Log in to my account Barrel Horse World
Come on in Folks on-line

Today is

You are logged in as a guest. Logon or register an account to access more features.


Temptation of self pity

Jump to page :
Last activity 2015-09-09 12:55 PM
8 replies, 2342 views

View previous thread :: View next thread
   General Discussion -> Barrel Talk
Refresh
 
ladyjockey
Reg. Jun 2007
Posted 2015-09-09 7:43 AM
Subject: Temptation of self pity


With God all things are possible


Posts: 3917
20001000500100100100100
I always thought of myself as fairly content. Sure, I'm occasionally curious about what it would be like to have someone else's level of beauty, talent, wealth, or success, but it doesn't tug me too persistently.
Yet recently sourness has invaded my thoughts in another way. Instead of converting what someone else has, I dwell on what I once had, once could do, once was, and I contrast that with my new realities and limitations. Turning 62 this year self pity lurks in the space between the things I long for and the reality I live.
It's hard to stay content when we see others enjoying things we long for. But perhaps it's even more difficult to combat the longing for things we did once enjoy and no longer can. Loss is an inevitable part of life. We many face loss of loved ones, loss of jobs, loss of health and abilities. Living in contentment is a daily battle, whether we're tempted to compare to others, an ideal, or our past circumstances.
During times of significant losses, as I've laid down things that were precious to me, I've found comfort in remembering that Jesus understands loss. He set aside the glories of heaven to come to earth. Earlier in Philippians we read a description of how He " did not consider equality with God something to be used to his own advantage; rather, he made himself nothing by taking the very nature servant Philippians 2:6-7
Contentment sounds like such a deceptively mellow, easygoing word. But some days it takes fierce, stubborn courage to walk in it. For any of us facing a painful loss, job, relationship, ability, health, plans, purpose, circumstances , I pray God to breath courage of gratitude into our hearts and keep nudging our focus back on Him.
Philippians 4:12-13 I know what is is to be in need, and I know what is is to have plenty. I have learned the secret of being content in any and every situation. Whether well fed or hungry, whether living in plenty or in want, I can do all things through him who gives me strength.
What tends to make content difficult for you? What helps you bear off the temptation of self pity?
Father God guide me today to do all things that bring glory and honor to You AMEN
For it is WITH God ALL things are possible.
Have a very Blessed day , allow God to give you strength amen
↑ Top ↓ Bottom
runs4fun
Reg. Oct 2006
Posted 2015-09-09 7:55 AM
Subject: RE: Temptation of self pity





2000100050010010010025
I think this will speak to the hearts so many.  As you say, loss comes in so many varied forms and can be hard to overcome.  Overcome  can happen through Jesus, though.  Thank you, Lord!

Thanks for these words, Ladyjockey!
↑ Top ↓ Bottom
rostymom
Reg. Aug 2005
Posted 2015-09-09 9:19 AM
Subject: RE: Temptation of self pity


Veteran


Posts: 194
100252525
Location: OKLAHOMA
WOW!!  Thanks LJ.  

Ya know if whoever reads this will just stop for a few and think.  This effects so much of our lives..  I completely get the getting older and longing for how I could do things at a yonger age that are getting tougher now...   It is all good.  God will show us how to do things or adjust accordingly.   This has been a struggle for me cause I wanted  it YESTERDAY, not wait or be patient.    A lot of people need to realize God does have a plan for them and it is the better option in the end.   Remember it can relate to EVERY point in our lives. 
Again thank you LJ.  Everybody have a Blessed Day!!!
↑ Top ↓ Bottom
Ridenrun4745
Reg. Sep 2010
Posted 2015-09-09 9:56 AM
Subject: RE: Temptation of self pity


Expert


Posts: 1543
100050025
Location: MI
Amen! God's timing is so perfect, always.
↑ Top ↓ Bottom
mtcanchazer
Reg. Apr 2012
Posted 2015-09-09 10:15 AM
Subject: RE: Temptation of self pity



Total Germophobe


Posts: 6443
5000100010010010010025
Location: Montana
Thanks LJ. Amen. 
↑ Top ↓ Bottom
~BINGO~
Reg. Jan 2012
Posted 2015-09-09 11:16 AM
Subject: RE: Temptation of self pity



Serious Snap Trapper


Posts: 4275
20002000100100252525
Location: In The Snow, AZ
Timing is absolutely perfect. Thank you.

Amen.
↑ Top ↓ Bottom
2H~QH
Reg. Jul 2014
Posted 2015-09-09 12:20 PM
Subject: RE: Temptation of self pity



Veteran


Posts: 239
10010025
So timely as always Sheila. I so needed to hear this today.....He truly speaks through you and I am so thankful you can provide His word to us through this board. I think that you can be more than content knowing that you are a blessing to many of us.
↑ Top ↓ Bottom
ladyjockey
Reg. Jun 2007
Posted 2015-09-09 12:27 PM
Subject: RE: Temptation of self pity


With God all things are possible


Posts: 3917
20001000500100100100100
God BLESS ALL of you who take time to read and respond letting me know my personal journey with Jesus is helping you on yours AMEN
↑ Top ↓ Bottom
mraney
Reg. Apr 2007
Posted 2015-09-09 12:55 PM
Subject: RE: Temptation of self pity


She's a Tough One


Posts: 3199
20001000100252525
Wow, this one slapped me up side the head. Lol Thank you so much, much needed.
↑ Top ↓ Bottom
Jump to page :
Jump to forum :
Search this forum
Printer friendly version
E-mail a link to this thread
 

© Copyright 2002- BarrelHorseWorld.com All rights reserved including digital rights

Support - Contact / Log in to my account


Working Truck World Working Horse World Cargo Trailer World Horse Trailer World Roping Horse World
'
Registered to: Barrel Horse World
(Delete all cookies set by this site)
Running MegaBBS ASP Forum Software
© 2002-2026 PD9 Software