Are some people really just born evil?

missroselee - 2014-05-09 10:58 AM

Thank you everyone for the kind words.

Today is a new day. I talked with hubby about it. He said there was nothing to talk about. He has basically given up on his mom. He told me it doesn't matter what she says, and who believes it. That if anyone chooses to believe what she says, then so be it, we don't need them in our lives either. He said all that matters and US. Him and me. Because in the end that's who we have, each other.

Just because she hates me does not mean I have to hate her. Hate kills a person inside. It eats their soul until there is nothing left. I will not hate. I will not be that person. God will know this. My husband already knows this. That is all I need right now.

I am no longer angry. I am however sad. Not sad that this has hurt me. Sad that his mother has become this person and there is nothing anyone can do anymore to change it. Sad for my husband because he now realizes he can't fix her. He will always love her. I will always respect that she is his mother. But I am still sad for him because this does hurt him too.

And yet......I bought her chocolate raspberry cappacino mix today.......a lot of it....for hubby to give her on mothers day....along with the gift I had engraved for her a few months ago.

Why you ask? Because I will be the better person. She will not know I purchased these for her. But she will receive something from my husband because that's just how it should be on mothers day.

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