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Why be rude Mr. Seller? Why?
chasendacash
Reg. Oct 2008
Posted 2018-04-10 11:27 PM
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I responded to an ad on here and got this response today:  Lolol that list of **** makes me laugh..... Whose got time to answer that crap or ask that many useless questions?

I've bought 9 horses in the last 13 years and 7 of those were from online ads.  My initial contact is to the email listed in the ad with things I'd like to know about the horse if it's not included in the ad info.  I include my phone number and ask them to respond any way they prefer, at their convenience.  This way the seller can answer in the way they prefer and I am not interrupting them.  Most sellers respond right away and get the conversation started.  Not this guy!  Guess who I'm not buying a horse from!  

?edited because I shouldn't have been typing, talking to hubs and doing math at the same time...  :(

 

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barrelracinbroke
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Posted 2018-04-11 12:23 AM
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chasendacash - 2018-04-10 9:27 PM I responded to an ad on here and got this response today:  Lolol that list of **** makes me laugh..... Whose got time to answer that crap or ask that many useless questions?



I've bought 9 horses in the last 13 years and 10 of those were from online ads.  My initial contact is to the email listed in the ad with things I'd like to know about the horse if it's not included in the ad info.  I include my phone number and ask them to respond any way they prefer, at their convenience.  This way the seller can answer in the way they prefer and I am not interrupting them.  Most sellers respond right away and get the conversation started.  Not this guy!  Guess who I'm not buying a horse from!  

 

Math isn't my favorite subject but........

And in response to your question, I'm sorry you were treated poorly. I see both sides. At times, the questions from tire kickers are mundane and go nowhere (this is why I rarely sell horses) but, it sounds like your approach would be a welcome change to that if that was the case.
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OhMax
Reg. Feb 2013
Posted 2018-04-11 7:05 AM
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Sounds like they don’t really want to sell a horse.

Don’t get me wrong, playing 100 questions with 100 different people is my least favorite part of selling horses, but that’s part of it. I try not to do it when I buy, if the horse is local we usually just go look, but I’m not going to drive hours either without a few questions...
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cecollins0811
Reg. Aug 2013
Posted 2018-04-11 7:37 AM
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Wow, ive sold a few houses before and sure tire kickers are not what I want BUT I'd never but that as a response. Sounds like some spoiled teen or young 20s girl that wants someone wish cash in hand and no questions asked.
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3canstorun
Reg. May 2007
Posted 2018-04-11 7:42 AM
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One of the worst things BHW did with the ads is not require a name anymore.  There are some people you just don't want to deal with and having the name/contact listed sure would save a lot of time.  Yes, I know, people use brokers - but brokers also have a reputation.   
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Reg. Dec 2007
Posted 2018-04-11 7:59 AM
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cecollins0811 - 2018-04-11 7:37 AM Wow, ive sold a few houses before and sure tire kickers are not what I want BUT I'd never but that as a response. Sounds like some spoiled teen or young 20s girl that wants someone wish cash in hand and no questions asked.

 Why even take the time to respond if they didn’t want to answer the questions???  
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1DSoon
Reg. May 2009
Posted 2018-04-11 8:08 AM
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 Seems pretty rude and not very customer centric


but there is a slight possiblity that the list was over the top


it's unlikely but possible. 


 
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Herbie
Reg. Oct 2003
Posted 2018-04-11 9:09 AM
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You should have just responded.....'First of all, it's "who's" a$$hole!'  It doesn't matter how mundane the question may be, when selling horses, saddles, or anything else, you have to know you are going to get some questions that are repetitive and that you may think are silly, but they're important to the potential buyer, whether they're kicking tires or not.  You never know who is a serious buyer or not, so as a seller, all should be treated the same. 

Now, I can understand a rude response to a super low ball offer or someone putting down the item or animal you're selling to try to get the price lowered, but to respond in that manner to an opening inquiry is ridiculous!   
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treasurehunter
Reg. Sep 2007
Posted 2018-04-11 9:24 AM
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I hate that you were treated this way. Whenever I have a horse for sale it is extremely important that every base gets covered and every question has an answer. First, I care about my ponies therefore I want them to end up in the hands of someone the horse fits. I also care about the purchaser and their safety, comfort, and being happy with their purchase as is my ultimate goal. I also understand as I’ve taken a lot of wasted trips to go look at horses that I was not given all the details. So.... I ask lots of questions. Sometimes it’s a digging expedition because some sellers aren’t very forthcoming.
I would rather someone ask me 50 questions than have to spend the gas and time to drive 5 hours only to find the horse did not suit them.
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Reg. Dec 2008
Posted 2018-04-11 9:42 AM
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chasendacash - 2018-04-10 11:27 PM

I responded to an ad on here and got this response today:  Lolol that list of **** makes me laugh..... Whose got time to answer that crap or ask that many useless questions?

I've bought 9 horses in the last 13 years and 7 of those were from online ads.  My initial contact is to the email listed in the ad with things I'd like to know about the horse if it's not included in the ad info.  I include my phone number and ask them to respond any way they prefer, at their convenience.  This way the seller can answer in the way they prefer and I am not interrupting them.  Most sellers respond right away and get the conversation started.  Not this guy!  Guess who I'm not buying a horse from!  

?edited because I shouldn't have been typing, talking to hubs and doing math at the same time...  :(

 

There is no reason to be rude but I'd be interested to see the list you asked for. I would laugh if you said "does it bathe" does it allow fly spray" does it wear boots" etc those are questions you can ask way later or find out on your own.
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Southtxponygirl
Reg. Nov 2006
Posted 2018-04-11 9:53 AM
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Wow you buy alot of horses lol..I think maybe in the last 13 years I have gotton one horse added to my little herd out here. LOL but always looking for another one that will knock my socks off someday again. I would love to know who this Jack wagon was that sends rude response's.. So I guess your considered a tire kicked now, ha ha ha ha..Some people just dont have what it takes to just be nice to a stranger.. Sorry that this happen to you,, Maybe you hit a nerve with a question or two and he was trying to hid something, hummmmm 
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hoofs_in_motion
Reg. Apr 2011
Posted 2018-04-11 9:56 AM
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guess they don't want that horse sold quick enough then 
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OregonBR
Reg. Dec 2003
Posted 2018-04-11 10:02 AM
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May we see your list? We may be able to help you if we can see the questions. I have found that people who ask for 50K pics and ask a million questions aren't the people who generally buy. But maybe that's just my experience and not others.
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chasendacash
Reg. Oct 2008
Posted 2018-04-11 1:15 PM
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It does seem like a lot, especially from the non-horsey husband POV.  ha ha.  But broken down, not so much.  These are the main ones purchased....
2005- 1st REAL show horse for DD1(8yo then).  Colic/died 4 months later
2006- replacement for #1 
2007- 1st REAL show horse for DD2(5yo then)
2008- husband horse to get hubs in the barn with us  (didn't really work)
2008- 'fun' horse for DD2
2009- Mom gets a fast horse of her own, not just what's left
2011- Mom gets a replacement for DD1 taking over mom's 2009 horse
2013- Mom gets a replacement for DD2 taking over mom's 2011 fast horse
There were others in there and I actually sold one once.  That didn't work either (for my heart) and I bought her back as soon as I could.  With three of us riding, competing at different levels, the girls growing up and changing levels, horses passing, getting old or lame...  I have to keep replenishing the stock.

 
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chasendacash
Reg. Oct 2008
Posted 2018-04-11 1:24 PM
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Things I wanted to know that weren't in the ad...  this horse is in the $20k-$30k range. 

Where is the horse located? 

How long have you had horse? 
Had it been in training before it came to you?
Who with, when and what for?
Who has competed on it other than you?
Does it get hot tempered after working/running?
Does it run poles?  If not, do you think it could?
Do you think the nerves could handle running more than once a day?  (barrels and poles or double header rodeo)
Is it willing and eager to work or just works because it's told to?
How is it kept? stalled? turned out with others?
Has it had any xrays, soundness issues, illnesses, injuries, etc?
Has it had any drugs or chiro work done?  Hocks?  Stifles? 
Has it always been in Texas?  
Does it have any vices?  (cribbing, chewing, pawing, gate issues, etc)
I noticed your videos are from previous years.  What has he been doing for the last 12 months?
I am searching for the next horse for my daughter.  She has three more years of high school and the current horse is aging out of being competitive at a rodeo level.  Is this the type horse that would be responsive and respectful of a 95lb teenage girl? She's ridden all sizes and temps and works well with most all.  We live in ________ but I've watched you on different horses over the years at some of the races.  I have always admired your style of horse. What type of riding did you do before barrels?
I know this is a lot of questions and some don't really like email so if you would rather talk than type please call me at xxx-xxx-xxxx.  I figure you are probably on horse most of the time so please call at your convenience.
 
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Southtxponygirl
Reg. Nov 2006
Posted 2018-04-11 1:31 PM
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chasendacash - 2018-04-11 1:24 PM Things I wanted to know that weren't in the ad...  this horse is in the $20k-$30k range. 

Where is the horse located? 

How long have you had horse? 
Had it been in training before it came to you?
Who with, when and what for?
Who has competed on it other than you?
Does it get hot tempered after working/running?
Does it run poles?  If not, do you think it could?
Do you think the nerves could handle running more than once a day?  (barrels and poles or double header rodeo)
Is it willing and eager to work or just works because it's told to?
How is it kept? stalled? turned out with others?
Has it had any xrays, soundness issues, illnesses, injuries, etc?
Has it had any drugs or chiro work done?  Hocks?  Stifles? 
Has it always been in Texas?  
Does it have any vices?  (cribbing, chewing, pawing, gate issues, etc)
I noticed your videos are from previous years.  What has he been doing for the last 12 months?
I am searching for the next horse for my daughter.  She has three more years of high school and the current horse is aging out of being competitive at a rodeo level.  Is this the type horse that would be responsive and respectful of a 95lb teenage girl? She's ridden all sizes and temps and works well with most all.  We live in ________ but I've watched you on different horses over the years at some of the races.  I have always admired your style of horse. What type of riding did you do before barrels?
I know this is a lot of questions and some don't really like email so if you would rather talk than type please call me at xxx-xxx-xxxx.  I figure you are probably on horse most of the time so please call at your convenience.
 
Oh lordy that is alot of questions, I'm sure that this person dont like sitting on a computer trying to answer all these questions, I bet it would have gone alot better if you would have just called him in the first place and had a nice conversation instead of trying to get all these questions answered over the computer.  

Edited by Southtxponygirl 2018-04-11 1:51 PM
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ajs2002
Reg. Apr 2006
Posted 2018-04-11 1:48 PM
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That isss aaaa loooottt of questions.  But they are all pretty good questions so the response was pretty out of line. I would consider someone with that list a serious buyer that knows what they want. Answer what I could and go from there. No need to be rude. 
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GLP
Reg. Oct 2013
Posted 2018-04-11 2:11 PM
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Southtxponygirl - 2018-04-11 1:31 PM

chasendacash - 2018-04-11 1:24 PM Things I wanted to know that weren't in the ad...  this horse is in the $20k-$30k range. 

Where is the horse located? 

How long have you had horse? 
Had it been in training before it came to you?
Who with, when and what for?
Who has competed on it other than you?
Does it get hot tempered after working/running?
Does it run poles?  If not, do you think it could?
Do you think the nerves could handle running more than once a day?  (barrels and poles or double header rodeo)
Is it willing and eager to work or just works because it's told to?
How is it kept? stalled? turned out with others?
Has it had any xrays, soundness issues, illnesses, injuries, etc?
Has it had any drugs or chiro work done?  Hocks?  Stifles? 
Has it always been in Texas?  
Does it have any vices?  (cribbing, chewing, pawing, gate issues, etc)
I noticed your videos are from previous years.  What has he been doing for the last 12 months?
I am searching for the next horse for my daughter.  She has three more years of high school and the current horse is aging out of being competitive at a rodeo level.  Is this the type horse that would be responsive and respectful of a 95lb teenage girl? She's ridden all sizes and temps and works well with most all.  We live in ________ but I've watched you on different horses over the years at some of the races.  I have always admired your style of horse. What type of riding did you do before barrels?
I know this is a lot of questions and some don't really like email so if you would rather talk than type please call me at xxx-xxx-xxxx.  I figure you are probably on horse most of the time so please call at your convenience.
 
Oh lordy that is alot of questions, I'm sure that this person dont like sitting on a computer trying to answer all these questions, I bet it would have gone alot better if you would have just called him in the first place and had a nice conversation instead of trying to get all these questions answered over the computer.  

She left her phone number so they could call if they rather talk. I don’t think those are too many questions for some one who is serious about buying a horse for their daughter to High School rodeo on.
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rodeomom3
Reg. Dec 2007
Posted 2018-04-11 2:24 PM
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chasendacash - 2018-04-11 1:24 PM Things I wanted to know that weren't in the ad...  this horse is in the $20k-$30k range. 



Where is the horse located? 


How long have you had horse? 
Had it been in training before it came to you?


Who with, when and what for?



Who has competed on it other than you?



Does it get hot tempered after working/running?


Does it run poles?  If not, do you think it could?


Do you think the nerves could handle running more than once a day?  (barrels and poles or double header rodeo)


Is it willing and eager to work or just works because it's told to?


How is it kept? stalled? turned out with others?


Has it had any xrays, soundness issues, illnesses, injuries, etc?


Has it had any drugs or chiro work done?  Hocks?  Stifles? 


Has it always been in Texas?  


Does it have any vices?  (cribbing, chewing, pawing, gate issues, etc)


I noticed your videos are from previous years.  What has he been doing for the last 12 months?


I am searching for the next horse for my daughter.  She has three more years of high school and the current horse is aging out of being competitive at a rodeo level.  Is this the type horse that would be responsive and respectful of a 95lb teenage girl? She's ridden all sizes and temps and works well with most all.  We live in ________ but I've watched you on different horses over the years at some of the races.  I have always admired your style of horse. What type of riding did you do before barrels?


I know this is a lot of questions and some don't really like email so if you would rather talk than type please call me at xxx-xxx-xxxx.  I figure you are probably on horse most of the time so please call at your convenience.

 


 Good questions but most of those I like to have in a conversation.  The way someone answers a question -not just what they, say can be revealing too.
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Southtxponygirl
Reg. Nov 2006
Posted 2018-04-11 2:25 PM
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GLP - 2018-04-11 2:11 PM
Southtxponygirl - 2018-04-11 1:31 PM
chasendacash - 2018-04-11 1:24 PM Things I wanted to know that weren't in the ad...  this horse is in the $20k-$30k range. 

Where is the horse located? 

How long have you had horse? 
Had it been in training before it came to you?
Who with, when and what for?
Who has competed on it other than you?
Does it get hot tempered after working/running?
Does it run poles?  If not, do you think it could?
Do you think the nerves could handle running more than once a day?  (barrels and poles or double header rodeo)
Is it willing and eager to work or just works because it's told to?
How is it kept? stalled? turned out with others?
Has it had any xrays, soundness issues, illnesses, injuries, etc?
Has it had any drugs or chiro work done?  Hocks?  Stifles? 
Has it always been in Texas?  
Does it have any vices?  (cribbing, chewing, pawing, gate issues, etc)
I noticed your videos are from previous years.  What has he been doing for the last 12 months?
I am searching for the next horse for my daughter.  She has three more years of high school and the current horse is aging out of being competitive at a rodeo level.  Is this the type horse that would be responsive and respectful of a 95lb teenage girl? She's ridden all sizes and temps and works well with most all.  We live in ________ but I've watched you on different horses over the years at some of the races.  I have always admired your style of horse. What type of riding did you do before barrels?
I know this is a lot of questions and some don't really like email so if you would rather talk than type please call me at xxx-xxx-xxxx.  I figure you are probably on horse most of the time so please call at your convenience.
 
Oh lordy that is alot of questions, I'm sure that this person dont like sitting on a computer trying to answer all these questions, I bet it would have gone alot better if you would have just called him in the first place and had a nice conversation instead of trying to get all these questions answered over the computer.  
She left her phone number so they could call if they rather talk. I don’t think those are too many questions for some one who is serious about buying a horse for their daughter to High School rodeo on.
 Yes she left her number, but to me if someone is really interested which I am sure she was since she has bought more then a few horses over the years, I think it was her place to be calling the selling since they do leave their phone numbers on their ads and since she knows who this man is it would have been better to call him. 
He could have just emailed her and told her to call him instead of being rude I think.. 
To me thats alot of questions to answer threw a email, but over the phone in a conversation not to many at all. 


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chasendacash
Reg. Oct 2008
Posted 2018-04-11 2:34 PM
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Yep, never really expect all these to be answered by email but this gives the seller an idea of what I'm going to ask when we speak.  I have learned to get a feel for these things before I drive hours to see a horse.  If it was near me, it would be easier to do everything in person.  Aren't these the kind of things buyers ask if they are seriously considering spending $$$$$?

Seller could have just hit delete.  Seller could have sent a short reply of "Call me at 5:00".  Seller could have said/done a lot of things that weren't as rude.  SMH  No response would have been better than that.  LOL. 
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Southtxponygirl
Reg. Nov 2006
Posted 2018-04-11 3:02 PM
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chasendacash - 2018-04-11 2:34 PM Yep, never really expect all these to be answered by email but this gives the seller an idea of what I'm going to ask when we speak.  I have learned to get a feel for these things before I drive hours to see a horse.  If it was near me, it would be easier to do everything in person.  Aren't these the kind of things buyers ask if they are seriously considering spending $$$$$?



Seller could have just hit delete.  Seller could have sent a short reply of "Call me at 5:00".  Seller could have said/done a lot of things that weren't as rude.  SMH  No response would have been better than that.  LOL. 

I agree the man could have just emailed you back asking you to call him instead of being flat out rude to you.. That was really uncalled for. 
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1DSoon
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Posted 2018-04-11 3:03 PM
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I would not have responded rudely, but would not have responded at all to that list. 


 
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Posted 2018-04-11 5:04 PM
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If I wanted to sell the horse, I would have answered every question.
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Posted 2018-04-11 5:48 PM
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Whats the price tag on this horse? 
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Posted 2018-04-11 6:49 PM
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Whiteboy - 2018-04-11 5:48 PM

Whats the price tag on this horse? 

Her previous post said this horse is in the $20k-$30k range.
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Posted 2018-04-11 7:04 PM
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If I want to sell a horse, I answer the questions. If I get questions that make me think the person is a nut and not a good fit, usually something that scares me away from selling them a weanling, then I just say I don't think the horse is a good fit...or have lied to those that were persistant and said the horse is sale pending.
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Posted 2018-04-11 11:03 PM
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chasendacash - 2018-04-11 1:24 PM Things I wanted to know that weren't in the ad...  this horse is in the $20k-$30k range. 

Where is the horse located? 

How long have you had horse? 
Had it been in training before it came to you?
Who with, when and what for?
Who has competed on it other than you?
Does it get hot tempered after working/running?
Does it run poles?  If not, do you think it could?
Do you think the nerves could handle running more than once a day?  (barrels and poles or double header rodeo)
Is it willing and eager to work or just works because it's told to?
How is it kept? stalled? turned out with others?
Has it had any xrays, soundness issues, illnesses, injuries, etc?
Has it had any drugs or chiro work done?  Hocks?  Stifles? 
Has it always been in Texas?  
Does it have any vices?  (cribbing, chewing, pawing, gate issues, etc)
I noticed your videos are from previous years.  What has he been doing for the last 12 months?
I am searching for the next horse for my daughter.  She has three more years of high school and the current horse is aging out of being competitive at a rodeo level.  Is this the type horse that would be responsive and respectful of a 95lb teenage girl? She's ridden all sizes and temps and works well with most all.  We live in ________ but I've watched you on different horses over the years at some of the races.  I have always admired your style of horse. What type of riding did you do before barrels?
I know this is a lot of questions and some don't really like email so if you would rather talk than type please call me at xxx-xxx-xxxx.  I figure you are probably on horse most of the time so please call at your convenience.
 
 As a seller, I dang sure wouldn't be put off with those questions in an email. Very logical, reasonable questions, IMO. Those questions would tell me that the potential buyer was thoughtful, a pretty serious prospective buyer that was looking for something competitive, free of a bunch of problems and baggage and safe for her kid.
She gave her phone number and was receptive to a phone call to answer the questions. It is a lot easier for me to answer buyer's questions via phone. I can put the cell on speaker, drop it into my shirt pocket and keep on doing chores, driving, whatever, while we get some 'feel' for each other. (As in am I honest, are you for real. etc.)
After a couple of interactions with a potential buyer, I do expect a first and last name. Otherwise, I get to wondering if I'm dealing with a scammer in another country or a teenager with their first phone that hasn't communicated with parents.
Since her seller didn't "have time to answer that crap" I'm guessing that the horse wouldn't pass on several of the questions. John Teagarden, KS

 

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chasendacash - 2018-04-11 1:24 PM Things I wanted to know that weren't in the ad...  this horse is in the $20k-$30k range. 

Where is the horse located? 

How long have you had horse? 
Had it been in training before it came to you?
Who with, when and what for?
Who has competed on it other than you?
Does it get hot tempered after working/running?
Does it run poles?  If not, do you think it could?
Do you think the nerves could handle running more than once a day?  (barrels and poles or double header rodeo)
Is it willing and eager to work or just works because it's told to?
How is it kept? stalled? turned out with others?
Has it had any xrays, soundness issues, illnesses, injuries, etc?
Has it had any drugs or chiro work done?  Hocks?  Stifles? 
Has it always been in Texas?  
Does it have any vices?  (cribbing, chewing, pawing, gate issues, etc)
I noticed your videos are from previous years.  What has he been doing for the last 12 months?
I am searching for the next horse for my daughter.  She has three more years of high school and the current horse is aging out of being competitive at a rodeo level.  Is this the type horse that would be responsive and respectful of a 95lb teenage girl? She's ridden all sizes and temps and works well with most all.  We live in ________ but I've watched you on different horses over the years at some of the races.  I have always admired your style of horse. What type of riding did you do before barrels?
I know this is a lot of questions and some don't really like email so if you would rather talk than type please call me at xxx-xxx-xxxx.  I figure you are probably on horse most of the time so please call at your convenience.
 
 As a seller, I dang sure wouldn't be put off with those questions in an email. Very logical, reasonable questions, IMO. Those questions would tell me that the potential buyer was thoughtful, a pretty serious prospective buyer that was looking for something competitive, free of a bunch of problems and baggage and safe for her kid.
She gave her phone number and was receptive to a phone call to answer the questions. It is a lot easier for me to answer buyer's questions via phone. I can put the cell on speaker, drop it into my shirt pocket and keep on doing chores, driving, whatever, while we get some 'feel' for each other. (As in am I honest, are you for real. etc.)
After a couple of interactions with a potential buyer, I do expect a first and last name. Otherwise, I get to wondering if I'm dealing with a scammer in another country or a teenager with their first phone that hasn't communicated with parents.
Since her seller didn't "have time to answer that crap" I'm guessing that the horse wouldn't pass on several of the questions. John Teagarden, KS

 

At first glance it seems like a lot of questions, but really, several could be answered together.
For instance, the first five listed could be be answered at once if the seller raised and trained the horse.

My guess is the question about the videos being old set him off...you weren't supposed to notice that!

We don't sell many horses, but we did just go through selling one of my husband's team roping horses, and it was no fun. But your list would've been easier for me to answer than some (dumb) questions I got... At least you seem genuinely interested in if the horse would FIT your daughter and not just looking for a fast one.
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For a price tag of $20-$30k half of her questions should have been answered in a well written ad. Shouldn’t even have needed a novel to do it either.

Ex. Have owned horse for 5 years, he was futuritied by xyz, no maintenance, no vices. Hauls well, on the muscle at the gate but no bad habits. Lightly worked on poles but never entered.

I think I just covered about half the questions in 3 sentences...(obviously just an example as I don’t know the horse).

Based on the questions you asked it kind of sounds like the ad read “brown barrel horse. Talented. $25,000”.
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The fact that he would insult someone that just paid him a compliment is disgusting, even with all the questions. He's obviously very full of himself.

Move on to the next horse for sale... he's in it to move horses, not find good fitting homes.
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As a seller and breeder, I think it would be a very good thing for both parties to have the questions answered, in writing, so both parties have a baseline to move forward from. If its in writing at initial contact rather than verbal on the phone, neither party can get confused about answers and dispute later.
 
Edit to add very small breeder and seller. Not a trader or a factory lol.


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crossarrowk - 2018-04-12 2:01 PM As a seller and breeder, I think it would be a very good thing for both parties to have the questions answered, in writing, so both parties have a baseline to move forward from. If its in writing at initial contact rather than verbal on the phone, neither party can get confused about answers and dispute later.
 
Edit to add very small breeder and seller. Not a trader or a factory lol.
Maybe that is the exact reason that the seller wasn't interested in answering the questions...he didn't want it to be in writing (I know that you gave him the option of calling, but maybe it scared him off.)  Maybe he doesn't want to be held accountable later. Who knows. Whatever the reason, I wouldn't want to do business with this guy. 

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  to spend 20,000 to 30,000 on a horse the seller better answer my million questions and for the seller to expect someone to drop that kind of money on one when they are rude, they better get a life... Thats a ton of money to not be picky.
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1DSoon - 2018-04-11 3:03 PM

I would not have responded rudely, but would not have responded at all to that list. 


 

My response would have been a phone to discuss all these questions. Remember, the seller has an item for sale!
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wyoming barrel racer - 2018-04-11 5:04 AM If I want to sell a horse, I answer the questions. If I get questions that make me think the person is a nut and not a good fit, usually something that scares me away from selling them a weanling, then I just say I don't think the horse is a good fit...or have lied to those that were persistant and said the horse is sale pending.

I feel the same.

he was rude. if a seller wants a buyer. answer the questions. call if you can't seem to type it out.  if they are a fruit loop then, you can usually tell my the email or phone conversation. 
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chasendacash - 2018-04-11 1:24 PM

Things I wanted to know that weren't in the ad...  this horse is in the $20k-$30k range. 

Where is the horse located? 

How long have you had horse? 
Had it been in training before it came to you?
Who with, when and what for?
Who has competed on it other than you?
Does it get hot tempered after working/running?
Does it run poles?  If not, do you think it could?
Do you think the nerves could handle running more than once a day?  (barrels and poles or double header rodeo)
Is it willing and eager to work or just works because it's told to?
How is it kept? stalled? turned out with others?
Has it had any xrays, soundness issues, illnesses, injuries, etc?
Has it had any drugs or chiro work done?  Hocks?  Stifles? 
Has it always been in Texas?  
Does it have any vices?  (cribbing, chewing, pawing, gate issues, etc)
I noticed your videos are from previous years.  What has he been doing for the last 12 months?
I am searching for the next horse for my daughter.  She has three more years of high school and the current horse is aging out of being competitive at a rodeo level.  Is this the type horse that would be responsive and respectful of a 95lb teenage girl? She's ridden all sizes and temps and works well with most all.  We live in ________ but I've watched you on different horses over the years at some of the races.  I have always admired your style of horse. What type of riding did you do before barrels?
I know this is a lot of questions and some don't really like email so if you would rather talk than type please call me at xxx-xxx-xxxx.  I figure you are probably on horse most of the time so please call at your convenience.
 

You put a lot of thought into your questions,

To me it looks like a tire kicker, copy and paste the questions for every ad, pretty easy to do.

Again if someone is truely interested, I find they will call

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For a horse in that price range I would expect most of these questions to be answered in the ad itself, otherwise it raises a big red flag.
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I usually do all that research myself. I start with AQHA to check who the horse is registered to then go to Equistat. I check Equibase to see if the horse was raced, number of races etc. I google the horse to see what it has actually won. By the time I have done that I usually have the answers to most ot the things you are asking and any other questions I might have.

I just like to do my own research.




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