Dear Abby: My husband is a liar and a cheat. He has cheated on me from the beginning, and, when I confront him, he denies everything. What's worse, everyone kn...ows that he cheats on me. It is so humiliating. Also, since he lost his job 14 years ago, he hasn't even looked for a new one, just hustles money and women All he does all day is smoke cigars, cruise around and shoot the bull with his irresponsible buddies, while I have to work just to pay the bills. Since our daughter went away to college he doesn't even pretend to like me, and even hints that I may be a lesbian. What should I do? Signed: Clueless
Dear Clueless: Grow up, fix up, get a hold on yourself and dump him. Good grief woman! You don't need him anymore! You're running for President of the United States. Act like one