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  Northern Chocolate Queen
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Location: ND | I've talked this over with Gail already & would like to get everyone together to go in on flowers / a memorial for Jenn's son Matthew Deller. I live close by and will actually be in Mandan this weekend so will be able to deliver everything in person for all of us. I've set up a new paypal account to take donations towards it. If anyone would like to go in on something please let me know. If you send a paypal please include your name & BHW name so I can include everyone on a card. The paypal account is under the email of bismarckhorseclub@artbysarajean.com I'm heading out to work horses and do some stuff in the barn so I won't be back in until this evening. But if anyone has questions just post here or shoot me a pm and I will get back with you then. |
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 Popped
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Location: LuluLand~along I64 Indiana | awwww! thats so thoughtful of you SJ!! count me in!!!
Prayers to Jetz and her family |
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 Voice of Reason
Location: NOT at Wal Mart | Me too! |
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Location: ASHLAND, KS | me three!!!!! |
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 Baby Blue's
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Location: Texas | Can the excess maybe go into a memorial fund or to help pay for expenses?
Ooops...just read past the flowers...sorry.
Thank you, Sara, for doing this. I know -- especially as parents -- we just want to DO something.
Edited by bocephus's mama 2011-10-24 12:21 PM
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I Wanna Go Fast!!
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| Done. My heart aches for her. I can't even begin to imagine the pain she is going through. |
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Location: Somewhere between S@%&# stirrer and Saint | Sara I left a message on your phone call me! Or text me your addy! I don't know how to pay on Paypal |
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 Living on the edge of common sense
Posts: 24134
Location: Carpenter, WY | I just sent a contribution
Edited by teehaha 2011-10-24 12:49 PM
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 Laughing with you not at you
Location: AZ | Going to send a contribution right now - more hugs & prayers headed her way  |
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 Nicknameless
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Location: I can see the end of the world from here! | Can I get an address? I don't do paypal, but, would love to help. I don't care if goes towards flowers or expenses.... |
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I'm a Cry Baby
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Location: n.c. | musikmaker - 2011-10-24 1:11 PM Can I get an address? I don't do paypal, but, would love to help. I don't care if goes towards flowers or expenses....
Ditto to this. I don't do paypal so an address to send to would be great. Thanks!
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 Proud American Patriot
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Location: Watertown, SD | musikmaker - 2011-10-24 1:11 PM Can I get an address? I don't do paypal, but, would love to help. I don't care if goes towards flowers or expenses....
She posted her address on her thread. I'll see if I can find it. If someone beats me to that, thank you in advance!
SJ, where can we find the funeral details...time, location, etc. (I'll look on the thread, as it may be on there but would be nice to have on this thread as well.) |
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Popped
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Location: LuluLand~along I64 Indiana | i havnt found any yet but i did see a request from Jetz for everyone to wear orange tomorrow in honor & memory of her son. |
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 A Somebody to Everybody
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Location: Under The Big Sky Of Texas | Here is the address: Jenn Robert
508 5th Ave.
NW Mandan
ND 58554
This is the address that she posted and I did send her a card threw this address |
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Location: AR | Count me in! I cant even begin to imagine either, as I have children the same age and older......uuugggghhhh..... |
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Elite Veteran
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Location: CA | Can we do something other than flowers..... I would love contribute to something more permanent....like a tree or bench or plaque,something to always remember her beautiful son. |
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 Heart of Orange
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Location: At The End of The Red Dirt Road | I just sent some...that was so easy and I so appreciate you doing this! Continued Prayers for Jetz & family... |
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 Hot Dispatcher
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Location: Utah | Count me in, thank you SaraJean for organizing this. Continued prayers for Jenn and her family and the surviving boy. I hope he makes a full recovery. |
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 I Prefer to Live in Fantasy Land
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Location: In the Hills of Texas | Thanks for doing this..
Fast and easy.. |
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 The Verminator
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Location: Wellsville, Missouri | I would love to send something for her. Don't do PayPal though. I can mail you my donation. |
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Location: Lost in North Dakota....wishin on all the stars | I have been blessed, by this board. You all have humbled me. All 4 boys were taken from grande prairie to edomonton for autopsy. I dont think we will be having a funeral til this weekend at the earliest. Thank you. From myself, my ex husband and our sons. Thankyou |
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Northern Chocolate Queen
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Location: ND | rubyduby - 2011-10-24 1:50 PM I would love to send something for her. Don't do PayPal though. I can mail you my donation.
Absolutely, you can send to me at Sara Schank 5117 86th Ave SW, Richardton ND 58652 or send something directly to Jenn, her address is posted above. If you do send to me let me know how much you're sending so I can give you guys a total $ amount when we decide what to buy. |
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Northern Chocolate Queen
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Location: ND | allaboutme - 2011-10-24 12:33 PM Can we do something other than flowers..... I would love contribute to something more permanent....like a tree or bench or plaque,something to always remember her beautiful son.
You guys just tell me what all you'd like to do. We'll see what comes in for money and go from there on deciding what we can afford to do. |
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 Hog Tie My Mojo
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Location: Opelousas, LA | Count me in.
SaraJean, thanks for getting this set up. |
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 The Brave One
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Location: snowbelt, WA | It was pretty easy. If I figured it out anyone can. Thank you for doing this |
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Location: Texas | Ive sent Jetz flowers already but id love to contribute to a more permanent memorial.
can someone pm on how to contribute? idk how unless i get an email. |
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 World 4D Champ
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Location: PA | I would love to contribute, but can't until Thursday...hopefully that isn't a problem. If not, i'll paypal first thing Thursday morning.
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 Cinnamon Honey One
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Location: between here and there | I don't have paypal and I imagine you do if you want to contribute that way? I willsend out a check in the morning to you Sara. Thank you!! Will do my orange tomorrow too!! |
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Northern Chocolate Queen
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Location: ND | BRcwgrl81 - 2011-10-24 5:28 PM I would love to contribute, but can't until Thursday...hopefully that isn't a problem. If not, i'll paypal first thing Thursday morning.
Not a problem at all |
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Popped
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Location: LuluLand~along I64 Indiana | Guys what are your ideas on a memorial for Jetz? |
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 One Hard Core Mom
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Location: Dassel MN | im going to have to snail mail.
i too was thinking of a permant memorial. We had a 3rd grader killed in an ATV accident last spring. (sad sad deal she was only 9)
we as parents all pitched in and got a memorial stone and its at the school. it turrned out beautiful
i will go down and get a pic of it torrmow morning and post it for an idea for us, its dark out right now or else i would,
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Elite Veteran
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Location: CA | I was thinking a stone/ or wooden bench with a plaque that has his name, I think the stone ones can be purchased at the same place as a headstone memoriam place. Maybe arrangements could be made to place it at his school or a park or arena, or wherever his mom (Jenn) sees fit.
Edited by allaboutme 2011-10-24 9:20 PM
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 Ditch the Stirrups
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Location: Sorrow Not! Defending against workplace bullies | I did it, it was easy. Thank you for arranging this SaraJean. |
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 Star Padded Honey
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Location: NW MT | Donation sent - thanks Sara for doing this. Continued prayers for Jetz and families of all the boys. |
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The Brave One
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Location: snowbelt, WA | allaboutme - 2011-10-24 9:18 PM I was thinking a stone/ or wooden bench with a plaque that has his name, I think the stone ones can be purchased at the same place as a headstone memoriam place. Maybe arrangements could be made to place it at his school or a park or arena, or wherever his mom (Jenn) sees fit.
I like the stone idea or a bench. I think something the parents could take with them in case of ever moving. |
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 Have an Oreo!
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Location: Getting ready to ride a Rocket! | Sent- How very very thoughtful.. |
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Location: USA | Just donated! Thanks Sara for doing this! |
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Location: fun meter pegged OK | Done
Edited by yankeeredneck 2011-10-25 3:21 AM
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Location: Foot of the Smoky Mtns, East Tennessee | Just sent some!
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Location: San Diego, CA | I just sent my donation. I couldnt figure out how to put my barrelhorseworld name on with it.
- oh and I'd also like to use it towards something more permanent than flowers.
Edited by Barrelracer85 2011-10-25 6:48 AM
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 Triple Extra-Ordinaire
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Location: Okla | Sending my donation by snail mail this morning. Thanks for doing this Sara, sent you a pm. |
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Location: Iowa | Sara I just sent you a paypal donation. I hope you got it.
Many Prayers for Jet & her family.
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| Sent donation through paypal. This is very nice of you! |
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Location: Mississippi | I sent you a paypal just now |
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Northern Chocolate Queen
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Location: ND | You guys the donations towards flowers / a memorial for Matthew that have come in so far are absolutely amazing! |
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Living on the edge of common sense
Posts: 24134
Location: Carpenter, WY | SaraJean - 2011-10-25 9:36 AM You guys the donations towards flowers / a memorial for Matthew that have come in so far are absolutely amazing!
I'm so glad to hear that SJ |
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Location: On The Move | Bump for a wonderful cause |
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Extreme Veteran
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Location: Here and There | Thank you for setting this up SaraJean. I just sent a contribution as well. |
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 Buttered Noodles Snacker
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Location: NC | This is just so horrible, my prayers go out to Jet and her family.
SaraJean I am sending you a donation thanks for being such a great person and getting this together.
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Location: Louisiana | Prayers for you and your family !! |
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Popped
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Location: LuluLand~along I64 Indiana | http://www.oliversgrandeprairie.com/fh/obituaries/obituary.cfm?o_id=1295298&fh_id=11121
Here is Matthews obituary info |
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 MaMa Hen
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Location: Louisiana | I'm just now seeing this. Is it too late to send a donation by PayPal? |
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MaMa Hen
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Location: Louisiana | Donation sent via PayPal. My heart goes out to Jenn. |
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Elite Veteran
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Location: CA | Thank you for posting the obituary information, I was able to sign the guestbook. I hope Jenn is able to get a printed copy so she is able to see the many people that cared so much for her lovely son. |
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Northern Chocolate Queen
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Location: ND | Just wanted to let you all know that I'd like to cut off the paypal donations tomorrow, the checks that are coming should be here early next week and then when we have a final total we'll let you know what we have decided to do for Jenn. |
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Grasshopper
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Location: Lost in North Dakota....wishin on all the stars | this has been a rough rough week. As you can see reading mattys obiturary, my ex.husband chose to not include me. I have the memories of my son and and broken to the very core. When my brother died, I couldnt understand why my mom said she was broken...i do now, I will never be the same. On behalf of myself, luke, chance, kolby, kaycea and jacob, I thank you all...and would like to share this picture of my mom who passed away in august and matt who was 3. |
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Heeler Hater
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Location: Texas | sent. |
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Extreme Veteran
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Location: The wonderful Big Sky State | Jenn - I am so sorry for your exclusion in the obituary. I can't even imagine the hurt in that but remember, they are only words. You are his MOMMA and you will always be his MOMMA. No amount of adult childness and bitterness will ever be able to take that away from you.
You are in my heart as is your son. |
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She's a Tough One
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| Im so very sorry about being left out of the obituary, I cant even imagine how painful that was for you. As if the grieving process wasn't hard enough. Just know that you know you are Matthew's mom and Matthew knew that you were his mom and that's all that matters, his dad can't take that away, the memories you and Matthew shared together, and the bond that mother and son have. I often wonder why people do the things they do during these difficult times and we will never know what your ex was thinking, obviously he wasn't. Seems like true colors always show through at the most inappropriate times. |
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 Crazy Chicken Chick
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| Jenn, NO ONE can take a mama's place. EVER. I'm sorry your ex chose to exclude you. One day he will stand in account for his actions. Woe to him on that day. My heart goes out to you. |
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