ForumAdmin - 2020-07-23 9:47 AM
Kindaclassey constructive criticism is a good thing, but please don't be rude. When people come looking for advise it is a good thing, if we bash them in the head with rudness they will stop seeking help.
I’ve thought about this a bunch and I agree I could have worded my response differently. People don’t like to be bluntly told that they are the root of their horses issues. Other posters gave the same type of advice, but worded in better, and the original poster seemed to be more receptive. I did not intend for the original poster to feel attacked. There was nothing remotely personal about it. For that, I do apologize. I am blunt. I’m a blunt thinker and a blunt speaker. I’ve always been analytical enough to separate the message from how it’s been delivered. Especially when I asked for the advice in the first place. But not everyone is that way. I suppose when your intention is to help, one should take into consideration how the other person will receive the message. So- let me try to word this another way. I do not know the original poster. I have never seen the horse run. I can only go with the words she herself typed. Once again - THERE IS NOTHING PERSONAL ABOUT THIS One of my pet peeves is people that are not aware enough or are not willing to listen to what their horses are trying to tell them. Horses are not born knowing how to run barrels. Therefore, every move that they make in a barrel race (other than that caused by ground) is a reflection of their training. If a horse steps past or off a barrel- if it drops a shoulder- if it shakes its head- if it doesn’t stop well - all those things were either taught / caused / or allowed to continue by the rider. What caused the stepping past or off? What caused the dropping of the shoulder? What caused the head shake? What caused the run off? A lot of riders are not critical thinkers and do not want to take the personal responsibility for what happens during the run. They don’t listen to what the horse is telling them, sometimes because it isn’t convenient for their plans. I want to run a barrel race/ rodeo/ futurity now. My horse is not stopping or is dropping a shoulder – get a different bit or try a drill. Let’s find something to fix it quick so I can still run this weekend. Sometimes a horse does need a certain bit. I’m definitely not one that believes that every horse is going to run in a plain ring snaffle. Maybe it’s how their mouth is made – maybe it’s how their brain is wired- maybe it’s because how the rider uses their hands. Just don’t let it be because the rider doesn’t want to put in the time training to correct the root problem. I have nothing against drills. I use them all the time to help develop a solid foundation. But if the rider mindlessly does a drill without critically thinking about what the drill accomplishs and how to extrapolate that knowledge and apply it in order to NOT make the same mistake in training again - well - It’s just a Band-Aid. My goal with the post was to get the poster to critically look at what is going on. If your horse is consistently stepping past a barrel (understand it isn’t blowing a barrel, but is doing it enough that the post was made about how to correct it)– or isn’t laser focused on turning when coming through the gate, it is trying to tell you that there is something off. There is a place where the horse isn’t feeling confident about its job. The job of the rider / trainer is to be aware of that and help them through the rough patch. In my experience, helping one through a bit of an anxious spot is not achieved by continuing to ask for the very thing the horse might be anxious about in the first place – SPEED. Continuing to do the same thing over and over (allowing one to step by the barrel) only teaches that that response is acceptable. It’s like telling them “YES – that’s what I wanted! GOOD JOB!!!” I still stand behind my advice – Sometimes you have to slow down and correct something so you can speed up later. |