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Hollywoods Fan
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Posted 2014-01-10 8:02 PM
Subject: RE: How to explain to a 2 year old......



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BamaCanChaser - 2014-01-11 2:23 PM
Hollywood's Fan - 2014-01-10 3:12 PM I said I would not do it unless there was no way around it.  Sometimes parents get so caught up in material things for their family they forget about the importance of security.  This horse may very well be a part of this child's security.  My horse was everything to me, my best friend.  To my mother, it was money better spent on the house.  As an adult, I understand where she was coming from.  As I kid, I hated her for it for a very long time.  Say what you want, this child will not understand this on an adult level.   
You also said you were 10 yo at the time. To me, there is a monumental difference in a 10 yo and a 2yo. 10 yo's are starting to brink puberty, they can tend to a little more "oh my the world is falling, everyone is out to get me, my mother hates me" than a 2 yo. They have a lot more emotions than a 2 yo. No, the 2yo will not understand this on an adult level, but to say that she will be scarred for life is a bit dramatic.
Yes, I was 10 at the time and I would agree that it would seem that a child at 10 would take it harder than a child at 2.  But, we adopted my daughter at 18 mo. of age.  Her birth mother left her alone much of the time, and did not care for her well at all (she was a drug user).  Still at 18 months old when the birth mother said goodbye to her, the child was devestated.  It took her years to feel secure.  She would cry everytime I left thinking that I wasn't coming back.   Children get attached to animals the same way and that is what I met when I was talking about security.  Taking away a beloved pet could have a similar impact on a two year old.   The OP said that this child cried hysterically because someone else was riding (trying) the horse.  Why is it difficult to see that it could be a negative impact on her?  If it is absolutely necessary, than the family is just going to have to get through it.  My only point is that if I didn't have to sell the child's horse, I would not do it.    No where in my post did I say that I thought she would be scarred for life, so please, don't  react to a comment that I didn't make.

Edited by Hollywood's Fan 2014-01-10 8:19 PM
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