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| My Bday is coming up and i am just feeling so darn old!!! I enjoy barrel racing but I'm not the best at it and get discouraged easily. It also sucks up all of my time and funds so i can't enjoy any other activities. And there are so many other things I want to do but is impossible with the barrel horses. So how do you know when to take a step back and sell your barrel horses to do other things?
ETA I wish i could just show part time but in my area i have to travel almost 2 hours to hit a decent barrel race so I'm gonna have to be either all in or all out...
Edited by Kgirl 2013-12-11 8:18 AM
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| When you feel like it's time. That's great advice (sarcasm) I know, but really you have to be the one to decide. It sounds like you're ready to move on, based on your post. I doubt anyone is going to yell at you for wanting something different in your life. |
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Location: Georgia | Truly only you can decide. Have you felt this way for a while or has it just come up thinking about your birthday? Usually if I have a feeling about letting something go, and I don't know what to do. If the feeling keeps resurfacing I know its something I need to look at. Not sure if that helps. I am not very good either, not getting any younger but I am enjoying myself. So I guess it boils down to what you want from it and where you think its leading. If another road, other activities would give you more enjoyment then I think that's important. Whatever you decide I hope you find happiness... |
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"Heck's Coming With Me"
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Location: Kansas | When you no longer enjoy barrel racing, it's time to quit. I found that standing around waiting all day to run my horse while one person with ten horses ran ahead of me was enough. It's just not what it used to be.
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Location: Cap'n Joan Rotgut.....alberta | the thought of quitting has never crossed my mind andi have been doin this barrel racing for a very long time......and im just now getting some good horses......and i can hardly contain myself to get back rodeoing
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| I get super eager in the spring to get back into barrel racing but by mid summer i'm burnt out... My husband no longer enjoys going with me to barrel races because of the long waits like the other poster mentioned... That and all of the local clubs are closing down so they are getting futher away from us. I was thinking of getting more into activities that we can do together because right now with conditioning horses and races I feel like he gets put on the back burner all the time. |
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Location: 100 miles from Nowhere, AR | Take a break and see if the desire comes back. |
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Location: Oklahoma | You mentioned your husband/family. Something I have been thinking about also. Around here, there are a lot of barrel races so I am fortunate to not have to haul a long ways. Some friends of ours live around Weatherford, TX and they have play day shows around there with several different events for all age groups. I was really impressed with the "family event" setting. Three generations were competing at the same show, spending the entire day TOGETHER. Kids were riding around enjoying each other's company, not on their phones or watching TV. Maybe starting this type of group or club around where you live would give you some horsey time and the family time. I really wish we had something like that around here where I live. My crazy job wouldn't really allow me to start a club myself or I sure would.
Best of luck with what ever you decide.
Edited by Quick3 2013-12-11 9:18 AM
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Location: Kansas | I'm more of a rodeo person....I love the rodeo atmosphere compared to that of a jackpot.
Jackpots for me are annoying, I'm sorry to say it, but thats how I feel anymore. You have warm ups that are 4 pages long because one person has to exhibition the same horse 3 times, then switches to another horse and does the same thing for like 6 other horses!
I run 3 NBHA shows a year....that's it, just to be eligible for state championships. I run at a local series here because less of a crowd.
You will know when your done, don't give up but also don't let it be something that you dread doing |
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| Three 4 Luck - 2013-12-11 9:11 AM Take a break and see if the desire comes back.
Do i sell the horses or just let them sit while i take a break? |
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Location: 100 miles from Nowhere, AR | Kgirl - 2013-12-11 9:21 AM
Three 4 Luck - 2013-12-11 9:11 AM Take a break and see if the desire comes back.
Do i sell the horses or just let them sit while i take a break?
If you can afford to feed them, let them sit. How many do you have? |
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Location: southeast Texas | A friend of mine used to get the
"barrel racing blues" this time of year.
Yes, barrel racing is a huge commitment to your horse. Only you can decide if you want to continue hauling down that road. Clear your mind, picture not having a horse. All the time and Extra $$ you will have. Can you see yourself with no horses? Picture yourself in the spring with the "itch" to ride.
After many many years my friend has given up barrel racing. I think part of it was she didn't hit the goals she set for herself. It can get fustrating when you try and try to achieve your goal and it eludes you. |
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Location: Never in one place long | Three 4 Luck - 2013-12-11 9:11 AM
Take a break and see if the desire comes back.
AGREE! Take a break and if you miss it bad you'll know you're not done... if you easily find other ways to fill your time and don't miss it then you'll know you're done! As much as I love my horses, I always like a few month break in the winter for my pocketbook to fill back up and to have time to do other activites and spend time with family and friends! |
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| Kgirl - 2013-12-11 9:21 AM
Three 4 Luck - 2013-12-11 9:11 AM Take a break and see if the desire comes back.
Do i sell the horses or just let them sit while i take a break?
I'd keep two (one horse is lonely alone) and just enjoy an occasional trail ride until you are more sure. |
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Location: southeast Texas | I don't get the mind set of waiting around because of exhibitions. The open starts at _ _ _ _. Any thing untill then is time I fill with doing what ever. You don't have to get there early, to wait thru the exhibition, unless you need it. And then its a part of training/seasoning your horse. |
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Location: Louisiana | I am also at this cross road in my life. I have been barrel racing for 40+ years and I absolutely love the sport, the horses, etc but I have not been able to reach my goals as well. I have three really nice geldings but none of them are 1d horses which makes winning money on a consistant basis impossible. My husband can be supportive at times and not so much at times. I like to keep my horses in the best running shape that I can but I can get really expensive. Sometimes I just want to get out and see my boys go to people that can afford to keep them running. Maybe keep one and just go to playdays. |
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I Really Love Jeans
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Location: North Dakota | Just an opinion! Get down to one really great horse that is an all around that can trail ride and even enter the western pleasure at your local playdays. When horse riding stops being fun it is time for a change. At one point in my life I sold EVERYTHING, even the trailer! I gave myself several months to find a great horse that could do lots of thing and simply started over. When I reached a certain age I stopped enjoying a high strung silly horse and started enjoying a solid smart horse! Wanting a change comes with age I think. If you still want to ride get a good trail horse and find a friend to go to trail ride with and enjoy simply riding again,, it helped me! When my youngest grows up some I think I am going to get into team penning or something like that! |
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| Thankyou all for the advice please keep it coming!
I have 6 horses total.... yes they eat alot!!! I would keep two one old mare that is 22 that i still barrel race on occasion and trail ride and my gelding that is 15 and is arthritic but we still trail ride on occasion.
I could never sell out completely... I couldnt' stand it...
Around here it isn't just the exhibitons to wait around.... they will do sooo many classes... Pee Wee, Pony, Jr Horse, Youth, Womens, Mens, Open in both barrels and poles! This is at the one arena that is 1 1/2 hours away from me and has good ground. You get there at 12 pm and you arent leaving till 12 am.
I've done the rodeo scene. All the local ones are sanctioned and the competition is fierce.
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Location: Where the stars at night are big and bright, TX | Barrel racing isn't going anywhere, it'll be there if you change your mind. If you feel it's draining you and you're not feeling it right now, take that break, imo listen to that voice - especially as we get older. Finances are a concern for most and time is limited to put those where they need to be. If you enjoy the horses you have and like taking a ride doing whatever you feel like doing, do that. I took a break due to a few close-together moves and job changes, now we're back living where the nearest race is an occasional day-race, 3 hours one way from us. Not hardly worth keeping one fit for that. Nothing says you can't leg them back up and go if you want to down the road. Don't feel guilty about it, everyone's situation is different. Don't regret not chasing what isn't working for you. |
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Location: MD | You dont have to race. Horses are perfectly fine not having a job you have to pay to do.
I got really overwhelmed at one point abouy 3 years ago. One hurt and finished and lots of "prospects" in the barn(6+ horses)... i felt like i had to work a million hours to be able to feed them and keep them just going to the small shows.
Between then and now, got a solid job, moved away from home, only have two mouths to feed. I really havent been racing much but just enjoying the time im mounted. Sometimes i ride everyday for a month or so, sometimes i ride onve a week. And let me tell ya, its making it much easier for myself to be able to go to a race when i want amd to not have to frazzle myself over it. I have learned that i don't have to enter every weekend to be a barrel racer |
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