i just ask that y'all pray for my soon to be ex- DIL. She is falling apart in a mean way and I am worried about my grandson. I ask y'all pray that she can gain control of her emotions and that she can start to find peace of mind turn away from her anger and jealousy. And that she doesn't put my little grandson in danger. She has hit a critical point and I am worried about her. 

Oh no I hate hearing this and its always so much worst when there is a small child involved, how old is your grandson GLP? Prayers are being sent

I know this has stressed you for so long.Im so sorry that you have to go through this,you will most likely not sleep for months from worry.Im here if you need me,or just a shoulder.HUGS AND PRAYERS FOR YOU AND THAT PRECIOUS LITTLE BOY,AND OF COURSE FOR HER AS WELL.

He is just 2 1/2 years old. 

^^^ I second everything said here. . . So sorry for what everyone is going thru.   Divorce is bad enough, but when one party doesn't take the child/children into consideration first, well, that's so much worse.  Prayers for all of you

Thank you, it has calmed down for tonight, but their court date is Thursday and she has some serious mental illnesses so the knowledge of what she has done is really scaring her I think. She just can't believe my son is trying to be fair but is no longer going to be controlled by her. She is really paranoid at this point. I am hoping she shows up at the court and that the pressure will ease up once it's over. We are bending over backwards making sure she has a safe place to live but it doesn't seem to reassure her at all. I think she is afraid we will evict her, but we just want to know our grandson has a safe place to live if they end up sharing custody. 

Just know people are praying for all of you my dear friend

Prayers

Keeping you and the family in my thoughts and prayers, Im not that far away so if anything is needed let me know and I'll try my best to do what ever needs doing..Prayers for that sweet baby boy

You are so sweet to offer Roxie. I still want the best for her, but I would lying if I didn't say I am hoping she loses it in court and the judge will give my son full custody. She has some serious mental illnesses and for some reason my boy is trying so hard to be fair to her, thinking it's in his son's best interest. He is wrong, but good men seem to have a VERY hard time believing their wife is just plain crazy and mean. We have never been around someone like her before. I myself go between wanting to give her a severe beat down and sad that she will probably never know happiness or learn to recognize when someone truly wants the best for her. 
You ladies on here are the best, thank you for your prayers and letting me vent a little on here. 

You are very normal in how you feel, if I were in your place I would be feeling the same way and probably have more hard feelings at her. When it comes to our own children and our grandbabys people like her that threaten's our familys well being {Happiest} they can bring out the worst in us. I went threw this mess about 8 years ago, and know how you are feeling. Its all good now with my son and his wife, but for awhile there I thought I would lose it. 

Hugs to you

thinking of ALL OF YOU for tomorrow,sending MANY PRAYERS

Thank you! 

I was thinking about y'all at work today and am praying for a good day tomorrow and things to work out for all of you and your precious boy--BOTH of your precious boys. . . 

I've sent several pms but don't know if they're going thru. 

 I am sorry, I have been running errands when I don't have Ro and didn't check my box. At first Jake told us he didn't need us to come to the court, but this evening he said we could if we wanted which is Jake speak for would you mind coming. She has Ro tonight and has not asked me to watch him tomorrow yet, which is par for the course. She will likely ask me to watch him at the last minute OR the goofy heifer will take Ro with her to court. I am so tired of going between worry for her and wanting to punch her face in. Each time she wigs out, I feel a little less concern for her and a little more coldness to her creeps into my heart. Thank you for your beautiful prayer, I will pray that prayer tonight and throughout the day tomorrow. Court time is 1:30. 
Thank you, thank you thank you dear friend 

Glenda

I'm working on tax returns, and I'm thinking positive thoughts for later today.   I pray all goes well in court--and also leading up to and after.   This brings so much back to me of my divorce from C's father and the only thought I had was "I'll give you whatever you want and take all debt we had as a couple, just please God leave my child alone."   My heart hurts for Jake, but he has an amazing woman in his corner.   Hello hath no fury like a momma whose son has been messed with. . . I'm just saying!!!!  I wish I could reach thru here and hug all of you.   We have your back on BHW 

I hope that is all went well today for your family

thinking of you...

I haven't been on to read a lot of threads lately and am just catching up on yours....Please know that prayers are sent to you and your family. A special prayer for that sweet child who needs the protection of God every day! Hopefully, all went well today and your worries will lessen! 

She got a **** continuance so she could get a lawyer! She has had 8 months to get one!!!!!!!

OH NO, now this will just keep draging on, I'm so sorry GLP, I know that you wanted to get this mess over with..  Hugs 

I was livid, but now I am just mad, hahaha. She is one of those that can cry pretty and bat her eyelashes and "poor me" to men. The kind of woman I have always despised the most. Ah well, we'll get through it. People have worse problems than this. We are just sooo normal it's quite a shock to us. I am so grateful for everyone's prayers, y'all are the best!

I am so so sorry.  Did they say how long she has??  This is just crappy. . . . 

Baby boy and Jake ok?

8 Long months....

Ohhh I thought that was how long she'd had to get one up til now.   Not fair 

She has had 8 months to get a lawyer but the stupid judge gave her until February 26 to get a lawyer. The next court date is February 26. I know it doesn't sound that long, but every night she is texting, calling my son at all hours of the night. If he doesn't answer she texts him that someone is driving in the pasture, her truck won't start, etc. Then when he comes over she starts in on him. He finally started turning his phone off and she texted me. I just told her Jake's phone must have died, but yes, he was at home. This is just a little of what she does/says. We have provided a safe place for to live rent free, fixed her truck numerous times, I let her use my truck, these are only a few things we have done for her SINCE they started the divorce stuff. No more. We will still let her live at the trailer house rent free but that is all. So another month of this crap is just bad news, because she will try to play the judge again to draw this out. 

She must have REALLY good "eyelashes" Miss G.  Not to make light of this by any means tho.  

Oh crud!!!! I read that so wrong, all I saw was HAS 8 months and missed the HAD , I am so sorry for that . My question is why didnt she get a lawyer in the first place knowing that she was going to court. My gosh, how long has this divorce thing been going on? Does she work? I am sure that you are just heart broke over this whole thing and want this to be over with. Worring over the baby has got to be so exhausting for you and your family.

She works and is very good at it. She is an emergency room vet tech. But as you know, in South Texas and specifically Corpus Christi, the pay scale is low compared to other cities. That is one thing she is fighting- that if she is to share custody she has to live in Nueces county or the surrounding counties. That is a no budge thing for my son. The share custody is also what she is fighting. She wants that child support.