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| fatchance - 2015-09-30 5:58 PM
3turns - 2015-09-30 3:56 PM fatchance - 2015-10-01 4:28 PM 3turns - 2015-09-30 3:17 PM And this post... Is why I have such a hard time going to barrel races. This post just proved to me that people do look at you and wonder what you are doing there!!! I have put on some weight, I didnt ride for over 7 years because I was hauling my kids to high school rodeos. When I started back, it felt terrible so I quit. A year later I decided that I really wanted to run again. I have lost some, but not enough by any means. And each and every time I go to a barrel race I wonder how many people are looking at me wondering why I am there! Thank you for the confirmation of what I have been thinking. So very sad!!!!! Why in the heck do you care? Your barrel racing and doing your thing. NO one here said anything about larger people running barrels. NO ONE. I packed extra weight in the end of my barrel racing, and the only one that it bothered was ME! SO quit looking around for someone to blame as to why about anything happening in your world. IT's your life.... live it.  And because you know me.. You know that I am looking for someone to blame??? I didnt say I wasnt going. But thank you for that uplifting post. I feel so much better now.
ALL I was trying to say is go run barrels and enjoy yourself and your life. Sorry that I have upset you, not my intent. Â
Fat Chance I am over weight and I still ride, I totally agree with what you said, and though it bothers me to be overweight, I'm really not too worried what others think of me (and honestly, most people at races don't have the time to be criticizing and looking at other riders!) You're right, its our life, we need to enjoy it! Thank you! And I don't take this post as people trashing 'fat' riders...I agree that the extra weight slows ME down, so naturally slows my horse down because I 'pop' back in the turns, and also I am just not as steady with my hands as I used to be... | |
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    Location: Oklahoma | I am bigger than I should be, and I ride smaller horses. Ideally I should weight around 130, but honestly I don't know if I will ever get back to that point. I was super skinny and looked sickly. My target weight on a BMI chart is less than that. I am 5'3" and weigh 150. I can look at others and know I am larger, and I can see some rolls in my pics. I wear a 7 or 28 jean and large shirts. Some years I get down to 140 and feel really good, but the weight always seems to creep back on. For me as long as I stay under 160 I am pretty happy. I don't have time to go to the gym, and when I finally get inside the house at night I stilll have those chores to do.
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    Location: East of the Pecos | doglady - 2015-09-30 8:50 PM I lost 20lbs this summer and I feel better. I have had so many wrecks I just hurt all over. Losing some weight has seemed to help my back. But, My horses are running the same as before. So 20lbs has made no difference to them. I will never be small like a Lisa Lockart type and I am just fine with that. Whatever weight you are if you are happy and love to run barrels -then do it. That is why we all do this-we love running barrels. I do know one time I was probably the heaviest I had been and we were still rodeoing. A woman asked me if I was pregant-I said no, just fat. You know what-I won the barrel race that night and then went out for ice cream! I hate these posts- a skinny minny should not be able to make a heavier girl feel bad-and that is what these do!
I hate these posts too. I almost didn't read it because I knew some girls would take offense to mentioning weight, and others would take it with a grain of salt. If you are participating in ANY sport that requires a level of fitness, then it's up to each individual if they participate for fun at whatever weight they are comfortable, so just have fun and who cares. I look at a 1000 calorie chicken fried steak and know it will taste good and the little devil on my shoulder says eat it anyway, but my horse says please don't, so usually I eat it and regret it. If I decide to run at pro rodeos again, I'll eat lettuce instead. The devil's in the details. Hope this makes sense. | |
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| I struggled with body image my whole life. I was never obese but often fluctuated up and down 25 lbs. About 5 yrs ago at 36 I basically had a breakdown, not just bc of my weight but life, anyway fitness (I actually am a cert pt now) and a healthy lifestyle changed all that for me. I've maintained a healthy weight and I'm not skinny, I'm STRONG and healthy. It's made a HUGE difference in not only my riding capabilities but also my confidence! I don't give a flip what someone thinks about my physical appearance. Only you give someone elses opinion of you control! I don't think my horse is faster bc I'm skinny but bc I'm able to stay balanced and seated. | |
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       Location: Lexington, Ky | rachellyn80 - 2015-09-30 4:14 PM poloracer - 2015-09-30 2:36 PM rachellyn80 - 2015-09-30 2:53 PM I've never met anyone who was fit and "looked" fat. I've seen plenty that are considered "skinny" that were soft and weak. The thing that I try to keep in mind is that I can ALWAYS do better, be better, look better, and feel better. The mindset keeps you driven, self hate gets you nowhere. Turn everything you do into work for your body. Carry water insead of using the hose, park farther from the store, lift things you would normally drag, carry buckets instead of using a cart or motorized vehicle to feed. I have a desk job and NEED the physical exercise after work to get tired.
   Don't even get me started on you and your sister! I am SO jealous of the gorgeous scenery you have to make your runs more enjoyable. I've always liked cardio, but Greg is determined to get me to start lifting a little
HA! We do have a pretty spot but I need to start lifiting more too. I just like cardio so much better!! | |
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      Location: Beggs, OK | With all of the questions about saddle fit and kissing spine...have we considered that if you aren't fit these things all seem to go hand in hand? Ultimately we are sitting on a hard object that we are trying to make conform to soft tissue on a horses back. If you are bouncing on your butt every stride and aren't able to stay in the middle even the best fitting saddle is going to make one sore. | |
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      Location: West Texas | Personally, I bet there is more that just weight that affects this. I wouldn't worry about it much either way. How good you ride and are in time with the horse has much to do with it as anything. Look at it this way. 50 lbs more or less is only a 5% change for a horse. That is not very much.
Here is a story from my vet. It is in his book. It's just a funny story.
Ass Spavin
There are just some things that you cannot learn in school. Some situations cry out for more than learning and science. This was one of them. All I knew about the woman was that she was from San Angelo, and she had a barrel-racing horse that was lame. I had no idea that the episode that was about to occur was going to require every ounce of tact I could muster up and actually leave me at a loss for words. Unbelievable.
Six people crawled out of the bowels of the giant dually pickup that pulled the brand-new three-horse slant. I was guessing that the entire rig had cost about $70,000. Wow. Here they were, the woman who was the barrel-racer, her husband, her sister, her sister’s husband, and both of her parents. As I watched the unloading process from the back door of the clinic, it became painfully obvious that this woman was bossy. She had brought all of these people and had a job for each of them. It was like a military drill as she assigned each one a task and saw to it that those tasks were done to the very last detail.
As I entered the scene with a handshake and introduction, she gave me a slight smile and then went directly into a detailed description of what was “ailing” the horse. It seemed that the only complaint was that the horse was not running as fast as it had last year. In other words, it was about a half of a second slower this year than it was at the same races last year. Her “crew” had saddled the horse, and she was promptly on board, still talking as she trotted off.
No one else in the entire group had uttered a word up to this point. They gathered around and looked closely at me while I looked at the horse. It was as if they were watching my face for any change in emotion or expression. It was making me a little nervous. They were so focused on me that I was startin’ to wonder if I had a booger or something stuck to a tooth.“How long has this critter been lame?” I asked as I wiped my arm across my nose and sniffed.
The spokesman of the group seemed to be the brother-in-law. He replied, “Ha, that’s what we wonder.” I had no idea what that meant. The pressure of the situation was rising as I discovered that I couldn’t see anything wrong with the horse. I had watched the woman trot around the parking lot for what seemed like ten minutes, and that horse had not taken a lame step. The pressure went up even more when the brother-in-law informed me that I was the fourth vet she had brought the horse to. I was hoping they would give me some kind of hint as to what the other vets had said was wrong with the horse, but they just stood there and stared at me as I watched the horse. Not wanting to disappoint them, I finally stated, “Well, he sure might have a little bone spavin.” I figured this was a safe guess; nearly every barrel horse in the world has some degree of it. It is an arthritis that develops in the hock.
As these words left my lips, I began returning their stares to see if my statement stirred any emotions. To my surprise, it seemed to rustle up a disgusted look on each of their faces. The spokesman brother-in-law said, “That horse ain’t got no bone spavin. If he has any kind of spavin, it’s ass spavin.”
Once again, I had no idea what that was. Nine years of being a veterinarian and I had never heard of that one or read about it in any of the literature. Not wanting to look stupid, I continued to watch the horse trot endlessly around the parking lot. I began thinking perhaps it was something the horse had caught from a donkey. After all, ass spavin sounded a little mulish or even a touch anal. I was wondering if I had missed that lecture in vet school. The brother-in-law had said it so confidently that it must have been a term that the family had heard somewhere.
I was digging for some way to ask questions and gather clues without appearing uninformed. Finally, I asked, “Which leg is it in?” To this, the brother-in-law stated, “It ain’t in no leg. Tell him what the deal is, Robby.” Everyone gathered in even closer as Robby, the husband, began to explain the situation. “You see, Dr. Brock, my wife has gained about twenty pounds in the last year or so. We know that there is nothing wrong with that horse; it just can’t carry the extra weight as fast. We heard that you were good at explaining things and hoped that you could tell her; none of us has the guts to.”
All I could do now was look at her pronounced muffin top as she trotted the horse in circles. What page of my notes from vet school should I turn to for the answer to this dilemma? My mind became numb as my face became red. Two hours these people drove just to put me in this situation. They were all afraid of her, and I was finding myself scared to death of her also. What in the world was this bossy momma going to do when I told her the horse was fine; she was just too thick? “That’s right, bigun, you lose some tons, and this critter will be at least a half a second faster.” Two hours these people drove, and now there I stood, sweating. What would you have done?
Get the gift that will make them smile Crowded in the middle of Nowhere. By Bo Brock Amazon.com
Edited by Tdove 2015-10-02 5:02 PM
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   Location: western Nebraska | Tdove - 2015-10-02 4:39 PM Personally, I bet there is more that just weight that affects this. I wouldn't worry about it much either way. How good you ride and are in time with the horse has much to do with it as anything. Look at it this way. 50 lbs more or less is only a 5% change for a horse. That is not very much. Here is a story from my vet. It is in his book. It's just a funny story. Ass Spavin There are just some things that you cannot learn in school. Some situations cry out for more than learning and science. This was one of them. All I knew about the woman was that she was from San Angelo, and she had a barrel-racing horse that was lame. I had no idea that the episode that was about to occur was going to require every ounce of tact I could muster up and actually leave me at a loss for words. Unbelievable. Six people crawled out of the bowels of the giant dually pickup that pulled the brand-new three-horse slant. I was guessing that the entire rig had cost about $70,000. Wow. Here they were, the woman who was the barrel-racer, her husband, her sister, her sister’s husband, and both of her parents. As I watched the unloading process from the back door of the clinic, it became painfully obvious that this woman was bossy. She had brought all of these people and had a job for each of them. It was like a military drill as she assigned each one a task and saw to it that those tasks were done to the very last detail. As I entered the scene with a handshake and introduction, she gave me a slight smile and then went directly into a detailed description of what was “ailing” the horse. It seemed that the only complaint was that the horse was not running as fast as it had last year. In other words, it was about a half of a second slower this year than it was at the same races last year. Her “crew” had saddled the horse, and she was promptly on board, still talking as she trotted off. No one else in the entire group had uttered a word up to this point. They gathered around and looked closely at me while I looked at the horse. It was as if they were watching my face for any change in emotion or expression. It was making me a little nervous. They were so focused on me that I was startin’ to wonder if I had a booger or something stuck to a tooth.“How long has this critter been lame?” I asked as I wiped my arm across my nose and sniffed. The spokesman of the group seemed to be the brother-in-law. He replied, “Ha, that’s what we wonder.” I had no idea what that meant. The pressure of the situation was rising as I discovered that I couldn’t see anything wrong with the horse. I had watched the woman trot around the parking lot for what seemed like ten minutes, and that horse had not taken a lame step. The pressure went up even more when the brother-in-law informed me that I was the fourth vet she had brought the horse to. I was hoping they would give me some kind of hint as to what the other vets had said was wrong with the horse, but they just stood there and stared at me as I watched the horse. Not wanting to disappoint them, I finally stated, “Well, he sure might have a little bone spavin.” I figured this was a safe guess; nearly every barrel horse in the world has some degree of it. It is an arthritis that develops in the hock. As these words left my lips, I began returning their stares to see if my statement stirred any emotions. To my surprise, it seemed to rustle up a disgusted look on each of their faces. The spokesman brother-in-law said, “That horse ain’t got no bone spavin. If he has any kind of spavin, it’s ass spavin.” Once again, I had no idea what that was. Nine years of being a veterinarian and I had never heard of that one or read about it in any of the literature. Not wanting to look stupid, I continued to watch the horse trot endlessly around the parking lot. I began thinking perhaps it was something the horse had caught from a donkey. After all, ass spavin sounded a little mulish or even a touch anal. I was wondering if I had missed that lecture in vet school. The brother-in-law had said it so confidently that it must have been a term that the family had heard somewhere. I was digging for some way to ask questions and gather clues without appearing uninformed. Finally, I asked, “Which leg is it in?” To this, the brother-in-law stated, “It ain’t in no leg. Tell him what the deal is, Robby.” Everyone gathered in even closer as Robby, the husband, began to explain the situation. “You see, Dr. Brock, my wife has gained about twenty pounds in the last year or so. We know that there is nothing wrong with that horse; it just can’t carry the extra weight as fast. We heard that you were good at explaining things and hoped that you could tell her; none of us has the guts to.” All I could do now was look at her pronounced muffin top as she trotted the horse in circles. What page of my notes from vet school should I turn to for the answer to this dilemma? My mind became numb as my face became red. Two hours these people drove just to put me in this situation. They were all afraid of her, and I was finding myself scared to death of her also. What in the world was this bossy momma going to do when I told her the horse was fine; she was just too thick? “That’s right, bigun, you lose some tons, and this critter will be at least a half a second faster.” Two hours these people drove, and now there I stood, sweating. What would you have done? Get the gift that will make them smile Crowded in the middle of Nowhere. By Bo Brock Amazon.com
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      Location: Willows, CA | FLITASTIC - 2015-09-30 12:32 AM
I recently Lost 60 pounds, because I wanted to. My good horse clocks the same as before but my 4 year old colt really has clocked faster. I'm a guy and I was well over 250 when I started.
I am a guy too. We have a different issue with weight when we are big men as it relates to how much total weight a horse should haul. Most say that 20% of the horses body weight is the upper limit. That would be 200 pounds for rider, saddle and tack on a 1000 pound horse. I am 6'7" and while I am not overweight, I still weigh 250 pounds. Add a saddle to that(my ranch saddle weighs 42 pounds) and that means I need a 1500 pound horse. I don't ride a 1500 pound horse, but don't ride colts anymore. I don't much like really big horses, and prefer a well built horse that is handy. I do make sure my 1150 pound horses are really fit before I ask a lot of them. This can be an issue with smaller horses for women depending on what your saddle and tack weigh. In most cases where you are within the 20% number, there will be a difference in potential time if you ask your horse to carry more weight. That is simple physics. But, there is much more to it when you factor in balance, timing and talent. No way to measure those. | |
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| This thread doesn't make me feel bad. I need to get on the diet wagon myself.
It would make me feel bad if it was just a bunch of supermodels posting their bikini pictures eating cheesecake with their hottie husbands or boyfriends standing with their high dollar horses in front of their million dollar homes.
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| When I was packing some extra weight and trying to feel good for being a buffet hog ..
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| 3turns - 2015-09-30 3:17 PM
And this post... Is why I have such a hard time going to barrel races. This post just proved to me that people do look at you and wonder what you are doing there!!! I have put on some weight, I didnt ride for over 7 years because I was hauling my kids to high school rodeos. When I started back, it felt terrible so I quit. A year later I decided that I really wanted to run again. I have lost some, but not enough by any means. And each and every time I go to a barrel race I wonder how many people are looking at me wondering why I am there! Thank you for the confirmation of what I have been thinking. So very sad!!!!!Â
Who cares if they are looking at you? When you start clocking they will be looking at you more I could honestly care less what someone else thinks of what I look like. I am there to barrel race because I LIKE to RACE!!  | |
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| ...also, in Brazil you CAN'T race unless you weigh 165 or more or I think they handicap you like they do flat racers. So most of the barrel racers there are guys. | |
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      Location: Beggs, OK | RodeoCowgirl4u - 2015-10-05 2:56 PM ...also, in Brazil you CAN'T race unless you weigh 165 or more or I think they handicap you like they do flat racers. So most of the barrel racers there are guys.
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