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Location: Montana | Do you bring the trailer any ways? Do you make a decision on the spot about a horse, or do you take your time to make up your mind? I'm looking at buying my first finished barrel horse, and it is more money than I have ever spent on a horse before. I want to make really sure of the horse and myself and how we get along before I purchase it.
How can I be fair to the seller and still be able to take a day or two to think about it? I plan on telling the seller upfront that I want to take a day or two to think things over.
Before I've made up my mind on the spot and had things work out good, and another time not as well as I'd like. I don't generally just go look at horses for the fun of it, I usually go to look to buy.
What is the fairest way to proceed? I don't want to step on toes or hurt feelings or act rude. It has been almost 5 years since I've purchased a horse, and I think I'm out of the loop! LOL.
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  Shipwrecked and Flat Out Zapped
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Location: DUMPING CATS AND PIGS IN TEXAS :) | Don't take the trailer and just tell them the truth......if you came to my house to try a horse and just said I have never spent this much money on a horse and I want to make absolute sure before I buy it, I would be totally cool with you trying him/or her out a couple of times within a few days.......a lot of sellers really want the buyer to be completely happy with their purchase and want their horse to go to the "right" home. Don't sweat it. Don't be a lunatic either, but take your time and make sure it's right. |
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Shipwrecked and Flat Out Zapped
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Location: DUMPING CATS AND PIGS IN TEXAS :) | ....AND, lol, if they give you a hard time about that then tell the to stuff it and come to ol' LRQHS' house....I'm sure to have something that will make you happy......Lord knows that I have enough to choose from lol.... |
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Total Germophobe
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Location: Montana | Awe, thanks! That's sweet of you LRQHS! |
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Location: Silver Lake, MN | As long as you were up front I would totally be okay with it. As stated above I want the best fit for our horses as well, that is the most important thing to me. It's all about communication.
I hate when people come look - and then just leave without saying one way or another what they are thinking. Or telling me when I should expect to hear from them by. That is just a window shopper to me. If you are serious buyer and tell me I will have an answer for you within 2 days that would be great. I wish more people would just communicate. I'm not going to kick and scream because you don't want my horse. LOL. |
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Location: Minnesota | I agree, just be very upfront with them. I've been very lucky and worked with awesome sellers. They understood and allowed me to take a couple days. I think they can tell someone who is really interested and someone just out for a ride on a horse. I would speak with them on the phone and tell them what your wanting to do, its worked great for me.  |
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Location: Under The Big Sky Of Texas | If I was spending a big chunk of money on a horse I would try it out at their place and think about it and then ride the horse again in a few days to beable to get the feel of the horse and make sure its what you want. Talk to the people befor you do anything and let them know that you would like to beable to think about the horse befor you decide, I would leave my trailer home, but if you decide to ride it again for the second time then I would bring the trailer with me just in case you decide to buy it.
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| I would suggest riding the horse, if you like the horse then ask to ride the horse another day at another arena, discuss who will be hauling the horse. If the second ride goes good, then I would suggest trying to run the horse at a barrel race, discuss this at the beginning.
Horses can be completely different in different arenas and different settings.
If the run goes well then I suggest get a very thorough vet check prior to paying in full for the horse and have a contract written up pending vet check, whether the deposit (if you give one) will be refundable if the horse doesn't pass vet check.
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Total Germophobe
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Location: Montana | Thanks very much for all of the great advice!  |
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A Somebody to Everybody
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Location: Under The Big Sky Of Texas | Good luck I hope this is the horse for you |
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Location: Bastrop, Texas | If it were me, and if I were young, I would save my money and go buy one of LQRHS's nicely bred, big assed babies, and spend a little money on a real horseman/trainer later on. I mean a real honest-to-goodness trainer, not even necessarily a barrel racer. I think you can save a ton, and enjoy it even more, plus it will make you a better rider as well, IMO. |
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| LRQHS - 2014-01-02 1:03 PM Don't take the trailer and just tell them the truth......if you came to my house to try a horse and just said I have never spent this much money on a horse and I want to make absolute sure before I buy it, I would be totally cool with you trying him/or her out a couple of times within a few days.......a lot of sellers really want the buyer to be completely happy with their purchase and want their horse to go to the "right" home. Don't sweat it. Don't be a lunatic either, but take your time and make sure it's right.
Best line I've read today - Don't be a lunatic either!!!!!!!! LOLOLOLOL |
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Total Germophobe
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Location: Montana | Southtxponygirl - 2014-01-02 1:30 PM Good luck I hope this is the horse for you
Thanks very much, he sounds good, but you never know until you meet him. :)
On a pre-purchase exam, how much should you have done? I'm not looking at a $10,000+ horse, but it is more than I've spent before.
And if any of you have an idea or sample of a purchase agreement that translates to pending vet check, that would be good too! |
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 Star Padded Honey
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Location: NW MT | I know sometimes in the past, if I've hauled the trailer w/me, I almost feel "pressured" by MYSELF to make a decision too soon. I would go w/o the trailer - check the horse out, ride it & you will know if you are still interested or it's a "pass up". Just be honest w/the seller - either tell them thank you, very nice horse (or whatever), but just not quite what you are looking for; OR I really do like your horse but since this is the most I've ever spent, I want to be sure so would like a couple days to think on it & maybe schedule another time to come ride again" or similar. if they are good folks, they'll want you to be sure too! |
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Location: Montana | HotbearLVR - 2014-01-02 1:35 PM If it were me, and if I were young, I would save my money and go buy one of LQRHS's nicely bred, big assed babies, and spend a little money on a real horseman/trainer later on. I mean a real honest-to-goodness trainer, not even necessarily a barrel racer. I think you can save a ton, and enjoy it even more, plus it will make you a better rider as well, IMO.
That would be a good idea, Hotbear, except I think it would cost more to get the horse shipped here than the horse and training combined, LOL. Just kidding. I thought about going the prospect way, but felt at this time wasn't a feasible option for me. Maybe sometime in the future. :) |
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Location: Bastrop, Texas | Seriously, I mean take a look at that cocky little bugger in LRQHS's avitar. Grab him and have fun raising him right. His breeding is outstanding. You can spend your money on the best possible TRAINER and still be miles ahead. If things go right you can have a LOT more satisfaction knowing you did it yourself. That sounds like so much fun, with a lot less risk and a lot more savings. |
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Location: Bastrop, Texas | mtcanchazer - 2014-01-02 2:49 PM HotbearLVR - 2014-01-02 1:35 PM If it were me, and if I were young, I would save my money and go buy one of LQRHS's nicely bred, big assed babies, and spend a little money on a real horseman/trainer later on. I mean a real honest-to-goodness trainer, not even necessarily a barrel racer. I think you can save a ton, and enjoy it even more, plus it will make you a better rider as well, IMO. That would be a good idea, Hotbear, except I think it would cost more to get the horse shipped here than the horse and training combined, LOL. Just kidding. I thought about going the prospect way, but felt at this time wasn't a feasible option for me. Maybe sometime in the future. :)
I understand. I was just thinking outloud. |
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Location: Peg-Leg Julia Grimm | Don't forget the pre-purchase exam and insurance if you are spending money that would hurt to lose.  |
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| I recently bought a horse 15 minutes away well actually my dad did. but we told them we just wanted to come try it and take a bit to decide and they said okay so i went and rode the horse at their house and then we set another time to go ride and try out again without buying.. i was really lucky because they let us ride the horse quite a bit and i ran him 3 times before i bought him. i probably rode him 5 times before i bought him. w=we called told them we liked him and then went to their house to pick him up. which we knew the people personally so I'm sure your situation is different just my advice/story |
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Location: DUMPING CATS AND PIGS IN TEXAS :) | HotbearLVR - 2014-01-02 2:49 PM
Seriously, I mean take a look at that cocky little bugger in LRQHS's avitar. Grab him and have fun raising him right. His breeding is outstanding. You can spend your money on the best possible TRAINER and still be miles ahead. If things go right you can have a LOT more satisfaction knowing you did it yourself. That sounds like so much fun, with a lot less risk and a lot more savings.
Hot dang Hot bear!!! You just became my sales rep lol! I'm humbled :) |
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