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I am a Freak
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Location: East Texas | What part of Texas are you located? You might also make an incident report with the local law enforcement. At this time it does not sound like anything criminal has occurred but he is getting close to breaking the stalking or harassment laws. You need a paper trail for this in case he takes it to far. |
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Location: Kansas | ummmmm yeah.....I'd be moving....very quickly |
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| Restraining order. Stat.
Don't flush the whole state for one lunatic. Go wherever you can as soon as you can. |
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Location: 100 miles from Nowhere, AR | I'm sorry about your horse dying and your doggy troubles. Sounds like you have enough on your plate without having to deal with crazy. And yes, you should be worried. I would remove myself from the situation as quickly as possible. Physical space and time are your friends in my experience. It sucks to have to turn your life upside down because of someone else, but staying is going to make it worse and the dude sounds unhinged. |
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| can you report him to your boss? Tell him he's harassing you and coworkers? also.. Get yourself a GUN! |
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Location: Do I hear Banjos? | Get Out. Get a lease or live in a box under the freeway...but Get.Out.
Unfriend him...block his number...be gone ASAP.
He is irrational and capable of anything. I'd be out so fast it would break land speed records. And get the restraining order when you do. |
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Location: Cap'n Joan Rotgut.....alberta | i sure as hell would NOT leave my dog anywhere near this guy.....and i would NOT spend another night under the same roof...hotel is probably cheaper and ummm safer............
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Location: Displaced Iowegian | Unfortunately, you will HAVE TO MOVE from his house to be able to do anything legal......Do not go back to HIS house.......your life is more important than a job....a certain place to live (state or town), etc.....Good Luck!
eta: And block him from your FaceBook!
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| Check and see if you can find one of those extended stay hotels and get the bagebies out of there. |
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Location: Kansas | FlyingJT - 2014-05-14 12:09 PM can you report him to your boss? Tell him he's harassing you and coworkers? also.. Get yourself a GUN!
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Location: Southern IL somewhere between KY and MO | OMG I do not see this working out for the better get out I don't want to see your face on a milk carton. GET OUT LEAVE He is bat sh** crazy and will hurt you. and get yourself a gun for protection and learn to use it. PLEASE |
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Location: Florida.. | it appears he has a crush on you and it has gone on to long therefore it has gotten worse.. you have to take control and move. period.. remove your self from the situation.. he may be getting mixed signals even if you tell him no..
move and if he continues to harass at work then report him .. |
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Location: South Georgia | There are crazy people in this world. He can be dangerous. You never know. Have you checked craigslist for rooms for rent? You need to move somewhere. I agree with you that the next door option may not be a good idea. But regardless, you need to move away from his house. Don't give up on the state. |
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Location: Texas | Like others have said, you need to GET OUT. Contact your friend. See if you can move in early. Look for a rental. Some will let you break the lease if you buy a place.
If you're close to Stephenville, we have enough empty runs in our barn to house a horse or two till you found a place.
ETA - If you have a LQ, we even have a plug in and a fenced yard. Seriously, you need to get out ASAP. Not only get out, but report his behavior to your company because it is affecting your ability to do your job.
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Location: LuluLand~along I64 Indiana | you have gotten good advice here.
but i want to tell you a true story..... a BB not to long ago posted about her move to TX. young, pretty, out on her own, loving life in a new town/state.
Started a job and all was good. posted often about how much she loved it. Then the posts came about unwanted advances by a co-worker, her boss acutally. She was advised to report him or get new employment. After staying and what i believe was her boss forcing himself on her she reported him and she was fired. She feared for her safetly and bless her momma who was on a fast track to TX to pack her up and get her home. We watched it unfold badly for her here. Please! Please! do not let this story be repeated and dont ever think it "cant happen to me".... it can happen to anyone. |
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Location: The birthplace of Honest Abe | luluwhit - 2014-05-14 2:00 PM you have gotten good advice here.
but i want to tell you a true story..... a BB not to long ago posted about her move to TX. young, pretty, out on her own, loving life in a new town/state.
Started a job and all was good. posted often about how much she loved it. Then the posts came about unwanted advances by a co-worker, her boss acutally. She was advised to report him or get new employment. After staying and what i believe was her boss forcing himself on her she reported him and she was fired. She feared for her safetly and bless her momma who was on a fast track to TX to pack her up and get her home. We watched it unfold badly for her here. Please! Please! do not let this story be repeated and dont ever think it "cant happen to me".... it can happen to anyone.
I remember this, she is doing well now from what I see her post. Please get out now. I would also report him to whom ever is in charge of sexual harassment at work, but not till after you have moved everything out. |
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Location: Under The Big Sky Of Texas | Find another place to live. |
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Location: Texas | Are any of us near you that can help you out?? |
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Location: Opelousas, LA | texas taz - 2014-05-14 2:23 PM Are any of us near you that can help you out??
Yes, let us know what area you are in, maybe someone can help. I am in Louisiana but I know lots of people in Texas that may have a place for you and your horses.
Can you talk to your boss in private and let him know whats up? Sounds like you need a day off to move while your room mate is kept very busy at work. |
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Location: Abbotsford B.C. Canada | You do not live with a lunatic. He is mentally ill and needs help but you are not qualified to deal with this. You and actually your horse if you replace it and any pet are in grave danger so move out and report this to the police and get some advice from them as to how to live your life.
Change all you phone numbers , e mails etc get an unlisted number and do not give out your address to anyone you do not know and move into a situation where you are not isolated.
We had a speaker at a horse meeting talk to us about the jealous boyfriend jilted lover or ex husband who is taking revenge out on their ex by killing the horses or pets of their ex ,. They will kill the chlidren so nothing will stop them from causing you harm . Move well away , Texas is big so look for another location. These people may have brain damge from using Meth or some other drug and cannot control them selves long term. They are a disaster waiting to happen. Get away asap.
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I am a Freak
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Location: Nowhere Special | Thanks all I have talked with some friends here as well and they all said the same. I'll wait to go back till my next door friend is home and get moved out while she is there. Just wanted to make sure I wasn't over reacting but Ive put up with a lot and this was getting beyond creepy My horse is boarded and he has no idea where so its just my stuff at the house.. I'm gonna delete the origional post just incase
Thanks again!
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| Please be safe, and it sounds like you have made some good decisions. The question I have is.....Is the stuff you left at his place really worth going back to get? Legal papers? Personal items of worth to you that cannot be replaced? Think long and hard about what can and cannot be replaced. YOU cannot be replaced! |
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Location: Never in one place long | I didn't see the original post... can someone fill me in? sounds scary whatever it is!!
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How do u live with a lunitic???