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how weird would it be to move into my horse trailer? Way OT but idk what to do

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Posted 2014-07-19 9:49 PM
Subject: RE: how weird would it be to move into my horse trailer? Way OT but idk what to do


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RoaniePonie11 - 2014-07-19 6:46 AM

Ok so long story short, I'm young, I have a decent job, a few horses, a nice truck and just bought a step up horse trailer that is nice enough to stay in. I pay for all of it without help. I do however live with my parents. I do not like to admit it and my parents and I are extremely close and yada yada but something is about to happen at home (or they are talking about it) that I cannot live with.

A person that just recently and a few years back and pretty consistently has caused my family a HUGE amount of stress, hurt, money ect (almost caused my family member to take his life) is invited and coming to live with us. This person is a BAD person. BAD person. and has 3 kids that get pawned off on everyone she possibly can or left at home alone (oldest is 10) so she can go to work and Lord knows what else.

I cant sit back and watch this woman do this. I can't do it. She is going to be the death of that 1 family member and its going to tear my family apart. If I try to stop it, it will only get worse. I have no idea what to do other than to leave. I have no one I can tell this to.

Here's my deal, I don't have the $$ to leave. I can sell a horse (I only have 2) but I don't think it would free up the $600+ it would take to get an appt. The trailer payment is tiny so that really didn't make a difference. There really is nowhere else I can cut corners to be able to afford an apt and I know no one here. I board my horses and the place is nice. For $100/ month I can plug in my trailer to water and electric. I really am thinking about doing this. I have most of my household things in a storage building already. All I would need is my clothes out there.

but its about to be winter and cold and do I really want to deal with the cold and ugh :( I don't know what to do.

Even if I could just get some prayers for guidance that would be great.


If you have something mean or rude or hurtful to say. Keep walking. I do not need to hear it because believe me you can't say anything I haven't said to myself.

Have you talked with your parents and told them how you feel about the situation and that are contemplating moving out if this person moves in? It could help them decide what to do.
Just make sure they know you love them and it's not about how they treat you
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RoaniePonie11
Reg. Jan 2011
Posted 2014-07-20 7:15 AM
Subject: RE: how weird would it be to move into my horse trailer? Way OT but idk what to do


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Thank you to everyone for the advice and support. I feel like this is a scary step but as someone said earlier it is truly a step towards independence and that kinda makes me feel better.

Ok so last night in the truck my brother ("the" family memeber) was not around so I asked for more details on why and what the thought process was. My step dad basically looked at my mom with the same question on his face. He is not happy about it either. She basically said in my brothers mind and the girlfriends they are still together and this is what my brother wants. Mind you she couldn't drive 5 mins to see him in the hospital I don think I see her driving several hours to live here. I told mom I'm not going to try to argue the situation because I realize there is nothing I can do but it doesn't sit right in my heart so I will not be a part of it. There is a chance I can go live with my gparents that are 5 miles from my horses. So hopefully that works out. She didn't really say much. She did go from wanting to kill this person a few weeks ago so half heartedly defending her. She's doing this because my brother is her favorite- and that's fine- but this is not good for him. On the flip side of this the harder you fight him the more he will do what's not good for him so she really is stuck between a rock and a hard place. I told her I'm not asking her to choose anything and it has nothing to do with her or Michael or my brother for that matter but I can't be a part of it. I'm not packing my toys immediately just when/ if she shows up I will.

As for where to live I did find out I might be able to live with my gparents (her parents) so that's good. They are close to the barn. I don't get along with her mom well but as I get older and get myself more established she is slowly respecting my position on life a little more. I'm just like my daddy. Very honest and blunt and my dad makes her skin crawl but we are getting better. As for the trailer the plumbing part would be no prob. I'm sure the man that owns the place would have the handy man do just about anything if I bought the materials or paid for them. Half of the place used to be a trailer park back in the day so it's set up almost perfect.

Again, thanks everyone for the advice & support. Hopefully it doesn't come to this but I do feel I need to be as prepared as possible.
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