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Location: Somewhere around here | Little bit of a rant/pet peeve/vent thread. Sorry in advance.
I don't know about everyone else but I severely dislike it when I'm contacting someone who is selling their horse and they use "lazy wording", basically texting like they are 12 years old. I mean, it's just unprofessional and makes me turn away quicker.
Also, why do some people choose to answer certain questions about their horse and ignore the others? I want to know everything about your horse, not just a sentence. Send me a whole article if you can!
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Location: Under The Big Sky Of Texas | Dont text call the person that owns the horse and talk to them in person, to me if someone texts then their not that interested. |
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Location: Displaced Iowegian | hoofs_in_motion - 2016-06-08 11:27 AM
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Location: Peg-Leg Julia Grimm | Southtxponygirl - 2016-06-08 9:37 AM
Dont text call the person that owns the horse and talk to them in person, to me if someone texts then their not that interested.
Some people like to talk on the phone, I like to get everything in writing. I re-read what they asked and try to make sure I answer every question. I like to have everything in writing so when someone comes back months later and says I told them xxx I can go back and read the conversation again. Trust me it's happened.
To the OP. When you don't get answers to your questions, ask again or move on to the next horse. My biggest pet peeve about trying to buy a horse is terrible pictures. In this day when we all sell and buy on the internet, pictures are almost everything. |
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Location: sunny california | Southtxponygirl - 2016-06-08 9:37 AM Dont text call the person that owns the horse and talk to them in person, to me if someone texts then their not that interested.
i don't mind calling when interested but would rather have text for the answers to questions. that way there is no misunderstandings on what was asked or answered. I also find that people are less likely to lie on written responses. that is why many questions are left unanswered. they read all the questions but only answered the ones they felt comfortable in answering. |
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Location: Not Where I Want to Be | Southtxponygirl - 2016-06-08 12:37 PM Dont text call the person that owns the horse and talk to them in person, to me if someone texts then their not that interested.
winner,
the op's rant could/should be about their own lazyness, not the responders.
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Location: Under The Big Sky Of Texas | OregonBR - 2016-06-08 11:55 AM Southtxponygirl - 2016-06-08 9:37 AM Dont text call the person that owns the horse and talk to them in person, to me if someone texts then their not that interested. Some people like to talk on the phone, I like to get everything in writing. I re-read what they asked and try to make sure I answer every question. I like to have everything in writing so when someone comes back months later and says I told them xxx I can go back and read the conversation again. Trust me it's happened. To the OP. When you don't get answers to your questions, ask again or move on to the next horse. My biggest pet peeve about trying to buy a horse is terrible pictures. In this day when we all sell and buy on the internet, pictures are almost everything.
I would rather ask questions in person so you can get the right answers and not have any misunderstanding, and if you are still interested then get it in writing or text, or how ever you like it.  |
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Location: Texas | I have to say on the defense of texting... I'm where I can respond to a text (because they are linked to my computer) and an email pretty quickly, but if you are wanting a phone call it will be several hours wait.
So, it doesn't bother me when people contact me in whatever form. What does bother me is when they don't introduce themselves and I get a random text from someone and I'm supposed to know who it is..
Honestly I guess I'm pretty low maintenance. I don't mind interest/inquiries about my horses, I don't mind repeating myself, and I let the tire kickers roll off my back. It's like fishing.. nibbles are nibbles and all you need is one good bite. |
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Location: Oklahoma | As a long time seller, I can tell you that I HATE getting texts about a horse I have for sale. Although I CAN text (it's a necessity in today's world), it's hard and laboriously slow for me, as I am 64 and don't often do it. I would MUCH rather type, and I am much better at it. If you want everything in writing, then PLEASE email me. I will answer every question quickly and at length, but if I'm texting, I may forget some, as I can't see the original text when I'm answering. I, too, don't consider a text a valid inquiry most of the time. I dismiss it as a kid. The email address is right there on the ad, so if you choose a written inquiry on any of my horses for sale, please email rather than text. |
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| As a buyer, It depends on the situation for me. If I am really interested in something and think its such a good deal it wont last long, then I call as soon as I can. But if its more of a feel out the situation first then I will either txt or email. Sometimes if i think it may be a good fit but not sure, I will just ask for more info with the email or txt that way I dont have to "bother" the seller if I think it isnt what I was looking for.
As a seller, i will answer questions any way I get them, but I have discovered, the people that email me, never are truely interested, its the way of the present day tire kicker it seems.
The only thing that irks me is when people call and say, "Can you tell me about the horse?" Um did you read the article?? I put every valuable piece of info in there so what do you want to know specifically?? And then they ask me something that was in the article. AT THE TOP! lol |
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Location: Canada | I will often send a text asking if a horse is still available and if so I'll let the buyer know that I'm sending them an email. This way I know the horse IS still for sale, the buyer is aware that someone is interested, and they are expecting an email.
I would not ask much more then that by text message.
If someone is ignoring a question about their horse there is usually sometime to hide. What they're hiding may be small or major but requires additional research on behalf of the buyer. |
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Location: Texas | I bought one solely communicating via FB messenger until I actually got to their place. She was an awesome buy too <3 |
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| I think I have bought 2 horses by solely txt and was happy with both purchases lol
eta: If the seller clearly states in their add, contact by calling only, then thats what I do.
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Location: Peg-Leg Julia Grimm | dianeguinn - 2016-06-08 10:21 AM
As a long time seller, I can tell you that I HATE getting texts about a horse I have for sale. Although I CAN text (it's a necessity in today's world), it's hard and laboriously slow for me, as I am 64 and don't often do it. I would MUCH rather type, and I am much better at it. If you want everything in writing, then PLEASE email me. I will answer every question quickly and at length, but if I'm texting, I may forget some, as I can't see the original text when I'm answering. I, too, don't consider a text a valid inquiry most of the time. I dismiss it as a kid. The email address is right there on the ad, so if you choose a written inquiry on any of my horses for sale, please email rather than text.
I guess I should have been more specific. I too hate to text. My phone is a flip phone and I don't text or the same reasons Diane doesn't. I like to get messages via facebook the most. Email next. I often don't answer calls when I don't know the numbers because of telemarketing BS. So there you go.
The reason is this. I work all day and I'm not suppose to get or make personal phone calls. When I leave work I'm in my car on may way home. It's against the law to talk on the phone while driving. Next I grab something to eat and I go outside to start my evening chores. It's hard to fit a time when it's convenient or both people to talk. So I either have to call them or we message. Messaging is the easiest for me. Sorry. I'm a busy person. |
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| I just sold one and went through this. If I got a text and had a feeling it was a 14 yr old who couldn't actually buy the horse, I'd suggest calling me after xx time and we could talk, that is still be happy to put everything down in writing but that since I'm often driving for a job a phone call would be easier. Not a single tire kicker called.
The initial conversation that led to the sale started on FB messenger. She set up a time to come seen in within the first conversation.
You don't need a million buyers, just 1. |
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Location: Deep South | Those who believe the only serious buyers are those who are picking up the phone and calling are missing out on sales.
I've sold several horses recently by communicating exclusively through text/FB messenger. Never once heard the buyers voice.
It is the millennial generation's preferred method of communication and it's going to become more and more common as we are all reaching the age where we have decent jobs and are buying our own stuff. |
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| BamaCanChaser - 2016-06-08 3:21 PM
Those who believe the only serious buyers are those who are picking up the phone and calling are missing out on sales.
I've sold several horses recently by communicating exclusively through text/FB messenger. Never once heard the buyers voice.
It is the millennial generation's preferred method of communication and it's going to become more and more common as we are all reaching the age where we have decent jobs and are buying our own stuff.
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Location: south central usa | I only call - you can glean so much more info by talking to the sellers as they may bring up something that they may forget about while typing...you can also gauge their answers by their tone/behavior. |
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Location: Sweet Home Alabama | This is why I always call about something (animal, saddle, etc) I'm interested in. And you get a genuine response to your questions. Like if they're kinda hesitant or don't know the answer to my question, then I start mentally talking myself out of buying it. Imo, people who call seem like more serious buyers. And I don't have time to write out a novel through text, you'd be better to call and let me Bluetooth and continue what I'm doing. But I drive for a living so maybe that's why I'm like this |
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Location: Some where I haven't left yet | As someone who has 90 unread text messages (no, really ... there are 90) Don't text me... Ever, if you want a response. Call me. I run a business and work 32+ hours a week at a different job. No time to type into my phone. If I'm interested in buying something, I'll call. Period. |
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| My name in real life is Tia Chandler. Please do me a favor and if I ever list a horse for sale don't call, don't text and don't email me. I really don't think I will be raising horses for the public ever again due to life changes, but please avoid me if I do. The thought of turning one of mt babies over to someone so in need of validation is not one I care to contemplate. |
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| I like contacting via email first so I can ask ALL of my questions and hopefully get a written response so they have plenty time to answer all my questions (very few do). That email they send is proof in court what they claimed the horse is, if it turns out it is not. I could write a book on this. I have a bigger problem with a broker/rep advertising a horse on here for $20,000 that has NO verifiable stats on the internet anywhere and when I asked them to provide some, 2 wks later they still furnished nothing. Not even a backyard jackpot where this horse has ran. I believe it has but it is not that hard to list SOMEWHERE this horse has ran. Then the same broker makes zero effort to make the horse available to try. I doubt the horse owner would be happy to know their broker is doing everything to avoid selling the horse for whatever reason. I asked when THEY were running the horse somewhere, no answer to that either. Hmmm. Moved on. They just missed a sell. |
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Location: Florida.. | cecollins0811 - 2016-06-08 12:24 PM Little bit of a rant/pet peeve/vent thread. Sorry in advance. I don't know about everyone else but I severely dislike it when I'm contacting someone who is selling their horse and they use "lazy wording", basically texting like they are 12 years old. I mean, it's just unprofessional and makes me turn away quicker. Also, why do some people choose to answer certain questions about their horse and ignore the others? I want to know everything about your horse, not just a sentence. Send me a whole article if you can!
I would not answer any texts regarding a horse I have for sale.. call me or email ...Id rather talk on phone therefore I can get a feel of exactly what your wanting and if you have the knowledge and what level etc.. |
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Location: NW. Florida | I guess people selling should list what kind of comunication they have time for. I've been helping a friend look for something for his daughter and I can't tell you how many I've contacted and would not reply back. We were looking in the $20 to $30,000 price range. You would think, if folks had something to sell for that kind of money they would return an email. Luckily Jim and Stacy Warner will return a email, we got to meet extremely nice people, and with a we left with a very nice one. |
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| On the flip side, what about potential buyers that make you want to pull your hair out............ Had a lady message me through Facebook on saturday about my mare. Asked for videos, verifiable results, pictures, etc. Normal stuff that I would expect. But then starts asking random questions. Is she smooth? I told her come try her and decide. One persons smooth is another ones rough. Just random off the wall questions I kept getting. Never called me, would only message me. Then at 2am yesterday I receive a message asking if she is broke.... Yes a mare that is 1D-2D..... is she broke? I have had it with this woman. I told her that I sent her plenty of videos showing that the mare is a finished barrel horse. I dont know what she meant by broke but that she could call me with any further questions or to set up a time to try her.
I have yet to hear anything back.
You may be tired of sellers, but Im tired of flaky, set an appointment and dont keep it buyers. |
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Location: Arkansas | I don't sell horses for a living, but on the occasion that I do sell one, I communicate however the customer (buyer) wants. Phone/text/email/facebook/carrier pigeon--doesn't matter to me! I've sold via all written communication, and I've had people repeatedly waste my time on the phone. When I am buying, I will usually send an initial email if I have a few easy questions that will determine if I am interested in the horse. If I know by the ad I am interested (or if the seller requests calls only), I call right off the bat.
My pet peeve is when people ask if I will take less when the ad states "PRICE IS FIRM". If it doesn't state that, I dont mind someone telling me "my budget is $XXXX, is that something you can work with?" |
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Location: Oklahoma | I always respond to inquiries - via FB; Text; Email; phone call. I prefer after a few messages to have a phone call to discuss things and the phone call is easily followed up with more messages (via text, email, etc.) Once a purchase is made, I even email an "Owners Manual" of a history on the horse purchased. Has always worked well for me. I have owners that have owned the horses purchased from me for 15+ years and return to purchase another one when the horse is nearing retirement. I also get referral and repeat customers by the right buyer getting the horse. The best sales have been buyers that go with their gut. If the horse "talks" to them and they just know they want it - I quiz buyers more than they quiz me to confirm that is the right fit.
I sell a lot more horses for clients than personal horses. Closet Collector. LOL
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| If you are only accepting phone calls from buyers... then you wont be getting any $$$ from me. 
I purchase solely through email & fb messenger.
#1 I do not like talking on the phone.
#2 I have written communication I can refer back to if needed.
As a seller, I will call/text/social media message. But I STILL prefer email. :) |
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Location: Stuck in a cubicle having tropical thoughts | Southtxponygirl - 2016-06-08 12:37 PM Dont text call the person that owns the horse and talk to them in person, to me if someone texts then their not that interested.
I don't agree with this. I sold a mare last year and the only communication I had with the buyer was through text. I answered all questions, sent photos, links to you tube videos and set up a date to try the mare all through text. They came from 4 hours away from another state. THen they made an offer and did negotitaion all through text. Came back 2 weeks late and brought cash and bought the mare. Now, this wasn't a $20K plus horse but it also wasn't a $1500 horse.
I also sold a gelding a few years back, who had a medical issue with his eye all through email with a 16YO girl. She showed up with her parents and grandma and cash in hand from 2 states away and took him home.
I never had a phone conversation with either buyer.
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Location: TEXAS | dianeguinn - 2016-06-08 12:21 PM As a long time seller, I can tell you that I HATE getting texts about a horse I have for sale. Although I CAN text (it's a necessity in today's world), it's hard and laboriously slow for me, as I am 64 and don't often do it. I would MUCH rather type, and I am much better at it. If you want everything in writing, then PLEASE email me. I will answer every question quickly and at length, but if I'm texting, I may forget some, as I can't see the original text when I'm answering. I, too, don't consider a text a valid inquiry most of the time. I dismiss it as a kid. The email address is right there on the ad, so if you choose a written inquiry on any of my horses for sale, please email rather than text.
I agree with you Dianne |
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