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blccwgl55 Reg. Dec 2012	Posted 2014-10-01 8:38 AM Subject: RE: OT but need some support/advice.
Expert Posts: 1304	Thank you for the advice and kind words everyone. I'm really really not trying to move on too fast. It's just nice to talk to someone with the same interests, goals, and at the same level as me. And maybe it'll bloom into something else, I don't know. I still hurt thinking about what happened but I keep reminding myself how he treated me and the things he did and it just wasn't ok. I just was so blinded before and was holding on to MY love for him because I don't think his existed. I cared about him more than he cared about me. He's not a bad person but he's all about himself and doesn't have room for me. As selfish as he is, and this will sound totally opposite, but I don't think he loves himself either so how could he even love me? I'm just so thankful God has shown me that it was for the better because if he didn't I'd still be trying to hold on and run after him. I catch myself missing him obviously because it just happened but I think a lot of it has to do with being comfortable. He was my life everyday for a long time and now he's not there so it's an adjustment. I just look back now and see that it was falling apart a long time ago and I was giving so much of my love and he wasn't. I actually don't have the desire to talk to him because I need time to heal and I don't want him interfering. I wanted to think it could work but it won't and I have been holding on to someone and something that didn't exist. I'm doing a lot better than I thought I would with this, I think it was a long time coming. But I'm gonna take things slow and think about me and where God will take me.
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Gunner11 Reg. Mar 2011	Posted 2014-10-01 8:51 AM Subject: RE: OT but need some support/advice.
Cute Little Imp Posts: 2747 Location: N Texas	I'm very proud of you for the amount of progress you've made in such a short amount of time. God puts people in our lives for a reason. This new guy may not be The One, and it may never turn into anything, but he showed you what it's like to be treated right, and helped you realize how wrong for you your ex is. Based on what you've said about your ex, if he comes back later on and begs forgiveness, I wouldn't give him the time of day. He may have an epiphany that he made a huge mistake, but I wouldn't put it past him to pull that crap again. You deserve someone who cares so much about you that they would NEVER EVER even consider letting you go.
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