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Location: Mississippi | Awwww. How sweet! I wish I found someone who would tolerate my horses :)
The nervousness is the fun part! Keep us updated!
Happy for you! |
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  Shipwrecked and Flat Out Zapped
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Location: DUMPING CATS AND PIGS IN TEXAS :) | Yay!!! So, happy for you. It's ok to be nervous. Enjoy him trying and enjoy this.
I have a date coming up with a guy I met on POF. I'm nervous too, but we've been talking for 2 weeks now and we are hitting it off. So, I'm going to go eat some free steak and not have any other expectations and enjoy myself :) |
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| LRQHS - 2014-09-12 3:06 PM
Yay!!! So, happy for you. It's ok to be nervous. Enjoy him trying and enjoy this.
I have a date coming up with a guy I met on POF. I'm nervous too, but we've been talking for 2 weeks now and we are hitting it off. So, I'm going to go eat some free steak and not have any other expectations and enjoy myself :)
Good for you! Yeah that's where I met this guy. I have learned with this guy (only one I have continued to talk to after meeting LOL) they calm down and change a little after a while (for the better in this case cause he shut up the nervous "fill the air" chatter). Good luck! Let us know!!! |
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Location: Slipping down the slope of old age. Boo hoo. | He sounds very considerate -- and as another said thoughtful. And kind! Also, it sounds like he is a "worker"! Best wishes as you explore the relationship. |
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| Thanks everyone! It was funny a few months ago I was talking to a friend of mine and I was saying how I missed the nervousness but I'm not sure how I feel about that now LOL |
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Location: DUMPING CATS AND PIGS IN TEXAS :) | RoaniePonie11 - 2014-09-12 3:14 PM LRQHS - 2014-09-12 3:06 PM Yay!!! So, happy for you. It's ok to be nervous. Enjoy him trying and enjoy this.
I have a date coming up with a guy I met on POF. I'm nervous too, but we've been talking for 2 weeks now and we are hitting it off. So, I'm going to go eat some free steak and not have any other expectations and enjoy myself :) Good for you! Yeah that's where I met this guy. I have learned with this guy (only one I have continued to talk to after meeting LOL ) they calm down and change a little after a while (for the better in this case cause he shut up the nervous "fill the air" chatter ). Good luck! Let us know!!!
You too!! :) |
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Location: NE Texas | LRQHS - 2014-09-12 3:06 PM Yay!!! So, happy for you. It's ok to be nervous. Enjoy him trying and enjoy this.
I have a date coming up with a guy I met on POF. I'm nervous too, but we've been talking for 2 weeks now and we are hitting it off. So, I'm going to go eat some free steak and not have any other expectations and enjoy myself :)
Now for the really important question......are you going to wear all of the accessories I sent you??? |
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Location: DUMPING CATS AND PIGS IN TEXAS :) | Herbie - 2014-09-12 3:19 PM LRQHS - 2014-09-12 3:06 PM Yay!!! So, happy for you. It's ok to be nervous. Enjoy him trying and enjoy this.
I have a date coming up with a guy I met on POF. I'm nervous too, but we've been talking for 2 weeks now and we are hitting it off. So, I'm going to go eat some free steak and not have any other expectations and enjoy myself :) Now for the really important question......are you going to wear all of the accessories I sent you???
Yup ") |
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Location: DUMPING CATS AND PIGS IN TEXAS :) | You know Roanie, a dude that takes initiative and goes take care of the things that he can with the horses is a really neat thing. I think that speaks volumes about him. |
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Location: Kansas | LRQHS - 2014-09-12 3:20 PM Herbie - 2014-09-12 3:19 PM LRQHS - 2014-09-12 3:06 PM Yay!!! So, happy for you. It's ok to be nervous. Enjoy him trying and enjoy this.
I have a date coming up with a guy I met on POF. I'm nervous too, but we've been talking for 2 weeks now and we are hitting it off. So, I'm going to go eat some free steak and not have any other expectations and enjoy myself :) Now for the really important question......are you going to wear all of the accessories I sent you???
what cha gonna wear?! |
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Location: Mississippi | Yeah we can totally approve or not of your outfit via BHW! |
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Whack and Roll
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Location: NE Texas | And just to add to this story....I met my husband on POF. I was tired of dating the same type of guy (horsemen, ropers, cowboys) and decided to try something different....more for my entertainment than anything else. My husband messaged me a funny short message and he's made me laugh out loud every day since then. I'm so glad I took the time to entertain myself with POF because it brought me the greatest gift of my life! And while he may not saddle, unsaddle, or even lead my horses, he will drive me anywhere I want to go, he will sit and video when it's 105 degrees in the shade, and he will feed and water. He has never griped one time about the money it takes to maintain these horses and would spend our last dime on a race horse. HAHA I'm so proud to call him my husband and he truly does make every day the best day of my life!
Sorry to get so mushy, but it's possible to find that person.  |
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Location: Kansas | Awwwwe You guys have some cute stories!!! :)
I met my boyfriend....because he was stalking me on facebook and asked me out. So I guess we met online? lmbo! |
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Location: DUMPING CATS AND PIGS IN TEXAS :) | Herbie - 2014-09-12 3:30 PM And just to add to this story....I met my husband on POF. I was tired of dating the same type of guy (horsemen, ropers, cowboys) and decided to try something different....more for my entertainment than anything else. My husband messaged me a funny short message and he's made me laugh out loud every day since then. I'm so glad I took the time to entertain myself with POF because it brought me the greatest gift of my life! And while he may not saddle, unsaddle, or even lead my horses, he will drive me anywhere I want to go, he will sit and video when it's 105 degrees in the shade, and he will feed and water. He has never griped one time about the money it takes to maintain these horses and would spend our last dime on a race horse. HAHA I'm so proud to call him my husband and he truly does make every day the best day of my life!
Sorry to get so mushy, but it's possible to find that person.
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Location: DUMPING CATS AND PIGS IN TEXAS :) | hoofs_in_motion - 2014-09-12 3:28 PM LRQHS - 2014-09-12 3:20 PM Herbie - 2014-09-12 3:19 PM LRQHS - 2014-09-12 3:06 PM Yay!!! So, happy for you. It's ok to be nervous. Enjoy him trying and enjoy this.
I have a date coming up with a guy I met on POF. I'm nervous too, but we've been talking for 2 weeks now and we are hitting it off. So, I'm going to go eat some free steak and not have any other expectations and enjoy myself :) Now for the really important question......are you going to wear all of the accessories I sent you???
Nothing....absolutely nothing at all :) |
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Location: Kansas | LRQHS - 2014-09-12 3:40 PM hoofs_in_motion - 2014-09-12 3:28 PM LRQHS - 2014-09-12 3:20 PM Herbie - 2014-09-12 3:19 PM LRQHS - 2014-09-12 3:06 PM Yay!!! So, happy for you. It's ok to be nervous. Enjoy him trying and enjoy this.
I have a date coming up with a guy I met on POF. I'm nervous too, but we've been talking for 2 weeks now and we are hitting it off. So, I'm going to go eat some free steak and not have any other expectations and enjoy myself :) Now for the really important question......are you going to wear all of the accessories I sent you???
Ooooooooo you gonna go buck naked?!?!?! I like your style!  |
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Location: N Texas | Good for you! Yeah that's where I met this guy. I have learned with this guy (only one I have continued to talk to after meeting LOL) they calm down and change a little after a while (for the better in this case cause he shut up the nervous "fill the air" chatter). Good luck! Let us know!!!
Yes, some guys are way chattier when they're nervous! My sister and her husband met when she was a sophomore in high school and he was a freshman. He needed a ride home one night after an FFA meeting, so I offered to give him a ride (he and my sister knew each other but had never really talked before, so I was trying to help them out). Anyways, he talked NON STOP the whole way home and cracked lame jokes and was a little annoying. Apparently it didn't bother my sister since they're now married!
So the moral of my long story is to give them a chance even if they're a little annoying at first because it's probably nerves :) Sounds like you're on the right track, and that's awesome he wants to help you out! Good luck!
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Location: The edge of no where | LRQHS - 2014-09-12 3:40 PM hoofs_in_motion - 2014-09-12 3:28 PM LRQHS - 2014-09-12 3:20 PM Herbie - 2014-09-12 3:19 PM LRQHS - 2014-09-12 3:06 PM Yay!!! So, happy for you. It's ok to be nervous. Enjoy him trying and enjoy this.
I have a date coming up with a guy I met on POF. I'm nervous too, but we've been talking for 2 weeks now and we are hitting it off. So, I'm going to go eat some free steak and not have any other expectations and enjoy myself :) Now for the really important question......are you going to wear all of the accessories I sent you???
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Location: the high desert | What does POF stand for? Congrats on finding someone, he sounds like a keeper  |
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Location: DUMPING CATS AND PIGS IN TEXAS :) | Iwish - 2014-09-12 4:11 PM What does POF stand for? Congrats on finding someone, he sounds like a keeper
Plenty of Fish. It's a free dating site. |
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Location: DUMPING CATS AND PIGS IN TEXAS :) | MS2011 - 2014-09-12 4:02 PM LRQHS - 2014-09-12 3:40 PM hoofs_in_motion - 2014-09-12 3:28 PM LRQHS - 2014-09-12 3:20 PM Herbie - 2014-09-12 3:19 PM LRQHS - 2014-09-12 3:06 PM Yay!!! So, happy for you. It's ok to be nervous. Enjoy him trying and enjoy this.
I have a date coming up with a guy I met on POF. I'm nervous too, but we've been talking for 2 weeks now and we are hitting it off. So, I'm going to go eat some free steak and not have any other expectations and enjoy myself :) Now for the really important question......are you going to wear all of the accessories I sent you???
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Location: Kansas | LRQHS - 2014-09-12 4:16 PM MS2011 - 2014-09-12 4:02 PM LRQHS - 2014-09-12 3:40 PM hoofs_in_motion - 2014-09-12 3:28 PM LRQHS - 2014-09-12 3:20 PM Herbie - 2014-09-12 3:19 PM LRQHS - 2014-09-12 3:06 PM Yay!!! So, happy for you. It's ok to be nervous. Enjoy him trying and enjoy this.
I have a date coming up with a guy I met on POF. I'm nervous too, but we've been talking for 2 weeks now and we are hitting it off. So, I'm going to go eat some free steak and not have any other expectations and enjoy myself :) Now for the really important question......are you going to wear all of the accessories I sent you???
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| LRQHS - 2014-09-12 3:06 PM Yay!!! So, happy for you. It's ok to be nervous. Enjoy him trying and enjoy this.
I have a date coming up with a guy I met on POF. I'm nervous too, but we've been talking for 2 weeks now and we are hitting it off. So, I'm going to go eat some free steak and not have any other expectations and enjoy myself :)
Have fun!!! |
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| You guys!
Fake toenails? Yuck. Do it. Go naked. Lol. You will for sure know if he's a keeper. Fool proof. |
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Location: At the race track with Ah Dee Ohs | Herbie - 2014-09-12 3:30 PM And just to add to this story....I met my husband on POF. I was tired of dating the same type of guy (horsemen, ropers, cowboys) and decided to try something different....more for my entertainment than anything else. My husband messaged me a funny short message and he's made me laugh out loud every day since then. I'm so glad I took the time to entertain myself with POF because it brought me the greatest gift of my life! And while he may not saddle, unsaddle, or even lead my horses, he will drive me anywhere I want to go, he will sit and video when it's 105 degrees in the shade, and he will feed and water. He has never griped one time about the money it takes to maintain these horses and would spend our last dime on a race horse. HAHA I'm so proud to call him my husband and he truly does make every day the best day of my life!
Sorry to get so mushy, but it's possible to find that person.
And he truly is a great guy!!! He will keep ya in stitches the whole time your around him! Happy for ya, my friend! |
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Location: NE Texas | total performance - 2014-09-12 4:39 PM Herbie - 2014-09-12 3:30 PM And just to add to this story....I met my husband on POF. I was tired of dating the same type of guy (horsemen, ropers, cowboys) and decided to try something different....more for my entertainment than anything else. My husband messaged me a funny short message and he's made me laugh out loud every day since then. I'm so glad I took the time to entertain myself with POF because it brought me the greatest gift of my life! And while he may not saddle, unsaddle, or even lead my horses, he will drive me anywhere I want to go, he will sit and video when it's 105 degrees in the shade, and he will feed and water. He has never griped one time about the money it takes to maintain these horses and would spend our last dime on a race horse. HAHA I'm so proud to call him my husband and he truly does make every day the best day of my life!
Sorry to get so mushy, but it's possible to find that person.
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Location: At the race track with Ah Dee Ohs | Herbie - 2014-09-12 4:44 PM total performance - 2014-09-12 4:39 PM Herbie - 2014-09-12 3:30 PM And just to add to this story....I met my husband on POF. I was tired of dating the same type of guy (horsemen, ropers, cowboys) and decided to try something different....more for my entertainment than anything else. My husband messaged me a funny short message and he's made me laugh out loud every day since then. I'm so glad I took the time to entertain myself with POF because it brought me the greatest gift of my life! And while he may not saddle, unsaddle, or even lead my horses, he will drive me anywhere I want to go, he will sit and video when it's 105 degrees in the shade, and he will feed and water. He has never griped one time about the money it takes to maintain these horses and would spend our last dime on a race horse. HAHA I'm so proud to call him my husband and he truly does make every day the best day of my life!
Sorry to get so mushy, but it's possible to find that person.
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Location: Here | Herbie - 2014-09-12 3:30 PM And just to add to this story....I met my husband on POF. I was tired of dating the same type of guy (horsemen, ropers, cowboys) and decided to try something different....more for my entertainment than anything else. My husband messaged me a funny short message and he's made me laugh out loud every day since then. I'm so glad I took the time to entertain myself with POF because it brought me the greatest gift of my life! And while he may not saddle, unsaddle, or even lead my horses, he will drive me anywhere I want to go, he will sit and video when it's 105 degrees in the shade, and he will feed and water. He has never griped one time about the money it takes to maintain these horses and would spend our last dime on a race horse. HAHA I'm so proud to call him my husband and he truly does make every day the best day of my life!
Sorry to get so mushy, but it's possible to find that person.
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Location: In the Hills of Texas | Herbie - 2014-09-12 3:30 PM And just to add to this story....I met my husband on POF. I was tired of dating the same type of guy (horsemen, ropers, cowboys) and decided to try something different....more for my entertainment than anything else. My husband messaged me a funny short message and he's made me laugh out loud every day since then. I'm so glad I took the time to entertain myself with POF because it brought me the greatest gift of my life! And while he may not saddle, unsaddle, or even lead my horses, he will drive me anywhere I want to go, he will sit and video when it's 105 degrees in the shade, and he will feed and water. He has never griped one time about the money it takes to maintain these horses and would spend our last dime on a race horse. HAHA I'm so proud to call him my husband and he truly does make every day the best day of my life!
Sorry to get so mushy, but it's possible to find that person.
I didn't know this..I'm glad you posted. Our daughter has been doing on the online dating stuff since she works at home it's pretty hard to meet guys. The one she is dating now seems to be a great fit.
Roanie and LRQH...Best of luck in your ventures. |
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Location: South | My SO was completely non-horse savvy- grew up in the city until about 8 years ago. Mind you, I have never had a SO who cared about my horses or my love for them- even ones who were from the country and have been around them.
My SO hadn't been around a horse, or any livestock for that matter, and he has bought me feed, sawdust, takes care of them and even trail rides with me. In fact, he just got done helping get, haul and put up a couple hundred bales.
He even learned to use my tractor and has done a lot of barn repairs.
It's great to find someone who loves you enough to love your passion-- and learn to love those passions too.
P.S. Met him at a bar...go figure
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Location: LaBelle, Florida | Ok...so you know the rules...no pictures or it didn't happen! Good luck Most importantly, pay attention to how your favorite horse/dog responds to him...that will tell you a lot about him. Have fun. |
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y'all remember the online dating post? That date I went on...