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| I need some advice. I have a guy at work that drives me completely INSANE! He stomps around and is constantly pacing. He sits right in front of my desk and he slurps and gulps his coffee so loud the entire office can hear. When he eats his lunch he chews so loud I get sick to my stomach. I try to leave around lunch so I don't have to hear him but he snacks all day long. And eats things such as carrots etc, so it is extremely loud!!
I can deal with the stomping around and constant sighs and comments but the coffee slurping makes me sick! Everytime he takes a drink he GULPS! I literally can't take it anymore. His feet are also extremely rank smelling. Even with shoes on I can still smell them when he walks by my desk.
What would you all do, just deal with it? I don't really think I can say anything, although my boss has even mentioned to me how loud he is. I think he annoys him as well! Maybe I am just being over sensitive?! |
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Location: Kansas | Thank goodness for pandora. I work with a bunch of annoying people....that is why I listen to pandora and only take my headphones off when I have to step away from my desk or answer my phone. |
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Location: Alberta | Why can't you say anything? Obviously your not the only one who's noticed, if your boss has mentioned it!
If a coworker was distracting me from getting my work done I would be letting my superior know....not in a whinny, tattle tale way, but an adult way...
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Location: mi | oh I would have to say something. It would kind of be in a joking smartass manner. Some like "Dude could you drink that coffee alittle louder?" and see where the conversation goes from there. Not sure what I would do about the smelly feet thing. We had a guy here with some serious BO. It finally had to be dealt with as he at times worked very close to customers. That was a bosses job to address. And thankfully it worked and he started using or using better deodorant.
Good luck. But radio or headphones might be your best option. Heck I turn the radio on at lunch just because I can't hardly stand to here myself eat let alone someone else!
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Location: Kentucky | File a complaint to HR. That's what they are there for. Sounds like he is being unprofessional. |
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Location: If I ever get back to Oklahoma..... | We have one of those in our office. His presence drives me insane. He says hi to every single person that walks by his desk, excuses himself after sneezing or coughing, and is annoyingly nice to EVERYBODY. He pounds on his keyboard and hardly leaves his messy desk unless it's to get coffee or go to the bathroom. Every single email I send to him gets a reply - even if it's just a thank you.
I'm beginning to think I'm the one with the problem because I just don't DO nice.... Others in the office like him, but they don't have to work with him on a daily basis. Those of us in our department each have an issue with him, but our superior is hardly ever there, so it's hard to let her know without being whiney.
I totally feel your pain!! And like someone else said, Pandora is your friend!! That and some earplugs!! I will probably have hearing loss because I keep my earbuds in and up loud.
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  That's White "Man" to You
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Location: North Dakota | What gets me is someone talking really loud. It makes me wonder if they have hearing loss or something. There is a woman that is always outside my childrens school that will actully stand around and talk about other people but she is doing it so loud she can be heard over all the cars and children running around. |
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The Advice Guru
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| Can you have your desk moved as far away as possible?
It sounds like he is not doing anything wrong so I am not sure if HR can do something.
As someone said, can you wear ear buds and listen to the radio.
One other thing you could suggest to the boss is no food or drink at the desk |
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Location: OK | Lol, I used to work with a girl who every few minutes would , in a really high voice, say "aaaahhhhh" or "hmmmmmm" or "wheeeee". Every time she would yawn, she would do it really loud and then smack her lips over and over after it.
It . drove . me . Carazy!!!!!
Wore my headphones all the time.
I've heard it's an actual disorder that causes extreme anger over smacking and gulping. That made me laugh because if someone gulps, I'm in an instant rage. I had a friend who didn't know how to not gulp. I tried to teach him and he never could get it. After that it was a joke between us, he would gulp and then look at me like "oh, crap".
Report it, but try to find ways to get around it. Headphones, even only in 1 ear so you can still hear if someone calls you, will really help your mood. Be picky about what music you listen to. Florida Georgia Line always makes me really happy.... good luck! |
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Location: OK | The other thing I would do is, be his friend. Talk to him more and maybe that will help your tolerance. Hard to do, but it will really help.
It's kinda like stray dogs, their ugly, they stink, they have no manners, but who else in the world would have them, so you just gotta do it. |
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I AM being nice
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Location: MD | What's sad is that I am in the barn by myself most of the time and I STILL have to deal with an annoying guy at work! |
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That's White "Man" to You
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| And Wrap, I bet you would win in a fight!
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Location: Midwest | Whiteboy - 2014-02-05 10:45 AM Accidently email this to him.
or this.... |
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| At my last job, one of the hundreds of issues I had:
My desk was in a hallway. We closed and locked a door beside/behind me and put a file cabinet in front of it. That was fine. I can handle being shoved into the tiny dark corner. Couple years later a hugantic woman was hired and installed in the office behind the door (before anyone thinks I have something against bigger peeps - this one was aout 5'2" and 500 pounds -- SERIOUSLY obese here, so big she had to get a special office chair that looked like a loveseat). She went and cried about the 'long walk' to the copier going out the front of her office so the lovely office administrator moved my file cabinet and opened that door. Now this door was so close to me I could open it by barely leaning back in my chair, so a very tight space there that this huge and stinky thing sqeezed past me many times each day. She didn't even FIT between my desk and the wall, and knocked me sideways by a few inches when her bulk poofed back out. Every time. And that's when the stink escaped too. I think. Might have wafted out whenever her folds rolled.
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Location: Phoenix | Oh man...gulping. I feel your anger. My old senile boss would gulp his coffee and he was naggy has it was and it literally made me want to jump out of my skin. Headphones!! Pandora. If people complain, explain it's the headphones or a different desk NOT by him. |
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| The gulping is driving me insane! I have talked with my boss about it as well, sort of, but I don't really know what he can say either. He isn't technically doing anything wrong.
I can't wear ear buds as I have to answer the phone and questions.
But he is SOOOOO LOUD, if I am on the phone I CAN NOT hear because he is constantly talking, eating, stomping, etc.
Example about 10 minutes ago, I was on the phone and he answered the other line, I could NOT hear the person on the other end as he was talking so loudly!
He has to tell us what he is doing everytime he does something. He stands at my boss's desk and looks over his shoulder. This drives him insane! He has mentioned it to me before but he doesn't want to be rude. He has put chairs there to try and get him to not do it but he just moves the chairs. He is just dense!!! He doesn't think about what he is doing most of the time!
I can't move my desk, so I guessing I am complaining and venting more then just looking for advice.
There really isn't anything that can be done.
I talk to him all day long, it isn't like we hate each other, but I am just extremely annoyed with him all the time.
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| I work with a guy like this... he annoys all of us so he is in an office upstairs far away from the rest of us, but he comes down to smoke about 6 times a day and has to get his human interaction in so he hangs around downstairs and drives us all nuts. He really likes me because I try so hard to be polite to him, but its biting me in the butt because I hear about every doctor appointment (he's in his 60's and goes to the doc a LOT), I hear about his bowel movements (and he asks what I think he should do depending on weather its constipation or diarrhea), I hear about his relationship with his ex wife who's not really his ex because they are together every weekend... I hear about every. little. thing. he does in a day. He also asks the same pointless questions every day like "oh, I see you're drinking tea again today?" or "what did you eat for breakfast/lunch today?", and I think he makes a point of touching at least 10 objects on my desk every day... including my water bottle and tea cup (which drives me mental- dont give me your germs!!). Oh, and every time he gets a mass email (that has been sent to every employee) he comes down and asks me to read it to him, and then we have to discuss it for at least half an hour. I am trying to be less polite to get the point across but he doesn't seem to be getting it.  |
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| I am glad I am not the only one who is annoyed by co workers. I am not a mean person but I just can't take it anymore. He was eating a pizza pop thing today and he ever slurps that! It is soooooo disgusting, it makes my stomach turn!! Our office is small so even if I get up from my desk and move until he is done I can still hear it. and if I move to the coffee chairs he follows, I go back to my desk and he follows!
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| I suddenly realize how much I love the people I work with.
Mostly because if anyone did any of these things we'd probably call them out on it and nip that crap in the bud. We get along amazingly well. |
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