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P68 Reg. Jan 2014	Posted 2016-01-05 7:50 AM Subject: Why am I so scared? OT
Regular Posts: 95	Someone else posted a similar concern and it made me want to ask as well. I've always wanted to live in a different state. I'm currently in the north wanting to be in the south! All I'd need is a new job and I could go. I'm almost 30 and have just one pet. I've traveled all over the world. But I still just can't get myself to go for the move. I think what most upsets me is if something were to happen to an immediate family member I wouldn't be just a drive away and would be afraid I couldn't get there. My family means everything to me. What do you guys think? And advice please!!
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hoofs_in_motion Reg. Apr 2011	Posted 2016-01-05 8:01 AM Subject: RE: Why am I so scared? OT
Undercover Amish Mafia Member Posts: 9992 Location: Kansas	take the leap.....and you can always buy a plane ticket if something happens :)
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Runaway Reg. Jan 2008	Posted 2016-01-05 8:09 AM Subject: RE: Why am I so scared? OT
Sorry I don't have any advice Posts: 1975 Location: Sunnyland Florida	That's a very tough decision. You could try it temporarily (6 months or so) and see how you like it. However, if you really like being close to family, it may not work for you. You could always try to convince them all to move south - it's nice and warm here (and year-round barrel racing)! Best of luck in your decision.
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Crowned Image Reg. Jan 2011	Posted 2016-01-05 8:28 AM Subject: RE: Why am I so scared? OT
I Chore in Chucks Posts: 2882 Location: MD	so if it doesn't work out? what's the worst that's going to happen... you just go home? Doesn't sound that bad! I've done it too, but I did move with my SO... so i guess it's a little different. Still, home is just a plane ticket away!
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P68 Reg. Jan 2014	Posted 2016-01-05 9:35 AM Subject: RE: Why am I so scared? OT
Regular Posts: 95	I know! Hehe I don't know what my deal is? I love an adventure! Change is always scary but usually that's a good thing. And now would be the best time to do it - I know people have done it with more and harder situations. Possibly it doesn't help that I HATE flying but also, Maybe I'm just looking for more reassurance about how great you southerners really are! Haha Edited by P68 2016-01-05 9:45 AM
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Southtxponygirl Reg. Nov 2006	Posted 2016-01-05 9:45 AM Subject: RE: Why am I so scared? OT
A Somebody to Everybody Posts: 41354 Location: Under The Big Sky Of Texas	Being scared is human nature, try it for a year and if your not happy then move back home.
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chuckie31 Reg. Aug 2009	Posted 2016-01-05 10:03 PM Subject: RE: Why am I so scared? OT
Elite Veteran Posts: 984 Location: Southwest Minnesota	With great risks is the possibility for great rewards....take the chance! It can be very gratifying knowing that you can totally make it on your own without that safety net of a family member to save you if something happens. It may make you appreciate them even more.
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Timber Creek Reg. Mar 2009	Posted 2016-01-06 10:00 AM Subject: RE: Why am I so scared? OT
Expert Posts: 1273 Location: South Dakota	Picture yourself at 80 years old telling this story about how you ........(how do you want the story to go)
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P68 Reg. Jan 2014	Posted 2016-01-06 3:58 PM Subject: RE: Why am I so scared? OT
Regular Posts: 95	You're right! You're all so right. I really appreciate all the responses.
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CanCan Reg. May 2004	Posted 2016-01-06 8:39 PM Subject: RE: Why am I so scared? OT
Keeper of the King Snake Posts: 7622 Location: Dubach, LA	Do it. Do it so that I can live through you.
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