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| Geez, So are we going to have to start asking for a ladies only futurity? Flame me if you want but I have an issue with this. I only saw a couple of women on the entries. It is getting to the point where its almost usless to try to even compete against the men. It even makes my husband mad to see me competing against them and he hardly rides. Just had to say something. Let the flames begin...
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      Location: BFE, Texas | Huh? What futurity? It reads like you don't want to compete against women. Did you mean them or against men? Me confused... | |
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          Location: Illinois | From the results of futurities I have seen, there are alot of male riders. These guys are riding many horses in these futurities. Maybe there just fewer women entering on only a few horses instead of 6 or 8 head. | |
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| I see it as a lot of males riding most of the horses. Why should the women bother?. Men should have their own futurity division. Im all for keeping it segregated. My husband even agrees. Even if you have a mediocre horse, a man has more capability to muscle that horse around the barrels therefore pushing someone elses chance (female) of getting a check. Why dont more women rope calves. Thats just my point. I have a 3 yo that I would love to futurity. My only shot would be entering a non pro. I wouldnt waste my money going up against a Troy or chris coffey. Odds alone dictate that if they are running 5 - 10 horses their chances of getting a check are much better than my one horse. Unless she is a "Hotshot" in the rough. | |
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       Location: At The End of The Red Dirt Road | I agree with you ... sounds like that is a part of the decision to go back to running them at 4 - don't think they actually came out and said it was men, but that the ones that have access to so many horses would be limited if they ran at 4. I cannot get my computer to download the media player, so missed the runs tonight, but I did go watch a little bit of the futurity at Tulsa last month and I wasn't too impressed with most of the men who ran there. There was a whole lot of jerking and pulling going on... I am sure they may pull some checks, but I would sure hate to be the next person trying to ride the horse. Of course, I also complain about women who look like they are just sitting there letting bad things happen instead of riding more aggressively!!! | |
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     Location: Florida | we'll go to our grave disagreeing on this one...LoL I'm not flaming, but I am disagreeing... You have a couple of men who happen to be very good at what they do...and they currently have good horses to ride. As far as men being stronger and having an unfair advantage...my only reply would be so....women have better balance. Does that give them an unfair advantage over the males other than Crumrine or Coffey (sp?)? Possibly...but I'd say line'em up...and let the horses decide!  | |
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     Location: Woodstown, NJ | I guess they run the futurities because we won't let them run the WPRA. I don't blame them and I don't mind running against them. | |
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       Location: Wisconsin | Originally written by GiddyUpNgo on 2004-04-10 11:55 PM we'll go to our grave disagreeing on this one...LoL I'm not flaming, but I am disagreeing... You have a couple of men who happen to be very good at what they do...and they currently have good horses to ride. As far as men being stronger and having an unfair advantage...my only reply would be so....women have better balance. Does that give them an unfair advantage over the males other than Crumrine or Coffey (sp?)? Possibly...but I'd say line'em up...and let the horses decide!  Not to mention we have a HUGE weight ADVANTAGE over these guys, our horses can really fly with our little butts on them!!!!! LOL As far as muscle being an advantage, I'll arm-wrestle any one of those guys for a pink slip to their horse!!! | |
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| I don't go to any of the futurities but I have noticed in a lot of the pictures of some of the men that the mouths are very gapped and the heads tied tightly. This makes me think that they are having a lot of muscle pulling them around. Not all of the pictures of men are like this but I did notice most of the pictures of one man (can't remember who) were all gapped and pulled. | |
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       Location: South Texas | Haven't you ever noticed that when BFA puts out their standings they but and astericks * by the name of the women riders.....go figure
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     Location: san antonio texas | Not to mention we have a HUGE weight ADVANTAGE over these guys, our horses can really fly with our little butts on them!!!!! LOL I completely disagree! Troy, Chris, Jaime Hunt, are very skinny small men. And this may tick some women off but I see more overweight women in this sport than any of the men. To me the men take it very seriously like real jockeys and keep their weight down. Most of the women don't. I for one think the likes of Charmayne and Sherry are much classier in the saddle than ANY man running barrels. | |
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| Originally written by carlos on 2004-04-11 9:56 AM Not to mention we have a HUGE weight ADVANTAGE over these guys, our horses can really fly with our little butts on them!!!!! LOL I completely disagree! Troy, Chris, Jaime Hunt, are very skinny small men. And this may tick some women off but I see more overweight women in this sport than any of the men. To me the men take it very seriously like real jockeys and keep their weight down. Most of the women don't. I for one think the likes of Charmayne and Sherry are much classier in the saddle than ANY man running barrels. I agree with you CARLOS, I WOULD LOVE to see a match race between the top 10 women(most money won) & the top 10 men! Maybe we could get something going here on BHW & sponsor something like this. Wouldn't that be neat! We could web cast it too. You would have both men & women watching to see who would be the best! I also would like for the top barrel trainers to be eligible, like ED Wright & Martha.
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| Originally written by Justmeandmy3 on 2004-04-10 10:06 PM
I see it as a lot of males riding most of the horses...... Odds alone dictate that if they are running 5 - 10 horses their chances of getting a check are much better than my one horse. Unless she is a "Hotshot" in the rough. So are you saying you don't want to run against men, or just against men who enter more than one horse. If you go to a barrel race and see that Kelly Yates, or any other top pro, has entered multiple horses, do you draw out because she has a better chance of getting a check? I'll be honest, some of these guys riding styles do nothing for me. But it works for them. People pay them a lot of money to train & run their horses. They have multiple horses running because people pay them to do it. | |
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| Originally written by txdad on 2004-04-11 10:52 AM Originally written by Justmeandmy3 on 2004-04-10 10:06 PM
I see it as a lot of males riding most of the horses...... Odds alone dictate that if they are running 5 - 10 horses their chances of getting a check are much better than my one horse. Unless she is a "Hotshot" in the rough. So are you saying you don't want to run against men, or just against men who enter more than one horse. If you go to a barrel race and see that Kelly Yates, or any other top pro, has entered multiple horses, do you draw out because she has a better chance of getting a check? I'll be honest, some of these guys riding styles do nothing for me. But it works for them. People pay them a lot of money to train & run their horses. They have multiple horses running because people pay them to do it. I'm with you on how they handle a horse. I've watched many of them run & they just cowboy them thru the pattern. It will work for a while, but soon they'll blow the horses brains! But they are mostly interested in the one year... | |
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      Location: BFE, Texas | Ok, now that I've had some sleep! When I saw the topic, I was picturing guys on a rotisserie, for GP.(Guess it was the Rainy days and men topic). This morning I was "DUH! Turn and Burn Futurity" Anyhooo, yep, it looks like the guys have taken over the gals hobby. Eons ago, I remember guys having their own class at futurities and there were "maybe" less than a half dozen. Notice also, this was about the same era that women were crying about equal rights, yadda, yadda. Well, just goes to show, be careful what you wish for! JMO All in all, I liked it better when it was segregated. My hubby also agrees about guys running against gals, he does'nt like it either, but since it's here, he just makes sure our horses have enough handle on them so I don't have to out muscle the guys. (yes, most of those man driven horses are being yanked around, pictures don't lie, nor do my eyes, again, JMObservation) As far as the weight issue, how many of the guys have had kids? or have to take care of household stuff, chase kids around, work all the horses...you have to eat something to keep up strength...oh, genetics play in there somewhere too. I'm not saying all are "voluptuous" due to this, Krispy Kremes pop in the picture quite often! I'm not at my young age weight either and no matter how much I try, I'll never get there unless I quit eating all together, nor can I lop off about 6 inches off my 5'8 height, so I just accept it and ride harder. Guess what I'm trying to say, altho I don't agree with what's going on nowadays, it's probably not going to change, so I just buck up and keep on keeping on, and accept things for the way it is now. Rodeo has also changed so much since the old days, but if you want to compete, you need to conform. I'm not going to flame anyone for difference of opinion, and guys, please don't take offense, we're just voicing our thoughts. | |
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       Location: Wisconsin | All butt-jokes aside, my real opinion as to why we are seeing more men is MONEY. Face it, there is a ton of cash at these futurities and not to mention the sale of the horse they are running. Barrel racing is big time money in the futurity arena and gender aside they are there to get a piece of it too. Really, do you think we would be seeing as many men if they were just running for a buckle?? JMO don't hurt me!!! | |
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   Location: Oklahoma | YOU go girl! I agree. THey are man handling them most of time. You can spot it in pictures too. And why is all the "TOP" names get more coverage than the little gal who made a great run in 4-d or 3-d. Have just a Prof division. FOr the whoha's and let us weekend warriors than bust our butts in the midst of weekly "jobs" go to a race and be able to race against the NON-PRo with their souped up hosses. It's get political Like AQHA shows who you know who you are how much did you spend on your pony I can run with em sure I have no problem with that I DO get sick of the clicks and OH LALALA's when they are present. And once you buy one of their horses tell me "HOW many of them do you see again,, running that way and winning? ok flame me now | |
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   Location: Buffalo, TX | You CAN compete with, and outrun the guys!! I agree that takes dedication and a lot of hard work, but it's our choice to do it or not. It takes a tough, tough person, physically and mentally to ride that hard and really want it that bad. These guys have no fear, they ride with a bull rider mentality, and they will really try a horse right up to the barrel every single time there's money up. I think some women tend to want a run to be more correct, and they don't really get the blood in their eye that the guys do. Alona James comes as close to riding like the guys as any woman I've seen. You also have to dedicate yourself daily to doing what it takes to keep you and your horse conditioned to the nines to have the strength, speed, and power it will take to outrun them. It just all depends on how bad you want it, and how hard you are willing to work for it. You will never talk to a champion that said it was easy...they all made sacrifices to get to the top. | |
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| Originally written by Cindy Hamilton on 2004-04-11 2:33 PM
You CAN compete with, and outrun the guys!! I agree that takes dedication and a lot of hard work, but it's our choice to do it or not. It takes a tough, tough person, physically and mentally to ride that hard and really want it that bad. These guys have no fear, they ride with a bull rider mentality, and they will really try a horse right up to the barrel every single time there's money up. I think some women tend to want a run to be more correct, and they don't really get the blood in their eye that the guys do. Alona James comes as close to riding like the guys as any woman I've seen. You also have to dedicate yourself daily to doing what it takes to keep you and your horse conditioned to the nines to have the strength, speed, and power it will take to outrun them. It just all depends on how bad you want it, and how hard you are willing to work for it. You will never talk to a champion that said it was easy...they all made sacrifices to get to the top. You took the words right out of my mouth. I would like to also add that I think women tend to train more when they ride, which you stated as ride correctly. I think we are more of a teacher mentality as men as more of brute force.( Fix it or break it>>>>men) | |
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       Location: Peg-Leg Julia Grimm | Originally written by Tx3turns on 2004-04-11 11:23 AM Ok, now that I've had some sleep! When I saw the topic, I was picturing guys on a rotisserie, for GP.(Guess it was the Rainy days and men topic). This morning I was "DUH! Turn and Burn Futurity" Anyhooo, yep, it looks like the guys have taken over the gals hobby. Eons ago, I remember guys having their own class at futurities and there were "maybe" less than a half dozen. Notice also, this was about the same era that women were crying about equal rights, yadda, yadda. Well, just goes to show, be careful what you wish for! JMO All in all, I liked it better when it was segregated. My hubby also agrees about guys running against gals, he does'nt like it either, but since it's here, he just makes sure our horses have enough handle on them so I don't have to out muscle the guys. (yes, most of those man driven horses are being yanked around, pictures don't lie, nor do my eyes, again, JMObservation) As far as the weight issue, how many of the guys have had kids? or have to take care of household stuff, chase kids around, work all the horses...you have to eat something to keep up strength...oh, genetics play in there somewhere too. I'm not saying all are "voluptuous" due to this, Krispy Kremes pop in the picture quite often! I'm not at my young age weight either and no matter how much I try, I'll never get there unless I quit eating all together, nor can I lop off about 6 inches off my 5'8 height, so I just accept it and ride harder. Guess what I'm trying to say, altho I don't agree with what's going on nowadays, it's probably not going to change, so I just buck up and keep on keeping on, and accept things for the way it is now. Rodeo has also changed so much since the old days, but if you want to compete, you need to conform. I'm not going to flame anyone for difference of opinion, and guys, please don't take offense, we're just voicing our thoughts. 
It's always been my view that if you start crying about how unfair it is....you have already lost and you may as well get a new hobby. Life is not fair.  You have to work harder to equalize the playing field if you don't have as many blessings as the next guy/gal. 
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| I can't believe some of you on here are actually considering the thought that men and women should be segregated in the futurity world. In my opinion, the main reason you're seeing a lot of men sitting on top of the futurity industry right now especially, is because some (like for example Troy) are entered up,jockey, and are actually winning and placing 6-8 head at a barrel race. It doesn't mean that a male rider is actually more talented than a woman, it just means he has more of a chance of getting the job done because he's riding more horses. Women jockeys provide just as much talent as men to this sport...look at a handful of the futurities from the last 1 or 2 years. Look at the girls like Alona James, Brandy Wilson, and Leslie Willis just to name a few. You see their name in the spotlight just as much if not more than some of the men. Whether you're a male or female, when training and riding horses is how you make your living, more power to you! This is a hard business to make a really great profit out of...some people, men AND women, just know how to get it done. I'm not saying I completely disagree--there does seem to be a LOT of men out there winning lately, but don't count the women out either...talent is evident in both sexes, I think the main advantage the men have is that they SEEM to be hauling more head and actually WINNING on more head than some females. JMHO :) Keep the posts comin'!
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| Replying to cowgirlup's post: I'm not saying I completely disagree with your post...I understand what it's like to get sick of the political issues in the horse show world. But really, if one wants more "coverage" if they're a 3D/4D rider, why don't they run NBHA or some divisionally-formatted race rather than a straight-up AQHA race? You're making a lot more money for winning or placing in some division of a 3D race than you are even winning an AQHA barrel race. My main opinion toward the "clique" issue at shows...that's always been around, and it will always be around, so whether one is making a living out of showing, or is a weekend warrior out there just to have fun, they should just get used to it. One that's out there to make a good name for themself and to get something done at a race should just ignore the "political" aspects of this industry. You're more than likely going to get something accomplished to receive that coverage you want when you're focusing more on your horses and races, instead of the yahoos in their cliques. JMHO :) Have a nice day guys!
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          Location: Washington | I read this post three times now and I am still not sure I am understanding it. I've seen the word "Segragation" used. I've read "Weight" issue, I also read "Pro" issue? For those that are complaining about men I think your issue is not the gender it's how many most of them are able to ride in one race. I think it is called making a living. They are "Pro's" and this is their job, a lot of the folks that are at these futurities are "hobby runners and living a dream". Odds are against you on numbers yes, but I feel it doesn't have to do with gender.(How soon we forget Kim Landry ) Weight.....I call this a no brainer. We all know the lighter you are the better off we are and the horses are. We have weight allowances at the track for a reason....and when they pack in the lead on the saddle of the favorite race horse it's called handicapping for a reason. I think that the barrel racing world has accommodated all walks of life and if you enter wisely it's a great ride. I know I have limits I don't need someone kicking it to remind me. | |
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     Location: Nokomis, FL USA | No flames just facts...Sharon Smith Kim Landry, Alona James, Kim Thomas, Jackie Dube, Betty Roper, the list goes on and on of successful female futurity riders. Most also rode/ride multiple horses. If you are intimidated by the male riders, unless you can overcome it, you will not outrun them. Take my word for it, anybody who is winning at the futurities has made lots of sacrifices and put in many more hours than you could imagine to get there. | |
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| Originally written by fatchance on 2004-04-11 4:24 PM "For those that are complaining about men I think your issue is not the gender it's how many most of them are able to ride in one race. I think it is called making a living." This is exactly what my point was. This issue shouldn't regard which gender is better than the other--the main and only factor to look at is that there seems to be more men winning and placing more head in a race. It doesn't mean that a woman's individual talent is any lesser. A lot of the men and women in this sport are making their living out of this. They all hope to come out with a solid income any given weekend. Also to Flipper's post: my point exactly! Look at half the women on the Top Futurity Riders stats in the Barrel Horse News...many talented jockeys on many talented horses. Just wanted to point out that my points agreed with those of fatchance's and Flipper's. Keep your posts and opinions comin'! :) Edited by Sheza Speed Demon 2004-04-11 6:54 PM
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 Location: tn | How many people can I hack off by pointing out that on the whole, more women actually like their horses and wouldn't consider risking their long term wellfare or health by giving them performance enhancing drugs. I'd like to see the sport cleaned up just to see if that changed anything. | |
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     Location: Purcell, Ok. | I have to agree. Until they limit the # of horses people can ride nothing will change. | |
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     Location: Woodstown, NJ | But aren't these guys riding these horses BECAUSE they are winning, not winning because of the number of horses? | |
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       Location: Peg-Leg Julia Grimm | Originally written by K O on 2004-04-11 10:16 PM I have to agree. Until they limit the # of horses people can ride nothing will change.  Huh?  | |
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   Location: Buffalo, TX | Originally written by joy4aa on 2004-04-11 9:14 PM
How many people can I hack off by pointing out that on the whole, more women actually like their horses and wouldn't consider risking their long term wellfare or health by giving them performance enhancing drugs. I'd like to see the sport cleaned up just to see if that changed anything. I'd like to see the sport cleaned up too, but don't kid yourself, with this much money at stake, it's not just the men using drugs, or mistreating their horses. One of the worst cases of physical abuse at a futurity that I personally witnessed was by a top woman rider, who obviously only cared about the finals money, and not the welfare of her horse! | |
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   Location: Oklahoma | I agree with Ya Joy4aa,KO,and Cindy. I think we as women do care a bit more and but i also have seen some woman be just as abusive to their mount.  | |
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       Location: Illinois | Originally written by fatchance on 2004-04-11 4:24 PM I read this post three times now and I am still not sure I am understanding it. I've seen the word "Segragation" used. I've read "Weight" issue, I also read "Pro" issue? For those that are complaining about men I think your issue is not the gender it's how many most of them are able to ride in one race. I think it is called making a living. They are "Pro's" and this is their job, a lot of the folks that are at these futurities are "hobby runners and living a dream". Odds are against you on numbers yes, but I feel it doesn't have to do with gender.(How soon we forget Kim Landry ) Weight.....I call this a no brainer. We all know the lighter you are the better off we are and the horses are. We have weight allowances at the track for a reason....and when they pack in the lead on the saddle of the favorite race horse it's called handicapping for a reason. I think that the barrel racing world has accommodated all walks of life and if you enter wisely it's a great ride. I know I have limits I don't need someone kicking it to remind me. I have to agree with fatchance here....Men might be stronger, but gender has absolutly nothing to do with it. These men have a lot more good horses available at their fingertips than the average person. I do not have a problem with letting men compete, they same way we do.
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         Location: LouLouVille, OK | I myself, like the pride in accomplishment in training my own, and seasoning my own, then competing on my own. I guess these people competing on everyone elses horse, I don't look up to as much as I do the ones that do it all them selves on something they actually own. Maybe they should make that a rule,,,he he he, I find it funny but up here, men get laughed at for being a memeber of the "Iowa Mens Barrel Assoc" I guess most people view it as a "womens sport" I know I admire the styles of more women than men, but it doesn't bother me to run against either, no matter who they are and what they are riding, I just take pride in owning what I am on. JMO I do like to watch men in other sports, saddle bronc, cutting, racing, roping etc. but I also don't think women "should" nessicarly be doing any of those things professionally either. JMO, well, cutting and racing not so much, I admire those who do anything and do it well, no matter the gender.  | |
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        Location: Ky | Marne Loosenort rides as many, if not more, horses than any of the men. I haven't noticed anything "manly" about her. Maybe people consider her to be drugging and cowboying the horses? Maybe they want her segregated out of competition, too? I prefer to think she has talent, just as the men that are at the top have. I ran into a old friend recently that used to be a horse show announcer at all the big shows in Ky and Tn. He said, "you've been doing pretty good over the last years haven't you?" I replied that I had been very lucky, he said, "I figured you had, I head some people bad-mouthing you not long ago". He meant it as a joke, but, there is a ton of truth in his statement. | |
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       Location: Wisconsin | I tried to poke fun with the butt comment early on in this post........Main reason being that I have never and probably will never run in a futurity. Therefor, the politics that surrounds that end of the sport does not affect me directly. In other words, my opinion is really not based on any experience whatsoever, I was just trying to keep it on the light side. I do know that the reason I no longer attend the pleasure shows was because of politics but that is a whole different ballgame when a judge's opinion is what decides the class and not an un-biosed timer. Futurities are getting to be as big of a business as the racing industry is and with that you will have the heavy hitters. It is a great boost for our sport, finally barrel racing is being taken seriously, not just as "something for the women to do" Me and my NBHA mare (part-time rodeo) are happy to be where we are and if that's all we'll ever be, that's fine with me. I can't afford now and probably never will be able too run with those "big dogs" | |
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       Location: somewhere between lost & found | There was an article a couple years back in one of the mags I get about men in the winner's circle. This wasn't just barrels, but all facets of riding and showmanship. This is a matter of logistics. Women have kids, take care of kids and raise kids, mind you I wouldn't want to do it without my husband, however, I work full time and ride part-time. And I take my son to his activities at night because my husband works 4-midnight. This does not lend itself well to riding or competing at a high level.We also have to remember there are those people who enjoy training and are dang good at it, that don't want to compete and that's where the good riders come into play.If you think you are good enough, then prove yourself to the big trainers and get yourself some more mounts. These guys have proven themselves and I don't begrudge them of their talent. I couldn't show up, jump on a horse and win. I can barely get on my own some days and ride.There are also men trainers and their wives are not crazy about having other women around "learning" from them and vice versa. There are women who I wouldn't be real crazy about that either, I have total trust in my husband but not always in other women.That's my 2 cents. Flame away. | |
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        Location: AR/OK State Line | Originally written by flipper on 2004-04-11 5:53 PM No flames just facts...Sharon Smith Kim Landry, Alona James, Kim Thomas, Jackie Dube, Betty Roper, the list goes on and on of successful female futurity riders. Most also rode/ride multiple horses. If you are intimidated by the male riders, unless you can overcome it, you will not outrun them. Take my word for it, anybody who is winning at the futurities has made lots of sacrifices and put in many more hours than you could imagine to get there.     | |
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      Location: BFE, Texas | Well, looks like I used a word that was polically incorrect...segregated. So, I just want to clarify my use of it..I was talking about over 2 decades ago when futurities were "women only" with a "men only" class held in conjunction,... separate classes. Times have changed and the futurities are now open to anyone of any gender as we all know. My intention was'nt the use of it in a derrogatory way, so I hope it was'nt taken that way, maybe it was? as it's being thrown around some. Justme's topic was about men competeing against women. I don't believe she even mentioned how many horses they are riding or what they use to enhance their runs, just plain old guys vs gals. Everyone has their own views on the subject and they are entitled by all means. I'm not slamming anyone at all, so please don't see it as that, it's just as the story grows, it sometimes tends to get a bit side stepped. And seeing as it's now Monday, I'll end my sermon with "let's all agree to disagree and keep on keeping it friendly."  | |
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      Location: Kansas | Wow, I can't believe I'm reading this! I tend to agree with CindyHamilton; of course we can compete with the men and win! Quit selling yourselves short! Take a good look at men and how they compete (the mindset, aggressiveness, and physical condition), then get out there and improve on your weak areas! Go to the gym and work out with weights; women are definitely weaker in their upper bodies, but your strength can be improved. Doing nothing but aerobic activity isn't the answer if you want strength. I used to get bummed out because I was no longer the slim little barrel racer...then I took a good look at the heavier men I was running against who were winning...what was the difference? The difference was that they were strong (which meant they rode well) and were there to win. I started lifting weights and got a 'do or die' attitude, and completely turned my runs around, without abusing my horse. Most women have more 'correct' runs and less weight, and obviously those are advantages for us! Women tend to be more protective of their horses, which may cause them to 'safety-up' more often (which can be a good thing under some circumstances), where men are more business-like....you rarely see men petting on and pampering their horses...but that doesn't mean the horses are miserable or abused. Most rodeo folks have met ropers and steer wrestlers who don't want people petting their horses; they have a job to do, and that's what they're out there to do...the horses themselves have a business-like attitude and are tough competitors. I know there are plenty of people out there who are hard on their horses and do rotten things to win, and those things need to be dealt with, but I think it's ridiculous to push male competitors out just because they're doing well. What if the tables were turned? What if women got into a male-dominated sport and showed that they were really good at it...so good that the men wanted to limit their entries or set up separate competitions for them? How would the women feel? Wouldn't that make the men sound like a bunch of crybabies? Wouldn't the women just laugh and tell them to 'deal with it'? As for them running more horses...so what? Who says we can't? If there were a bunch of strong, winning women running multiple horses would we be as upset? I agree that many women aren't 'out for blood' when they run...perhaps we need to be? I think it's great that the men have made the competition tougher...it forces me to be that much better. Just remember you're only as good as your competition..!
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    Location: Oklahoma | Everyone is entitled to their opinions - and even though we are disagreeing, I am happy to see no major flame throwing here!
But in my opinion - weight lifting should not be a requirement for barel racing. My horses are trained to rate and turn. You might need to "bump" now and then. But if I ever felt that I needed huge muscles to haul my horse around a barrel - I would not consider that horse finished enough to be running. JMHO!! | |
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    Location: Oregon | Originally written by geronabean on 2004-04-12 10:42 AM
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   Location: Buffalo, TX | I agree with you Tx3. I think a few people hit on why it might be hard for a woman to get the mounts, or the same quality of horses as the guys. It all depends on your priorities and what your goals are. If your goal is to get the satisfaction of training and competing on your home raised colt, then you probably have a statistically lesser chance of coming up with a top 5 futurity colt becaus you ar putting all your eggs in one basket. I know it can be done...look at Carissa Shearer, but I also think that maybe the futurities should make the non-pro division for owner/riders only. That would help the people who have 1 colt a year to train and compete on. A lot of women don't want to devote the time to training colts, and choose to rodeo instead, but the guys don't have that option. Plus, there are a lot more guys East of the Mississippi that run barrels, so talking about all the guys at Turn N Burn would be a lot different than talking about the guys at a futurity in California. On the other hand, if your goal is to win as much $$$ as you can because barrel horses and futurities are your profession, and you have a family to feed, then you ride the best colts you can find, and as many as you can find, no matter who trained them. There's no disgrace in having the talent to jump on a strange horse and run one of the fastest times of the day. I've always felt that the argument, "I don't have as much respect for those who compete on horses they didn't train", has sort of a tone of jealousy to it. It takes as much talent to ride a top futurity horse too. It's true that a lot of women have kids and a family to care for, and that keeps some of them from spending as much time with their horses as they'd like, but barrel racing at the futurity level is a sport that you need a lot of support from your family and friends to be a winner. It's so time comsuming training and hauling colts. Most of the women winning at the top now don't have kids to worry about and they can devote 100% of their focus on their horses. It's a matter of choices. I still think if your family is behind you and will help you and support your efforts, that you can also be a top futurity rider. At the level we are talking about, to win, you have to be able to have a program in place where you are great at picking talented horses, and know when to quit one and go on to another one that is better suited to futurity competition. I think more women tend to stick with one horse no matter what, even if it's a mediocre colt, and then they get outrun by someone who knows exactly what is needed to win, and they keep looking until they find that special horse to go to the futurities with. One of the benefits of being a talented trainer or rider is that owners will bring you their colts to try, and you can pick the best ones to either ride or buy. So, if your goal is to win at the futurity level, you need to work hard to prove yourself as a good trainer, or a talented jockey first, then the rest will fall in place. | |
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       Location: Haslet, Texas | Most of you from around Fort Worth, Texas will remember when Larry Stevens was around hers they started a whole other barrel racing association just so he could run. All the others were for women only. I always thought it was a crock because he was allowed to run at all the barrel races but just couldn't belong to them. I honestly believe running against him helped shape my competativeness and stepped it up a notch. I knew if he was there I had to ride hard and aggressive to win. I ran against Larry on such horses as Magic(the paint that Charmayne owned later) Fretta, great mare, and Dr Nick Bar. You can all agree that these were great horses and I won against Larry many times on my own home raised and trained horse. He actually wanted to run her. I don't futurity so alot of this doesn't affect me. I have seen alot of men in the 4-D's. I was surprised to see all the men entered at the Better Barrel Racing finals in OKC. They met the requirements and came for the money. It's as simple as that. Money talks. | |
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   Location: Buffalo, TX | Originally written by beckybelle on 2004-04-12 10:38 AM
Everyone is entitled to their opinions - and even though we are disagreeing, I am happy to see no major flame throwing here! But in my opinion - weight lifting should not be a requirement for barel racing. My horses are trained to rate and turn. You might need to "bump" now and then. But if I ever felt that I needed huge muscles to haul my horse around a barrel - I would not consider that horse finished enough to be running. JMHO!! If you consider anatomy, it's the abdomen and lower body strength that will help you be a better rider, not upper body strength. I don't think huge muscles are needed, just the strength to be confident enough to ride hard. I also want to ride a horse that I don't have to pull on, and I think Kansas is right when she says that us women have a great advantage over the men because of our weight and we tend to train more correctly, so we need to capitalize on those things and get guttier and tougher mentally, and make our horses work for us more. | |
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     Location: Depends where the next barrel race is..... | Originally written by lonestarace on 2004-04-12 10:24 AM
Wow, I can't believe I'm reading this! I tend to agree with CindyHamilton; of course we can compete with the men and win! Quit selling yourselves short! Take a good look at men and how they compete (the mindset, aggressiveness, and physical condition), then get out there and improve on your weak areas! Go to the gym and work out with weights; women are definitely weaker in their upper bodies, but your strength can be improved. Doing nothing but aerobic activity isn't the answer if you want strength. I used to get bummed out because I was no longer the slim little barrel racer...then I took a good look at the heavier men I was running against who were winning...what was the difference? The difference was that they were strong (which meant they rode well) and were there to win. I started lifting weights and got a 'do or die' attitude, and completely turned my runs around, without abusing my horse. Most women have more 'correct' runs and less weight, and obviously those are advantages for us! Women tend to be more protective of their horses, which may cause them to 'safety-up' more often (which can be a good thing under some circumstances), where men are more business-like....you rarely see men petting on and pampering their horses...but that doesn't mean the horses are miserable or abused. Most rodeo folks have met ropers and steer wrestlers who don't want people petting their horses; they have a job to do, and that's what they're out there to do...the horses themselves have a business-like attitude and are tough competitors. I know there are plenty of people out there who are hard on their horses and do rotten things to win, and those things need to be dealt with, but I think it's ridiculous to push male competitors out just because they're doing well. What if the tables were turned? What if women got into a male-dominated sport and showed that they were really good at it...so good that the men wanted to limit their entries or set up separate competitions for them? How would the women feel? Wouldn't that make the men sound like a bunch of crybabies? Wouldn't the women just laugh and tell them to 'deal with it'? As for them running more horses...so what? Who says we can't? If there were a bunch of strong, winning women running multiple horses would we be as upset? I agree that many women aren't 'out for blood' when they run...perhaps we need to be? I think it's great that the men have made the competition tougher...it forces me to be that much better. Just remember you're only as good as your competition..!
I agree with you totally! I read this thread last night after we had just returned from a futurity. The topic got me so twitterpatted that I had to sleep on what I wanted to say before I said something really strong.
Both my son and I barrel race. He rides futurity colts when we have them ready, and I rodeo. We own an 8 year old mare that won every futurity that she went to except one. She is amazing. I did a lot of the training, making her be correct. We have always talked about the person who fits the horses style the best will be the one to run it in the futurity. I could go out there and make the prettiest run on this mare, be perfectally correct and still be two tenths of a second slower than my son. He rides for the moment, I find myself correcting the horse if she takes a wrong step. Soooooooo.... I watched video after video to figure things out this winter. What was the difference? If he has a bad first barrel, he just gets tougher to make up for the time lost. If I have a bad first barrel, I make sure things are correct for the next two. A time killer. I am from the school that if you train your horse good enough, and have that perfect run you will win! Not so! It isn't about how pretty your run is, it is about shutting the clock off the fastest. I think men understand this better than we do. So, this year I decided that I would train at home like a woman, and compete like a man! Each race gets faster. Now I have decided that these really successful men, train at home like a woman, and compete like a man. The foundation is there to fall back on, but they never quit when the money is up.
One more thing, I would like to comment on the gapping mouths comment that so many seem to think is because a man is pulling hard. Yes, there is no doubt that they are stronger than us. But stronger isn't always better. Unless your horse is TRAINED to turn a barrel correctly, no pulling in the world is going to get them around that barrel. Secondly, most snaffle bits cause a mouth to gap open when pressure is applied. That is why in most English/Jumping competitions you see them using some sort of cavesson to keep the mouth shut and aesthetically pleasing to the judges eye.
Okay one more thing, (I promise) to insinuate that the drugging problem in the horse industry is man made (pun intended) is totally off base. Woman have been drugging their horses long before men came onto the barrel racing scene.
Men have helped this industry grow to be what it is today and should be a welcome sight when you go to a barrel race. Because it means that the industry is growing and flurishing and will remain strong. More barrel racers are a good thing. I hope instead of trying to eliminate the competition, some of you will sit back and reevaluate why you are not competitive and make the changes you need. If I did the same things I used to do when I was winning 20 years ago, I would be in the 4D. Times change, people figure out a way to be faster. I have had to figure out a way to keep up with a better feed program, better equine veterinary care (I now haul 4 hours to a vet), a better fittness program, and I am learning (this is a work in progress) how to compete like a man! | |
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       Location: Wisconsin | Originally written by geronabean on 2004-04-12 10:42 AM
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     Location: Purcell, Ok. | Originally written by SmokinBandits on 2004-04-11 10:32 PM
But aren't these guys riding these horses BECAUSE they are winning, not winning because of the number of horses? Not every horse they are riding is winning. But barrel racing is a gamble & any horse can put a run together & win some money @ some point. Especially a youngster. We have had lots of traffic in our facility the past few weeks. One was once the head of the USTPA. He personally couldn't understand how a barrel race could be fair with several jockeys riding outrageous numbers either. EVERY assoc. limits except for the futurities. I mean why would you play cards with a 8 armed man?... Heeeheee!!!! Get it he has got more hands than you!!! Hahaha!!! | |
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     Location: Depends where the next barrel race is..... | Originally written by Cindy Hamilton on 2004-04-12 9:00 AM Originally written by beckybelle on 2004-04-12 10:38 AM
Everyone is entitled to their opinions - and even though we are disagreeing, I am happy to see no major flame throwing here! But in my opinion - weight lifting should not be a requirement for barel racing. My horses are trained to rate and turn. You might need to "bump" now and then. But if I ever felt that I needed huge muscles to haul my horse around a barrel - I would not consider that horse finished enough to be running. JMHO!! If you consider anatomy, it's the abdomen and lower body strength that will help you be a better rider, not upper body strength. I don't think huge muscles are needed, just the strength to be confident enough to ride hard. I also want to ride a horse that I don't have to pull on, and I think Kansas is right when she says that us women have a great advantage over the men because of our weight and we tend to train more correctly, so we need to capitalize on those things and get guttier and tougher mentally, and make our horses work for us more. I think you read my mind!!! | |
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     Location: Depends where the next barrel race is..... | Originally written by K O on 2004-04-12 9:06 AM Originally written by SmokinBandits on 2004-04-11 10:32 PM
But aren't these guys riding these horses BECAUSE they are winning, not winning because of the number of horses? Not every horse they are riding is winning. But barrel racing is a gamble & any horse can put a run together & win some money @ some point. Especially a youngster. We have had lots of traffic in our facility the past few weeks. One was once the head of the USTPA. He personally couldn't understand how a barrel race could be fair with several jockeys riding outrageous numbers either. EVERY assoc. limits except for the futurities. I mean why would you play cards with a 8 armed man?... Heeeheee!!!! Get it he has got more hands than you!!! Hahaha!!! One thing people need to remember is that a Futurity is based on each horse, not each rider. The Kentucky Derby has had multiple enteries from the same trainer, but they all run at the same time so using the same jockey certainly wouldn't work. If you run at a rodeo, it is based on the rider, and you can run the same horse as someone else. I hope your colt is doing better Kendall! I see Buggies Jet everyday and he is looking great! Debbie and him are figuring each other out. I think they will be quite the team at the end of the summer. She is just taking it slow on the nice colt she got from you. | |
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          Location: 100 miles from Nowhere, AR | Originally written by beckybelle on 2004-04-12 10:38 AM
But in my opinion - weight lifting should not be a requirement for barel racing. My horses are trained to rate and turn. You might need to "bump" now and then. But if I ever felt that I needed huge muscles to haul my horse around a barrel - I would not consider that horse finished enough to be running. JMHO!!
AMEN!! I think women have an advantage riding a finished (ie well trained) horse because we stay out of their way more than most men. Most of the men I see lack finesse. They're pulling on heads and throwing their weight around. That can work to their advantage on a young horse, but they lose that advantage with the older horses. The men that I consider to be good riders "ride like a woman"; soft hands, in the middle of their horses. I have never ever gone to a barrel race and thought, "oh no, there's a lot of men here, I'm not going to win anything." The gender of the riders absolutely does not cross my mind. IMO, if it does, you're looking for an excuse.
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     Location: Florida | Originally written by geronabean on 2004-04-12 11:42 AM
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        Location: I'm lost - please tell me, I'm not on BHW again!!! | This is going to be a long topic, so I only want to say this about # of horses, men, etc. 1) A good friend of ours is a male rider (he is an older one) and years ago I remember him telling us that he starts off each season with 25 or more horses, then we starts working them he weeds them down to which horses he's going to futurity that next year. He says he knows by 60 days of riding. Well when you start off with that number you're really going to get what kind of horses you like and what your looking for. I think people who don't do this for a living are at a more less advantage because they don't have the time and money to invest in a multiple number of horses to do this. 2) Yes, men have more body strength then women do, and I for one do think they do man handle the horses around barrels (that's why it's so hard to see a futurity horse after the futurity year go on and be something else). But I also think that if the arenas weren't so small the barrels wouldn't be set on the fence for the horse to bounce off of either, then I would like to see those guys try to run. But it's a race like anyother. And you can choose where you want to go and what you want to do. With that being said: 3) I think a lot of people (women) running futurities feels this way. That's why the 4D's are getting huge. More people are happier taking their futurity colts to 4D's or 4D futurities because they can run their horses at their own pace and have a horse for the future. Now with all that out, Ok you can flame me if you want, but that's my one serious post for the day, I'm going to back to torturing you guys now!!!
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| When I originally posted this I wasnt talking about the 4Ds I was specifically talking about the futurities and the number of men. I realize the alona james, kim landrys, jackie dubes are out there. How many have they won lately compared to Troy and Chris and Ryan? However, If I wanted to futurity my 3 yold I would choose my futurities very wisely. I would love to compete against some of the top women and wouldnt even think about drawing out. But when you see Troy coming with 10 horses, knowing he not only has a numerical advantage but a no holds barred win at any cost because hes earning a living, it frustrates me because I dont have the same advantage. Im just talking about an even playing field. Ill even take jackie dube with 5 or 6 horses. | |
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       Location: Georgia | If you don't want to run against the top male riders at the futurities, go rodeo. Guess what - You won't be able to beat the top riders there either. Male or female it takes dedication to the be the best. Do the guys have more muscle to bend some horses around - yeah. We have to do what we've always done - out think, out train, out ride. | |
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   Location: Buffalo, TX | Originally written by Where Am I? on 2004-04-12 11:34 AM 2) Yes, men have more body strength then women do, and I for one do think they do man handle the horses around barrels (that's why it's so hard to see a futurity horse after the futurity year go on and be something else). But I also think that if the arenas weren't so small the barrels wouldn't be set on the fence for the horse to bounce off of either, then I would like to see those guys try to run. But it's a race like anyother. And you can choose where you want to go and what you want to do. With that being said: I also think some guys snatch their horses, that's why many of us have said that women tend to train more correctly and we just need to add the guts to that to beat the men. A more correctly trained, speedy horse with a rider that has guts will ourun them! This is the reason we don't see some of these guy's top futurity horses winning as 10 yr. olds. They are done with them, and the riders that follow them don't ride like that. I have to differ with you on the small patterns. Speedhorse at Tulsa was a measured standard WPRA pattern with barrels nowhere near a fence, and the winners were running 16.9's and 17.0's on those same horses. They pick hard running horses with no resentment that will come the second they ask, so they will turn a barrel in any size pattern and win. | |
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   Location: Buffalo, TX | Originally written by Justmeandmy3 on 2004-04-12 11:47 AM
When I originally posted this I wasnt talking about the 4Ds I was specifically talking about the futurities and the number of men. I realize the alona james, kim landrys, jackie dubes are out there. How many have they won lately compared to Troy and Chris and Ryan? However, If I wanted to futurity my 3 yold I would choose my futurities very wisely. I would love to compete against some of the top women and wouldnt even think about drawing out. But when you see Troy coming with 10 horses, knowing he not only has a numerical advantage but a no holds barred win at any cost because hes earning a living, it frustrates me because I dont have the same advantage. Im just talking about an even playing field. Ill even take jackie dube with 5 or 6 horses. It only takes ONE good horse to outrun them and be at the top. If you have chosen your horse wisely, trained it well and correctly, and can ride it competitively and confidently, you have a HUGE advantage over these guys with less weight and a better trained horse! I don't understand why you think you can't compete against them. There's no difference in Troy with 10 horses and Jackie with 6...if you have the better horse and can ride it well, you will be ahead of ALL of them with the $$$ in your pocket, or at least in between his horses. What if there were 10 different riders on those same horses, would you enter then? Think of it as HORSES entered...not riders, and it might change your focus. You have to go in there with the attitude that you have the best horse and THEY have to outrun YOU. Get gutty and get the blood in your eye, and want the win like your next meal depends on it. I'm sure you already know what type of horse it takes to win a futurity, so if you are prepared ahead of time, and winning, you surely will have the confidence to go for it and feel like you can do it.... don't be so negative or you will get beat for sure. | |
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| <i>If you don't want to run against the top male riders at the futurities, go rodeo. Guess what - You won't be able to beat the top riders there either. Male or female it takes dedication to the be the best.</i> When I first read the initial post I took it as a small rant against fate and the fact that some of us can't be full time or ride 10-20 horses. I think it has gotten a bit out of hand with insults. Not everyone can do the same and not everyone should. Personally men excell at many, many sports and they also win the majority of equine sports including reining and cutting more often than women. I took the post as "dang, I wish there were less men sometimes." I don't think it's right to question someone's dedication based on a simple post where someone may have had an off day and wanted to vent a little. JMO - and I think most of the posts had great points on both sides of the fence.... | |
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         Location: Where I am happiest | Originally written by Cindy Hamilton on 2004-04-12 12:07 PM It only takes ONE good horse to outrun them and be at the top. If you have chosen your horse wisely, trained it well and correctly, and can ride it competitively and confidently, you have a HUGE advantage over these guys with less weight and a better trained horse! I don't understand why you think you can't compete against them. There's no difference in Troy with 10 horses and Jackie with 6...if you have the better horse and can ride it well, you will be ahead of ALL of them with the $$$ in your pocket, or at least in between his horses. What if there were 10 different riders on those same horses, would you enter then? Think of it as HORSES entered...not riders, and it might change your focus. You have to go in there with the attitude that you have the best horse and THEY have to outrun YOU. Get gutty and get the blood in your eye, and want the win like your next meal depends on it. I'm sure you already know what type of horse it takes to win a futurity, so if you are prepared ahead of time, and winning, you surely will have the confidence to go for it and feel like you can do it.... don't be so negative or you will get beat for sure.     
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       Location: Peg-Leg Julia Grimm | Originally written by smiley on 2004-04-12 12:19 PM If you don't want to run against the top male riders at the futurities, go rodeo. Guess what - You won't be able to beat the top riders there either. Male or female it takes dedication to the be the best. When I first read the initial post I took it as a small rant against fate and the fact that some of us can't be full time or ride 10-20 horses. I think it has gotten a bit out of hand with insults. Not everyone can do the same and not everyone should. Personally men excell at many, many sports and they also win the majority of equine sports including reining and cutting more often than women. I took the post as "dang, I wish there were less men sometimes." I don't think it's right to question someone's dedication based on a simple post where someone may have had an off day and wanted to vent a little. JMO - and I think most of the posts had great points on both sides of the fence.... I would think that too except the original poster came back and clarified her position. I think what some of us are trying to get across is that whatever you are after, it's hard work. Some of us are not blessed with the same talents as others...that's where hard work comes in. People who make it to the top of their sport work their off to get it done. Male or Female...there are a set of limitations and advantages that come with each. If you know your limitations, you can work to overcome them. It takes sacrifice and single minded passion to reach the top. A perfect example is Lance Armstrong. That man is a maniac...any "normal" person would have rolled over and died or used his cancer as an excuse to quit. What an inspiration to human will!!  | |
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       Location: Peg-Leg Julia Grimm | Originally written by ThreeCorners on 2004-04-12 12:25 PM Originally written by Cindy Hamilton on 2004-04-12 12:07 PM It only takes ONE good horse to outrun them and be at the top. If you have chosen your horse wisely, trained it well and correctly, and can ride it competitively and confidently, you have a HUGE advantage over these guys with less weight and a better trained horse! I don't understand why you think you can't compete against them. There's no difference in Troy with 10 horses and Jackie with 6...if you have the better horse and can ride it well, you will be ahead of ALL of them with the $$$ in your pocket, or at least in between his horses. What if there were 10 different riders on those same horses, would you enter then? Think of it as HORSES entered...not riders, and it might change your focus. You have to go in there with the attitude that you have the best horse and THEY have to outrun YOU. Get gutty and get the blood in your eye, and want the win like your next meal depends on it. I'm sure you already know what type of horse it takes to win a futurity, so if you are prepared ahead of time, and winning, you surely will have the confidence to go for it and feel like you can do it.... don't be so negative or you will get beat for sure.     
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      Location: BFE, Texas | Originally written by ThreeCorners on 2004-04-12 12:25 PM Originally written by Cindy Hamilton on 2004-04-12 12:07 PM It only takes ONE good horse to outrun them and be at the top. If you have chosen your horse wisely, trained it well and correctly, and can ride it competitively and confidently, you have a HUGE advantage over these guys with less weight and a better trained horse! I don't understand why you think you can't compete against them. There's no difference in Troy with 10 horses and Jackie with 6...if you have the better horse and can ride it well, you will be ahead of ALL of them with the $$$ in your pocket, or at least in between his horses. What if there were 10 different riders on those same horses, would you enter then? Think of it as HORSES entered...not riders, and it might change your focus. You have to go in there with the attitude that you have the best horse and THEY have to outrun YOU. Get gutty and get the blood in your eye, and want the win like your next meal depends on it. I'm sure you already know what type of horse it takes to win a futurity, so if you are prepared ahead of time, and winning, you surely will have the confidence to go for it and feel like you can do it.... don't be so negative or you will get beat for sure.     
Thats all that needs to be said!!! You put the whole barrel racing/competing world in that 1 paragraph!  Double Ditto! That's the CONFORMING I'm talking about. Mixed sexes in classes, be it futurities or jackpots, are here to stay. I now see each rider as a competitor, not guy or gal, and each horse as more money in the pot! I may not have liked the change back when it happened, but it sure made me ride harder back then, I mean I did'nt want "some guy" out barrel racing me LOL!! Now I've accepted the fact it's an everyday thing and as I get older and more stiff in the joints, I hope my SON will go on and jockey my barrel horses at those big shows so I can be at the sidelines hollering out "Sit up and ride!" | |
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| So now making an observation makes you a negative person? Im not a negative person at all. I am a realist however. I have and will continue to compete against all of them. I would just like to see a more even playing field especially with the number of horses allowed to enter. | |
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       Location: South Texas | Just wondering if anyone would like to comment on Add Waddell...I haven't seen his name in the mix and I know of people with horses currently in training with him and have contemplated send one myself....But I am definitley looking for this horse to last for the LONG HAUL...not a short lived, glamour filled futurity year...so tell me what you think???? I have seen some of his like Risky Chris continue to do well with Kappy but are there more than just this one? Not trying to get someone slammed here...just actually looking for true opinions.
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      Location: BFE, Texas | Justme, most of the trainers riding mulitple horses are hired by different owners to jockey their horses. Each horse is entered under those owners as an entry. If you limit the amount of horses ridden by a certain rider, you would actually be limiting the owners to entering which does'nt make sense. About the only way to do what you're wanting would be to have a breeder/owner/rider division. When you have to fork out that kind of $$ for expenses throughout, it would put the type of limits you're talking about in the classes, but then you would'nt have near the amount of $$ to run for. | |
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| No, you're only limiting the owners using that one particular rider. The owners can enter as many horses as they wish, they all wont be ridden by the same person. I tried to call you this am. Were you on the puter? | |
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| Originally written by Cindy Hamilton on 2004-04-11 2:33 PM
You CAN compete with, and outrun the guys!! I agree that takes dedication and a lot of hard work, but it's our choice to do it or not. It takes a tough, tough person, physically and mentally to ride that hard and really want it that bad. These guys have no fear, they ride with a bull rider mentality, and they will really try a horse right up to the barrel every single time there's money up. I think some women tend to want a run to be more correct, and they don't really get the blood in their eye that the guys do. Alona James comes as close to riding like the guys as any woman I've seen. You also have to dedicate yourself daily to doing what it takes to keep you and your horse conditioned to the nines to have the strength, speed, and power it will take to outrun them. It just all depends on how bad you want it, and how hard you are willing to work for it. You will never talk to a champion that said it was easy...they all made sacrifices to get to the top.
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     Location: Wishing on a sunny island.... | Personally, I like that men barrel race. It makes me go out and train harder and longer. I watched an old futurity today that a friend of mine had on tape and out of 10 riders, there were 2 women. I didnt care about that, but what did catch my eye is that there was only ONE man who had actually trained his horse to bend around the barrel and he went out and blew the others out of the water. All the other men (and this isnt saying anything bad about men because Ive seen alot of women train this way also) had to PULL their horses around the barrels. The horses fought the bit the whole way around. I couldnt hear names, but you could tell as soon as this guy went in that he was gonna have a nice run and he did. However, wherever you go, there is always gonna be someone who can ride better or faster than you. That means you have to spend that much more time training your horse. Once you have a nice horse, its easy to sit back and wait, eventually, you will start getting faster and falling into the money. Its a wonderful feeling to ride a horse that you trained yourself and win. Its also nice to get the compliments saying what a nice turn your horse makes or how great he runs the pattern. | |
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   Location: Buffalo, TX | Originally written by Justmeandmy3 on 2004-04-12 11:47 AM
But when you see Troy coming with 10 horses, knowing he not only has a numerical advantage but a no holds barred win at any cost because hes earning a living, it frustrates me because I dont have the same advantage. I'm not flaming, and I know exactly how you feel, but the fact is that it will never change, so if you want to be competitive at futurities, you'll have to accept that to gain any advantage, you have to work hard to make your one horse be beter than any of his 10 horses. I do think your comment about Troy is extremely negative, and affects your confidence right from the start. If you see Troy coming and immediately get frustrated because you don't have the same advantages, he's already beat you. The brain is a very powerful motivator, or un-motivator, and it's up to you to decide to not worry about who's entered, or how many horses they have, and just go do your job and outrun them. Don't even look at the list, just prepare, enter, and go make your best run and get the money. You say that one of his advantages is that he has a no holds barred win attitude...so you'll have to get tough and get that same attitude. The pattern is the same for everyone, so that makes the playing field even. You just have to find a way to get from point A to point B faster than he can. If you mean that you don't have the advantage of riding 10 horses, then I would start doing all I could to make my one horse better than any of his 10. What if there were 10 guys riding those horses, all as good as Troy...then what could you do? Forget about all his horses and do your own thing. If you have a quality colt with plenty of speed, and condition him so well that he can do his best, and then ride him tough, what have you got to lose? Go for it! | |
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     Location: Depends where the next barrel race is..... | Originally written by Cindy Hamilton on 2004-04-12 3:51 PM
Originally written by Justmeandmy3 on 2004-04-12 11:47 AM
But when you see Troy coming with 10 horses, knowing he not only has a numerical advantage but a no holds barred win at any cost because hes earning a living, it frustrates me because I dont have the same advantage. I'm not flaming, and I know exactly how you feel, but the fact is that it will never change, so if you want to be competitive at futurities, you'll have to accept that to gain any advantage, you have to work hard to make your one horse be beter than any of his 10 horses. I do think your comment about Troy is extremely negative, and affects your confidence right from the start. If you see Troy coming and immediately get frustrated because you don't have the same advantages, he's already beat you. The brain is a very powerful motivator, or un-motivator, and it's up to you to decide to not worry about who's entered, or how many horses they have, and just go do your job and outrun them. Don't even look at the list, just prepare, enter, and go make your best run and get the money. You say that one of his advantages is that he has a no holds barred win attitude...so you'll have to get tough and get that same attitude. The pattern is the same for everyone, so that makes the playing field even. You just have to find a way to get from point A to point B faster than he can. If you mean that you don't have the advantage of riding 10 horses, then I would start doing all I could to make my one horse better than any of his 10. What if there were 10 guys riding those horses, all as good as Troy...then what could you do? Forget about all his horses and do your own thing. If you have a quality colt with plenty of speed, and condition him so well that he can do his best, and then ride him tough, what have you got to lose? Go for it!
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| I didnt post on here to get a "pep talk on motivation" I am probably one of the biggest proponents for just get out there and do it and be the best attitudes. I dont make excuses and dont like to listen to them from other barrel racers. It is, however, very expensive to enter these futurities and I dont see it as an even playing field for the average person. I have a futurity horse and if she continues on her path you will be seeing me out there running against them all. Thats all I was saying. | |
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       Location: Illinois | Sounds like a "lifes not fair thing" to me! Of course it is not fair. It is not fair that some people have enough money to pay for expensive horses, trainers, and entry fees, when some of us can not even dream of having half of what they have. But the fact of the matter is, that the barrel racing industry is growing all the time. That means more men, more kids, and more women at these shows. Sure it sucks that I can not load up 10 horses and make my way to a futurity, win, and then do the same thing the next weekend. But the fact of the matter is, that to continue showing at this level, you have to accept it.....the more entries that a race has, the more money it makes, while still paying out a fixed amount. I doubt that it will ever come down to: you can only enter this many horses in this event. That means money loss and/or lesser payouts which equals disaster for the show producers. | |
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     Location: Purcell, Ok. | Originally written by Where Am I? on 2004-04-12 11:34 AM This is going to be a long topic, so I only want to say this about # of horses, men, etc. 1) A good friend of ours is a male rider (he is an older one) and years ago I remember him telling us that he starts off each season with 25 or more horses, then we starts working them he weeds them down to which horses he's going to futurity that next year. He says he knows by 60 days of riding. Well when you start off with that number you're really going to get what kind of horses you like and what your looking for. I think people who don't do this for a living are at a more less advantage because they don't have the time and money to invest in a multiple number of horses to do this. 2) Yes, men have more body strength then women do, and I for one do think they do man handle the horses around barrels (that's why it's so hard to see a futurity horse after the futurity year go on and be something else). But I also think that if the arenas weren't so small the barrels wouldn't be set on the fence for the horse to bounce off of either, then I would like to see those guys try to run. But it's a race like anyother. And you can choose where you want to go and what you want to do. With that being said: 3) I think a lot of people (women) running futurities feels this way. That's why the 4D's are getting huge. More people are happier taking their futurity colts to 4D's or 4D futurities because they can run their horses at their own pace and have a horse for the future. Now with all that out, Ok you can flame me if you want, but that's my one serious post for the day, I'm going to back to torturing you guys now!!! Very well put!!!   | |
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     Location: Purcell, Ok. | Originally written by Justmeandmy3 on 2004-04-12 12:47 PM So now making an observation makes you a negative person? Im not a negative person at all. I am a realist however. I have and will continue to compete against all of them. I would just like to see a more even playing field especially with the number of horses allowed to enter. Uhhhhhhh my point exactly about the # you can enter!!!
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     Location: Purcell, Ok. | Originally written by Cindy Hamilton on 2004-04-11 11:14 PM Originally written by joy4aa on 2004-04-11 9:14 PM
How many people can I hack off by pointing out that on the whole, more women actually like their horses and wouldn't consider risking their long term wellfare or health by giving them performance enhancing drugs. I'd like to see the sport cleaned up just to see if that changed anything. I'd like to see the sport cleaned up too, but don't kid yourself, with this much money at stake, it's not just the men using drugs, or mistreating their horses. One of the worst cases of physical abuse at a futurity that I personally witnessed was by a top woman rider, who obviously only cared about the finals money, and not the welfare of her horse! Yep, yep, yep!!! | |
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      Location: Nowhere Special | I hate to lose as much as the next person, but if we limited any sport to a single sex it would decrease the entries. Take all the men away from barrel racing would be like shooting the sport in the foot. Yes it would take away a lot of competition, but with that it also takes away a lot of entries, added money, interest, snowballing down into breeding's, foal prices, etc.. If you don't like riding with men come on up to SD, they still get the "queer, fagot, gotta play with girls do ya sissy" attitude.. Keeps most of them out, but also keeps our pay back very low.. :) I will say it has gotten better, but nothing like what I was use to.. I'm going to go out on a limb here and say I could not and would not send any of my horses to some of the men racing today. Simply put I couldn't ride like them nor would I want to. I want a horse to last me, not be a one hit wonder. I'm old school and I believe you shouldn't need "muscle" to get a horse around a barrel. Train that horse right and he knows where he is going to turn, just keep um moving.. We all have to start somewhere and the next top rider just could be you!
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| Originally written by Justmeandmy3 on 2004-04-12 11:47 AM
But when you see Troy coming with 10 horses, knowing he not only has a numerical advantage but a no holds barred win at any cost because hes earning a living, it frustrates me because I dont have the same advantage. Im just talking about an even playing field.
I read where you posted your point earlier about how you did not come on here for a pep talk on motivation. But really, just read your last couple of sentences in your post up above. "It frustrates you because you don't have the same advantage...you're just talking about an even playing field..." I see where you're coming from. Of course life's not fair. But those comments do sound a bit like gripes, and yet you posted later that you come to barrel races with a positive attitude? It doesn't sound like it here. You should obviously know that in ANY sport, especially in one where you have pros competing, because they do it for a living, there is going to be a certain amount of good, solid competition that takes home the money, while the rest get left with empty pockets. You'll have that wherever you go. Do people honestly think they're going to change the futurity/barrel racing world just to make things "fair"? "Okay, *so and so*, you can't run here because you win all the time and haul too many, and we need to make this an equal, fair playing field." I think sometimes when you make something fair, just to make someone out there happy, you take the fun and excitement out of it. Where would this sport be without male trainers/jockeys like Troy, Cody, Chris, Jamey, etc. and the females like Alona, Carissa, Jackie, Leslie, etc. and all of the awesome horses they've jockeyed? To make this sport an equal playing field you'd have to remove some of the best trainers, jockeys, and equine athletes in barrel racing history, that blow people away on any given weekend. Point is, if you have some top notch futurity mounts, put them up against the "big dogs." It's a horse race any given weekend, anything can happen. If you can't compete with the best, compete in a small, local gymkhana association or saddle club, or in the 4Ds where you have a chance at a paycheck in the 3D or 4D. If you want to compete strictly against women (who are just as tough as men) go rodeo. There's so many different levels of competition and associations to run in out there, but when it comes down to this futurity world, expect to run with the big dogs. The tougher your competition is, the tougher it makes you! JMHO :)
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  Location: Texas | Snazzy - I bought a horse that Add Waddell trained several years back. She ran her heart out for me and I rode her with practically nothing in her mouth. I would NOT hesitate to buy from him or have him train one of mine. He not only rides light handed and does a great job with his horses, he is great to work with and very helpful. Just FYI. | |
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      Location: NE Louisiana | If you dont want to run against the best go to a USBRL or something like that. When you enter a futurity you know who will be there. Instead of griping about running against those futurity people go to other shows. | |
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      Location: BFE, Texas | Originally written by Justmeandmy3 on 2004-04-12 1:27 PM No, you're only limiting the owners using that one particular rider. The owners can enter as many horses as they wish, they all wont be ridden by the same person. I tried to call you this am. Were you on the puter?[/QUOTE I was either on the putor or the phone. It was Grand Central today. Okay, here's my take on the # of horses entered but ridden by different jockeys. IF it was me, I would'nt want the many variety of styles riding my horses. I'd want a rider that could ride, and I mean really ride! be it male or female, not one that man/woman handles one around a can., one that would do justice to my horse(s) and make consistant winning rides. Hence, if I was told by my regular rider "sorry Mrs. Tx3turns, I'm filled up with my quota of horses for X show. Maybe some other time?" I would'nt be a very happy camper. And if it went on and on, pretty soon my colts out of my stud would'nt be making a name for him or themselves, so I quit breeding and selling. And if it went on to other breeders, they'd be out of business too. A lot of these top barrel sires are in demand now because of what their offspring have done, but if they'd never been under a good rider and/or trainer, they'd be just another feed bill in the barn. And not very many folks would have access to good horses with proven lines. Now, scenerio #2, what if you were that hired rider? That would be less grocery money to feed your family with, cause that's how you make a living. Yes, it's tough to run against the toughs, but think how nice it would be to just enter up and outrun em. It can happen at anytime. I doubt Charmayne ever thought she'd win the world once, much less repeatedly, on her feedlot horse, or Kristie on her bargain buy, but they hung in there and look how it turned out. You just never know! Gotta just cowgirl up and go for it. Worrying about who's up at where is nothing but something else to worry about and a distraction from what could be an awsome run. If your filly grows up to be an awsome can turner, go for it. Heck, if you think you can't run her yourself, get a jockey, no shame in that, but I think you'll get more satisfaction if you were up there piloting...jmo (I get to preach cause I'm old folks!!LOL!!) | |
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     Location: Woodstown, NJ | Men running 10 horses equals ten times the expense and the risk. Not just ten times the winnings. People don't hire them to ride their horses unless they have proved themselves. Women can run 10 horses too if they prove themselves and many do. Someone said that women don't have the same opportunity because they have families to raise. Statistically more women stay at home to take care of their children than men do. I think that gives US more opportunity. I know I can sneak in a ride quicker than my husband can. Also, in our society, men have more pressure to bring home a paycheck the family can count on. So I think it is more possible for some women to try this for a living than men. Of course all of that is changing nowadays. Women are working. Men are barrel racing. I want them. I want the sport to grow. | |
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     Location: Nokomis, FL USA | Last I heard, winning was outrunning the competition. Seems to me if you ban everyone that is outrunning you, that ain't winning anything. You just take the sport out of the sport. | |
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       Location: South Texas | Originally written by Raceyone on 2004-04-12 9:59 PM Snazzy - I bought a horse that Add Waddell trained several years back. She ran her heart out for me and I rode her with practically nothing in her mouth. I would NOT hesitate to buy from him or have him train one of mine. He not only rides light handed and does a great job with his horses, he is great to work with and very helpful. Just FYI. Thanks for your response...I know it is a little off topic here. | |
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         Location: No Clue | Originally written by flipper on 2004-04-13 6:07 AM Last I heard, winning was outrunning the competition. Seems to me if you ban everyone that is outrunning you, that ain't winning anything. You just take the sport out of the sport.   
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         Location: LouLouVille, OK | I will say if anyone hauls 10 horses to a show,,,,,,,it makes me tierd just thinking about it all!  Holy smokes, When I see someone that I read their name in the papers all the time, is entered at the same place as me, usually the thing that comes to my mind is, not "oh great, look who is entered" it's "humm, lets just see how close I can come to that horse and rider" I may never blow um away, but I will sure give it my best, and call me lame, but I will hold my head up high and stick my chest out a little when I can say, I ran a half second off of any of um!! JMO I just take pride in what I accomplished, and enjoy watching a good run, no matter who makes it, it does kinda suck when I have to sit there and smile as they take my money! he he he he | |
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     Location: Nokomis, FL USA | Originally written by cindyt on 2004-04-13 8:50 AM I will say if anyone hauls 10 horses to a show,,,,,,,it makes me tierd just thinking about it all!  Holy smokes, When I see someone that I read their name in the papers all the time, is entered at the same place as me, usually the thing that comes to my mind is, not "oh great, look who is entered" it's "humm, lets just see how close I can come to that horse and rider" I may never blow um away, but I will sure give it my best, and call me lame, but I will hold my head up high and stick my chest out a little when I can say, I ran a half second off of any of um!! JMO I just take pride in what I accomplished, and enjoy watching a good run, no matter who makes it, it does kinda suck when I have to sit there and smile as they take my money! he he he he    
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   Location: Buffalo, TX | Originally written by cindyt on 2004-04-13 7:50 AM I will say if anyone hauls 10 horses to a show,,,,,,,it makes me tierd just thinking about it all!  Holy smokes, When I see someone that I read their name in the papers all the time, is entered at the same place as me, usually the thing that comes to my mind is, not "oh great, look who is entered" it's "humm, lets just see how close I can come to that horse and rider" I may never blow um away, but I will sure give it my best, and call me lame, but I will hold my head up high and stick my chest out a little when I can say, I ran a half second off of any of um!! JMO I just take pride in what I accomplished, and enjoy watching a good run, no matter who makes it, it does kinda suck when I have to sit there and smile as they take my money! he he he he Makes ya try harder too...doesn't it?? You're only as good as your competition. Some people or horses aren't futurity material, that's why the 4D's are so big. I know that's hurt the entries, but the non-pro divisions should give them a place to make money...and Troy can't qualify for that. At Speedhorse in Tulsa, the fastest qualifying futuity time was a 17.0, and it took an 18.1 or less to qualify for the non-pro finals. That's a 3-D time, folks....the money's there for the non-pros, all ya gotta do is enter and not be skeered!!  | |
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      Location: Kansas | Originally written by flipper on 2004-04-13 6:07 AM Last I heard, winning was outrunning the competition. Seems to me if you ban everyone that is outrunning you, that ain't winning anything. You just take the sport out of the sport. AMEN!!!!! | |
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   Location: Grandfield, OK | After reading most of the posts - I can't keep my mouth shut. I have worked for two of the most famous men trainers and I'll tell you I have never seen 2 men work harder at their jobs than them. They are honest folks trying to make a living just as you and I and they were gifted with the talent to train barrel horses - don't have ill feelings towards them because of their sex. The horses they trained have long successful careers and can be ridden successfully by women and children. I have stood up for these men for years by women bashing them and I have always felt that they did so because they couldn't out run them and I still believe that is true. Point is that if YOU worked that hard at winning and training your horse you too could win (even if you are just a woman!). If and when I out run them I know I have done a good job with the horse I am on. I wish everyone could see everybody as just trainers of good horses - not Men on horses VS women on horses. Look at the whole picture!! By the way - the two famous men are father and grandfather of the current world champion!! | |
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      Location: BFE, Texas | What cha mean "JUST a woman"!!!! ?? I understand your point and all, but JUST a woman??? | |
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         Location: LouLouVille, OK | Originally written by Tx3turns on 2004-04-13 4:37 PM What cha mean "JUST a woman"!!!! ??  I understand your point and all, but JUST a woman??? Yeah, really! Just a women,,,,hummmmmmm, he he he, by the way are they the ones that trained Cole N Cole and Dee Dee, cause if they are, I couldn't ride them puppies if I had bungies tying me in that saddle! he he he he he they are maniacs..... | |
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       Location: Georgia | I never meant this as an insult to anyone. I just don't see how limiting someone's entries can make a difference in how you do at a barrel race. You're racing against time. Who cares who else is there or how many horses they have? You have to ride your own without worrying who shows up or you're beat before you unload your horse. No bashing intended so please don't make me go to the "other" board....... | |
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         Location: LouLouVille, OK | Originally written by DashNChick on 2004-04-13 8:17 PM I never meant this as an insult to anyone. I just don't see how limiting someone's entries can make a difference in how you do at a barrel race. You're racing against time. Who cares who else is there or how many horses they have? You have to ride your own without worrying who shows up or you're beat before you unload your horse. No bashing intended so please don't make me go to the "other" board....... I was teasin!! he he he and might I add well said above!!  | |
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       Location: Georgia | Originally written by DashNChick on 2004-04-12 12:51 PM If you don't want to run against the top male riders at the futurities, go rodeo. Guess what - You won't be able to beat the top riders there either. Male or female it takes dedication to the be the best. Do the guys have more muscle to bend some horses around - yeah. We have to do what we've always done - out think, out train, out ride. I wasn't questioning anyone's dedication, merely pointing out the top riders have a lot of it. Am I getting senile or is this topic just a touchy subject?Is the bar open yet? | |
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         Location: LouLouVille, OK | Bars open here, come on over! I have already had a couple,,so catch up! | |
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