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          Location: DUMPING CATS AND PIGS IN TEXAS :) | barrelracr131 - 2014-11-06 7:52 AM the salmo left you all positive and motivated! lol!
I saw the light at the end of the tunnel lol. Now, it's time to make peach cobbler and inspire you people. |
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    Location: Midwest | LRQHS - 2014-11-06 7:54 AM barrelracr131 - 2014-11-06 7:52 AM the salmo left you all positive and motivated! lol! I saw the light at the end of the tunnel lol. Now, it's time to make peach cobbler and inspire you people.
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          Location: DUMPING CATS AND PIGS IN TEXAS :) | barrelracr131 - 2014-11-06 7:55 AM LRQHS - 2014-11-06 7:54 AM barrelracr131 - 2014-11-06 7:52 AM the salmo left you all positive and motivated! lol! I saw the light at the end of the tunnel lol. Now, it's time to make peach cobbler and inspire you people. I got all betty crocker last night too- garlic chicken, taters, green beans and crescent rolls for dinner last night, prepped crock pot chili for today.... go me!
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    Location: Midwest | LRQHS - 2014-11-06 7:56 AM barrelracr131 - 2014-11-06 7:55 AM LRQHS - 2014-11-06 7:54 AM barrelracr131 - 2014-11-06 7:52 AM the salmo left you all positive and motivated! lol! I saw the light at the end of the tunnel lol. Now, it's time to make peach cobbler and inspire you people. I got all betty crocker last night too- garlic chicken, taters, green beans and crescent rolls for dinner last night, prepped crock pot chili for today.... go me! Wow....I'm impressed.
I was too... that was all AFTER working the pony too! Hubs was happy to have a hot meal, it doesn't happen real often round these parts hahahaha |
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    Location: Midwest | NJJ - 2014-11-06 8:03 AM OK.....Who took Jennifer and substituted "Little Miss Sunshine" ??
this was a super cute movie BTW
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NJJ - 2014-11-06 8:03 AM OK.....Who took Jennifer and substituted "Little Miss Sunshine" ??
this was a super cute movie BTW
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           Location: Kansas | LRQHS - 2014-11-06 8:20 AM Ummmmmm.....I'm not trying to inspire you people to make mac n' cheese.....I was thinking of something a little bigger that doesn't involve cooking......
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          Location: DUMPING CATS AND PIGS IN TEXAS :) | hoofs_in_motion - 2014-11-06 8:23 AM LRQHS - 2014-11-06 8:20 AM Ummmmmm.....I'm not trying to inspire you people to make mac n' cheese.....I was thinking of something a little bigger that doesn't involve cooking...... Rob a bank?
If that's what you really, really want to do........then, YES!!! Go out there and be the best little bank robber that you can be, buddy!!! |
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           Location: Kansas | LRQHS - 2014-11-06 8:25 AM hoofs_in_motion - 2014-11-06 8:23 AM LRQHS - 2014-11-06 8:20 AM Ummmmmm.....I'm not trying to inspire you people to make mac n' cheese.....I was thinking of something a little bigger that doesn't involve cooking...... Rob a bank? If that's what you really, really want to do........then, YES!!! Go out there and be the best little bank robber that you can be, buddy!!!
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          Location: DUMPING CATS AND PIGS IN TEXAS :) | bennie1 - 2014-11-06 8:26 AM LRQHS - 2014-11-06 8:20 AM Ummmmmm.....I'm not trying to inspire you people to make mac n' cheese.....I was thinking of something a little bigger that doesn't involve cooking...... Have to start somewhere :)
But, message taken. I have been giving a lot of thought to this exact subject. Time is ticking away, and none of us are getting younger.
That's right, Bennie!! You only live once!!! YOLO!!
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Hey, I posted a nice one!
Fun fact: Tony came with the name Gallagher.... um that was changed IMMEDIATELY
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I have my husband to thank for helping and encouraging me to do things I never thought i'd do. I love horse racing....I mean LOVE IT! Have always wanted to be able to watch a horse I own come down the track. Because of my husband we have been able to do that. Haven't had anything win big yet, but never know....might just be the next one that wins big!
I have a 3 YO that I like and a yearling that I love......and have another 2 YO on the way that won't be mine but I bet I get to ride him. Yep, that's right, another El Scorcho is coming to live at my house! So get ready to hear more brag posts from the Quarles clan on how much we love the Scorchos.....and Ricky of course!
Bottom line.....yesterday is too late....set goals, write them down, and work toward them every day even if it's nothing more than going out and brushing your horses....or whatever a baby step toward YOUR goal would be! Have realistic expectations daily that build to what your long term goal is and GO FOR IT! What's the harm in falling short? NOTHING....it's the journey that is the blessing. Happy Thursday everyone! And Jen, I love you buddy! We got great things in store for us!!!!! |
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          Location: DUMPING CATS AND PIGS IN TEXAS :) | Herbie - 2014-11-06 8:56 AM The juice absolutely is worth the squeeze. I may not be out winning the world, but i'm trying to work towards it. I've got the nicest group of young horses i've ever had one that is futurity bound in 2015. Keeping fingers crossed he does well, but even if he doesn't, it was worth doing! It's something that i've been excited about since he was a weanling and we're finally there!
I have my husband to thank for helping and encouraging me to do things I never thought i'd do. I love horse racing....I mean LOVE IT! Have always wanted to be able to watch a horse I own come down the track. Because of my husband we have been able to do that. Haven't had anything win big yet, but never know....might just be the next one that wins big!
I have a 3 YO that I like and a yearling that I love......and have another 2 YO on the way that won't be mine but I bet I get to ride him. Yep, that's right, another El Scorcho is coming to live at my house! So get ready to hear more brag posts from the Quarles clan on how much we love the Scorchos.....and Ricky of course!
Bottom line.....yesterday is too late....set goals, write them down, and work toward them every day even if it's nothing more than going out and brushing your horses....or whatever a baby step toward YOUR goal would be! Have realistic expectations daily that build to what your long term goal is and GO FOR IT! What's the harm in falling short? NOTHING....it's the journey that is the blessing. Happy Thursday everyone! And Jen, I love you buddy! We got great things in store for us!!!!!
That's what I'm talking about! Here's my little motivater! I'm getting excited and trying again because of things you've said to me, Jessi.
She is right guys. We need to go after IT and we can support each other to do that :) |
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          Location: DUMPING CATS AND PIGS IN TEXAS :) | banjomia - 2014-11-06 9:13 AM As someone who has always been in the "stands" being everyones biggest cheerleader wishing I could get past my fears and just do it...I am finally on my way. I have found the perfect little horse and although she may be just a slow horse for most...she is perfect for me. I am working on my courage to enter our first barrel racing soon........I am 47. Still battling the fear of speed but with each and every ride I'm getting more confidence... Now is the time....................cannot wait.
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          Location: 100 miles from Nowhere, AR | hoofs_in_motion - 2014-11-06 8:23 AM LRQHS - 2014-11-06 8:20 AM Ummmmmm.....I'm not trying to inspire you people to make mac n' cheese.....I was thinking of something a little bigger that doesn't involve cooking...... Rob a bank?
One of my cousins did that and I wouldn't really recommend it. Not only did he serve time, he was also featured on the show "Dumb Crimnals" and then died from a heart attack at age 54. Bad juju.
My my husband made grilled chicken, green beans, and garlic bread last night. He's bringing me Mexican takeout for lunch today...I've been a very naughty girl lately. Heehee |
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hoofs_in_motion - 2014-11-06 8:23 AM LRQHS - 2014-11-06 8:20 AM Ummmmmm.....I'm not trying to inspire you people to make mac n' cheese.....I was thinking of something a little bigger that doesn't involve cooking...... Rob a bank?
One of my cousins did that and I wouldn't really recommend it. Not only did he serve time, he was also featured on the show "Dumb Crimnals" and then died from a heart attack at age 54. Bad juju.
My my husband made grilled chicken, green beans, and garlic bread last night. He's bringing me Mexican takeout for lunch today...I've been a very naughty girl lately. Heehee
Hmmm is that what it takes?!?!?! I need to start that I guess hahaha
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Well I made stew and Pioneer Woman chocolate pie Saturday. Does that count?
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As someone who has always been in the "stands" being everyones biggest cheerleader wishing I could get past my fears and just do it...I am finally on my way. I have found the perfect little horse and although she may be just a slow horse for most...she is perfect for me. I am working on my courage to enter our first barrel racing soon........I am 47. Still battling the fear of speed but with each and every ride I'm getting more confidence...
Now is the time....................cannot wait.
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banjomia - 2014-11-06 9:13 AM As someone who has always been in the "stands" being everyones biggest cheerleader wishing I could get past my fears and just do it...I am finally on my way. I have found the perfect little horse and although she may be just a slow horse for most...she is perfect for me. I am working on my courage to enter our first barrel racing soon........I am 47. Still battling the fear of speed but with each and every ride I'm getting more confidence... Now is the time....................cannot wait.
Yay!!! So, happy for you!
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| Herbie - 2014-11-06 8:56 AM The juice absolutely is worth the squeeze. I may not be out winning the world, but i'm trying to work towards it. I've got the nicest group of young horses i've ever had one that is futurity bound in 2015. Keeping fingers crossed he does well, but even if he doesn't, it was worth doing! It's something that i've been excited about since he was a weanling and we're finally there!
I have my husband to thank for helping and encouraging me to do things I never thought i'd do. I love horse racing....I mean LOVE IT! Have always wanted to be able to watch a horse I own come down the track. Because of my husband we have been able to do that. Haven't had anything win big yet, but never know....might just be the next one that wins big!
I have a 3 YO that I like and a yearling that I love......and have another 2 YO on the way that won't be mine but I bet I get to ride him. Yep, that's right, another El Scorcho is coming to live at my house! So get ready to hear more brag posts from the Quarles clan on how much we love the Scorchos.....and Ricky of course!
Bottom line.....yesterday is too late....set goals, write them down, and work toward them every day even if it's nothing more than going out and brushing your horses....or whatever a baby step toward YOUR goal would be! Have realistic expectations daily that build to what your long term goal is and GO FOR IT! What's the harm in falling short? NOTHING....it's the journey that is the blessing. Happy Thursday everyone! And Jen, I love you buddy! We got great things in store for us!!!!!
HECK YEAH!!!! Write the goals down, stick 'em on your mirror, read daily and GO FOR IT!!! This is a great post ya'll!!!
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      Location: NE Texas | banjomia - 2014-11-06 9:13 AM As someone who has always been in the "stands" being everyones biggest cheerleader wishing I could get past my fears and just do it...I am finally on my way. I have found the perfect little horse and although she may be just a slow horse for most...she is perfect for me. I am working on my courage to enter our first barrel racing soon........I am 47. Still battling the fear of speed but with each and every ride I'm getting more confidence... Now is the time....................cannot wait.
Now THIS is what i'm talking about!!!! Way to go banjomia!!!! That is just the thing.....everyone has a different goal and success isnt measured by comparisons to each other. Success is different for each individual and what you have just described IS SUCCESS!!!!!! As lindseylou said above....write your goals down and read them every day. Be sure and write down short term goals in addition to long term goals and it's ok to alter those short term goals as needed. There have been times in my life when simply getting up and feeding my horses was a daily goal in my darkest days. Sometimes my short term goal is to get to the barn every single day and groom my horse or saddle them and let them stand tied. As little as they seem, these small daily goals work toward my semi long term goals, which work toward my long term goals. They keep me accountable to myself and help me to recognize the progress even it it is minute.
Is it statistically proven that if you simply write down your short and long term goals that you are 100% more likely to reach them. Now if you right them down and read them every day then you are 300% more likely to reach them......how's that for encouraging?!?!?! I'll take that statistic! I think the most important thing is to be sure you stair step your goals and re-evaluate them and change them as needed to be able to recognize the success of what you're doing daily. Each time you go to do someting to work toward your dream, have a purpose for THAT DAY. Go out there with a certain thing you want to improve upon or accomplish. That when each time you finish your work for that day, you know you are one step closer. |
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      Location: NE Texas | oija - 2014-11-06 9:33 AM I've been doing this for a while just by working on my futurity prospect and growing a breeding business. I've thought about doing some kind of breeding consulting later but will have to develop more contacts and do more research to be ready. I've started though. I'll even have a website model soon. :)
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oija - 2014-11-06 9:33 AM I've been doing this for a while just by working on my futurity prospect and growing a breeding business. I've thought about doing some kind of breeding consulting later but will have to develop more contacts and do more research to be ready. I've started though. I'll even have a website model soon. :)
Very cool, oija! It's all about the baby steps and sounds like you're heading the right direction!
Attitude has much to do with reaching your goals too .... Herbie is right, the more you write your goals down and take baby steps the more likely you are to actually accomplish them!!!! Fostering a community of support and positivity only gives you a stronger base behind you when missteps and upsets happen. |
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           Location: Kansas | Three 4 Luck - 2014-11-06 9:19 AM hoofs_in_motion - 2014-11-06 8:23 AM LRQHS - 2014-11-06 8:20 AM Ummmmmm.....I'm not trying to inspire you people to make mac n' cheese.....I was thinking of something a little bigger that doesn't involve cooking...... Rob a bank? One of my cousins did that and I wouldn't really recommend it. Not only did he serve time, he was also featured on the show "Dumb Crimnals" and then died from a heart attack at age 54. Bad juju.
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                      Location: Here | LRQHS - 2014-11-06 9:58 AM I love me some Herbie and her little speeches :)
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          Location: 100 miles from Nowhere, AR | hoofs_in_motion - 2014-11-06 9:57 AM Three 4 Luck - 2014-11-06 9:19 AM hoofs_in_motion - 2014-11-06 8:23 AM LRQHS - 2014-11-06 8:20 AM Ummmmmm.....I'm not trying to inspire you people to make mac n' cheese.....I was thinking of something a little bigger that doesn't involve cooking...... Rob a bank? One of my cousins did that and I wouldn't really recommend it. Not only did he serve time, he was also featured on the show "Dumb Crimnals" and then died from a heart attack at age 54. Bad juju.
My my husband made grilled chicken, green beans, and garlic bread last night. He's bringing me Mexican takeout for lunch today...I've been a very naughty girl lately. Heehee I was being sarcastic.......
I'm so glad you told me cause I thought you were serious.

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          Location: 100 miles from Nowhere, AR | LRQHS - 2014-11-06 10:02 AM I really think that we have an amazing support group here, but maybe don't tell each other what we are trying to accomplish. Like Bennie said, she doesn't want to say because it might not happen.....well, I think that if we tell each other we will get a world of support and encouragement and therefore have a much better chance of achieving that goal. I tell you, I get bummed out sometimes, but a few words from Jessi or Alison and I'm ready to push forward again.
I don't tell anyone because I can't remember the last time I actually fulfilled a goal. Not for lack of trying either. I try then get disappointed and try again because I'm stubborn. It's less embarrassing to fail when others don't know how epic your failure was. |
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          Location: DUMPING CATS AND PIGS IN TEXAS :) | Three 4 Luck - 2014-11-06 10:19 AM LRQHS - 2014-11-06 10:02 AM I really think that we have an amazing support group here, but maybe don't tell each other what we are trying to accomplish. Like Bennie said, she doesn't want to say because it might not happen.....well, I think that if we tell each other we will get a world of support and encouragement and therefore have a much better chance of achieving that goal. I tell you, I get bummed out sometimes, but a few words from Jessi or Alison and I'm ready to push forward again. I don't tell anyone because I can't remember the last time I actually fulfilled a goal. Not for lack of trying either. I try then get disappointed and try again because I'm stubborn. It's less embarrassing to fail when others don't know how epic your failure was.
I'm sure Jessi has something great to say here lol. Probably something like failure is a least a try or a learning experience or some crap like that lol. We need to start a positive support group :) |
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| JRust - 2014-11-06 10:19 AM
I'm waiting for ovulation to come around. Then I'll grab my hubby by the britches....lol
I did make a killer pumpkin bread yesterday!!! 
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       Location: In The Snow, AZ | I would never say I am anything less than beyond blessed in my life. But sometimes going for things doesn't help make anything happen. Hubby and I thought we were finally in a position to be approved for a home loan. We have worked hard to clean up credit, put away for a nice downpayment. Sold things we didn't want to so we could add to our down. Got prequalified, pending we take in tax information. And it all fell apart yesterday.
Sorry.....didn't want to be a downer. LOL. Go for your goals, guys. |
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      Location: NE Texas | It's important to set attainable goals that stair step to your ultimate goal. Sure, we'd all love to run down the tunnel at the Thomas & Mack, but it's not a realistic goal for me, so it isn't on my list. I do believe that occasional failure is part of the journey and that any failure is to be learned from, but if EPIC failure is something that you continue seeing, I think it's time to re-evaluate your short term goals and the steps it will take to accomplish them.
I am a worrier by nature....I used to worry about everything and still do if I allow myself to. I try very hard not to verbalize anything negative. I try not to verbalize my fears or my worries. Without verbalizing them they have no merit. If I find those fears or negativities are haunting my mind I will make a CHOICE not to think about it. And yes, it is that simple, it IS a choice. I will not let fear or anxiety rule my life.....it has in the past but it won't any more.
I would encourage everyone on here to read "That Winning Feeling" by Jane Savoie (not sure I spelled that correctly). It's a short book and easy read but it really did change my life when I was struggling with things a bit. It is about goal setting and having a positive attitude but I have applied it to so many parts of my life. It is a must read and something I think every person can benefit from.
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| ~BINGO~ - 2014-11-06 10:30 AM
I would never say I am anything less than beyond blessed in my life. But sometimes going for things doesn't help make anything happen. Hubby and I thought we were finally in a position to be approved for a home loan. We have worked hard to clean up credit, put away for a nice downpayment. Sold things we didn't want to so we could add to our down. Got prequalified, pending we take in tax information. And it all fell apart yesterday.
Sorry.....didn't want to be a downer. LOL. Go for your goals, guys.
Ahhhh so it was a step back .... this is when you choose your attitude and direction, right? The SO and I are going through the same things ... got a good down payment, are debt free, and trying to get the farm loan situation figured out so we can purchase a row crop and pasture place .... we are currently working with bank #3.
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          Location: DUMPING CATS AND PIGS IN TEXAS :) | ~BINGO~ - 2014-11-06 10:30 AM I would never say I am anything less than beyond blessed in my life. But sometimes going for things doesn't help make anything happen. Hubby and I thought we were finally in a position to be approved for a home loan. We have worked hard to clean up credit, put away for a nice downpayment. Sold things we didn't want to so we could add to our down. Got prequalified, pending we take in tax information. And it all fell apart yesterday.
Sorry.....didn't want to be a downer. LOL. Go for your goals, guys.
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      Location: NE Texas | ~BINGO~ - 2014-11-06 10:30 AM I would never say I am anything less than beyond blessed in my life. But sometimes going for things doesn't help make anything happen. Hubby and I thought we were finally in a position to be approved for a home loan. We have worked hard to clean up credit, put away for a nice downpayment. Sold things we didn't want to so we could add to our down. Got prequalified, pending we take in tax information. And it all fell apart yesterday.
Sorry.....didn't want to be a downer. LOL. Go for your goals, guys.
This is just the beginning.....we too have been turned down on a home loan. My husband has horrible credit from his previous marriage and divorce, so most of the financing falls on me and my credit. We can't get approved for as much as we need due to him not being able to apply. But hey, we have a roof over our heads. Our 1000 square feet might be a bit crowded sometimes with three adults, two kiddos, and 5 dogs, but hey, it makes us be close to one another and talk and enjoy each others company. I choose to look at this as a positive. Would I like a bigger house....yep....is it the end of the world....nope.
Keep working toward your goal, Bingo. If you've only been turned down by one financing place, you're just getting started. There are alot of different options or maybe the time isn't right, but don't quit working toward it....you'll get there! |
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       Location: In The Snow, AZ | I do appreciate the responses. I am by no means ungrateful and I hope I didn't come off as that way. We are renting a house that works beautifully for us. It was just hard getting hopes up and it not working again. This is the third time we have tried. Each time we are told something else needs fixed. So maybe next time. All in Gods timing. |
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      Location: In my own world | well miss Jen I am going for IT! And I'm scared and it's requiring some kicking me in the but by myself but I'm doing it!
Finances changed for the better for us recently which means my husband no longer farms and is around to help with our kids. Which means this chick is getting back into barrel racing after a 10 yr break. So what did I do? Get a 3D horse and ease back into things. Heck NO!! I bought an own daughter of FG trained by a futirity rider, that is still futirity eligible. Last week I mailed off my Diamonds and Dirt entry form!! Did I mention I have never rode in a barrel race out of state let alone a futirity? I was a 1D rider back in high school eons ago. My horse is way underjockied as the moment! But I've got the plan. In riding and getting better. Lost 10 of the 50 lbs I want to loose. So come March I will either be happy with things or the laughing stock of D&D. Either way I'm going for it! But yeah I'm scared to death! |
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          Location: 100 miles from Nowhere, AR | Herbie - 2014-11-06 10:32 AM It's important to set attainable goals that stair step to your ultimate goal. Sure, we'd all love to run down the tunnel at the Thomas & Mack, but it's not a realistic goal for me, so it isn't on my list. I do believe that occasional failure is part of the journey and that any failure is to be learned from, but if EPIC failure is something that you continue seeing, I think it's time to re-evaluate your short term goals and the steps it will take to accomplish them.
I am a worrier by nature....I used to worry about everything and still do if I allow myself to. I try very hard not to verbalize anything negative. I try not to verbalize my fears or my worries. Without verbalizing them they have no merit. If I find those fears or negativities are haunting my mind I will make a CHOICE not to think about it. And yes, it is that simple, it IS a choice. I will not let fear or anxiety rule my life.....it has in the past but it won't any more.
I would encourage everyone on here to read "That Winning Feeling" by Jane Savoie (not sure I spelled that correctly). It's a short book and easy read but it really did change my life when I was struggling with things a bit. It is about goal setting and having a positive attitude but I have applied it to so many parts of my life. It is a must read and something I think every person can benefit from.
What has been so very frustrating is that my most recent goals are something I was able to do before without even trying, and should be able to now. Very small, very attainable. All the pieces are there, the work put in, but the execution is lacking. Last year it was because my horse got hurt and then sick and was out for 3 months...I was so very close, but the rules of the association sunk me. This year we completely fell apart and then things got wild (good and bad). And my backup plan isn't going my way either. This has been my horsey life since the year 2000 when my good horse hurt himself badly early in the year and my goal of making the circuit finals evaporated. That was the last time I said a goal out loud. Since then, it's been flashes of brilliance coupled with lots of failure and rotten luck. I will die trying though, too stubborn to stop. |
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| Herbie - 2014-11-06 10:32 AM It's important to set attainable goals that stair step to your ultimate goal. Sure, we'd all love to run down the tunnel at the Thomas & Mack, but it's not a realistic goal for me, so it isn't on my list. I do believe that occasional failure is part of the journey and that any failure is to be learned from, but if EPIC failure is something that you continue seeing, I think it's time to re-evaluate your short term goals and the steps it will take to accomplish them.
I am a worrier by nature....I used to worry about everything and still do if I allow myself to. I try very hard not to verbalize anything negative. I try not to verbalize my fears or my worries. Without verbalizing them they have no merit. If I find those fears or negativities are haunting my mind I will make a CHOICE not to think about it. And yes, it is that simple, it IS a choice. I will not let fear or anxiety rule my life.....it has in the past but it won't any more.
I would encourage everyone on here to read "That Winning Feeling" by Jane Savoie (not sure I spelled that correctly). It's a short book and easy read but it really did change my life when I was struggling with things a bit. It is about goal setting and having a positive attitude but I have applied it to so many parts of my life. It is a must read and something I think every person can benefit from.
This. I am spending my winter conquering this very thing. I like to analyze (doesn't every barrel racer?) and hash things out with my friends, especially when things go wrong. I find myself standing in the warm up pen and the gate (!) with my mind running thru all the mis steps and bad days I've had with my horse. The good days, runs, rides far out number the bad, so why can't a person focus on those? Time to focus only on the positive and banish those negative thoughts and conversations!! That is what I'm working on right now. |
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      Location: NE Texas | Three 4 Luck - 2014-11-06 11:09 AM Herbie - 2014-11-06 10:32 AM It's important to set attainable goals that stair step to your ultimate goal. Sure, we'd all love to run down the tunnel at the Thomas & Mack, but it's not a realistic goal for me, so it isn't on my list. I do believe that occasional failure is part of the journey and that any failure is to be learned from, but if EPIC failure is something that you continue seeing, I think it's time to re-evaluate your short term goals and the steps it will take to accomplish them.
I am a worrier by nature....I used to worry about everything and still do if I allow myself to. I try very hard not to verbalize anything negative. I try not to verbalize my fears or my worries. Without verbalizing them they have no merit. If I find those fears or negativities are haunting my mind I will make a CHOICE not to think about it. And yes, it is that simple, it IS a choice. I will not let fear or anxiety rule my life.....it has in the past but it won't any more.
I would encourage everyone on here to read "That Winning Feeling" by Jane Savoie (not sure I spelled that correctly). It's a short book and easy read but it really did change my life when I was struggling with things a bit. It is about goal setting and having a positive attitude but I have applied it to so many parts of my life. It is a must read and something I think every person can benefit from. What has been so very frustrating is that my most recent goals are something I was able to do before without even trying, and should be able to now. Very small, very attainable. All the pieces are there, the work put in, but the execution is lacking. Last year it was because my horse got hurt and then sick and was out for 3 months...I was so very close, but the rules of the association sunk me. This year we completely fell apart and then things got wild (good and bad). And my backup plan isn't going my way either. This has been my horsey life since the year 2000 when my good horse hurt himself badly early in the year and my goal of making the circuit finals evaporated. That was the last time I said a goal out loud. Since then, it's been flashes of brilliance coupled with lots of failure and rotten luck. I will die trying though, too stubborn to stop. Believe me, I completely understand and could share some things with you that have made me want to give up as well. The rug has been jerked out from under all of us more times than we'd like to mention. I too am in a rebuilding stage and had to come to terms with the fact that I couldn't get my recent project where he needed to go for a couple of different reasons, so I bit the bullet, swallowed my pride and sent him out to someone who could. He's too talented to wait on me and my schedule. I'm so glad I did it now.
I've had to sell great horses to be able to afford to live in the past. I've sold horses so my ex husband could go rodeo, i've sold horses to pay for my divorce and then found them starved to death in a pasture with halters grown into their heads. I've seen a person I thought was my best friend go to prison for something I never dreamed she'd be capable of. I lost my father in my divorce to my ex husband and my ex ended up with the stallion of the program that i've worked so hard to promote and grow over the years. My father is still very much alive, but he chose my ex husband over me and gave him everything on a silver platter that I had worked so hard to promote. So I hear ya on things gone wrong, but now lets think about things gone right and focus on those!!!!
For me the things gone right begin with my husband...he is the best thing that has happened to me and supports me 100%, as I do him. Our #1 priority are his daughters and everything else is second. We have some very neat young horses and are excited to see what the future holds for Ricky and Gunnar. I've had the opportunity to start some really neat outside horses on the pattern this year and from that have developed some pretty awesome friendships. I have only been to maybe 1 or 2 barrel races this year but that is ok.....i'm working toward being able to go and have a trailer full to go with.....even if I have to send them out to someone else to finish for me. HAHA
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       Location: Montana | LRQHS, I love you! Well, I love your post any ways, LOL. Thank you so much for posting, just what I needed to hear! I love motivational posts.
BTW, Bingo, may I just say don't feel bad about the house loan process. My parents have gone through this lately with a refinanc, and it is a mess anymore. There is no winning I swear as my parents have good credit. My folks were approved, but the appraiser gave a way low end appraisal (between 60-70% of what our house is actually worth if we went to sell it today) so they ended up not refinancing. Oh well, c'est la vie. And if you are me, la vie en rose! |
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          Location: 100 miles from Nowhere, AR | Herbie - 2014-11-06 11:21 AM Three 4 Luck - 2014-11-06 11:09 AM Herbie - 2014-11-06 10:32 AM It's important to set attainable goals that stair step to your ultimate goal. Sure, we'd all love to run down the tunnel at the Thomas & Mack, but it's not a realistic goal for me, so it isn't on my list. I do believe that occasional failure is part of the journey and that any failure is to be learned from, but if EPIC failure is something that you continue seeing, I think it's time to re-evaluate your short term goals and the steps it will take to accomplish them.
I am a worrier by nature....I used to worry about everything and still do if I allow myself to. I try very hard not to verbalize anything negative. I try not to verbalize my fears or my worries. Without verbalizing them they have no merit. If I find those fears or negativities are haunting my mind I will make a CHOICE not to think about it. And yes, it is that simple, it IS a choice. I will not let fear or anxiety rule my life.....it has in the past but it won't any more.
I would encourage everyone on here to read "That Winning Feeling" by Jane Savoie (not sure I spelled that correctly). It's a short book and easy read but it really did change my life when I was struggling with things a bit. It is about goal setting and having a positive attitude but I have applied it to so many parts of my life. It is a must read and something I think every person can benefit from.
What has been so very frustrating is that my most recent goals are something I was able to do before without even trying, and should be able to now. Very small, very attainable. All the pieces are there, the work put in, but the execution is lacking. Last year it was because my horse got hurt and then sick and was out for 3 months...I was so very close, but the rules of the association sunk me. This year we completely fell apart and then things got wild (good and bad). And my backup plan isn't going my way either. This has been my horsey life since the year 2000 when my good horse hurt himself badly early in the year and my goal of making the circuit finals evaporated. That was the last time I said a goal out loud. Since then, it's been flashes of brilliance coupled with lots of failure and rotten luck. I will die trying though, too stubborn to stop. Believe me, I completely understand and could share some things with you that have made me want to give up as well. The rug has been jerked out from under all of us more times than we'd like to mention. I too am in a rebuilding stage and had to come to terms with the fact that I couldn't get my recent project where he needed to go for a couple of different reasons, so I bit the bullet, swallowed my pride and sent him out to someone who could. He's too talented to wait on me and my schedule. I'm so glad I did it now.
I've had to sell great horses to be able to afford to live in the past. I've sold horses so my ex husband could go rodeo, i've sold horses to pay for my divorce and then found them starved to death in a pasture with halters grown into their heads. I've seen a person I thought was my best friend go to prison for something I never dreamed she'd be capable of. I lost my father in my divorce to my ex husband and my ex ended up with the stallion of the program that i've worked so hard to promote and grow over the years. So I hear ya on things gone wrong, but lets think about things gone right!
For me the things gone right begin with my husband...he is the best thing that has happened to me and supports me 100%, as I do him. Our #1 priority are his daughters and everything else is second. We have some very neat young horses and are excited to see what the future holds for Ricky and Gunnar. I've had the opportunity to start some really neat outside horses on the pattern this year and from that have developed some pretty awesome friendships. I have only been to maybe 1 or 2 barrel races this year but that is ok.....i'm working toward being able to go and have a trailer full to go with.....even if I have to send them out to someone else to finish for me. HAHA
Ok, deep breath. Positive: my gelding and I have run in every D known to barrel racing...we're just versatile that way. LOL
What little bit I've been able to work my 4 year old, she has shown me that she is everything I hoped for if I can get and keep her feet sound. And my 3 year old hasn't made a wrong move since she's been home from flunking out of her 30 days, so I have hope that she will still make something eventually if I can find the right person to put some time on her.
I am blessed with an awesome husband who makes me laugh every day, and 2 healthy kids who are the joy of my days. They are what has kept me going through it all. 6 years ago, I thought I might never run barrels again. In fact, I was told it would take a miracle. I'm a walking talking example of the power of prayer. |
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        Location: Gainesville, TX | livinonlove&horses - 2014-11-06 10:57 AM
well miss Jen I am going for IT! And I'm scared and it's requiring some kicking me in the but by myself but I'm doing it!
Finances changed for the better for us recently which means my husband no longer farms and is around to help with our kids. Which means this chick is getting back into barrel racing after a 10 yr break. So what did I do? Get a 3D horse and ease back into things. Heck NO!! I bought an own daughter of FG trained by a futirity rider, that is still futirity eligible. Last week I mailed off my Diamonds and Dirt entry form!! Did I mention I have never rode in a barrel race out of state let alone a futirity? I was a 1D rider back in high school eons ago. My horse is way underjockied as the moment! But I've got the plan. In riding and getting better. Lost 10 of the 50 lbs I want to loose. So come March I will either be happy with things or the laughing stock of D&D. Either way I'm going for it! But yeah I'm scared to death!
This is kind of me too. I was solid in high school. Made the finals, retrained some. Was better at poles admittedly though. But I'm getting back in 10 years later. Unfortunately the gelding I was working on and starting to place in the 4D and run in the 3D some of the time has injured himself badly. But I have my futurity prospect and a four year old in training. I am breeding. And I have lost almost 50 of the 80 pounds or so I need to lose. |
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      Location: NE Texas | T4L, that last paragraph alone is enough to make me want to jump up and down for joy! I love your posts and whether you realize it or not, you are a huge inspiration to me. I was creeping your youtube's the other night, or maybe it was your facebook IDK, but I saw videos of your daughter and wow.....that alone is motivation enough! What an awesome pair she and that horse are right now!
Keep your chin up....sounds to me like you've got a pretty dang good crew right now and minus some lameness problems things are headed in the right direction. Heck, at least you're running in a D! Go get em! |
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        Location: Gainesville, TX | livinonlove&horses - 2014-11-06 12:06 PM
Hey that's cool!! Glad to know I'm not alone! I had another horse that was suppose to ease me back in but she got EPM and has stifled issues so we never did anything. I traveled around looking at finished horses and didn't find anything I liked. Happened upon my new girl and it was love at first ride! So since she is futirity eligible I decided why not!! Maybe I will see you around?
Hopefully. My futurity prospect is just two though. We'll be running in 2017. Obviously hope to have the gelding going before then. |
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      Location: In my own world | oija - 2014-11-06 11:42 AM
livinonlove&horses - 2014-11-06 10:57 AM
well miss Jen I am going for IT! And I'm scared and it's requiring some kicking me in the but by myself but I'm doing it!
Finances changed for the better for us recently which means my husband no longer farms and is around to help with our kids. Which means this chick is getting back into barrel racing after a 10 yr break. So what did I do? Get a 3D horse and ease back into things. Heck NO!! I bought an own daughter of FG trained by a futirity rider, that is still futirity eligible. Last week I mailed off my Diamonds and Dirt entry form!! Did I mention I have never rode in a barrel race out of state let alone a futirity? I was a 1D rider back in high school eons ago. My horse is way underjockied as the moment! But I've got the plan. In riding and getting better. Lost 10 of the 50 lbs I want to loose. So come March I will either be happy with things or the laughing stock of D&D. Either way I'm going for it! But yeah I'm scared to death!
This is kind of me too. I was solid in high school. Made the finals, retrained some. Was better at poles admittedly though. But I'm getting back in 10 years later. Unfortunately the gelding I was working on and starting to place in the 4D and run in the 3D some of the time has injured himself badly. But I have my futurity prospect and a four year old in training. I am breeding. And I have lost almost 50 of the 80 pounds or so I need to lose.
Hey that's cool!! Glad to know I'm not alone! I had another horse that was suppose to ease me back in but she got EPM and has stifled issues so we never did anything. I traveled around looking at finished horses and didn't find anything I liked. Happened upon my new girl and it was love at first ride! So since she is futirity eligible I decided why not!! Maybe I will see you around? |
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| livinonlove&horses - 2014-11-06 10:57 AM well miss Jen I am going for IT! And I'm scared and it's requiring some kicking me in the but by myself but I'm doing it! Finances changed for the better for us recently which means my husband no longer farms and is around to help with our kids. Which means this chick is getting back into barrel racing after a 10 yr break. So what did I do? Get a 3D horse and ease back into things. Heck NO!! I bought an own daughter of FG trained by a futirity rider, that is still futirity eligible. Last week I mailed off my Diamonds and Dirt entry form!! Did I mention I have never rode in a barrel race out of state let alone a futirity? I was a 1D rider back in high school eons ago. My horse is way underjockied as the moment! But I've got the plan. In riding and getting better. Lost 10 of the 50 lbs I want to loose. So come March I will either be happy with things or the laughing stock of D&D. Either way I'm going for it! But yeah I'm scared to death!
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      Location: NE Texas | livinonlove&horses - 2014-11-06 10:57 AM well miss Jen I am going for IT! And I'm scared and it's requiring some kicking me in the but by myself but I'm doing it! Finances changed for the better for us recently which means my husband no longer farms and is around to help with our kids. Which means this chick is getting back into barrel racing after a 10 yr break. So what did I do? Get a 3D horse and ease back into things. Heck NO!! I bought an own daughter of FG trained by a futirity rider, that is still futirity eligible. Last week I mailed off my Diamonds and Dirt entry form!! Did I mention I have never rode in a barrel race out of state let alone a futirity? I was a 1D rider back in high school eons ago. My horse is way underjockied as the moment! But I've got the plan. In riding and getting better. Lost 10 of the 50 lbs I want to loose. So come March I will either be happy with things or the laughing stock of D&D. Either way I'm going for it! But yeah I'm scared to death!
HECK YA! That is awesome! I wish you all the success in the world in the futurities an beyond! My colt with be at D & D but I won't be jockeying him. With my work schedule i'm not able to take off as i'd need to in order to get to the futurities nor could I get him the places he needed to be to season him, so I decided to send mine off 3 weeks ago to season. Got a text today that he ran 3 tenths off the horse that won the 1D at a jackpot so I think I made the right decision. Gunnar can give him the opportunity I couldn't and get him places he needs to go. I'm pretty excited about the future with these two and hope Ricky doesn't decide to be Richard when the money is on the line. LOL Maybe if I get down to D & D at least over the weekend we can meet up! |
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      Location: NE Texas | Bigtime mistake - 2014-11-06 12:36 PM My motivation is waking up every day knowing I'm living my dream. Just walking outside and seeing my horses makes me realize how good life is. Have my two beautiful yearlings, my two gorgeous mares, the gelding I raised, sold, then claimed back last year and the 31 year old mare that is the foundation to my breeding. Also have two babies due in 2015 that I'm super excited about. Yes, life is good.
Yay!!!! Keep us posted on your babies and the rest of the crew. That is definitely very much a blessing to have a program you're excited about! LOTS of work goes into all that breeding and I sure don't envy the job people like you and LRQHS do.....that is the hardest part of all of this I think. So my hat is off to you, Bigtime Mistake! Keep up the great work! |
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well miss Jen I am going for IT! And I'm scared and it's requiring some kicking me in the but by myself but I'm doing it!
Finances changed for the better for us recently which means my husband no longer farms and is around to help with our kids. Which means this chick is getting back into barrel racing after a 10 yr break. So what did I do? Get a 3D horse and ease back into things. Heck NO!! I bought an own daughter of FG trained by a futirity rider, that is still futirity eligible. Last week I mailed off my Diamonds and Dirt entry form!! Did I mention I have never rode in a barrel race out of state let alone a futirity? I was a 1D rider back in high school eons ago. My horse is way underjockied as the moment! But I've got the plan. In riding and getting better. Lost 10 of the 50 lbs I want to loose. So come March I will either be happy with things or the laughing stock of D&D. Either way I'm going for it! But yeah I'm scared to death!
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| ~BINGO~ - 2014-11-06 10:57 AM I do appreciate the responses. I am by no means ungrateful and I hope I didn't come off as that way. We are renting a house that works beautifully for us. It was just hard getting hopes up and it not working again. This is the third time we have tried. Each time we are told something else needs fixed. So maybe next time. All in Gods timing.
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          Location: DUMPING CATS AND PIGS IN TEXAS :) | livinonlove&horses - 2014-11-06 10:57 AM well miss Jen I am going for IT! And I'm scared and it's requiring some kicking me in the but by myself but I'm doing it! Finances changed for the better for us recently which means my husband no longer farms and is around to help with our kids. Which means this chick is getting back into barrel racing after a 10 yr break. So what did I do? Get a 3D horse and ease back into things. Heck NO!! I bought an own daughter of FG trained by a futirity rider, that is still futirity eligible. Last week I mailed off my Diamonds and Dirt entry form!! Did I mention I have never rode in a barrel race out of state let alone a futirity? I was a 1D rider back in high school eons ago. My horse is way underjockied as the moment! But I've got the plan. In riding and getting better. Lost 10 of the 50 lbs I want to loose. So come March I will either be happy with things or the laughing stock of D&D. Either way I'm going for it! But yeah I'm scared to death!
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          Location: DUMPING CATS AND PIGS IN TEXAS :) | mtcanchazer - 2014-11-06 11:39 AM LRQHS, I love you! Well, I love your post any ways, LOL. Thank you so much for posting, just what I needed to hear! I love motivational posts.
BTW, Bingo, may I just say don't feel bad about the house loan process. My parents have gone through this lately with a refinanc, and it is a mess anymore. There is no winning I swear as my parents have good credit. My folks were approved, but the appraiser gave a way low end appraisal (between 60-70% of what our house is actually worth if we went to sell it today) so they ended up not refinancing. Oh well, c'est la vie. And if you are me, la vie en rose!
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      Location: In my own world | Herbie - 2014-11-06 12:36 PM livinonlove&horses - 2014-11-06 10:57 AM well miss Jen I am going for IT! And I'm scared and it's requiring some kicking me in the but by myself but I'm doing it! Finances changed for the better for us recently which means my husband no longer farms and is around to help with our kids. Which means this chick is getting back into barrel racing after a 10 yr break. So what did I do? Get a 3D horse and ease back into things. Heck NO!! I bought an own daughter of FG trained by a futirity rider, that is still futirity eligible. Last week I mailed off my Diamonds and Dirt entry form!! Did I mention I have never rode in a barrel race out of state let alone a futirity? I was a 1D rider back in high school eons ago. My horse is way underjockied as the moment! But I've got the plan. In riding and getting better. Lost 10 of the 50 lbs I want to loose. So come March I will either be happy with things or the laughing stock of D&D. Either way I'm going for it! But yeah I'm scared to death! HECK YA! That is awesome! I wish you all the success in the world in the futurities an beyond! My colt with be at D & D but I won't be jockeying him. With my work schedule i'm not able to take off as i'd need to in order to get to the futurities nor could I get him the places he needed to be to season him, so I decided to send mine off 3 weeks ago to season. Got a text today that he ran 3 tenths off the horse that won the 1D at a jackpot so I think I made the right decision. Gunnar can give him the opportunity I couldn't and get him places he needs to go. I'm pretty excited about the future with these two and hope Ricky doesn't decide to be Richard when the money is on the line. LOL
Maybe if I get down to D & D at least over the weekend we can meet up!
My mare would probably been better off being jockied by someone else but I like running barrels so didn't see much fun in that. I have the time and means just maybe not the skill but it's more of a bucket list/experience thing for me. Meet new people and overcome some of my fears. I get anxiety hauling new places all by myself. I made the 9 hr haul to get my new horse all by myself though! Good luck with Ricky! |
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          Location: DUMPING CATS AND PIGS IN TEXAS :) | Three 4 Luck - 2014-11-06 11:39 AM Herbie - 2014-11-06 11:21 AM Three 4 Luck - 2014-11-06 11:09 AM Herbie - 2014-11-06 10:32 AM It's important to set attainable goals that stair step to your ultimate goal. Sure, we'd all love to run down the tunnel at the Thomas & Mack, but it's not a realistic goal for me, so it isn't on my list. I do believe that occasional failure is part of the journey and that any failure is to be learned from, but if EPIC failure is something that you continue seeing, I think it's time to re-evaluate your short term goals and the steps it will take to accomplish them.
I am a worrier by nature....I used to worry about everything and still do if I allow myself to. I try very hard not to verbalize anything negative. I try not to verbalize my fears or my worries. Without verbalizing them they have no merit. If I find those fears or negativities are haunting my mind I will make a CHOICE not to think about it. And yes, it is that simple, it IS a choice. I will not let fear or anxiety rule my life.....it has in the past but it won't any more.
I would encourage everyone on here to read "That Winning Feeling" by Jane Savoie (not sure I spelled that correctly). It's a short book and easy read but it really did change my life when I was struggling with things a bit. It is about goal setting and having a positive attitude but I have applied it to so many parts of my life. It is a must read and something I think every person can benefit from.
What has been so very frustrating is that my most recent goals are something I was able to do before without even trying, and should be able to now. Very small, very attainable. All the pieces are there, the work put in, but the execution is lacking. Last year it was because my horse got hurt and then sick and was out for 3 months...I was so very close, but the rules of the association sunk me. This year we completely fell apart and then things got wild (good and bad). And my backup plan isn't going my way either. This has been my horsey life since the year 2000 when my good horse hurt himself badly early in the year and my goal of making the circuit finals evaporated. That was the last time I said a goal out loud. Since then, it's been flashes of brilliance coupled with lots of failure and rotten luck. I will die trying though, too stubborn to stop. Believe me, I completely understand and could share some things with you that have made me want to give up as well. The rug has been jerked out from under all of us more times than we'd like to mention. I too am in a rebuilding stage and had to come to terms with the fact that I couldn't get my recent project where he needed to go for a couple of different reasons, so I bit the bullet, swallowed my pride and sent him out to someone who could. He's too talented to wait on me and my schedule. I'm so glad I did it now.
I've had to sell great horses to be able to afford to live in the past. I've sold horses so my ex husband could go rodeo, i've sold horses to pay for my divorce and then found them starved to death in a pasture with halters grown into their heads. I've seen a person I thought was my best friend go to prison for something I never dreamed she'd be capable of. I lost my father in my divorce to my ex husband and my ex ended up with the stallion of the program that i've worked so hard to promote and grow over the years. So I hear ya on things gone wrong, but lets think about things gone right!
For me the things gone right begin with my husband...he is the best thing that has happened to me and supports me 100%, as I do him. Our #1 priority are his daughters and everything else is second. We have some very neat young horses and are excited to see what the future holds for Ricky and Gunnar. I've had the opportunity to start some really neat outside horses on the pattern this year and from that have developed some pretty awesome friendships. I have only been to maybe 1 or 2 barrel races this year but that is ok.....i'm working toward being able to go and have a trailer full to go with.....even if I have to send them out to someone else to finish for me. HAHA
Ok, deep breath.
Positive: my gelding and I have run in every D known to barrel racing...we're just versatile that way. LOL
What little bit I've been able to work my 4 year old, she has shown me that she is everything I hoped for if I can get and keep her feet sound. And my 3 year old hasn't made a wrong move since she's been home from flunking out of her 30 days, so I have hope that she will still make something eventually if I can find the right person to put some time on her.
I am blessed with an awesome husband who makes me laugh every day, and 2 healthy kids who are the joy of my days. They are what has kept me going through it all. 6 years ago, I thought I might never run barrels again. In fact, I was told it would take a miracle. I'm a walking talking example of the power of prayer.
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          Location: DUMPING CATS AND PIGS IN TEXAS :) | livinonlove&horses - 2014-11-06 1:53 PM Herbie - 2014-11-06 12:36 PM livinonlove&horses - 2014-11-06 10:57 AM well miss Jen I am going for IT! And I'm scared and it's requiring some kicking me in the but by myself but I'm doing it! Finances changed for the better for us recently which means my husband no longer farms and is around to help with our kids. Which means this chick is getting back into barrel racing after a 10 yr break. So what did I do? Get a 3D horse and ease back into things. Heck NO!! I bought an own daughter of FG trained by a futirity rider, that is still futirity eligible. Last week I mailed off my Diamonds and Dirt entry form!! Did I mention I have never rode in a barrel race out of state let alone a futirity? I was a 1D rider back in high school eons ago. My horse is way underjockied as the moment! But I've got the plan. In riding and getting better. Lost 10 of the 50 lbs I want to loose. So come March I will either be happy with things or the laughing stock of D&D. Either way I'm going for it! But yeah I'm scared to death! HECK YA! That is awesome! I wish you all the success in the world in the futurities an beyond! My colt with be at D & D but I won't be jockeying him. With my work schedule i'm not able to take off as i'd need to in order to get to the futurities nor could I get him the places he needed to be to season him, so I decided to send mine off 3 weeks ago to season. Got a text today that he ran 3 tenths off the horse that won the 1D at a jackpot so I think I made the right decision. Gunnar can give him the opportunity I couldn't and get him places he needs to go. I'm pretty excited about the future with these two and hope Ricky doesn't decide to be Richard when the money is on the line. LOL
Maybe if I get down to D & D at least over the weekend we can meet up! My mare would probably been better off being jockied by someone else but I like running barrels so didn't see much fun in that. I have the time and means just maybe not the skill but it's more of a bucket list/experience thing for me. Meet new people and overcome some of my fears. I get anxiety hauling new places all by myself. I made the 9 hr haul to get my new horse all by myself though! Good luck with Ricky!
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livinonlove&horses - 2014-11-06 1:53 PM Herbie - 2014-11-06 12:36 PM livinonlove&horses - 2014-11-06 10:57 AM well miss Jen I am going for IT! And I'm scared and it's requiring some kicking me in the but by myself but I'm doing it! Finances changed for the better for us recently which means my husband no longer farms and is around to help with our kids. Which means this chick is getting back into barrel racing after a 10 yr break. So what did I do? Get a 3D horse and ease back into things. Heck NO!! I bought an own daughter of FG trained by a futirity rider, that is still futirity eligible. Last week I mailed off my Diamonds and Dirt entry form!! Did I mention I have never rode in a barrel race out of state let alone a futirity? I was a 1D rider back in high school eons ago. My horse is way underjockied as the moment! But I've got the plan. In riding and getting better. Lost 10 of the 50 lbs I want to loose. So come March I will either be happy with things or the laughing stock of D&D. Either way I'm going for it! But yeah I'm scared to death! HECK YA! That is awesome! I wish you all the success in the world in the futurities an beyond! My colt with be at D & D but I won't be jockeying him. With my work schedule i'm not able to take off as i'd need to in order to get to the futurities nor could I get him the places he needed to be to season him, so I decided to send mine off 3 weeks ago to season. Got a text today that he ran 3 tenths off the horse that won the 1D at a jackpot so I think I made the right decision. Gunnar can give him the opportunity I couldn't and get him places he needs to go. I'm pretty excited about the future with these two and hope Ricky doesn't decide to be Richard when the money is on the line. LOL
Maybe if I get down to D & D at least over the weekend we can meet up! My mare would probably been better off being jockied by someone else but I like running barrels so didn't see much fun in that. I have the time and means just maybe not the skill but it's more of a bucket list/experience thing for me. Meet new people and overcome some of my fears. I get anxiety hauling new places all by myself. I made the 9 hr haul to get my new horse all by myself though! Good luck with Ricky!
It's not about winning. It's about the ride. I'm sure excited for you and think your story may inspire some of us for the better :)
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          Location: DUMPING CATS AND PIGS IN TEXAS :) | lindseylou2290 - 2014-11-06 2:07 PM LRQHS - 2014-11-06 1:54 PM livinonlove&horses - 2014-11-06 1:53 PM Herbie - 2014-11-06 12:36 PM livinonlove&horses - 2014-11-06 10:57 AM well miss Jen I am going for IT! And I'm scared and it's requiring some kicking me in the but by myself but I'm doing it! Finances changed for the better for us recently which means my husband no longer farms and is around to help with our kids. Which means this chick is getting back into barrel racing after a 10 yr break. So what did I do? Get a 3D horse and ease back into things. Heck NO!! I bought an own daughter of FG trained by a futirity rider, that is still futirity eligible. Last week I mailed off my Diamonds and Dirt entry form!! Did I mention I have never rode in a barrel race out of state let alone a futirity? I was a 1D rider back in high school eons ago. My horse is way underjockied as the moment! But I've got the plan. In riding and getting better. Lost 10 of the 50 lbs I want to loose. So come March I will either be happy with things or the laughing stock of D&D. Either way I'm going for it! But yeah I'm scared to death! HECK YA! That is awesome! I wish you all the success in the world in the futurities an beyond! My colt with be at D & D but I won't be jockeying him. With my work schedule i'm not able to take off as i'd need to in order to get to the futurities nor could I get him the places he needed to be to season him, so I decided to send mine off 3 weeks ago to season. Got a text today that he ran 3 tenths off the horse that won the 1D at a jackpot so I think I made the right decision. Gunnar can give him the opportunity I couldn't and get him places he needs to go. I'm pretty excited about the future with these two and hope Ricky doesn't decide to be Richard when the money is on the line. LOL
Maybe if I get down to D & D at least over the weekend we can meet up! My mare would probably been better off being jockied by someone else but I like running barrels so didn't see much fun in that. I have the time and means just maybe not the skill but it's more of a bucket list/experience thing for me. Meet new people and overcome some of my fears. I get anxiety hauling new places all by myself. I made the 9 hr haul to get my new horse all by myself though! Good luck with Ricky! It's not about winning. It's about the ride. I'm sure excited for you and think your story may inspire some of us for the better :) I am SERIOUSLY going to be cheering ya'll on .... VERY cool stuff and way to take the initiative to DO it!!! 
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      Location: NE Texas | livinonlove&horses - 2014-11-06 1:53 PM Herbie - 2014-11-06 12:36 PM livinonlove&horses - 2014-11-06 10:57 AM well miss Jen I am going for IT! And I'm scared and it's requiring some kicking me in the but by myself but I'm doing it! Finances changed for the better for us recently which means my husband no longer farms and is around to help with our kids. Which means this chick is getting back into barrel racing after a 10 yr break. So what did I do? Get a 3D horse and ease back into things. Heck NO!! I bought an own daughter of FG trained by a futirity rider, that is still futirity eligible. Last week I mailed off my Diamonds and Dirt entry form!! Did I mention I have never rode in a barrel race out of state let alone a futirity? I was a 1D rider back in high school eons ago. My horse is way underjockied as the moment! But I've got the plan. In riding and getting better. Lost 10 of the 50 lbs I want to loose. So come March I will either be happy with things or the laughing stock of D&D. Either way I'm going for it! But yeah I'm scared to death! HECK YA! That is awesome! I wish you all the success in the world in the futurities an beyond! My colt with be at D & D but I won't be jockeying him. With my work schedule i'm not able to take off as i'd need to in order to get to the futurities nor could I get him the places he needed to be to season him, so I decided to send mine off 3 weeks ago to season. Got a text today that he ran 3 tenths off the horse that won the 1D at a jackpot so I think I made the right decision. Gunnar can give him the opportunity I couldn't and get him places he needs to go. I'm pretty excited about the future with these two and hope Ricky doesn't decide to be Richard when the money is on the line. LOL Maybe if I get down to D & D at least over the weekend we can meet up! My mare would probably been better off being jockied by someone else but I like running barrels so didn't see much fun in that. I have the time and means just maybe not the skill but it's more of a bucket list/experience thing for me. Meet new people and overcome some of my fears. I get anxiety hauling new places all by myself. I made the 9 hr haul to get my new horse all by myself though! Good luck with Ricky! I'm jealous! I wish I could have done this too but just no way. I used to have a futurity horse every year that I had raised and trained and would haul and then sell as a later 4 or 5 YO. I haven't been able to run one at a futurity since 2004 and I miss it! But my job doens't allow me to take off the week at a time to go to the futurities, so I shall live vicariously through you and my colt! So excited for you and hope to see you in many short gos! You're my hero and i'm pulling for ya! Until I can quit my job and ride for living (BLAHAHAHAHAHAHA) i'm going to be stuck letting someone else jockey the one i've trained.
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lindseylou2290 - 2014-11-06 2:07 PM LRQHS - 2014-11-06 1:54 PM livinonlove&horses - 2014-11-06 1:53 PM Herbie - 2014-11-06 12:36 PM livinonlove&horses - 2014-11-06 10:57 AM well miss Jen I am going for IT! And I'm scared and it's requiring some kicking me in the but by myself but I'm doing it! Finances changed for the better for us recently which means my husband no longer farms and is around to help with our kids. Which means this chick is getting back into barrel racing after a 10 yr break. So what did I do? Get a 3D horse and ease back into things. Heck NO!! I bought an own daughter of FG trained by a futirity rider, that is still futirity eligible. Last week I mailed off my Diamonds and Dirt entry form!! Did I mention I have never rode in a barrel race out of state let alone a futirity? I was a 1D rider back in high school eons ago. My horse is way underjockied as the moment! But I've got the plan. In riding and getting better. Lost 10 of the 50 lbs I want to loose. So come March I will either be happy with things or the laughing stock of D&D. Either way I'm going for it! But yeah I'm scared to death! HECK YA! That is awesome! I wish you all the success in the world in the futurities an beyond! My colt with be at D & D but I won't be jockeying him. With my work schedule i'm not able to take off as i'd need to in order to get to the futurities nor could I get him the places he needed to be to season him, so I decided to send mine off 3 weeks ago to season. Got a text today that he ran 3 tenths off the horse that won the 1D at a jackpot so I think I made the right decision. Gunnar can give him the opportunity I couldn't and get him places he needs to go. I'm pretty excited about the future with these two and hope Ricky doesn't decide to be Richard when the money is on the line. LOL
Maybe if I get down to D & D at least over the weekend we can meet up! My mare would probably been better off being jockied by someone else but I like running barrels so didn't see much fun in that. I have the time and means just maybe not the skill but it's more of a bucket list/experience thing for me. Meet new people and overcome some of my fears. I get anxiety hauling new places all by myself. I made the 9 hr haul to get my new horse all by myself though! Good luck with Ricky! It's not about winning. It's about the ride. I'm sure excited for you and think your story may inspire some of us for the better :) I am SERIOUSLY going to be cheering ya'll on .... VERY cool stuff and way to take the initiative to DO it!!! 
Do you need a beer girl or some comic relief to soothe your nerves before you ride? Because, I'll totally come and do that for you :)
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          Location: DUMPING CATS AND PIGS IN TEXAS :) | lindseylou2290 - 2014-11-06 2:18 PM LRQHS - 2014-11-06 2:09 PM lindseylou2290 - 2014-11-06 2:07 PM LRQHS - 2014-11-06 1:54 PM livinonlove&horses - 2014-11-06 1:53 PM Herbie - 2014-11-06 12:36 PM livinonlove&horses - 2014-11-06 10:57 AM well miss Jen I am going for IT! And I'm scared and it's requiring some kicking me in the but by myself but I'm doing it! Finances changed for the better for us recently which means my husband no longer farms and is around to help with our kids. Which means this chick is getting back into barrel racing after a 10 yr break. So what did I do? Get a 3D horse and ease back into things. Heck NO!! I bought an own daughter of FG trained by a futirity rider, that is still futirity eligible. Last week I mailed off my Diamonds and Dirt entry form!! Did I mention I have never rode in a barrel race out of state let alone a futirity? I was a 1D rider back in high school eons ago. My horse is way underjockied as the moment! But I've got the plan. In riding and getting better. Lost 10 of the 50 lbs I want to loose. So come March I will either be happy with things or the laughing stock of D&D. Either way I'm going for it! But yeah I'm scared to death! HECK YA! That is awesome! I wish you all the success in the world in the futurities an beyond! My colt with be at D & D but I won't be jockeying him. With my work schedule i'm not able to take off as i'd need to in order to get to the futurities nor could I get him the places he needed to be to season him, so I decided to send mine off 3 weeks ago to season. Got a text today that he ran 3 tenths off the horse that won the 1D at a jackpot so I think I made the right decision. Gunnar can give him the opportunity I couldn't and get him places he needs to go. I'm pretty excited about the future with these two and hope Ricky doesn't decide to be Richard when the money is on the line. LOL
Maybe if I get down to D & D at least over the weekend we can meet up! My mare would probably been better off being jockied by someone else but I like running barrels so didn't see much fun in that. I have the time and means just maybe not the skill but it's more of a bucket list/experience thing for me. Meet new people and overcome some of my fears. I get anxiety hauling new places all by myself. I made the 9 hr haul to get my new horse all by myself though! Good luck with Ricky! It's not about winning. It's about the ride. I'm sure excited for you and think your story may inspire some of us for the better :) I am SERIOUSLY going to be cheering ya'll on .... VERY cool stuff and way to take the initiative to DO it!!!  Do you need a beer girl or some comic relief to soothe your nerves before you ride? Because, I'll totally come and do that for you :) DUDE ... we'd be the BEST comic relief/ designated beer drinking cheering section EVER!!!!!!
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      Location: In my own world | LRQHS - 2014-11-06 1:54 PM livinonlove&horses - 2014-11-06 1:53 PM Herbie - 2014-11-06 12:36 PM livinonlove&horses - 2014-11-06 10:57 AM well miss Jen I am going for IT! And I'm scared and it's requiring some kicking me in the but by myself but I'm doing it! Finances changed for the better for us recently which means my husband no longer farms and is around to help with our kids. Which means this chick is getting back into barrel racing after a 10 yr break. So what did I do? Get a 3D horse and ease back into things. Heck NO!! I bought an own daughter of FG trained by a futirity rider, that is still futirity eligible. Last week I mailed off my Diamonds and Dirt entry form!! Did I mention I have never rode in a barrel race out of state let alone a futirity? I was a 1D rider back in high school eons ago. My horse is way underjockied as the moment! But I've got the plan. In riding and getting better. Lost 10 of the 50 lbs I want to loose. So come March I will either be happy with things or the laughing stock of D&D. Either way I'm going for it! But yeah I'm scared to death! HECK YA! That is awesome! I wish you all the success in the world in the futurities an beyond! My colt with be at D & D but I won't be jockeying him. With my work schedule i'm not able to take off as i'd need to in order to get to the futurities nor could I get him the places he needed to be to season him, so I decided to send mine off 3 weeks ago to season. Got a text today that he ran 3 tenths off the horse that won the 1D at a jackpot so I think I made the right decision. Gunnar can give him the opportunity I couldn't and get him places he needs to go. I'm pretty excited about the future with these two and hope Ricky doesn't decide to be Richard when the money is on the line. LOL
Maybe if I get down to D & D at least over the weekend we can meet up! My mare would probably been better off being jockied by someone else but I like running barrels so didn't see much fun in that. I have the time and means just maybe not the skill but it's more of a bucket list/experience thing for me. Meet new people and overcome some of my fears. I get anxiety hauling new places all by myself. I made the 9 hr haul to get my new horse all by myself though! Good luck with Ricky! It's not about winning. It's about the ride. I'm sure excited for you and think your story may inspire some of us for the better :)
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      Location: In my own world | LRQHS - 2014-11-06 2:19 PM
lindseylou2290 - 2014-11-06 2:18 PM LRQHS - 2014-11-06 2:09 PM lindseylou2290 - 2014-11-06 2:07 PM LRQHS - 2014-11-06 1:54 PM livinonlove&horses - 2014-11-06 1:53 PM Herbie - 2014-11-06 12:36 PM livinonlove&horses - 2014-11-06 10:57 AM well miss Jen I am going for IT! And I'm scared and it's requiring some kicking me in the but by myself but I'm doing it! Finances changed for the better for us recently which means my husband no longer farms and is around to help with our kids. Which means this chick is getting back into barrel racing after a 10 yr break. So what did I do? Get a 3D horse and ease back into things. Heck NO!! I bought an own daughter of FG trained by a futirity rider, that is still futirity eligible. Last week I mailed off my Diamonds and Dirt entry form!! Did I mention I have never rode in a barrel race out of state let alone a futirity? I was a 1D rider back in high school eons ago. My horse is way underjockied as the moment! But I've got the plan. In riding and getting better. Lost 10 of the 50 lbs I want to loose. So come March I will either be happy with things or the laughing stock of D&D. Either way I'm going for it! But yeah I'm scared to death! HECK YA! That is awesome! I wish you all the success in the world in the futurities an beyond! My colt with be at D & D but I won't be jockeying him. With my work schedule i'm not able to take off as i'd need to in order to get to the futurities nor could I get him the places he needed to be to season him, so I decided to send mine off 3 weeks ago to season. Got a text today that he ran 3 tenths off the horse that won the 1D at a jackpot so I think I made the right decision. Gunnar can give him the opportunity I couldn't and get him places he needs to go. I'm pretty excited about the future with these two and hope Ricky doesn't decide to be Richard when the money is on the line. LOL
Maybe if I get down to D & D at least over the weekend we can meet up! My mare would probably been better off being jockied by someone else but I like running barrels so didn't see much fun in that. I have the time and means just maybe not the skill but it's more of a bucket list/experience thing for me. Meet new people and overcome some of my fears. I get anxiety hauling new places all by myself. I made the 9 hr haul to get my new horse all by myself though! Good luck with Ricky! It's not about winning. It's about the ride. I'm sure excited for you and think your story may inspire some of us for the better :) I am SERIOUSLY going to be cheering ya'll on .... VERY cool stuff and way to take the initiative to DO it!!!  Do you need a beer girl or some comic relief to soothe your nerves before you ride? Because, I'll totally come and do that for you :) DUDE ... we'd be the BEST comic relief/ designated beer drinking cheering section EVER!!!!!!
Truf...
I haven't rode in so long I don't know what kind of mess I'll be like. I don't like beer. Bring vodka! I'm sure I'll be a mess. I went to an exhibition the other day. First with my new horse. I am always a breakfast person but when I got up I wasn't hungry. I learned a long time ago if I'm not hungry don't eat. Your asking for it if you do! Finally got hungry after my run so it was my nerves I'm sure! |
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lindseylou2290 - 2014-11-06 2:18 PM LRQHS - 2014-11-06 2:09 PM lindseylou2290 - 2014-11-06 2:07 PM LRQHS - 2014-11-06 1:54 PM livinonlove&horses - 2014-11-06 1:53 PM Herbie - 2014-11-06 12:36 PM livinonlove&horses - 2014-11-06 10:57 AM well miss Jen I am going for IT! And I'm scared and it's requiring some kicking me in the but by myself but I'm doing it! Finances changed for the better for us recently which means my husband no longer farms and is around to help with our kids. Which means this chick is getting back into barrel racing after a 10 yr break. So what did I do? Get a 3D horse and ease back into things. Heck NO!! I bought an own daughter of FG trained by a futirity rider, that is still futirity eligible. Last week I mailed off my Diamonds and Dirt entry form!! Did I mention I have never rode in a barrel race out of state let alone a futirity? I was a 1D rider back in high school eons ago. My horse is way underjockied as the moment! But I've got the plan. In riding and getting better. Lost 10 of the 50 lbs I want to loose. So come March I will either be happy with things or the laughing stock of D&D. Either way I'm going for it! But yeah I'm scared to death! HECK YA! That is awesome! I wish you all the success in the world in the futurities an beyond! My colt with be at D & D but I won't be jockeying him. With my work schedule i'm not able to take off as i'd need to in order to get to the futurities nor could I get him the places he needed to be to season him, so I decided to send mine off 3 weeks ago to season. Got a text today that he ran 3 tenths off the horse that won the 1D at a jackpot so I think I made the right decision. Gunnar can give him the opportunity I couldn't and get him places he needs to go. I'm pretty excited about the future with these two and hope Ricky doesn't decide to be Richard when the money is on the line. LOL
Maybe if I get down to D & D at least over the weekend we can meet up! My mare would probably been better off being jockied by someone else but I like running barrels so didn't see much fun in that. I have the time and means just maybe not the skill but it's more of a bucket list/experience thing for me. Meet new people and overcome some of my fears. I get anxiety hauling new places all by myself. I made the 9 hr haul to get my new horse all by myself though! Good luck with Ricky! It's not about winning. It's about the ride. I'm sure excited for you and think your story may inspire some of us for the better :) I am SERIOUSLY going to be cheering ya'll on .... VERY cool stuff and way to take the initiative to DO it!!!  Do you need a beer girl or some comic relief to soothe your nerves before you ride? Because, I'll totally come and do that for you :) DUDE ... we'd be the BEST comic relief/ designated beer drinking cheering section EVER!!!!!!
Truf...
I haven't rode in so long I don't know what kind of mess I'll be like. I don't like beer. Bring vodka! I'm sure I'll be a mess. I went to an exhibition the other day. First with my new horse. I am always a breakfast person but when I got up I wasn't hungry. I learned a long time ago if I'm not hungry don't eat. Your asking for it if you do! Finally got hungry after my run so it was my nerves I'm sure!
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      Location: In my own world | lindseylou2290 - 2014-11-06 2:33 PM livinonlove&horses - 2014-11-06 2:24 PM LRQHS - 2014-11-06 2:19 PM lindseylou2290 - 2014-11-06 2:18 PM LRQHS - 2014-11-06 2:09 PM lindseylou2290 - 2014-11-06 2:07 PM LRQHS - 2014-11-06 1:54 PM livinonlove&horses - 2014-11-06 1:53 PM Herbie - 2014-11-06 12:36 PM livinonlove&horses - 2014-11-06 10:57 AM well miss Jen I am going for IT! And I'm scared and it's requiring some kicking me in the but by myself but I'm doing it! Finances changed for the better for us recently which means my husband no longer farms and is around to help with our kids. Which means this chick is getting back into barrel racing after a 10 yr break. So what did I do? Get a 3D horse and ease back into things. Heck NO!! I bought an own daughter of FG trained by a futirity rider, that is still futirity eligible. Last week I mailed off my Diamonds and Dirt entry form!! Did I mention I have never rode in a barrel race out of state let alone a futirity? I was a 1D rider back in high school eons ago. My horse is way underjockied as the moment! But I've got the plan. In riding and getting better. Lost 10 of the 50 lbs I want to loose. So come March I will either be happy with things or the laughing stock of D&D. Either way I'm going for it! But yeah I'm scared to death! HECK YA! That is awesome! I wish you all the success in the world in the futurities an beyond! My colt with be at D & D but I won't be jockeying him. With my work schedule i'm not able to take off as i'd need to in order to get to the futurities nor could I get him the places he needed to be to season him, so I decided to send mine off 3 weeks ago to season. Got a text today that he ran 3 tenths off the horse that won the 1D at a jackpot so I think I made the right decision. Gunnar can give him the opportunity I couldn't and get him places he needs to go. I'm pretty excited about the future with these two and hope Ricky doesn't decide to be Richard when the money is on the line. LOL
Maybe if I get down to D & D at least over the weekend we can meet up! My mare would probably been better off being jockied by someone else but I like running barrels so didn't see much fun in that. I have the time and means just maybe not the skill but it's more of a bucket list/experience thing for me. Meet new people and overcome some of my fears. I get anxiety hauling new places all by myself. I made the 9 hr haul to get my new horse all by myself though! Good luck with Ricky! It's not about winning. It's about the ride. I'm sure excited for you and think your story may inspire some of us for the better :) I am SERIOUSLY going to be cheering ya'll on .... VERY cool stuff and way to take the initiative to DO it!!!  Do you need a beer girl or some comic relief to soothe your nerves before you ride? Because, I'll totally come and do that for you :) DUDE ... we'd be the BEST comic relief/ designated beer drinking cheering section EVER!!!!!! Truf... I haven't rode in so long I don't know what kind of mess I'll be like. I don't like beer. Bring vodka! I'm sure I'll be a mess. I went to an exhibition the other day. First with my new horse. I am always a breakfast person but when I got up I wasn't hungry. I learned a long time ago if I'm not hungry don't eat. Your asking for it if you do! Finally got hungry after my run so it was my nerves I'm sure! We'll drink the beer, cheer, and mix you bloody mary's. Deal???!
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      Location: In my own world | Herbie - 2014-11-06 2:16 PM
livinonlove&horses - 2014-11-06 1:53 PM Herbie - 2014-11-06 12:36 PM livinonlove&horses - 2014-11-06 10:57 AM well miss Jen I am going for IT! And I'm scared and it's requiring some kicking me in the but by myself but I'm doing it! Finances changed for the better for us recently which means my husband no longer farms and is around to help with our kids. Which means this chick is getting back into barrel racing after a 10 yr break. So what did I do? Get a 3D horse and ease back into things. Heck NO!! I bought an own daughter of FG trained by a futirity rider, that is still futirity eligible. Last week I mailed off my Diamonds and Dirt entry form!! Did I mention I have never rode in a barrel race out of state let alone a futirity? I was a 1D rider back in high school eons ago. My horse is way underjockied as the moment! But I've got the plan. In riding and getting better. Lost 10 of the 50 lbs I want to loose. So come March I will either be happy with things or the laughing stock of D&D. Either way I'm going for it! But yeah I'm scared to death! HECK YA! That is awesome! I wish you all the success in the world in the futurities an beyond! My colt with be at D & D but I won't be jockeying him. With my work schedule i'm not able to take off as i'd need to in order to get to the futurities nor could I get him the places he needed to be to season him, so I decided to send mine off 3 weeks ago to season. Got a text today that he ran 3 tenths off the horse that won the 1D at a jackpot so I think I made the right decision. Gunnar can give him the opportunity I couldn't and get him places he needs to go. I'm pretty excited about the future with these two and hope Ricky doesn't decide to be Richard when the money is on the line. LOL Maybe if I get down to D & D at least over the weekend we can meet up! My mare would probably been better off being jockied by someone else but I like running barrels so didn't see much fun in that. I have the time and means just maybe not the skill but it's more of a bucket list/experience thing for me. Meet new people and overcome some of my fears. I get anxiety hauling new places all by myself. I made the 9 hr haul to get my new horse all by myself though! Good luck with Ricky! I'm jealous! I wish I could have done this too but just no way. I used to have a futurity horse every year that I had raised and trained and would haul and then sell as a later 4 or 5 YO. I haven't been able to run one at a futurity since 2004 and I miss it! But my job doens't allow me to take off the week at a time to go to the futurities, so I shall live vicariously through you and my colt! So excited for you and hope to see you in many short gos! You're my hero and i'm pulling for ya! Until I can quit my job and ride for living (BLAHAHAHAHAHAHA) i'm going to be stuck letting someone else jockey the one i've trained.
Well at least you have the skills! I rode the same horse for 9 yrs. and then got married had kids college and stuff so I retired her. I haven't rode 50 different horses so I don't feel like I have the experience. But I love to learn! I hope you get to get back at it. I'm sure sitting on the side line is hard when you know how to play the game. I'll pray things work out so you can come show me how it's done!! |
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      Location: In my own world | LRQHS - 2014-11-06 1:51 PM
livinonlove&horses - 2014-11-06 10:57 AM well miss Jen I am going for IT! And I'm scared and it's requiring some kicking me in the but by myself but I'm doing it! Finances changed for the better for us recently which means my husband no longer farms and is around to help with our kids. Which means this chick is getting back into barrel racing after a 10 yr break. So what did I do? Get a 3D horse and ease back into things. Heck NO!! I bought an own daughter of FG trained by a futirity rider, that is still futirity eligible. Last week I mailed off my Diamonds and Dirt entry form!! Did I mention I have never rode in a barrel race out of state let alone a futirity? I was a 1D rider back in high school eons ago. My horse is way underjockied as the moment! But I've got the plan. In riding and getting better. Lost 10 of the 50 lbs I want to loose. So come March I will either be happy with things or the laughing stock of D&D. Either way I'm going for it! But yeah I'm scared to death!
OH wow! This made me get goose bumps reading. How stinking awesome! I'm totally on your support team now and want updates!
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I was Betty Crocker a few days ago. Today I am inspiration to go after what you want.
How many of you are sitting back wishing, dreaming and wanting something so bad but never go after it for whatever reason......scared of failure, don't believe in yourself, etc? Well, today is the day. Tomorrow is too. It's time to go after what you want. Grab yourself by the britches and get after it! Why? Because, as my friend Jessi Quarles says, the juice is definitely worth the squeeze :)
I did. I went after a promotion that I REALLY wanted at my office. (I have never gone after a promotion before.) And got passed up. So now I am crestfallen, angry, and unmotivated. |
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Fab, we'll need more than me and Jen ;) We need a big cheering section!!!!
ETA .... and we'll all need to support each other while imbibing!!!
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      Location: In my own world | runningfree123 - 2014-11-06 3:00 PM
I have been thinking alot about this very thing lately. I will be 49 in a few weeks and I decided the things I regretted the most were the things I was to afraid to do so I didn't do. I spent years with my daughter doing her barrel racing thing and I always wanted to do something with horses- but didn't because of my many hundreds of reasons and excuses. So this spring I bought a very nice cutting bred little gelding and I have gotten into the EXCA Association for the cowboy extreme racing. I found a great trainer- in fact she just won the furturity championship on her horse just last weekend a the finals. And this coming 2015- I am going to start competing. My motto right now is Buckle or Cookie!! I want to lose 20 lbs by March 14th. Everyone is giving me a hard time and trying to feed me but I don't care. Cause I shall be wearing my very own shiny new buckle by Oct 2015. I even made myself up alittle EXCA Buckle Clip art and a chocolate chip cookie little banner thing to remind me of the goal daily. And I made myself a little quote to hang up as well. "Go confidently in the direction of your dreams for they have already come true and are waiting for you to claim them." Some of it I stole and just added my own thoughts to it. So many times we tell ourselves all kinds of crazy things about why we can't do something. Well I am telling myself all kinds of crazy ideas why I can do it. Cause I am doing it. I have also read some really great books lately by Jane Savoire and a couple of other authors that are just as wonderful. Life is WAY TO SHORT- and we don't have any idea what time is left. I have spent way to many years wishing and dreaming so I am spending the rest of what is left DOING.. Because why not??
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      Location: In my own world | barrelracr131 - 2014-11-06 2:12 PM
I feel the same way- someone could else could probably do better with my big goober of a gelding-
but I like running him, so off I run :) We can improve together, and he's taught me a lot.
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      Location: NE Texas | livinonlove&horses - 2014-11-06 2:47 PM Herbie - 2014-11-06 2:16 PM livinonlove&horses - 2014-11-06 1:53 PM Herbie - 2014-11-06 12:36 PM livinonlove&horses - 2014-11-06 10:57 AM well miss Jen I am going for IT! And I'm scared and it's requiring some kicking me in the but by myself but I'm doing it! Finances changed for the better for us recently which means my husband no longer farms and is around to help with our kids. Which means this chick is getting back into barrel racing after a 10 yr break. So what did I do? Get a 3D horse and ease back into things. Heck NO!! I bought an own daughter of FG trained by a futirity rider, that is still futirity eligible. Last week I mailed off my Diamonds and Dirt entry form!! Did I mention I have never rode in a barrel race out of state let alone a futirity? I was a 1D rider back in high school eons ago. My horse is way underjockied as the moment! But I've got the plan. In riding and getting better. Lost 10 of the 50 lbs I want to loose. So come March I will either be happy with things or the laughing stock of D&D. Either way I'm going for it! But yeah I'm scared to death! HECK YA! That is awesome! I wish you all the success in the world in the futurities an beyond! My colt with be at D & D but I won't be jockeying him. With my work schedule i'm not able to take off as i'd need to in order to get to the futurities nor could I get him the places he needed to be to season him, so I decided to send mine off 3 weeks ago to season. Got a text today that he ran 3 tenths off the horse that won the 1D at a jackpot so I think I made the right decision. Gunnar can give him the opportunity I couldn't and get him places he needs to go. I'm pretty excited about the future with these two and hope Ricky doesn't decide to be Richard when the money is on the line. LOL
Maybe if I get down to D & D at least over the weekend we can meet up! My mare would probably been better off being jockied by someone else but I like running barrels so didn't see much fun in that. I have the time and means just maybe not the skill but it's more of a bucket list/experience thing for me. Meet new people and overcome some of my fears. I get anxiety hauling new places all by myself. I made the 9 hr haul to get my new horse all by myself though! Good luck with Ricky! I'm jealous! I wish I could have done this too but just no way. I used to have a futurity horse every year that I had raised and trained and would haul and then sell as a later 4 or 5 YO. I haven't been able to run one at a futurity since 2004 and I miss it! But my job doens't allow me to take off the week at a time to go to the futurities, so I shall live vicariously through you and my colt! So excited for you and hope to see you in many short gos! You're my hero and i'm pulling for ya! Until I can quit my job and ride for living (BLAHAHAHAHAHAHA) i'm going to be stuck letting someone else jockey the one i've trained. Well at least you have the skills! I rode the same horse for 9 yrs. and then got married had kids college and stuff so I retired her. I haven't rode 50 different horses so I don't feel like I have the experience. But I love to learn! I hope you get to get back at it. I'm sure sitting on the side line is hard when you know how to play the game. I'll pray things work out so you can come show me how it's done!!
Well I hope it's you showing me the ropes. Gonna be a fun year no matter what happens. I'm so proud you posted and proud you're doing this! I look forward to meeting you hopefully at D & D and maybe LRQHS and lindseylou can come join us! Yay for 2015!!!!!! |
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     Location: In The Land of Cotton | runningfree123 - 2014-11-06 4:00 PM I have been thinking alot about this very thing lately. I will be 49 in a few weeks and I decided the things I regretted the most were the things I was to afraid to do so I didn't do. I spent years with my daughter doing her barrel racing thing and I always wanted to do something with horses- but didn't because of my many hundreds of reasons and excuses. So this spring I bought a very nice cutting bred little gelding and I have gotten into the EXCA Association for the cowboy extreme racing. I found a great trainer- in fact she just won the furturity championship on her horse just last weekend a the finals. And this coming 2015- I am going to start competing. My motto right now is Buckle or Cookie!! I want to lose 20 lbs by March 14th. Everyone is giving me a hard time and trying to feed me but I don't care. Cause I shall be wearing my very own shiny new buckle by Oct 2015. I even made myself up alittle EXCA Buckle Clip art and a chocolate chip cookie little banner thing to remind me of the goal daily. And I made myself a little quote to hang up as well. "Go confidently in the direction of your dreams for they have already come true and are waiting for you to claim them." Some of it I stole and just added my own thoughts to it. So many times we tell ourselves all kinds of crazy things about why we can't do something. Well I am telling myself all kinds of crazy ideas why I can do it. Cause I am doing it. I have also read some really great books lately by Jane Savoire and a couple of other authors that are just as wonderful. Life is WAY TO SHORT- and we don't have any idea what time is left. I have spent way to many years wishing and dreaming so I am spending the rest of what is left DOING.. Because why not??
You go girl - setting goals is a great thing to do.
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      Location: NE Texas | runningfree123 - 2014-11-06 3:00 PM I have been thinking alot about this very thing lately. I will be 49 in a few weeks and I decided the things I regretted the most were the things I was to afraid to do so I didn't do. I spent years with my daughter doing her barrel racing thing and I always wanted to do something with horses- but didn't because of my many hundreds of reasons and excuses. So this spring I bought a very nice cutting bred little gelding and I have gotten into the EXCA Association for the cowboy extreme racing. I found a great trainer- in fact she just won the furturity championship on her horse just last weekend a the finals. And this coming 2015- I am going to start competing. My motto right now is Buckle or Cookie!! I want to lose 20 lbs by March 14th. Everyone is giving me a hard time and trying to feed me but I don't care. Cause I shall be wearing my very own shiny new buckle by Oct 2015. I even made myself up alittle EXCA Buckle Clip art and a chocolate chip cookie little banner thing to remind me of the goal daily. And I made myself a little quote to hang up as well. "Go confidently in the direction of your dreams for they have already come true and are waiting for you to claim them." Some of it I stole and just added my own thoughts to it. So many times we tell ourselves all kinds of crazy things about why we can't do something. Well I am telling myself all kinds of crazy ideas why I can do it. Cause I am doing it. I have also read some really great books lately by Jane Savoire and a couple of other authors that are just as wonderful. Life is WAY TO SHORT- and we don't have any idea what time is left. I have spent way to many years wishing and dreaming so I am spending the rest of what is left DOING.. Because why not??
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Rad Dork
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   Location: Oklahoma | What am I waiting for?? My gelding to get better.... it's been a very disheartening year, but I have to keep telling myself that I've done more these past six months than I did for the last seven years that I wasn't riding.. and certainly learned more this year than I ever did all those early years combined! I only got to make about 10-12 competition runs in the little time that I had on my gelding and we were just starting to get together, but I knew something was off and we finally found it at the vet. Horses are the one aspect of my life that I can always stay positive in... I might go to the barn and bawl my eyes out sometimes, but I know that he'll be back and we'll eventually get together. I just have to keep reminding myself to not get caught up comparing myself to anyone else.
All I really wanted for this year was to be able to get eight BBRs in so I can attend the world finals next April. I accomplished that goal and also set out to win a bonus qualifier on a whim.. and it happened! I know that was God's way of showing me that I need to just suck it up, stick with it and know this time will pass faster than I think it will.... who knows. Maybe I'll even be feeling good enough to fill out that entry form to the Bonus Race Finals while I'm waiting! |
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     Location: In The Land of Cotton | I was not going to reply to this other then tell others they can do it, but here goes. I too started over, at over age 50. I got a really nice horse and then he got EPM. I had not been on a barrel horse since I was 21. Long time off. So, I have had to start over with my husband's reject cutter and a broodmare that we had. This year (2014), I decided to set a goal and go for it. I had sold my babies I raised because I knew that I was not capable of riding them. So, these last two I have kept. I have said do or die. I joined a small riding club that had a straight payout. This year I won an average at a Pac West Race (4D), and I was second for the year in both barrels and poles. It has made me realize, maybe I can do this again. So, anyone thinking 57 is too old think again. Because this old lady is going to ride her horses or die trying.    |
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 Total Germophobe
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       Location: Montana | LRQHS - 2014-11-06 12:52 PM mtcanchazer - 2014-11-06 11:39 AM LRQHS, I love you! Well, I love your post any ways, LOL. Thank you so much for posting, just what I needed to hear! I love motivational posts.
BTW, Bingo, may I just say don't feel bad about the house loan process. My parents have gone through this lately with a refinanc, and it is a mess anymore. There is no winning I swear as my parents have good credit. My folks were approved, but the appraiser gave a way low end appraisal (between 60-70% of what our house is actually worth if we went to sell it today) so they ended up not refinancing. Oh well, c'est la vie. And if you are me, la vie en rose! I love you too, little buddy :)
Should I be afraid??? LOL
Actually, your post gave me some more motivation on my colt...not that I didn't have any, but sometimes when I get to thinking about all the training it seems overbearing, but when I get someone that basically says " You can do it!" it makes me a whole lot more confident. One of my favorite sayings is from Henry Ford, "Whether you think you can or you think you can't, you're right." |
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 Ms. Poutability
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      Location: In my own world | Herbie - 2014-11-06 3:11 PM
livinonlove&horses - 2014-11-06 2:47 PM Herbie - 2014-11-06 2:16 PM livinonlove&horses - 2014-11-06 1:53 PM Herbie - 2014-11-06 12:36 PM livinonlove&horses - 2014-11-06 10:57 AM well miss Jen I am going for IT! And I'm scared and it's requiring some kicking me in the but by myself but I'm doing it! Finances changed for the better for us recently which means my husband no longer farms and is around to help with our kids. Which means this chick is getting back into barrel racing after a 10 yr break. So what did I do? Get a 3D horse and ease back into things. Heck NO!! I bought an own daughter of FG trained by a futirity rider, that is still futirity eligible. Last week I mailed off my Diamonds and Dirt entry form!! Did I mention I have never rode in a barrel race out of state let alone a futirity? I was a 1D rider back in high school eons ago. My horse is way underjockied as the moment! But I've got the plan. In riding and getting better. Lost 10 of the 50 lbs I want to loose. So come March I will either be happy with things or the laughing stock of D&D. Either way I'm going for it! But yeah I'm scared to death! HECK YA! That is awesome! I wish you all the success in the world in the futurities an beyond! My colt with be at D & D but I won't be jockeying him. With my work schedule i'm not able to take off as i'd need to in order to get to the futurities nor could I get him the places he needed to be to season him, so I decided to send mine off 3 weeks ago to season. Got a text today that he ran 3 tenths off the horse that won the 1D at a jackpot so I think I made the right decision. Gunnar can give him the opportunity I couldn't and get him places he needs to go. I'm pretty excited about the future with these two and hope Ricky doesn't decide to be Richard when the money is on the line. LOL
Maybe if I get down to D & D at least over the weekend we can meet up! My mare would probably been better off being jockied by someone else but I like running barrels so didn't see much fun in that. I have the time and means just maybe not the skill but it's more of a bucket list/experience thing for me. Meet new people and overcome some of my fears. I get anxiety hauling new places all by myself. I made the 9 hr haul to get my new horse all by myself though! Good luck with Ricky! I'm jealous! I wish I could have done this too but just no way. I used to have a futurity horse every year that I had raised and trained and would haul and then sell as a later 4 or 5 YO. I haven't been able to run one at a futurity since 2004 and I miss it! But my job doens't allow me to take off the week at a time to go to the futurities, so I shall live vicariously through you and my colt! So excited for you and hope to see you in many short gos! You're my hero and i'm pulling for ya! Until I can quit my job and ride for living (BLAHAHAHAHAHAHA) i'm going to be stuck letting someone else jockey the one i've trained. Well at least you have the skills! I rode the same horse for 9 yrs. and then got married had kids college and stuff so I retired her. I haven't rode 50 different horses so I don't feel like I have the experience. But I love to learn! I hope you get to get back at it. I'm sure sitting on the side line is hard when you know how to play the game. I'll pray things work out so you can come show me how it's done!!
Well I hope it's you showing me the ropes. Gonna be a fun year no matter what happens. I'm so proud you posted and proud you're doing this! I look forward to meeting you hopefully at D & D and maybe LRQHS and lindseylou can come join us! Yay for 2015!!!!!!
It is going to be a fun year! A big transformation for me! I've been a stay at home mom for the last 10 yrs. now I will be on the road on and off with me horse. Leaving my husband home with my kids. Yikes!!! Would be so cool if I got to meet some of you guys!!!!! |
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 Ms. Poutability
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Well that sounds like a pretty good comeback to me!!! Way to go! |
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 Ms. Poutability
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      Location: In my own world | sorrel horse ranch - 2014-11-06 3:37 PM
You are so awesome. Go big or go home!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Heck yeah! After futurities I'm headed for The American!! Lol. Well who knows. Maybe after a few years of seasoning I'll put that on my radar!! |
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This is so cool and what I love about owning and having horses.. It doesn't matter how old you are.... you can do it. We have a lady in late 50's or early 60's that asked if she could start coming and join in our lessons that a friend and I are taking for the EXCA stuff.. She is amazing. She has severe rhumtoid arthritis. Some days, she hurts so bad you can tell that it is not a good day. She has a wonderful horse and he helps her out.. Well most days. Sometimes he's a stinker. She has set some great goals as well to start competing in the ride smart age group and will start competing in the spring. Hey, I figure if she can endure I can perservere. She's such an inspiration. We have told her this, but I don't think she really realizes how much we truly mean it. Her hands are so gnarled that she can hardly hold the reins, but she comes ready to ride. We love her! So... I think it's AWESOME what you have accomplished. and it exciting. SO CONGRATULATIONS ON YOUR WINNINGS! |
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 Location: Oklahoma | livinonlove&horses - 2014-11-06 7:02 PM Herbie - 2014-11-06 3:11 PM livinonlove&horses - 2014-11-06 2:47 PM Herbie - 2014-11-06 2:16 PM livinonlove&horses - 2014-11-06 1:53 PM Herbie - 2014-11-06 12:36 PM livinonlove&horses - 2014-11-06 10:57 AM well miss Jen I am going for IT! And I'm scared and it's requiring some kicking me in the but by myself but I'm doing it! Finances changed for the better for us recently which means my husband no longer farms and is around to help with our kids. Which means this chick is getting back into barrel racing after a 10 yr break. So what did I do? Get a 3D horse and ease back into things. Heck NO!! I bought an own daughter of FG trained by a futirity rider, that is still futirity eligible. Last week I mailed off my Diamonds and Dirt entry form!! Did I mention I have never rode in a barrel race out of state let alone a futirity? I was a 1D rider back in high school eons ago. My horse is way underjockied as the moment! But I've got the plan. In riding and getting better. Lost 10 of the 50 lbs I want to loose. So come March I will either be happy with things or the laughing stock of D&D. Either way I'm going for it! But yeah I'm scared to death! HECK YA! That is awesome! I wish you all the success in the world in the futurities an beyond! My colt with be at D & D but I won't be jockeying him. With my work schedule i'm not able to take off as i'd need to in order to get to the futurities nor could I get him the places he needed to be to season him, so I decided to send mine off 3 weeks ago to season. Got a text today that he ran 3 tenths off the horse that won the 1D at a jackpot so I think I made the right decision. Gunnar can give him the opportunity I couldn't and get him places he needs to go. I'm pretty excited about the future with these two and hope Ricky doesn't decide to be Richard when the money is on the line. LOL
Maybe if I get down to D & D at least over the weekend we can meet up! My mare would probably been better off being jockied by someone else but I like running barrels so didn't see much fun in that. I have the time and means just maybe not the skill but it's more of a bucket list/experience thing for me. Meet new people and overcome some of my fears. I get anxiety hauling new places all by myself. I made the 9 hr haul to get my new horse all by myself though! Good luck with Ricky! I'm jealous! I wish I could have done this too but just no way. I used to have a futurity horse every year that I had raised and trained and would haul and then sell as a later 4 or 5 YO. I haven't been able to run one at a futurity since 2004 and I miss it! But my job doens't allow me to take off the week at a time to go to the futurities, so I shall live vicariously through you and my colt! So excited for you and hope to see you in many short gos! You're my hero and i'm pulling for ya! Until I can quit my job and ride for living (BLAHAHAHAHAHAHA) i'm going to be stuck letting someone else jockey the one i've trained. Well at least you have the skills! I rode the same horse for 9 yrs. and then got married had kids college and stuff so I retired her. I haven't rode 50 different horses so I don't feel like I have the experience. But I love to learn! I hope you get to get back at it. I'm sure sitting on the side line is hard when you know how to play the game. I'll pray things work out so you can come show me how it's done!! Well I hope it's you showing me the ropes. Gonna be a fun year no matter what happens. I'm so proud you posted and proud you're doing this! I look forward to meeting you hopefully at D & D and maybe LRQHS and lindseylou can come join us! Yay for 2015!!!!!! It is going to be a fun year! A big transformation for me! I've been a stay at home mom for the last 10 yrs. now I will be on the road on and off with me horse. Leaving my husband home with my kids. Yikes!!! Would be so cool if I got to meet some of you guys!!!!!
That is great and exciting.LOVE TRANSFORMATIONS!!! GOOD LUCK AND HAVE FUN! Sounds like you have a great and supportive husband, and that is a treasure for sure. I don't know what i would do without mine. I am so excited for next year myself. I can't hardly believe how everything has come together. LIFE IS EXCITING....  |
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  Shipwrecked and Flat Out Zapped
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          Location: DUMPING CATS AND PIGS IN TEXAS :) | Consider me inspired guys. I came home at almost dark and put 15 minutes of riding on El Scorcho. I've smiled at the stories you've told all day. You know, we could be a mighty force of positive if we combined forces :) I'm seeing a D and D trip I'm my future. Don't be shocked when I walk up behind you and bear hug your butt :) |
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 I Drink Whiskey in Boys Shorts
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| I LOVE this thread! I have only mildly played with my horse since I started a thread awhile back about getting motivated again. I am stretched thin on a regular basis and never seem to make the time. I have however started to make the time to get myself in shape again and am seeing the rewards of that now. I am hoping it will bleed over. So my partners in crime. Here goes:
I have a really nice mare that acts like such a booger on the ground sometimes that it is too much work to get her saddled and ridden. I entertain the idea of selling her because she isn't the escape I need right now. I have a one year old daughter, and two pre-teen boys whom I home school and my fiance is gone for two weeks at a time, so I am the only and only around here.. When he is home our time is usually spent catching up, running errands, and allowing him time to play so I get no relief from the baby yet. I would love to go grab my horse and get her saddled without putting in more effort to do that than to actually ride. Why have I not sold her? Hard to market a mare like this when I can't invest the time to get her to a point where I can sell her. Also, she is so nice to ride. Super smooth and is the same way on the pattern. I think she is going to be awesome when finished. She just cruises right now and will turn on speed if asked so she is a good fit in that sense while I get going again. So lately I have been pulling her out, tying her up, brushing her, and then leaving her on the trailer. Sometimes I work her on the ground if I have the time. I figure this is better than just leaving her to sit in the pen. My fiance is supposed to get her ridden down a little for me so I can take over when he leaves, but that hasn't happened yet. Sigh. I miss the days of getting to ride when I want.
I have no idea where that tangent was supposed to go, but there it is ladies. My current situation and obstacles. I want to get her legged back up to hit some jackpots down south this winter and get ready to hit some amateur/open rodeos next summer or fall. Is there hope for me? Somebody please kick me in the ass. Mail me a timeout button so I can pause time when needed, I could use a solid nap right now. Ok. Headed outside to catch her up and tie her to the trailer for a bit. Thanks for listening! |
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    Location: Southeast Louisiana | ~BINGO~ - 2014-11-06 10:30 AM I would never say I am anything less than beyond blessed in my life. But sometimes going for things doesn't help make anything happen. Hubby and I thought we were finally in a position to be approved for a home loan. We have worked hard to clean up credit, put away for a nice downpayment. Sold things we didn't want to so we could add to our down. Got prequalified, pending we take in tax information. And it all fell apart yesterday.
Sorry.....didn't want to be a downer. LOL. Go for your goals, guys.
Keep your chin up! Things ARE happening, just not as fast as you would like them to happen, or not the way you want them to happen right now. You are setting yourselves up for when the right place comes along. We had a similar experience. I see now that, even though I didn't get what I wanted, I did get what I needed. God had other plans, I just had to quit fighting him on it. I wanted 30+ acres of land I was absolutely in love with. It was in a terrible school district, tho. But, it was just us two. Fast forward three years and I have a baby. That place would not have worked at all for my current situation. I can name several other reasons it would not have been the right place for us, but I didn't know that at the time. |
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 Location: Oklahoma | Nita - 2014-11-08 5:13 PM ~BINGO~ - 2014-11-06 10:30 AM I would never say I am anything less than beyond blessed in my life. But sometimes going for things doesn't help make anything happen. Hubby and I thought we were finally in a position to be approved for a home loan. We have worked hard to clean up credit, put away for a nice downpayment. Sold things we didn't want to so we could add to our down. Got prequalified, pending we take in tax information. And it all fell apart yesterday.
Sorry.....didn't want to be a downer. LOL. Go for your goals, guys. Keep your chin up! Things ARE happening, just not as fast as you would like them to happen, or not the way you want them to happen right now. You are setting yourselves up for when the right place comes along. We had a similar experience. I see now that, even though I didn't get what I wanted, I did get what I needed. God had other plans, I just had to quit fighting him on it. I wanted 30+ acres of land I was absolutely in love with. It was in a terrible school district, tho. But, it was just us two. Fast forward three years and I have a baby. That place would not have worked at all for my current situation. I can name several other reasons it would not have been the right place for us, but I didn't know that at the time.
You know sometimes things fall apart because that isn't the plan..... but it sure sucks and stinks at the time that it is happening. It's hard to imagine that sometimes the "what's waiting" is better than "what I want right now".
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  Shipwrecked and Flat Out Zapped
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          Location: DUMPING CATS AND PIGS IN TEXAS :) | I need some more encouraging stories.....let's hear what you want to go for. |
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  Whack and Roll
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      Location: NE Texas | My goal is to run Ricky at the WPRA finals in the futurity next year....after he and Gunnar give em heck at the other futurities. Then if Ms. Ellie hangs around long enough we'll futurity her in 2016 and maybe Rail Ditch and the new kiddo in 2017. My goal is to see my young horses go on and make rodeo horses either for me or for someone else. Already have several out there, but I really believe the crew i've got lined up now is the best group of young horses i've ever had the pleasure of starting! I'd love to see one carrying my brand run up the tunnel at the Thomas and Mack one day even if i'm not the one running them.
If all continues to go well with Ricky and he continues....i'd love to try and qualify him for the American if he makes that calibar of horse.
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