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Location: Where the pavement ends and the West begins Utah | Change your phone number it don't cost you. Be thankful the trash took itself out . move to better mates they are waiting for you. God opens better days to come that other door is closed. |
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Location: Kansas | hoofs_in_motion - 2014-11-21 8:38 AM Well the texts continued until I blocked him from texting me. Pretty much he's ticked that I'm trying to post positive things on facebook, yet he says I'm pulling a "poor me" thing.
Oh I would have him blocked on there so fast it wouldn't be funny!!!!!
I went through a pretty nasty breakup a few years ago. I was the one who ended it but he immediately started harrassing me and honestly I took off one Friday night and stayed with my brother in extreme NW KS just in case the ex showed up at my house. I didn't want to be alone. He is still in my cell phone contacts but with a Z in front of his name so he's at the end of the list. Only reason I didn't delete him is I wanted to know it was him if he ever called or texted again so I wouldn't have to answer. :) He is still to this day blocked on my Facebook just in case he would decide to start any drama.
I actually signed up for a beginners quilting class after that breakup so I had something to do one night a week. It was a ton of fun and I have a really neat quilt on my bed that I made. Keeping busy was a big help for me especially right away.
I've been dumped, treated like crap etc. by guys in the past but in retrospect all that just made me realize that I deserve better. After that nasty breakup in 2012, I actually wrote on one of those plasticy bracelets "I deserve the fairy tale" and wore it for a couple weeks to remind myself that someday Prince Charming would come riding up on a big white horse and sweep me off my feet. You probably know Matt doesn't have a big white horse, and he didn't immediately sweep me off my feet but still, this is the happiest I've been in years. You'll get there too, it just takes time to heal. |
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| Girl...I know its tough when you really care about someone, but by the way he has acted you may find yourself much better off down the road. It is usually hard to see the light at the end of the tunnel but one of these days you will look back and be glad you moved on. Just be strong and take care of yourself. |
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| hoofs_in_motion - 2014-11-24 8:32 AM I have thought about it, and really thought about the things he has said to me.....and I realize that my daughter and I are better off without him. I went out with friends saturday evening and really enjoyed myself. I was even asked out on a date!!!
I'm going to enjoy taking the time to try and find myself.....and all the things I will be able to do without being tied down to someone who had been so controlling.
When you get the urge to consider reconciliation, ponder the rationale of living with somebody willing to abandon you in another town and endanger your life. |
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Location: Kansas | TXBO - 2014-11-24 10:20 AM hoofs_in_motion - 2014-11-24 8:32 AM I have thought about it, and really thought about the things he has said to me.....and I realize that my daughter and I are better off without him. I went out with friends saturday evening and really enjoyed myself. I was even asked out on a date!!!
I'm going to enjoy taking the time to try and find myself.....and all the things I will be able to do without being tied down to someone who had been so controlling. When you get the urge to consider reconciliation, ponder the rationale of living with somebody willing to abandon you in another town and endanger your life.
trust me....I'm not even going to consider if he begs. What he did was unforgiveable and still hurts because he is putting all the blame on shoulders as if he did nothing wrong.
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Location: Texas | Cindy Hamilton - 2014-11-20 3:17 PM
hoofs_in_motion - 2014-11-20 3:10 PM Nevertooold - 2014-11-20 3:09 PM Were you married before?
If so..how long have you been divorced?
I've never been married. I was in a relationship with my daughters father, who was very abusive....he use to beat me really bad so I left him. Since then, her father has made my life a living hell.....and still is.
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