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horsesinharleton
Reg. Sep 2009
Posted 2014-08-06 9:15 AM
Subject: RE: Dilemma.... need opinions


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horsesinharleton - 2014-08-06 10:11 AM Be sure and take pictures or videos of whatever you are returning (as you are returning it). They sound like the kind that would accuse you of tearing up whatever it is that you borrowed and you sure don't want to have to fight over that!!

We didn't go out to eat with them one time during the NCAA championship games. They got mad and told us they talked about egging our house. So I wouldn't put it past them.  

If that's the case, I would return it as soon as possible before they report it as "stolen!!!
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Murphy
Reg. Dec 2007
Posted 2014-08-06 9:16 AM
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horsesinharleton - 2014-08-06 10:15 AM
Murphy - 2014-08-06 9:12 AM
horsesinharleton - 2014-08-06 10:11 AM Be sure and take pictures or videos of whatever you are returning (as you are returning it). They sound like the kind that would accuse you of tearing up whatever it is that you borrowed and you sure don't want to have to fight over that!!
We didn't go out to eat with them one time during the NCAA championship games. They got mad and told us they talked about egging our house. So I wouldn't put it past them.  
If that's the case, I would return it as soon as possible before they report it as "stolen!!!

It's going back this weekend, for sure. 
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Gunner11
Reg. Mar 2011
Posted 2014-08-06 9:28 AM
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Just return their stuff, and thank them for letting you borrow it. You owe them NOTHING. You offered to pay them at the time and they declined, so they are not entitled to anything further.
I also don't think you owe them any kind of explanation unless they outright ask. With some people, the less you say, the better.
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NJJ
Reg. Jul 2006
Posted 2014-08-06 9:55 AM
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Gunner11 - 2014-08-06 9:28 AM Just return their stuff, and thank them for letting you borrow it. You owe them NOTHING. You offered to pay them at the time and they declined, so they are not entitled to anything further. I also don't think you owe them any kind of explanation unless they outright ask. With some people, the less you say, the better.

^^^THIS.......but I would certainly take a picture of it, at their place the day you return it.....better safe than sorry........ 
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Southtxponygirl
Reg. Nov 2006
Posted 2014-08-06 10:08 AM
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Its needs to be returned, so just return it, but make sure its in a good spot so they will see it as soon as they go outside/return home, but a safe spot so that it cant get stolen.
Dont be feeling guitly over ending a friendship that was toxic. Sounds like it was coming no matter if your hubby went off on him are not. 
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Murphy
Reg. Dec 2007
Posted 2014-08-06 10:16 AM
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Southtxponygirl - 2014-08-06 11:08 AM Its needs to be returned, so just return it, but make sure its in a good spot so they will see it as soon as they go outside/return home, but a safe spot so that it cant get stolen.

Dont be feeling guitly over ending a friendship that was toxic. Sounds like it was coming no matter if your hubby went off on him are not. 

I was going to call/text him and ask him if they were going to be home, and if not, where they would like for us to drop it off. I didn't just want to dump it in their yard, so hopefully my text will be a heads up for them. 
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Southtxponygirl
Reg. Nov 2006
Posted 2014-08-06 10:22 AM
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Murphy - 2014-08-06 10:16 AM
Southtxponygirl - 2014-08-06 11:08 AM Its needs to be returned, so just return it, but make sure its in a good spot so they will see it as soon as they go outside/return home, but a safe spot so that it cant get stolen.

Dont be feeling guitly over ending a friendship that was toxic. Sounds like it was coming no matter if your hubby went off on him are not. 
I was going to call/text him and ask him if they were going to be home, and if not, where they would like for us to drop it off. I didn't just want to dump it in their yard, so hopefully my text will be a heads up for them. 

I would rather let someone know that I was returning it that same day so they would know to look for it. I think you are doing the right thing by texing him and asking where to leave it. It was their lost, but their fault that the friendship was a toxic one.  
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Griz
Reg. Sep 2003
Posted 2014-08-06 11:17 AM
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LRQHS - 2014-08-06 7:42 AM
Murphy - 2014-08-06 7:40 AM Neither one of them have any tact, and they are both rude. I'm honestly surprised the friendship lasted as long as it did.



I had thought about a gift card also, but honestly, I think my husband would be so against it just because of how he has been treated. 
I wouldn't give them crap if they treated me bad and they'd be lucky if I didn't send them a box of poop from www.poopsenders.com

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LRQHS
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Posted 2014-08-06 11:19 AM
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Griz - 2014-08-06 11:17 AM
LRQHS - 2014-08-06 7:42 AM
Murphy - 2014-08-06 7:40 AM Neither one of them have any tact, and they are both rude. I'm honestly surprised the friendship lasted as long as it did.

I had thought about a gift card also, but honestly, I think my husband would be so against it just because of how he has been treated. 
I wouldn't give them crap if they treated me bad and they'd be lucky if I didn't send them a box of poop from www.poopsenders.com
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RocketPilot
Reg. Jun 2006
Posted 2014-08-06 11:34 AM
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Murphy - 2014-08-06 10:16 AM
Southtxponygirl - 2014-08-06 11:08 AM Its needs to be returned, so just return it, but make sure its in a good spot so they will see it as soon as they go outside/return home, but a safe spot so that it cant get stolen.

Dont be feeling guitly over ending a friendship that was toxic. Sounds like it was coming no matter if your hubby went off on him are not. 
I was going to call/text him and ask him if they were going to be home, and if not, where they would like for us to drop it off. I didn't just want to dump it in their yard, so hopefully my text will be a heads up for them. 

You might even want to have another friend go with you to return the equipment just to have a witness that it was returned in good shape if necessary in the future. 
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SuckerForHorses
Reg. Apr 2014
Posted 2014-08-06 12:08 PM
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I'm now definitely going to send poop to someone... and I know just who needs it!
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Posted 2014-08-06 12:09 PM
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SuckerForHorses - 2014-08-06 12:08 PM I'm now definitely going to send poop to someone... and I know just who needs it!

You don't have my address do you??? 
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