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| We absolutely have income inequality in this country. But mostly by our own choices. I choose to not go to college out of high school. My parents couldn't afford to send me, but I didn't have the interest to try and obtain my own financing. I was alright to just get a job. As a result I don't make what some of my friends who did go to college make. You know what that was my choice. Do I expect that they need to give me some of what they make? That is absolutely absurd! In this country what we have or don't have is a direct result of how hard we are willing to work. I don't know many but I do know a few multi-millionaires and they all have one thing in common. They worked their a** off. I'm talking about the self made ones. While I chose to get my 8 hr day in and go home, they were still at work and usually for 6 or 7 days a week. Don't buy in to this rhetoric coming out of Obamas mouth. This is just to make him sound like a bleeding heart for the poor and down trodden. He thinks he is appealing to the masses, but I think the ones out there affected by his redistribution of wealth would not be that many. Most of us fortunately, still get it. We have to get up, go to work and be responsible for our own lives. I don't have sympathy for those who don't get it. |
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Location: Blissfully happy Giants fan!!! | Amen. I actually have said the exact same thing to my husband. He says he doesn't make enough money that he wants to and then will start making excuses. I tell him I am not the one to say anything of the sort to. He has options and he knows he does and if he isn't going to go down those paths I don't want to hear it.
I was fortunate enough to get a college degree but I work my a$$ off for the job I have and I make pretty good money because I do. Eventually I am going to make double this and it will be because I put the time, effort, and work into it and I am willing to do what it takes to get me where I want to be. My husband knows this. And I am not as hard on him as it may seem. Partly because part of how I make as much money as I do is because we have to relocate for me to climb the ladder. We have already done it once. The time will come again. I forsee at least two more relocations in our long term future. I know it; he knows it. But we can live a good life because of it.
Anyways, off my soap box. This is a topic that always frustrates the crap out of me probably because I don't understand the mentality of those who think this way. |
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i finished high school at 16 i left home @16 i got married divorced by 19 i rode racehorses for a living till i was about 25 met the father of my son
learned to drive a tractor trailer got divorced drove by myself met a guy won/t go any farther but he help get started in trucking met some agents that help me meet the right people but i had to make those calls i had to meet people sell my company sell my loads i worked 10 to 12 hrs a day easily there were time i paid phone bill
and we ate oatmeal but it paid off.. i was for years in the 80 and 90 making great money .
hard work yes but i do not want to share what i busted my rear for. i have no use for our system. it rewards people not trying but by the same token we don/t have any jobs we need to be a manufacturing country i would never had made it to college
ok i will get off my soap box
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Location: NOT at Wal Mart | I have a degree, my husband doesn't, in fact he never set one foot inside a college. He makes 3 times what I make/made. Heck I just read where a waitress/waiter can make 6 figures! 
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| That is great and I applaud you! College is not for everybody and you can make a good living without it out here in the country, IF you are willing to work hard.
One of the wealthiest men around where I live here in Texas, started with a few head of cattle and a few acres of land. 40 years later, he has thousands of cattle and acres of land. And I know how he did it. He was working daylight to dark, working cattle, raising and putting up hay and silage and corn and wheat. A whole lot of work went into him being sucessful. Some people think rich people are just lucky but I have found that the harder you work, the luckier you get. |
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Location: Kentucky | justcruzin - 2014-01-07 10:08 AM I have a degree, my husband doesn't, in fact he never set one foot inside a college. He makes 3 times what I make/made. Heck I just read where a waitress/waiter can make 6 figures! I know what your sayin, tho.
ETA: I think people who work hard should be rewarded. But since I do work in Corporate (HR at that), I realize that is not always the case. I have seen and experienced that "it's who you know" can give a bonus quicker than how hard you work. THAT is what ticks me off.
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Location: SE Louisiana | Oh please!!! Anyone that knows anything knows the government pays a fraction of what really smart people can make in the open market. That is why we are left with the dregs that nobody else will hire. |
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| That may be true, but I don't think they have the worry of their job shutting down or laying off. I make decent money working from home doing tech support work for a NE company providing tech support for government contracts. NOW, as of the failure of Obamacare, HE is considering creating a government branch to handle the tech issues of government programs. Boy, will that be a failure and how many people will it put out of work. And it won't be like my job, never know come contract renewal, if we will get awarded or not. It is based on our performance. If this becomes a government job, performance goes out the window and if a poor job is done, oh well, nobody is held accountable and nobody loses their job. |
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With all this talk from certain groups about everyone "deserves" a college education a 4 year degree in the near future will be worthless or about the same equivalent as a high school diploma. You can see the writing on the wall, push these morons through college just like high school. Its cool though, we the tax payers foot the bill....
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Location: 100 miles from Nowhere, AR | Komet - 2014-01-07 9:14 AM Oh please!!! Anyone that knows anything knows the government pays a fraction of what really smart people can make in the open market. That is why we are left with the dregs that nobody else will hire.
My husband could make twice what he does if he was in private industry, but would be required to spend at least 40-60% of his time traveling, sometimes more. He wants to be here to help raise his kids, and so has passed up the opportunities for more money. It doesn't keep him from taking pride in his work (county extension agent for Ag, and staff chair). I know what you mean tho, it's almost impossible to get fired from a government job, no matter how poorly you perform. |
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Location: 100 miles from Nowhere, AR | Itsme - 2014-01-07 9:41 AM This thread could go many directions... With all this talk from certain groups about everyone "deserves" a college education a 4 year degree in the near future will be worthless or about the same equivalent as a high school diploma. You can see the writing on the wall, push these morons through college just like high school. Its cool though, we the tax payers foot the bill....
I agree. If everyone had a degree, where is the advantage? It wouldn't be any different than holding a HS diploma now. IE not worth the paper it's written on. Excellence should be rewarded and people should do what they're good at. There is no shame in choosing a trade or labor over college. Those people are NEEDED. Dumbing down the universities so everyone can make it through is not the answer. |
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Location: Blissfully happy Giants fan!!! | To clarify-I am with most of you. My husband has a 2 year degree from an unaccredited college. He is WAY smarter than me and works harder than me and I am the first to admit it. My point to him and on this thread was if you don't like where you are as far as income goes, DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT. He finally got what I was saying and chose a career path. It doesn't include college. But he is happy with what he chose and is working towards his goals. I am more proud of him than anyone can even imagine.
There are so many people that don't want to go up the corporate chain and that is fine. I have nothing against that. I also have nothing against people who are serving in spots that help the greater good (ie farmers, ranchers, teachers, extension agents, etc) or help the greater good of a company and they are satisfied with their jobs. Again, I have nothing against that and I applaud those people. I actually believe farmers, ranchers and teachers should make more than anyone else on the planet but that is a topic for another day.
My whole issue and where I agree with the OP is that if you aren't willing to work for something, don't complain.
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Location: Blissfully happy Giants fan!!! | Three 4 Luck - 2014-01-07 9:53 AM Itsme - 2014-01-07 9:41 AM This thread could go many directions... With all this talk from certain groups about everyone "deserves" a college education a 4 year degree in the near future will be worthless or about the same equivalent as a high school diploma. You can see the writing on the wall, push these morons through college just like high school. Its cool though, we the tax payers foot the bill.... I agree. If everyone had a degree, where is the advantage? It wouldn't be any different than holding a HS diploma now. IE not worth the paper it's written on. Excellence should be rewarded and people should do what they're good at. There is no shame in choosing a trade or labor over college. Those people are NEEDED. Dumbing down the universities so everyone can make it through is not the answer.
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Location: Broxton, Ga | No need to worry Income inequality is coming YOUR way........all thanks to Obama.........and those that voted him into office...........
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Location: lexington KY | I have worked since I was 16, 2 jobs in high school, worked 2 jobs while in college, which I paid for with student loans. I didnt finish and have worked my @ss off ever since. I make much more than most of my friends who graduated from college and also own my own business on the side. I think we all make our own destiny and some of my friends wanted to be married, have kids and those things were important to them. I am not married, nor do I have kids, because that wasnt something I wanted. I am a firm believer if you want something and work hard enough you will get it. |
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Location: Bastrop, Texas | polorunner - 2014-01-07 11:04 AM I have worked since I was 16, 2 jobs in high school, worked 2 jobs while in college, which I paid for with student loans. I didnt finish and have worked my @ss off ever since. I make much more than most of my friends who graduated from college and also own my own business on the side. I think we all make our own destiny and some of my friends wanted to be married, have kids and those things were important to them. I am not married, nor do I have kids, because that wasnt something I wanted. I am a firm believer if you want something and work hard enough you will get it.
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Location: Broxton, Ga | polorunner - 2014-01-06 12:04 PM I have worked since I was 16, 2 jobs in high school, worked 2 jobs while in college, which I paid for with student loans. I didnt finish and have worked my @ss off ever since. I make much more than most of my friends who graduated from college and also own my own business on the side. I think we all make our own destiny and some of my friends wanted to be married, have kids and those things were important to them. I am not married, nor do I have kids, because that wasnt something I wanted. I am a firm believer if you want something and work hard enough you will get it.
Amen.............but now you are going to share.......all your hard work with others that are less fortunate..whether their choosing or unforeseen circumstances that makes them entitled to others prosperity...and ps pay for their healthcare..........the Obama-way...............you post "was" the American way........but sadly that is changing in America..........
What we need is jobs..............opportunity not handouts.........encourage companys to want to do business in the USA......it seems we have seen none of that with this administration but only to punish the prosperous.......... |
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Location: lexington KY | CJE - 2014-01-07 12:29 PM polorunner - 2014-01-06 12:04 PM I have worked since I was 16, 2 jobs in high school, worked 2 jobs while in college, which I paid for with student loans. I didnt finish and have worked my @ss off ever since. I make much more than most of my friends who graduated from college and also own my own business on the side. I think we all make our own destiny and some of my friends wanted to be married, have kids and those things were important to them. I am not married, nor do I have kids, because that wasnt something I wanted. I am a firm believer if you want something and work hard enough you will get it. Amen.............but now you are going to share.......all your hard work with others that are less fortunate..whether their choosing or unforeseen circumstances that makes them entitled to others prosperity...and ps pay for their healthcare..........the Obama-way...............you post "was" the American way........but sadly that is changing in America..........
What we need is jobs..............opportunity not handouts.........encourage companys to want to do business in the USA......it seems we have seen none of that with this administration but only to punish the prosperous..........
You are exactly right, and I absolutly do not agree with having to share what I have worked very hard for, with someone that has their hand out. Another thing we need in America is a "work ethic". I have many friends that have gone back to school to get their masters, or to get a higher education only to be very upset when they arent rewarded with more money. However they arent willing to work any more hours or devote any more time. It all starts with a work ethic, you must have one to be able to succeed. Many people spend more time trying to get out of "work" then just doing the job to begin with. |
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The Non Sky Diver
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Location: SE Louisiana | Three 4 Luck - 2014-01-07 9:49 AM
Komet - 2014-01-07 9:14 AM Oh please!!! Anyone that knows anything knows the government pays a fraction of what really smart people can make in the open market. That is why we are left with the dregs that nobody else will hire.
My husband could make twice what he does if he was in private industry, but would be required to spend at least 40-60% of his time traveling, sometimes more. He wants to be here to help raise his kids, and so has passed up the opportunities for more money. It doesn't keep him from taking pride in his work (county extension agent for Ag, and staff chair). I know what you mean tho, it's almost impossible to get fired from a government job, no matter how poorly you perform.
Kudos to your husband.. I understand times now are not the same as when I was a kid. My dad was all about supporting the family. He relied on mom to deal with that. I turned out to be the 'Black Sheep' of the four kids... I was a "mistake"... unplanned... |
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| polorunner - 2014-01-07 11:38 AM CJE - 2014-01-07 12:29 PM polorunner - 2014-01-06 12:04 PM I have worked since I was 16, 2 jobs in high school, worked 2 jobs while in college, which I paid for with student loans. I didnt finish and have worked my @ss off ever since. I make much more than most of my friends who graduated from college and also own my own business on the side. I think we all make our own destiny and some of my friends wanted to be married, have kids and those things were important to them. I am not married, nor do I have kids, because that wasnt something I wanted. I am a firm believer if you want something and work hard enough you will get it. Amen.............but now you are going to share.......all your hard work with others that are less fortunate..whether their choosing or unforeseen circumstances that makes them entitled to others prosperity...and ps pay for their healthcare..........the Obama-way...............you post "was" the American way........but sadly that is changing in America..........
What we need is jobs..............opportunity not handouts.........encourage companys to want to do business in the USA......it seems we have seen none of that with this administration but only to punish the prosperous..........
You are right about the lack of work ethic, it is eroding away. My daughter's boyfriend is 26, makes $11/hour and thinks a 9 hour work day is a long day.
I have a friend who is in his late 50's, married his senior year of high school, went to high school during the day and worked in the oil field at night till he graduated. No college diploma but was willing to work hard and take any assignment they gave him. He now makes big bucks and has moved way up the chain of command.
When he was telling me this what struck me the most is I don't hear these kind of stories very often, people willing to really sacrifice and work hard for their future.
Our best friend is a very rich and successful dirt contractor- no college degree, barely graduated high school.
There are many paths to success and many definitions of success. We are doing a huge disservice to just push an expensive college degree as the best choice.
I hope Obama's class warfare backfires on him but I think we are outnumbered by those who want it easy and want it now. |
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