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          Location: Bastrop, Texas | We can debate specifics on this, but watch the doctor feed her face and wash it down with wine, as she graphically describes how they procure organs and tissues from babies during abortions, taking great care to "crush" the baby in the correct places, so as to preserve the merchandise. This is from the Washington Post....not exactly right wing.
http://www.washingtonpost.com/politics/undercover-video-shows-plann...
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                    Location: In the Hills of Texas | This is very sick...What is wrong with people?
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        Location: Broxton, Ga | I reckon dead is dead for some and why let dead go to waste.....it's that pretty much how it is?
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        Location: USA | Our acceptance of this brutality has brought our country to the place of immorality that is it is today. I attended a Pro life rally at our capital when I was teenager. I believe it was right around 1976 or so. Brutally cold, I listened to the speakers predict all the horrors that have come to pass. At the time, it seemed impossible. Assisted suicides, babies parts being sold off. The use of fetal tissues of murdered babies. and on and on. They nailed it back then.I see a very dim future as half of the population still tries to justify this horror show, and most the rest refuse to even acknowledge it goes on because it makes them too uncomfortable. | |
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                    Location: In the Hills of Texas | A Democratic strategist was just on the Kelly File and basically said the video was a hoax. Complete denial for sure. | |
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        Location: USA | CJE - 2015-07-15 8:27 PM I reckon dead is dead for some and why let dead go to waste.....it's that pretty much how it is? Aborted is aborted right......as some say "what difference does it make"....
First off, the baby is birthed, fully alive, except the head. Then, while still alive, it is stabbed in the back of the head and the brains suctioned out, skull crushed. There is absolutely NO reason for a partial birth abortion, such as "saving the life of the mother" as the baby is pretty much delivered already. They are purposely turning the babies to extract them this way. It is MONSTEROUS! Babies at 24 weeks are viable and feel pain!! What is wrong with people! | |
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So sick and wrong and she is like no big deal!! Godless IMHO
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          Location: Bastrop, Texas | All you need to know about this is what you see when that beast is shoveling in her food like a starving lion, and drinking wine like a camel, as she describes her technique, along with the business aspects of their racket. They can claim its a hoax and say its been "doctored", but the video tells us all we need to know. This puts Joseph Mengele to shame. | |
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CJE - 2015-07-15 8:27 PM I reckon dead is dead for some and why let dead go to waste.....it's that pretty much how it is? Aborted is aborted right......as some say "what difference does it make"....
First off, the baby is birthed, fully alive, except the head. Then, while still alive, it is stabbed in the back of the head and the brains suctioned out, skull crushed. There is absolutely NO reason for a partial birth abortion, such as "saving the life of the mother" as the baby is pretty much delivered already. They are purposely turning the babies to extract them this way. It is MONSTEROUS! Babies at 24 weeks are viable and feel pain!! What is wrong with people!
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                    Location: In the Hills of Texas | Bear - 2015-07-15 9:26 PM All you need to know about this is what you see when that beast is shoveling in her food like a starving lion, and drinking wine like a camel, as she describes her technique, along with the business aspects of their racket. They can claim its a hoax and say its been "doctored", but the video tells us all we need to know. This puts Joseph Mengele to shame. It's the liberal way...Lie and keep telling the lie.
I love what this guy said...So true..
So no evil, etc.Yesterday, the dinosaur legacy media tried to ignore the video of Planned Parenthood's Dr. Deborah Nucatola casually discussing the harvesting for sale of fetal body parts while sipping wine and nibbling on a salad. They are the gatekeepers of all information, you see, and if they don't cover it then it isn't news.That didn't work. So now that they realize they have to say something about it, they're trying their best to cover Planned Parenthood's behind by selling the giant abortion gin's own talking points. They're not selling body parts, you see. They're just facilitating "organ donations" and getting reimbursed for their trouble. - See more at: http://www.caintv.com/media-trying-pretty-hard-to-ex#sthash.jZVN5q4...
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     Location: East Texas | Wonder how that works??... They don’t believe there is life, so abortion is okay, yet they want to harvest organs and use tissue from something that is not living. Really?? I guess I am just stupid! | |
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They call it Pro-Choice because calling it Pro-Abortion wouldn't have the same ring to it. IMO...the time for a woman to choose is when she decides what form or forms of birth control she will use to prevent pregnancy. (Yes I know they can fail...yes I know there are rare cases of rape/incest etc...but that's a small minority of these cases) And why are they waiting until late term to abort? When the fetus is developed to the point that it's organs are beneficial for use? A lot of pro-abortion folks tell themselves it's not a "baby"...it's a lump of undifferentiated cells. Maybe now some will see that there are practices going on that even they cannot stomach.
Personal beliefs and values aside....they can spin spin spin however they want...but there is no denying the disgustingly callous way in which that woman discusses the careful butchering of babies for their parts. While eating lunch. | |
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        Location: Gainesville, TX | To get away, just a minute, from the overly emotional appeals and prevent a different perspective. This may have been a poor venue choice or not. Most people are more relaxed over a meal. Plenty of pro lifers like to eat salads and drink wine too. Her meal choices have NOTHING to do with this issue. Many of us watch starving children eat on television or watch people eat on sitcoms and somehow this is not disgusting. If this bothers you, it bothers you that someone who is opposed to your point of view treats it more casually or views the life of a child as valuable for other reasons, like saving the life of a child that has already been born, than what you personally think. You would find the topic disgusting no matter what. You just find it disturbing that she can treat it casually enough that she can discuss it while she eats. What she is eating and honestly the fact that she is eating is IRRELEVANT. Many medical professionals, my mother included as she is a nurse, have strong stomachs and can discuss topics over lunch that might turn many of our stomachs. If you want to discuss the issue, then discuss the issue, not her meal.
That being said. The parents with the premature baby born at 28 weeks that they have prayed and wished for may truly appreciate the fact that these organs are there in the first place to save their son or daughter. A life may be lost and another one saved.
Please just remember these points when you are discussing the issue.
Personally I'm not a fan of abortions. I'm a huge major fan of family planning and handing out condoms like its going out of style. But when we discuss these issues we do a disservice not to consider all sides of the issue with some logic, not just emotion, and to separate out the irrelevant bits. We do not want to be like politicians, throwing out red herrings to distract from the central issue. Frankly a video of heart surgery or a heart transplant, especially from a beating heart cadaver, is also disturbing to many people but it saves lives.
Be against this issue because you hate to see a life, any life, cut short. Don't be against it because the doctor is eating and the procedure is hard to look at. | |
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     Location: Do I hear Banjos? | Sorry....I certainly do not see her callous nature as "irrelevant". | |
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        Location: Gainesville, TX | TrailGirl - 2015-07-16 10:35 AM
Sorry....I certainly do not see her callous nature as "irrelevant".
I didn't say what many will see as callousness as irrelevant. I said her meal was. | |
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TrailGirl - 2015-07-16 10:35 AM
Sorry....I certainly do not see her callous nature as "irrelevant".
I didn't say what many will see as callousness as irrelevant. I said her meal was.
I don't care if she was sitting down for a meal, what she was eating or drinking, or if she was on a casual trail ride... it was WHAT she said that is the issue with me!! | |
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  Location: Kansas | we watched part of this last night and i am absolutely disgusted PP needs to be defunded! life starts at conception! this lady acts like it is no big deal at all! i am sure that there are plenty of loving families that would love to adopt these innocent babies!
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Sorry....I certainly do not see her callous nature as "irrelevant".
I didn't say what many will see as callousness as irrelevant. I said her meal was.
I don't care if she was sitting down for a meal, what she was eating or drinking, or if she was on a casual trail ride... it was WHAT she said that is the issue with me!!
Which is what I was asking people to focus on. Look at the first page and the number of comments on her meal though. | |
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TrailGirl - 2015-07-16 10:35 AM
Sorry....I certainly do not see her callous nature as "irrelevant".
I didn't say what many will see as callousness as irrelevant. I said her meal was.
I don't care if she was sitting down for a meal, what she was eating or drinking, or if she was on a casual trail ride... it was WHAT she said that is the issue with me!!
Which is what I was asking people to focus on. Look at the first page and the number of comments on her meal though.
I certainly am not trying to speak for the OP, who is a doctor, and who I am sure has seen his fair share of blood and guts. What I do believe is that a lot of us are so passionate about this subject, that to witness someone, who we perceive as just casually eating and drinking and talking about what is unfathomable to us, can do so and act like she is just talking about the weather or their favorite TV show!! | |
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TrailGirl - 2015-07-16 10:35 AM
Sorry....I certainly do not see her callous nature as "irrelevant".
I didn't say what many will see as callousness as irrelevant. I said her meal was.
I don't care if she was sitting down for a meal, what she was eating or drinking, or if she was on a casual trail ride... it was WHAT she said that is the issue with me!!
Which is what I was asking people to focus on. Look at the first page and the number of comments on her meal though.
The fact that she is talking about this casually over a meal IS relevant. It speaks to her absolute comfort with the topic. While a heart transplant surgeon may be comfortable discussing his work over dinner...that is completely different. It's not just her comfort level with the blood/organs/tissues itself (I get that as I can discuss veterinary procedures all day eating a hamburger)...it's the fact that unlike the heart surgeon who is performing a life saving procedure...she is discussing the best means to kill an infant in order to keep it's parts useful for sale. See the difference? See why context matters? | |
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          Location: Bastrop, Texas | oija - 2015-07-16 10:31 AM
To get away, just a minute, from the overly emotional appeals and prevent a different perspective. This may have been a poor venue choice or not. Most people are more relaxed over a meal. Plenty of pro lifers like to eat salads and drink wine too. Her meal choices have NOTHING to do with this issue. Many of us watch starving children eat on television or watch people eat on sitcoms and somehow this is not disgusting. If this bothers you, it bothers you that someone who is opposed to your point of view treats it more casually or views the life of a child as valuable for other reasons, like saving the life of a child that has already been born, than what you personally think. You would find the topic disgusting no matter what. You just find it disturbing that she can treat it casually enough that she can discuss it while she eats. What she is eating and honestly the fact that she is eating is IRRELEVANT. Many medical professionals, my mother included as she is a nurse, have strong stomachs and can discuss topics over lunch that might turn many of our stomachs. If you want to discuss the issue, then discuss the issue, not her meal.
That being said. The parents with the premature baby born at 28 weeks that they have prayed and wished for may truly appreciate the fact that these organs are there in the first place to save their son or daughter. A life may be lost and another one saved.
Please just remember these points when you are discussing the issue.
Personally I'm not a fan of abortions. I'm a huge major fan of family planning and handing out condoms like its going out of style. But when we discuss these issues we do a disservice not to consider all sides of the issue with some logic, not just emotion, and to separate out the irrelevant bits. We do not want to be like politicians, throwing out red herrings to distract from the central issue. Frankly a video of heart surgery or a heart transplant, especially from a beating heart cadaver, is also disturbing to many people but it saves lives.
Be against this issue because you hate to see a life, any life, cut short. Don't be against it because the doctor is eating and the procedure is hard to look at.
Handing out condoms is a cheap ploy....a ruse. Condoms are cheap.....go out and buy your own condoms. They hand out condoms so people can talk about how wonderful they are. It's a marketing tool. For that matter, I think birth control, in general, ought to be the responsibility of those who decide they need it. Why should hard working taxpayers be expected to provide free birth control? That money would be much better spent educating idiots on basic communication skills like grammar and spelling, because it would benefit society in general. If someone decides they want to have an abortion, that is their right. They are the ones who will have to live with it. They should also be fully aware that they are terminating life. They should be aware that those unborn babies can perceive pain much earlier than once thought. They should also be aware of how abortions are performed, particularly late term abortions. They need to know that the baby squirms and writhes as the baby is crushed, dismembered, mascerated, and pithed. They need to realize that there's a significant chance they will have to deal with the psychological after effects, possibly for a very long time.
What I found to be most disturbing about this video was how the woman callously described the gruesome technical details while eating. If you don't find that at least a little disturbing, then I have to wonder about you.
For 18 years, as part of a transplant team, I participated in organ procurement on organ donors. Even though their hearts were beating and they looked very much alive, they were brain dead. Without fail, the procedure was conducted as a very solemn procedure. Our behavior and conduct in that operating room was dignified and everyone felt gratified that some family was willing to donate the organs of a loved one. It really is a sight to behold, and nothing illustrates the better angels of our nature, as human beings. Deep inside, in a certain way, we also viewed it as a joyous occasion, because we knew the organs we harvested could save countless lives. The family also found consolation in knowing that their loved one was a hero in death to many people. That provided lasting comfort to them, in an otherwise very sad day. This is why I was appalled with the woman in the video. We conducted ourselves with dignity and respect. We didn't play our usual music, and nobody told jokes. We behaved as if we were under the watchful eye of that donor's family. I'll never forget the imagery of a 12 year old boy who was a donor. As I finished removing his heart, I looked over the drapes at his face, and over at his arm on the IV board. He had fallen out of a treehouse earlier that day. He still had Popsicle stains around his pink lips. He had a bandaid on his hand from a scrape he sustained probably several days earlier. He still had a washable bubblegum tattoo of a cartoon figure on his forearm. He was someone's pride and joy and very much loved. I later met the family and witnessed their joy and sadness at the same time, something a person can find hard to comprehend......until it happens to them.
I would never ever allow a doctor this cold and calloused in my operating room. She wouldn't understand.....she wouldn't fit in.
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TrailGirl - 2015-07-16 10:35 AM
Sorry....I certainly do not see her callous nature as "irrelevant".
I didn't say what many will see as callousness as irrelevant. I said her meal was.
I don't care if she was sitting down for a meal, what she was eating or drinking, or if she was on a casual trail ride... it was WHAT she said that is the issue with me!!
Which is what I was asking people to focus on. Look at the first page and the number of comments on her meal though.
The fact that she is talking about this casually over a meal IS relevant. It speaks to her absolute comfort with the topic. While a heart transplant surgeon may be comfortable discussing his work over dinner...that is completely different. It's not just her comfort level with the blood/organs/tissues itself (I get that as I can discuss veterinary procedures all day eating a hamburger )...it's the fact that unlike the heart surgeon who is performing a life saving procedure...she is discussing the best means to kill an infant in order to keep it's parts useful for sale. See the difference? See why context matters?
No I think she would come across as callous even without eating. I still find the meal irrelevant. I think it is being overplayed only because people feel so emotional about this topic. Abortion and her attitude is what matters, not her meal. | |
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oija - 2015-07-16 10:31 AM
To get away, just a minute, from the overly emotional appeals and prevent a different perspective. This may have been a poor venue choice or not. Most people are more relaxed over a meal. Plenty of pro lifers like to eat salads and drink wine too. Her meal choices have NOTHING to do with this issue. Many of us watch starving children eat on television or watch people eat on sitcoms and somehow this is not disgusting. If this bothers you, it bothers you that someone who is opposed to your point of view treats it more casually or views the life of a child as valuable for other reasons, like saving the life of a child that has already been born, than what you personally think. You would find the topic disgusting no matter what. You just find it disturbing that she can treat it casually enough that she can discuss it while she eats. What she is eating and honestly the fact that she is eating is IRRELEVANT. Many medical professionals, my mother included as she is a nurse, have strong stomachs and can discuss topics over lunch that might turn many of our stomachs. If you want to discuss the issue, then discuss the issue, not her meal.
That being said. The parents with the premature baby born at 28 weeks that they have prayed and wished for may truly appreciate the fact that these organs are there in the first place to save their son or daughter. A life may be lost and another one saved.
Please just remember these points when you are discussing the issue.
Personally I'm not a fan of abortions. I'm a huge major fan of family planning and handing out condoms like its going out of style. But when we discuss these issues we do a disservice not to consider all sides of the issue with some logic, not just emotion, and to separate out the irrelevant bits. We do not want to be like politicians, throwing out red herrings to distract from the central issue. Frankly a video of heart surgery or a heart transplant, especially from a beating heart cadaver, is also disturbing to many people but it saves lives.
Be against this issue because you hate to see a life, any life, cut short. Don't be against it because the doctor is eating and the procedure is hard to look at.
Handing out condoms is a cheap ploy....a ruse. Condoms are cheap.....go out and buy your own condoms. They hand out condoms so people can talk about how wonderful they are. It's a marketing tool. For that matter, I think birth control, in general, ought to be the responsibility of those who decide they need it. Why should hard working taxpayers be expected to provide free birth control? That money would be much better spent educating idiots on basic communication skills like grammar and spelling, because it would benefit society in general. If someone decides they want to have an abortion, that is their right. They are the ones who will have to live with it. They should also be fully aware that they are terminating life. They should be aware that those unborn babies can perceive pain much earlier than once thought. They should also be aware of how abortions are performed, particularly late term abortions. They need to know that the baby squirms and writhes as the baby is crushed, dismembered, mascerated, and pithed. They need to realize that there's a significant chance they will have to deal with the psychological after effects, possibly for a very long time.
What I found to be most disturbing about this video was how the woman callously described the gruesome technical details while eating. If you don't find that at least a little disturbing, then I have to wonder about you.
For 18 years, as part of a transplant team, I participated in organ procurement on organ donors. Even though their hearts were beating and they looked very much alive, they were brain dead. Without fail, the procedure was conducted as a very solemn procedure. Our behavior and conduct in that operating room was dignified and everyone felt gratified that some family was willing to donate the organs of a loved one. It really is a sight to behold, and nothing illustrates the better angels of our nature, as human beings. Deep inside, in a certain way, we also viewed it as a joyous occasion, because we knew the organs we harvested could save countless lives. The family also found consolation in knowing that their loved one was a hero in death to many people. That provided lasting comfort to them, in an otherwise very sad day. This is why I was appalled with the woman in the video. We conducted ourselves with dignity and respect. We didn't play our usual music, and nobody told jokes. We behaved as if we were under the watchful eye of that donor's family. I'll never forget the imagery of a 12 year old boy who was a donor. As I finished removing his heart, I looked over the drapes at his face, and over at his arm on the IV board. He had fallen out of a treehouse earlier that day. He still had Popsicle stains around his pink lips. He had a bandaid on his hand from a scrape he sustained probably several days earlier. He still had a washable bubblegum tattoo of a cartoon figure on his forearm. He was someone's pride and joy and very much loved. I later met the family and witnessed their joy and sadness at the same time, something a person can find hard to comprehend......until it happens to them.
I would never ever allow a doctor this cold and calloused in my operating room. She wouldn't understand.....she wouldn't fit in.
To the person who can't afford a box of condoms and probably can't afford a kid either or treatment for STDs, that condom may make a real difference. Better a condom than an abortion, cheaper too. And marketing can work. We all became convinced we needed diamond engagement rings because of marketing, silly as that may be. If marketing can make someone use a condom then hallelujah. Taxpayers paying for biirth control is a completely different issue. I never said anything about the government needing to fund it. Private groups can hand these out as easily as public ones.
I totally agree on the point that we should treat any of these issues and any lives connected with them with dignity and respect. I just firmly believe that whether she were eating or not that people who disagree with her views are going to see her as callous due to her tone of voice and opinions. I believe that she has given herself some emotional distance from this procedure as a survival skill and this comes across; it would come across in any context. I think it is more pertinent to talk about the issue and the procedure than her meal.
When we simply attack her as completely disgusting we are engaging in an ad hominem attack, criticizing the person and not the issue. She is not disgusting though her attitude may be. She is a fully developed human being who believes that what she is doing helps other people. Anyone has the right to disagree with her. Don't attack the person, attack the problem. Hate the sin, love the sinner.
We should not dehumanize her and talk about her like she is an animal at a trough with no human feeling anymore than she should appear to dehumanize the lives of the children that are lost through abortion. She would talk about the technical details the same in any context though I am convinced and seem cold thus I still firmly believe that the meal is irrelevant.
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| oija - 2015-07-16 12:35 PM.... We should not dehumanize her and talk about her like she is an animal at a trough with no human feeling anymore than she should appear to dehumanize the lives of the children that are lost through abortion.
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| oija - 2015-07-16 10:31 AM That being said. The parents with the premature baby born at 28 weeks that they have prayed and wished for may truly appreciate the fact that these organs are there in the first place to save their son or daughter.
How can that be? Abortions only remove inviable tissue mass. There can't be any useful developed organs. | |
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     Location: In The Land of Cotton | TXBO - 2015-07-16 1:45 PM oija - 2015-07-16 12:35 PM.... We should not dehumanize her and talk about her like she is an animal at a trough with no human feeling anymore than she should appear to dehumanize the lives of the children that are lost through abortion. Anyone that treats the body parts of a living human being, at any age, as a comodity is an animal.
She is worse then an animal. Animals have purposes when they choose to tear things apart - usually eat them for survival. | |
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                    Location: In the Hills of Texas | Bear - 2015-07-16 11:55 AM oija - 2015-07-16 10:31 AM To get away, just a minute, from the overly emotional appeals and prevent a different perspective. This may have been a poor venue choice or not. Most people are more relaxed over a meal. Plenty of pro lifers like to eat salads and drink wine too. Her meal choices have NOTHING to do with this issue. Many of us watch starving children eat on television or watch people eat on sitcoms and somehow this is not disgusting. If this bothers you, it bothers you that someone who is opposed to your point of view treats it more casually or views the life of a child as valuable for other reasons, like saving the life of a child that has already been born, than what you personally think. You would find the topic disgusting no matter what. You just find it disturbing that she can treat it casually enough that she can discuss it while she eats. What she is eating and honestly the fact that she is eating is IRRELEVANT. Many medical professionals, my mother included as she is a nurse, have strong stomachs and can discuss topics over lunch that might turn many of our stomachs. If you want to discuss the issue, then discuss the issue, not her meal. That being said. The parents with the premature baby born at 28 weeks that they have prayed and wished for may truly appreciate the fact that these organs are there in the first place to save their son or daughter. A life may be lost and another one saved. Please just remember these points when you are discussing the issue. Personally I'm not a fan of abortions. I'm a huge major fan of family planning and handing out condoms like its going out of style. But when we discuss these issues we do a disservice not to consider all sides of the issue with some logic, not just emotion, and to separate out the irrelevant bits. We do not want to be like politicians, throwing out red herrings to distract from the central issue. Frankly a video of heart surgery or a heart transplant, especially from a beating heart cadaver, is also disturbing to many people but it saves lives. Be against this issue because you hate to see a life, any life, cut short. Don't be against it because the doctor is eating and the procedure is hard to look at. Handing out condoms is a cheap ploy....a ruse. Condoms are cheap.....go out and buy your own condoms. They hand out condoms so people can talk about how wonderful they are. It's a marketing tool. For that matter, I think birth control, in general, ought to be the responsibility of those who decide they need it. Why should hard working taxpayers be expected to provide free birth control? That money would be much better spent educating idiots on basic communication skills like grammar and spelling, because it would benefit society in general. If someone decides they want to have an abortion, that is their right. They are the ones who will have to live with it. They should also be fully aware that they are terminating life. They should be aware that those unborn babies can perceive pain much earlier than once thought. They should also be aware of how abortions are performed, particularly late term abortions. They need to know that the baby squirms and writhes as the baby is crushed, dismembered, mascerated, and pithed. They need to realize that there's a significant chance they will have to deal with the psychological after effects, possibly for a very long time. What I found to be most disturbing about this video was how the woman callously described the gruesome technical details while eating. If you don't find that at least a little disturbing, then I have to wonder about you. For 18 years, as part of a transplant team, I participated in organ procurement on organ donors. Even though their hearts were beating and they looked very much alive, they were brain dead. Without fail, the procedure was conducted as a very solemn procedure. Our behavior and conduct in that operating room was dignified and everyone felt gratified that some family was willing to donate the organs of a loved one. It really is a sight to behold, and nothing illustrates the better angels of our nature, as human beings. Deep inside, in a certain way, we also viewed it as a joyous occasion, because we knew the organs we harvested could save countless lives. The family also found consolation in knowing that their loved one was a hero in death to many people. That provided lasting comfort to them, in an otherwise very sad day. This is why I was appalled with the woman in the video. We conducted ourselves with dignity and respect. We didn't play our usual music, and nobody told jokes. We behaved as if we were under the watchful eye of that donor's family. I'll never forget the imagery of a 12 year old boy who was a donor. As I finished removing his heart, I looked over the drapes at his face, and over at his arm on the IV board. He had fallen out of a treehouse earlier that day. He still had Popsicle stains around his pink lips. He had a bandaid on his hand from a scrape he sustained probably several days earlier. He still had a washable bubblegum tattoo of a cartoon figure on his forearm. He was someone's pride and joy and very much loved. I later met the family and witnessed their joy and sadness at the same time, something a person can find hard to comprehend......until it happens to them. I would never ever allow a doctor this cold and calloused in my operating room. She wouldn't understand.....she wouldn't fit in.
I'm usually not an emotional person and seldom cry but this got to me.
I have really wondered for a long time why libs and conservatives are wired so differently. I can't wrap around my head how libs cry about executing people that have done horrendous crimes, close down agriculture to save a smelt and then demand a mothers choice of killing her babies is their right. I will admit that very early termination does not set well with me but then I think about all the unwanted babies there would be in the world but, late term abortions are out and out murder. How can people be so caring and then so cold hearted? | |
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   Location: Missouri | I do not agree with this video and think it is sooo disgusting and WRONG! Whether it is real or a fake I don't care. It's wrong.
Now what I do have to say is this.
I do not agree with abortion from my own stand point but I do not agree that old men is Washington should have a say over any part of my body whether they see it as being right or wrong. Once again I don't think abortion is right but I won't stop someone from doing it, not my place at this point in time it is legal and they have the right to do it. I do have to say is that I think planned parenthood is a great resource to many people, myself included! I have used there services multiple times. I have bought BC from them, condoms, std tests, all the above. I have utilized their resources so that I could prevent myself from being in a situation where the thought of abortion may come into play.
Now I am not defending this video, woman, or abortion. I am simply stating that the resources, outside of abortion, that planned parenthood provides is a great choice. Before obamacare I didn't have insurance and couldn't afford a doctor. I chose planned parenthood because it was affordable and the smart thing to do so that I wouldn't end up with a child I couldn't afford. I should state that while going to planned parenthood I was and still am in a long term healthy relationship with ONE man. I believe in safe sex and the knowledge of being able to participate in safe consensual sex. If someone wants to go out and screw 100 men then that is their choice, but I would much rather they be smart and safe and have access to places like planned parenthood as a before and not a after option.
Once again, not defending abortion simply stating that Planned parenthood provides resources outside of abortion that have saved women from having an abortion. If planned parenthood did away with abortions it would not bother me once but I do think we need places like planned parenthood to provide healthy resources to girls and boys who otherwise can not afford traditional sex care. | |
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To get away, just a minute, from the overly emotional appeals and prevent a different perspective. This may have been a poor venue choice or not. Most people are more relaxed over a meal. Plenty of pro lifers like to eat salads and drink wine too. Her meal choices have NOTHING to do with this issue. Many of us watch starving children eat on television or watch people eat on sitcoms and somehow this is not disgusting. If this bothers you, it bothers you that someone who is opposed to your point of view treats it more casually or views the life of a child as valuable for other reasons, like saving the life of a child that has already been born, than what you personally think. You would find the topic disgusting no matter what. You just find it disturbing that she can treat it casually enough that she can discuss it while she eats. What she is eating and honestly the fact that she is eating is IRRELEVANT. Many medical professionals, my mother included as she is a nurse, have strong stomachs and can discuss topics over lunch that might turn many of our stomachs. If you want to discuss the issue, then discuss the issue, not her meal.
That being said. The parents with the premature baby born at 28 weeks that they have prayed and wished for may truly appreciate the fact that these organs are there in the first place to save their son or daughter. A life may be lost and another one saved.
Please just remember these points when you are discussing the issue.
Personally I'm not a fan of abortions. I'm a huge major fan of family planning and handing out condoms like its going out of style. But when we discuss these issues we do a disservice not to consider all sides of the issue with some logic, not just emotion, and to separate out the irrelevant bits. We do not want to be like politicians, throwing out red herrings to distract from the central issue. Frankly a video of heart surgery or a heart transplant, especially from a beating heart cadaver, is also disturbing to many people but it saves lives.
Be against this issue because you hate to see a life, any life, cut short. Don't be against it because the doctor is eating and the procedure is hard to look at.
Handing out condoms is a cheap ploy....a ruse. Condoms are cheap.....go out and buy your own condoms. They hand out condoms so people can talk about how wonderful they are. It's a marketing tool. For that matter, I think birth control, in general, ought to be the responsibility of those who decide they need it. Why should hard working taxpayers be expected to provide free birth control? That money would be much better spent educating idiots on basic communication skills like grammar and spelling, because it would benefit society in general. If someone decides they want to have an abortion, that is their right. They are the ones who will have to live with it. They should also be fully aware that they are terminating life. They should be aware that those unborn babies can perceive pain much earlier than once thought. They should also be aware of how abortions are performed, particularly late term abortions. They need to know that the baby squirms and writhes as the baby is crushed, dismembered, mascerated, and pithed. They need to realize that there's a significant chance they will have to deal with the psychological after effects, possibly for a very long time.
What I found to be most disturbing about this video was how the woman callously described the gruesome technical details while eating. If you don't find that at least a little disturbing, then I have to wonder about you.
For 18 years, as part of a transplant team, I participated in organ procurement on organ donors. Even though their hearts were beating and they looked very much alive, they were brain dead. Without fail, the procedure was conducted as a very solemn procedure. Our behavior and conduct in that operating room was dignified and everyone felt gratified that some family was willing to donate the organs of a loved one. It really is a sight to behold, and nothing illustrates the better angels of our nature, as human beings. Deep inside, in a certain way, we also viewed it as a joyous occasion, because we knew the organs we harvested could save countless lives. The family also found consolation in knowing that their loved one was a hero in death to many people. That provided lasting comfort to them, in an otherwise very sad day. This is why I was appalled with the woman in the video. We conducted ourselves with dignity and respect. We didn't play our usual music, and nobody told jokes. We behaved as if we were under the watchful eye of that donor's family. I'll never forget the imagery of a 12 year old boy who was a donor. As I finished removing his heart, I looked over the drapes at his face, and over at his arm on the IV board. He had fallen out of a treehouse earlier that day. He still had Popsicle stains around his pink lips. He had a bandaid on his hand from a scrape he sustained probably several days earlier. He still had a washable bubblegum tattoo of a cartoon figure on his forearm. He was someone's pride and joy and very much loved. I later met the family and witnessed their joy and sadness at the same time, something a person can find hard to comprehend......until it happens to them.
I would never ever allow a doctor this cold and calloused in my operating room. She wouldn't understand.....she wouldn't fit in.
To the person who can't afford a box of condoms and probably can't afford a kid either or treatment for STDs, that condom may make a real difference. Better a condom than an abortion, cheaper too. And marketing can work. We all became convinced we needed diamond engagement rings because of marketing, silly as that may be. If marketing can make someone use a condom then hallelujah. Taxpayers paying for biirth control is a completely different issue. I never said anything about the government needing to fund it. Private groups can hand these out as easily as public ones.
I totally agree on the point that we should treat any of these issues and any lives connected with them with dignity and respect. I just firmly believe that whether she were eating or not that people who disagree with her views are going to see her as callous due to her tone of voice and opinions. I believe that she has given herself some emotional distance from this procedure as a survival skill and this comes across; it would come across in any context. I think it is more pertinent to talk about the issue and the procedure than her meal.
When we simply attack her as completely disgusting we are engaging in an ad hominem attack, criticizing the person and not the issue. She is not disgusting though her attitude may be. She is a fully developed human being who believes that what she is doing helps other people. Anyone has the right to disagree with her. Don't attack the person, attack the problem. Hate the sin, love the sinner.
We should not dehumanize her and talk about her like she is an animal at a trough with no human feeling anymore than she should appear to dehumanize the lives of the children that are lost through abortion. She would talk about the technical details the same in any context though I am convinced and seem cold thus I still firmly believe that the meal is irrelevant.
You seem to be fixated on the meal. Her eating and swilling wine was part of the imagery. Most if us couldn't do that very easily, given the topic of discussion and her description of the procedure. You are right in that some people can do what she did. Joseph Mengela is one example. I know I couldn't.
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I do not agree with this video and think it is sooo disgusting and WRONG! Whether it is real or a fake I don't care. It's wrong.
Now what I do have to say is this.
I do not agree with abortion from my own stand point but I do not agree that old men is Washington should have a say over any part of my body whether they see it as being right or wrong. Once again I don't think abortion is right but I won't stop someone from doing it, not my place at this point in time it is legal and they have the right to do it. I do have to say is that I think planned parenthood is a great resource to many people, myself included! I have used there services multiple times. I have bought BC from them, condoms, std tests, all the above. I have utilized their resources so that I could prevent myself from being in a situation where the thought of abortion may come into play.
Now I am not defending this video, woman, or abortion. I am simply stating that the resources, outside of abortion, that planned parenthood provides is a great choice. Before obamacare I didn't have insurance and couldn't afford a doctor. I chose planned parenthood because it was affordable and the smart thing to do so that I wouldn't end up with a child I couldn't afford. I should state that while going to planned parenthood I was and still am in a long term healthy relationship with ONE man. I believe in safe sex and the knowledge of being able to participate in safe consensual sex. If someone wants to go out and screw 100 men then that is their choice, but I would much rather they be smart and safe and have access to places like planned parenthood as a before and not a after option.
Once again, not defending abortion simply stating that Planned parenthood provides resources outside of abortion that have saved women from having an abortion. If planned parenthood did away with abortions it would not bother me once but I do think we need places like planned parenthood to provide healthy resources to girls and boys who otherwise can not afford traditional sex care.
That's fine, but they can and should support themselves. If they are popular amongst so many, then they should be able to sustain their operations through profit and donations.
In my opinion, the entire "pro-choice" agenda is nothing more than a tool that has been crafted and contrived by left wing politicians. They used to use "pro choice" as a mantra, until people became aware of the hypocrisy of the left because the notion of "pro choice" did not apply to education, guns, or healthcare. That's why it has morphed into a more clever mantra....."reproductive rights" and "war on women". Planned Parenthood is a wholly owned subsidiary of the Democrat party. | |
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| Bear - 2015-07-16 11:55 AM oija - 2015-07-16 10:31 AM To get away, just a minute, from the overly emotional appeals and prevent a different perspective. This may have been a poor venue choice or not. Most people are more relaxed over a meal. Plenty of pro lifers like to eat salads and drink wine too. Her meal choices have NOTHING to do with this issue. Many of us watch starving children eat on television or watch people eat on sitcoms and somehow this is not disgusting. If this bothers you, it bothers you that someone who is opposed to your point of view treats it more casually or views the life of a child as valuable for other reasons, like saving the life of a child that has already been born, than what you personally think. You would find the topic disgusting no matter what. You just find it disturbing that she can treat it casually enough that she can discuss it while she eats. What she is eating and honestly the fact that she is eating is IRRELEVANT. Many medical professionals, my mother included as she is a nurse, have strong stomachs and can discuss topics over lunch that might turn many of our stomachs. If you want to discuss the issue, then discuss the issue, not her meal. That being said. The parents with the premature baby born at 28 weeks that they have prayed and wished for may truly appreciate the fact that these organs are there in the first place to save their son or daughter. A life may be lost and another one saved. Please just remember these points when you are discussing the issue. Personally I'm not a fan of abortions. I'm a huge major fan of family planning and handing out condoms like its going out of style. But when we discuss these issues we do a disservice not to consider all sides of the issue with some logic, not just emotion, and to separate out the irrelevant bits. We do not want to be like politicians, throwing out red herrings to distract from the central issue. Frankly a video of heart surgery or a heart transplant, especially from a beating heart cadaver, is also disturbing to many people but it saves lives. Be against this issue because you hate to see a life, any life, cut short. Don't be against it because the doctor is eating and the procedure is hard to look at. Handing out condoms is a cheap ploy....a ruse. Condoms are cheap.....go out and buy your own condoms. They hand out condoms so people can talk about how wonderful they are. It's a marketing tool. For that matter, I think birth control, in general, ought to be the responsibility of those who decide they need it. Why should hard working taxpayers be expected to provide free birth control? That money would be much better spent educating idiots on basic communication skills like grammar and spelling, because it would benefit society in general. If someone decides they want to have an abortion, that is their right. They are the ones who will have to live with it. They should also be fully aware that they are terminating life. They should be aware that those unborn babies can perceive pain much earlier than once thought. They should also be aware of how abortions are performed, particularly late term abortions. They need to know that the baby squirms and writhes as the baby is crushed, dismembered, mascerated, and pithed. They need to realize that there's a significant chance they will have to deal with the psychological after effects, possibly for a very long time. What I found to be most disturbing about this video was how the woman callously described the gruesome technical details while eating. If you don't find that at least a little disturbing, then I have to wonder about you. For 18 years, as part of a transplant team, I participated in organ procurement on organ donors. Even though their hearts were beating and they looked very much alive, they were brain dead. Without fail, the procedure was conducted as a very solemn procedure. Our behavior and conduct in that operating room was dignified and everyone felt gratified that some family was willing to donate the organs of a loved one. It really is a sight to behold, and nothing illustrates the better angels of our nature, as human beings. Deep inside, in a certain way, we also viewed it as a joyous occasion, because we knew the organs we harvested could save countless lives. The family also found consolation in knowing that their loved one was a hero in death to many people. That provided lasting comfort to them, in an otherwise very sad day. This is why I was appalled with the woman in the video. We conducted ourselves with dignity and respect. We didn't play our usual music, and nobody told jokes. We behaved as if we were under the watchful eye of that donor's family. I'll never forget the imagery of a 12 year old boy who was a donor. As I finished removing his heart, I looked over the drapes at his face, and over at his arm on the IV board. He had fallen out of a treehouse earlier that day. He still had Popsicle stains around his pink lips. He had a bandaid on his hand from a scrape he sustained probably several days earlier. He still had a washable bubblegum tattoo of a cartoon figure on his forearm. He was someone's pride and joy and very much loved. I later met the family and witnessed their joy and sadness at the same time, something a person can find hard to comprehend......until it happens to them. I would never ever allow a doctor this cold and calloused in my operating room. She wouldn't understand.....she wouldn't fit in.
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      Location: Beggs, OK | TXBO - 2015-07-16 12:45 PM oija - 2015-07-16 12:35 PM.... We should not dehumanize her and talk about her like she is an animal at a trough with no human feeling anymore than she should appear to dehumanize the lives of the children that are lost through abortion. Anyone that treats the body parts of a living human being, at any age, as a comodity is an animal.
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| mcdaniel14 - 2015-07-16 11:01 AM
we watched part of this last night and i am absolutely disgusted PP needs to be defunded! life starts at conception! this lady acts like it is no big deal at all! i am sure that there are plenty of loving families that would love to adopt these innocent babies!
Sorry but your comment disturbs me. I respect you are pro life, but if there are so many families looking to adopt, then why are there so many children in foster homes?
How many children have been removed from families via social services, how many people have been convicted of abusing their own child.
To me abortion can save these unwanted children from a life of pain.
I also have an issue with someone dictating what a woman should do with her body, sometimes pregnancies are undetected till later in pregnancy, I know one person who kept going back to the doc for abdominal cramping, blood and urine pregnancy tests were negative, it wasn't till an abdominal ultrasound confirmed she was 7 months pregnant.
If abortion becomes outlawed, then women have no rights.
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| cheryl makofka - 2015-07-16 2:24 PM
mcdaniel14 - 2015-07-16 11:01 AM
we watched part of this last night and i am absolutely disgusted PP needs to be defunded! life starts at conception! this lady acts like it is no big deal at all! i am sure that there are plenty of loving families that would love to adopt these innocent babies!
Sorry but your comment disturbs me. I respect you are pro life, but if there are so many families looking to adopt, then why are there so many children in foster homes?
How many children have been removed from families via social services, how many people have been convicted of abusing their own child.
To me abortion can save these unwanted children from a life of pain.
I also have an issue with someone dictating what a woman should do with her body, sometimes pregnancies are undetected till later in pregnancy, I know one person who kept going back to the doc for abdominal cramping, blood and urine pregnancy tests were negative, it wasn't till an abdominal ultrasound confirmed she was 7 months pregnant.
If abortion becomes outlawed, then women have no rights.
I get offended by smart women sinking to the "if you take away my right to abortion, I will lose all my rights" bulls**t. | |
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| You know what I would like to know? Why is it that if I go in for a late term abortion that is okay...but if I want a tubal ligation or partial hysterectomy (removing the uterus only) I can't have it? We have the medical knowledge and means...but that is not my right. Because insurance companies say no. Because I "might" want another child even though I am 36 and technically "old" for carrying a baby to term. Because they want to sell me Mirena and birth control pills, etc? I don't want any of that.
Yet I can have 5-6 abortions if I want them, but not REALLY be in control of my reproductive rights. And while I am generally pro-choice if the heartbeat hasn't developed yet, this is disgusting and sad. Those poor little babies. I know any woman who has had a late term abortion through them is now wondering if their baby was harvested like an alien science project. It makes me want to cry, and I am normally pretty unemotional, too. | |
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| cheryl makofka - 2015-07-16 12:24 PM
mcdaniel14 - 2015-07-16 11:01 AM
we watched part of this last night and i am absolutely disgusted PP needs to be defunded! life starts at conception! this lady acts like it is no big deal at all! i am sure that there are plenty of loving families that would love to adopt these innocent babies!
Sorry but your comment disturbs me. I respect you are pro life, but if there are so many families looking to adopt, then why are there so many children in foster homes?
How many children have been removed from families via social services, how many people have been convicted of abusing their own child.
To me abortion can save these unwanted children from a life of pain.
I also have an issue with someone dictating what a woman should do with her body, sometimes pregnancies are undetected till later in pregnancy, I know one person who kept going back to the doc for abdominal cramping, blood and urine pregnancy tests were negative, it wasn't till an abdominal ultrasound confirmed she was 7 months pregnant.
If abortion becomes outlawed, then women have no rights.
Very true!!! I think we underestimate the number of families wanting to adopt children. There are a lot of adoptable kids out there who will be part of the system until they turn 18. Where are all these people wanting to adopt, standing in line just hoping that a child will become available? | |
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    Location: Midwest | Bear - 2015-07-16 1:23 PM What is "traditional sex care"? Am I missing something? Who made that one up? Providing free condoms is now part of "traditional sex care"?
I think she was referring to reproductive health care, of which one part is birth control.
Any sexually active woman or woman after puberty should be seeing a gynecologist for regular health screenings.
Personally, I think they should pay for their own care, but I was answering your question with my opinion of her intended meaning of that statement. | |
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   Location: Missouri | barrelracr131 - 2015-07-16 2:55 PM
Bear - 2015-07-16 1:23 PM What is "traditional sex care"? Am I missing something? Who made that one up? Providing free condoms is now part of "traditional sex care"?
I think she was referring to reproductive health care, of which one part is birth control.
Any sexually active woman or woman after puberty should be seeing a gynecologist for regular health screenings.
Personally, I think they should pay for their own care, but I was answering your question with my opinion of her intended meaning of that statement.
thank you for clearing that up for me! I would love for everyone to be able to afford their own birth control. Really that would be great, but they can't. I would much rather pay for BC and condoms then some kid and it's mother who live on food stamps and own an iPhone because they are too worthless to work or they know how to work the system. | |
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| cheryl makofka - 2015-07-16 2:24 PM mcdaniel14 - 2015-07-16 11:01 AM we watched part of this last night and i am absolutely disgusted PP needs to be defunded! life starts at conception! this lady acts like it is no big deal at all! i am sure that there are plenty of loving families that would love to adopt these innocent babies! Sorry but your comment disturbs me. I respect you are pro life , but if there are so many families looking to adopt, then why are there so many children in foster homes? How many children have been removed from families via social services, how many people have been convicted of abusing their own child. To me abortion can save these unwanted children from a life of pain. I also have an issue with someone dictating what a woman should do with her body, sometimes pregnancies are undetected till later in pregnancy, I know one person who kept going back to the doc for abdominal cramping, blood and urine pregnancy tests were negative, it wasn't till an abdominal ultrasound confirmed she was 7 months pregnant. If abortion becomes outlawed, then women have no rights. Because they want to adopt infants. My neice is adopting through the foster care system and is a nightmare. She was biracial twins that were born positive to meth and a 3 year old who suffered terrible physical and sexual abuse. Not everyone is equipped or ready to handle the issues that come with most foster children much less deal with CPS. I absolutely 100% believe that there would be a home for every newborn that was given a chance to live instead of aborted. Another way to avoid the abuse these children suffer is for the parents to put them up for adoption at birth if they are not equipped to raise them.
I personally do not believe in abortion but I also believe it is not my right to decide that for someone else. I believe in less government and that applies to personal decisions like abortion. I 100% believe that late term abortions should be against the law.
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          Location: Bastrop, Texas | barrelracr131 - 2015-07-16 2:55 PM
Bear - 2015-07-16 1:23 PM What is "traditional sex care"? Am I missing something? Who made that one up? Providing free condoms is now part of "traditional sex care"?
I think she was referring to reproductive health care, of which one part is birth control.
Any sexually active woman or woman after puberty should be seeing a gynecologist for regular health screenings.
Personally, I think they should pay for their own care, but I was answering your question with my opinion of her intended meaning of that statement.
So why "traditional"? How about "health care" or "women's health care"? This sounds too much like something some RN with an MBA in "health care administration" contrived. Now we have "traditional sex care"? Oyy | |
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          Location: Bastrop, Texas | cheryl makofka - 2015-07-16 2:24 PM
mcdaniel14 - 2015-07-16 11:01 AM
we watched part of this last night and i am absolutely disgusted PP needs to be defunded! life starts at conception! this lady acts like it is no big deal at all! i am sure that there are plenty of loving families that would love to adopt these innocent babies!
Sorry but your comment disturbs me. I respect you are pro life, but if there are so many families looking to adopt, then why are there so many children in foster homes?
How many children have been removed from families via social services, how many people have been convicted of abusing their own child.
To me abortion can save these unwanted children from a life of pain.
I also have an issue with someone dictating what a woman should do with her body, sometimes pregnancies are undetected till later in pregnancy, I know one person who kept going back to the doc for abdominal cramping, blood and urine pregnancy tests were negative, it wasn't till an abdominal ultrasound confirmed she was 7 months pregnant.
If abortion becomes outlawed, then women have no rights.
Without abortion, women have no rights? Really? I think a lot of people are crying out that those babies have no rights. What do you say to them?
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        Location: Gainesville, TX | Bear - 2015-07-16 1:03 PM
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oija - 2015-07-16 10:31 AM
To get away, just a minute, from the overly emotional appeals and prevent a different perspective. This may have been a poor venue choice or not. Most people are more relaxed over a meal. Plenty of pro lifers like to eat salads and drink wine too. Her meal choices have NOTHING to do with this issue. Many of us watch starving children eat on television or watch people eat on sitcoms and somehow this is not disgusting. If this bothers you, it bothers you that someone who is opposed to your point of view treats it more casually or views the life of a child as valuable for other reasons, like saving the life of a child that has already been born, than what you personally think. You would find the topic disgusting no matter what. You just find it disturbing that she can treat it casually enough that she can discuss it while she eats. What she is eating and honestly the fact that she is eating is IRRELEVANT. Many medical professionals, my mother included as she is a nurse, have strong stomachs and can discuss topics over lunch that might turn many of our stomachs. If you want to discuss the issue, then discuss the issue, not her meal.
That being said. The parents with the premature baby born at 28 weeks that they have prayed and wished for may truly appreciate the fact that these organs are there in the first place to save their son or daughter. A life may be lost and another one saved.
Please just remember these points when you are discussing the issue.
Personally I'm not a fan of abortions. I'm a huge major fan of family planning and handing out condoms like its going out of style. But when we discuss these issues we do a disservice not to consider all sides of the issue with some logic, not just emotion, and to separate out the irrelevant bits. We do not want to be like politicians, throwing out red herrings to distract from the central issue. Frankly a video of heart surgery or a heart transplant, especially from a beating heart cadaver, is also disturbing to many people but it saves lives.
Be against this issue because you hate to see a life, any life, cut short. Don't be against it because the doctor is eating and the procedure is hard to look at.
Handing out condoms is a cheap ploy....a ruse. Condoms are cheap.....go out and buy your own condoms. They hand out condoms so people can talk about how wonderful they are. It's a marketing tool. For that matter, I think birth control, in general, ought to be the responsibility of those who decide they need it. Why should hard working taxpayers be expected to provide free birth control? That money would be much better spent educating idiots on basic communication skills like grammar and spelling, because it would benefit society in general. If someone decides they want to have an abortion, that is their right. They are the ones who will have to live with it. They should also be fully aware that they are terminating life. They should be aware that those unborn babies can perceive pain much earlier than once thought. They should also be aware of how abortions are performed, particularly late term abortions. They need to know that the baby squirms and writhes as the baby is crushed, dismembered, mascerated, and pithed. They need to realize that there's a significant chance they will have to deal with the psychological after effects, possibly for a very long time.
What I found to be most disturbing about this video was how the woman callously described the gruesome technical details while eating. If you don't find that at least a little disturbing, then I have to wonder about you.
For 18 years, as part of a transplant team, I participated in organ procurement on organ donors. Even though their hearts were beating and they looked very much alive, they were brain dead. Without fail, the procedure was conducted as a very solemn procedure. Our behavior and conduct in that operating room was dignified and everyone felt gratified that some family was willing to donate the organs of a loved one. It really is a sight to behold, and nothing illustrates the better angels of our nature, as human beings. Deep inside, in a certain way, we also viewed it as a joyous occasion, because we knew the organs we harvested could save countless lives. The family also found consolation in knowing that their loved one was a hero in death to many people. That provided lasting comfort to them, in an otherwise very sad day. This is why I was appalled with the woman in the video. We conducted ourselves with dignity and respect. We didn't play our usual music, and nobody told jokes. We behaved as if we were under the watchful eye of that donor's family. I'll never forget the imagery of a 12 year old boy who was a donor. As I finished removing his heart, I looked over the drapes at his face, and over at his arm on the IV board. He had fallen out of a treehouse earlier that day. He still had Popsicle stains around his pink lips. He had a bandaid on his hand from a scrape he sustained probably several days earlier. He still had a washable bubblegum tattoo of a cartoon figure on his forearm. He was someone's pride and joy and very much loved. I later met the family and witnessed their joy and sadness at the same time, something a person can find hard to comprehend......until it happens to them.
I would never ever allow a doctor this cold and calloused in my operating room. She wouldn't understand.....she wouldn't fit in.
To the person who can't afford a box of condoms and probably can't afford a kid either or treatment for STDs, that condom may make a real difference. Better a condom than an abortion, cheaper too. And marketing can work. We all became convinced we needed diamond engagement rings because of marketing, silly as that may be. If marketing can make someone use a condom then hallelujah. Taxpayers paying for biirth control is a completely different issue. I never said anything about the government needing to fund it. Private groups can hand these out as easily as public ones.
I totally agree on the point that we should treat any of these issues and any lives connected with them with dignity and respect. I just firmly believe that whether she were eating or not that people who disagree with her views are going to see her as callous due to her tone of voice and opinions. I believe that she has given herself some emotional distance from this procedure as a survival skill and this comes across; it would come across in any context. I think it is more pertinent to talk about the issue and the procedure than her meal.
When we simply attack her as completely disgusting we are engaging in an ad hominem attack, criticizing the person and not the issue. She is not disgusting though her attitude may be. She is a fully developed human being who believes that what she is doing helps other people. Anyone has the right to disagree with her. Don't attack the person, attack the problem. Hate the sin, love the sinner.
We should not dehumanize her and talk about her like she is an animal at a trough with no human feeling anymore than she should appear to dehumanize the lives of the children that are lost through abortion. She would talk about the technical details the same in any context though I am convinced and seem cold thus I still firmly believe that the meal is irrelevant.
You seem to be fixated on the meal. Her eating and swilling wine was part of the imagery. Most if us couldn't do that very easily, given the topic of discussion and her description of the procedure. You are right in that some people can do what she did. Joseph Mengela is one example. I know I couldn't.
If it helps you to focus on the subject, I'd suggest you just forget the meal.
That WAS what I was suggesting. That everyone talk about the issue and not her meal, and then everyone tried to defend the fact that the context of the interview is more important. The whole point is she is going to come across as cold and callous in any interview, period. I just thought the hateful comments about her meal were uncalled for and a distraction from the actual issue.
I hate it when people fall for basic logical fallacies in any type of political discussions. People do it all the time during elections with negative campaigning. Distract everybody with whatever dirt we can dig up on such and such a candidate so that voters don't pay attention to what the candidate thinks about the issue. I frankly don't care if a politician got a BJ or a DUI at 20. I do care what they think about foreign affairs, military spending, and education. I don't care about whether or not this woman was eating; I care about what she thinks and says about abortion and late term abortions more. When we get distracted with the drivel, it keeps us from calling our politicians to order on those things that really need addressed. So when I see someone doing it over any political issue, no matter my personal feelings on the matter, you can be sure I'm going to point it out. I hate it when any group from any side behaves in such a manner. We are better than that. | |
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mcdaniel14 - 2015-07-16 11:01 AM
we watched part of this last night and i am absolutely disgusted PP needs to be defunded! life starts at conception! this lady acts like it is no big deal at all! i am sure that there are plenty of loving families that would love to adopt these innocent babies!
Sorry but your comment disturbs me. I respect you are pro life, but if there are so many families looking to adopt, then why are there so many children in foster homes?
How many children have been removed from families via social services, how many people have been convicted of abusing their own child.
To me abortion can save these unwanted children from a life of pain.
I also have an issue with someone dictating what a woman should do with her body, sometimes pregnancies are undetected till later in pregnancy, I know one person who kept going back to the doc for abdominal cramping, blood and urine pregnancy tests were negative, it wasn't till an abdominal ultrasound confirmed she was 7 months pregnant.
If abortion becomes outlawed, then women have no rights.
Umm... I believe if abortion was outlawed, women would still have the RIGHT to abstain from sex; use one or more methods of birth control; the right to give up a baby for adoption to someone they believed would raise the baby in a loving home (we all know people like that) or the right to keep it if she decided differently after carrying a baby for 9 months. To say they would have no rights is just wrong.
Also, your comment about "abortion can save these unwanted children from a life of pain" struck me a little odd. You would have to be God to know what kind of life anyone who is born is going to have. There are people all over the world who were born into loving, kind and nurturing families, only to grow up, make bad choices and end up in a life of pain. Who knew they should have been aborted? | |
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      Location: The edge of no where | GLP - 2015-07-16 2:37 PM cheryl makofka - 2015-07-16 2:24 PM mcdaniel14 - 2015-07-16 11:01 AM we watched part of this last night and i am absolutely disgusted PP needs to be defunded! life starts at conception! this lady acts like it is no big deal at all! i am sure that there are plenty of loving families that would love to adopt these innocent babies! Sorry but your comment disturbs me. I respect you are pro life, but if there are so many families looking to adopt, then why are there so many children in foster homes? How many children have been removed from families via social services, how many people have been convicted of abusing their own child. To me abortion can save these unwanted children from a life of pain. I also have an issue with someone dictating what a woman should do with her body, sometimes pregnancies are undetected till later in pregnancy, I know one person who kept going back to the doc for abdominal cramping, blood and urine pregnancy tests were negative, it wasn't till an abdominal ultrasound confirmed she was 7 months pregnant. If abortion becomes outlawed, then women have no rights. I get offended by smart women sinking to the "if you take away my right to abortion, I will lose all my rights" bulls**t.
If abortion becomes outlawed, then women have no rights. ~ I've often disagreed with your comments, but typically respect them......... this?? REALLY? They're wanting to do away with late term abortion for goodness' sake!! I am pro-life, I can respect that not everyone is.....but doing away with abortion after a set number of weeks does NOT infringe on anyone's rights. How about MY right about where my tax dollars go as far as funding? I'm being forced to support an organization that goes against MY beliefs. So what about my rights that are currently being infringed upon??? | |
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    Location: Midwest | Bear - 2015-07-16 3:36 PM barrelracr131 - 2015-07-16 2:55 PM Bear - 2015-07-16 1:23 PM What is "traditional sex care"? Am I missing something? Who made that one up? Providing free condoms is now part of "traditional sex care"? I think she was referring to reproductive health care, of which one part is birth control.
Any sexually active woman or woman after puberty should be seeing a gynecologist for regular health screenings.
Personally, I think they should pay for their own care, but I was answering your question with my opinion of her intended meaning of that statement. So why "traditional"? How about "health care" or "women's health care"? This sounds too much like something some RN with an MBA in "health care administration" contrived. Now we have "traditional sex care"? Oyy
I think it was just a poor choice of words for reproductive health care. Pap smears, mammograms, what have you | |
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mcdaniel14 - 2015-07-16 11:01 AM
we watched part of this last night and i am absolutely disgusted PP needs to be defunded! life starts at conception! this lady acts like it is no big deal at all! i am sure that there are plenty of loving families that would love to adopt these innocent babies!
Sorry but your comment disturbs me. I respect you are pro life, but if there are so many families looking to adopt, then why are there so many children in foster homes?
How many children have been removed from families via social services, how many people have been convicted of abusing their own child.
To me abortion can save these unwanted children from a life of pain.
I also have an issue with someone dictating what a woman should do with her body, sometimes pregnancies are undetected till later in pregnancy, I know one person who kept going back to the doc for abdominal cramping, blood and urine pregnancy tests were negative, it wasn't till an abdominal ultrasound confirmed she was 7 months pregnant.
If abortion becomes outlawed, then women have no rights.
This notion of abortions saving a child from a life of pain is your assumption, and an arrogant one at that. Who are we to assume that an unwanted baby is doomed to a life of pain? In my opinion, thats a twisted excuse.
I don't think abortion can or even should be outlawed, but I do hate abortion. It should be the mother's choice, but they deserve to be fully informed of exactly what is done, the risks, and possible long term consequences, psychologically. If a woman becomes pregnant and doesn't want the baby, she can give it up for adoption, and she doesn't have to change a single diaper, or wipe a single snotty nose. She can walk away from it, but the good news is she can be proud of the fact that she selflessly allowed that baby to grow and develop inside her for 8-9 months, and her sacrifice saved someone else's life. For the rest of her life, she can find a great deal of pride and consolation knowing that she did this for someone besides herself. One seldom hears this line of thinking these days. All we hear about is cliche's like "women's reproductive rights" and a "woman's right to choose". | |
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       Location: relocated to Texas | GLP - 2015-07-17 1:37 PM cheryl makofka - 2015-07-16 2:24 PM mcdaniel14 - 2015-07-16 11:01 AM we watched part of this last night and i am absolutely disgusted PP needs to be defunded! life starts at conception! this lady acts like it is no big deal at all! i am sure that there are plenty of loving families that would love to adopt these innocent babies! Sorry but your comment disturbs me. I respect you are pro life, but if there are so many families looking to adopt, then why are there so many children in foster homes? How many children have been removed from families via social services, how many people have been convicted of abusing their own child. To me abortion can save these unwanted children from a life of pain. I also have an issue with someone dictating what a woman should do with her body, sometimes pregnancies are undetected till later in pregnancy, I know one person who kept going back to the doc for abdominal cramping, blood and urine pregnancy tests were negative, it wasn't till an abdominal ultrasound confirmed she was 7 months pregnant. If abortion becomes outlawed, then women have no rights. I get offended by smart women sinking to the "if you take away my right to abortion, I will lose all my rights" bulls**t.
Amen. You want to talk about rights? What about the rights of these babies who are being murdered? I honestly don't understand a woman who can talk about "her rights" when it comes to abortion, then turn a blind eye to the fact that these babies are being crushed and dismembered. This video was so horrible to me that it defys description. The left has used the "womans right" pitch to sell this bullsh$t. Everyone has rights but the innocent. Makes me want to puke, and cry at the same time. There will be a day when they have to stand before God and explain themselves. I don't think the "I have rights" argument will fly. | |
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oija - 2015-07-16 10:31 AM That being said. The parents with the premature baby born at 28 weeks that they have prayed and wished for may truly appreciate the fact that these organs are there in the first place to save their son or daughter.
How can that be? Abortions only remove inviable tissue mass. There can't be any useful developed organs.
Totally unrelated point. You are trying to attack the common argument that abortions are performed because the ones involved do not think it is a 'life,' which might be pertinent except the particular discussion and video under discussion is about late term abortions. In late term abortions certain organs are certainly viable for donation. It is one of the major points the woman addresses. One does not have to think of organs as a commodity at all to recognize the value of needed organs or tissue for another child who needs that organ. I would much rather such organs be obtained in another fashion than late term abortions, but it is certainly part of the argument that people who are in support of late term abortions do use to defend their position. | |
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Bear - 2015-07-16 11:55 AM
oija - 2015-07-16 10:31 AM
To get away, just a minute, from the overly emotional appeals and prevent a different perspective. This may have been a poor venue choice or not. Most people are more relaxed over a meal. Plenty of pro lifers like to eat salads and drink wine too. Her meal choices have NOTHING to do with this issue. Many of us watch starving children eat on television or watch people eat on sitcoms and somehow this is not disgusting. If this bothers you, it bothers you that someone who is opposed to your point of view treats it more casually or views the life of a child as valuable for other reasons, like saving the life of a child that has already been born, than what you personally think. You would find the topic disgusting no matter what. You just find it disturbing that she can treat it casually enough that she can discuss it while she eats. What she is eating and honestly the fact that she is eating is IRRELEVANT. Many medical professionals, my mother included as she is a nurse, have strong stomachs and can discuss topics over lunch that might turn many of our stomachs. If you want to discuss the issue, then discuss the issue, not her meal.
That being said. The parents with the premature baby born at 28 weeks that they have prayed and wished for may truly appreciate the fact that these organs are there in the first place to save their son or daughter. A life may be lost and another one saved.
Please just remember these points when you are discussing the issue.
Personally I'm not a fan of abortions. I'm a huge major fan of family planning and handing out condoms like its going out of style. But when we discuss these issues we do a disservice not to consider all sides of the issue with some logic, not just emotion, and to separate out the irrelevant bits. We do not want to be like politicians, throwing out red herrings to distract from the central issue. Frankly a video of heart surgery or a heart transplant, especially from a beating heart cadaver, is also disturbing to many people but it saves lives.
Be against this issue because you hate to see a life, any life, cut short. Don't be against it because the doctor is eating and the procedure is hard to look at.
Handing out condoms is a cheap ploy....a ruse. Condoms are cheap.....go out and buy your own condoms. They hand out condoms so people can talk about how wonderful they are. It's a marketing tool. For that matter, I think birth control, in general, ought to be the responsibility of those who decide they need it. Why should hard working taxpayers be expected to provide free birth control? That money would be much better spent educating idiots on basic communication skills like grammar and spelling, because it would benefit society in general. If someone decides they want to have an abortion, that is their right. They are the ones who will have to live with it. They should also be fully aware that they are terminating life. They should be aware that those unborn babies can perceive pain much earlier than once thought. They should also be aware of how abortions are performed, particularly late term abortions. They need to know that the baby squirms and writhes as the baby is crushed, dismembered, mascerated, and pithed. They need to realize that there's a significant chance they will have to deal with the psychological after effects, possibly for a very long time.
What I found to be most disturbing about this video was how the woman callously described the gruesome technical details while eating. If you don't find that at least a little disturbing, then I have to wonder about you.
For 18 years, as part of a transplant team, I participated in organ procurement on organ donors. Even though their hearts were beating and they looked very much alive, they were brain dead. Without fail, the procedure was conducted as a very solemn procedure. Our behavior and conduct in that operating room was dignified and everyone felt gratified that some family was willing to donate the organs of a loved one. It really is a sight to behold, and nothing illustrates the better angels of our nature, as human beings. Deep inside, in a certain way, we also viewed it as a joyous occasion, because we knew the organs we harvested could save countless lives. The family also found consolation in knowing that their loved one was a hero in death to many people. That provided lasting comfort to them, in an otherwise very sad day. This is why I was appalled with the woman in the video. We conducted ourselves with dignity and respect. We didn't play our usual music, and nobody told jokes. We behaved as if we were under the watchful eye of that donor's family. I'll never forget the imagery of a 12 year old boy who was a donor. As I finished removing his heart, I looked over the drapes at his face, and over at his arm on the IV board. He had fallen out of a treehouse earlier that day. He still had Popsicle stains around his pink lips. He had a bandaid on his hand from a scrape he sustained probably several days earlier. He still had a washable bubblegum tattoo of a cartoon figure on his forearm. He was someone's pride and joy and very much loved. I later met the family and witnessed their joy and sadness at the same time, something a person can find hard to comprehend......until it happens to them.
I would never ever allow a doctor this cold and calloused in my operating room. She wouldn't understand.....she wouldn't fit in.
To the person who can't afford a box of condoms and probably can't afford a kid either or treatment for STDs, that condom may make a real difference. Better a condom than an abortion, cheaper too. And marketing can work. We all became convinced we needed diamond engagement rings because of marketing, silly as that may be. If marketing can make someone use a condom then hallelujah. Taxpayers paying for biirth control is a completely different issue. I never said anything about the government needing to fund it. Private groups can hand these out as easily as public ones.
I totally agree on the point that we should treat any of these issues and any lives connected with them with dignity and respect. I just firmly believe that whether she were eating or not that people who disagree with her views are going to see her as callous due to her tone of voice and opinions. I believe that she has given herself some emotional distance from this procedure as a survival skill and this comes across; it would come across in any context. I think it is more pertinent to talk about the issue and the procedure than her meal.
When we simply attack her as completely disgusting we are engaging in an ad hominem attack, criticizing the person and not the issue. She is not disgusting though her attitude may be. She is a fully developed human being who believes that what she is doing helps other people. Anyone has the right to disagree with her. Don't attack the person, attack the problem. Hate the sin, love the sinner.
We should not dehumanize her and talk about her like she is an animal at a trough with no human feeling anymore than she should appear to dehumanize the lives of the children that are lost through abortion. She would talk about the technical details the same in any context though I am convinced and seem cold thus I still firmly believe that the meal is irrelevant.
You seem to be fixated on the meal. Her eating and swilling wine was part of the imagery. Most if us couldn't do that very easily, given the topic of discussion and her description of the procedure. You are right in that some people can do what she did. Joseph Mengela is one example. I know I couldn't.
If it helps you to focus on the subject, I'd suggest you just forget the meal.
That WAS what I was suggesting. That everyone talk about the issue and not her meal, and then everyone tried to defend the fact that the context of the interview is more important. The whole point is she is going to come across as cold and callous in any interview, period. I just thought the hateful comments about her meal were uncalled for and a distraction from the actual issue.
I hate it when people fall for basic logical fallacies in any type of political discussions. People do it all the time during elections with negative campaigning. Distract everybody with whatever dirt we can dig up on such and such a candidate so that voters don't pay attention to what the candidate thinks about the issue. I frankly don't care if a politician got a BJ or a DUI at 20. I do care what they think about foreign affairs, military spending, and education. I don't care about whether or not this woman was eating; I care about what she thinks and says about abortion and late term abortions more. When we get distracted with the drivel, it keeps us from calling our politicians to order on those things that really need addressed. So when I see someone doing it over any political issue, no matter my personal feelings on the matter, you can be sure I'm going to point it out. I hate it when any group from any side behaves in such a manner. We are better than that.
You can refer to my "hateful comments" and segue into your own personal rules about political discourse, but if anything was "hateful" it was this doctor and her callousness. If you feel my comments were hateful, it is because the video centered around a person who acted in a hateful manner. | |
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TXBO - 2015-07-16 12:48 PM
oija - 2015-07-16 10:31 AM That being said. The parents with the premature baby born at 28 weeks that they have prayed and wished for may truly appreciate the fact that these organs are there in the first place to save their son or daughter.
How can that be? Abortions only remove inviable tissue mass. There can't be any useful developed organs.
Totally unrelated point. You are trying to attack the common argument that abortions are performed because the ones involved do not think it is a 'life,' which might be pertinent except the particular discussion and video under discussion is about late term abortions. In late term abortions certain organs are certainly viable for donation. It is one of the major points the woman addresses. One does not have to think of organs as a commodity at all to recognize the value of needed organs or tissue for another child who needs that organ. I would much rather such organs be obtained in another fashion than late term abortions, but it is certainly part of the argument that people who are in support of late term abortions do use to defend their position.
You are wrong. These organs were procured for research, not transplantation. We don't use organs from babies that were terminated prematurely in transplantation......not yet anyway. Nobody knowledgeable will say that organs for transplantation is one reason to support late term abortion, because they aren't used for that purpose.
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     Location: Do I hear Banjos? | " I also have an issue with someone dictating what a woman should do with her body, sometimes pregnancies are undetected till later in pregnancy, I know one person who kept going back to the doc for abdominal cramping, blood and urine pregnancy tests were negative, it wasn't till an abdominal ultrasound confirmed she was 7 months pregnant. If abortion becomes outlawed, then women have no rights."
I cut that section to paste as I wanted to address this statement specifically. While it is unfortunate that the woman did not learn of the pregnancy until the third trimester...that is far too late to be deciding she doesn't want to carry it the rest of the way. A fetus at that stage is VERY developed and about 9 out of ten babies born at that stage survive to go home. Why should the mother's rights be more important than the rights of that life? At this point her choices may rightfully be limited to adoption or raising the child.
I do not personally have an issue with EARLY abortions. But at some point we need to acknowledge that a woman's right to control her body comes with a certain amount of responsibility for her choices. As long as they are sexually active there is a non-zero chance of creating a pregnancy. If that is not wanted...and it occurs...there are consequences. I just don't feel in the case of late term pregnancies that the consequences should be paid by the baby that resulted....especially not once the baby is developed to the point that it is likely to survive if born. | |
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oija - 2015-07-16 10:31 AM That being said. The parents with the premature baby born at 28 weeks that they have prayed and wished for may truly appreciate the fact that these organs are there in the first place to save their son or daughter.
How can that be? Abortions only remove inviable tissue mass. There can't be any useful developed organs.
Totally unrelated point. You are trying to attack the common argument that abortions are performed because the ones involved do not think it is a 'life,' which might be pertinent except the particular discussion and video under discussion is about late term abortions. In late term abortions certain organs are certainly viable for donation. It is one of the major points the woman addresses. One does not have to think of organs as a commodity at all to recognize the value of needed organs or tissue for another child who needs that organ. I would much rather such organs be obtained in another fashion than late term abortions, but it is certainly part of the argument that people who are in support of late term abortions do use to defend their position.
You are wrong. These organs were procured for research, not transplantation. We don't use organs from babies that were terminated prematurely in transplantation......not yet anyway. Nobody knowledgeable will say that organs for transplantation is one reason to support late term abortion, because they aren't used for that purpose.
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| oija - 2015-07-16 4:10 PM TXBO - 2015-07-16 12:48 PM oija - 2015-07-16 10:31 AM That being said. The parents with the premature baby born at 28 weeks that they have prayed and wished for may truly appreciate the fact that these organs are there in the first place to save their son or daughter. How can that be? Abortions only remove inviable tissue mass. There can't be any useful developed organs. Totally unrelated point. You are trying to attack the common argument that abortions are performed because the ones involved do not think it is a 'life,' which might be pertinent except the particular discussion and video under discussion is about late term abortions. In late term abortions certain organs are certainly viable for donation. It is one of the major points the woman addresses. One does not have to think of organs as a commodity at all to recognize the value of needed organs or tissue for another child who needs that organ. I would much rather such organs be obtained in another fashion than late term abortions, but it is certainly part of the argument that people who are in support of late term abortions do use to defend their position. Lol. It's not totally unrelated. Viability is at the root of all court decisions regarding abortion rights.
I've heard their argument and it's a terrible one. To suggest that there is a noble cause served by this barbaric procedure is ludicrous.
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                    Location: In the Hills of Texas | No matter what side you are on, this is a perfect example of the left spinning and coming up with BS trying to make all of this good and right. Guess what...they can spin all day long. It is what it is...Sick and disturbing. | |
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                    Location: In the Hills of Texas | foundation horse - 2015-07-16 9:12 PM I would recommend Folks research (a simple google search will suffice) the name Margaret Sanger and review the origin of abortion and purpose...................................Especially those who purport 'Women's Right to Choose'. Then please look in the mirror at One's Self and see/who looks back!
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| I won't get too involved in this argument as I can compromise my career as a physician, but what I will point out is that most "women's right's" advocates subscribe to principles of Cell Theory and evolutionary biology. With that being said, if you believe life on earth began with a single cell, how can you then argue that a fetus is a "non-living mass of cells?" | |
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we watched part of this last night and i am absolutely disgusted PP needs to be defunded! life starts at conception! this lady acts like it is no big deal at all! i am sure that there are plenty of loving families that would love to adopt these innocent babies!
Sorry but your comment disturbs me. I respect you are pro life, but if there are so many families looking to adopt, then why are there so many children in foster homes?
How many children have been removed from families via social services, how many people have been convicted of abusing their own child.
To me abortion can save these unwanted children from a life of pain.
I also have an issue with someone dictating what a woman should do with her body, sometimes pregnancies are undetected till later in pregnancy, I know one person who kept going back to the doc for abdominal cramping, blood and urine pregnancy tests were negative, it wasn't till an abdominal ultrasound confirmed she was 7 months pregnant.
If abortion becomes outlawed, then women have no rights.
Without abortion, women have no rights? Really? I think a lot of people are crying out that those babies have no rights. What do you say to them?
If a woman is 22 weeks pregnant and her boyfriend shoots her in the abdomen, killing the unborn baby, but not the mom, is that murder?
If women loose the right to make a decision on whether to have an abortion is the beginning or loosing women's rights.
Why I believe this if abortion is outlawed, then women's, health and right to choose is superseded by an unborn fetus that has the same characteristics of a parasite, it is feeding off of the woman.
Since the fetus is protected, then society/government will be deciding what a pregnant woman can and can't do, ie alcohol (no sustainable proof on how much, at what stage, etc this is why abstinence is best but many children are born from mothers who have consumed some alcohol), riding horses, due to the fetus well being is more important then the mother we will not be allowed. It becomes a slippery slope when the fetus rights are more important then a woman's.
Also during delivery there are risks and adverse effects to delivering a child, if abortion is outlawed it can be seen as torture, drugs, epidurals, during labor and delivery have negative effects on the fetus during the delivery and after, since the fetus is more important, the woman will be forced to go through delivery without anything.
Ongoing bladder problems, tearing, episiotomy, emergency c section (if the fetus has more rights elective c sections will be outlawed as evidence suggests it has adverse effects to the child)
This is all possible if the fetus rights are put before women's rights
As for your murder comment, as the way the law reads in my country a fetus does not become a living being until they take their first breath of air, so no I don't see this as murder, but I do know that some courts have ruled it is murder, and I also know some courts have already taken away women's rights to protect the fetus (incarcerating due to drug or alcohol use till fetus is born).
This also comes down to religion. We have the freedom of religion, and most people do not believe in abortion due to religious reasons. This is also a way these religions are shoving their religion down a woman's throat so to speak. I have noticed religious organizations who use graphic images, and attempt to shame the individual into going through with the pregnancy.
As for the people crying out for the unborn babies rights, they are not a baby, they are a fetus. Again this boils down to beliefs, culture, and values. As I said the law in my country does not consider a fetus a human till it takes it's first breath of air, not sure on the laws in the USA, this is what I go by.
Again I think abortion may be the lesser of two evils, I have seen a baby born with physical deformities, a laundry list of medical issues in foster care because the mom was on hard core drugs throughout the entire pregnancy.
I will also comment on the comment that says she believes all fetuses born would be adopted.
Sadly where I live this is not the case, families only want healthy babies, some families are gender specific too. I am an advocate for adoption, my neighbours adopted two boys, and during their application they stated no drugs no alcohol prenatally. Who wants a one eyed multiple medical issue baby when a healthy child is the same price? It is also cheaper to adopt abroad, when my neighbours adopted it was 10k/child this was 18 yrs ago and this includes all the lawyer fees and was a public adoption.
Also more people are leaning more to surrogacy or egg/sperm banks as a surrogate mother is used when the individual cannot carry their own child or don't want to this way this child is genetically theirs. Egg/sperm banks if one is infertile, atleast the child genetic make up is half family. Also an easy option for a single parent, or homosexual couple looking to start a family.
There are so many other options besides adoption that are less stressful, less time consuming, and immediate results so no I don't believe all infants would be adopted.
I also believe it would be cheaper for the government to perform the abortions free versus caring for an unwanted child for 18 yrs. This also needs to be considered if abortion is outlawed who is going to fund all medical, and social (housing, feed, schooling) costs that each child would incur | |
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          Location: Bastrop, Texas | cheryl makofka - 2015-07-16 11:44 PM
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mcdaniel14 - 2015-07-16 11:01 AM
we watched part of this last night and i am absolutely disgusted PP needs to be defunded! life starts at conception! this lady acts like it is no big deal at all! i am sure that there are plenty of loving families that would love to adopt these innocent babies!
Sorry but your comment disturbs me. I respect you are pro life, but if there are so many families looking to adopt, then why are there so many children in foster homes?
How many children have been removed from families via social services, how many people have been convicted of abusing their own child.
To me abortion can save these unwanted children from a life of pain.
I also have an issue with someone dictating what a woman should do with her body, sometimes pregnancies are undetected till later in pregnancy, I know one person who kept going back to the doc for abdominal cramping, blood and urine pregnancy tests were negative, it wasn't till an abdominal ultrasound confirmed she was 7 months pregnant.
If abortion becomes outlawed, then women have no rights.
Without abortion, women have no rights? Really? I think a lot of people are crying out that those babies have no rights. What do you say to them?
If a woman is 22 weeks pregnant and her boyfriend shoots her in the abdomen, killing the unborn baby, but not the mom, is that murder?
If women loose the right to make a decision on whether to have an abortion is the beginning or loosing women's rights.
Why I believe this if abortion is outlawed, then women's, health and right to choose is superseded by an unborn fetus that has the same characteristics of a parasite, it is feeding off of the woman.
Since the fetus is protected, then society/government will be deciding what a pregnant woman can and can't do, ie alcohol (no sustainable proof on how much, at what stage, etc this is why abstinence is best but many children are born from mothers who have consumed some alcohol ), riding horses, due to the fetus well being is more important then the mother we will not be allowed. It becomes a slippery slope when the fetus rights are more important then a woman's.
Also during delivery there are risks and adverse effects to delivering a child, if abortion is outlawed it can be seen as torture, drugs, epidurals, during labor and delivery have negative effects on the fetus during the delivery and after, since the fetus is more important, the woman will be forced to go through delivery without anything.
Ongoing bladder problems, tearing, episiotomy, emergency c section (if the fetus has more rights elective c sections will be outlawed as evidence suggests it has adverse effects to the child )
This is all possible if the fetus rights are put before women's rights
As for your murder comment, as the way the law reads in my country a fetus does not become a living being until they take their first breath of air, so no I don't see this as murder, but I do know that some courts have ruled it is murder, and I also know some courts have already taken away women's rights to protect the fetus (incarcerating due to drug or alcohol use till fetus is born ).
This also comes down to religion. We have the freedom of religion, and most people do not believe in abortion due to religious reasons. This is also a way these religions are shoving their religion down a woman's throat so to speak. I have noticed religious organizations who use graphic images, and attempt to shame the individual into going through with the pregnancy.
As for the people crying out for the unborn babies rights, they are not a baby, they are a fetus. Again this boils down to beliefs, culture, and values. As I said the law in my country does not consider a fetus a human till it takes it's first breath of air, not sure on the laws in the USA, this is what I go by.
Again I think abortion may be the lesser of two evils, I have seen a baby born with physical deformities, a laundry list of medical issues in foster care because the mom was on hard core drugs throughout the entire pregnancy.
I will also comment on the comment that says she believes all fetuses born would be adopted.
Sadly where I live this is not the case, families only want healthy babies, some families are gender specific too. I am an advocate for adoption, my neighbours adopted two boys, and during their application they stated no drugs no alcohol prenatally. Who wants a one eyed multiple medical issue baby when a healthy child is the same price? It is also cheaper to adopt abroad, when my neighbours adopted it was 10k/child this was 18 yrs ago and this includes all the lawyer fees and was a public adoption.
Also more people are leaning more to surrogacy or egg/sperm banks as a surrogate mother is used when the individual cannot carry their own child or don't want to this way this child is genetically theirs. Egg/sperm banks if one is infertile, atleast the child genetic make up is half family. Also an easy option for a single parent, or homosexual couple looking to start a family.
There are so many other options besides adoption that are less stressful, less time consuming, and immediate results so no I don't believe all infants would be adopted.
I also believe it would be cheaper for the government to perform the abortions free versus caring for an unwanted child for 18 yrs. This also needs to be considered if abortion is outlawed who is going to fund all medical, and social (housing, feed, schooling ) costs that each child would incur
First of all, Cheryl, I have never said abortion should be outlawed. My personal view is abortion should remain a legal option, as I stated earlier. I do not feel this matter can be resolved through legislation that prohibits adoption. Go back and read what I wrote. I think people contemplating abortion ought to be completely and thoroughly informed about the procedure....and that includes what is done to the baby to terminate its life....and that is exactly what is done in the eyes of very many people.
To try and tell them otherwise is unbelievably arrogant, if not outright insulting, in my opinion. Also, another thing that abortion advocates, such as yourself, fail to recognize is the psychological/psychiatric consequences that a woman experiences afterwards. I have read where as many as 1/3rd of women who have an abortion harbor serious regret afterwards. That tells me the abortionists are doing a very poor job of thoroughly explaining possible after effects and consequences of abortion. I have my own personal, anecdotal experience with friends and relatives who went through this and the psychological after effects were never told to anyone, except for some vague references in a handout they received. Also, these so-called family planning centers don't discuss the possible rewards and gratification that can be experienced by allowing the baby to be born and given up for adoption. My point is that we, as a society, have allowed abortion to be used as a powerful political football, and now we live in a world where a substantial segment of our citizens are more aptly described as "pro-abortion" rather than pro choice. Fortunately, for the sake of humanity, the incidence of abortion has been on the decline in the US, in large part because of efforts to educate people on matters I have outlined. In addition, there has been increased awareness that babies going through abortions actually do experience pain at younger fetal ages than previously recognized.
Finally, thank God in the US, we have laws called "fetal homicide laws" which allow the prosecution for murder in instances where the baby was killed as a consequence of assault, regardless of whether or not the mother survived. I believe the Scott Peterson case is one infamous example. You say that's not possible in Canada.....I think that is unfortunate, to put it mildly. If some rotten bastard assaulted my pregnant wife and kills our baby in the process, I can assure you that I will consider that to be murder, and Justice will be served.
As to your perseveration on the old argument over whether it's a "baby" or a " fetus" is blather. I consider it a lame attempt to dehumanize the unborn child. It's an unnecessary sidetrack on an old semantic argument. More and more babies are surviving 2nd trimester births and going on to live healthy lives. There have been babies born at 21-22 weeks and survived....and there's no telling what's up ahead. I have personally operated on an 800 gram premie that was born around 27 weeks gestation for a diaphragmatic hernia. We all agreed, at the time, that his chances of survival were minuscule, as he was in severe respiratory distress and because of a blizzard we couldn't ship him to a children's hospital in Minneapolis. Well, darned if he didn't survive! I'm very proud to say that Cole grew up to be a big strapping handsome red headed man with a particular talent in music.
Finally, your closing remark in which you attempt to make a case that it is cheaper "for the government" to perform abortions as opposed to caring for an unwanted child.....I find to be both revolting, and educational. Revolting for obvious reasons, and educational in that you invoke the role of the "government" in terminating life, purely as a practical matter that makes fiscal sense. I should also add that this pathetic remark is a false choice anyway. Nearly all healthy newborn babies given up for adoption are successfully placed. I don't know the exact number, but I'm sure it's close to 100%. | |
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| cheryl makofka - 2015-07-16 10:44 PM Bear - 2015-07-16 3:43 PM cheryl makofka - 2015-07-16 2:24 PM mcdaniel14 - 2015-07-16 11:01 AM we watched part of this last night and i am absolutely disgusted PP needs to be defunded! life starts at conception! this lady acts like it is no big deal at all! i am sure that there are plenty of loving families that would love to adopt these innocent babies! Sorry but your comment disturbs me. I respect you are pro life, but if there are so many families looking to adopt, then why are there so many children in foster homes? How many children have been removed from families via social services, how many people have been convicted of abusing their own child. To me abortion can save these unwanted children from a life of pain. I also have an issue with someone dictating what a woman should do with her body, sometimes pregnancies are undetected till later in pregnancy, I know one person who kept going back to the doc for abdominal cramping, blood and urine pregnancy tests were negative, it wasn't till an abdominal ultrasound confirmed she was 7 months pregnant. If abortion becomes outlawed, then women have no rights. Without abortion, women have no rights? Really? I think a lot of people are crying out that those babies have no rights. What do you say to them? If a woman is 22 weeks pregnant and her boyfriend shoots her in the abdomen, killing the unborn baby, but not the mom, is that murder? If women loose the right to make a decision on whether to have an abortion is the beginning or loosing women's rights. Why I believe this if abortion is outlawed, then women's, health and right to choose is superseded by an unborn fetus that has the same characteristics of a parasite, it is feeding off of the woman. Since the fetus is protected, then society/government will be deciding what a pregnant woman can and can't do, ie alcohol (no sustainable proof on how much, at what stage, etc this is why abstinence is best but many children are born from mothers who have consumed some alcohol ), riding horses, due to the fetus well being is more important then the mother we will not be allowed. It becomes a slippery slope when the fetus rights are more important then a woman's. Also during delivery there are risks and adverse effects to delivering a child, if abortion is outlawed it can be seen as torture, drugs, epidurals, during labor and delivery have negative effects on the fetus during the delivery and after, since the fetus is more important, the woman will be forced to go through delivery without anything. Ongoing bladder problems, tearing, episiotomy, emergency c section (if the fetus has more rights elective c sections will be outlawed as evidence suggests it has adverse effects to the child ) This is all possible if the fetus rights are put before women's rights As for your murder comment, as the way the law reads in my country a fetus does not become a living being until they take their first breath of air, so no I don't see this as murder, but I do know that some courts have ruled it is murder, and I also know some courts have already taken away women's rights to protect the fetus (incarcerating due to drug or alcohol use till fetus is born ). This also comes down to religion. We have the freedom of religion, and most people do not believe in abortion due to religious reasons. This is also a way these religions are shoving their religion down a woman's throat so to speak. I have noticed religious organizations who use graphic images, and attempt to shame the individual into going through with the pregnancy. As for the people crying out for the unborn babies rights, they are not a baby, they are a fetus. Again this boils down to beliefs, culture, and values. As I said the law in my country does not consider a fetus a human till it takes it's first breath of air, not sure on the laws in the USA, this is what I go by. Again I think abortion may be the lesser of two evils, I have seen a baby born with physical deformities, a laundry list of medical issues in foster care because the mom was on hard core drugs throughout the entire pregnancy. I will also comment on the comment that says she believes all fetuses born would be adopted. Sadly where I live this is not the case, families only want healthy babies, some families are gender specific too. I am an advocate for adoption, my neighbours adopted two boys, and during their application they stated no drugs no alcohol prenatally. Who wants a one eyed multiple medical issue baby when a healthy child is the same price? It is also cheaper to adopt abroad, when my neighbours adopted it was 10k/child this was 18 yrs ago and this includes all the lawyer fees and was a public adoption. Also more people are leaning more to surrogacy or egg/sperm banks as a surrogate mother is used when the individual cannot carry their own child or don't want to this way this child is genetically theirs. Egg/sperm banks if one is infertile, atleast the child genetic make up is half family. Also an easy option for a single parent, or homosexual couple looking to start a family. There are so many other options besides adoption that are less stressful, less time consuming, and immediate results so no I don't believe all infants would be adopted. I also believe it would be cheaper for the government to perform the abortions free versus caring for an unwanted child for 18 yrs. This also needs to be considered if abortion is outlawed who is going to fund all medical, and social (housing, feed, schooling ) costs that each child would incur In this country we already fund people for 18 years when their parents cannot carry them (and in some cases up to 27 years old per the new Obamacare). It's called taxation. We tax those who work and who hold assets and we allow the "not so motivated" to continue to engage in unwanted pregnancy and continue to have abortion, after abortion, after abortion. If a woman has had one abortion, it is likely that she has had multiple.
The problem with the arguments you present as "solutions" are not liberal in nature, but are deeply steeped in socialism. No one is this country is arguing that a woman's immediate health should be secondary to that of her fetus. In fact, by allowing abortion to act as an insurance policy against unwanted pregnancy, this country has watched its rate of venereal disease increase which as you seem to know, leads to more than a modicum of health problems associated not just with the reproduction system, but also with the immune system and general physiology.
What we are arguing is that the mass slaughter of children is unethical. For many it has nothing to do with religion, but has everything to do with ethics and moral obligation not to a deity, but to piece of mind and to humanity itself. What separates us from animals is our humanity, our ability to formulate and reason using a moral and ethical compass as a means to differentiate between right and wrong. Abortions end life. Taking life is murder. Thus, in every sense of the word, they are UNETHICAL and they defile the very nature of humanity.
Since you quoted several medical arguments, I suppose you're also familiar with cell migration (fetomaternal microchimerism). In cell adhesion and migration the pluripotent cells of a fetus will attempt to aid any wound or affliction the mother incurs, even preventing aging and will persist within the mother's system over the course of more than two decades, but in the opposite and predatory manner, a mother who aborts her child commits absolute treachery since she willingly harms the thing that would so generously give her life.
We DO NOT better society by REMOVING or ELIMINATING the poor, the afflicted, or those who are worse off. As others have commented, doing so is no better than the grotesque practices of Dr. Mengele. We do not believe in the extermination of those in suffering third world nations, so why do Pro-Choicers condone the extermination of those who are unborn? Seems to me this goes against sociological theory and greatly defies any human rights doctrine.
You also argue that women should be freed of responsibility to an unwanted child, but what frees the taxpayer from the responsibility of a unknown child, or the humanist the ethical responsibility?
You also speak of torture, and as such, how can you argue that abortion to the child is not torture when ultrasound abortions show a child moving away and even screaming (Google the infamous Silent Scream) in pain? If we look to female infanticide within developing nations such as a China and India, often performed against the pleas of the mother, how can you not call abortion torture?
Also the argument you make for crime rates being decreased as a result of abortion, is FALSE. The data for that argument is also dated. There is simply correlation and no empirical evidence to suggest CAUSATION. Anyone with any sort of background in statistical inference can tell you that without the empirical evidence you cannot infer causation simply given correlation. In fact, the evidence against the +abortion/-crime argument has strong statistical refutation. Had abortion been a cause for reduced crime, we would have seen among the population who generally commits crime (males 17-25), that the crime rate by this demographic would have DROPPED first. This was NOT the case. Instead, crimes committed by OLDER rather than younger Americans declined first. We also see evidence in other countries such as England which legalized abortion in 1968. Fast forward 18 years to 1985, however, when the crime rate should have fallen (per the argument that abortion leads to reduced crime), violent crime in England instead increased.
If we DO use non-refuted empirical evidence, we can look to developmental economics for predictors of the very long term effects of abortion; we can again look to the fertility replacement rate. In the developing world, high child mortality rates are positively correlated with how many additional children will be born to a mother throughout her child bearing years. In this rare case, we CAN infer causation from correlation: the higher the mortality rate, the more children a woman will bear throughout her life. We don't see this same pattern in the developed world as NATURAL child mortality is low, however, by artificially INDUCING means of child mortality we open Pandora's Box and flip an economic switch.
If we flip the switch as a nation which has exported its industrial sector and increasingly demands HIGH skilled labor, with abortion ==> high artificial mortality ==> increased birth rate among young women, we land up with low-skilled laborers producing more children, while high skilled laborers have fewer children, greater income, and less economic burden. Again, this is empirically backed. The more education a female receives, the LESS children she will have. In this country it is currently easier to have children and obtain a welfare check than it is to go to college. Thus, If we live in a service-based economy such as the U.S. (and most developed nations) and also have an aging population, by allowing for abortion, we increase the rate at which women will continue to have MORE children and LESS education. Thus, by allowing for a large population of low skilled labor, and conversely a low population of high skilled labor, we have a recipe for economic disaster and we further stratify the social classes and increase the income gap.
So while abortion might work in the long term, over the very long term, you induce women to have more births over the course of her child bearing years than she would have had had the option for an abortion never been present.
Now I don't believe abortion should be outlawed, I think women should have to watch the procedure as it is revolting. I think most people feel this way, we simply do not condone the rampant abuse of the procedure and the for-profit market which has turned the procedure into an INDUSTRY. It's so very interesting to me that feminists are the ones behind Planned Parenthood, but they make no mention of the men who help create the babies. In this country we have a program called the Maury Povich Show... Please Google it as it'll give you a better idea as to why people in this counttry are so upset about so called women's rights. Abortion does nothing to promote the well-being of women. It simply objectifies women and allows for a liberal-patriarchal system which upholds women as sex objects and genrates votes.
I've presented you a very long, yet condensed argument which has no basis in religion. Such supposition is created in non-discerning citizens via the ploys of liberal controlled media outlets.
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     Location: AR & OK | I feel very uneasy like this is so beyond wrong. This is not just a few babies being disassembled to protect the health of the mother, there are 40 to 50 million abortions per year.
If a woman really wanted control over her body then stop having sex so you do not have to kill an innocent life. Don't tell me 40 to 50 million women's contraception did not work. This is murder by probably 39 to 49 million women.
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cheryl makofka - 2015-07-16 10:44 PM Bear - 2015-07-16 3:43 PM cheryl makofka - 2015-07-16 2:24 PM mcdaniel14 - 2015-07-16 11:01 AM we watched part of this last night and i am absolutely disgusted PP needs to be defunded! life starts at conception! this lady acts like it is no big deal at all! i am sure that there are plenty of loving families that would love to adopt these innocent babies! Sorry but your comment disturbs me. I respect you are pro life, but if there are so many families looking to adopt, then why are there so many children in foster homes? How many children have been removed from families via social services, how many people have been convicted of abusing their own child. To me abortion can save these unwanted children from a life of pain. I also have an issue with someone dictating what a woman should do with her body, sometimes pregnancies are undetected till later in pregnancy, I know one person who kept going back to the doc for abdominal cramping, blood and urine pregnancy tests were negative, it wasn't till an abdominal ultrasound confirmed she was 7 months pregnant. If abortion becomes outlawed, then women have no rights. Without abortion, women have no rights? Really? I think a lot of people are crying out that those babies have no rights. What do you say to them? If a woman is 22 weeks pregnant and her boyfriend shoots her in the abdomen, killing the unborn baby, but not the mom, is that murder? If women loose the right to make a decision on whether to have an abortion is the beginning or loosing women's rights. Why I believe this if abortion is outlawed, then women's, health and right to choose is superseded by an unborn fetus that has the same characteristics of a parasite, it is feeding off of the woman. Since the fetus is protected, then society/government will be deciding what a pregnant woman can and can't do, ie alcohol (no sustainable proof on how much, at what stage, etc this is why abstinence is best but many children are born from mothers who have consumed some alcohol ), riding horses, due to the fetus well being is more important then the mother we will not be allowed. It becomes a slippery slope when the fetus rights are more important then a woman's. Also during delivery there are risks and adverse effects to delivering a child, if abortion is outlawed it can be seen as torture, drugs, epidurals, during labor and delivery have negative effects on the fetus during the delivery and after, since the fetus is more important, the woman will be forced to go through delivery without anything. Ongoing bladder problems, tearing, episiotomy, emergency c section (if the fetus has more rights elective c sections will be outlawed as evidence suggests it has adverse effects to the child ) This is all possible if the fetus rights are put before women's rights As for your murder comment, as the way the law reads in my country a fetus does not become a living being until they take their first breath of air, so no I don't see this as murder, but I do know that some courts have ruled it is murder, and I also know some courts have already taken away women's rights to protect the fetus (incarcerating due to drug or alcohol use till fetus is born ). This also comes down to religion. We have the freedom of religion, and most people do not believe in abortion due to religious reasons. This is also a way these religions are shoving their religion down a woman's throat so to speak. I have noticed religious organizations who use graphic images, and attempt to shame the individual into going through with the pregnancy. As for the people crying out for the unborn babies rights, they are not a baby, they are a fetus. Again this boils down to beliefs, culture, and values. As I said the law in my country does not consider a fetus a human till it takes it's first breath of air, not sure on the laws in the USA, this is what I go by. Again I think abortion may be the lesser of two evils, I have seen a baby born with physical deformities, a laundry list of medical issues in foster care because the mom was on hard core drugs throughout the entire pregnancy. I will also comment on the comment that says she believes all fetuses born would be adopted. Sadly where I live this is not the case, families only want healthy babies, some families are gender specific too. I am an advocate for adoption, my neighbours adopted two boys, and during their application they stated no drugs no alcohol prenatally. Who wants a one eyed multiple medical issue baby when a healthy child is the same price? It is also cheaper to adopt abroad, when my neighbours adopted it was 10k/child this was 18 yrs ago and this includes all the lawyer fees and was a public adoption. Also more people are leaning more to surrogacy or egg/sperm banks as a surrogate mother is used when the individual cannot carry their own child or don't want to this way this child is genetically theirs. Egg/sperm banks if one is infertile, atleast the child genetic make up is half family. Also an easy option for a single parent, or homosexual couple looking to start a family. There are so many other options besides adoption that are less stressful, less time consuming, and immediate results so no I don't believe all infants would be adopted. I also believe it would be cheaper for the government to perform the abortions free versus caring for an unwanted child for 18 yrs. This also needs to be considered if abortion is outlawed who is going to fund all medical, and social (housing, feed, schooling ) costs that each child would incur In this country we already fund people for 18 years when their parents cannot carry them (and in some cases up to 27 years old per the new Obamacare). It's called taxation. We tax those who work and who hold assets and we allow the "not so motivated" to continue to engage in unwanted pregnancy and continue to have abortion, after abortion, after abortion. If a woman has had one abortion, it is likely that she has had multiple.
The problem with the arguments you present as "solutions" are not liberal in nature, but are deeply steeped in socialism. No one is this country is arguing that a woman's immediate health should be secondary to that of her fetus. In fact, by allowing abortion to act as an insurance policy against unwanted pregnancy, this country has watched its rate of venereal disease increase which as you seem to know, leads to more than a modicum of health problems associated not just with the reproduction system, but also with the immune system and general physiology.
What we are arguing is that the mass slaughter of children is unethical. For many it has nothing to do with religion, but has everything to do with ethics and moral obligation not to a deity, but to piece of mind and to humanity itself. What separates us from animals is our humanity, our ability to formulate and reason using a moral and ethical compass as a means to differentiate between right and wrong. Abortions end life. Taking life is murder. Thus, in every sense of the word, they are UNETHICAL and they defile the very nature of humanity.
Since you quoted several medical arguments, I suppose you're also familiar with cell migration (fetomaternal microchimerism). In cell adhesion and migration the pluripotent cells of a fetus will attempt to aid any wound or affliction the mother incurs, even preventing aging and will persist within the mother's system over the course of more than two decades, but in the opposite and predatory manner, a mother who aborts her child commits absolute treachery since she willingly harms the thing that would so generously give her life.
We DO NOT better society by REMOVING or ELIMINATING the poor, the afflicted, or those who are worse off. As others have commented, doing so is no better than the grotesque practices of Dr. Mengele. We do not believe in the extermination of those in suffering third world nations, so why do Pro-Choicers condone the extermination of those who are unborn? Seems to me this goes against sociological theory and greatly defies any human rights doctrine.
You also argue that women should be freed of responsibility to an unwanted child, but what frees the taxpayer from the responsibility of a unknown child, or the humanist the ethical responsibility?
You also speak of torture, and as such, how can you argue that abortion to the child is not torture when ultrasound abortions show a child moving away and even screaming (Google the infamous Silent Scream) in pain? If we look to female infanticide within developing nations such as a China and India, often performed against the pleas of the mother, how can you not call abortion torture?
Also the argument you make for crime rates being decreased as a result of abortion, is FALSE. The data for that argument is also dated. There is simply correlation and no empirical evidence to suggest CAUSATION. Anyone with any sort of background in statistical inference can tell you that without the empirical evidence you cannot infer causation simply given correlation. In fact, the evidence against the +abortion/-crime argument has strong statistical refutation. Had abortion been a cause for reduced crime, we would have seen among the population who generally commits crime (males 17-25), that the crime rate by this demographic would have DROPPED first. This was NOT the case. Instead, crimes committed by OLDER rather than younger Americans declined first. We also see evidence in other countries such as England which legalized abortion in 1968. Fast forward 18 years to 1985, however, when the crime rate should have fallen (per the argument that abortion leads to reduced crime), violent crime in England instead increased.
If we DO use non-refuted empirical evidence, we can look to developmental economics for predictors of the very long term effects of abortion; we can again look to the fertility replacement rate. In the developing world, high child mortality rates are positively correlated with how many additional children will be born to a mother throughout her child bearing years. In this rare case, we CAN infer causation from correlation: the higher the mortality rate, the more children a woman will bear throughout her life. We don't see this same pattern in the developed world as NATURAL child mortality is low, however, by artificially INDUCING means of child mortality we open Pandora's Box and flip an economic switch.
If we flip the switch as a nation which has exported its industrial sector and increasingly demands HIGH skilled labor, with abortion ==> high artificial mortality ==> increased birth rate among young women, we land up with low-skilled laborers producing more children, while high skilled laborers have fewer children, greater income, and less economic burden. Again, this is empirically backed. The more education a female receives, the LESS children she will have. In this country it is currently easier to have children and obtain a welfare check than it is to go to college. Thus, If we live in a service-based economy such as the U.S. (and most developed nations) and also have an aging population, by allowing for abortion, we increase the rate at which women will continue to have MORE children and LESS education. Thus, by allowing for a large population of low skilled labor, and conversely a low population of high skilled labor, we have a recipe for economic disaster and we further stratify the social classes and increase the income gap.
So while abortion might work in the long term, over the very long term, you induce women to have more births over the course of her child bearing years than she would have had had the option for an abortion never been present.
Now I don't believe abortion should be outlawed, I think women should have to watch the procedure as it is revolting. I think most people feel this way, we simply do not condone the rampant abuse of the procedure and the for-profit market which has turned the procedure into an INDUSTRY. It's so very interesting to me that feminists are the ones behind Planned Parenthood, but they make no mention of the men who help create the babies. In this country we have a program called the Maury Povich Show... Please Google it as it'll give you a better idea as to why people in this counttry are so upset about so called women's rights. Abortion does nothing to promote the well-being of women. It simply objectifies women and allows for a liberal-patriarchal system which upholds women as sex objects and genrates votes.
I've presented you a very long, yet condensed argument which has no basis in religion. Such supposition is created in non-discerning citizens via the ploys of liberal controlled media outlets.
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cheryl makofka - 2015-07-16 10:44 PM Bear - 2015-07-16 3:43 PM cheryl makofka - 2015-07-16 2:24 PM mcdaniel14 - 2015-07-16 11:01 AM we watched part of this last night and i am absolutely disgusted PP needs to be defunded! life starts at conception! this lady acts like it is no big deal at all! i am sure that there are plenty of loving families that would love to adopt these innocent babies! Sorry but your comment disturbs me. I respect you are pro life, but if there are so many families looking to adopt, then why are there so many children in foster homes? How many children have been removed from families via social services, how many people have been convicted of abusing their own child. To me abortion can save these unwanted children from a life of pain. I also have an issue with someone dictating what a woman should do with her body, sometimes pregnancies are undetected till later in pregnancy, I know one person who kept going back to the doc for abdominal cramping, blood and urine pregnancy tests were negative, it wasn't till an abdominal ultrasound confirmed she was 7 months pregnant. If abortion becomes outlawed, then women have no rights. Without abortion, women have no rights? Really? I think a lot of people are crying out that those babies have no rights. What do you say to them? If a woman is 22 weeks pregnant and her boyfriend shoots her in the abdomen, killing the unborn baby, but not the mom, is that murder? If women loose the right to make a decision on whether to have an abortion is the beginning or loosing women's rights. Why I believe this if abortion is outlawed, then women's, health and right to choose is superseded by an unborn fetus that has the same characteristics of a parasite, it is feeding off of the woman. Since the fetus is protected, then society/government will be deciding what a pregnant woman can and can't do, ie alcohol (no sustainable proof on how much, at what stage, etc this is why abstinence is best but many children are born from mothers who have consumed some alcohol ), riding horses, due to the fetus well being is more important then the mother we will not be allowed. It becomes a slippery slope when the fetus rights are more important then a woman's. Also during delivery there are risks and adverse effects to delivering a child, if abortion is outlawed it can be seen as torture, drugs, epidurals, during labor and delivery have negative effects on the fetus during the delivery and after, since the fetus is more important, the woman will be forced to go through delivery without anything. Ongoing bladder problems, tearing, episiotomy, emergency c section (if the fetus has more rights elective c sections will be outlawed as evidence suggests it has adverse effects to the child ) This is all possible if the fetus rights are put before women's rights As for your murder comment, as the way the law reads in my country a fetus does not become a living being until they take their first breath of air, so no I don't see this as murder, but I do know that some courts have ruled it is murder, and I also know some courts have already taken away women's rights to protect the fetus (incarcerating due to drug or alcohol use till fetus is born ). This also comes down to religion. We have the freedom of religion, and most people do not believe in abortion due to religious reasons. This is also a way these religions are shoving their religion down a woman's throat so to speak. I have noticed religious organizations who use graphic images, and attempt to shame the individual into going through with the pregnancy. As for the people crying out for the unborn babies rights, they are not a baby, they are a fetus. Again this boils down to beliefs, culture, and values. As I said the law in my country does not consider a fetus a human till it takes it's first breath of air, not sure on the laws in the USA, this is what I go by. Again I think abortion may be the lesser of two evils, I have seen a baby born with physical deformities, a laundry list of medical issues in foster care because the mom was on hard core drugs throughout the entire pregnancy. I will also comment on the comment that says she believes all fetuses born would be adopted. Sadly where I live this is not the case, families only want healthy babies, some families are gender specific too. I am an advocate for adoption, my neighbours adopted two boys, and during their application they stated no drugs no alcohol prenatally. Who wants a one eyed multiple medical issue baby when a healthy child is the same price? It is also cheaper to adopt abroad, when my neighbours adopted it was 10k/child this was 18 yrs ago and this includes all the lawyer fees and was a public adoption. Also more people are leaning more to surrogacy or egg/sperm banks as a surrogate mother is used when the individual cannot carry their own child or don't want to this way this child is genetically theirs. Egg/sperm banks if one is infertile, atleast the child genetic make up is half family. Also an easy option for a single parent, or homosexual couple looking to start a family. There are so many other options besides adoption that are less stressful, less time consuming, and immediate results so no I don't believe all infants would be adopted. I also believe it would be cheaper for the government to perform the abortions free versus caring for an unwanted child for 18 yrs. This also needs to be considered if abortion is outlawed who is going to fund all medical, and social (housing, feed, schooling ) costs that each child would incur In this country we already fund people for 18 years when their parents cannot carry them (and in some cases up to 27 years old per the new Obamacare). It's called taxation. We tax those who work and who hold assets and we allow the "not so motivated" to continue to engage in unwanted pregnancy and continue to have abortion, after abortion, after abortion. If a woman has had one abortion, it is likely that she has had multiple.
The problem with the arguments you present as "solutions" are not liberal in nature, but are deeply steeped in socialism. No one is this country is arguing that a woman's immediate health should be secondary to that of her fetus. In fact, by allowing abortion to act as an insurance policy against unwanted pregnancy, this country has watched its rate of venereal disease increase which as you seem to know, leads to more than a modicum of health problems associated not just with the reproduction system, but also with the immune system and general physiology.
What we are arguing is that the mass slaughter of children is unethical. For many it has nothing to do with religion, but has everything to do with ethics and moral obligation not to a deity, but to piece of mind and to humanity itself. What separates us from animals is our humanity, our ability to formulate and reason using a moral and ethical compass as a means to differentiate between right and wrong. Abortions end life. Taking life is murder. Thus, in every sense of the word, they are UNETHICAL and they defile the very nature of humanity.
Since you quoted several medical arguments, I suppose you're also familiar with cell migration (fetomaternal microchimerism). In cell adhesion and migration the pluripotent cells of a fetus will attempt to aid any wound or affliction the mother incurs, even preventing aging and will persist within the mother's system over the course of more than two decades, but in the opposite and predatory manner, a mother who aborts her child commits absolute treachery since she willingly harms the thing that would so generously give her life.
We DO NOT better society by REMOVING or ELIMINATING the poor, the afflicted, or those who are worse off. As others have commented, doing so is no better than the grotesque practices of Dr. Mengele. We do not believe in the extermination of those in suffering third world nations, so why do Pro-Choicers condone the extermination of those who are unborn? Seems to me this goes against sociological theory and greatly defies any human rights doctrine.
You also argue that women should be freed of responsibility to an unwanted child, but what frees the taxpayer from the responsibility of a unknown child, or the humanist the ethical responsibility?
You also speak of torture, and as such, how can you argue that abortion to the child is not torture when ultrasound abortions show a child moving away and even screaming (Google the infamous Silent Scream) in pain? If we look to female infanticide within developing nations such as a China and India, often performed against the pleas of the mother, how can you not call abortion torture?
Also the argument you make for crime rates being decreased as a result of abortion, is FALSE. The data for that argument is also dated. There is simply correlation and no empirical evidence to suggest CAUSATION. Anyone with any sort of background in statistical inference can tell you that without the empirical evidence you cannot infer causation simply given correlation. In fact, the evidence against the +abortion/-crime argument has strong statistical refutation. Had abortion been a cause for reduced crime, we would have seen among the population who generally commits crime (males 17-25), that the crime rate by this demographic would have DROPPED first. This was NOT the case. Instead, crimes committed by OLDER rather than younger Americans declined first. We also see evidence in other countries such as England which legalized abortion in 1968. Fast forward 18 years to 1985, however, when the crime rate should have fallen (per the argument that abortion leads to reduced crime), violent crime in England instead increased.
If we DO use non-refuted empirical evidence, we can look to developmental economics for predictors of the very long term effects of abortion; we can again look to the fertility replacement rate. In the developing world, high child mortality rates are positively correlated with how many additional children will be born to a mother throughout her child bearing years. In this rare case, we CAN infer causation from correlation: the higher the mortality rate, the more children a woman will bear throughout her life. We don't see this same pattern in the developed world as NATURAL child mortality is low, however, by artificially INDUCING means of child mortality we open Pandora's Box and flip an economic switch.
If we flip the switch as a nation which has exported its industrial sector and increasingly demands HIGH skilled labor, with abortion ==> high artificial mortality ==> increased birth rate among young women, we land up with low-skilled laborers producing more children, while high skilled laborers have fewer children, greater income, and less economic burden. Again, this is empirically backed. The more education a female receives, the LESS children she will have. In this country it is currently easier to have children and obtain a welfare check than it is to go to college. Thus, If we live in a service-based economy such as the U.S. (and most developed nations) and also have an aging population, by allowing for abortion, we increase the rate at which women will continue to have MORE children and LESS education. Thus, by allowing for a large population of low skilled labor, and conversely a low population of high skilled labor, we have a recipe for economic disaster and we further stratify the social classes and increase the income gap.
So while abortion might work in the long term, over the very long term, you induce women to have more births over the course of her child bearing years than she would have had had the option for an abortion never been present.
Now I don't believe abortion should be outlawed, I think women should have to watch the procedure as it is revolting. I think most people feel this way, we simply do not condone the rampant abuse of the procedure and the for-profit market which has turned the procedure into an INDUSTRY. It's so very interesting to me that feminists are the ones behind Planned Parenthood, but they make no mention of the men who help create the babies. In this country we have a program called the Maury Povich Show... Please Google it as it'll give you a better idea as to why people in this counttry are so upset about so called women's rights. Abortion does nothing to promote the well-being of women. It simply objectifies women and allows for a liberal-patriarchal system which upholds women as sex objects and genrates votes.
I've presented you a very long, yet condensed argument which has no basis in religion. Such supposition is created in non-discerning citizens via the ploys of liberal controlled media outlets.
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  Location: Four Corners Colorado | Bear - 2015-07-17 8:44 AM heartswideopen - 2015-07-17 2:12 AM cheryl makofka - 2015-07-16 10:44 PM Bear - 2015-07-16 3:43 PM cheryl makofka - 2015-07-16 2:24 PM mcdaniel14 - 2015-07-16 11:01 AM we watched part of this last night and i am absolutely disgusted PP needs to be defunded! life starts at conception! this lady acts like it is no big deal at all! i am sure that there are plenty of loving families that would love to adopt these innocent babies! Sorry but your comment disturbs me. I respect you are pro life, but if there are so many families looking to adopt, then why are there so many children in foster homes? How many children have been removed from families via social services, how many people have been convicted of abusing their own child. To me abortion can save these unwanted children from a life of pain. I also have an issue with someone dictating what a woman should do with her body, sometimes pregnancies are undetected till later in pregnancy, I know one person who kept going back to the doc for abdominal cramping, blood and urine pregnancy tests were negative, it wasn't till an abdominal ultrasound confirmed she was 7 months pregnant. If abortion becomes outlawed, then women have no rights. Without abortion, women have no rights? Really? I think a lot of people are crying out that those babies have no rights. What do you say to them? If a woman is 22 weeks pregnant and her boyfriend shoots her in the abdomen, killing the unborn baby, but not the mom, is that murder? If women loose the right to make a decision on whether to have an abortion is the beginning or loosing women's rights. Why I believe this if abortion is outlawed, then women's, health and right to choose is superseded by an unborn fetus that has the same characteristics of a parasite, it is feeding off of the woman. Since the fetus is protected, then society/government will be deciding what a pregnant woman can and can't do, ie alcohol (no sustainable proof on how much, at what stage, etc this is why abstinence is best but many children are born from mothers who have consumed some alcohol ), riding horses, due to the fetus well being is more important then the mother we will not be allowed. It becomes a slippery slope when the fetus rights are more important then a woman's. Also during delivery there are risks and adverse effects to delivering a child, if abortion is outlawed it can be seen as torture, drugs, epidurals, during labor and delivery have negative effects on the fetus during the delivery and after, since the fetus is more important, the woman will be forced to go through delivery without anything. Ongoing bladder problems, tearing, episiotomy, emergency c section (if the fetus has more rights elective c sections will be outlawed as evidence suggests it has adverse effects to the child ) This is all possible if the fetus rights are put before women's rights As for your murder comment, as the way the law reads in my country a fetus does not become a living being until they take their first breath of air, so no I don't see this as murder, but I do know that some courts have ruled it is murder, and I also know some courts have already taken away women's rights to protect the fetus (incarcerating due to drug or alcohol use till fetus is born ). This also comes down to religion. We have the freedom of religion, and most people do not believe in abortion due to religious reasons. This is also a way these religions are shoving their religion down a woman's throat so to speak. I have noticed religious organizations who use graphic images, and attempt to shame the individual into going through with the pregnancy. As for the people crying out for the unborn babies rights, they are not a baby, they are a fetus. Again this boils down to beliefs, culture, and values. As I said the law in my country does not consider a fetus a human till it takes it's first breath of air, not sure on the laws in the USA, this is what I go by. Again I think abortion may be the lesser of two evils, I have seen a baby born with physical deformities, a laundry list of medical issues in foster care because the mom was on hard core drugs throughout the entire pregnancy. I will also comment on the comment that says she believes all fetuses born would be adopted. Sadly where I live this is not the case, families only want healthy babies, some families are gender specific too. I am an advocate for adoption, my neighbours adopted two boys, and during their application they stated no drugs no alcohol prenatally. Who wants a one eyed multiple medical issue baby when a healthy child is the same price? It is also cheaper to adopt abroad, when my neighbours adopted it was 10k/child this was 18 yrs ago and this includes all the lawyer fees and was a public adoption. Also more people are leaning more to surrogacy or egg/sperm banks as a surrogate mother is used when the individual cannot carry their own child or don't want to this way this child is genetically theirs. Egg/sperm banks if one is infertile, atleast the child genetic make up is half family. Also an easy option for a single parent, or homosexual couple looking to start a family. There are so many other options besides adoption that are less stressful, less time consuming, and immediate results so no I don't believe all infants would be adopted. I also believe it would be cheaper for the government to perform the abortions free versus caring for an unwanted child for 18 yrs. This also needs to be considered if abortion is outlawed who is going to fund all medical, and social (housing, feed, schooling ) costs that each child would incur In this country we already fund people for 18 years when their parents cannot carry them (and in some cases up to 27 years old per the new Obamacare). It's called taxation. We tax those who work and who hold assets and we allow the "not so motivated" to continue to engage in unwanted pregnancy and continue to have abortion, after abortion, after abortion. If a woman has had one abortion, it is likely that she has had multiple.
The problem with the arguments you present as "solutions" are not liberal in nature, but are deeply steeped in socialism.
No one is this country is arguing that a woman's immediate health should be secondary to that of her fetus. In fact, by allowing abortion to act as an insurance policy against unwanted pregnancy, this country has watched its rate of venereal disease increase which as you seem to know, leads to more than a modicum of health problems associated not just with the reproduction system, but also with the immune system and general physiology.
What we are arguing is that the mass slaughter of children is unethical. For many it has nothing to do with religion, but has everything to do with ethics and moral obligation not to a deity, but to piece of mind and to humanity itself. What separates us from animals is our humanity, our ability to formulate and reason using a moral and ethical compass as a means to differentiate between right and wrong. Abortions end life. Taking life is murder. Thus, in every sense of the word, they are UNETHICAL and they defile the very nature of humanity.
Since you quoted several medical arguments, I suppose you're also familiar with cell migration (fetomaternal microchimerism). In cell adhesion and migration the pluripotent cells of a fetus will attempt to aid any wound or affliction the mother incurs, even preventing aging and will persist within the mother's system over the course of more than two decades, but in the opposite and predatory manner, a mother who aborts her child commits absolute treachery since she willingly harms the thing that would so generously give her life.
We DO NOT better society by REMOVING or ELIMINATING the poor, the afflicted, or those who are worse off. As others have commented, doing so is no better than the grotesque practices of Dr. Mengele. We do not believe in the extermination of those in suffering third world nations, so why do Pro-Choicers condone the extermination of those who are unborn? Seems to me this goes against sociological theory and greatly defies any human rights doctrine.
You also argue that women should be freed of responsibility to an unwanted child, but what frees the taxpayer from the responsibility of a unknown child, or the humanist the ethical responsibility?
You also speak of torture, and as such, how can you argue that abortion to the child is not torture when ultrasound abortions show a child moving away and even screaming (Google the infamous Silent Scream) in pain? If we look to female infanticide within developing nations such as a China and India, often performed against the pleas of the mother, how can you not call abortion torture?
Also the argument you make for crime rates being decreased as a result of abortion, is FALSE. The data for that argument is also dated. There is simply correlation and no empirical evidence to suggest CAUSATION. Anyone with any sort of background in statistical inference can tell you that without the empirical evidence you cannot infer causation simply given correlation.
In fact, the evidence against the +abortion/-crime argument has strong statistical refutation. Had abortion been a cause for reduced crime, we would have seen among the population who generally commits crime (males 17-25), that the crime rate by this demographic would have DROPPED first. This was NOT the case. Instead, crimes committed by OLDER rather than younger Americans declined first. We also see evidence in other countries such as England which legalized abortion in 1968. Fast forward 18 years to 1985, however, when the crime rate should have fallen (per the argument that abortion leads to reduced crime), violent crime in England instead increased.
If we DO use non-refuted empirical evidence, we can look to developmental economics for predictors of the very long term effects of abortion; we can again look to the fertility replacement rate. In the developing world, high child mortality rates are positively correlated with how many additional children will be born to a mother throughout her child bearing years. In this rare case, we CAN infer causation from correlation: the higher the mortality rate, the more children a woman will bear throughout her life. We don't see this same pattern in the developed world as NATURAL child mortality is low, however, by artificially INDUCING means of child mortality we open Pandora's Box and flip an economic switch.
If we flip the switch as a nation which has exported its industrial sector and increasingly demands HIGH skilled labor, with abortion ==> high artificial mortality ==> increased birth rate among young women, we land up with low-skilled laborers producing more children, while high skilled laborers have fewer children, greater income, and less economic burden. Again, this is empirically backed. The more education a female receives, the LESS children she will have. In this country it is currently easier to have children and obtain a welfare check than it is to go to college. Thus, If we live in a service-based economy such as the U.S. (and most developed nations) and also have an aging population, by allowing for abortion, we increase the rate at which women will continue to have MORE children and LESS education. Thus, by allowing for a large population of low skilled labor, and conversely a low population of high skilled labor, we have a recipe for economic disaster and we further stratify the social classes and increase the income gap.
So while abortion might work in the long term, over the very long term, you induce women to have more births over the course of her child bearing years than she would have had had the option for an abortion never been present.
Now I don't believe abortion should be outlawed, I think women should have to watch the procedure as it is revolting. I think most people feel this way, we simply do not condone the rampant abuse of the procedure and the for-profit market which has turned the procedure into an INDUSTRY. It's so very interesting to me that feminists are the ones behind Planned Parenthood, but they make no mention of the men who help create the babies. In this country we have a program called the Maury Povich Show... Please Google it as it'll give you a better idea as to why people in this counttry are so upset about so called women's rights. Abortion does nothing to promote the well-being of women. It simply objectifies women and allows for a liberal-patriarchal system which upholds women as sex objects and genrates votes.
I've presented you a very long, yet condensed argument which has no basis in religion. Such supposition is created in non-discerning citizens via the ploys of liberal controlled media outlets. Excellent.....well worth the read.
Best thread I've read on this subject in a long time!
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| equussynergy - 2015-07-17 10:08 AM Bear - 2015-07-17 8:44 AM heartswideopen - 2015-07-17 2:12 AM cheryl makofka - 2015-07-16 10:44 PM Bear - 2015-07-16 3:43 PM cheryl makofka - 2015-07-16 2:24 PM mcdaniel14 - 2015-07-16 11:01 AM we watched part of this last night and i am absolutely disgusted PP needs to be defunded! life starts at conception! this lady acts like it is no big deal at all! i am sure that there are plenty of loving families that would love to adopt these innocent babies! Sorry but your comment disturbs me. I respect you are pro life, but if there are so many families looking to adopt, then why are there so many children in foster homes? How many children have been removed from families via social services, how many people have been convicted of abusing their own child. To me abortion can save these unwanted children from a life of pain. I also have an issue with someone dictating what a woman should do with her body, sometimes pregnancies are undetected till later in pregnancy, I know one person who kept going back to the doc for abdominal cramping, blood and urine pregnancy tests were negative, it wasn't till an abdominal ultrasound confirmed she was 7 months pregnant. If abortion becomes outlawed, then women have no rights. Without abortion, women have no rights? Really? I think a lot of people are crying out that those babies have no rights. What do you say to them? If a woman is 22 weeks pregnant and her boyfriend shoots her in the abdomen, killing the unborn baby, but not the mom, is that murder? If women loose the right to make a decision on whether to have an abortion is the beginning or loosing women's rights. Why I believe this if abortion is outlawed, then women's, health and right to choose is superseded by an unborn fetus that has the same characteristics of a parasite, it is feeding off of the woman. Since the fetus is protected, then society/government will be deciding what a pregnant woman can and can't do, ie alcohol (no sustainable proof on how much, at what stage, etc this is why abstinence is best but many children are born from mothers who have consumed some alcohol ), riding horses, due to the fetus well being is more important then the mother we will not be allowed. It becomes a slippery slope when the fetus rights are more important then a woman's. Also during delivery there are risks and adverse effects to delivering a child, if abortion is outlawed it can be seen as torture, drugs, epidurals, during labor and delivery have negative effects on the fetus during the delivery and after, since the fetus is more important, the woman will be forced to go through delivery without anything. Ongoing bladder problems, tearing, episiotomy, emergency c section (if the fetus has more rights elective c sections will be outlawed as evidence suggests it has adverse effects to the child ) This is all possible if the fetus rights are put before women's rights As for your murder comment, as the way the law reads in my country a fetus does not become a living being until they take their first breath of air, so no I don't see this as murder, but I do know that some courts have ruled it is murder, and I also know some courts have already taken away women's rights to protect the fetus (incarcerating due to drug or alcohol use till fetus is born ). This also comes down to religion. We have the freedom of religion, and most people do not believe in abortion due to religious reasons. This is also a way these religions are shoving their religion down a woman's throat so to speak. I have noticed religious organizations who use graphic images, and attempt to shame the individual into going through with the pregnancy. As for the people crying out for the unborn babies rights, they are not a baby, they are a fetus. Again this boils down to beliefs, culture, and values. As I said the law in my country does not consider a fetus a human till it takes it's first breath of air, not sure on the laws in the USA, this is what I go by. Again I think abortion may be the lesser of two evils, I have seen a baby born with physical deformities, a laundry list of medical issues in foster care because the mom was on hard core drugs throughout the entire pregnancy. I will also comment on the comment that says she believes all fetuses born would be adopted. Sadly where I live this is not the case, families only want healthy babies, some families are gender specific too. I am an advocate for adoption, my neighbours adopted two boys, and during their application they stated no drugs no alcohol prenatally. Who wants a one eyed multiple medical issue baby when a healthy child is the same price? It is also cheaper to adopt abroad, when my neighbours adopted it was 10k/child this was 18 yrs ago and this includes all the lawyer fees and was a public adoption. Also more people are leaning more to surrogacy or egg/sperm banks as a surrogate mother is used when the individual cannot carry their own child or don't want to this way this child is genetically theirs. Egg/sperm banks if one is infertile, atleast the child genetic make up is half family. Also an easy option for a single parent, or homosexual couple looking to start a family. There are so many other options besides adoption that are less stressful, less time consuming, and immediate results so no I don't believe all infants would be adopted. I also believe it would be cheaper for the government to perform the abortions free versus caring for an unwanted child for 18 yrs. This also needs to be considered if abortion is outlawed who is going to fund all medical, and social (housing, feed, schooling ) costs that each child would incur In this country we already fund people for 18 years when their parents cannot carry them (and in some cases up to 27 years old per the new Obamacare). It's called taxation. We tax those who work and who hold assets and we allow the "not so motivated" to continue to engage in unwanted pregnancy and continue to have abortion, after abortion, after abortion. If a woman has had one abortion, it is likely that she has had multiple.
The problem with the arguments you present as "solutions" are not liberal in nature, but are deeply steeped in socialism.
No one is this country is arguing that a woman's immediate health should be secondary to that of her fetus. In fact, by allowing abortion to act as an insurance policy against unwanted pregnancy, this country has watched its rate of venereal disease increase which as you seem to know, leads to more than a modicum of health problems associated not just with the reproduction system, but also with the immune system and general physiology.
What we are arguing is that the mass slaughter of children is unethical. For many it has nothing to do with religion, but has everything to do with ethics and moral obligation not to a deity, but to piece of mind and to humanity itself. What separates us from animals is our humanity, our ability to formulate and reason using a moral and ethical compass as a means to differentiate between right and wrong. Abortions end life. Taking life is murder. Thus, in every sense of the word, they are UNETHICAL and they defile the very nature of humanity.
Since you quoted several medical arguments, I suppose you're also familiar with cell migration (fetomaternal microchimerism). In cell adhesion and migration the pluripotent cells of a fetus will attempt to aid any wound or affliction the mother incurs, even preventing aging and will persist within the mother's system over the course of more than two decades, but in the opposite and predatory manner, a mother who aborts her child commits absolute treachery since she willingly harms the thing that would so generously give her life.
We DO NOT better society by REMOVING or ELIMINATING the poor, the afflicted, or those who are worse off. As others have commented, doing so is no better than the grotesque practices of Dr. Mengele. We do not believe in the extermination of those in suffering third world nations, so why do Pro-Choicers condone the extermination of those who are unborn? Seems to me this goes against sociological theory and greatly defies any human rights doctrine.
You also argue that women should be freed of responsibility to an unwanted child, but what frees the taxpayer from the responsibility of a unknown child, or the humanist the ethical responsibility?
You also speak of torture, and as such, how can you argue that abortion to the child is not torture when ultrasound abortions show a child moving away and even screaming (Google the infamous Silent Scream) in pain? If we look to female infanticide within developing nations such as a China and India, often performed against the pleas of the mother, how can you not call abortion torture?
Also the argument you make for crime rates being decreased as a result of abortion, is FALSE. The data for that argument is also dated. There is simply correlation and no empirical evidence to suggest CAUSATION. Anyone with any sort of background in statistical inference can tell you that without the empirical evidence you cannot infer causation simply given correlation.
In fact, the evidence against the +abortion/-crime argument has strong statistical refutation. Had abortion been a cause for reduced crime, we would have seen among the population who generally commits crime (males 17-25), that the crime rate by this demographic would have DROPPED first. This was NOT the case. Instead, crimes committed by OLDER rather than younger Americans declined first. We also see evidence in other countries such as England which legalized abortion in 1968. Fast forward 18 years to 1985, however, when the crime rate should have fallen (per the argument that abortion leads to reduced crime), violent crime in England instead increased.
If we DO use non-refuted empirical evidence, we can look to developmental economics for predictors of the very long term effects of abortion; we can again look to the fertility replacement rate. In the developing world, high child mortality rates are positively correlated with how many additional children will be born to a mother throughout her child bearing years. In this rare case, we CAN infer causation from correlation: the higher the mortality rate, the more children a woman will bear throughout her life. We don't see this same pattern in the developed world as NATURAL child mortality is low, however, by artificially INDUCING means of child mortality we open Pandora's Box and flip an economic switch.
If we flip the switch as a nation which has exported its industrial sector and increasingly demands HIGH skilled labor, with abortion ==> high artificial mortality ==> increased birth rate among young women, we land up with low-skilled laborers producing more children, while high skilled laborers have fewer children, greater income, and less economic burden. Again, this is empirically backed. The more education a female receives, the LESS children she will have. In this country it is currently easier to have children and obtain a welfare check than it is to go to college. Thus, If we live in a service-based economy such as the U.S. (and most developed nations) and also have an aging population, by allowing for abortion, we increase the rate at which women will continue to have MORE children and LESS education. Thus, by allowing for a large population of low skilled labor, and conversely a low population of high skilled labor, we have a recipe for economic disaster and we further stratify the social classes and increase the income gap.
So while abortion might work in the long term, over the very long term, you induce women to have more births over the course of her child bearing years than she would have had had the option for an abortion never been present.
Now I don't believe abortion should be outlawed, I think women should have to watch the procedure as it is revolting. I think most people feel this way, we simply do not condone the rampant abuse of the procedure and the for-profit market which has turned the procedure into an INDUSTRY. It's so very interesting to me that feminists are the ones behind Planned Parenthood, but they make no mention of the men who help create the babies. In this country we have a program called the Maury Povich Show... Please Google it as it'll give you a better idea as to why people in this counttry are so upset about so called women's rights. Abortion does nothing to promote the well-being of women. It simply objectifies women and allows for a liberal-patriarchal system which upholds women as sex objects and genrates votes.
I've presented you a very long, yet condensed argument which has no basis in religion. Such supposition is created in non-discerning citizens via the ploys of liberal controlled media outlets. Excellent.....well worth the read. Best thread I've read on this subject in a long time!
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I didn't have time to read all of the posts, but if you don't get emotional over this topic and feel like it's being overplayed, you are beyond help.....I know there are people out there who can remain emotionless in the face of horrible tragedies, but they aren't the kind I want to know....there's something very cold about your acceptance of the circumstances surrounding this event, and I fear it's the same feeling that is overtaking the country and going to send us down the tubes.... | |
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   Location: Buffalo, TX | rodeomom3 - 2015-07-17 10:24 AM equussynergy - 2015-07-17 10:08 AM Bear - 2015-07-17 8:44 AM heartswideopen - 2015-07-17 2:12 AM cheryl makofka - 2015-07-16 10:44 PM Bear - 2015-07-16 3:43 PM cheryl makofka - 2015-07-16 2:24 PM mcdaniel14 - 2015-07-16 11:01 AM we watched part of this last night and i am absolutely disgusted PP needs to be defunded! life starts at conception! this lady acts like it is no big deal at all! i am sure that there are plenty of loving families that would love to adopt these innocent babies! Sorry but your comment disturbs me. I respect you are pro life, but if there are so many families looking to adopt, then why are there so many children in foster homes? How many children have been removed from families via social services, how many people have been convicted of abusing their own child. To me abortion can save these unwanted children from a life of pain. I also have an issue with someone dictating what a woman should do with her body, sometimes pregnancies are undetected till later in pregnancy, I know one person who kept going back to the doc for abdominal cramping, blood and urine pregnancy tests were negative, it wasn't till an abdominal ultrasound confirmed she was 7 months pregnant. If abortion becomes outlawed, then women have no rights. Without abortion, women have no rights? Really? I think a lot of people are crying out that those babies have no rights. What do you say to them? If a woman is 22 weeks pregnant and her boyfriend shoots her in the abdomen, killing the unborn baby, but not the mom, is that murder? If women loose the right to make a decision on whether to have an abortion is the beginning or loosing women's rights. Why I believe this if abortion is outlawed, then women's, health and right to choose is superseded by an unborn fetus that has the same characteristics of a parasite, it is feeding off of the woman. Since the fetus is protected, then society/government will be deciding what a pregnant woman can and can't do, ie alcohol (no sustainable proof on how much, at what stage, etc this is why abstinence is best but many children are born from mothers who have consumed some alcohol ), riding horses, due to the fetus well being is more important then the mother we will not be allowed. It becomes a slippery slope when the fetus rights are more important then a woman's. Also during delivery there are risks and adverse effects to delivering a child, if abortion is outlawed it can be seen as torture, drugs, epidurals, during labor and delivery have negative effects on the fetus during the delivery and after, since the fetus is more important, the woman will be forced to go through delivery without anything. Ongoing bladder problems, tearing, episiotomy, emergency c section (if the fetus has more rights elective c sections will be outlawed as evidence suggests it has adverse effects to the child ) This is all possible if the fetus rights are put before women's rights As for your murder comment, as the way the law reads in my country a fetus does not become a living being until they take their first breath of air, so no I don't see this as murder, but I do know that some courts have ruled it is murder, and I also know some courts have already taken away women's rights to protect the fetus (incarcerating due to drug or alcohol use till fetus is born ). This also comes down to religion. We have the freedom of religion, and most people do not believe in abortion due to religious reasons. This is also a way these religions are shoving their religion down a woman's throat so to speak. I have noticed religious organizations who use graphic images, and attempt to shame the individual into going through with the pregnancy. As for the people crying out for the unborn babies rights, they are not a baby, they are a fetus. Again this boils down to beliefs, culture, and values. As I said the law in my country does not consider a fetus a human till it takes it's first breath of air, not sure on the laws in the USA, this is what I go by. Again I think abortion may be the lesser of two evils, I have seen a baby born with physical deformities, a laundry list of medical issues in foster care because the mom was on hard core drugs throughout the entire pregnancy. I will also comment on the comment that says she believes all fetuses born would be adopted. Sadly where I live this is not the case, families only want healthy babies, some families are gender specific too. I am an advocate for adoption, my neighbours adopted two boys, and during their application they stated no drugs no alcohol prenatally. Who wants a one eyed multiple medical issue baby when a healthy child is the same price? It is also cheaper to adopt abroad, when my neighbours adopted it was 10k/child this was 18 yrs ago and this includes all the lawyer fees and was a public adoption. Also more people are leaning more to surrogacy or egg/sperm banks as a surrogate mother is used when the individual cannot carry their own child or don't want to this way this child is genetically theirs. Egg/sperm banks if one is infertile, atleast the child genetic make up is half family. Also an easy option for a single parent, or homosexual couple looking to start a family. There are so many other options besides adoption that are less stressful, less time consuming, and immediate results so no I don't believe all infants would be adopted. I also believe it would be cheaper for the government to perform the abortions free versus caring for an unwanted child for 18 yrs. This also needs to be considered if abortion is outlawed who is going to fund all medical, and social (housing, feed, schooling ) costs that each child would incur In this country we already fund people for 18 years when their parents cannot carry them (and in some cases up to 27 years old per the new Obamacare). It's called taxation. We tax those who work and who hold assets and we allow the "not so motivated" to continue to engage in unwanted pregnancy and continue to have abortion, after abortion, after abortion. If a woman has had one abortion, it is likely that she has had multiple.
The problem with the arguments you present as "solutions" are not liberal in nature, but are deeply steeped in socialism.
No one is this country is arguing that a woman's immediate health should be secondary to that of her fetus. In fact, by allowing abortion to act as an insurance policy against unwanted pregnancy, this country has watched its rate of venereal disease increase which as you seem to know, leads to more than a modicum of health problems associated not just with the reproduction system, but also with the immune system and general physiology.
What we are arguing is that the mass slaughter of children is unethical. For many it has nothing to do with religion, but has everything to do with ethics and moral obligation not to a deity, but to piece of mind and to humanity itself. What separates us from animals is our humanity, our ability to formulate and reason using a moral and ethical compass as a means to differentiate between right and wrong. Abortions end life. Taking life is murder. Thus, in every sense of the word, they are UNETHICAL and they defile the very nature of humanity.
Since you quoted several medical arguments, I suppose you're also familiar with cell migration (fetomaternal microchimerism). In cell adhesion and migration the pluripotent cells of a fetus will attempt to aid any wound or affliction the mother incurs, even preventing aging and will persist within the mother's system over the course of more than two decades, but in the opposite and predatory manner, a mother who aborts her child commits absolute treachery since she willingly harms the thing that would so generously give her life.
We DO NOT better society by REMOVING or ELIMINATING the poor, the afflicted, or those who are worse off. As others have commented, doing so is no better than the grotesque practices of Dr. Mengele. We do not believe in the extermination of those in suffering third world nations, so why do Pro-Choicers condone the extermination of those who are unborn? Seems to me this goes against sociological theory and greatly defies any human rights doctrine.
You also argue that women should be freed of responsibility to an unwanted child, but what frees the taxpayer from the responsibility of a unknown child, or the humanist the ethical responsibility?
You also speak of torture, and as such, how can you argue that abortion to the child is not torture when ultrasound abortions show a child moving away and even screaming (Google the infamous Silent Scream) in pain? If we look to female infanticide within developing nations such as a China and India, often performed against the pleas of the mother, how can you not call abortion torture?
Also the argument you make for crime rates being decreased as a result of abortion, is FALSE. The data for that argument is also dated. There is simply correlation and no empirical evidence to suggest CAUSATION. Anyone with any sort of background in statistical inference can tell you that without the empirical evidence you cannot infer causation simply given correlation.
In fact, the evidence against the +abortion/-crime argument has strong statistical refutation. Had abortion been a cause for reduced crime, we would have seen among the population who generally commits crime (males 17-25), that the crime rate by this demographic would have DROPPED first. This was NOT the case. Instead, crimes committed by OLDER rather than younger Americans declined first. We also see evidence in other countries such as England which legalized abortion in 1968. Fast forward 18 years to 1985, however, when the crime rate should have fallen (per the argument that abortion leads to reduced crime), violent crime in England instead increased.
If we DO use non-refuted empirical evidence, we can look to developmental economics for predictors of the very long term effects of abortion; we can again look to the fertility replacement rate. In the developing world, high child mortality rates are positively correlated with how many additional children will be born to a mother throughout her child bearing years. In this rare case, we CAN infer causation from correlation: the higher the mortality rate, the more children a woman will bear throughout her life. We don't see this same pattern in the developed world as NATURAL child mortality is low, however, by artificially INDUCING means of child mortality we open Pandora's Box and flip an economic switch.
If we flip the switch as a nation which has exported its industrial sector and increasingly demands HIGH skilled labor, with abortion ==> high artificial mortality ==> increased birth rate among young women, we land up with low-skilled laborers producing more children, while high skilled laborers have fewer children, greater income, and less economic burden. Again, this is empirically backed. The more education a female receives, the LESS children she will have. In this country it is currently easier to have children and obtain a welfare check than it is to go to college. Thus, If we live in a service-based economy such as the U.S. (and most developed nations) and also have an aging population, by allowing for abortion, we increase the rate at which women will continue to have MORE children and LESS education. Thus, by allowing for a large population of low skilled labor, and conversely a low population of high skilled labor, we have a recipe for economic disaster and we further stratify the social classes and increase the income gap.
So while abortion might work in the long term, over the very long term, you induce women to have more births over the course of her child bearing years than she would have had had the option for an abortion never been present.
Now I don't believe abortion should be outlawed, I think women should have to watch the procedure as it is revolting. I think most people feel this way, we simply do not condone the rampant abuse of the procedure and the for-profit market which has turned the procedure into an INDUSTRY. It's so very interesting to me that feminists are the ones behind Planned Parenthood, but they make no mention of the men who help create the babies. In this country we have a program called the Maury Povich Show... Please Google it as it'll give you a better idea as to why people in this counttry are so upset about so called women's rights. Abortion does nothing to promote the well-being of women. It simply objectifies women and allows for a liberal-patriarchal system which upholds women as sex objects and genrates votes.
I've presented you a very long, yet condensed argument which has no basis in religion. Such supposition is created in non-discerning citizens via the ploys of liberal controlled media outlets. Excellent.....well worth the read. Best thread I've read on this subject in a long time!
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AMEN....Abortion is the holy grail of the left and trumps EVERYTHING...oh yeah, but they are anti death penalty...huh???...just shows how screwed up they all are...  | |
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    Location: Eastern OH but my heart is in WV | TrailGirl - 2015-07-16 11:24 AM oija - 2015-07-16 11:03 AM horsesinharleton - 2015-07-16 11:01 AM oija - 2015-07-16 10:52 AM TrailGirl - 2015-07-16 10:35 AM Sorry....I certainly do not see her callous nature as "irrelevant". I didn't say what many will see as callousness as irrelevant. I said her meal was. I don't care if she was sitting down for a meal, what she was eating or drinking, or if she was on a casual trail ride... it was WHAT she said that is the issue with me!! Which is what I was asking people to focus on. Look at the first page and the number of comments on her meal though. The fact that she is talking about this casually over a meal IS relevant. It speaks to her absolute comfort with the topic. While a heart transplant surgeon may be comfortable discussing his work over dinner...that is completely different. It's not just her comfort level with the blood/organs/tissues itself (I get that as I can discuss veterinary procedures all day eating a hamburger )...it's the fact that unlike the heart surgeon who is performing a life saving procedure...she is discussing the best means to kill an infant in order to keep it's parts useful for sale. See the difference? See why context matters?
Totally agree with trailgirl. A murder that commits the most gursome killings, I am sure could sit over dinner and talk about it without being affected by the horrific nature of his actions. Hitler enjoyed his wine and fine foods as directed the murders of incident people... What this doctor and other PP doctors are doing is 100% murder and they see nothing wrong with it. | |
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      Location: Beggs, OK | Ultimately the sickest part of this whole procedure is the manner in which it's being performed. If they are harvesting organs, there's no way that they are using the drugs normally used to stop the heart prior to removing the baby. (Yes, I said BABY) The drugs would damage the tissue that they so badly want to get their disgusting hands on. That process needs to be explained in detail to everyone in the the world that wants to have an opinion about these little lives that are being taken, many times out of CONVENIENCE for the female that decided that she just "wasn't ready to be a mother".
The females that I know who have killed their babies are still emotionally distressed to this day. If anyone can sincerely say that they feel no regret whatsoever, they need to be sterilized immediately so that it can never happen again. | |
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   Location: Buffalo, TX | TXBO - 2015-07-17 11:34 AM Cindy Hamilton - 2015-07-17 11:15 AM AMEN....Abortion is the holy grail of the left and trumps EVERYTHING...oh yeah, but they are anti death penalty...huh???...just shows how screwed up they all are...  You just got your second "like" from me today.
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                    Location: In the Hills of Texas | Heartswideopen...That was an awesome read. 
This part sure explains a lot of why this country is so screwed up.
If we flip the switch as a nation which has exported its industrial sector and increasingly demands HIGH skilled labor, with abortion ==> high artificial mortality ==> increased birth rate among young women, we land up with low-skilled laborers producing more children, while high skilled laborers have fewer children, greater income, and less economic burden. Again, this is empirically backed. The more education a female receives, the LESS children she will have. In this country it is currently easier to have children and obtain a welfare check than it is to go to college. Thus, If we live in a service-based economy such as the U.S. (and most developed nations) and also have an aging population, by allowing for abortion, we increase the rate at which women will continue to have MORE children and LESS education. Thus, by allowing for a large population of low skilled labor, and conversely a low population of high skilled labor, we have a recipe for economic disaster and we further stratify the social classes and increase the income gap. | |
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| So as a country we have the most teen pregnancies, and highest abortion rates correct?
I dont like the thought of yanking a child out of its mother with a pair or forecepts and crushing its skull. Blunt, yes, but thats what happends. I also hate the thought of kids being raised in homes with unfit parents. I feel empathetic toward kids who are part of the system and grow up in foster homes. Since I dont like ANY of the options above I feel very strongly about preventing situations that lead to circumstances like those stated. We need to work harder to educate young women AND YOUNG MEN. . I also would love to see an ingestible or injectable option of birth control for males. I dont remember sex education in high school, it was not emphasised. I think it should have been. Parents need to talk to their children, it all starts at home right. I would like to see proposals for solutions that solve the problem up wind of abortion. Thats just me. | |
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     Location: In The Land of Cotton | Nevertooold - 2015-07-17 1:29 PM Heartswideopen...That was an awesome read.
This part sure explains a lot of why this country is so screwed up.
If we flip the switch as a nation which has exported its industrial sector and increasingly demands HIGH skilled labor, with abortion ==> high artificial mortality ==> increased birth rate among young women, we land up with low-skilled laborers producing more children, while high skilled laborers have fewer children, greater income, and less economic burden. Again, this is empirically backed. The more education a female receives, the LESS children she will have. In this country it is currently easier to have children and obtain a welfare check than it is to go to college. Thus, If we live in a service-based economy such as the U.S. (and most developed nations) and also have an aging population, by allowing for abortion, we increase the rate at which women will continue to have MORE children and LESS education. Thus, by allowing for a large population of low skilled labor, and conversely a low population of high skilled labor, we have a recipe for economic disaster and we further stratify the social classes and increase the income gap.
JMO - but this paragraph alone needs to be sent to all news stations, papers, etc. Anyone with any sense will read it and realize in a nutshell this is what is happening. | |
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                    Location: In the Hills of Texas | 3canstorun - 2015-07-17 1:16 PM Nevertooold - 2015-07-17 1:29 PM Heartswideopen...That was an awesome read.
This part sure explains a lot of why this country is so screwed up.
If we flip the switch as a nation which has exported its industrial sector and increasingly demands HIGH skilled labor, with abortion ==> high artificial mortality ==> increased birth rate among young women, we land up with low-skilled laborers producing more children, while high skilled laborers have fewer children, greater income, and less economic burden. Again, this is empirically backed. The more education a female receives, the LESS children she will have. In this country it is currently easier to have children and obtain a welfare check than it is to go to college. Thus, If we live in a service-based economy such as the U.S. (and most developed nations) and also have an aging population, by allowing for abortion, we increase the rate at which women will continue to have MORE children and LESS education. Thus, by allowing for a large population of low skilled labor, and conversely a low population of high skilled labor, we have a recipe for economic disaster and we further stratify the social classes and increase the income gap.
JMO - but this paragraph alone needs to be sent to all news stations, papers, etc. Anyone with any sense will read it and realize in a nutshell this is what is happening.
The main stream media doesn't want to report the truth as it might hurt someone's feelings and it might not look good for liberal policies, proving that they don't work. | |
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oija - 2015-07-16 11:56 AM TrailGirl - 2015-07-16 11:24 AM oija - 2015-07-16 11:03 AM horsesinharleton - 2015-07-16 11:01 AM oija - 2015-07-16 10:52 AM TrailGirl - 2015-07-16 10:35 AM Sorry....I certainly do not see her callous nature as "irrelevant". I didn't say what many will see as callousness as irrelevant. I said her meal was. I don't care if she was sitting down for a meal, what she was eating or drinking, or if she was on a casual trail ride... it was WHAT she said that is the issue with me!! Which is what I was asking people to focus on. Look at the first page and the number of comments on her meal though. The fact that she is talking about this casually over a meal IS relevant. It speaks to her absolute comfort with the topic. While a heart transplant surgeon may be comfortable discussing his work over dinner...that is completely different. It's not just her comfort level with the blood/organs/tissues itself (I get that as I can discuss veterinary procedures all day eating a hamburger )...it's the fact that unlike the heart surgeon who is performing a life saving procedure...she is discussing the best means to kill an infant in order to keep it's parts useful for sale. See the difference? See why context matters? No I think she would come across as callous even without eating. I still find the meal irrelevant. I think it is being overplayed only because people feel so emotional about this topic. Abortion and her attitude is what matters, not her meal.
I didn't have time to read all of the posts, but if you don't get emotional over this topic and feel like it's being overplayed, you are beyond help.....I know there are people out there who can remain emotionless in the face of horrible tragedies, but they aren't the kind I want to know....there's something very cold about your acceptance of the circumstances surrounding this event, and I fear it's the same feeling that is overtaking the country and going to send us down the tubes....
This comment is inappropriate because you failed to read those posts. I never said the woman's attitude was acceptable. I said she would come across that way in any context. I simply said people comments should focus more on the issue of abortion than what the woman was eating.
ETA. The meal was overplayed on the first page. The post has largely corrected itself to the actual issue now which is a much more fruitful discussion.
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oija - 2015-07-16 11:56 AM TrailGirl - 2015-07-16 11:24 AM oija - 2015-07-16 11:03 AM horsesinharleton - 2015-07-16 11:01 AM oija - 2015-07-16 10:52 AM TrailGirl - 2015-07-16 10:35 AM Sorry....I certainly do not see her callous nature as "irrelevant". I didn't say what many will see as callousness as irrelevant. I said her meal was. I don't care if she was sitting down for a meal, what she was eating or drinking, or if she was on a casual trail ride... it was WHAT she said that is the issue with me!! Which is what I was asking people to focus on. Look at the first page and the number of comments on her meal though. The fact that she is talking about this casually over a meal IS relevant. It speaks to her absolute comfort with the topic. While a heart transplant surgeon may be comfortable discussing his work over dinner...that is completely different. It's not just her comfort level with the blood/organs/tissues itself (I get that as I can discuss veterinary procedures all day eating a hamburger )...it's the fact that unlike the heart surgeon who is performing a life saving procedure...she is discussing the best means to kill an infant in order to keep it's parts useful for sale. See the difference? See why context matters? No I think she would come across as callous even without eating. I still find the meal irrelevant. I think it is being overplayed only because people feel so emotional about this topic. Abortion and her attitude is what matters, not her meal.
I didn't have time to read all of the posts, but if you don't get emotional over this topic and feel like it's being overplayed, you are beyond help.....I know there are people out there who can remain emotionless in the face of horrible tragedies, but they aren't the kind I want to know....there's something very cold about your acceptance of the circumstances surrounding this event, and I fear it's the same feeling that is overtaking the country and going to send us down the tubes....
This comment is inappropriate because you failed to read those posts. I never said the woman's attitude was acceptable. I said she would come across that way in any context. I simply said people comments should focus more on the issue of abortion than what the woman was eating.
ETA. The meal was overplayed on the first page. The post has largely corrected itself to the actual issue now which is a much more fruitful discussion.
I always get hungry when I watch documentaries about Auschwitz.
I'm sure we all crave canape's and a fine wine when discussing graphic details of crushing the skull of a squirming, living fetus carefully, so as to eviscerate it with the internal organs intact. After all, this doctor gets to do this every day. My favorite is fava beans and a fine Chianti when I think of things of this sort. I don't understand what this has to do with this topic. | |
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To get away, just a minute, from the overly emotional appeals and prevent a different perspective. This may have been a poor venue choice or not. Most people are more relaxed over a meal. Plenty of pro lifers like to eat salads and drink wine too. Her meal choices have NOTHING to do with this issue. Many of us watch starving children eat on television or watch people eat on sitcoms and somehow this is not disgusting. If this bothers you, it bothers you that someone who is opposed to your point of view treats it more casually or views the life of a child as valuable for other reasons, like saving the life of a child that has already been born, than what you personally think. You would find the topic disgusting no matter what. You just find it disturbing that she can treat it casually enough that she can discuss it while she eats. What she is eating and honestly the fact that she is eating is IRRELEVANT. Many medical professionals, my mother included as she is a nurse, have strong stomachs and can discuss topics over lunch that might turn many of our stomachs. If you want to discuss the issue, then discuss the issue, not her meal.
That being said. The parents with the premature baby born at 28 weeks that they have prayed and wished for may truly appreciate the fact that these organs are there in the first place to save their son or daughter. A life may be lost and another one saved.
Please just remember these points when you are discussing the issue.
Personally I'm not a fan of abortions. I'm a huge major fan of family planning and handing out condoms like its going out of style. But when we discuss these issues we do a disservice not to consider all sides of the issue with some logic, not just emotion, and to separate out the irrelevant bits. We do not want to be like politicians, throwing out red herrings to distract from the central issue. Frankly a video of heart surgery or a heart transplant, especially from a beating heart cadaver, is also disturbing to many people but it saves lives.
Be against this issue because you hate to see a life, any life, cut short. Don't be against it because the doctor is eating and the procedure is hard to look at.
Handing out condoms is a cheap ploy....a ruse. Condoms are cheap.....go out and buy your own condoms. They hand out condoms so people can talk about how wonderful they are. It's a marketing tool. For that matter, I think birth control, in general, ought to be the responsibility of those who decide they need it. Why should hard working taxpayers be expected to provide free birth control? That money would be much better spent educating idiots on basic communication skills like grammar and spelling, because it would benefit society in general. If someone decides they want to have an abortion, that is their right. They are the ones who will have to live with it. They should also be fully aware that they are terminating life. They should be aware that those unborn babies can perceive pain much earlier than once thought. They should also be aware of how abortions are performed, particularly late term abortions. They need to know that the baby squirms and writhes as the baby is crushed, dismembered, mascerated, and pithed. They need to realize that there's a significant chance they will have to deal with the psychological after effects, possibly for a very long time.
What I found to be most disturbing about this video was how the woman callously described the gruesome technical details while eating. If you don't find that at least a little disturbing, then I have to wonder about you.
For 18 years, as part of a transplant team, I participated in organ procurement on organ donors. Even though their hearts were beating and they looked very much alive, they were brain dead. Without fail, the procedure was conducted as a very solemn procedure. Our behavior and conduct in that operating room was dignified and everyone felt gratified that some family was willing to donate the organs of a loved one. It really is a sight to behold, and nothing illustrates the better angels of our nature, as human beings. Deep inside, in a certain way, we also viewed it as a joyous occasion, because we knew the organs we harvested could save countless lives. The family also found consolation in knowing that their loved one was a hero in death to many people. That provided lasting comfort to them, in an otherwise very sad day. This is why I was appalled with the woman in the video. We conducted ourselves with dignity and respect. We didn't play our usual music, and nobody told jokes. We behaved as if we were under the watchful eye of that donor's family. I'll never forget the imagery of a 12 year old boy who was a donor. As I finished removing his heart, I looked over the drapes at his face, and over at his arm on the IV board. He had fallen out of a treehouse earlier that day. He still had Popsicle stains around his pink lips. He had a bandaid on his hand from a scrape he sustained probably several days earlier. He still had a washable bubblegum tattoo of a cartoon figure on his forearm. He was someone's pride and joy and very much loved. I later met the family and witnessed their joy and sadness at the same time, something a person can find hard to comprehend......until it happens to them.
I would never ever allow a doctor this cold and calloused in my operating room. She wouldn't understand.....she wouldn't fit in.
To the person who can't afford a box of condoms and probably can't afford a kid either or treatment for STDs, that condom may make a real difference. Better a condom than an abortion, cheaper too. And marketing can work. We all became convinced we needed diamond engagement rings because of marketing, silly as that may be. If marketing can make someone use a condom then hallelujah. Taxpayers paying for biirth control is a completely different issue. I never said anything about the government needing to fund it. Private groups can hand these out as easily as public ones.
I totally agree on the point that we should treat any of these issues and any lives connected with them with dignity and respect. I just firmly believe that whether she were eating or not that people who disagree with her views are going to see her as callous due to her tone of voice and opinions. I believe that she has given herself some emotional distance from this procedure as a survival skill and this comes across; it would come across in any context. I think it is more pertinent to talk about the issue and the procedure than her meal.
When we simply attack her as completely disgusting we are engaging in an ad hominem attack, criticizing the person and not the issue. She is not disgusting though her attitude may be. She is a fully developed human being who believes that what she is doing helps other people. Anyone has the right to disagree with her. Don't attack the person, attack the problem. Hate the sin, love the sinner.
We should not dehumanize her and talk about her like she is an animal at a trough with no human feeling anymore than she should appear to dehumanize the lives of the children that are lost through abortion. She would talk about the technical details the same in any context though I am convinced and seem cold thus I still firmly believe that the meal is irrelevant.
She IS disgusting. She doesn't give a single intercourse about those murdered babies or their mothers. She's a greedy, selfish , sick, twisted tnuc and she puts Mengele to shame. "planned parenthood" is as bad as isis. | |
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      Location: Arkansas | Bear - 2015-07-16 11:55 AM
oija - 2015-07-16 10:31 AM
To get away, just a minute, from the overly emotional appeals and prevent a different perspective. This may have been a poor venue choice or not. Most people are more relaxed over a meal. Plenty of pro lifers like to eat salads and drink wine too. Her meal choices have NOTHING to do with this issue. Many of us watch starving children eat on television or watch people eat on sitcoms and somehow this is not disgusting. If this bothers you, it bothers you that someone who is opposed to your point of view treats it more casually or views the life of a child as valuable for other reasons, like saving the life of a child that has already been born, than what you personally think. You would find the topic disgusting no matter what. You just find it disturbing that she can treat it casually enough that she can discuss it while she eats. What she is eating and honestly the fact that she is eating is IRRELEVANT. Many medical professionals, my mother included as she is a nurse, have strong stomachs and can discuss topics over lunch that might turn many of our stomachs. If you want to discuss the issue, then discuss the issue, not her meal.
That being said. The parents with the premature baby born at 28 weeks that they have prayed and wished for may truly appreciate the fact that these organs are there in the first place to save their son or daughter. A life may be lost and another one saved.
Please just remember these points when you are discussing the issue.
Personally I'm not a fan of abortions. I'm a huge major fan of family planning and handing out condoms like its going out of style. But when we discuss these issues we do a disservice not to consider all sides of the issue with some logic, not just emotion, and to separate out the irrelevant bits. We do not want to be like politicians, throwing out red herrings to distract from the central issue. Frankly a video of heart surgery or a heart transplant, especially from a beating heart cadaver, is also disturbing to many people but it saves lives.
Be against this issue because you hate to see a life, any life, cut short. Don't be against it because the doctor is eating and the procedure is hard to look at.
Handing out condoms is a cheap ploy....a ruse. Condoms are cheap.....go out and buy your own condoms. They hand out condoms so people can talk about how wonderful they are. It's a marketing tool. For that matter, I think birth control, in general, ought to be the responsibility of those who decide they need it. Why should hard working taxpayers be expected to provide free birth control? That money would be much better spent educating idiots on basic communication skills like grammar and spelling, because it would benefit society in general. If someone decides they want to have an abortion, that is their right. They are the ones who will have to live with it. They should also be fully aware that they are terminating life. They should be aware that those unborn babies can perceive pain much earlier than once thought. They should also be aware of how abortions are performed, particularly late term abortions. They need to know that the baby squirms and writhes as the baby is crushed, dismembered, mascerated, and pithed. They need to realize that there's a significant chance they will have to deal with the psychological after effects, possibly for a very long time.
What I found to be most disturbing about this video was how the woman callously described the gruesome technical details while eating. If you don't find that at least a little disturbing, then I have to wonder about you.
For 18 years, as part of a transplant team, I participated in organ procurement on organ donors. Even though their hearts were beating and they looked very much alive, they were brain dead. Without fail, the procedure was conducted as a very solemn procedure. Our behavior and conduct in that operating room was dignified and everyone felt gratified that some family was willing to donate the organs of a loved one. It really is a sight to behold, and nothing illustrates the better angels of our nature, as human beings. Deep inside, in a certain way, we also viewed it as a joyous occasion, because we knew the organs we harvested could save countless lives. The family also found consolation in knowing that their loved one was a hero in death to many people. That provided lasting comfort to them, in an otherwise very sad day. This is why I was appalled with the woman in the video. We conducted ourselves with dignity and respect. We didn't play our usual music, and nobody told jokes. We behaved as if we were under the watchful eye of that donor's family. I'll never forget the imagery of a 12 year old boy who was a donor. As I finished removing his heart, I looked over the drapes at his face, and over at his arm on the IV board. He had fallen out of a treehouse earlier that day. He still had Popsicle stains around his pink lips. He had a bandaid on his hand from a scrape he sustained probably several days earlier. He still had a washable bubblegum tattoo of a cartoon figure on his forearm. He was someone's pride and joy and very much loved. I later met the family and witnessed their joy and sadness at the same time, something a person can find hard to comprehend......until it happens to them.
I would never ever allow a doctor this cold and calloused in my operating room. She wouldn't understand.....she wouldn't fit in.
This brought tears to my eyes. . . . What a horrible situation for those parents, but what a blessing that you and your team were the respectful professionals that still cared about their baby at the end. | |
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    Location: Colorado | Bear - 2015-07-16 11:55 AM oija - 2015-07-16 10:31 AM To get away, just a minute, from the overly emotional appeals and prevent a different perspective. This may have been a poor venue choice or not. Most people are more relaxed over a meal. Plenty of pro lifers like to eat salads and drink wine too. Her meal choices have NOTHING to do with this issue. Many of us watch starving children eat on television or watch people eat on sitcoms and somehow this is not disgusting. If this bothers you, it bothers you that someone who is opposed to your point of view treats it more casually or views the life of a child as valuable for other reasons, like saving the life of a child that has already been born, than what you personally think. You would find the topic disgusting no matter what. You just find it disturbing that she can treat it casually enough that she can discuss it while she eats. What she is eating and honestly the fact that she is eating is IRRELEVANT. Many medical professionals, my mother included as she is a nurse, have strong stomachs and can discuss topics over lunch that might turn many of our stomachs. If you want to discuss the issue, then discuss the issue, not her meal. That being said. The parents with the premature baby born at 28 weeks that they have prayed and wished for may truly appreciate the fact that these organs are there in the first place to save their son or daughter. A life may be lost and another one saved. Please just remember these points when you are discussing the issue. Personally I'm not a fan of abortions. I'm a huge major fan of family planning and handing out condoms like its going out of style. But when we discuss these issues we do a disservice not to consider all sides of the issue with some logic, not just emotion, and to separate out the irrelevant bits. We do not want to be like politicians, throwing out red herrings to distract from the central issue. Frankly a video of heart surgery or a heart transplant, especially from a beating heart cadaver, is also disturbing to many people but it saves lives. Be against this issue because you hate to see a life, any life, cut short. Don't be against it because the doctor is eating and the procedure is hard to look at. Handing out condoms is a cheap ploy....a ruse. Condoms are cheap.....go out and buy your own condoms. They hand out condoms so people can talk about how wonderful they are. It's a marketing tool. For that matter, I think birth control, in general, ought to be the responsibility of those who decide they need it. Why should hard working taxpayers be expected to provide free birth control? That money would be much better spent educating idiots on basic communication skills like grammar and spelling, because it would benefit society in general. If someone decides they want to have an abortion, that is their right. They are the ones who will have to live with it. They should also be fully aware that they are terminating life. They should be aware that those unborn babies can perceive pain much earlier than once thought. They should also be aware of how abortions are performed, particularly late term abortions. They need to know that the baby squirms and writhes as the baby is crushed, dismembered, mascerated, and pithed. They need to realize that there's a significant chance they will have to deal with the psychological after effects, possibly for a very long time. What I found to be most disturbing about this video was how the woman callously described the gruesome technical details while eating. If you don't find that at least a little disturbing, then I have to wonder about you. For 18 years, as part of a transplant team, I participated in organ procurement on organ donors. Even though their hearts were beating and they looked very much alive, they were brain dead. Without fail, the procedure was conducted as a very solemn procedure. Our behavior and conduct in that operating room was dignified and everyone felt gratified that some family was willing to donate the organs of a loved one. It really is a sight to behold, and nothing illustrates the better angels of our nature, as human beings. Deep inside, in a certain way, we also viewed it as a joyous occasion, because we knew the organs we harvested could save countless lives. The family also found consolation in knowing that their loved one was a hero in death to many people. That provided lasting comfort to them, in an otherwise very sad day. This is why I was appalled with the woman in the video. We conducted ourselves with dignity and respect. We didn't play our usual music, and nobody told jokes. We behaved as if we were under the watchful eye of that donor's family. I'll never forget the imagery of a 12 year old boy who was a donor. As I finished removing his heart, I looked over the drapes at his face, and over at his arm on the IV board. He had fallen out of a treehouse earlier that day. He still had Popsicle stains around his pink lips. He had a bandaid on his hand from a scrape he sustained probably several days earlier. He still had a washable bubblegum tattoo of a cartoon figure on his forearm. He was someone's pride and joy and very much loved. I later met the family and witnessed their joy and sadness at the same time, something a person can find hard to comprehend......until it happens to them. I would never ever allow a doctor this cold and calloused in my operating room. She wouldn't understand.....she wouldn't fit in.
Read about the Colorado's Family Planning Initiative. Make sure and read the part where not only teen age pregnancy went Down but abortions dropped as well. Education and low cost or free birth control is a good thing!
If as a Nation we decide to force all pregnancies to term then we better be ready to do right by those children. As long as there is ONE child that goes to bed hungry, cold, in an unsafe enviorment we are no better than any third world country.
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          Location: Bastrop, Texas | Karen, I notice you didn't comment on the original topic. I find that telling.
Of all the aspects of this thread to comment on, you choose the most benign.....free condoms. If planned parenthood or anyone else wants to hand out free condoms, then fine with me. Just because it's a good thing doesn't mean taxpayers should have to pitch in $500 Million to finance these extermination camps. In the minds of a great many Americans, That's exactly what Planned Parenthood is......death camps for unborn children. The Nazi's did the same thing in WWII when they disguised Theresienstadt as some sort of idyllic spa for the purposes of public relations, when in reality it was a holding camp until victims could be shipped out for processing in death camps.....just like PP uses free birth control as some magnanimous ruse to whitewash their diabolical practice of processing exterminated babies with completely formed organs, which they sell.
Handing out free condoms is a cheap ploy so idiots can try convincing taxpayers that handing over half a billion dollars is some good "investment".
Condoms cost less than a can of Pepsi, or a Snickers bar. Everyone can afford a condom in today's world. Planned Parenthood can stand on their own, without taxpayer funding. Liberals such as yourself can donate as much to PP as they want. We give them hundreds of millions, and they turn around and funnel money to Democrat politicians. If you don't believe that, I have a nice bridge I can sell you in Brooklyn for an excellent price.
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    Location: Colorado | Doc, I have no doubt you were a great surg. but your psych skills suck.
The information I offered proves that education and low to no cost Birth Control works.
Please feel free to rail on about Nazi's and free condoms. Others are working to actually solve the problem.
I am off to help at a low cost Rabies clinic and then help some kids get ready for fair. Things I consider much more important than playing here.
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          Location: Bastrop, Texas | Stitch4k9 - 2015-07-18 10:51 AM
Doc, I have no doubt you were a great surg. but your psych skills suck.
The information I offered proves that education and low to no cost Birth Control works.
Please feel free to rail on about Nazi's and free condoms. Others are working to actually solve the problem.
I am off to help at a low cost Rabies clinic and then help some kids get ready for fair. Things I consider much more important than playing here.
karen
Karen, thank you for the personal insult. I'll consider the source and take it as a compliment. When you say "others are working to solve the problem", what "problem" are you talking about? The primary reason for my starting this thread was not to target free birth control. Nope....it was to target Planned Parenthood's operations.....particularly their gruesome late term abortion practices. You cherry picked a comparatively innocent, benign practice of handing out free condoms and other free birth control measures.
The fact that you say I suck as a psychiatrist tells me you can't engage in the topic. Losers typically resort to name calling, as they slink away.
My understanding is the "Colorado Family Planning Initiative" is privately funded....gasp! Thank you for bolstering my contention that PP can survive with private funding.
My apologies to the Nazi's for suggesting what they did to babies was on the same level as as what PP is doing. PP is much more cunning and skilled at concealing their own ongoing holocaust.
Anyway, Karen, I apologize for my inability to meet your psychiatric needs.
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| How anybody can justify late term abortions is beyond my scope of understanding. The fact that the babies head remains in the birth canal while they are pierced with a scalpel is so barbaric there are no words for it. It is such a technicality that the "baby has not been birthed and therefore not considered a human and not afforded therights as a birthed baby'. Deliver the baby a few more inches and you have a human. Those who are willing to sacrifice these babies for fear making late term abortions will lead to more restrictions need to google and watch one of these procedures. PP can definitely survive through private funding. I would support any organization that focuses on education and birth control, no group who performs abortions would get a dime of my money. I am pro choice with restrictions but don't ask me to pay for it. | |
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                    Location: In the Hills of Texas | This thread is about late term abortions and I know many aren't against early term abortions and if a mother has to wait until she is 17 weeks or longer to decide to terminate, she indeed needs a pysch test.
As far as a third world country, come down to southern Texas, we are already there and it has nothing to do with abortions, it's about all the illegals crossing our border and then you have lib cities like Detroit, Chicago and Baltimore where Libs have created their false utopias where people are taken care of by our government. You can't keep giving people stuff without teaching them how to make money to buy their own stuff. You can't continue to throw money at these problems. If a kid has no structure from the home, how can they have any structure in society? Where having illegitimate children is awarded by more welfare dollars, how do you expect these people to stop having them? Just like middle America has taught their children to work hard and make something of themselves, the lib ghettos continue to teach women to lay on their backs with numerous men and have illegitimate children to get more money. Don't even think of getting married and have a real family as the government dollars stop.
I believe in helping people that really need help, not the people that have been taught by generations before them to work the system and complain how whitey enslaved some of them over a hundred years ago, but be in denial that blacks are the ones that sold slaves to whitey and blacks.
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   Location: SE Louisiana | Three percent of all Planned Parenthood health services are abortion services. They have done a lot of good over the years and I don't think we should trash the whole program because of this. I believe simply denying them the ability to perform abortions will fix this without denying the rest of the services to the poor. | |
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          Location: Bastrop, Texas | komet. - 2015-07-18 1:49 PM
Three percent of all Planned Parenthood health services are abortion services. They have done a lot of good over the years and I don't think we should trash the whole program because of this. I believe simply denying them the ability to perform abortions will fix this without denying the rest of the services to the poor.
Nobody is suggesting PP should be trashed. A LOT of taxpayers are saying they shouldn't be financed by taxpayer funds.
The "3%" number is misleading. In 2006, PP performed about 300,000 abortions, including 10,000 late term abortions. It's the late term abortions that most people find especially revolting.....particularly when they are backed by tax dollars. PP can fund themselves. Let liberals fund their own death houses. PP is nothing more than a political arm of the Democrat party. In fact, PP donates money to Democrat politicians....while we fund them.
Most Americans are repulsed by late term abortions, including quite a number of Democrats. How we, as a society, can turn a blind eye to this kind of barbarism for convenience boggles my mind. | |
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      Location: Arkansas | Nevertooold - 2015-07-18 12:59 PM
This thread is about late term abortions and I know many aren't against early term abortions and if a mother has to wait until she is 17 weeks or longer to decide to terminate, she indeed needs a pysch test.
As far as a third world country, come down to southern Texas, we are already there and it has nothing to do with abortions, it's about all the illegals crossing our border and then you have lib cities like Detroit, Chicago and Baltimore where Libs have created their false utopias where people are taken care of by our government. You can't keep giving people stuff without teaching them how to make money to buy their own stuff. You can't continue to throw money at these problems. If a kid has no structure from the home, how can they have any structure in society? Where having illegitimate children is awarded by more welfare dollars, how do you expect these people to stop having them? Just like middle America has taught their children to work hard and make something of themselves, the lib ghettos continue to teach women to lay on their backs with numerous men and have illegitimate children to get more money. Don't even think of getting married and have a real family as the government dollars stop.
I believe in helping people that really need help, not the people that have been taught by generations before them to work the system and complain how whitey enslaved some of them over a hundred years ago, but be in denial that blacks are the ones that sold slaves to whitey and blacks.
You would be shocked, or maybe not (!!) at some of the abuses I see during tax season. Live together but don't marry cause then you can't use two different addresses and each claim the max number of kids to get the most earned income credit by each of you filing head of household. Let Grandma claim some of the kids since you have over the max number to get EIC on that way she can get some EIC too if she works. Or rent out the kids SS numbers to other people so they get EIC----and give you a kickback of course. Also have people who know just how much money to make for the year in order to get max refund. Then they quit!!!! I even had a Hispanic couple this year all gung ho to get their taxes filed early cause they were claiming one of their daughter's FIVE children and wanted the big bucks refund. When I informed them they had to have EARNED income to get EIC and they did not, they were upset and I didn't hear back from them until last week!!! Lastly, had someone fuss last year because they ONLY got back 6500 and the year before it was 8000----90% was EIC and child tax credit. . . . Money they didn't pay in but expected back from other taxpayer's money. Appalling | |
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          Location: Bastrop, Texas | You might have to C&P this link, but it's well worth it......Senator Langfords message before the senate. If this doesn't tug at your heartstrings, I have to wonder about you. I wonder what stitch4k9 has to say about this?
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