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| Backstory on this guy
I bought him in January from a friend. I knew he came with his special set of issues but originally thought he would just take retraining. So I began at the basics and we made head way. After a month he could walk and trot on a loose rein and in a straight line. I decided to do some digging into his past and WOW. I am his 15th home in 13 years. A few years ago he was almost starved to death, rescued, sold, ran through a sale, bought and went through 2 more homes before he came to live with me. No wonder this guy had so many mental issues. I have poured my blood, sweat, and tears into him. Hes made a complete 180* change from the lifeless crazy boy he was to the sweet personable brat he is now.
But something is physically wrong with his back. My gut tells me its not fixable. While he has came a long way under saddle, he isn't right. I have been on him once in 3 months because of this. He will be walking along, then out of the blue just buck and freak out, almost like he's been shocked. I suspect he has a pinched nerve or kissing spines. I do not think its a training issue because he always acts apologetic afterwards. I do not feel he is safe to ride.
My dilemma is this...
I cant keep a pasture ornament any longer. My husbands truck just needed a new transmission, my hours got cut at work and I fractured a cervical vertebrae getting off a horse sunday. Do I try to rehome him and risk someone will try to ride him and get hurt, or worse yet, mistreat him like before. Or do I have him euthanized? My plan was to get xrays done of his back and may still do it. But my gut instinct tells me its not good. He still moves around fine, a little slow on cold days but don't we all!
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  Neat Freak
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Location: Wonderful Wyoming | I just dealth with something similar but he never had any behavior issues with us. He had a bit of a roach back, but had never been injured to our knowledge. He was supposed to be my husband's ranch horse but he rarely rides anymore and only needs one good horse. I was sick of him nagging me to ride him and keep him legged up so I rode him this spring on and off to get him sold. He felt off in tight circles but fine otherwise. I sold him cheap, as is and unsure of what his issue was. I was guessing maybe needed hocks done since he was just 5 or 6. A guy I knew growing up bought him for a ranch horse and had him checked out, turns out he has a lot of hock damage. So much so it is uncomfortable for him to just do much of anything. He kept all this hidden :( so I did refund his money and since I can't keep one around for a pasture pet, he was sold as unsound. If you can't find yours a pasture home, I am guessing auction is your next bet. It sucks, but part of life :( |
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Neat Freak
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Location: Wonderful Wyoming | or euthenize if you don't want do take him to auction like you mentioned. |
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I just read the headlines
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| He has had a hard life until you got him it seems. My heart breaks for both of you. I would put him down if you can't find him a good home. He has paid his dues. Living in South Texas any horse I might send to the sale is going to Mexico and that is a hard way for a horse to end his life. If I have one that I can no longer care for I put them down. |
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| I wont unload him at a sale. Several friends have already suggested it. He hasn't had a good life. I have given him a new start and he shows me that he is grateful. I want to keep him til he goes but that may not be feasible. :-( |
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Location: Cap'n Joan Rotgut.....alberta | i have a couple at home that are no longer sound to ride, they have earned their retirement, so they will be with me til the end, i am the only home a lot of my horses have ever know......if you cant let him live out his days in peace then have him put down....
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| Euthanize. If he is an unpredictable bucker and you take him to auction, someone could be very hurt. I ways feel bad for horses of low value with issues like that because of the 15 homes and neglect you described.
Edited to add: I don't know where you are but here in CA horses like that end up at the Mexican Rodeos to be tripped. I'd euthanize just to avoid that.
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I just read the headlines
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| Jazz's Girl - 2014-11-12 9:47 AM
I wont unload him at a sale. Several friends have already suggested it. He hasn't had a good life. I have given him a new start and he shows me that he is grateful. I want to keep him til he goes but that may not be feasible. :-(
I am sitting here with tears in my eyes. Many of us have been where you are now. It is so hard to be in that situation. All I can offer is hugs to you. |
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|  ughhh it hurts my heart. Never an easy situation. |
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 A Somebody to Everybody
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Location: Under The Big Sky Of Texas | Poor fella, I hope that you can find him a home. I have had my horses fo so long out here that they are a part of the family, but I'm one of the lucky few that I can just turn out horses in my back pasture. I have had a few horses giving to me so that could live their life out with me. |
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A Somebody to Everybody
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Location: Under The Big Sky Of Texas | Why not just give him to someone that wants a companion horse for an older horse that needs a friend. |
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Location: ND | What have you done to diagnose his problem? Any vet, chiro or massage work at this point? I can certainly understand not wanting to spend a lot of money on this horse but at the same time I couldn't send him down the road or put him down without knowing what's wrong. It could be an easy fix.....I own one that went through a few homes, I threatened him many times over with a one way trip to Mexico because of his issues & he's turned into my #1 mounted shooting horse! If he was mine, I'd find out what the underlying issue is & go from there. If he can't be helped (or helped at a reasonable cost) to where he can lead a useful life I'd put him down. |
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Location: White Mountains of AZ | Southtxponygirl - 2014-11-12 8:16 AM
Why not just give him to someone that wants a companion horse for an older horse that needs a friend.
^^^ This could be a good possibility. Yard ornament for another family. Maybe who has an older horse and is looking for a companion animal. Make sure they know he's just to be a pasture pet, no riding...I'd definitely look into this! |
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A Somebody to Everybody
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Location: Under The Big Sky Of Texas | QH<3er - 2014-11-12 10:21 AM Southtxponygirl - 2014-11-12 8:16 AM Why not just give him to someone that wants a companion horse for an older horse that needs a friend. ^^^ This could be a good possibility. Yard ornament for another family. Maybe who has an older horse and is looking for a companion animal. Make sure they know he's just to be a pasture pet, no riding...I'd definitely look into this!
I have a friend thats looking for a campanion for her older mare and she keeps them for life, she dont ride anymore but loves her animals. I was telling her to find a donkey that needed a home. My point is that there is people that are willing to take in a horse/donkey and give them a good home to be a companion. |
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Location: Northeast Nebraska | Poor guy. I think the right thing to do is euthanize him if he won't get better and you can't keep him. After his hard life, he deserves to go easy, with someone who cares about him holding the lead. |
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Location: Buffalo, Wyoming | SaraJean - 2014-11-12 9:21 AM What have you done to diagnose his problem? Any vet, chiro or massage work at this point? I can certainly understand not wanting to spend a lot of money on this horse but at the same time I couldn't send him down the road or put him down without knowing what's wrong. It could be an easy fix.....I own one that went through a few homes, I threatened him many times over with a one way trip to Mexico because of his issues & he's turned into my #1 mounted shooting horse! If he was mine, I'd find out what the underlying issue is & go from there. If he can't be helped (or helped at a reasonable cost) to where he can lead a useful life I'd put him down.
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 Don't Wanna Make This Awkward
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Location: Texas | You could try to find him a home as a companion horse |
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 Having Smokin Bandits
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Location: Woodstown, NJ | Have you had the vet look at him at all? It could be something simple. If you can't afford that and cannot find a good home where you are absolutely sure they will do right by him, I would put him to sleep. It's the decent thing to do for this poor horse. You did a lot of research. What have the old owners done? |
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 Hog Tie My Mojo
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Location: Opelousas, LA | Honestly, if he is 13 and has really not done anything other than been passed around and roughed up then it will be a long road to get him to be a solid and confident mount even if you do find what is wrong and fix it. I hate to be this way when dealing with any animal, but you have to consider what kind of return you will get on your investment of time and money spent fixing this horse if he is even fixable.
If he does have kissing spines, is he worth surgery or routine injections? Will maintaining this horse compromise the financial security of your family? What if he comes unglued again and hurts you, can you ever trust him?
It is a tough spot to be in, but there is no dishonor in euthanizing a horse like this, it may be the kindest thing anyone has ever done for him. |
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| I've had him adjusted several times. It makes a difference for a short time. I broke down and scheduled him an appointment for Saturday for xrays of his back so we can see whats going on in there. I trust my vet 100% and he will have sound advice when we see whats wrong. Ya'll pray we can get some answers. I love my big red boy but I have to do whats best for him. Maybe it will be something minor and we can get him pain free. I have a bad back so I know what it feels like to be in pain. |
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