 2013-11-27 11:09 AM
Firemanswife - 2013-11-27 10:35 AM Honestly If is wasnt for most of my barrel racing info such as shows, times, or any kind of that going on. I would honestly delete my facebook account. But so many organizations rely on that now to pass information.
And it sure stinks for those of us who DON'T facebook. I wish producers of shows would remember that not everyone facebooks and there still is a need to actually post an ad on a site for all to see.
That is so true I personally cant stand Facebook it irritates me, but half the time that is where all the results, schedules, and information for rodeos are ....... |
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I guess I don't get it. I like FB and I like my friends on FB and I don't have anybody as a friend that says irritating or stupid or "drama llama" stuff.
For those of you that find FB irritating, why are your associating with irritating people? If you don't like what they say, why are your friends with them?
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    Location: Deep South | rollingrfarm - 2013-11-27 12:34 PM
I guess I don't get it. I like FB and I like my friends on FB and I don't have anybody as a friend that says irritating or stupid or "drama llama" stuff.
For those of you that find FB irritating, why are your associating with irritating people? If you don't like what they say, why are your friends with them?
I have some very sweet, super nice "in person, face-to-face" friends, who are guilty of doing some of the things I'm complaining about on social media. It doesn't mean I don't want to be friends with them, it just means I find some of their FB habits rather annoying. One of very best friends is a selfie fanatic!
The ones that really get on my last nerve day-in and day-out on FB and aren't really close friends of mine in real life, are removed. But they're removed because I've been reading/seeing all of the garbage they post all the time and I'm finally sick of it. |
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    Location: Midwest | rollingrfarm - 2013-11-27 12:34 PM
I guess I don't get it. I like FB and I like my friends on FB and I don't have anybody as a friend that says irritating or stupid or "drama llama" stuff.
For those of you that find FB irritating, why are your associating with irritating people? If you don't like what they say, why are your friends with them?
because in real life I like them
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      Location: NE Texas | Facebook didn't irritate me at all. I just thought it was a waste of time and a source of potential conflict in my personal life. Those who are my friends of family I either text, call, or email on a regular basis and send pictures, etc. We all keep up with each other that way. Facebook is just too public for me regardless. I think it's too easy for innocent relationships between men and women to turn into something they shouldn't, and I just think it is a place to live a fictional life for some. I know there are many who use it as intended, and for that I think it is great, but on the flip side it has also caused alot of heartache, divorces, hurt feelings, jealousy, etc, none of which I want to be a part of. |
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      Location: Midwest Farmer's Daughter: Central Illinois | Herbie - 2013-11-27 2:00 PM It has also caused alot of heartache, divorces, hurt feelings, jealousy, etc, none of which I want to be a part of.
I have to disagree - fb hasn't CAUSED any of those things, it has just made it much easier for people to cheat, lie, hide behind a computer, etc. |
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          Location: Riding Crackhead. | Herbie - 2013-11-27 11:09 AM Firemanswife - 2013-11-27 10:35 AM Honestly If is wasnt for most of my barrel racing info such as shows, times, or any kind of that going on. I would honestly delete my facebook account. But so many organizations rely on that now to pass information. And it sure stinks for those of us who DON'T facebook. I wish producers of shows would remember that not everyone facebooks and there still is a need to actually post an ad on a site for all to see.
I agree. It really frosts my kiester when producers do this. I don't have FB and have no desire for it. |
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     Location: In Ky following Barrel Races & Walker hounds. | clover girl - 2013-11-27 10:58 AM
OT, but that is a BIG Arse dog!!! Kinda scary looking.
Thats a mounted Black bear
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    Location: Midwest | RLB - 2013-11-27 2:09 PM Herbie - 2013-11-27 2:00 PM It has also caused alot of heartache, divorces, hurt feelings, jealousy, etc, none of which I want to be a part of. I have to disagree - fb hasn't CAUSED any of those things, it has just made it much easier for people to cheat, lie, hide behind a computer, etc.
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        Location: ND | barrelracr131 - 2013-11-27 2:19 PM RLB - 2013-11-27 2:09 PM Herbie - 2013-11-27 2:00 PM It has also caused alot of heartache, divorces, hurt feelings, jealousy, etc, none of which I want to be a part of. I have to disagree - fb hasn't CAUSED any of those things, it has just made it much easier for people to cheat, lie, hide behind a computer, etc. exactly
well....i'm not so sure how that hiding your lying and cheating is working out for folks in the FB era....i think it's actually harder for most.......jmo |
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      Location: Midwest Farmer's Daughter: Central Illinois | dhdqhllc - 2013-11-27 2:25 PM barrelracr131 - 2013-11-27 2:19 PM RLB - 2013-11-27 2:09 PM Herbie - 2013-11-27 2:00 PM It has also caused alot of heartache, divorces, hurt feelings, jealousy, etc, none of which I want to be a part of. I have to disagree - fb hasn't CAUSED any of those things, it has just made it much easier for people to cheat, lie, hide behind a computer, etc. exactly
well....i'm not so sure how that hiding your lying and cheating is working out for folks in the FB era....i think it's actually harder for most.......jmo
I didn't mean they hide it better, when I said 'hide behind a computer' I meant that makes it easier for people to be hurtful, hateful, etc.
We see that a lot right here on BHW - people will type & post a lot of things that they wouldn't be brave enough to say to someone's face. |
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| My most annoying ones are the bathroom pics. Where they are gazing into the mirror for the perfect shot, not even into the camera. And you know it took them 15 minutes with hair, wardrobe, etc adjustments until they got it right. |
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| My step daughter's mother did that. She posted on facebook how her boyfriend was cheating on her and texting all night of the hours and how could he blah blah blah. The guys sister was even like I dont think you should be putting your dirty laundry on facebook, what happens if yall get back together? And of course she was like no he is a lying piece of !!!. The next week they were engaged and she was talking about how she gets her happy ending now. P.S The ring was hideous |
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          Location: Riding Crackhead. | Firemanswife - 2013-11-27 2:37 PM My most annoying ones are the bathroom pics. Where they are gazing into the mirror for the perfect shot, not even into the camera. And you know it took them 15 minutes with hair, wardrobe, etc adjustments until they got it right.
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      Location: Midwest Farmer's Daughter: Central Illinois | CYA Ranch - 2013-11-27 2:44 PM Firemanswife - 2013-11-27 2:37 PM My most annoying ones are the bathroom pics. Where they are gazing into the mirror for the perfect shot, not even into the camera. And you know it took them 15 minutes with hair, wardrobe, etc adjustments until they got it right. And then you see a toilet in the background.....they really look cool.
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          Location: Riding Crackhead. | RLB - 2013-11-27 2:48 PM CYA Ranch - 2013-11-27 2:44 PM Firemanswife - 2013-11-27 2:37 PM My most annoying ones are the bathroom pics. Where they are gazing into the mirror for the perfect shot, not even into the camera. And you know it took them 15 minutes with hair, wardrobe, etc adjustments until they got it right. And then you see a toilet in the background.....they really look cool. Like these?
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| There is a chick on my FB and no kidding will change her profile picture sometimes 5 times a day with a NEW selfie!! And i honestly don't think there is a picture on her whole page where she is with someone else!! I'm thinking of unfriending her for no other reason I'm tired of looking at her every time I get on FB!! Lol!!
I think I have taken one selfie and I texted it to my friend to ask her if I looked like a dork in the outfit I picked out to wear!! Lol!! |
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              Location: Under The Big Sky Of Texas | RLB - 2013-11-27 2:48 PM CYA Ranch - 2013-11-27 2:44 PM Firemanswife - 2013-11-27 2:37 PM My most annoying ones are the bathroom pics. Where they are gazing into the mirror for the perfect shot, not even into the camera. And you know it took them 15 minutes with hair, wardrobe, etc adjustments until they got it right. And then you see a toilet in the background.....they really look cool. Like these?
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  Location: ILLINOIS | I dont have any friends so I have a lot of selfies... lol. But I don't change my profile picture five million times a month. lol. |
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     Location: Exactly where I am supposed to be | Schuy324 - 2013-11-27 6:45 PM
I dont have any friends so I have a lot of selfies... lol. But I don't change my profile picture five million times a month. lol.
Selfies don't bother me as much as "THOSE" people that change there profile picture on a daily UGG lol so annoying and slightly desperate. 
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