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Location: Midwest | Be careful about stomping roaches. I have heard it is possible to bring their eggs home to your own house because they will stick to your shoes. They then hatch and infest your house. |
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My Heelers are Heroes
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| Oh No I never thought of that. I don't carry my purse or any thing in with me because I did think of them getting in there. But I never thought about the bottom of my feet. |
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 A Somebody to Everybody
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Location: Under The Big Sky Of Texas | I didnt read all the posts but did get to where the 8 year old poops on the floor!!!!!! He's 8 years old, what is wrong with him, does he go to school? There would be no way in He$$ I could go into a house of flith.
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  Warmblood with Wings
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Location: Florida.. | me either.. there is lots of germs and you can get really sick if he is doing that.. no telling where else he has done it when your not around.. ya know... Im sorry I love to help others to but that is not good.. |
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A Somebody to Everybody
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Location: Under The Big Sky Of Texas | Bibliafarm - 2014-07-05 5:46 PM me either.. there is lots of germs and you can get really sick if he is doing that.. no telling where else he has done it when your not around.. ya know... Im sorry I love to help others to but that is not good..
I would be worried about my own health being around all that flith. |
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A Somebody to Everybody
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Location: Under The Big Sky Of Texas | Can this little boy talk? Does he act like a child are animal? This is just to weird.. |
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Location: Texas | I can't tell you how to handle it, but if it were me I would tell mom it isn't right. Part of me wants to think she doesn't know how to keep house and she is just overwhelmed with it all. If it were me and I thought that were the case, I would offer to HELP her clean the house on one of her days off. Once. Not be her maid... Then me and the little boy would be working over time on cleanliness (both him and the house).
If she doesn't keep up with it, or doesn't even want to change then I would call. I've dealt with CPS before, and most of the time they were a joke. Calling CPS would be my last resort after I tried to help the mom. That is just me though. I would want to try to help first if I thought that is just what she needs.
As for him pooping in the floor. If the house is really that filthy, and he is that dirty then my guess is he really hasn't been taught any better and doesn't have any consequences.
Do get pictures though regardless of what you decide. |
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| I wouldn't clean it unless you discuss some sort of payment with her about it. Also Maybe bring up the pest and say you know a good exterminator. Bring up the fact the kid pooped in the floor. See what she says and measure her reaction. tell her you are concerned about him. Be casual about it and it might surprised you with what she says. Sometimes people life a certain way for so long they don't realize it. Did you ask the kid why he did it? Curious as what he said. Sometimes peoples situations aren't what they seem. A lot of time they are though and social services might need to be brought into the picture. |
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 Lived to tell about it and will never do it again
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| I would be honest and just flat out tell him that he stinks like poop and to go wash his butt. Start making him clean up some of his stuff during the day, letting him know that the roaches carry diseases and rest hr needs to pick up his cloths so they don't get in them. I'm not the best house keeper either but glitter is far from filth
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Location: Denver, but a Nebraska native -- GO BIG RED!!! | There is no way I would be in that house more than one minute. I can't stand filth like that. I had an aunt and uncle who lived in a house that was like that, but not as bad. It was nasty though. Some of their kids keep a clean house now as adults, but mostly they are pretty nasty as well. |
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Location: Denver, but a Nebraska native -- GO BIG RED!!! | And I would turn her in. If everyone avoids turning her in this will continue. |
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Location: Buffalo, Wyoming | How long did you say you have worked for her?
Have you not brought this up at all? What does the kid say about the filth?
I find it kind of hard that this subject has not been brought up with the mother at all. If you know that her house and cars are paid off she must feel somewhat comfortable talking to you about personal things. I would be very blunt with her and say " This house is a mess, and your kids $h!t$ on the floor." |
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My Heelers are Heroes
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| Update: seems she has a contract with a exterminator company. It's never going to help until they make major changes. Mainly in the kitchen.
They were on vacation for a week. No one eating in the house. I've only seen 2 bugs all day. She also had the house cleaner than normal.
Yes he goes to school and the school does complain about him constantly. He talks but I can't understand a lot of it.
I feel obligated to stay til school starts but I won't make this mistake again. |
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