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Location: western Nebraska | The post on the clinic for women over 40 got me thinking. I would like to hear how some of you 45 and up feel your barrel racing has changed.
For me -I am heavier than I was-my balance isn't as good and I hurt all over. I know I am not as competive as I used to be-I think I have really nice horses but I haven't actually kicked or even thought about running hard to the first barrel for years now. I seem to be more interested in making a nice smooth run -a confidence builder-for my horses. I used to really not like the 4ds-now I love them. I fit in.
It is funny when the younger girls look at me -I know they are thinking-why is she still here! Or yea, more added money. I know that the older you get the better horse you need to be competive. I used to be able to win on about anything-I thought I could so I did. Now -I am just not sure anymore.
Anyway I would love to hear you all's thoughts on this.
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Location: Texas | Well I am 19 but I can say Just because someone is over 45 I would still be scared they could outrun me lol now 60+ is when I think it really slows down for most people. I think alot of women going to the NFR this year are over 40. Anyways I say go until you can't anymore! Who cares if you even get a 5D check, you've worked your whole life most likely to get to do this, go out and ENJOY it!  |
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Location: Adopt a homeless pet - www.petfinder.com! | I am totally strugging with this. Will be 45 next month. Still have horses but have barely ridden in the last 8 years, but prior to that I rode since I was a kid. Bought a new guy who has 6 months cutting training, ready to be started on barrels and guess what? I'm not!! Apparently my sense if balance and confidence went poof while I was off. Now starting lessons twice a week on a dressage horse just to get my balance and confidence back. On top of that I'm thinking the same things you are as I have aches and pains and not as much energy as I used to. Wondering when I get back in riding shape if I I'll be able to keep it all together with a full-time job and wonder if I'll be as competitive as I was. Old age sucks, but I'm determined not to let it get me down! |
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Location: In The Land of Cotton | doglady - 2014-11-17 3:28 PM The post on the clinic for women over 40 got me thinking. I would like to hear how some of you 45 and up feel your barrel racing has changed.
For me -I am heavier than I was-my balance isn't as good and I hurt all over. I know I am not as competive as I used to be-I think I have really nice horses but I haven't actually kicked or even thought about running hard to the first barrel for years now. I seem to be more interested in making a nice smooth run -a confidence builder-for my horses. I used to really not like the 4ds-now I love them. I fit in.
It is funny when the younger girls look at me -I know they are thinking-why is she still here! Or yea, more added money. I know that the older you get the better horse you need to be competive. I used to be able to win on about anything-I thought I could so I did. Now -I am just not sure anymore.
Anyway I would love to hear you all's thoughts on this.
Well, I watched your videos from this past week. If you are chunky - then I must be fat! LOL
However, look at this way - at least we still get to go and have fun. You usually don't have to worry as much about the ground as you did when you fully rodeoed. And, money is money - no matter whether it comes from a 4D or not. ANd the younger girls, well, they are probably wishing you had stayed home. Because if you weren't any good at our age - you probably wouldn't be there. |
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Location: western Nebraska | I was down to three horses-a really good one, a rehab, and a 5 year old. The 5 year old bucked me off -a year ago last May. I sold the really nice one to pay the hospital bills and the 5 year old at killer price back to the girl I bought him from. I was riding the recliner for months watching videos of horses for sale. I just kind of gathered up some more projects. And I keep gathering. Now I have 10 head. Probably some of the nicest horses I have ever owned-or will be one of these days. But -like today- it is 20 degrees and windy so I am in the house beading. It is supposed to be in the 40's starting tomorrow so I am going to get back out riding. In the old days I would have been out riding no matter how cold. I have definately started feeling the cold!
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Location: North Dakota | I'm not quite 40 yet, but, I've come to a conclusion, I'm the nicest "wanna be" I know :) I've never won much of anything, yet I still keep going. The last buckle I won (I know some people have never won a buckle) was in 1992.......
I'm fat, out of shape, have more money now than I've ever had, which means I have bought/made a couple nice horses and still really can't win ANYTHING :)
Generally I hurt for 3 days after a double header race-which you would think it would motivate me to get in better shape....nah....
My good horse is in my daughters hands and really he probably is too much horse for her, but how is she ever going to learn OR break my cycle of being the big loser??
Listened to a couple of gal pals, talk some smack about the 12 year olds that need some horsemanship lessons....I long for the day I could ride (and stay on) with my rear a foot above the saddle, whipping and spurring....hahaha, does it make it wrong that I ride better now and can't win a damn thing or was it better when I didn't ride worth a crap but would clean up regularly??
Most people judge you as a winner OR if you're nice, so I'm shooting for the nicest loser that is almost 40!!
It sucks BUT, time is flying by and if I don't do this now, I don't know how much longer I will be able to keep going.
Besides, I've seen your name in the results (riding 2 horses apparantly) and you've won some pretty good money this fall, keep on keepin on! You don't seem to be slowing down too much! I would think that sometimes riding smarter beats youth any day :)
I'm not really sure what the point is of all my rambling, but not sure what the point is to your post either...... |
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Location: OH | I am in the age you are talking about and any more I am always riding young ones and really just competing against myself. Trying to make a little bit better run each time, I have no huge illusions of trying to be a 1D rider, those days are pretty much past me by I believe. I just try and do a little better and have fun and pass the same thing on to my two sons. |
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Location: western Nebraska | Thanks but watching those videos is what got me thinking. I just coasted along. 15 or 20 years ago I would have started out in the 1d or 2d on those colts. Now I am happy just coasting along in the 3d. |
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Location: western Nebraska | I guess I don't really have a point-just wondering how everyone else feels about getting older and still going. I have some nice young horses and have been getting inquiries about selling them. Now I just say =No, not for sale-I am training grandkid horses. I can not believe I am saying that but I can hardly wait for the next step! |
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Location: Red Raiderland | Great topic Doglady. I am in my late 40's and I think my mind "KNOWS" I can do it but my body says, "WHAT?" I get sore a lot easier and I am not as daring but I truly love the competition that I set in my own head. I'll never win a (big, especially)barrel race in Texas and I am just fine with that but I like to set goals against the faster runs in the pen. I run a mare that lands in the bottom of the 2D and places in the 3D and I am really proud at where we have come over the years. I just ran my younger Perks Alive mare this weekend and she was solidly in the 3D on Sat at the Elite. I'm very happy how 4 of my 6 runs turned out.
I think age just causes a person to set their goals differently. I knew a young girl that won the 2D saddle at a WBR several years ago and she was embarrassed...heck, at my age I would be super proud of that but I understand her feelings.
There are tons of ladies around my area that are well over 45 and they kick butts and take names around here. Martha Wright is one lady that I REALLY admire and she's over 45!  |
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Location: North Dakota | doglady - 2014-11-17 2:47 PM I guess I don't really have a point-just wondering how everyone else feels about getting older and still going. I have some nice young horses and have been getting inquiries about selling them. Now I just say =No, not for sale-I am training grandkid horses. I can not believe I am saying that but I can hardly wait for the next step!
I think there is something to be said about the training horses, was just thinking this morning what my daughter would say if I wanted to take my good horse back for a spin or two through the pattern at the next race. Part of me thinks I could probably win it and part of me just shrugs and keeps hoping she will have the "want to" fire burning within her, I think of myself at that age (she's 12) and would have died to have a horse of this caliber to ride-so I guess, I'm riding vicariously through her.
Coasting is what I do too, the big beast I'm riding now, is just crap slap happy to coast and it's A LOT of work getting him to do more than just coast :)
I know the day is coming that I will go without a horse but I don't want that to be until after I can enter the Sr. races....dangit! |
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| Love this topic!!
I'm 38 and I have many of the same issues you mention (probably more)!
I waited until my 30's to have kids and it has affected me mentally and physically. My body is out of shape and my balance is completely out of whack from two c-sections and a hip surgery. Plus, I fear for an injury that would leave my precious kiddos without a mom (or even a disabled one).
I bought a nice started mare last year, but only kept her one year because I had no confidence in my ability to compete on her. She sold to a youth and they are doing great together!
Getting old sucks, but I've decided it's more about having fun! I decided with my last mount that I enjoy the training aspect rather than the competitive aspect. I LOVE putting time on a horse and seeing them develop! If I can compete in the future, then I will. But if not, then I vow to be satisfied with what God has given me and my abilities! |
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| I'm 55 and have a blast! Not anywhere near ready to give it up! I run consistent 2D/3D and that's ok with me! |
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| Are you kidding me? 45 isn't even old yet. I am over 50 and I go every weekend just about. I can't wait for the the next race. It all depends on what your competitive spirit is. I race with a 80yr old man that can still whip just about anyone. You are only as old as you feel. |
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| Funny you say that about the first barrel! I haven't had a horse I felt like I could really run to the first in like forever(at least in my mind). I haven't been running much since I have been roping with my husband and having a ball. Last summer my first run I thought I was really running until I watched the video, no wonder I hit two and tipped the first. lol Anyway I decided that this horse wouldn't run by a barrel so on my next run I went hell bent to the first, It was so FUN. I should have sit a strid sooner and he would have inhaled it instead got by it just a tad. It is sad that I have the nicest horse I have had in years and don't care if I go to a barrel race or not. Those were the only two runs I made last year and only 6 the year before. I am keeping him for my grand daughter that is only two now that way I know what I've got when it is time for her to ride. |
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Location: High heels in the air... | I'm the opposite..I'm over 50 and can't wait until I RETIRE from my full time job just to ride horses all day. June Holeman is one of my idols!!! Never say never...that one of a kind winner could be next!!! |
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| I am only 25 but I can tell you that wanting a nice pattern, solid, consistent pattern is always on my priority list. I would rather have a nice solid 3D run than a super fast, kinda sloppy 2D run.
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| I am not sure what I will feel like when I am over 45. I am 34 and have had 1 child. Like another person said, it has affected my balance and confidence. I am slowly getting it back though. I bought a 20 year old mare who still runs in the 1D. She was a huge confidence builder for me. I would love to have a young horse to work on during the winter....anyway I hope I still want to race in 10 years...I just keep seeing June and think...man I want to be like her...I just better keep my butt in shape! I know I am rambling but I think if I had a couple nice solid horses when I am that age I think it would help me to keep going...
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Location: WYOMING | Im 50. I weigh less now than I ever have but I worked my butt off literally the past 2 yrs to get there. I still feel competitive but have only had colts the past 3 yrs, I woke up last week and freaked out that I was running oit of time to haul and be competitive so I traded my nice colt for a nice older prospect and will start hauling next year. I see my want to going away though so I dont know how long or much I will really go but we will see... I think Ive got another 5 or so urs in me before I slow down to lope. |
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Location: Texas | I am 54, chunky, and suffer from Fybromyalgia. All the aches and pains from years of injuries and accidents. I have a nice little mare that I am really enjoying running, hits solid 3-4, sometimes higher. I am really enjoying going and have let go of the need to be a "Top Dog". I have stepped up to another horse I own that my son trained and have really had to work at riding him! I hurt alot but am afraid that if I don't keep going I won't stay well enough to do it anymore. Look at Ardith, she is just now retiring at age 84? Enjoy it at what ever level YOU want! I felt like since I use to be a tough contender, that I always needed to stay on that level....Not anymore and I am way happy!!! |
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Location: Central Iowa, surrounded by corn! | I'm 58 and still running strong. I just retired my crazy speed demon this year. He was very quirky and lots of work, but I would do it all over again. That said I have an 8 year old I am having a ball with! We aren't breaking any arena records but that's ok for now! We will worry about speed later! :-) |
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Location: where the wind blows | I'm almost 50 and find I'm just not too competitive in the barrels anymore. Weight, balance, etc but I have be come more competitive in reining and ranch pleasure. With that said I'd miss barrel racing if I didn't compete some. However in the district I run in we have some super tough ladies over 50. The young ones have to lay down a smokin run if they are going to beat them. Actually most of the super toughs are between 40 and 60.
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Location: Dubuque,IA | I am 61 and haven't ridden a 1d horse in 10 years but afte the loss of my husband i started runnung his 1d caliber horse and in 3months I went from 5d to 1d and recently won a couple of big races. Never in my wildest dreams did i thinnk i would get back to that level but it feels great and I am in good shape from yoga and working hard. |
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| At nearly 50, I am more competitive now than 10 years ago. I ride 4-7 head a day and feel like I am mentally stronger now than in my 30's. I am very selective of the horses I ride and have a great colt starter near by to interview all the horses for 30 days or more before I take them in. With that being said, I don't bounce quite like I used to when I was younger. I do spend some time when I ride working on balance and core strength which isn't as easy to come by at my age or as I get older. I so enjoy this sport and hope to continue on long into my 70's! |
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Location: Soon where I want to be:) | What???45 is no age. I started barrel racing after 45 and love it. I been running for about 2 years now and wish I started earlier. Got a great horse (not a barrel horses when we started) but so broke and willling we been running pretty consistent in 2D in central Texas. Just won my first buckle and Im so proud of it. Common ladies dont tell me its time to stop when I just started:) |
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| I started riding seniors a couple years ago. Tho a long show will kick my tush, my brain is still competitive. Xena and I won the 2D last weekend against the NBHA Reserve World Champion, and I think we could go a little faster. This was the first time I KICKED her to the first barrel, and I also trapped the chicken-wing elbows. Huge improvement. So I know I can still ride better if I try.
Later in 2015 my DFP colt will start exhibitioning and then showing. I am passing the early part of his seasoning off to a younger person. The colt is somewhat reactionary and I'd rather wait until he's past the boogey stage to get on him. That's the part where I know my age is speaking - getting on the youngsters. But I also have hopes that Peon will be my 1Der. Finally.
I'm far from ready to slow down on the pattern. If I can run the funny car Xena at the top of the 2D, then a smooth runner in the 1D won't hurt the bod any worse! |
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Location: Jersey Girl | I didn't start barrel racing until I was 43. I am 48 now. I have always been avidly involved on horse activities. When I was in my twenties my thing was gymkhanas and penning here and there. In my 30's I was an avid trail rider. I was a complete die hard and would go no matter what.
Now that I am older, I am a little heavier and my knees bother me a little too. I still try my best and work hard to move up the D's, but I have learned to accept my limitations (time, physical, financial). If I miss a barrel race, I don't beat myself up over it. There is always another race. Heck, sometimes if I get up the morning of the race and don't feel like doing all that driving (house to barn (I board 25 miles away)to barrel race & back) then I don't. That doesn't happen often because I am a barrel racing addict LOL
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Location: Texas |
It is interesting to read everyone's thoughts on getting older. Here is what I have found to be my biggest changes regarding my riding at age 50…
THE LOWS:
Confidence… There was a time when I could jump on any horse, I felt like I was glued to that saddle, lol. Those feelings left many years ago. Now I find myself much more cautious than I once was. I tend to take more time to get things done.
Worry… I find myself worrying about silly things (maybe not silly), like the ground, and do I have room to get stopped, is this sucker going to see some booger out there and dump me, lol.
But there are also some amazing things that 50 has done for me…
THE HIGHS:
I am a MUCH better rider than I ever was. I have learned the reward of having patience and making a horse all that he can be. I am more in tune with other riders and their struggles because I have felt the same things and I am no longer threatened by admitting it. I'm a better teacher, student, and trainer at 50 then I ever was when I was younger. I take better care of my horses, I understand the benefit of time off, I don't feel like I have to win it every time. I'm happy when my horses make a little bit of progress and I don't feel that need to get it all done tomorrow anymore. The biggest thing for me is that I have learned that good things take time and it is almost always worth the wait.
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| I'm 54 and loving where I'm at. Have hit the 1D several times this year against some tough horses. Even hit near top of 1D at show that had over 200 head. That was definitely a high point for me. I had hauled by daughter for years, and only ran at the smaller jackpots and local saddle club stuff. Couple of years ago she started slowing down, and I thought, well heck, I don't have to stay home, so started going just for me. I have a horse that I trained, she wasn't started on barrels till she was 11. Just played around with her for years, and then this year, something just clicked for me and I started sitting up and riding her. At 18 she was outrunning some tough horses and the younger riders. I am so proud of her and will still haul her next year.
I guess the moral of the story is that you are never too old to get better, don't let age stop you if you want more. I ran in the 3 and 4 D for years, and I was happy as a clam. Still am if my run if pretty. Its all about enjoying what we do. No matter what our age is.
So, ladies, go for it if its what you want! If you enjoy training , then train, if you want to compete, then compete. Just do what makes you happy. There is no magic age to this thing! |
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Location: CA | I am 57, just retired my fun finished horse, just had to put one down. Now I am starting all over.... I love riding... I love going fast... I am heavier than I ever have been.... I don't care. I ride bigger horses to make my butt look littler... lol
The 4d makes it fun again... just go, have fun, keep a leg on either side. It's 3 turns how hard can it be? lol |
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Location: IN MY OWN LITTLE WORLD AT LEAST THEY KNOW ME HERE | Watch out for old ladies on fast horses :0))
Tis the bumper stick on me trailer
56 and gettin it :0)
Age is only numbers.
Yep I've got osteo arth in both knees, bad lower disc n my back,
Arth n both hands. But I know to stay fit n take my vitamins.
Ride the level where you are comfortable.
But the main thing is to get out there n ENJOY
I've been riding my whole life.
Now life took me away from hard competition when my kids were young BUT
I never stopped riding.
I'm back n hard competition n bought a fast ride
I'm very competitive n strive to be better n better
each n every time I put my mare n the alley or why go?
Hey Martha Josey was been known to run n our area
Soooo there ya go
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Location: Where the buffalo roam | I'm 56 and I still hold my own competitively and ride 3 horses. Like you, I don't expect as much out of my young horses as quickly as I did before, but I also think they have better brains because of it. I also used to rodeo a lot and the older I get the less I want to beat my horses legs off on rodeo ground. Give me that fluffy ground and several runs where I can stay parked and relax and socialize. I am more cautious which may be why I don't like rodeo ground any more. |
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| The biggest thing the adding years have affected is my desire to ride in any weather.
It's too cold.
It's too hot
It's too windy.
It's too humid.
It's too buggy.
I'm too tired...lol.....I'll ride tomorrow.
To be fair, I got burnt out keeping not only 3-4 of my own legged up and schooled, but also hubby's 4 pickup horses. That'll wear a body's want too out eventually. And I spent 7 years trying to get "the horse of my dreams" sound and healthy enough to run (long story). Walking out to the barn wondering if your horse is sound enough to ride let alone will stay sound so you can run at the rodeo you entered on the weekend kinda robs the will right out of a body and soul.
So this past summer I was given another girl's backup mare....19 years old, hadn't been run at all the past two years, and not all that much in her career. I was skeptical and that old girl made a believer out of me!! I had a blast, and even placed at some rodeos despite my steep learning curve. Made some bad mistakes and still placed! Never had a horse I could screw up and still place on. Got most of MY issues worked out by the end of the summer and really looking forward to next year!
I tell her (as I used to tell my good, old mare), the age and experience gets to win out over youth and beauty ONCE in awhile!
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Location: western Nebraska | I am loving all the responses but it looks like I should have said over 50 or 55. Yes, I have to run against June Holeman at every jp I go to it seems. Last weekend on my 5 year olds 2nd weekend out June won the 1d and I was 2nd in the 3d. I was pretty happy with my colt. THis coming weekend I am going to ask her a little and see if we can be in the 2d. It is good to have goals!!
I guess my biggest problem is myself. I used to think I could win every barrel race I went to. Now I hope more like not to be totally stupid and let my horses work! |
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| I am 46. My baby just moved out and headed off to college. I have put barrel racing on the back burner, just getting to the odd jackpot or gymkhana for the past 20 years to raise my kids who really didn't have a keen interest in horses. I have 2 nice horses and I can't wait to get out there and see what we can do. I think a lot of women don't even really have the chance to get active in barrel racing until they are our age, just too many other responsibilities with kids, careers... |
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| Thank you to all the posts that give me hope that I can still do this when I'm slightly older and hopefully much wiser. I focus so much an raising my kids that I feel like I'm missing out sometimes, but I know my babies are only young for a while. Reading everyone's stories is very inspiring!! |
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| I'm way past 45 and started running barrels again (from my teens) about 12 years ago. I had been training and galloping race horses up until 1993-stopped when i went back to college. I ride as hard and fast as my mare can run and we are consistently in the 2/3 D at big shows and have been in the 1D occasionally. Yes, i am more sore after riding than when a kid and my reflexes have probably slowed some, but my competitive spirit burns just as bright as it did when I was in my twenties. The thought of getting hurt doesn't cross my mind at a race, but I no longer start the young horses and I now use the round pen to take the edge off one. I wear a helmet now-the same one I rode the race horses in and i wish everyone wore a helmet. I just bought a three year old so plan on running for several more years. I have several friends well over 45 and they are just as competitive as me and ride very competitive horses as well. Age is only a number. |
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| doglady - 2014-11-17 9:29 PM
I am loving all the responses but it looks like I should have said over 50 or 55. Yes, I have to run against June Holeman at every jp I go to it seems. Last weekend on my 5 year olds 2nd weekend out June won the 1d and I was 2nd in the 3d. I was pretty happy with my colt. THis coming weekend I am going to ask her a little and see if we can be in the 2d. It is good to have goals!!
I guess my biggest problem is myself. I used to think I could win every barrel race I went to. Now I hope more like not to be totally stupid and let my horses work!
You just need to remember what it was like to "be hungry" and GO for it.
YOU CAN DO IT!!!!!!
My husband is quite a bit older than I and when we were dating is then sister in law gave him a decoupage plaque (gosh, that dates me eh?) that said;
Age is mind over matter,
If you don't mind, it don't matter.
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Location: midwest mama | I'm 53 years old and I barrel raced on the Pro Rodeo circuit for many years, and then took 15 years off to raise my family, etc. Hardly rode at all, but still had horses.......and even raised a few of my own out of my old rodeo mare.
Got my kid raised, and decided I wanted to race again. I had one 8 year old gelding who I had started really nice, but he had no experience hauling. Since my balance and timing was off (imagine that!) I knew I wasn't ready to step onto a 1D (rodeo) rocket, so I decided that the smart thing to do was to buy a good, older solid "been there, done that" 2-3D horse so I could get my timing and confidence back. So I bought one. I owned him for about 4 months, hadn't yet been to a race, then he unloaded me when I was just riding him around one day and broke some of my ribs and tore my shoulder muscles in 10 places. UGH. Found out he had a history of being wonky.
Of course I sold him, but then had to decide whether or not to buy another "been there, done that" horse, or just go on with my inexperienced guy that I already owned. I decided to go with my "rookie" horse and I have not regretted it a bit. He is very kind, is a big pleaser, and would do anything in the world to stay underneath me and take care of me. Even though he doesn't have much experience, I totally trust him. We were able to start slow and are now building up speed and starting to become pretty competitive. I only took him to about 10 races last year and about the same this year, and we are pretty solid in the upper 2D at the big races, and have run a handful of 1D times at the smaller races. We got there gradually, and we got there together, so we both were able to "work" up to where we now are.
Am I sore - Yep! Am I tired - Yep! Am I more scared than I used to be - Yep! Do I recover like I used to - Nope! Do I want to go as much as I used to - Nope! Do I get disappointed sometimes that I don't ride like I used to - Yep! Do I want to still race some - Yep! And here's the biggest thing - I LOVE THIS HORSE! He makes me smile every day, and that's what it is all about.
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Location: Louisiana | I was more competitive between ages 45 & 55 than at any other age (other than when I was a teenager). Then I had to stop running completely when I hurt my back (a non-horse related injury) at age 59. If not for my back, I would still be running now, at 61. I would love to be "only" 45 again! |
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Location: East Tennessee but who knows?! | Great post & great responses!
The biggest struggle for me is energy. I still love to train and love to throw a leg over one on a whim and ride across the pasture but sometimes the thought of hauling even somewhere close seems daunting.
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| rodeoveteran - 2014-11-17 9:14 PM
The biggest thing the adding years have affected is my desire to ride in any weather.
It's too cold.
It's too hot
It's too windy.
It's too humid.
It's too buggy.
I'm too tired...lol.....I'll ride tomorrow.
To be fair, I got burnt out keeping not only 3-4 of my own legged up and schooled, but also hubby's 4 pickup horses. That'll wear a body's want too out eventually. And I spent 7 years trying to get "the horse of my dreams" sound and healthy enough to run (long story). Walking out to the barn wondering if your horse is sound enough to ride let alone will stay sound so you can run at the rodeo you entered on the weekend kinda robs the will right out of a body and soul.
So this past summer I was given another girl's backup mare....19 years old, hadn't been run at all the past two years, and not all that much in her career. I was skeptical and that old girl made a believer out of me!! I had a blast, and even placed at some rodeos despite my steep learning curve. Made some bad mistakes and still placed! Never had a horse I could screw up and still place on. Got most of MY issues worked out by the end of the summer and really looking forward to next year!
I tell her (as I used to tell my good, old mare), the age and experience gets to win out over youth and beauty ONCE in awhile!
Now I have to keep my battered body sound enough to keep running! LOL
I am 49 and THIS for sure - I just don't ENJOY going when it's RAINING or FREEZING OR 110 degrees! I no longer have a desire to go and sit for 4-7 hours to make one run. I just have other things to do! I still enjoy going and I am somewhat competitive, I just don't "live" it anymore. My dad is in a nursing home 120 miles from me and right now, I think it's more important to make time for him. |
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| Griz - 2014-11-18 5:39 AM rodeoveteran - 2014-11-17 9:14 PM The biggest thing the adding years have affected is my desire to ride in any weather. It's too cold. It's too hot It's too windy. It's too humid. It's too buggy. I'm too tired...lol.....I'll ride tomorrow. To be fair, I got burnt out keeping not only 3-4 of my own legged up and schooled, but also hubby's 4 pickup horses. That'll wear a body's want too out eventually. And I spent 7 years trying to get "the horse of my dreams" sound and healthy enough to run (long story). Walking out to the barn wondering if your horse is sound enough to ride let alone will stay sound so you can run at the rodeo you entered on the weekend kinda robs the will right out of a body and soul. So this past summer I was given another girl's backup mare....19 years old, hadn't been run at all the past two years, and not all that much in her career. I was skeptical and that old girl made a believer out of me!! I had a blast, and even placed at some rodeos despite my steep learning curve. Made some bad mistakes and still placed! Never had a horse I could screw up and still place on. Got most of MY issues worked out by the end of the summer and really looking forward to next year! I tell her (as I used to tell my good, old mare), the age and experience gets to win out over youth and beauty ONCE in awhile! Now I have to keep my battered body sound enough to keep running! LOL I am 49 and THIS for sure - I just don't ENJOY going when it's RAINING or FREEZING OR 110 degrees! I no longer have a desire to go and sit for 4-7 hours to make one run. I just have other things to do! I still enjoy going and I am somewhat competitive, I just don't "live" it anymore. My dad is in a nursing home 120 miles from me and right now, I think it's more important to make time for him.
Ditto, I am 54, I did not start barrel racing till I was 49. I had a horse growing up, just a trail horse but it gave me a comfort level with horses. I started barrel racing on my girls horses that we had owned for years, it helped that I knew and trusted them. I had no fear when I was younger, today self preservation has kicked in big time. For 9 or 10 years we spent every weekend hauling the girls, loved every minute of it but now that I go by myself I only go if I like the pen, the weather is decent and I can make my run and go home. Our local association used to have the summer jackpots at night, they switched back to day jackpots. It will be a 100 + degrees with humidity, I have already decided I will not be going- too hard on the horses and miserable if you don't get there before the show starts to find shade to tie in, books open at 9 and open does not start til 2- too much sitting around for me. I am over the all day sitting around to make a couple of 15 second runs. I don't mind the waiting around when I travel to a big 3 day show, love watching the good runs. |
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| lol here in ga we got carl terri abunch over 45 that whip ur rear. i was 50 still competive when i got my wheelchair.
there is no doubt in my my mind i would be out there and riding. can i have do over?
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Location: OK | OK ladies, now lets name some older ladies who still kick butt. I will start.
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Location: Freestone TX | I am 56. My biggest problem is physical...caused by a horse related injury years ago, not so much age. The longer your tenure with horses, the greater your chances of making that flying trip to the ER with sirens a-blazin.
It has made me limit the type of horses I ride now. I don't ride broncs anymore. My biggest fear is not so much getting killed; but being paralyzed from getting bucked off. And I look for a horse with a very smooth run-around the barrel style. I lost my up and coming superstar to a knee injury a year ago and it has been almost impossible to find her replacement because of the specifc kind of horse I have to ride. |
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you guys are all babies. I am 67 yrs. young and still at it. I can't ride my 1D opens horses I get too far behind. So I let the Kids ride them. We go every chance we get every weekend Spring, Summer and Fall. The extreme cold is my biggest problem. It's a balmy 3 degrees in Northwest Indiana this morning. When I think I am to old I look at the one Gentleman we barrel race with. He is in his 80's and will still kick everyone's butt. |
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Location: Lost in a sea of horses | Well, I am 62 and still competing 1D/2D. I think the fact that I never quite at some point in my life has kept me more competitive. I think the greatest gift the older rider has in this game of barrel racing is the wisdom they have gained throughout the years of competing. You look at situations with the horses differently then the gun ho, gotta win it, 20 something out there. I have seen them come and go throughout the years and still I am there competing right along with them. I have gone through the same issue as you have all listed here. But like I said wisdom enters in and it works for me. If it is too cold, too windy, too hot I don't ride. I know for the most part if it is a super windy day my horse isn't going to ride worth a darn anyway, so I let that day pass and hit it when the situation is better to get something done. I know my horses inside out and for me, at this time in my life it is about enjoying the ride, its what makes me happy. I never try to ride more horses or longer time on them then my body will allow. I have learned how to gage when enough is enough. I am happy to compete on 1 or 2, not 3 or 4. There will be an end game to this, but not seeing it any time soon! The horse has become such a part of me, I would be loosing a piece of me without them. Good luck to all of you that chose to "hang in there"! |
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Location: Somewhere else | I've been on the injured list for a year with a knee injury. Fixing to turn 45 this friday and I'm starting back. I figure I only live once might as well do what I've always loved to do. |
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Location: Cap'n Joan Rotgut.....alberta | im not 45 yet...gettin close and i still have the desire and want to go haul...i ride my horses in some crappy weather and i think i have learnt how to handle different ground and different set ups way better than i could 20 years ago .....
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Location: Broxton, Ga | Still at it.........I hope to do it till the end...........lol |
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Location: Tulsa, Ok | I am a few days away from 66. I am not as competetive and aggressive as I once was but I love what I am doing and will keep on keeping on as long as I can. I really don't care what anyone else thinks about my runs. It is my dime and my time and my horses. They will all age too and any nasty thoughts will probably come back to bite them in the @$$ if they can still crawl on!!! |
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Location: BETWEEN HOT FLASHES AND GERITOL | For me I know I just lost my joy for it I'm 52, I didn't want to go when it was to hot or to cold. So I started roping (heeling) it seems I got my joy back for my horse. I sold my good horse I knew it was time I didn't want him to just sit. Even though I could still just sit him for weeks we could go win in Texas that's hard to do. But the young Lady who got him went on to win to 2 High school rodeo titles and he took her to the College finals her first year. She is still running him and they are doing great. But back to the roping I have a really good heel horse he's old Lady broke (LOL). He's fun to ride and he makes me look good as a heeler. I hadn't roped since the 70's in high school so it has been really fun. I can just go rope if I want to or not just trail ride him and I must say it's been fun. I don't miss the waiting for 3 or 4 hours to run and feeling like I have to win. In roping it's more laid back and the guys are really nice to me. I miss seeing all of my friends but I try to keep in touch with them and see how they did. |
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Location: Huffman, Texas | 45? i won my first saddle at 50, 10 years and 11 saddles later, i will be 60 in 4 days and i cant wait to get to Perry, GA next year so i can complete in the 60 and over super senior race!!! My horses have always been faster than me and thats ok..im happy! |
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Location: Winging It in KY | OldSchoolCowgirl - 2014-11-18 12:51 AM Am I sore - Yep! Am I tired - Yep! Am I more scared than I used to be - Yep! Do I recover like I used to - Nope! Do I want to go as much as I used to - Nope! Do I get disappointed sometimes that I don't ride like I used to - Yep! Do I want to still race some - Yep! And here's the biggest thing - I LOVE THIS HORSE! He makes me smile every day, and that's what it is all about.
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^^^^THIS!! I have a new horse that I bought a year ago off the track and started. He has been great! But he's only 4 and if not ridden enough can get, let's say, EDGY! I understand he just feels good but it is hard for me at age 50 to deal with that. I have a bad back that I deal with all the time and some days I just wonder why I am putting myself through it. Then he goes out and runs a really nice pattern, wins a check and then I know why. I too, LOVE THIS HORSE! He makes me smile! He has the greatest personality. But, I have told myself that he will be the last one that I start and season. I just have a hard time with my back, anymore. It makes it hard because my mind says that I can do it all.
I still try and ride 2 horses every night, no matter the weather (indoor arena). It helps keep me in shape. I have found that if I set goals every year for me and my horses that I have a tendency to keep pushing forward and don't let the tired part get to me. It's all about the personal goals these days. I don't care what other people think about me anymore. As long as I am happy with my runs, keep winning checks here and there, I am happy.
I definitely am aware more these days that I don't have the balance that I used to. Does it scare me, not really but it might keep me from pushing the horses in a run as hard as I can. Some days I find myself just hanging on! A few weeks ago, I had my older horse fall with me during a run. He set to turn the 3rd barrel and the ground just gave way under neath him. It was fast and hard. We survived! He was probably a bit sore. I was bruised and sore for a few days but was back on in 2 days. Will I think about it the next time we go blasting towards the 3rd barrel, probably not. When that happens, then I might have to find another hobby. But until then I will go as much as I can afford, if the weather allows and the horses stay sound! |
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Location: Texas | StillRiding - 2014-11-18 8:13 AM OK ladies, now lets name some older ladies who still kick butt. I will start.
JUNE HOLEMAN
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| MerryLegs - 2014-11-18 11:34 AM StillRiding - 2014-11-18 8:13 AM OK ladies, now lets name some older ladies who still kick butt. I will start.
JUNE HOLEMAN
MARTHA WRIGHT!
Mary Burger
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Location: Texas | I'll add Linda Vick to that list of Grandma's running... I'm friends with her daughter and she is a tuff lady!
What I have come to learn about the ladies that are over 50- they are not worried about buying material things and spend their money on horses. so they have nice horses. Most of the ones I know either run in the 5d on up to still rodeoing and even some making the NFR.
if you can still get on and love it go for it!! There is something for everyone..
But you just never which ol' lady will skunk your butt!!
I hope I'm like that when I get there.. I'm 40 now and don't see me stopping any time soon..
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Location: South Texas | I'm 58 - and still going somewhat. Like most everybody else I don't like the cold weather - even in South Texas I still think it's cold. I don't go as much as I used to. I'm making myself run a horse I bought 2 years ago because my "steady eddy" old lady horse is getting up there in years and I'm going to need another horse to ride soon. My balance sucks and I know I'm not as physically as strong as I was even 2 years ago. But, I tell myself that I'm mentally stronger than I have ever been. I will say that all my horses now have to be "stool" broke. That way I don't have to work as hard to get on them! |
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| Im 47..been riding "slow" forever....
I'm still trying to calm the self preservation button and let loose a little.....but I have decided I am enjoying the journey. I love being on the back of a horse and I love all my horsey friends. There's just no where else I would rather be...unless its freezing outside...then I will take the couch next to the fireplace :-)
I am also in the best shape I've every been in. I am an avid exercisor and I eat clean and take very good of myself. As a breast cancer survivor, mother and wife...it is my responsiblity. Because of this I don't suffer the aches and pains that I use to and I feel strong on my horse.....just afraid of speed.
I have finally found a sweet mare that I think will take care of me.......I shake like a little baby and I haven't even loped an entire pattern yet....but I am still proud of the progress I am making. I have made it my personal goal to overcome this perceived fear. In the meantime I could care less how old I am......or if I ever win anything.......I'm just happy to be here...to be living...and to be blessed with having horses in my life.
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| NoNoBadGirl - 2014-11-18 9:31 AM I am 56. My biggest problem is physical...caused by a horse related injury years ago, not so much age. The longer your tenure with horses, the greater your chances of making that flying trip to the ER with sirens a-blazin.
It has made me limit the type of horses I ride now. I don't ride broncs anymore. My biggest fear is not so much getting killed; but being paralyzed from getting bucked off. And I look for a horse with a very smooth run-around the barrel style. I lost my up and coming superstar to a knee injury a year ago and it has been almost impossible to find her replacement because of the specifc kind of horse I have to ride.
don/t let that bit of being paralized bug you amd i am a quad from a horse in the alley at a walk freaky
put it out of your mind if you think you are gonna get hurt you will have no fun i was balls to the walls every trip but mine was freak
heck lol there was a lady @shephards whose was paralized from a accident in bed with her husband now thats freaky |
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Location: The edge of no where | bennie1 - 2014-11-18 11:37 AM MerryLegs - 2014-11-18 11:34 AM StillRiding - 2014-11-18 8:13 AM OK ladies, now lets name some older ladies who still kick butt. I will start.
JUNE HOLEMAN
MARTHA WRIGHT!
Those 3 are my heroes! And not just because of age...those are 3 of the best jockeys/trainers that I've ever seen. I LOVE watching Martha and Mary run. I'm pulling for Mary to win the American. I'm not 40 yet, but staring it down. All 3 of those women take great care of themselves and it shows in their continued ability to ride incredibly well and kick everyone's butt. To me they are an inspiration to take care of myself, eat well, stay in shape....keep that core strength and ride smarter. I plan on being competitive until I'm 70. |
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| I still strive to do the best I can and not listen to the snears or negative comments or get roped into BS gossip I hear about me or others, I don't have time for it. I have had some situations that did not turn out or it just wasn't in the stars at the time but I still keep going. I am more selective of the horses I ride and or buy now days. I have had to learn the hard way of when its time to let one move on, I get so attached to them. Life is full of lessons. But I figure if Ardith Bruce, June Holeman, Marhta Josey, Kay Young and SOOOOOO many more out there that still compete and still train can do it, why can't I? I tell you though, I have nothing but respect for them and consider them a wealth of knowledge. They are the pioneers that started our sport and made so many beneficial changes to make it even better. I think there are a LOT of young guns out there that don't have a clue and only know the "shortcuts" or the "tricks" of the trade yet could not tell you a thing about their run or what they do or did. I think that is a lot to do with those that put out some awesome well trained horses that a person can just sit there and kick and the horse just goes and does its job. There are still many barrel racers out there, pioneers and a few young guns, that I would not mind spending a few days, a week or a month with to learn anything I can from them.
Am I getting up there, yeah, am I out of shape, yeah. Will I quit.........absolutely not.
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Location: Haslet, Texas | I was running pretty hard till I got about 43. I Mean I had been horseback since I was 5 and then rodeoing and jackpotting pretty hard till about 40. My kids didn't do the horse deal much so we got into their interests and I never looked back. I guess I had won enough through the years (saddles, buckles etc) that I didn't have the drive anymore. The work it takes to really make a good one and the sacrafices you have to make to get there would just wear me out. I do miss riding but not running barrels full tilt because believe you me...if I ever started I would not be satisfied with the 4D that I would find my fat out of shape self in and I would be really pissed off. If I'm going to compete I want to Win the 1D and that's all there is to it. Wish I could still ride like Martha Wright does, lol. That woman amazes me!!
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Location: South Texas | bennie1 - 2014-11-18 11:37 AM MerryLegs - 2014-11-18 11:34 AM StillRiding - 2014-11-18 8:13 AM OK ladies, now lets name some older ladies who still kick butt. I will start.
JUNE HOLEMAN
MARTHA WRIGHT!
I dang sure dont want to call her old but we are good friends and she does run in the 50 and over .....lol......KAY BLANDFORD and she has just as competitive drive as she ever had....day in and day out she is out there everyday still training futurity colts and will take your money on any given day! |
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Location: Buffalo, TX | I'm 65 and 9 yrs. ago when I was 56, my good mare got hurt at a rodeo and was out for good...at that time I felt like I was at the top of my game both physically and mentally, and riding as good as I ever did...it was a big mistake not to go out and replace her with another winner right away...I was too cheap...now I'm paying a bigger price than money for only having young horses and projects for 9 yrs....
I think if you have always ridden high powered 1D or rodeo horses and you are older, if you get away from those kind for a period of time, you lose the timing, feel, and balance of that calibur of horse....so a couple years ago, I went and bought a 3 yr. old cutting horse to ranch sort on, then a few months ago, I realized I really wanted run barrels again and sold the horse, my cutting saddle and went looking for a 1D horse with all the criteria I had in mind to fit me and make running barrels fun again.....I wanted my "bucket list" horse, and I got exactly what I was looking for from Kendal Owen....he's the nicest horse I've had in 9 yrs and he's perfect for me....solid, proven, honest, same trip every time, quiet when you ask him, but ready when you get in the alley, and no nonsense even when it's cold and windy...I was riding him along the woods in my pasture last week and all of a sudden about 5 deer rushed out of the woods on the other side of my fence and all he did was put his ears up and look at them...awesome....I'll take all winter to get used to him and try to get myself up to speed on this kind of horse again...I just hope next spring I can do him justice....
One thing I can say is that yoga is like magic to get your flexibility and strength back, because without that, you can't ride at the same level you once did...I'm lucky that I don't have any physical problems and I'm committed to working hard at being the best I can be at my age to run with the young guns again......and remember that old age and treachery can always beat youth and skill...LOL...
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| I'm 51, and am realistic enough to realize I am not a 1D rider. Two years ago, I had gotten up to 165 pounds and realized it was really messing with my balance. Lost 30 pounds and have kept it off. What is bad about being old is you are finally smart enough to know what you are doing wrong, but your body is too old to keep up!
Pain from old injuries and surgeries certainly has taken some of the fun and enjoyment out of schooling and training, but I will not quit. Rather than go out and buy hot, race bred prospects, I have two, 3 year old cow-bred prospects in the barn. Running a second or 1.5 seconds back from the top in Texas is plenty to satisfy me. |
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Location: Colorado | DogLady, YOU ROCK! I love this topic but YOU are still riding very well and your horses are awesome.
I would just like to offer this: As you know, I have a 50 & Over Class in Mile Hi....and I will just share that this group of ladies are some of the toughest EVER! It is NOT uncommon for the 50+ to also win the Open......maybe it's just this particular pack of women....but they are tough. They ride well, very competitive and are very smart about what they do.
Also as you know, I'm one of them. And I will share that I do well....I think I do very well for m y age (57) and it is due in large part to the horses my sister makes for me. I currently have two...and they are solid, 1D rodeo tough horses and given MY lifestyle of working 45-50 hours a week in a concrete office jungle.....I don't get to ride much...I try to everyday I just don't have the time to 'work' a horse...so my riding consists of getting them legged up....lungs built up, etc.
I don't have the skill to make a horse...never have....nor the time..... BUT the barrel racers in my family (sister, daughter, me) have come to realize that working together and making the right horse for the right person is the key......we change horses around a lot, based on what they need and which one of us has that skill/time. I NEVER EVER take my sister or daughter and more importantly the horses I have for granted....because we all clearly know I am the WhipLash of our family....I'm the one that can JOCKEY one...but I can't make one.....nor do I want to.
So, to a degree, I'm spoiled...yes...but I still work very hard at it......I too have gained a few pounds and I find it more difficult...about fell off three times this past summer because my horses turns are quick and got behind them....BUT I refuse to give up...I refuse to quit.....about the time winter came...I was with them.....now the cycle starts again. LOL
I absolutely love barrel racing...it's a passion for me and it runs thru my veins....I LOVE producing events as well....I swear I will go to my grave waving the Mile Hi flag as one friend says......
For me and it's strictly a personal situation, my success in barrel racing improved when I hit 45.....mostly cuz I settled in life, my sister and I patched up our differences and things started falling into place.....it's gotten better since I was 50 because I found peace with it all...then the last 2 years I've focused on finding happiness and not letting others steal it from me....I know my years of being this competitive are LIMITED and I may NEVER have the nice horses I have now.....with that in mind...I'm going to enjoy them and have set some pretty strong goals......one being no one is going to steal my happiness and joy with them......the last two years have been AWESOME!
I'm lucky, very lucky....because I know, it will catch up with eventually...but I'm gonna fight it! LOL
And, I continue to try to produce some of the best events around...I'm always looking for that next new thing, new idea, whatever....make my events youth, fresh, and different.....that way when "that time comes" I will stay connected behind the desk producing.......
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Location: Texas | I just turned 45 last week and i still wAnt to go like crazy. I have a horse that can be in the 1d at tough local jackpots and 2d at bigger ones. We hit a few rodeos last year and had a blast. Unfortunately we have hit. Few bumps in the road and am hoping to get things ironed out soon. At 45 i am more agressive that i have ever been and am hungry for more. I have come to the realization that i wont be this competetive for an extended period of time so i am hauling as much as i can. I lost my mom and a really nice prospect last month so i have realized life is short and i need to go for it and not wait till tomorrow. The only downfall has been that my body gets more sore than it used to and i dont have the energy that i used to. |
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Location: Texas | Mile Hi Barrel Horse - 2014-11-18 7:19 PM
DogLady, YOU ROCK! I love this topic but YOU are still riding very well and your horses are awesome.
I would just like to offer this: As you know, I have a 50 & Over Class in Mile Hi....and I will just share that this group of ladies are some of the toughest EVER! It is NOT uncommon for the 50+ to also win the Open......maybe it's just this particular pack of women....but they are tough. They ride well, very competitive and are very smart about what they do.
Also as you know, I'm one of them. And I will share that I do well....I think I do very well for m y age (57) and it is due in large part to the horses my sister makes for me. I currently have two...and they are solid, 1D rodeo tough horses and given MY lifestyle of working 45-50 hours a week in a concrete office jungle.....I don't get to ride much...I try to everyday I just don't have the time to 'work' a horse...so my riding consists of getting them legged up....lungs built up, etc.
I don't have the skill to make a horse...never have....nor the time..... BUT the barrel racers in my family (sister, daughter, me) have come to realize that working together and making the right horse for the right person is the key......we change horses around a lot, based on what they need and which one of us has that skill/time. I NEVER EVER take my sister or daughter and more importantly the horses I have for granted....because we all clearly know I am the WhipLash of our family....I'm the one that can JOCKEY one...but I can't make one.....nor do I want to.
So, to a degree, I'm spoiled...yes...but I still work very hard at it......I too have gained a few pounds and I find it more difficult...about fell off three times this past summer because my horses turns are quick and got behind them....BUT I refuse to give up...I refuse to quit.....about the time winter came...I was with them.....now the cycle starts again. LOL
I absolutely love barrel racing...it's a passion for me and it runs thru my veins....I LOVE producing events as well....I swear I will go to my grave waving the Mile Hi flag as one friend says......
For me and it's strictly a personal situation, my success in barrel racing improved when I hit 45.....mostly cuz I settled in life, my sister and I patched up our differences and things started falling into place.....it's gotten better since I was 50 because I found peace with it all...then the last 2 years I've focused on finding happiness and not letting others steal it from me....I know my years of being this competitive are LIMITED and I may NEVER have the nice horses I have now.....with that in mind...I'm going to enjoy them and have set some pretty strong goals......one being no one is going to steal my happiness and joy with them......the last two years have been AWESOME!
I'm lucky, very lucky....because I know, it will catch up with eventually...but I'm gonna fight it! LOL
And, I continue to try to produce some of the best events around...I'm always looking for that next new thing, new idea, whatever....make my events youth, fresh, and different.....that way when "that time comes" I will stay connected behind the desk producing.......
LOL LOL
I went to one of y'all's barrel races this summer and it was great! They pay good too, lol.
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Location: TN | I am 54 for a few more months......
Riding/showing is my passion. I still can show in the 1D (it's my horse, i am just along for the ride).
I take pride in seasoning my younins. Its all what you make of it.
I don't believe there is a magic number.
Thoes who will-DO and thoes who don't, wont .
I do make a point of keeping my core strength strong and offer the girls lots of treats hoping to keep them happy so hopefully they will ontinue to make me happy
do what makes you happy ,see you some where at a show
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Location: Colorado | grinandbareit - 2014-11-18 7:25 PM
Mile Hi Barrel Horse - 2014-11-18 7:19 PM
DogLady, YOU ROCK! I love this topic but YOU are still riding very well and your horses are awesome.
I would just like to offer this: As you know, I have a 50 & Over Class in Mile Hi....and I will just share that this group of ladies are some of the toughest EVER! It is NOT uncommon for the 50+ to also win the Open......maybe it's just this particular pack of women....but they are tough. They ride well, very competitive and are very smart about what they do.
Also as you know, I'm one of them. And I will share that I do well....I think I do very well for m y age (57) and it is due in large part to the horses my sister makes for me. I currently have two...and they are solid, 1D rodeo tough horses and given MY lifestyle of working 45-50 hours a week in a concrete office jungle.....I don't get to ride much...I try to everyday I just don't have the time to 'work' a horse...so my riding consists of getting them legged up....lungs built up, etc.
I don't have the skill to make a horse...never have....nor the time..... BUT the barrel racers in my family (sister, daughter, me) have come to realize that working together and making the right horse for the right person is the key......we change horses around a lot, based on what they need and which one of us has that skill/time. I NEVER EVER take my sister or daughter and more importantly the horses I have for granted....because we all clearly know I am the WhipLash of our family....I'm the one that can JOCKEY one...but I can't make one.....nor do I want to.
So, to a degree, I'm spoiled...yes...but I still work very hard at it......I too have gained a few pounds and I find it more difficult...about fell off three times this past summer because my horses turns are quick and got behind them....BUT I refuse to give up...I refuse to quit.....about the time winter came...I was with them.....now the cycle starts again. LOL
I absolutely love barrel racing...it's a passion for me and it runs thru my veins....I LOVE producing events as well....I swear I will go to my grave waving the Mile Hi flag as one friend says......
For me and it's strictly a personal situation, my success in barrel racing improved when I hit 45.....mostly cuz I settled in life, my sister and I patched up our differences and things started falling into place.....it's gotten better since I was 50 because I found peace with it all...then the last 2 years I've focused on finding happiness and not letting others steal it from me....I know my years of being this competitive are LIMITED and I may NEVER have the nice horses I have now.....with that in mind...I'm going to enjoy them and have set some pretty strong goals......one being no one is going to steal my happiness and joy with them......the last two years have been AWESOME!
I'm lucky, very lucky....because I know, it will catch up with eventually...but I'm gonna fight it! LOL
And, I continue to try to produce some of the best events around...I'm always looking for that next new thing, new idea, whatever....make my events youth, fresh, and different.....that way when "that time comes" I will stay connected behind the desk producing.......
LOL LOL
I went to one of y'all's barrel races this summer and it was great! They pay good too, lol.
AWESOME! I remember you coming...and I'm so glad to hear you enjoyed it. We sure try to have good payouts and tons of fun! Hope you come back! |
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Location: western Nebraska | Mile Hi Barrel Horse - 2014-11-18 7:19 PM DogLady, YOU ROCK! I love this topic but YOU are still riding very well and your horses are awesome. I would just like to offer this: As you know, I have a 50 & Over Class in Mile Hi....and I will just share that this group of ladies are some of the toughest EVER! It is NOT uncommon for the 50+ to also win the Open......maybe it's just this particular pack of women....but they are tough. They ride well, very competitive and are very smart about what they do. Also as you know, I'm one of them. And I will share that I do well....I think I do very well for m y age (57) and it is due in large part to the horses my sister makes for me. I currently have two...and they are solid, 1D rodeo tough horses and given MY lifestyle of working 45-50 hours a week in a concrete office jungle.....I don't get to ride much...I try to everyday I just don't have the time to 'work' a horse...so my riding consists of getting them legged up....lungs built up, etc. I don't have the skill to make a horse...never have....nor the time..... BUT the barrel racers in my family (sister, daughter, me) have come to realize that working together and making the right horse for the right person is the key......we change horses around a lot, based on what they need and which one of us has that skill/time. I NEVER EVER take my sister or daughter and more importantly the horses I have for granted....because we all clearly know I am the WhipLash of our family....I'm the one that can JOCKEY one...but I can't make one.....nor do I want to. So, to a degree, I'm spoiled...yes...but I still work very hard at it......I too have gained a few pounds and I find it more difficult...about fell off three times this past summer because my horses turns are quick and got behind them....BUT I refuse to give up...I refuse to quit.....about the time winter came...I was with them.....now the cycle starts again. LOL I absolutely love barrel racing...it's a passion for me and it runs thru my veins....I LOVE producing events as well....I swear I will go to my grave waving the Mile Hi flag as one friend says...... For me and it's strictly a personal situation, my success in barrel racing improved when I hit 45.....mostly cuz I settled in life, my sister and I patched up our differences and things started falling into place.....it's gotten better since I was 50 because I found peace with it all...then the last 2 years I've focused on finding happiness and not letting others steal it from me....I know my years of being this competitive are LIMITED and I may NEVER have the nice horses I have now.....with that in mind...I'm going to enjoy them and have set some pretty strong goals......one being no one is going to steal my happiness and joy with them......the last two years have been AWESOME! I'm lucky, very lucky....because I know, it will catch up with eventually...but I'm gonna fight it! LOL And, I continue to try to produce some of the best events around...I'm always looking for that next new thing, new idea, whatever....make my events youth, fresh, and different.....that way when "that time comes" I will stay connected behind the desk producing....... LOL LOL
You are the one that rocks. My gosh-you produce these amazing barrel races, work in the office, do whatever else it takes and still kick everyone's butt.
I do have a very nice trailer load of horses and I just need to get with it. Everyone's stories have certainly got me excited to keep going and I hope they are helping you all! |
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Location: Texas | I hurt more for sure. I am 50. I think I definitely need to work on my core strength & weight loss. I find that we support and encourage each other better as we get older. I appreciate all of my over 40 barrel racing friends. I would have probably quit if they hadn't made it fun. I'm afraid to stop now. If I stop I might not be happy, & I might not be able to get back in the saddle. I'm going to keep learning & keep trying to win as long as I can get in the saddle. I am so optimistic that I actually have a yearling I can't wait to ride in 2015. It might be the last barrel horse that I train, or maybe not. One day at a time. |
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Location: stray dump capital of the world | I'm 52 and 19 months off from an injury. My confidence is in the crapper and my weight sucks! I need to lose weight and gain confidence. However, my hope is to get back running again. I like to go for fun now and while I'm not very competitive, it keeps me sane. |
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| This post is so encouraging.
I am 46 and have been riding my whole life.
I have a deep passion for horses and barrel racing.
Both my horses in high school was off the track and rock star barrel horses. Spent the last 20 some years riding cow bred horses and still have several. I lost my 1D horse 3 years ago to an unsuccessfull colic surgery, he was my best friend, my world. Hubby was tried of me crying every night.. he found a horse off the track and purchased him. We sent him to trainer as I was working full time, going to school, a wife, a mother, and caregiver to my dad. Trainer and I decided I should come down for some lessons to learn how to ride him (I caught lots of slack from friends and family for lessons) I took lesson for almost a year. Lessons was the best thing I done, my trainer help me become a better rider and was encouraging. Do not stop learning and asking questions. Knowledge is power.
I think as we age we are more selective as which horses we buy, we study bloodlines, and ask more questions.
We know our riding style and what type of horse fits our style. We also know how to read our horses and listen to them.
This is the beauty of age and life experiences.
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Location: In the Hills of Texas | This is a great thread.
I could write a book on this topic. I will say I need to figure out how to get back going or I need to get horseless. |
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| I am 47, and really having some physical issues. My hips kill me and I usually have to get on my horse early to loosen up the horse....and my hips LOL. However, I'm getting more serious than ever and am really excited about my mare that I pulled out of the pasture and just started riding again. i have a few other young horses coming up that I'm really excited about.
Then some days I don't know why I don't just sell them and play on the computer every day LOL. But I love it, and hope when I'm 80 my family will strap me on with duct tape and velcro and slap my horse on the butt and send her down the alley. And if I die doing, so what. I would be happy to die doing what I love.
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Location: Where the pavement ends and the West begins Utah | MS2011 - 2014-11-18 1:42 PM
bennie1 - 2014-11-18 11:37 AM MerryLegs - 2014-11-18 11:34 AM StillRiding - 2014-11-18 8:13 AM OK ladies, now lets name some older ladies who still kick butt. I will start.
JUNE HOLEMAN
MARTHA WRIGHT!
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| Cindy Hamilton - 2014-11-18 3:26 PM I'm 65 and 9 yrs. ago when I was 56, my good mare got hurt at a rodeo and was out for good...at that time I felt like I was at the top of my game both physically and mentally, and riding as good as I ever did...it was a big mistake not to go out and replace her with another winner right away...I was too cheap...now I'm paying a bigger price than money for only having young horses and projects for 9 yrs....
I think if you have always ridden high powered 1D or rodeo horses and you are older, if you get away from those kind for a period of time, you lose the timing, feel, and balance of that calibur of horse....so a couple years ago, I went and bought a 3 yr. old cutting horse to ranch sort on, then a few months ago, I realized I really wanted run barrels again and sold the horse, my cutting saddle and went looking for a 1D horse with all the criteria I had in mind to fit me and make running barrels fun again.....I wanted my "bucket list" horse, and I got exactly what I was looking for from Kendal Owen....he's the nicest horse I've had in 9 yrs and he's perfect for me....solid, proven, honest, same trip every time, quiet when you ask him, but ready when you get in the alley, and no nonsense even when it's cold and windy...I was riding him along the woods in my pasture last week and all of a sudden about 5 deer rushed out of the woods on the other side of my fence and all he did was put his ears up and look at them...awesome....I'll take all winter to get used to him and try to get myself up to speed on this kind of horse again...I just hope next spring I can do him justice....
One thing I can say is that yoga is like magic to get your flexibility and strength back, because without that, you can't ride at the same level you once did...I'm lucky that I don't have any physical problems and I'm committed to working hard at being the best I can be at my age to run with the young guns again......and remember that old age and treachery can always beat youth and skill...LOL...
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| At 45 I ask myself every day if I should still be riding. I have ridden most all my life, taking breaks for school, marriage, baby, divorce and every so often. I don't do well emotionally if I don't have a horse, but I don't do well emotionally if I have a horse and I'm not competitive. (which is where I am now … have horse, not competitive enough for my liking). Then I do not so smart things like try to pull my saddle off without unattaching the back cinch and making my already quirky horse pull back and buck (thankfully I wasn't sitting on him) tossing my saddle, breaking my back cinch, and breast collar .. I just don't know if I have the internal drive or "want to". I bought this horse knowing he was quirky because I fancied myself and kinda a "rehabber". Now I don't know that I have the heart or energy to keep him. Part of me wants to sell and buy a ready made automatic horse and part of me wants to just call it quits. I always say, "if only" i had a living quarter trailer, I would be able to go to two day events and be comfortable, but truth be told, I'm not sure that I'd have the drive even if I had a LQ trailer and a 1d or pro caliber horse.
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Location: Woodstown, NJ | Wow, what an inspiring thread!
I am 54. Even worse, I broke my back falling off my horse last year. It's been slow going. I still can't get my feet up comfortably to tie my shoelaces. And I can't get on the horse without a mounting block. I'm barely loping circles. But I am riding. I'm a little worried though that I'll ever be able to run barrels again and the thought is heartbreaking because I never really got going. For years, other things--moving, business, family responsibilities, horse problems--interfered and last year I was supposed to finally get serious and follow this dream. And then I fell off the horse. I've had accidents before but this time I'm wondering if I am ever going to be able to come back. I'm extremely weak. I think it's because of menopause. And I'm worried about reinjuring the fractures. But I keep going. I'm going to give it my all. I even bought myself the trailer of my dreams last summer because I am not giving up. I have to use that thing! And if it turns out that I can't barrel race, well at least I can ride. And living through your kid (my daughter is a barrel racer) is a pretty good plan B.
By the way, I started wearing a helmet a few years ago because I felt like a hypocrite making my daughter wear one and I wasn't, even though she never complained. When I fell off, my head bounced twice. If I didn't have that helmet on, a broken back would have been the least of my problems. |
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Location: /ARKANSAS | I will be 61 in a few months, was riding hard 10 years ago, my good horse went blind, just ripped my heart out of my chest. I have been through a couple of horses and finally have two I trust. I had more injuries on the ground than from horses... I had four bulging discs this past February and was numb my thighs and feet, no balance at all, I have no idea what caused it just an accumulation of injuries and arthritis. Started back riding this past September, would not let a surgeon touch me, I knew if they put metal or plastic in me I would never ride again. So I rehab'd myself with help from a massage therapist and exercises from a physical therapist. I don't know when I will stop riding, it is scarey thinking about what it will take to keep me off of horses and barrel racing! |
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Location: Colorado | This IS a very inspiring thread...and I think DogLady really started something here......I hope EVERYONE is inspired to keep going, keep running, and keep trying.......IT CAN BE DONE and it can be done successfully. It's about having faith and believing in yourself. Yes, I have LOTS of help I admit it in my earlier post...BUT I have faith and I believe in my horses that I have and 'system' that is in place......I know how the horses are trained and I trust that I know they are going to work...that's a huge plus.
BUT, either way......we are only as old as we feel right? Keep riding and keep thinking and feeling young.....you'll succeed! Our age is only numbers..the commitment is the same: if you want it you have to work at it...that's doesn't change regardless of your age...the work just might take longer and 'hurt' a bit more.....the commitment stays the same....but most of all its the passion. If you have passion YOU'VE GOT IT! For me, THIS is all I ever wanted....I've spent 30+ years locked in offices doing work for beer companies....riding, rodeoing, barrel racing was 2nd....I'm now moving to make that first and the 'offices' will change....I am in the middle of a life change and the horses and my time with them will surface to the top.......'commitment' and PASSION!
DogLady....you get that trailer full of horses going...you can make nice ones, you can sell nice ones, and you have the skill......get them all ready for future grand babies.....I really hope to see you at more of our races...I'm going to go to more Northern ones and hope you come our way......us to Older Gals will show 'em how its supposed to go (even if its only in our minds).
Here's my wish for everyone that reads this post: Stay young at heart! Keep your commitment, your drive, and your PASSION for our sport! Believe! Hope to see y'all down the road somewhere!
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Location: Somewhere between S@%&# stirrer and Saint | There is an awesome woman in our area named Norma Woods. She is older than me so she must be in her mid 60's. Besides being a wonderful woman she still does a great job barrel racing. |
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Location: Probably On the Road to the Next Barrel Race! | I am 55. I'm 30 pounds overweight because i have chronic fatigue and cannot work out. I get so tired at the barrel races that i saddle, rest, warm up, rest, run, rest, drive home, rest. I used to run pro, and if I had the money to buy a pro horse, you can bet your sweet bippy I'd be hauling to that end. Yes, it's a little harder physically than it used to be, but I just buried a solid 2D horse, and I am NOT happy running anything less than 2D. Matter of fact, I am listing my LQ trailer tomorrow so I can buy a young 2D horse that has 1D potential. I don't think the right 1D horse is any harder to ride than a 2/3D horse...they are all different....if the horse fits you, then I think you can run it fast and hang with it. I have no intention of slowing down...I am limited only by my finances. If my weak, overweight and aged body can do it, then certainly anybody can. You just have to accept a little limitation, and dream big. |
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Location: Probably On the Road to the Next Barrel Race! | Yes, well, I have a LQ trailer with nothing smoking to put in it, so I'm selling that sucker to buy a nice horse. Don't quit!!!!!!!! If you have the money, for heaven's sake, go for it!!! |
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| I guess I have a slight advantage over many of you. I have been sporting a middle aged figure since I hit puberty, always the Amazon of my barrel racing friends. As far a energy and pain, I have been dealing with Fibromyalgia for at least 20 years...added to the fact that I have a steep learning curve, am naturally a klutz and don't have the best of luck NOT hurting myself. lol I actually get scared when I find that I don't hurt anywhere as a painful injury is in my near my future, but fortunate enough that it's usually not super serious. A small sample , a torn glute, a torn hamstring and nerve, got my foot jammed into the deep ground while my spur was stuck in my' horse's side in a fall and she continued to skid, threatening to break my leg in a spiral fracture, kicked below the knee only to have an evulsion fracture ABOVE the knee from hyperextension... Currently am nursing a sore and torn buttock from 3 different injuries in less than a week involving torn muscles and strained ligaments in the hip joint. And this is the short list from the last 10 years, all after the age in question.
Still can't bring myself to enter the senior classes but am able to avoid them by rodeoing. I would still rather drive 50 miles to make one run than drive 50 miles and sit all day or all weekend to make a couple. Finally admitted that I no longer care for the outlaws and dinks which for a long time were all I could afford and I enjoyed fixing them. Sent my colt for someone ELSE to break as I guessed correctly that he was going to be a pistol and he is proving to be exactly that. I paid my dues and now am trying to be a little wiser.
Edited to add; also have pretty much always been on a budget and having been pulling the same trailer I bought new almost 22 years ago with it's 22 inch short wall with the tack In the LQ. And I still love my little trailer. Not having the desire to keep up with the Jones' can have it's advantages. :o)
Am trying to get back the joy of not just running, but of riding, which has been hard to find after getting so burnt out riding so many horses, that HAD to be ridden. Energy and motivation is what I am looking for these days. Motivation is much easier to find when things are going good. Cannot tell how much I have enjoyed this past summer.
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Location: western Nebraska | I have a funny for you. I haven't ridden in over a week-it has been too cold. So I am all fired up again and I am going to go ride. Have all the clothes on that are necessary to ride when it is 40 degrees and very windy plus heavy snowboots. I am riding my 5 year old ponying my open horse. I am about mile from home and turn to come back. The open horse goes straight up in the air and starts bucking and of course I have to let go because the 5 year old is all excited thinking she will do it too. Off he goes on a dead run for home. My colt is bucking and I am looking for the ground -she pauses and I get off. I walked the mile home and packing all the clothes and boots I guess I am starting to get in shape sooner and not in the way I really wanted.
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Location: midwest mama | CrossCreek - 2014-11-18 10:53 PM
I am 55. I'm 30 pounds overweight because i have chronic fatigue and cannot work out. I get so tired at the barrel races that i saddle, rest, warm up, rest, run, rest, drive home, rest. I used to run pro, and if I had the money to buy a pro horse, you can bet your sweet bippy I'd be hauling to that end. Yes, it's a little harder physically than it used to be, but I just buried a solid 2D horse, and I am NOT happy running anything less than 2D. Matter of fact, I am listing my LQ trailer tomorrow so I can buy a young 2D horse that has 1D potential. I don't think the right 1D horse is any harder to ride than a 2/3D horse...they are all different....if the horse fits you, then I think you can run it fast and hang with it. I have no intention of slowing down...I am limited only by my finances. If my weak, overweight and aged body can do it, then certainly anybody can. You just have to accept a little limitation, and dream big.
THIS!!!!!!!!! ^^^^
I have chronic fatigue also, and have to rest in between everything I do with my horse.
I have just decided that this is what I have to do, and I figure the extra time I need into my schedule at the race. That way I don't get panicked or frustrated.
I have decided that I am going to invest in a little LQ trailer - just a small one. That way if I am at a race and need some time to go and take a little nappy before I drive home or whatever I can.
I have had a lot of people want to buy my horse, but even if I decide not to go to races much (or not at all), I will still keep him. I love him and he makes me smile every day. |
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Location: Colorado | doglady - 2014-11-18 11:49 PM
I have a funny for you. I haven't ridden in over a week-it has been too cold. So I am all fired up again and I am going to go ride. Have all the clothes on that are necessary to ride when it is 40 degrees and very windy plus heavy snowboots. I am riding my 5 year old ponying my open horse. I am about mile from home and turn to come back. The open horse goes straight up in the air and starts bucking and of course I have to let go because the 5 year old is all excited thinking she will do it too. Off he goes on a dead run for home. My colt is bucking and I am looking for the ground -she pauses and I get off. I walked the mile home and packing all the clothes and boots I guess I am starting to get in shape sooner and not in the way I really wanted.
Now go ahead and have a good laugh!
OMG DogLady...I am sitting in the concrete jungle (my office) just chuckling because I can just see this!! OMGosh I am giggling....that's happened to me too and by the time I got home I was dying!!
Great workout and that's God's way of saying YOU'RE IN!!
Hope to see you soon.......
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Location: Oklahoma | I am 60. A year ago I got bucked off on the way to the first barrel and broke a rib. My fault, because I knew the horse was cold-backed and didn't warm her up enough. Anyway, 4 years ago I had a massive heart attack while I was working one on the pattern - Life Flighted to the hospital, etc., and now have a stent.Then 20 years ago I was bucked off and broke 3 vertebrae. That didn't stop me, either. A friend of mine says, "we ain't got a lick of sense" due to all the injuries we have and we keep riding and running. I have a new prospect I'm training and hope to be running her by spring. Karma repaid the last one that bucked me off as she fractured her P2 bone in February and is now a pasture ornament. I plan to keep running as long as possible!
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Location: CA | Not to change the subject... but I wonder if " Chronic Fatigue" is the inablity to accept we aren't 25 anymore. every spring I go to my doctor just knowing something is terribly wrong. I am exhausted, and resting several times during the day. Every year I get a whole panel of blood tests and there is nothing wrong with me... Finally he said it..... You are not a spring chicken anymore. The only reason I don't get mad at him is 1. he is right and 2. he is the same age as me. lol |
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Location: Buffalo, TX | azsun - 2014-11-18 9:50 PM At 45 I ask myself every day if I should still be riding. I have ridden most all my life, taking breaks for school, marriage, baby, divorce and every so often. I don't do well emotionally if I don't have a horse, but I don't do well emotionally if I have a horse and I'm not competitive. (which is where I am now … have horse, not competitive enough for my liking). Then I do not so smart things like try to pull my saddle off without unattaching the back cinch and making my already quirky horse pull back and buck (thankfully I wasn't sitting on him) tossing my saddle, breaking my back cinch, and breast collar .. I just don't know if I have the internal drive or "want to". I bought this horse knowing he was quirky because I fancied myself and kinda a "rehabber". Now I don't know that I have the heart or energy to keep him. Part of me wants to sell and buy a ready made automatic horse and part of me wants to just call it quits. I always say, "if only" i had a living quarter trailer, I would be able to go to two day events and be comfortable, but truth be told, I'm not sure that I'd have the drive even if I had a LQ trailer and a 1d or pro caliber horse. I need to make a decision ….
Your post really stood out to me because I was like that....I was so brokenhearted when my mare got hurt and I also had "rehab" projects and quirky horses that I would stick with and I hated nearly every horse I had during the last 9 years so much that I dreaded even going to a barrel race....
I got so frustrated and I wasn't doing well emotionally because I was trying to find a (cheap) young horse or a project that I liked to be competitive on and it wasn't happening....I got to where I didn't care and just got out of barrel racing because of it....then I finally decided to bail out of the young ones and just go out and spend the money on something nice....way worth it....I can tell you that a nice, uncomplicated finished horse that fits you will make you want to ride and go and make it fun again....they are out there, don't settle for another project, you are beating yourself up with them like I did.... |
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Location: Louisiana | I will be 50 in February - still feel pretty good about my riding - my goals may have changed a little and I have to say that my mom is over 65 and is still very competitive. |
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Location: 100 miles from Nowhere, AR | Cindy Hamilton - 2014-11-19 11:41 AM azsun - 2014-11-18 9:50 PM At 45 I ask myself every day if I should still be riding. I have ridden most all my life, taking breaks for school, marriage, baby, divorce and every so often. I don't do well emotionally if I don't have a horse, but I don't do well emotionally if I have a horse and I'm not competitive. (which is where I am now … have horse, not competitive enough for my liking). Then I do not so smart things like try to pull my saddle off without unattaching the back cinch and making my already quirky horse pull back and buck (thankfully I wasn't sitting on him) tossing my saddle, breaking my back cinch, and breast collar .. I just don't know if I have the internal drive or "want to". I bought this horse knowing he was quirky because I fancied myself and kinda a "rehabber". Now I don't know that I have the heart or energy to keep him. Part of me wants to sell and buy a ready made automatic horse and part of me wants to just call it quits. I always say, "if only" i had a living quarter trailer, I would be able to go to two day events and be comfortable, but truth be told, I'm not sure that I'd have the drive even if I had a LQ trailer and a 1d or pro caliber horse. I need to make a decision …. Your post really stood out to me because I was like that....I was so brokenhearted when my mare got hurt and I also had "rehab" projects and quirky horses that I would stick with and I hated nearly every horse I had during the last 9 years so much that I dreaded even going to a barrel race....
I got so frustrated and I wasn't doing well emotionally because I was trying to find a (cheap) young horse or a project that I liked to be competitive on and it wasn't happening....I got to where I didn't care and just got out of barrel racing because of it....then I finally decided to bail out of the young ones and just go out and spend the money on something nice....way worth it....I can tell you that a nice, uncomplicated finished horse that fits you will make you want to ride and go and make it fun again....they are out there, don't settle for another project, you are beating yourself up with them like I did....
I did the same thing, and then he got hurt, got sick, got hurt, seemed to be getting our groove back and now he can't see right. Ugh. I'm ready to get my young ones going enough to haul. |
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Location: Colorado | T turning 3 - 2014-11-19 10:55 AM
Not to change the subject... but I wonder if " Chronic Fatigue" is the inablity to accept we aren't 25 anymore. every spring I go to my doctor just knowing something is terribly wrong. I am exhausted, and resting several times during the day. Every year I get a whole panel of blood tests and there is nothing wrong with me... Finally he said it..... You are not a spring chicken anymore. The only reason I don't get mad at him is 1. he is right and 2. he is the same age as me. lol
Your post made me giggle.
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Location: Moving soon..... | I am 58 and still going. I haven't been able to go for a while because we moved. My best friend is 72 and can win with the best of them. I plan on going down the road for many more years. |
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Location: Haslet, Texas | doglady - 2014-11-18 11:49 PM I have a funny for you. I haven't ridden in over a week-it has been too cold. So I am all fired up again and I am going to go ride. Have all the clothes on that are necessary to ride when it is 40 degrees and very windy plus heavy snowboots. I am riding my 5 year old ponying my open horse. I am about mile from home and turn to come back. The open horse goes straight up in the air and starts bucking and of course I have to let go because the 5 year old is all excited thinking she will do it too. Off he goes on a dead run for home. My colt is bucking and I am looking for the ground -she pauses and I get off. I walked the mile home and packing all the clothes and boots I guess I am starting to get in shape sooner and not in the way I really wanted.
Now go ahead and have a good laugh!
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Location: midwest mama | T turning 3 - 2014-11-19 10:55 AM
Not to change the subject... but I wonder if " Chronic Fatigue" is the inablity to accept we aren't 25 anymore. every spring I go to my doctor just knowing something is terribly wrong. I am exhausted, and resting several times during the day. Every year I get a whole panel of blood tests and there is nothing wrong with me... Finally he said it..... You are not a spring chicken anymore. The only reason I don't get mad at him is 1. he is right and 2. he is the same age as me. lol
My chronic fatigue is the real deal - it was diagnosed by my doctor.
I used to rodeo full time and that was the main thing that made me decide to not "beat the trail" anymore. I was only 30 at the time. It has gotten more pronounced due to my being "older" (53), but mine certainly wasn't caused from my age. |
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Location: CA | OldSchoolCowgirl - 2014-11-19 4:28 PM T turning 3 - 2014-11-19 10:55 AM Not to change the subject... but I wonder if " Chronic Fatigue" is the inablity to accept we aren't 25 anymore. every spring I go to my doctor just knowing something is terribly wrong. I am exhausted, and resting several times during the day. Every year I get a whole panel of blood tests and there is nothing wrong with me... Finally he said it..... You are not a spring chicken anymore. The only reason I don't get mad at him is 1. he is right and 2. he is the same age as me. lol My chronic fatigue is the real deal - it was diagnosed by my doctor. I used to rodeo full time and that was the main thing that made me decide to not "beat the trail" anymore. I was only 30 at the time. It has gotten more pronounced due to my being "older" (53 ), but mine certainly wasn't caused from my age.
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Location: BELLEVUE, IA | I'll be 45 in 2015. I just bought my PRCA permit for this coming year I've got a horse I think I can fill it on and I didn't start racing til I was 30. I never dreamed I'd be here especially at 45 but I am here and I'm not looking back. Do I hurt sometimes? Sure. Do I get behind my horse sometimes? Yep. But I'm just getting started, |
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| Cindy Hamilton - 2014-11-19 11:41 AM
azsun - 2014-11-18 9:50 PM At 45 I ask myself every day if I should still be riding. I have ridden most all my life, taking breaks for school, marriage, baby, divorce and every so often. I don't do well emotionally if I don't have a horse, but I don't do well emotionally if I have a horse and I'm not competitive. (which is where I am now … have horse, not competitive enough for my liking). Then I do not so smart things like try to pull my saddle off without unattaching the back cinch and making my already quirky horse pull back and buck (thankfully I wasn't sitting on him) tossing my saddle, breaking my back cinch, and breast collar .. I just don't know if I have the internal drive or "want to". I bought this horse knowing he was quirky because I fancied myself and kinda a "rehabber". Now I don't know that I have the heart or energy to keep him. Part of me wants to sell and buy a ready made automatic horse and part of me wants to just call it quits. I always say, "if only" i had a living quarter trailer, I would be able to go to two day events and be comfortable, but truth be told, I'm not sure that I'd have the drive even if I had a LQ trailer and a 1d or pro caliber horse. I need to make a decision ….
Your post really stood out to me because I was like that....I was so brokenhearted when my mare got hurt and I also had "rehab" projects and quirky horses that I would stick with and I hated nearly every horse I had during the last 9 years so much that I dreaded even going to a barrel race....
I got so frustrated and I wasn't doing well emotionally because I was trying to find a (cheap) young horse or a project that I liked to be competitive on and it wasn't happening....I got to where I didn't care and just got out of barrel racing because of it....then I finally decided to bail out of the young ones and just go out and spend the money on something nice....way worth it....I can tell you that a nice, uncomplicated finished horse that fits you will make you want to ride and go and make it fun again....they are out there, don't settle for another project, you are beating yourself up with them like I did....
I'm leaning that way … I would have to sell the quirky one though and I'm not sure how to go about doing that … finding the right home who is able to deal with his quirks. My other "gripe" or "excuse" is my hubby and kid are not horsey people, so its my thing … I'm alone in this hobby, which means I'm taking "family time" to can chase. I'm alone all day, for the most part while hubby is at work and kid is at school (I work at home) and then alone in my hobby. They don't ever complain about the $$ I spend and are supportive of me having a hobby … but I still feel bad for not being there for family time. They will go with me every now and then, but I'm no fun when I don't do well I don't cry or whine, but I'm not exactly happy either and I can't expect them to sit at barrel races all day every weekend. So the excuses continue. |
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Location: western Nebraska | Well this thread made it to FB and got blasted. Apparently there are lots more older barrel racers that are still feeling like 20 year olds! I didn't say you weren't supposed to be doing this after 45-I just meant since things change how are you handling the changes.
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Location: frozen tundra of pa | doglady - 2014-11-20 1:53 AM Well this thread made it to FB and got blasted. Apparently there are lots more older barrel racers that are still feeling like 20 year olds! I didn't say you weren't supposed to be doing this after 45-I just meant since things change how are you handling the changes.
This is a good topic. I will be 53 in May. Been riding and showing my whole life. I changed jobs about 3/4 years ago and it leaves little time for riding. I am lucky that i have a great "weekend warrior" and a colt that is showing great talent. I dont like not being able to ride except on the weekends but barrel racing is still my favorite pasttime. Am I as good as i was nope,do i worry what people think?NOPE I go ride my horses and have fun and i still manage to fall into the 1D most of the time. My sister started showing again several years ago after a 20 year layoff she will be 46 this coming summer and has a smoking 1D horse. It is all mind over matter. your MIND will do what you want to and it doesnt MATTER what anybody else thinks. |
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| In my 20's, I wasn't afraid to ride anything with hair. In my 30's I turned all the horses over to my daughter. Now that I'm in my mid 40's, I decided to get back into it (thinking I still has that 20 year old ability). Boy did I have a wake up call! My 3 year old might be the most talented horse on the place. I'm afraid to crawl on her because she is a hot mess that would probably jump out from underneath me. I watch Hope ride her and see how she snaps the back side of a barrel and I think it might break me in two. Guess the worst case scenerio is Hope will have another great horse for the WPRA. Meanwhile I will continue to be the eyes of the outfit and coach her in what she needs to do. I will start running again though because I do love it. Okay...maybe running is a stretch. Maybe more like a fast trot, lol! |
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Location: RAINY FREEZING AnartiFlorida | I will be 50 next year. I think I'm in better shape than I have been my whole life. I have a very physical job and come home and work six horses just about every day. Only thing changed really is I am just not worried about which D I happen to run in that day. Figure money is money. 2012 I ran more in 1/2D. Last year I ran mostly 2d when I ran. This year few shows I've made I've ran 2/3D. I have two Colts I'm getting ready for next year so I will be really busy tuning soon. I think she is just a number |
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| I wish I never quit riding over 12 years ago. I am not close to the rider I was. I went to a big barrel race first before easing back into it. What a shock and embarrassment! I didn't even hit the 4D. My horse was green and didn't shy away from the bright photographers lights at every barrel. I should have focused on that but I didn't, I focused on the incredible slowness of my run. Have not been to a barrel race since. But I have decided to venture out again starting with Joy's clinic next month. I got my health issues under control, i am getting back in shape and putting my big girl panties on to tackle this stupid block I put up for myself. You ladies on this site have inspired me to try again! A big thank you to all of you. |
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Location: Beggs, OK | doglady - 2014-11-19 11:53 PM Well this thread made it to FB and got blasted. Apparently there are lots more older barrel racers that are still feeling like 20 year olds! I didn't say you weren't supposed to be doing this after 45-I just meant since things change how are you handling the changes.
Just like 90% of the questions that are asked on this site and FB...whether it's about bits, a horses style, workout routine, etc. I want to ask specifically:
YES, I KNOW IT'S POSSIBLE: YES, I'M SURE YOU'RE GETTING BY DOING WHAT YOU'RE DOING:
BUT, AT WHAT LEVEL ARE YOU ACTUALLY COMPETING?
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Location: In The Land of Cotton | I will be 57 on Monday. I sold two good horses they are doing great because I knew I couldn't ride them. So, I now have two young ones. I will send them off to someone I trust when they are ready. My goal is - I want when I pull up for the other participants to say - there is some nice competition here today. I might not win, but I want to be competitive with what I have.
Some days I hurt like heck to move. Others not so much. I have found that adjusting my food intake and not eating what bothers me has also spread to helping with how I feel physically. I plan on continuing until I can't swing a leg over. When I can't, they will become the grandchildren's. |
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Location: LouLouVille, OK | Griz - 2014-11-18 5:39 AM rodeoveteran - 2014-11-17 9:14 PM The biggest thing the adding years have affected is my desire to ride in any weather. It's too cold. It's too hot It's too windy. It's too humid. It's too buggy. I'm too tired...lol.....I'll ride tomorrow. To be fair, I got burnt out keeping not only 3-4 of my own legged up and schooled, but also hubby's 4 pickup horses. That'll wear a body's want too out eventually. And I spent 7 years trying to get "the horse of my dreams" sound and healthy enough to run (long story). Walking out to the barn wondering if your horse is sound enough to ride let alone will stay sound so you can run at the rodeo you entered on the weekend kinda robs the will right out of a body and soul. So this past summer I was given another girl's backup mare....19 years old, hadn't been run at all the past two years, and not all that much in her career. I was skeptical and that old girl made a believer out of me!! I had a blast, and even placed at some rodeos despite my steep learning curve. Made some bad mistakes and still placed! Never had a horse I could screw up and still place on. Got most of MY issues worked out by the end of the summer and really looking forward to next year! I tell her (as I used to tell my good, old mare), the age and experience gets to win out over youth and beauty ONCE in awhile! Now I have to keep my battered body sound enough to keep running! LOL I am 49 and THIS for sure - I just don't ENJOY going when it's RAINING or FREEZING OR 110 degrees! I no longer have a desire to go and sit for 4-7 hours to make one run. I just have other things to do! I still enjoy going and I am somewhat competitive, I just don't "live" it anymore. My dad is in a nursing home 120 miles from me and right now, I think it's more important to make time for him.
LOL... I love both of these posts right here...
I agree with all the weather things...lol and heres what I also caught... a 19 yr old mare... not many give the "older" horses alot of thought either, but the team of you 2 says, age is nothing but a number!
sure I have realized my timing isn't what it used to be, that I too don't want to sit all day at a race to run
(let alone watch all day)
My competitve edge has been replaced with the thoughts of...I could get hurt, simply because I have been hurt. The fractured pelvis, collar bone, the bruised spleen and shins, the knocked so out of whack I passed out I believe is to blame for that lack of edge.
PS... I AM TOTALLY LOVING THIS THREAD!
NICE TO KNOW IM NOT THE ONLY ONE THAT WONDERS SUCH STUFF ;) |
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| Lol. I STARTED barrel racing at 40! I grew up riding English and eventing but when I came to the U.S. in our area nobody does it so I decided to barrel race. Bought a 5 month old filly for $200, trained her and now running 2d and 3d times in the NBHA with this being the 2nd year I'm running her. Just turned 50 in October and I am looking forward to beat my times next year. Also bought another filly for poles, trained her and she's running an average of 22 seconds :). Yes, stuff hurts more than ever and I don't bounce as well anymore but I'm still having a heck of a good time! I say go for it! Mary walker was 54 when she won her biggest runs ever! |
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Location: LouLouVille, OK | hwh - 2014-11-19 2:03 PM doglady - 2014-11-18 11:49 PM I have a funny for you. I haven't ridden in over a week-it has been too cold. So I am all fired up again and I am going to go ride. Have all the clothes on that are necessary to ride when it is 40 degrees and very windy plus heavy snowboots. I am riding my 5 year old ponying my open horse. I am about mile from home and turn to come back. The open horse goes straight up in the air and starts bucking and of course I have to let go because the 5 year old is all excited thinking she will do it too. Off he goes on a dead run for home. My colt is bucking and I am looking for the ground -she pauses and I get off. I walked the mile home and packing all the clothes and boots I guess I am starting to get in shape sooner and not in the way I really wanted.
Now go ahead and have a good laugh! I have to admit this gave me a brilliant visual and a little giggle.
LOL... been there!
I have to admit this since the NFR is around the corner, I sit and I watch and get all kinds of motivated to ride and run... then the week after the finals I am tired, and it's cold... lol and then there is sit on my warm couch...lol so hey, at least you bundled up and got on girl! |
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Location: SE KS | I am 53 - Have always rode, but never really had a chance to go and compete until the last 4 years consistently due to being a mom like all of us. I feel that I have a really nice horse to go on now and starting another one. I feel energectic and I feel that I am probably riding the best that I have ever rode. I work at my horsemanship everythime I get on a horse. I feel better when I ride, lose weight when I ride, and my confidence level is high and just feel better when keeping the horses legged up. Love the adrelenie rush when going to the first barrel fast. :) Also started to team rope ( love it).
Now winter comes and it is harder but, I am going to find a way to keep riding and be ready for some of the winter "Run for the Bonus Races" that are coming up.
I am going to fight and not beleive that I am 53 and enjoy the journey and going for it. June Holeman has my greatest respect and if she can do it, so can I.
You all can too!!!
too Doglady - at least you got on and made the effort - know about bundling up to stay warm.
CindyT - you are right - the accidents aren't fun - and my body hurts from some of those accidents - and yes the little voice in your mind saying "careful" and I do listen to it...
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Location: 100 miles from Nowhere, AR | rachellyn80 - 2014-11-20 8:29 AM doglady - 2014-11-19 11:53 PM Well this thread made it to FB and got blasted. Apparently there are lots more older barrel racers that are still feeling like 20 year olds! I didn't say you weren't supposed to be doing this after 45-I just meant since things change how are you handling the changes. Just like 90% of the questions that are asked on this site and FB...whether it's about bits, a horses style, workout routine, etc. I want to ask specifically:
YES, I KNOW IT'S POSSIBLE: YES, I'M SURE YOU'RE GETTING BY DOING WHAT YOU'RE DOING:
BUT, AT WHAT LEVEL ARE YOU ACTUALLY COMPETING?
I am not interested at this point in being added money or simply participating.
After being forced to stay home for several years, I'm going to enter up even tho I never know what D my horse will be running in or if we will even get a time. BUT, I'm not happy or satisfied with that, and I WILL have another winner. Eventually.  |
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Location: Beggs, OK | I don't even have one to run right now! lol I have a four year old that has been with Liana and is now going to the ranch until next summer to learn a little work ethic...and I bought another ranch horse recently that will be going to her when I pick the other one up. I'm a little excited about the new one. He's waspy enough that the kids won't be riding him...he'll be ALL mine! He's already bucked PJ off, so she's done. |
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Location: 100 miles from Nowhere, AR | rachellyn80 - 2014-11-20 9:58 AM I don't even have one to run right now! lol I have a four year old that has been with Liana and is now going to the ranch until next summer to learn a little work ethic...and I bought another ranch horse recently that will be going to her when I pick the other one up. I'm a little excited about the new one. He's waspy enough that the kids won't be riding him...he'll be ALL mine! He's already bucked PJ off, so she's done.
Lilly won't even ride with me when I'm on Pippy--no worries there about losing my horse. LOL She does buck sometimes, but isn't trashy about it. It would probably scare me if I hadn't raised her, but I know I can get her to stop. |
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Location: Colorado | doglady - 2014-11-19 11:53 PM
Well this thread made it to FB and got blasted. Apparently there are lots more older barrel racers that are still feeling like 20 year olds! I didn't say you weren't supposed to be doing this after 45-I just meant since things change how are you handling the changes.
Facebook is a different crowd......
I LOVE your thread DogLady and I think you started a GREAT discussion....I shared it across to my Mile Hi page and didn't get much play at all......
Love it....I'm waiting to hear your trial and tribulations of today........
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Location: Beggs, OK | Three 4 Luck - 2014-11-20 10:12 AM rachellyn80 - 2014-11-20 9:58 AM I don't even have one to run right now! lol I have a four year old that has been with Liana and is now going to the ranch until next summer to learn a little work ethic...and I bought another ranch horse recently that will be going to her when I pick the other one up. I'm a little excited about the new one. He's waspy enough that the kids won't be riding him...he'll be ALL mine! He's already bucked PJ off, so she's done. Lilly won't even ride with me when I'm on Pippy--no worries there about losing my horse. LOL She does buck sometimes, but isn't trashy about it. It would probably scare me if I hadn't raised her, but I know I can get her to stop.
The one that Liana has wants to be cold backed with everyone except me...and the new one has hopped a couple of times, but definitely has not bucked. I didn't see her come off of him, but she was MAD at me over it, lol. She wanted to use him to pony her Princess Hotbox around before the rodeo instead of having to take all of her Back On Track gear off and let her get cold. He was pretty sore and beat up when I got him, so I had to explain to her that: balanced shoes, stifle injections, Gastroguard, and cold weather would change a horses disposition significantly, lol.
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Location: 100 miles from Nowhere, AR | Oh Lord, Princess Hotbox. I love it! She's earned it tho. Have fun with the new ones and good luck keeping them to yourself. |
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Location: You never know where I will show up...... | doglady - 2014-11-17 2:28 PM The post on the clinic for women over 40 got me thinking. I would like to hear how some of you 45 and up feel your barrel racing has changed.
For me -I am heavier than I was-my balance isn't as good and I hurt all over. I know I am not as competive as I used to be-I think I have really nice horses but I haven't actually kicked or even thought about running hard to the first barrel for years now. I seem to be more interested in making a nice smooth run -a confidence builder-for my horses. I used to really not like the 4ds-now I love them. I fit in.
It is funny when the younger girls look at me -I know they are thinking-why is she still here! Or yea, more added money. I know that the older you get the better horse you need to be competive. I used to be able to win on about anything-I thought I could so I did. Now -I am just not sure anymore.
Anyway I would love to hear you all's thoughts on this.
I just want to say that I would NEVER EVER think that of you. You are someone that I have looked up to for a very long time. You will always be a winner in my eyes. You are someone that has been places and done things that most of us can only dream of doing.
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Location: Buffalo, TX | rachellyn80 - 2014-11-20 10:21 AM Three 4 Luck - 2014-11-20 10:12 AM rachellyn80 - 2014-11-20 9:58 AM take all of her Back On Track gear off
Speaking of Back On Track gear....I bought the T shirt (they run big) and WOW, it really works....I had a nagging shoulder pain for a few months and bought it for that and the pain disappeared completely after wearing the shirt about 3 days for 4 hrs. each evening....also, it's long enough to cover your lower back, so as a side effect my eternally nagging sciatica pain that I go to the chiro for all the time has also nearly 100% disappeared...I'm really amazed at this product...so those of you in pain, check out this stuff...I was skeptical at first, but bought it anyway, and I'm glad I did.... |
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| I'm new to Barrel racing and horseback riding in general, even though I rode in high school. I am 50 and loving it. I am taking lessons and even though it seems like a very slow process, improvement is being made and I am excited. Being an x-athlete in a few sports helps keep me motivated. Where are the clinics for seniors/older gals? Thanks for all the tips and encouragement. You guys are great. |
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Location: In The Land of Cotton | bImage - 2014-11-20 1:42 PM I'm new to Barrel racing and horseback riding in general, even though I rode in high school. I am 50 and loving it. I am taking lessons and even though it seems like a very slow process, improvement is being made and I am excited. Being an x-athlete in a few sports helps keep me motivated. Where are the clinics for seniors/older gals? Thanks for all the tips and encouragement. You guys are great.
Welcome!
Where do you live? There are always clinics available, but I have not seen one specifically for "us older" people. It would be a good idea though.
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Location: SE KS | Dog lady - I have always had great respect for you. I think you are a great horsewoman and would hate to see you stop.
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Location: Riding Crackhead. | banjomia - 2014-11-20 4:00 PM Im loving this thread......I have a question maybe someone can help me with...waaay off topic. When I hit reply ( to reply to someones comment)...and then I view it...my comment shows up at the end of the blog but it doesn't include the text I was referring to. I see all the different text colors that separates the conversation. Can't figure out how to do that either. Hope you guys know what I'm talking about....lol..thanks
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Location: a secret | 50 is the new 30 .................havent you heard?
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| Doglady-first off let me say that I think you are BAD ASS! You went to the NFR, how cool is that?!?
I would probably giggle like a little kid if I got your autograph...seriously!
I have not read every post, and I am 27, but I just wanted to say that this is about your journey not everyone elses.
If you love the 4Ds, you love the 4Ds-go and enjoy them. If you want something different then go do something different. Your journey, your choice-just enjoy doing what you love, because life is too short to not enjoy yourself!!
Don't worry about "the younger girls" wondering why you are still here. They are probably thinking "what can I learn from her?" I know that would be what I would think if I ran into you-and then I would probably bother you for pointers. ;-) |
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Location: western Nebraska | I don't plan on quitting anytime soon. But today I realized what it is that is finally bugging me at age 56. OMG=I actually said it outloud. I have been lying about it for so long! haha Anyway What I finally realized is that 20 years ago I was riding the same kind of horses I am now. Either fixers or problems mentally or physically and 20 years ago I was one step ahead. I could sense what was going to happen and fix it before it materialized. 10 years ago I was in the moment as it happened and could fix it at the time -I was stepping side by side with my horses. Now 20 years later I am one step behind. It happens and I say "oh shi!! where did that come from. Too late to fix what happened. I might have as good a horse as I have ever had. He is young but has moves that are amazing. I am going to have to get back to being mentally as tough as I have ever been or I am going to be sitting on ground watching him turn the next barrel.
So there is my whole 20 years in a nutshell. One step ahead, 10 years in the moment, and 10 more years one step behind. |
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| My thoughts, I bet you still "got" it-you just don't realize it.
It is my opinion that horsemanship is like wine-it only gets better with time.
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Location: Texas | 3canstorun - 2014-11-20 1:02 PM
bImage - 2014-11-20 1:42 PM I'm new to Barrel racing and horseback riding in general, even though I rode in high school. I am 50 and loving it. I am taking lessons and even though it seems like a very slow process, improvement is being made and I am excited. Being an x-athlete in a few sports helps keep me motivated. Where are the clinics for seniors/older gals? Thanks for all the tips and encouragement. You guys are great.
Welcome!
Where do you live? There are always clinics available, but I have not seen one specifically for "us older" people. It would be a good idea though.
I'm having a 40 and up, ladies only, clinic in Giddings, TX on December 12th - 15th. It filled up just a few hours after posting it. It's going to be a great clinic and I will be addressing a lot of the things that were mentioned here.
We are only limited by our own thoughts… Age has never been a big deal for me because I have a grandma that has never been limited by her age. She turned 90 this year and is the hostess/cashier at the Ihop in Kerrville. She works several days a week and all the holidays, which "I" complain is too much for her, lol. Her reply is "you want me to sit at home and get old? That'll kill me!" She is quite a lady and reminds me often that I have great genetics, lol.
My good friend and I were discussing our barrel racing and she said "Ya know, I think that the real gift is actually the DESIRE to do it." I think that my friend is right.
I am thinking about doing another clinic in January so keep your eyes open for it, if you're interested!
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| I live in Colorado but am willing to travel. Not sure about hauling a horse of snow passes though. That seems rough. Excited to attend clinics. It would be great to leave the state in the middle of winter :-)
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Location: Iowa | I started barrel racing at about 45. I'll be 60 beginning of Jan. I'll continue running til I can't get up on my horse. |
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Location: west of East Texas | I'm having a blast at 52. I rode the 'horse to beat' horse for 15 years with a few others thrown in there just for variety. When he aged out, I was a young adult and adult things took me away from competing for about 15 years. I started back at local playdays and open horseshows when I started my kids on horses. The last 10 years have been a steady run of getting better and better. I've started several horses that went on to become my daughters' main mounts. But you know what... I ride their horses everytime the girls aren't looking and I love it!
Yes, I'm not as agile or as fit as I was at 20 but I'm smarter and use my brain more to make up for it. If I wasn't out riding or working in the barn, I'd be in worse shape, physically and mentally, than I am now. My horses don't care that I'm a bit behind them sometimes, and I KNOW they appreciate my mature and knowledgeable mindset when a problem comes up. I know someone else could ride my horses better but they don't own the horse, I do. And I don't plan on giving my horses up. Well, unless one of the daughters come asking. That one always gets me. ha ha ha |
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Location: TX | I'm 66, new knees, heavier and much slower reflexes - and grateful for every single run I get to make. I faithfully renew my WPRA gold card every year, plus BBR, and count my blessings. I still raise and train my own horses, buy a few off the track, and enjoy every single minute of it. I've had to do some serious attitude adjustments along the way about the changes in my riding ability and losing horses I dearly loved. When you're in this long-term, you make the necessary changes and so appreciate still being able to continue. |
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Location: Oklahoma | Well at 45, I felt great....won rookie of the year in the IPRA and made the finals. At 46, I was riding better than ever and made the IFR again and set 5 arena records.....but at 62, I went today and was in the crack of the 3D....and I haven't run hard to the first in a long time. Sold the rodeo horse I bought in July because he terrified me going so fast, so I hear ya!!! I quit completely in 2010 and sold everything and lasted only 3 months. I was miserable. I missed my friends, I missed my horses, and I gained 30 lbs. :( So I bought back everything (and paid more for it, of course) and I'm happy. I get to see my friends, I have a GREAT set of horses that I know I don't do justice to, but I know when I sell them that they are workin' sons a guns! lol I've made peace with the fact that I'm no longer going to set an arena record, and honestly, I don't want to go that fast. I barrel race now more for fun, and to sell my horses (they've got to be out there going or they won't sell) and if I need one shown in a fast run, there's a couple of young guns that love to ride my horses and will let me get a good video. :) I identified with everything you said, but I think if you quit, you would miss it. I felt like I lost my identity, and I felt that I was kinda letting God down when He had given me a healthy enough body to still be able to run (albeit less competitively). But I do think that we should use the gifts we were given and yours is definitely to train and compete on great horses. :) |
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Location: Oklahoma | MS2011 - 2014-11-18 1:42 PM
bennie1 - 2014-11-18 11:37 AM MerryLegs - 2014-11-18 11:34 AM StillRiding - 2014-11-18 8:13 AM OK ladies, now lets name some older ladies who still kick butt. I will start.
JUNE HOLEMAN
MARTHA WRIGHT!
Mary Beth Ogle....she won the NBHA I went to today on her good little Peaches mare. She's 65. |
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Location: Probably On the Road to the Next Barrel Race! | did anyone mention Janet Stover, WPRA world champion?? |
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Location: Probably On the Road to the Next Barrel Race! | OldSchoolCowgirl - 2014-11-19 4:28 PM T turning 3 - 2014-11-19 10:55 AM Not to change the subject... but I wonder if " Chronic Fatigue" is the inablity to accept we aren't 25 anymore. every spring I go to my doctor just knowing something is terribly wrong. I am exhausted, and resting several times during the day. Every year I get a whole panel of blood tests and there is nothing wrong with me... Finally he said it..... You are not a spring chicken anymore. The only reason I don't get mad at him is 1. he is right and 2. he is the same age as me. lol My chronic fatigue is the real deal - it was diagnosed by my doctor. I used to rodeo full time and that was the main thing that made me decide to not "beat the trail" anymore. I was only 30 at the time. It has gotten more pronounced due to my being "older" (53 ), but mine certainly wasn't caused from my age.
I have chronic fatigue,,,doctors who make light of this should have their license suspended, IMHO. Nothing funny or cute about it. I'm 55 with chronic fatigue, but i can ride with the best when I am mounted on the best. It's really not that hard, girls...your horse does most of the work, in case you hdn;t noticed... |
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| CrossCreek - 2014-11-23 11:59 PM OldSchoolCowgirl - 2014-11-19 4:28 PM T turning 3 - 2014-11-19 10:55 AM Not to change the subject... but I wonder if " Chronic Fatigue" is the inablity to accept we aren't 25 anymore. every spring I go to my doctor just knowing something is terribly wrong. I am exhausted, and resting several times during the day. Every year I get a whole panel of blood tests and there is nothing wrong with me... Finally he said it..... You are not a spring chicken anymore. The only reason I don't get mad at him is 1. he is right and 2. he is the same age as me. lol My chronic fatigue is the real deal - it was diagnosed by my doctor. I used to rodeo full time and that was the main thing that made me decide to not "beat the trail" anymore. I was only 30 at the time. It has gotten more pronounced due to my being "older" (53 ), but mine certainly wasn't caused from my age.
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I'll make you a deal. I won't belittle chronic fatigue syndrome if you don't belittle how some of us feel trying to ride our barrel horses effectively with a myriad of situations we are dealing with.
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Location: South Dakota | raisinrox - 2014-11-17 6:06 PM I am 61 and haven't ridden a 1d horse in 10 years but afte the loss of my husband i started runnung his 1d caliber horse and in 3months I went from 5d to 1d and recently won a couple of big races. Never in my wildest dreams did i thinnk i would get back to that level but it feels great and I am in good shape from yoga and working hard.
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Location: North Dakota | bennie1 - 2014-11-24 8:07 AM CrossCreek - 2014-11-23 11:59 PM OldSchoolCowgirl - 2014-11-19 4:28 PM T turning 3 - 2014-11-19 10:55 AM Not to change the subject... but I wonder if " Chronic Fatigue" is the inablity to accept we aren't 25 anymore. every spring I go to my doctor just knowing something is terribly wrong. I am exhausted, and resting several times during the day. Every year I get a whole panel of blood tests and there is nothing wrong with me... Finally he said it..... You are not a spring chicken anymore. The only reason I don't get mad at him is 1. he is right and 2. he is the same age as me. lol My chronic fatigue is the real deal - it was diagnosed by my doctor. I used to rodeo full time and that was the main thing that made me decide to not "beat the trail" anymore. I was only 30 at the time. It has gotten more pronounced due to my being "older" (53 ), but mine certainly wasn't caused from my age.
I'll make you a deal. I won't belittle chronic fatigue syndrome if you don't belittle how some of us feel trying to ride our barrel horses effectively with a myriad of situations we are dealing with.
Here's a different spin, and I'm not making fun of anyone but the highlighted part is what got me thinking....I was watching the race (and competing) and the 1D fast time was won by a gal younger than me, but still a working mom of 3 with plenty of horse accidents in her past and I asked her if she thought it was hard work riding that 1D horse and after thinking for a little while she said basically the same thing as the highlighted part above. Most of The "GOOD" 1D, 2D horses are smooth and the faster you go the smoother they are. So, from here on out, I'm going to do my best to get my big beast to be fast and smooth so he's easier to ride! A LOT of those fast horses were so honest, I wanted to take a spin on many of them. |
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Location: South Dakota | rockinas - 2014-11-20 10:53 AM doglady - 2014-11-17 2:28 PM The post on the clinic for women over 40 got me thinking. I would like to hear how some of you 45 and up feel your barrel racing has changed.
For me -I am heavier than I was-my balance isn't as good and I hurt all over. I know I am not as competive as I used to be-I think I have really nice horses but I haven't actually kicked or even thought about running hard to the first barrel for years now. I seem to be more interested in making a nice smooth run -a confidence builder-for my horses. I used to really not like the 4ds-now I love them. I fit in.
It is funny when the younger girls look at me -I know they are thinking-why is she still here! Or yea, more added money. I know that the older you get the better horse you need to be competive. I used to be able to win on about anything-I thought I could so I did. Now -I am just not sure anymore.
Anyway I would love to hear you all's thoughts on this.
I just want to say that I would NEVER EVER think that of you. You are someone that I have looked up to for a very long time. You will always be a winner in my eyes. You are someone that has been places and done things that most of us can only dream of doing.
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Location: western Nebraska | I feel the older you get the better horse you need -if you want to stay very competive. I agree with the 1d horse statement-I have never considered myself a 1d or a 2d rider in a catagory like that. It depends on the horse you are riding. Right now I have 10 head of horses. I have 3 nice 1d horses, some that are in the 2d -just still not quite all there, some in the 3d still making some mistakes but learning. Just because I happen to take the ones right now running in the 3d to a barrel race doesn't automatically make me a 3d rider anymore than taking just a 1d horse makes me a 1d rider.
This weekend I won 2nd in the 1d by a couple of 100'ths, ran solid in the 2d on my 5 year old and exh for his 2nd time in the 3d on my 4 year old. So I was all over the board.
I love barrel racing and I am not quiting anytime soon but I can sure tell I had a long day yesterday in the cold and a 5 hour drive home. This morning I am sore all over.
One more thing-this weekend there were some younger girls-but there were alot more in the over 45 group. We were all talking about this and most everyone said the thing they noticed the most was being sore the next day and just not having the drive to go when it was cold.
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Location: Oklahoma | doglady - 2014-11-24 9:41 AM
I feel the older you get the better horse you need -if you want to stay very competive. I agree with the 1d horse statement-I have never considered myself a 1d or a 2d rider in a catagory like that. It depends on the horse you are riding. Right now I have 10 head of horses. I have 3 nice 1d horses, some that are in the 2d -just still not quite all there, some in the 3d still making some mistakes but learning. Just because I happen to take the ones right now running in the 3d to a barrel race doesn't automatically make me a 3d rider anymore than taking just a 1d horse makes me a 1d rider.
This weekend I won 2nd in the 1d by a couple of 100'ths, ran solid in the 2d on my 5 year old and exh for his 2nd time in the 3d on my 4 year old. So I was all over the board.
I love barrel racing and I am not quiting anytime soon but I can sure tell I had a long day yesterday in the cold and a 5 hour drive home. This morning I am sore all over.
One more thing-this weekend there were some younger girls-but there were alot more in the over 45 group. We were all talking about this and most everyone said the thing they noticed the most was being sore the next day and just not having the drive to go when it was cold.
Martee, one more thing you might consider doing is not running so many horses. I got to where I only run two at the most at small jackpots and just alternate who I take so that they all get run a couple of times a month. I found that more than that just wear me out. Idk if I have chronic fatique syndrome or what (and I probably won't find out because I hate doctors), but I do know that I have to do something, then rest, then continue doing it and I just can't handle more than two unless I have someone with me that's saddling, unsaddling, warming up and cooling out for me so I can just hop from horse to horse. I took 4 yesterday, but a young gal ran two of mine so I could get a faster video, and I only ran two, and this morning I asked my husband if he got the number of the truck that ran over me because that's how I feel. I had a ball, but it sure is hard on my body any more....and the more horses I take, the harder it is on my body.....so maybe that's part of your problem. I'm trying to sell a couple to get down to 4....that's a good number for me, but I really like everything I have right now, so it's hard. I never take more than one to a big show any more, and I have a Cricket golf cart that I take because the walking wears me out so much. I don't like being exhausted the whole time. When I get tired, I go lie down, or I sit down and rest. I always give myself enough time that if I DO have to rest, it doesn't make me frantic.
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Location: western Nebraska | Diane, I am sure you are right-cutting down would be the smart thing to do. However I don't have any I want to sell-and I am pretty much out of the selling business. I can't deal with it anymore. I really like all my horses and they all have some problems we are working on so I doubt anyone would want them anyway. There is nothing to go to close to me so if I am going to drive 5 hours I take a trailer load. Plus you forget where I live-there are jps maybe every weekend but nothing close, nothing during the week and sometimes only one a weekend. So it takes a long time to get many runs on a horse if it doesn't get to go much.
I do have them in sections though. Right now I am riding 4 and the others are turned out. When these four are about ready to be turned out I will start legging up four more. That works for me. I can ride one and pony one.
I do have couple harder turning ones that I am not riding right now-waiting for it to warm up -the sun always helps. haha
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Location: Oklahoma | doglady - 2014-11-24 10:17 AM
Diane, I am sure you are right-cutting down would be the smart thing to do. However I don't have any I want to sell-and I am pretty much out of the selling business. I can't deal with it anymore. I really like all my horses and they all have some problems we are working on so I doubt anyone would want them anyway. There is nothing to go to close to me so if I am going to drive 5 hours I take a trailer load. Plus you forget where I live-there are jps maybe every weekend but nothing close, nothing during the week and sometimes only one a weekend. So it takes a long time to get many runs on a horse if it doesn't get to go much.
I do have them in sections though. Right now I am riding 4 and the others are turned out. When these four are about ready to be turned out I will start legging up four more. That works for me. I can ride one and pony one.
I do have couple harder turning ones that I am not riding right now-waiting for it to warm up -the sun always helps. haha
Yes, it does! lol And it was so pretty here yesterday....60's and sunshiney! Maybe it's time you moved to a warmer climate! That would help, and we have more jackpots. :) Find you a friend in their 30's that would love to ride the horses you have and will help you out. I enlist the help of my younger friends all the time....they're priceless. :)
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Location: western Nebraska | dianeguinn - 2014-11-24 10:41 AM doglady - 2014-11-24 10:17 AM Diane, I am sure you are right-cutting down would be the smart thing to do. However I don't have any I want to sell-and I am pretty much out of the selling business. I can't deal with it anymore. I really like all my horses and they all have some problems we are working on so I doubt anyone would want them anyway. There is nothing to go to close to me so if I am going to drive 5 hours I take a trailer load. Plus you forget where I live-there are jps maybe every weekend but nothing close, nothing during the week and sometimes only one a weekend. So it takes a long time to get many runs on a horse if it doesn't get to go much.
I do have them in sections though. Right now I am riding 4 and the others are turned out. When these four are about ready to be turned out I will start legging up four more. That works for me. I can ride one and pony one.
I do have couple harder turning ones that I am not riding right now-waiting for it to warm up -the sun always helps. haha
Yes, it does! lol And it was so pretty here yesterday....60's and sunshiney! Maybe it's time you moved to a warmer climate! That would help, and we have more jackpots. : ) Find you a friend in their 30's that would love to ride the horses you have and will help you out. I enlist the help of my younger friends all the time....they're priceless. : )
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Location: run2win land | I am dealing right now with the aging limiting my competitiveness. My balance and strength are not where they need to be. Once I heal from the broken ribs , I plan a regimen of yoga, pilates and legging my horses back up. I'm going to have to work more on something I used to take for granted. I'm willing to finally do that because if I don't, my barrel racing days are done. I am 50 and I have fibromyalgia so it is a struggle. |
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Location: In the Hills of Texas | doglady - 2014-11-24 10:54 AM dianeguinn - 2014-11-24 10:41 AM doglady - 2014-11-24 10:17 AM Diane, I am sure you are right-cutting down would be the smart thing to do. However I don't have any I want to sell-and I am pretty much out of the selling business. I can't deal with it anymore. I really like all my horses and they all have some problems we are working on so I doubt anyone would want them anyway. There is nothing to go to close to me so if I am going to drive 5 hours I take a trailer load. Plus you forget where I live-there are jps maybe every weekend but nothing close, nothing during the week and sometimes only one a weekend. So it takes a long time to get many runs on a horse if it doesn't get to go much.
I do have them in sections though. Right now I am riding 4 and the others are turned out. When these four are about ready to be turned out I will start legging up four more. That works for me. I can ride one and pony one.
I do have couple harder turning ones that I am not riding right now-waiting for it to warm up -the sun always helps. haha
Yes, it does! lol And it was so pretty here yesterday....60's and sunshiney! Maybe it's time you moved to a warmer climate! That would help, and we have more jackpots. : ) Find you a friend in their 30's that would love to ride the horses you have and will help you out. I enlist the help of my younger friends all the time....they're priceless. : )
Just an FYI...Arizona is way too expensive to barrel race. Texas is the way to go if you're a diehard barrel racer!
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| doglady - 2014-11-24 9:41 AM
I feel the older you get the better horse you need -if you want to stay very competive. I agree with the 1d horse statement-I have never considered myself a 1d or a 2d rider in a catagory like that. It depends on the horse you are riding. Right now I have 10 head of horses. I have 3 nice 1d horses, some that are in the 2d -just still not quite all there, some in the 3d still making some mistakes but learning. Just because I happen to take the ones right now running in the 3d to a barrel race doesn't automatically make me a 3d rider anymore than taking just a 1d horse makes me a 1d rider.
This weekend I won 2nd in the 1d by a couple of 100'ths, ran solid in the 2d on my 5 year old and exh for his 2nd time in the 3d on my 4 year old. So I was all over the board.
I love barrel racing and I am not quiting anytime soon but I can sure tell I had a long day yesterday in the cold and a 5 hour drive home. This morning I am sore all over.
One more thing-this weekend there were some younger girls-but there were alot more in the over 45 group. We were all talking about this and most everyone said the thing they noticed the most was being sore the next day and just not having the drive to go when it was cold.
I went to my first jp after being off my horse for 6 months. (he went away for the hot summer). I only rode 1 horse and my back is killing me. Am I out of riding shape … YES. I'm in pretty good shape otherwise, since I run but boy is my back sore. I cannot imagine running 4. You and Dianne Guinn are stronger than I! |
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Location: Texas Big Country | Thanks for this thread. I really appreciatethe sharing of folks that I have always admired and respected, explaining that they are having some of the same issues I am. I thought I was just being a lightweight. I am lots closer to 60 than 50, and I have been wondering why I am so tired all the time. I clean up and saddle 2 head and I want to sit for a bit. Then ride one and pony one, and then another set. And I just get so tired I keep sitting on buckets between loads of hay, etc. I was thinking I was getting doggone puny and lazy, but maybe its ok to be tired! Also I am having a hard time with any cold weather and when it's windier than like 35 mph. I have 5 here that I want to finish out, all that's left of a big breeding program idea I tried but ran out of luck on. I sure hope I can get them done justice to. I have 2 mares that are about finished and creeping into 1D here in TX, then a 6 yo that needs entered now, the rest is done but he needs to get to running, then a 4 yo I am really behind on, just loping the pattern, and then down to a yearling. I am a free lance writer so have lots to do besides get these horses rode and cared for, so I just keep praying for enough energy to getter done, because the ironic and frustrating part is I think I am a better rider now than I have ever been, been studying all these years and learning, and it sure is still more fun than anything. Again thanks for the encouragement, and yes, Texas is sure the place to be after all those years up in cold country...... I am so thankful to be here. I wish all my friends up there could be too, I really do. Every sunrise and every sunset I thank God. I do not mean that like a gloat, I am sincere as can be, hope it sounds that way in writing..... |
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Location: Down the Gravel Road near the Missouri River, SD | Well my dear..Im 48, not barbie sized by far and Im pretty sure I would rather drag that 3D or 6D horse around the country side and enjoy myself then sit at the house and get depressed.. I am a very grouchy woman when I have to sit at a rodeo and watch everyone compete and not have a thing to do except drink beer and lip off. I do not care what those little girls and younger ladies think of me or my horses..Im there for me..its good therapy |
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Location: western Nebraska | Rodeo'nSDstyle - 2014-11-24 4:26 PM Well my dear..Im 48, not barbie sized by far and Im pretty sure I would rather drag that 3D or 6D horse around the country side and enjoy myself then sit at the house and get depressed.. I am a very grouchy woman when I have to sit at a rodeo and watch everyone compete and not have a thing to do except drink beer and lip off. I do not care what those little girls and younger ladies think of me or my horses..Im there for me..its good therapy
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Location: western Nebraska | crossarrowk - 2014-11-24 3:24 PM Thanks for this thread. I really appreciatethe sharing of folks that I have always admired and respected, explaining that they are having some of the same issues I am. I thought I was just being a lightweight. I am lots closer to 60 than 50, and I have been wondering why I am so tired all the time. I clean up and saddle 2 head and I want to sit for a bit. Then ride one and pony one, and then another set. And I just get so tired I keep sitting on buckets between loads of hay, etc. I was thinking I was getting doggone puny and lazy, but maybe its ok to be tired! Also I am having a hard time with any cold weather and when it's windier than like 35 mph. I have 5 here that I want to finish out, all that's left of a big breeding program idea I tried but ran out of luck on. I sure hope I can get them done justice to. I have 2 mares that are about finished and creeping into 1D here in TX, then a 6 yo that needs entered now, the rest is done but he needs to get to running, then a 4 yo I am really behind on, just loping the pattern, and then down to a yearling. I am a free lance writer so have lots to do besides get these horses rode and cared for, so I just keep praying for enough energy to getter done, because the ironic and frustrating part is I think I am a better rider now than I have ever been, been studying all these years and learning, and it sure is still more fun than anything. Again thanks for the encouragement, and yes, Texas is sure the place to be after all those years up in cold country...... I am so thankful to be here. I wish all my friends up there could be too, I really do. Every sunrise and every sunset I thank God. I do not mean that like a gloat, I am sincere as can be, hope it sounds that way in writing.....
Thanks you get it! We aren't the same as we used to be. Not physically anyway. Mentally we are still all 25 but the body says different. I read one of the threads that said they had a Master's class. I am going to lobby around here to change our Seniors to Masters. I like the sound of that a lot better. |
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Location: Texas | I am so going to get in trouble for saying this - and I won't hold it against ANYONE for flaming me… BUT…
I feel pretty confident that, when I get to the point that I don't feel like I can win anymore, I'm probably going to find another hobby, lol. This is WAY too much work and WAY to expensive for me to justify doing it and not getting a return. I'll still ride, but I probably won't compete anymore. There is just something about pulling in and feeling like I have no chance of winning. It sucks the fun right out of it for me. Maybe it is because I have had some success in the past. So unless I feel like I'm working towards being at the top, I'm pretty sure I won't enjoy it.
I know that it isn't like that for everyone, which is why the divisional races have been such a success. And I have the utmost respect for anyone who gets out there and does what they enjoy doing, win or lose. For me personally, I'm just not made that way (my husband can confirm this, lol) I am completely goal oriented and do very few things "just for fun". I am always looking for a new project and getting involved in some new thing. Once I have done all that I can do with something, I hand it off to someone else, that enjoys the long-term stuff, and I move on to the next thing.
I love that I have the opportunity to do these 40 and over clinics, because they are a challenge for me. And I need a challenge! These posts have really been beneficial to read because they are many of the things that we will be addressing in the class. I can not wait to start encouraging and empowering other over 40 women to get out there and pursue their dream. It is never too late to do what you love!
And for the record… I feel better at 50 than I ever have, and I have no plans to slow down anytime soon. Lord willing, I'll be blowing and going for many more years. I don't know what tomorrow will bring and quite frankly, I don't really care. I know that today is a gift and we just need to take it one day at a time. We can read stuff about what happens to some people as they have gotten older, but that doesn't mean it will be like that for us. I, for one, am going to do everything I can to slow the process by eating right, exercising my body and my mind and doing what I can to help others succeed. It makes me better too! I know 25 year olds that act 70 and I know 70 year olds that act 25. Age is just a number folks - don't let yourself be defined by it.
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Location: a secret | 50 is the new 30 ... Having said that I hav a great mare that tolerates the lack of a better word a good rider... It s all in the match as we get older.. |
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Location: Wyoming | What a great thread! I am not quite 45, but in the last few years I have had trouble with my weight and energy levels. I have an easier time of talking my self out of going to a race. The thought of loading all my crap and horses exhaust me. LOL
I think for me that my confidence is better than it used to be and I can handle the pressure better. I am better at handling a bad run and am better about not getting negative. Usually. It seems like that part of competing has gotten better for me the older I get.
I have a nice horse that is honest and consistent as long as he isn't sore. Ahem, that is the thing though that gets me down worse than anything. But, I am learning how to deal with that too.
I have two super nice colts that I am very excited about. The problem is it's winter and I have turned into a fair weather rider. :)
One thing that I have found out that really helps me is Yoga!
I LOVE YOGA!
I have Jillian Michaels Yoga Meltdown and Yoga Inferno and do those workouts when I feel like I need to up my workout.
I also found Yoga with Adriene on Youtube that is Fantastic! It really helps with strength building and stretching. I have more energy and my outlook on life is more positive.
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Location: Kansas and loving it | I plan on running until they won't let me enter anymore. I am looking forward to the day when I don't have an 8 to 5 job and struggle to find riding time. |
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| Allison Ray down here in FL is right around 73 or 74 and I don't think she runs very often;however, when she does she kicks butt! She's just a tiny little thing and she just very quietly and very lady-like flies in there on that rocket she calls a horse and makes a scorching, extremely smooth run. She then just as quietly and ladylike leaves with her pockets full of our money because she usually wins or places in the 1D! |
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Location: Wisconsin | ..Ha, I just read this, are you $hittin me? LOL....I feel pretty good about Barrel racing after 45, especially since I won the 2D NRF Futurity Champion and 2D WPRA Futurity World, at age of 55. (on my birthday, i may add). I dont feel much different at 55 than i did at 45...However do feel different now at 56 than i did at 20!! Thinking about making another go at the Circuit Finals next year..if i can these crickety old legs to get me in the saddle. |
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Location: Wild Wild West | I am 64. I've been running barrels since I was 9 years old. Thats a long, long time and so much as changed. I am probably 15 lbs overweight. My balance is not what it used to be. I have hurtie places on my body, and seem to find more daily. My circle of travel is smaller, we used to go to rodeos 300 to 400 miles away. Now 100 miles is a trip. I only compete on one horse, where I used to sometime haul 3. I don't ride anything that I think will hurt me but I still go. And I still love it and still very competitive. I used to be one of the 1D riders but I'm not any more, but I'm okay with that. I run in the 2D and 3D. I have a really nice mare that I love and she loves me and I still go and still love it. I saw a picture of Ardith Bruce competeing at age 84 the other day and thought, wow, I have 20 more years. It's what I do. I barrel race. |
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Location: Woodstown, NJ | T turning 3 - 2014-11-19 11:55 AM Not to change the subject... but I wonder if " Chronic Fatigue" is the inablity to accept we aren't 25 anymore. every spring I go to my doctor just knowing something is terribly wrong. I am exhausted, and resting several times during the day. Every year I get a whole panel of blood tests and there is nothing wrong with me... Finally he said it..... You are not a spring chicken anymore. The only reason I don't get mad at him is 1. he is right and 2. he is the same age as me. lol
I just said the same thing to my husband! And like you, I keep going to the doctor, about once a year, sure I have something terribly wrong and we do all the blood work and it's never anything. Then I don't worry for a while. Then it starts building up again. "Why am I napping so much?! Something's wrong!" Next week I'm going for a stress test. Even though he thinks my heart is fine. I was going to cancel it until I saw Shaunar's post about her heart attack four years ago! |
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Location: western Nebraska | nettieb3 - 2014-11-28 6:22 PM ..Ha, I just read this, are you $hittin me? LOL....I feel pretty good about Barrel racing after 45, especially since I won the 2D NRF Futurity Champion and 2D WPRA Futurity World, at age of 55. (on my birthday, i may add). I dont feel much different at 55 than i did at 45...However do feel different now at 56 than i did at 20!! Thinking about making another go at the Circuit Finals next year..if i can these crickety old legs to get me in the saddle.
Good for you. I also think I might have a rodeo horse. I will have to see this summer. Like I said-the older you are the better horse you need. Of course this depends on what your goals are. June Holeman on Tall Boy was 20 years old and unstoppable-he was a great horse. |
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Location: Wyoming | nettieb3 - 2014-11-28 4:22 PM ..Ha, I just read this, are you $hittin me? LOL....I feel pretty good about Barrel racing after 45, especially since I won the 2D NRF Futurity Champion and 2D WPRA Futurity World, at age of 55. (on my birthday, i may add). I dont feel much different at 55 than i did at 45...However do feel different now at 56 than i did at 20!! Thinking about making another go at the Circuit Finals next year..if i can these crickety old legs to get me in the saddle.
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| LMS - 2014-11-17 12:41 PM
I'm not quite 40 yet, but, I've come to a conclusion, I'm the nicest "wanna be" I know :) I've never won much of anything, yet I still keep going. The last buckle I won (I know some people have never won a buckle) was in 1992.......
I'm fat, out of shape, have more money now than I've ever had, which means I have bought/made a couple nice horses and still really can't win ANYTHING :)
Generally I hurt for 3 days after a double header race-which you would think it would motivate me to get in better shape....nah....
My good horse is in my daughters hands and really he probably is too much horse for her, but how is she ever going to learn OR break my cycle of being the big loser??
Listened to a couple of gal pals, talk some smack about the 12 year olds that need some horsemanship lessons....I long for the day I could ride (and stay on) with my rear a foot above the saddle, whipping and spurring....hahaha, does it make it wrong that I ride better now and can't win a damn thing or was it better when I didn't ride worth a crap but would clean up regularly??
Most people judge you as a winner OR if you're nice, so I'm shooting for the nicest loser that is almost 40!!
It sucks BUT, time is flying by and if I don't do this now, I don't know how much longer I will be able to keep going.
Besides, I've seen your name in the results (riding 2 horses apparantly) and you've won some pretty good money this fall, keep on keepin on! You don't seem to be slowing down too much! I would think that sometimes riding smarter beats youth any day :)
I'm not really sure what the point is of all my rambling, but not sure what the point is to your post either......
This is the best post I have read in so long!
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Location: Oklahoma | SmokinBandits - 2014-11-28 8:21 PM T turning 3 - 2014-11-19 11:55 AM Not to change the subject... but I wonder if " Chronic Fatigue" is the inablity to accept we aren't 25 anymore. every spring I go to my doctor just knowing something is terribly wrong. I am exhausted, and resting several times during the day. Every year I get a whole panel of blood tests and there is nothing wrong with me... Finally he said it..... You are not a spring chicken anymore. The only reason I don't get mad at him is 1. he is right and 2. he is the same age as me. lol I just said the same thing to my husband! And like you, I keep going to the doctor, about once a year, sure I have something terribly wrong and we do all the blood work and it's never anything. Then I don't worry for a while. Then it starts building up again. "Why am I napping so much?! Something's wrong!" Next week I'm going for a stress test. Even though he thinks my heart is fine. I was going to cancel it until I saw Shaunar's post about her heart attack four years ago!
Yes, Deb, you go get that stress test! My ONLY warning sign was being tired and really short-winded when I walked through the Denver airport a couple of months before my heart attack. I just thought "I gotta quit smoking" and some other passengers told me it was just the altitude in Denver. Listen to your body. |
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| Rodeo'nSDstyle - 2014-11-24 4:26 PM
Well my dear..Im 48, not barbie sized by far and Im pretty sure I would rather drag that 3D or 6D horse around the country side and enjoy myself then sit at the house and get depressed.. I am a very grouchy woman when I have to sit at a rodeo and watch everyone compete and not have a thing to do except drink beer and lip off. I do not care what those little girls and younger ladies think of me or my horses..Im there for me..its good therapy
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Location: Centerville, TN | I'm 55 and I don't get to go as much as I use to but I still love it as much as I did when I was in my 20's. The body isn't what it use to be. Broken both legs over the years, broke five ribs. Had surgery on my right knee last February. Was told a replacement may take place in a few years. I think not... I to weight more than I use to and the balance I fight with. I just bought a young nice mare a few months ago and when I need to remember what it's like to run a set a barrel like in the old days, I saddle up my 20 year old and he will take me through the pattern like a champ and that gets the blood pumping again.... 55 and still loving this game!!!! |
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Location: In the Hills of Texas | Food for thought...About 18 years ago, when we first moved to Texas, I was a member of the NBHA and our local district only had 2 seniors so they had a 40 and over class and of course, only the people that were over 50 got points but it gave them a separate class to run in. Now look at the amount of seniors running and how many are still winning in the 1-D. I think it's pretty darn impressive. |
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Location: Arkansas | doglady - 2014-11-17 2:28 PM The post on the clinic for women over 40 got me thinking. I would like to hear how some of you 45 and up feel your barrel racing has changed.
For me -I am heavier than I was-my balance isn't as good and I hurt all over. I know I am not as competive as I used to be-I think I have really nice horses but I haven't actually kicked or even thought about running hard to the first barrel for years now. I seem to be more interested in making a nice smooth run -a confidence builder-for my horses. I used to really not like the 4ds-now I love them. I fit in.
It is funny when the younger girls look at me -I know they are thinking-why is she still here! Or yea, more added money. I know that the older you get the better horse you need to be competive. I used to be able to win on about anything-I thought I could so I did. Now -I am just not sure anymore.
Anyway I would love to hear you all's thoughts on this.
Martee, I am in the same boat, but I am in my 50's and so are a WHOLE BUNCH of my friends.. So, since we all seem to have the same issues, I am coming out with a new saddle called "The Grandma Saddle!" LOL It started out as a joke but has taken on a life of it's own.. I ordered the tree today in fact from Hadlock and Fox.. It is all about comfort and confidence..It is a saddle designed FOR women BY women.. No more sore pelvic bones!!! :-D Stay tuned.. We are having a great time designing it..LOL
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Location: on my horse | I just want to throw out there that I will be anybody's younger friend and barrel race slave! You guys make me laugh on here on a daily basis and I'm sure I could learn more than just a thing or two from tagging along and helping out (; |
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Location: USA | Nevertooold - 2014-12-01 11:40 AM Food for thought...About 18 years ago, when we first moved to Texas, I was a member of the NBHA and our local district only had 2 seniors so they had a 40 and over class and of course, only the people that were over 50 got points but it gave them a separate class to run in. Now look at the amount of seniors running and how many are still winning in the 1-D. I think it's pretty darn impressive.
Great point! I agree! Up here, the senior class is darn tough, too!
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Location: In the Hills of Texas | Ethel - 2014-12-01 11:52 PM doglady - 2014-11-17 2:28 PM The post on the clinic for women over 40 got me thinking. I would like to hear how some of you 45 and up feel your barrel racing has changed.
For me -I am heavier than I was-my balance isn't as good and I hurt all over. I know I am not as competive as I used to be-I think I have really nice horses but I haven't actually kicked or even thought about running hard to the first barrel for years now. I seem to be more interested in making a nice smooth run -a confidence builder-for my horses. I used to really not like the 4ds-now I love them. I fit in.
It is funny when the younger girls look at me -I know they are thinking-why is she still here! Or yea, more added money. I know that the older you get the better horse you need to be competive. I used to be able to win on about anything-I thought I could so I did. Now -I am just not sure anymore.
Anyway I would love to hear you all's thoughts on this.
Martee, I am in the same boat, but I am in my 50's and so are a WHOLE BUNCH of my friends.. So, since we all seem to have the same issues, I am coming out with a new saddle called "The Grandma Saddle!" LOL It started out as a joke but has taken on a life of it's own.. I ordered the tree today in fact from Hadlock and Fox.. It is all about comfort and confidence..It is a saddle designed FOR women BY women.. No more sore pelvic bones!!! :-D Stay tuned.. We are having a great time designing it..LOL
Now this is awesome and it's not your first saddle that was designed by you! Awesome idea. Do keep us posted. |
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Location: western Nebraska | I am excited to see this saddle too. I have several different kinds. My Merrills are my favorite-seem to hold me on-but they don't fit all my horses. I use a CJ record breaker on a couple-they are my fast horses and I worry sometimes about just going off the back -but that is what fits them. Then I have a couple of wide horses and I bought the newest LL -the contender I think it is. It fits my horses great but it is so wide and flat-it is just plain hard for me to stay in the middle of my horses. My one horse has fast turns and I have to dang sure be holding on-because the saddle doesn't help me. I ordered a new saddle from Short go sadderly-Mike Peterson-from NE. I rode in his wife's and I really like it. It seemed to fit the couple of horses I tried it on and sure felt like it would hold me on. I don't get it until after Jan. sometime but I can't wait.
I guess that is another thing about getting older. I used to could run bareback and still have good balance-now I need some help.
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Location: Arkansas | We are excited about them too!! We are going to make them up to a 16" seat too.. Everybody needs an opportunity to ride to the best of their ability and I'm going to try to see that it happens.. Not everyone is a 1D rider..Some of us used to be but now, I'm all about staying on and being comfortable.. LOL They are also pretty too.. I know everyone worries about the weight but, my saddles are good quality leather and they are just going to weigh a little more.. I can live with that.. :-) |
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Location: Arkansas | Nevertooold - 2014-12-02 11:32 AM Ethel - 2014-12-01 11:52 PM doglady - 2014-11-17 2:28 PM The post on the clinic for women over 40 got me thinking. I would like to hear how some of you 45 and up feel your barrel racing has changed.
For me -I am heavier than I was-my balance isn't as good and I hurt all over. I know I am not as competive as I used to be-I think I have really nice horses but I haven't actually kicked or even thought about running hard to the first barrel for years now. I seem to be more interested in making a nice smooth run -a confidence builder-for my horses. I used to really not like the 4ds-now I love them. I fit in.
It is funny when the younger girls look at me -I know they are thinking-why is she still here! Or yea, more added money. I know that the older you get the better horse you need to be competive. I used to be able to win on about anything-I thought I could so I did. Now -I am just not sure anymore.
Anyway I would love to hear you all's thoughts on this.
Martee, I am in the same boat, but I am in my 50's and so are a WHOLE BUNCH of my friends.. So, since we all seem to have the same issues, I am coming out with a new saddle called "The Grandma Saddle!" LOL It started out as a joke but has taken on a life of it's own.. I ordered the tree today in fact from Hadlock and Fox.. It is all about comfort and confidence..It is a saddle designed FOR women BY women.. No more sore pelvic bones!!! :-D Stay tuned.. We are having a great time designing it..LOL
Thank you so much! We are working on it.. Just trying to give everyone a chance to ride to the best of their ability.. We may have to make changes along the way but so far the people that have set in the prototype and ridden in it have loved it! We shall see.. :-) I am going to have a Grandma Saddle myself!! LOL |
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Location: Where the pavement ends and the West begins Utah | I read some of these. I have a screw working it's way out of my ankle while I don't mind walking around on flat ground it's no fun chasing a horse around ruts in the ground trying to catch a horse to go ride. I also have a damaged disc in my back that sometimes makes it hard to throw a saddle on a horses back. The thing that make me tired is my SO. Sometime I wish there was a zipper over his mouth. Just the stress from him leaves me total exhausted.I'm not complaining but I totally understand being tired and exhausted. I think if he just shut up I could rejuvinate. It's not the age that is bothering. I still want to barrel race. |
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Location: Kansas | Ethel - 2014-12-02 3:28 PM Nevertooold - 2014-12-02 11:32 AM Ethel - 2014-12-01 11:52 PM doglady - 2014-11-17 2:28 PM The post on the clinic for women over 40 got me thinking. I would like to hear how some of you 45 and up feel your barrel racing has changed.
For me -I am heavier than I was-my balance isn't as good and I hurt all over. I know I am not as competive as I used to be-I think I have really nice horses but I haven't actually kicked or even thought about running hard to the first barrel for years now. I seem to be more interested in making a nice smooth run -a confidence builder-for my horses. I used to really not like the 4ds-now I love them. I fit in.
It is funny when the younger girls look at me -I know they are thinking-why is she still here! Or yea, more added money. I know that the older you get the better horse you need to be competive. I used to be able to win on about anything-I thought I could so I did. Now -I am just not sure anymore.
Anyway I would love to hear you all's thoughts on this.
Martee, I am in the same boat, but I am in my 50's and so are a WHOLE BUNCH of my friends.. So, since we all seem to have the same issues, I am coming out with a new saddle called "The Grandma Saddle!" LOL It started out as a joke but has taken on a life of it's own.. I ordered the tree today in fact from Hadlock and Fox.. It is all about comfort and confidence..It is a saddle designed FOR women BY women.. No more sore pelvic bones!!! :-D Stay tuned.. We are having a great time designing it..LOL
how neat!!! Good for you!!! I can't wait to see what it looks like |
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Location: The barn...where else? SW Missouri | Ethel - 2014-12-01 11:52 PM doglady - 2014-11-17 2:28 PM The post on the clinic for women over 40 got me thinking. I would like to hear how some of you 45 and up feel your barrel racing has changed.
For me -I am heavier than I was-my balance isn't as good and I hurt all over. I know I am not as competive as I used to be-I think I have really nice horses but I haven't actually kicked or even thought about running hard to the first barrel for years now. I seem to be more interested in making a nice smooth run -a confidence builder-for my horses. I used to really not like the 4ds-now I love them. I fit in.
It is funny when the younger girls look at me -I know they are thinking-why is she still here! Or yea, more added money. I know that the older you get the better horse you need to be competive. I used to be able to win on about anything-I thought I could so I did. Now -I am just not sure anymore.
Anyway I would love to hear you all's thoughts on this.
Martee, I am in the same boat, but I am in my 50's and so are a WHOLE BUNCH of my friends.. So, since we all seem to have the same issues, I am coming out with a new saddle called "The Grandma Saddle!" LOL It started out as a joke but has taken on a life of it's own.. I ordered the tree today in fact from Hadlock and Fox.. It is all about comfort and confidence..It is a saddle designed FOR women BY women.. No more sore pelvic bones!!! :-D Stay tuned.. We are having a great time designing it..LOL
Please please keep us posted on this saddle. You had me at "no more sore pelvic bones". |
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Location: Arkansas | RunNbarrels - 2014-12-04 11:46 AM Ethel - 2014-12-01 11:52 PM doglady - 2014-11-17 2:28 PM The post on the clinic for women over 40 got me thinking. I would like to hear how some of you 45 and up feel your barrel racing has changed.
For me -I am heavier than I was-my balance isn't as good and I hurt all over. I know I am not as competive as I used to be-I think I have really nice horses but I haven't actually kicked or even thought about running hard to the first barrel for years now. I seem to be more interested in making a nice smooth run -a confidence builder-for my horses. I used to really not like the 4ds-now I love them. I fit in.
It is funny when the younger girls look at me -I know they are thinking-why is she still here! Or yea, more added money. I know that the older you get the better horse you need to be competive. I used to be able to win on about anything-I thought I could so I did. Now -I am just not sure anymore.
Anyway I would love to hear you all's thoughts on this.
Martee, I am in the same boat, but I am in my 50's and so are a WHOLE BUNCH of my friends.. So, since we all seem to have the same issues, I am coming out with a new saddle called "The Grandma Saddle!" LOL It started out as a joke but has taken on a life of it's own.. I ordered the tree today in fact from Hadlock and Fox.. It is all about comfort and confidence..It is a saddle designed FOR women BY women.. No more sore pelvic bones!!! :-D Stay tuned.. We are having a great time designing it..LOL
I will keep you all posted.. The seat is patented and is so comfortable!! We haven't put everything together as of yet but, the tree has been ordered.. I will be making it up to a size 16" seat too.. Because of the ground seat, I'm thinking it will probably take a 1/2 size bigger than what you usually ride..Once the website is finished, I will be advertising on here.. :-) I won't have any pictures of the Grandma Saddle though on the website until we have one to take a picture of! LOL This all takes so much time.. It feels like it is always "Hurry up and wait!" |
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Location: NE Texas | Ethel - 2014-12-04 2:11 PM RunNbarrels - 2014-12-04 11:46 AM Ethel - 2014-12-01 11:52 PM doglady - 2014-11-17 2:28 PM The post on the clinic for women over 40 got me thinking. I would like to hear how some of you 45 and up feel your barrel racing has changed.
For me -I am heavier than I was-my balance isn't as good and I hurt all over. I know I am not as competive as I used to be-I think I have really nice horses but I haven't actually kicked or even thought about running hard to the first barrel for years now. I seem to be more interested in making a nice smooth run -a confidence builder-for my horses. I used to really not like the 4ds-now I love them. I fit in.
It is funny when the younger girls look at me -I know they are thinking-why is she still here! Or yea, more added money. I know that the older you get the better horse you need to be competive. I used to be able to win on about anything-I thought I could so I did. Now -I am just not sure anymore.
Anyway I would love to hear you all's thoughts on this.
Martee, I am in the same boat, but I am in my 50's and so are a WHOLE BUNCH of my friends.. So, since we all seem to have the same issues, I am coming out with a new saddle called "The Grandma Saddle!" LOL It started out as a joke but has taken on a life of it's own.. I ordered the tree today in fact from Hadlock and Fox.. It is all about comfort and confidence..It is a saddle designed FOR women BY women.. No more sore pelvic bones!!! :-D Stay tuned.. We are having a great time designing it..LOL
Well I loved the way your old saddle rode, so if this is an improvement on that I hope I get the opportunity to grace one with my hiney! HAHA
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Location: Arkansas | Herbie - 2014-12-04 2:16 PM Ethel - 2014-12-04 2:11 PM RunNbarrels - 2014-12-04 11:46 AM Ethel - 2014-12-01 11:52 PM doglady - 2014-11-17 2:28 PM The post on the clinic for women over 40 got me thinking. I would like to hear how some of you 45 and up feel your barrel racing has changed.
For me -I am heavier than I was-my balance isn't as good and I hurt all over. I know I am not as competive as I used to be-I think I have really nice horses but I haven't actually kicked or even thought about running hard to the first barrel for years now. I seem to be more interested in making a nice smooth run -a confidence builder-for my horses. I used to really not like the 4ds-now I love them. I fit in.
It is funny when the younger girls look at me -I know they are thinking-why is she still here! Or yea, more added money. I know that the older you get the better horse you need to be competive. I used to be able to win on about anything-I thought I could so I did. Now -I am just not sure anymore.
Anyway I would love to hear you all's thoughts on this.
Martee, I am in the same boat, but I am in my 50's and so are a WHOLE BUNCH of my friends.. So, since we all seem to have the same issues, I am coming out with a new saddle called "The Grandma Saddle!" LOL It started out as a joke but has taken on a life of it's own.. I ordered the tree today in fact from Hadlock and Fox.. It is all about comfort and confidence..It is a saddle designed FOR women BY women.. No more sore pelvic bones!!! :-D Stay tuned.. We are having a great time designing it..LOL
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Location: LouLouVille, OK | Ethel - 2014-12-04 2:28 PM Herbie - 2014-12-04 2:16 PM Ethel - 2014-12-04 2:11 PM RunNbarrels - 2014-12-04 11:46 AM Ethel - 2014-12-01 11:52 PM doglady - 2014-11-17 2:28 PM The post on the clinic for women over 40 got me thinking. I would like to hear how some of you 45 and up feel your barrel racing has changed.
For me -I am heavier than I was-my balance isn't as good and I hurt all over. I know I am not as competive as I used to be-I think I have really nice horses but I haven't actually kicked or even thought about running hard to the first barrel for years now. I seem to be more interested in making a nice smooth run -a confidence builder-for my horses. I used to really not like the 4ds-now I love them. I fit in.
It is funny when the younger girls look at me -I know they are thinking-why is she still here! Or yea, more added money. I know that the older you get the better horse you need to be competive. I used to be able to win on about anything-I thought I could so I did. Now -I am just not sure anymore.
Anyway I would love to hear you all's thoughts on this.
Martee, I am in the same boat, but I am in my 50's and so are a WHOLE BUNCH of my friends.. So, since we all seem to have the same issues, I am coming out with a new saddle called "The Grandma Saddle!" LOL It started out as a joke but has taken on a life of it's own.. I ordered the tree today in fact from Hadlock and Fox.. It is all about comfort and confidence..It is a saddle designed FOR women BY women.. No more sore pelvic bones!!! :-D Stay tuned.. We are having a great time designing it..LOL
This sure sounds interesting but can you reference to me what your old saddle was? I am so outta the loop and have like 5 pages of this thread to catch up on! lol but I love it ladies! |
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Location: Mansfield, Tx | cindyt - 2014-12-04 3:21 PM
Ethel - 2014-12-04 2:28 PM Herbie - 2014-12-04 2:16 PM Ethel - 2014-12-04 2:11 PM RunNbarrels - 2014-12-04 11:46 AM Ethel - 2014-12-01 11:52 PM doglady - 2014-11-17 2:28 PM The post on the clinic for women over 40 got me thinking. I would like to hear how some of you 45 and up feel your barrel racing has changed.
For me -I am heavier than I was-my balance isn't as good and I hurt all over. I know I am not as competive as I used to be-I think I have really nice horses but I haven't actually kicked or even thought about running hard to the first barrel for years now. I seem to be more interested in making a nice smooth run -a confidence builder-for my horses. I used to really not like the 4ds-now I love them. I fit in.
It is funny when the younger girls look at me -I know they are thinking-why is she still here! Or yea, more added money. I know that the older you get the better horse you need to be competive. I used to be able to win on about anything-I thought I could so I did. Now -I am just not sure anymore.
Anyway I would love to hear you all's thoughts on this.
Martee, I am in the same boat, but I am in my 50's and so are a WHOLE BUNCH of my friends.. So, since we all seem to have the same issues, I am coming out with a new saddle called "The Grandma Saddle!" LOL It started out as a joke but has taken on a life of it's own.. I ordered the tree today in fact from Hadlock and Fox.. It is all about comfort and confidence..It is a saddle designed FOR women BY women.. No more sore pelvic bones!!! :-D Stay tuned.. We are having a great time designing it..LOL
I'm staying tuned also... about this Grandma saddle...
**** You had me at No more sore PELVIC bone also *** can you add tail bone to that list?  |
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Location: Arkansas | RunningOnPaints - 2014-12-04 3:27 PM cindyt - 2014-12-04 3:21 PM Ethel - 2014-12-04 2:28 PM Herbie - 2014-12-04 2:16 PM Ethel - 2014-12-04 2:11 PM RunNbarrels - 2014-12-04 11:46 AM Ethel - 2014-12-01 11:52 PM doglady - 2014-11-17 2:28 PM The post on the clinic for women over 40 got me thinking. I would like to hear how some of you 45 and up feel your barrel racing has changed.
For me -I am heavier than I was-my balance isn't as good and I hurt all over. I know I am not as competive as I used to be-I think I have really nice horses but I haven't actually kicked or even thought about running hard to the first barrel for years now. I seem to be more interested in making a nice smooth run -a confidence builder-for my horses. I used to really not like the 4ds-now I love them. I fit in.
It is funny when the younger girls look at me -I know they are thinking-why is she still here! Or yea, more added money. I know that the older you get the better horse you need to be competive. I used to be able to win on about anything-I thought I could so I did. Now -I am just not sure anymore.
Anyway I would love to hear you all's thoughts on this.
Martee, I am in the same boat, but I am in my 50's and so are a WHOLE BUNCH of my friends.. So, since we all seem to have the same issues, I am coming out with a new saddle called "The Grandma Saddle!" LOL It started out as a joke but has taken on a life of it's own.. I ordered the tree today in fact from Hadlock and Fox.. It is all about comfort and confidence..It is a saddle designed FOR women BY women.. No more sore pelvic bones!!! :-D Stay tuned.. We are having a great time designing it..LOL I'm staying tuned also... about this Grandma saddle... **** You had me at No more sore PELVIC bone also *** can you add tail bone to that list?
Edited to say, I think it will fix the tailbone issues too!! Fingers crossed!!
Edited by Ethel 2014-12-04 3:46 PM
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Location: Mississippi | I am so enjoying this post. I'm 59 & have been having thoughts that its time to quit racing cuz I can't ride like I used to. I have one more young horse that is just now ready to start on barrels & that will be my last one. I don't recover from injuries like I used to. Haha! But I have a nice older horse that takes care of me & still runs in the 1D, so I think I'll hang on for a while longer.
Thanks for this post. Reading about your challenges gives me encouragement that maybe I'm not quite ready for retirement. |
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Location: CA | doglady - 2014-12-04 10:26 AM I think this thread has set some kind of record. Over 10k people have read it and we haven't had any fighting!!
Old ladies choose their battles... this surly isn't one of them lol |
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Location: Sorrow Not! Defending against workplace bullies | I think I started racing when I was 43 and I am now 52. I have never done that well for a variety of reasons...from starting on an Arab, to finally getting a horse bred for barrels who had health problems, to my own health problems. I really still crave pushing into the 1D and have 2 young horses still to season and try. Plus my older horse has taught me so much about maintenance and how to listen to a horse having pain.
ETA: I should say, too that being honest I have not put the work into the sport that is required, either. I see a range of ages that do well and all have one thing in common: they really work at it, practice, go to clinics and really race consistently.
i have learned SO much from barrel racing and I think most importantly not to care what others think. As long as I am still having fun and can still afford it I will keep on. And will sure let everyone know If I ever run in the 1D!
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Location: Northern California | Like 45 is old??
Edited to say: As we age, running barrels or not, exercise becomes more essential to keep strong!!! Use it or lose it, Baby!!
Edited by Keepkick'n 2014-12-05 8:55 PM
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Location: 31 lengths farms | I hope to God there is still some barrel racing in me after 45, okay...after 50. Cause baby, that's all I got!!!
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How do you feel still barrel racing after say age 45??