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Husband given advice?
Blueridgedreaming
Reg. Sep 2013
Posted 2015-07-13 12:51 PM
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He went trail riding with me this weekend-SO thankful!

But I told him when wearing my helmet, that I felt dorky.

He said, why would you feel dorky? Do you think NASCAR drivers feel dorky? He said no, they are being protected.

Good thought for those that worry about how they look wearing a helmet and letting that be the only reason they are not wearing one. This is not a helmet debate-only made to encourage and look at it from a different perspective!

Football players, baseball players, NASCAR drivers.. and the list goes on. They all wear them (yes, required) but they probably aren't overly concerned with looking like the odd man out (like I do)!



Edited by Blueridgedreaming 2015-07-13 12:58 PM
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Murphy
Reg. Dec 2007
Posted 2015-07-13 12:53 PM
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And they are all required to wear one.  
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Blueridgedreaming
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Posted 2015-07-13 12:55 PM
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Murphy - 2015-07-13 12:53 PM

Yes! True!

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luluwhit
Reg. Dec 2005
Posted 2015-07-13 1:10 PM
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i got over my dorkyness when my sweet niece looked up at me and said now i look like you aunt L.  decided then that setting the example was a much better perspective.   
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Murphy
Reg. Dec 2007
Posted 2015-07-13 1:32 PM
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Blueridgedreaming - 2015-07-13 1:55 PM
Murphy - 2015-07-13 12:53 PM And they are all required to wear one.  
For a reason-but I bet they aren't fretting over looking dorky. This isn't a debate on whether we "should" or "should not" wear helmets. It isn't my job to patrol people. Just a different perspective for those struggling with how they look wearing one, like I do!
I wasn't arguing with you... I was just stating that a reason why a lot of people don't wear one is because it's NOT required, so when they DO wear one, they think they DO stand out a bit.  

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Blueridgedreaming
Reg. Sep 2013
Posted 2015-07-13 1:37 PM
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Murphy - 2015-07-13 1:32 PM

Blueridgedreaming - 2015-07-13 1:55 PM
Murphy - 2015-07-13 12:53 PM And they are all required to wear one.  
For a reason-but I bet they aren't fretting over looking dorky. This isn't a debate on whether we "should" or "should not" wear helmets. It isn't my job to patrol people. Just a different perspective for those struggling with how they look wearing one, like I do!
I wasn't arguing with you... I was just stating that a reason why a lot of people don't wear one is because it's NOT required, so when they DO wear one, they think they DO stand out a bit.  

Yes great point!
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fulltiltfilly
Reg. Dec 2008
Posted 2015-07-13 1:38 PM
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 To the OP-just remember, you are riding for yourself, not others. Who cares what they think!
I have noticed this year there are alot more helmet wearers at barrel races then in years past. Up until this year I was almost always the the only adult rider wearing one.

 
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hlynn
Reg. Dec 2011
Posted 2015-07-13 2:08 PM
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I honestly don't care how I look wearing one. I think I look awesome. Lol Keeps the sun off my face without worrying about a hat or sunglasses. And I honestly love the look of my purple Tipperary. I put some decals on mine for my mom. Along with my mantra, 'Never Give Up'

It covers up my horrible sweaty frizzy messy hair in the summer. I love it. I wear it every single ride. I LOVE sticking out!!! I wish my helmet was louder

I also noticed that a good bit of the 300 open entries at my State finals this year had helmets on. 2/5 of my drag alone were in helmets. So they are definitely becoming more popular.

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TrailGirl
Reg. Jan 2014
Posted 2015-07-13 2:28 PM
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I overheard a young kid at a barrel race telling her friend. " I think it makes me look fast!"



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streakysox
Reg. Jul 2008
Posted 2015-07-13 3:07 PM
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TrailGirl - 2015-07-13 2:28 PM

I overheard a young kid at a barrel race telling her friend. " I think it makes me look fast!"




That gave me a good laugh. Cute.
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abrooks
Reg. May 2006
Posted 2015-07-13 3:09 PM
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TrailGirl - 2015-07-13 2:28 PM

I overheard a young kid at a barrel race telling her friend. " I think it makes me look fast!"




That is AWESOME. I love how little girls (and boys) typically have not a care in the world of what others think..

I don't wear a helmet BUT I don't even think about it when I see someone wearing one. It's not a rarity anymore. My dad used to wear one in the late 60's early 70's. Tony Pitcock has for years, it's just not THAT uncommon. A couple of the girls we have helped through the years wear theirs all the time.

I hope to be more like those kids and think whatever I'm wearing makes me look FAST!
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Herbie
Reg. Oct 2003
Posted 2015-07-13 3:15 PM
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TrailGirl - 2015-07-13 2:28 PM I overheard a young kid at a barrel race telling her friend. " I think it makes me look fast!"

That is super cute!!!  Thanks for sharing that with us.   
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komet.
Reg. Jun 2012
Posted 2015-07-13 3:41 PM
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I like the baseball/football/hockey player analogy better than the nascar driver. The driver is strapped into a virtually indestructible steel cage with a car built around it.
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RodeoCowgirl4u
Reg. Aug 2012
Posted 2015-07-13 3:53 PM
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hlynn - 2015-07-13 12:08 PM

I honestly don't care how I look wearing one. I think I look awesome. Lol Keeps the sun off my face without worrying about a hat or sunglasses. And I honestly love the look of my purple Tipperary. I put some decals on mine for my mom. Along with my mantra, 'Never Give Up'

It covers up my horrible sweaty frizzy messy hair in the summer. I love it. I wear it every single ride. I LOVE sticking out!!! I wish my helmet was louder

I also noticed that a good bit of the 300 open entries at my State finals this year had helmets on. 2/5 of my drag alone were in helmets. So they are definitely becoming more popular.

I grew up riding jumpers so have no issue with it. Now that I have a very athletic 3 year old colt I wear it all the time. I want to give some of mine a hot-rod paint job like Fallon taylor does and eventually sell them on my line of rodeo apparel and custom equine accessories.
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Blueridgedreaming
Reg. Sep 2013
Posted 2015-07-13 4:28 PM
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You all have shared some really great things!
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Reg. Jan 2012
Posted 2015-07-14 9:49 AM
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 I wouldn't typically wear a helmet... But my greenie who's decided to buck has prompted me to wear one. Can't be too cautious.
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RodeoCowgirl4u
Reg. Aug 2012
Posted 2015-07-14 9:58 AM
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Also now that I have a son and would like him to wear one I have to wear mine. Same thing for my stepdaughter who (right now) wants to be my mini me. The hard part is what to say to the kids when I say we have to be safe and my team roper hubby is not (and will not) wearing one. LOL
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wyoming barrel racer
Reg. Apr 2006
Posted 2015-07-14 10:12 AM
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I have had 3 concussions, 2 of which are horse related.  I wear one with every young horse I get back...and then once I get to my comfort zone I stop and just wear a ball cap. I wear one that the eventers wear. Low profile and very comfortable. Don't even realize I have it on. I can't give a good reason why I don't wear it all the time. I just don't. I should and I am going to take my boys to get fitted for them as well. I think I will be better about wearing one when we all 3 have one on. I have no negative thoughts when I see someone else-adult or child, wearing one. Good for those that do 
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Speedy Buckeye Girl
Reg. Jun 2010
Posted 2015-07-14 11:12 AM
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wyoming barrel racer - 2015-07-14 11:12 AM I have had 3 concussions, 2 of which are horse related.  I wear one with every young horse I get back...and then once I get to my comfort zone I stop and just wear a ball cap. I wear one that the eventers wear. Low profile and very comfortable. Don't even realize I have it on. I can't give a good reason why I don't wear it all the time. I just don't. I should and I am going to take my boys to get fitted for them as well. I think I will be better about wearing one when we all 3 have one on. I have no negative thoughts when I see someone else-adult or child, wearing one. Good for those that do 

I could have written your post.  I use my old jumper helmet with the young ones.  I don't think my brain can handle concussion #4....
Just bought my son one in his favorite color so he likes it....I think it's great that they seem to be more popular for the youth these days.
 
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Katie's
Reg. Dec 2004
Posted 2015-07-14 1:33 PM
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For whatever the reason people choose to - I am SO happy that more and more people are wearing helmets!  
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IRunOnFaith
Reg. Dec 2009
Posted 2015-07-14 4:57 PM
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This post has some great points.
 Thinking of getting a helmet....
Any suggestions?
Pm Me so I don't accidentally hijack this thread from the OP LOL . 
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redmansmyman11
Reg. Jan 2012
Posted 2015-07-14 5:36 PM
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Good for your hubby and also for you for wearing a helmet. I used to be the only one at races or shows in one but now its starting to catch on a little bit. Last sunday there were two or three other girls plus me.
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casualdust07
Reg. Mar 2005
Posted 2015-07-14 5:40 PM
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My friend's daughter had a really cool Troxel helmet on. It had leather on top of it.. really was nice. I tried it on and really liked it. It wasn't the big bulky western helmets I've seen in the past.
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avmalibu
Reg. Nov 2012
Posted 2015-07-14 11:38 PM
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I just got the "OK" today from the neurologist  to get back on a horse. I haven't ridden since November! Seriously people, wear a helmet, brain injuries can be so easily prevented sometimes!
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oldlady
Reg. Aug 2007
Posted 2015-07-15 8:29 AM
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I started wearing one this year, I only trail ride but am a senior and on medication that bumpimg my head of the ground woould be very bad. My daughter started wearing one this year. She has had some bad falls and after a bad experience this wnter decided to wear one. Her horse fell at the first barrel a few weeks ago. Her helmet had a mark on it from the barrel. If she hit hard enough to make a mark think about her head.
All my grandchildren must wear helmets when they ride. The first thing they say is where is my helmet. Good habit to get into.
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hlynn
Reg. Dec 2011
Posted 2015-07-15 8:55 AM
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I had been mulling over the decision to wear one for about a year. I've always thought about it but never gone through with it. Not really for vanity reasons. Just never got around to getting out to a store to try different styles on and such.

Well this year I tried on my friends Tipperary and decided I liked it. Ordered mine and started wearing it. I've came off twice with it on already. The first time my hip took the brunt of the fall at my in laws arena in the packed sand. It took me a week just to walk alright. The second time I was the second one out after a big drag at a decent sized show. My gelding threw his 'hop hop spin' move on me in between the 1st and 2nd and off I came. Luckily I landed chest first so my boobs broke my fall. Lol.

I found out 3 weeks ago that I have an arachnoid cyst on my brain. It's benign but any decent amount of trauma could cause it to rupture and cause serious damage. It's in the posterior fossa region which is covered by my helmet. Im glad I started to wear a helmet this year. Now any fall could end up serious if it involves my head.

Scary stuff. But riding is no bigger a risk than driving or walking down the steps. especially for my clumsy self.
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Bibliafarm
Reg. Jul 2008
Posted 2015-07-15 9:09 AM
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 Its mandatory we wear one .. 2 bad head concussions.. dorky is better then dingy..

 
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Reg. Sep 2011
Posted 2015-07-15 10:12 AM
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The first time I showed up at a show wearing mine I was asked, "Did you lose your nerve?"

My response was "Nope...found my common sense"

I like the English/jockey type helmets. Used to think Tony Pitcock was so cool in his "crash" helmet.


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Reg. Jun 2008
Posted 2015-07-15 10:15 AM
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Blueridgedreaming - 2015-07-13 12:51 PM He went trail riding with me this weekend-SO thankful! But I told him when wearing my helmet, that I felt dorky. He said, why would you feel dorky? Do you think NASCAR drivers feel dorky? He said no, they are being protected. Good thought for those that worry about how they look wearing a helmet and letting that be the only reason they are not wearing one. This is not a helmet debate-only made to encourage and look at it from a different perspective! Football players, baseball players, NASCAR drivers.. and the list goes on. They all wear them (yes, required) but they probably aren't overly concerned with looking like the odd man out (like I do)!

Also it was your husbands way of telling you that he loves you!
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