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| Sorry on a roll today and is a little long... But is it selfish of me to keep Floyd? I need ya'll to tell me to keep him, worry about the box when the time comes.
When I was 23 I was busy (school and work) and got rid of my horses, 3 months later a NON-horsey friend told me she was going to buy me a horse cuz she doesn't like me now. She said "You are such a bitch, you get a horse or we're not friends anymore." (I got a horse and have not been without one to ride since.)
I am about to the point of maybe living in a box. (won't really be in a box but is that bad) Social security is taking forever to answer my disability claim, and my place of employment basically (long story) forced me to quit when I filed a workers comp claim on them 3 years ago. Needless to say I'm not in a good place finacially, the only debt I have is the house payment and it is NOT past due, I watch free TV with the converter box... I was told by 3 different realestate people I won't get what I owe on my place if I sold it. So I'm doing everything I can to hold onto it.
If I had read these things on someone elses post my first thought would be to get rid of some THINGs.
I've told people my whole life that if you can't afford the horse it's not fair to keep them. Right now Floyd isn't really costing anything to keep him. He's on grass and I keep patching his fly sheet. But if it came to needing a vet I really couldn't pay to take him.. I thank GOD every day that Floyd has been such a healthy boy. ( other than is allergy to the no see-ums and crappy hooves)
My farrier has been doing his feet in exchange for me helping her catch ponies at one of her clients so his feet aren't being neglected.
The last couple weeks I've been thinking maybe he should go to a little girl to love.
Floyd is really the only thing I splurge on for myself. I'm not sure I'd survive NOT having him here even if I can't ride much, some days he's the only thing that holds me together.
A short little run down: When I still had money but decided I was going to cut back on the number of horses, FLOYD is the one I kept. (even tho originally he's the one I didn't want to buy) My ex didn't pay any child support (most of you know my ex and I have a brother sister type relationship) while I raised our boys, so he is the one that pays for my phone, internet and buys some grocerys. I figure he can pay for some of my stuff now. At the time I felt I'd rather the boys spend time with their father than send him to jail for non-payment.
Side note: I do have ACE and Axel here I call them mine but their financial upkeep are not mine and their owners pay for Floyd's shots.
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Location: DUMPING CATS AND PIGS IN TEXAS :) | I'm on the keep Floyd truck. If it get's to the point that Floyd or you need something, come here. I, for one, will help you anyway that I can. Floyd makes you happy. Keep Floyd. |
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| Others may disagree, but I really think you should keep him. Your mental health is just about as important as anything else! Could you do a onsite lease to someone and that money you make from the lease be put into a account for vet bills and things?
Edited because I can't spell!
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| Blueridgedreaming - 2014-08-28 12:42 PM Others may disagree, but I really think you should keep him. Your mental health is just about as important as anything else! Could you do a onsite lease to someone and that money you make from the lease be put into a account for vet bills and things? Edited because I can't spell!
I actually was thinking along these lines... I may bring it up at the next RUC meeting. Maybe there is a young person that would come to ride here... Of course if I did a lease thing some of the injury responsibility would be relieved. and I'd get a contract written up. |
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| LRQHS - 2014-08-28 12:41 PM I'm on the keep Floyd truck. If it get's to the point that Floyd or you need something, come here. I, for one, will help you anyway that I can. Floyd makes you happy. Keep Floyd.
Better watch out!!! You're not that far from me... You may see me and Floyd riding down the turnpike, with my little cowpoodle.
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Location: USA | You can't give up everything! You've got to hold onto to at least one thing that keeps you sane and happy. Otherwise, depression and who knows what else could set in. He's part of who YOU ARE. If you get rid of him, you may have a loss of self identity. Don't lose you!
Now that's said, you're keeping him!
Sounds like you're doing everything you can financially and have some sweet deals worked out for his feet, etc..It could be a struggle should an emergency happen but emergencies are never convenient, even to those with money. Like the other poster said, should something like that happen, come here and tell us and if we can, we will help. |
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| Keep Floyd and worry about the box when the time comes. It sounds like you are taking good care of him and are sound enough to determine when you can no longer care for him. May the Lord give you the miracle you are needing right now! |
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Location: N Texas | While I do think it's important to be able to pay for vet stuff, I know plenty of horses that never get any maintenance whatsoever...we're talking no worming, no farrier, no shots--NOTHING except pasture/hay and water.
I get the feeling that if you sell Floyd you'll get very depressed, and depression meds cost money, so you may as well put that money towards caring for Floyd :)
I'm vaguely familiar with your health situation, but is there ANYTHING you can do to bring in some extra money, or anywhere you can work part time?
Oh BTW, I'm on the side of you keeping Floyd :) |
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Location: DUMPING CATS AND PIGS IN TEXAS :) | suzy2qtee - 2014-08-28 12:58 PM LRQHS - 2014-08-28 12:41 PM I'm on the keep Floyd truck. If it get's to the point that Floyd or you need something, come here. I, for one, will help you anyway that I can. Floyd makes you happy. Keep Floyd. Better watch out!!! You're not that far from me... You may see me and Floyd riding down the turnpike, with my little cowpoodle.
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Location: NE Texas | KEEP, KEEP, KEEP! I too will help you out should you need it. But absolutely KEEP!!!! Horses are special and those like Floyd are irreplaceable. They make us smile and listen to us and nurture us with unconditional love.....well except for Richard and he nurtures/tortures me with unconditional trials, but I love him nontheless. So without question, keep Floyd! |
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Location: Texas | I vote KEEP Floyd for as long as you can. As far as ways to help keep afloat. Have you thought of renting a room in your house? I have a friend that I rented a room from many years ago and it worked out great for both of us. |
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| barrelbasher - 2014-08-28 1:33 PM I vote KEEP Floyd for as long as you can. As far as ways to help keep afloat. Have you thought of renting a room in your house? I have a friend that I rented a room from many years ago and it worked out great for both of us.
That is exactly what I am trying to do right now... I have a few ads out. I even put something on here not too long ago... I have had a few calls, so far no lookers. |
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Location: ohio-in my own little world with pretty ponies :) | Keep him. You have to have something for yourself. There are a lot more selfish people out there. |
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Location: SE Louisiana | Blueridgedreaming - 2014-08-28 12:42 PM
Others may disagree, but I really think you should keep him. Your mental health is just about as important as anything else! Could you do a onsite lease to someone and that money you make from the lease be put into a account for vet bills and things?
Edited because I can't spell!
I don't believe it's just mental health either... I've always said one should never underestimate the healing power of horses... I would not be surprised if he has helped you along your current path more than you know. I vote you keep the Cookie Monster.. |
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Location: Under The Big Sky Of Texas | My vote is to keep Floyd, do not sell him, you need this fella  |
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Location: In a happy place | I vote to keep Floyd. I don't see you doing well if you get rid of your one thing that keeps you sane. I bought my colt back a few months ago after saying I wasn't going to have another horse after losing my stud. I don't think I would be here today if I had not gotten my Gator horse. He gave me a reason to walk out of the house. I am sure there are enough of us here that will help however we are possible if you get in a bind. I think you have done wonderful with everything you have been through this last year to keep it together like you have. Your journey has not been an easy one and I think you need Floyd to help keep you together.
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Location: Bastrop, Texas | Keep Floyd, Suzee. He's the best therapy available. Same for me and my horses. If I feel crappy or blue, equine therapy either cures me or at least makes me feel a lot better. Floyd is good for your health, maybe including your physical health. Think about that. |
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| Why are you unable to work I know many people that are handicapped and work including me
if your able to keep a horse catch ponies you can work
Flame me all you want i am a quad and work 8 to 10 hr a day nick is a quad he works if you can play you can work |
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Location: SE Louisiana | vjls - 2014-08-28 8:07 PM
Why are you unable to work I know many people that are handicapped and work including me
if your able to keep a horse catch ponies you can work
Flame me all you want i am a quad and work 8 to 10 hr a day nick is a quad he works if you can play you can work
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Location: stray dump capital of the world | komet. - 2014-08-28 8:12 PM vjls - 2014-08-28 8:07 PM Why are you unable to work I know many people that are handicapped and work including me
if your able to keep a horse catch ponies you can work
Flame me all you want i am a quad and work 8 to 10 hr a day nick is a quad he works if you can play you can work If you're not familiar with her problems, maybe you should be quiet.
Seriously!!!! I agree with Komet.
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| komet. - 2014-08-28 9:12 PM vjls - 2014-08-28 8:07 PM Why are you unable to work I know many people that are handicapped and work including me
if your able to keep a horse catch ponies you can work
Flame me all you want i am a quad and work 8 to 10 hr a day nick is a quad he works if you can play you can work If you're not familiar with her problems, maybe you should be quiet.
I could care less what her problems are if you play you can work
explain komet how you can be disabled and go catch ponies ? explain how you are disable but can take care of a horse?
she has legs that move she has at least 1 finger to type with i am assuming shes not a vent able to go outside
she has eyes to see so get real disabilted means your are handicapped heck if she/s disabilied physciall i know lots of people trade places
it al boils dow to want too you work an from what i see of your post pretty hard too
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Location: SE Louisiana | vjls - 2014-08-28 8:22 PM
komet. - 2014-08-28 9:12 PM vjls - 2014-08-28 8:07 PM Why are you unable to work I know many people that are handicapped and work including me
if your able to keep a horse catch ponies you can work
Flame me all you want i am a quad and work 8 to 10 hr a day nick is a quad he works if you can play you can work If you're not familiar with her problems, maybe you should be quiet.
explain komet how you can be disabled and go catch ponies ? explain how you are disable but can take care of a horse?
she has legs that move she has at least 1 finger to type with i am assuming shes not a vent able to go outside
she has eyes to see so get real disabilted means your are handicapped heck if she/s disabilied physciall i know lots of people trade places
it al boils dow to want too you work an from what i see of your post pretty hard too
or is this thread only a feel good thread
It's not my place to detail her personal problems... and yes, this is "a feel good thread".
I see no need for you to pi$$ all over it..
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| vjls - 2014-08-28 8:07 PM Why are you unable to work I know many people that are handicapped and work including me
if your able to keep a horse catch ponies you can work
Flame me all you want i am a quad and work 8 to 10 hr a day nick is a quad he works if you can play you can work If you can find a place that will hire me while taking narcotics... I'm all in... I can catch ponies today and then I'm flat on my back in pain for 4 days. Without pain killers some days I can't get out of bed.... I've had 3 different cancers, triple bypass heart surgery, both knees operated on 5 different times and have recently been diagnosed with COPD do you even know what COPD is? yeah I can't breath when I have to exert myself. The catching ponies thing is: ponies like me and come up to me, I don't have to chase them... I often wondered why I couldn't walk to the mail box and back... Now lets take into consideration that I am STILL going through cancer treatments, not to mention the torn rotater cuff I've not been able to have repaired because no doctor won't operate on my shoulder while I'm being treated for cancer... Need I go on?
SO again I ask you to find me a job that will hire me, heck even a place of employment that would even entertain an interveiw with me... I'll go and give it a try.
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| vjls, many of on here know that you have had it far from easy and have overcome much in your young life. Now is the time to be an inspiration, not a critic. I understand that you are trying to motivate but sometimes people need a shoulder to lean on for a short while, not a kick in the seat of the pants. It may come to a kick in the seat of the pants someday but Suzee ain't there yet.
Suzee, KEEP HIM. Everybody needs a reason to get up in the morning. If it wasn't for my ponies, some days I'd never make it outside. Because of them, I HAVE to go out , no matter how crappy it is outside....and I always feel better for it.
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| komet. - 2014-08-28 8:12 PM vjls - 2014-08-28 8:07 PM Why are you unable to work I know many people that are handicapped and work including me
if your able to keep a horse catch ponies you can work
Flame me all you want i am a quad and work 8 to 10 hr a day nick is a quad he works if you can play you can work If you're not familiar with her problems, maybe you should be quiet.
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| vjls - 2014-08-28 9:22 PM komet. - 2014-08-28 9:12 PM vjls - 2014-08-28 8:07 PM Why are you unable to work I know many people that are handicapped and work including me
if your able to keep a horse catch ponies you can work
Flame me all you want i am a quad and work 8 to 10 hr a day nick is a quad he works if you can play you can work If you're not familiar with her problems, maybe you should be quiet.
explain komet how you can be disabled and go catch ponies ? explain how you are disable but can take care of a horse?
she has legs that move she has at least 1 finger to type with i am assuming shes not a vent able to go outside
she has eyes to see so get real disabilted means your are handicapped heck if she/s disabilied physciall i know lots of people trade places
it al boils dow to want too you work an from what i see of your post pretty hard too
or is this thread only a feel good thread
I am sorry for you in so many ways...sorry that you have been delt such a crappy hand in life, and sorry that you are so bitter and choose to lash out at others who are suffering and looking for help.
You, of all people, should know what it feels like. You do know what it feels like and yet you are completely unsympathetic and apparently lack the capacity to feel empathy. You are being downright mean.
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Location: Gainesville, TX | Keep him! He's good for your heart, in lots of ways!  |
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| Keep him! And if you need help with any future bills you just let us know. People forget that when you let people help you, you have actually helped them. Never begrudge someone's offers of help, for if you accept you have just made them happy and brightened their soul. This goes for anyone that needs help. I feel sure that you have helped many people suzy2qtee, let us return the help should you need it. |
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Location: Midwest | I would keep him and maybe consider leasing him if times get tough to cover the costs of feeding him.
If he were to need a vet, the leasee could help cover the costs too. It doesn't sound like you are feeling good enough to ride right now, so this would be a good way to keep him around and someone else enjoy him too. :) |
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| rodeoveteran - 2014-08-28 10:40 PM vjls, many of on here know that you have had it far from easy and have overcome much in your young life. Now is the time to be an inspiration, not a critic. I understand that you are trying to motivate but sometimes people need a shoulder to lean on for a short while, not a kick in the seat of the pants. It may come to a kick in the seat of the pants someday but Suzee ain't there yet. Suzee, KEEP HIM. Everybody needs a reason to get up in the morning. If it wasn't for my ponies, some days I'd never make it outside. Because of them, I HAVE to go out , no matter how crappy it is outside....and I always feel better for it. Keep the creative ideas coming for helping you both!
what do you all understand there is a huge difference in being SICK which i did not know and being Disabiled
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i am not young wish i was i am 64 if she had said sick that would have ben differnt that i would understand god days bad day s
but when your disabiled its totally different you do
enough said she sick hope that she gets better
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| vjls - 2014-08-29 9:40 AM rodeoveteran - 2014-08-28 10:40 PM vjls, many of on here know that you have had it far from easy and have overcome much in your young life. Now is the time to be an inspiration, not a critic. I understand that you are trying to motivate but sometimes people need a shoulder to lean on for a short while, not a kick in the seat of the pants. It may come to a kick in the seat of the pants someday but Suzee ain't there yet. Suzee, KEEP HIM. Everybody needs a reason to get up in the morning. If it wasn't for my ponies, some days I'd never make it outside. Because of them, I HAVE to go out , no matter how crappy it is outside....and I always feel better for it. Keep the creative ideas coming for helping you both! what do you all understand there is a huge difference in being SICK which i did not know and being Disabiled
huge
i am not young wish i was i am 64 if she had said sick that would have ben differnt that i would understand god days bad day s
but when your disabiled its totally different you do
enough said she sick hope that she gets better
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Location: DUMPING CATS AND PIGS IN TEXAS :) | You know, I've been thinking about this a lot. If it gets to that point, seriously, let me know. I'll make something happen. Even if it's just taking him in myself or finding a BB to do so until you're ready for him again. Ease your mind. This is a small obstacle that we easily have the means to fix. No worries :) |
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| Everyone has a right to a opinion, but this post was meant to be a encouragement.. please keep it that way. We ALL need encouragement at times in our lives and we never know what someone else is going through. |
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| Just Plain Lucky - 2014-08-28 11:32 PM vjls - 2014-08-28 9:22 PM komet. - 2014-08-28 9:12 PM vjls - 2014-08-28 8:07 PM Why are you unable to work I know many people that are handicapped and work including me
if your able to keep a horse catch ponies you can work
Flame me all you want i am a quad and work 8 to 10 hr a day nick is a quad he works if you can play you can work If you're not familiar with her problems, maybe you should be quiet.
explain komet how you can be disabled and go catch ponies ? explain how you are disable but can take care of a horse?
she has legs that move she has at least 1 finger to type with i am assuming shes not a vent able to go outside
she has eyes to see so get real disabilted means your are handicapped heck if she/s disabilied physciall i know lots of people trade places
it al boils dow to want too you work an from what i see of your post pretty hard too
or is this thread only a feel good thread
You, of all people, should know what it feels like. You do know what it feels like and yet you are completely unsympathetic and apparently lack the capacity to feel empathy. You are being downright mean.
mam you known nothing about me
so please don.t comment about something you know nothing about.
again sick is different than disabilited and if do not understand the difference get out a dictionary.
chemo is a bitch
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Location: Somewhere in the middle of nowhere | Keep Floyd....there is nothing wrong with me except tired most mornings, I am healthy and thankful but when I walk out the door to feed my ponies and my sweet horse looks at me and nickers, it sure puts a big smile on my face and I bet yours does the same thing. So many things in our days can sure make it hard to be happy about but even on my worst days that little nicker that is just for me makes my heart full.
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| nmeastplains - 2014-08-29 10:58 AM
Keep Floyd....there is nothing wrong with me except tired most mornings, I am healthy and thankful but when I walk out the door to feed my ponies and my sweet horse looks at me and nickers, it sure puts a big smile on my face and I bet yours does the same thing. So many things in our days can sure make it hard to be happy about but even on my worst days that little nicker that is just for me makes my heart full.
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