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pinkie1
Reg. Sep 2008
Posted 2014-01-05 3:57 PM
Subject: Hauling and traveling with a Driver or opposite sex


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What do ya'll do with guys that you may haul with or that help you drive but you are not wanting to have crash in your LQ with you? I know girls do have drivers at times, where do they sleep? Any special trailer arrangements or designs to accommodate that?
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Brrlracengirl
Reg. Jul 2012
Posted 2014-01-05 4:07 PM
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I've hauled to college rodeos with other guys (with my bf as well) and they always stayed with us in the trailer on our fold out table or on the bunk beds we had in the mid tack. We all knew each other, though so it was never a problem! If you are not comfortable with them staying with you, they could stay in a motel room or in someone elses trailer.  
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Southtxponygirl
Reg. Nov 2006
Posted 2014-01-05 4:10 PM
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pinkie1 - 2014-01-05 3:57 PM What do ya'll do with guys that you may haul with or that help you drive but you are not wanting to have crash in your LQ with you? I know girls do have drivers at times, where do they sleep? Any special trailer arrangements or designs to accommodate that?

Why would you haul with someone you dont trust are know? 
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angelica
Reg. Apr 2005
Posted 2014-01-05 4:25 PM
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Some womens husbands would have a hernie if the driver stayed in the same living space! I think that is the point. I know if I hauled enough to need a driver I would not want to live in the same space! 
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pinkie1
Reg. Sep 2008
Posted 2014-01-05 4:29 PM
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The main one I will haul with I know very well, but we are married to other people and I find that inappropriate in this situation. Just my personal feelings on that!
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pinkie1
Reg. Sep 2008
Posted 2014-01-05 4:32 PM
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I like the mid tack idea. I am ordering a new trailer so maybe that would be an idea. Thx!
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Southtxponygirl
Reg. Nov 2006
Posted 2014-01-05 4:54 PM
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pinkie1 - 2014-01-05 4:29 PM The main one I will haul with I know very well, but we are married to other people and I find that inappropriate in this situation. Just my personal feelings on that!

So the one that your going to be hauling with is a married man and your a married women and neither of your spouse's are going with y'all? Dont seem right, and you dont trust him with money in your trailer? I think you need to find you a female to travel with.
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pinkie1
Reg. Sep 2008
Posted 2014-01-05 5:10 PM
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Thank you for your advice but nobody said anything about not trusting someone with money and my reasons and situation about who is able to go with me is also not the topic. Apparently I am not as lucky as some and I do not have my friends and family standing in line wanting to go with me on certain trips. There will be other people at times which will leave not enough room in the LQ anyway, but I think we are off topic, I am looking for real options (primarily in LQ configuration) that will accommodate my personal situation and I was curious what others do.
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Southtxponygirl
Reg. Nov 2006
Posted 2014-01-05 5:15 PM
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I read your first post wrong I thought it said cash, sorry  about that. 
But I would not haul with someone elses husband, would not be right. I have always haul with other women, never a married man, are a single man for that matter.
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hoofs_in_motion
Reg. Apr 2011
Posted 2014-01-05 5:19 PM
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I have no problem with it.....as long as there are no smelly farts coming from their end....LOL

 
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kwanatha
Reg. Dec 2003
Posted 2014-01-05 5:30 PM
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cot in the horse area
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CYA Ranch
Reg. Feb 2008
Posted 2014-01-05 5:36 PM
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There's a guy around my area who drove an NFR qualifier for quite a while.  He's a great guy and I'd hire him in a nano second to drive me if I was going to be hauling hard and yes I'd have no problem sharing my LQ with him.
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pinkie1
Reg. Sep 2008
Posted 2014-01-05 5:38 PM
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I thought about the cot thing first, but I didnt want to offend .... I am contemplating not putting a full length couch in my next LQ so there would be nowhere in there for extra people to sleep anyway.
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Brrlracengirl
Reg. Jul 2012
Posted 2014-01-05 7:49 PM
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pinkie1 - 2014-01-05 4:32 PM I like the mid tack idea. I am ordering a new trailer so maybe that would be an idea. Thx!

Oh it was nice! we just had the two bunk beds that folded down when needed... bad side to that is it was on the other side of the bathroom and we had to leave that door open so they could have heat/air... so there was a time when I had to go real bad and just told them to not look! lol  kinda awkward.....
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Brrlracengirl
Reg. Jul 2012
Posted 2014-01-05 7:54 PM
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Also, depending on how much you can spend, I have seen the super nice trailers that had a bedroom/ living space/ kitchen on the nose side, then a shared bathroom, then a whole other bedroom on the other side of the bath. That would be perfect for your situation! OR! you could find a baby freight with a living quarters/ bed in it that he could sleep in at night...  
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DD2012
Reg. Apr 2012
Posted 2014-01-05 7:55 PM
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kwanatha - 2014-01-05 5:30 PM

cot in the horse area

If we were hauling partners and you told me I was sleeping on a cot in the horse compartment I would tell you to take a flying leap at my arse.



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CYA Ranch
Reg. Feb 2008
Posted 2014-01-05 7:58 PM
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DD2012 - 2014-01-05 7:55 PM
kwanatha - 2014-01-05 5:30 PM cot in the horse area
If we were hauling partners and you told me I was sleeping on a cot in the horse compartment I would tell you to take a flying leap at my arse.

I kind of have to agree with that.  If your hiring this guy to haul you and your horses around safely than I'd sure give him a warm/cool place to sleep, nice bed and great food.  
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Bibliafarm
Reg. Jul 2008
Posted 2014-01-05 8:49 PM
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you under the covers he on top the covers.. I have no issues with that at all. if you trust to haul together then you trust to be in same living space.
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NJJ
Reg. Jul 2006
Posted 2014-01-05 9:22 PM
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This whole thread brings up memories of the past....we hauled (sometimes as many as 5 or 6 men/women) together MANY miles in a stock trailer with dressing room and a two seater truck to Midwest rodeos....You never knew who you were going to wake up next to....and NO we were not all married to each other........I have to agree with DD....if I trusted this man to drive and haul with me and my horses, I sure wouldn't have a problem being in the SAME living quarters with him....unless his wife and your husband have trust "issues".....then that is a whole other can of worms! 
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redmansmyman11
Reg. Jan 2012
Posted 2014-01-05 9:59 PM
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NJJ - 2014-01-05 8:22 PM

This whole thread brings up memories of the past....we hauled (sometimes as many asΒ 5 or 6Β men/women) together MANY miles in a stock trailer with dressing room and a two seater truck to Midwest rodeos....You never knew who you were going to wake up next to....and NO we were notΒ all married to each other........I have to agree with DD....if I trusted this man to drive and haul with me and my horses, I sure wouldn't have a problem being in the SAME living quarters with him....unless his wife and your husband have trust "issues".....then that is a whole other can of worms!Β 

Aaaaah yes! The good ol days except I'm still living it lol
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