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 Don't Wanna Make This Awkward
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Location: Texas | So my roommate has a boyfriend or atleast that's what me and the other roommates thought(there's 4 of us). The boy is over everyday and night, they spend the night together almost every night, very affectionate in front of us aswell, not like they are trying to hide anything. I went to go see if they were "facebook official" because I was curious and if they weren't I didn't want to make it awkward bu confronting them. When I looked at his facebook he is in a relationship with another girl. Everyone here goes home on the weekend and I know they never go home together. So I am assuming that's when he see's this other girl? I really have no clue but now I just feel so bad for his girlfriend since he pretty much has 2 girlfriends. He's been with the other girl almost a year and my roommate about 2 months. I just have no clue if I should even think about getting involved or if I should confront someone? And then who do I confront?? I've never even been in a slightly similar situation so I have no clue what's right or wrong. |
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Location: Kansas | what.......the.....fudge????? Is she not friends with him on facebook to see that relationship status? |
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Don't Wanna Make This Awkward
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Location: Texas | hoofs_in_motion - 2014-11-24 2:30 PM what.......the.....fudge????? Is she not friends with him on facebook to see that relationship status?
Oh she is.. She has to know he has a girlfriend. |
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| hoofs_in_motion - 2014-11-24 1:30 PM
what.......the.....fudge????? Is she not friends with him on facebook to see that relationship status?
Maybe she knows and does not care ...... |
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Location: Kentucky | I wouldn't even get involved. |
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 Guys Just Wanna Have Fun
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Location: OH | If it has no direct effect on you---I'd stay out of it. |
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 Bulls Eye
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Location: Oklahoma | take a picture of him with your room mate making out and post it to his facebook
eta.... I'm kidding... I'd stay out of it.
Edited by TwistedK 2014-11-24 2:35 PM
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 Cute Little Imp
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Location: N Texas | I would only say something to your roommate...like "hey, did you know he has a girlfriend on FB?" I wouldn't say anything to the FB girlfriend, because you really don't know what their real status is. Who knows, maybe they have an open relationship. Most likely he's a dirty cheating dog, and I wouldn't get involved in their business. You don't want to be in the middle of that drama! |
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Undercover Amish Mafia Member
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Location: Kansas | wow....stay out of it.....karma will hit them both if she does know he has a girlfriend
sorry but your roommate is a flipping homewrecker. |
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 Swiffer PIcker Upper
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Location: Four Corners Colorado | Stay out of it and the Drama! |
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 Party Girl
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Location: Buffalo, Wyoming | Is this the same girl that was bringing random men back to your trailer after a rodeo? If I am confusing you with someone else, please excuse me?
I would stay out of it. |
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Miracle in the Making
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Don't Wanna Make This Awkward
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Location: Texas | UTAHCANCHASER - 2014-11-24 2:40 PM Is this the same girl that was bringing random men back to your trailer after a rodeo? If I am confusing you with someone else, please excuse me?
I would stay out of it.
Nope same girl. She is wonderful, we just adore her
Staying out of it is the best plan I can see. If I got involved I'm stuck with this girl as my roommate until may and that much drama is not something I want to deal with. The sad part is we were good friends at first, I feel like I've been played by a friend which I never thought could happen. Oh well. |
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Location: Gainesville, TX | Murphy - 2014-11-24 2:42 PM
THIS. I love that meme. |
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 The Vaccinator
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Location: Slipping down the slope of old age. Boo hoo. | Murphy - 2014-11-24 2:42 PM
This. |
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 Mature beyond Years
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Location: North of the 49th Parallel | As someone who has been in a similar situation (knew one party was cheating).... STAY OUT OF IT. And claim ignorance that you did not know about it, if ever approached about it. That's my advice. Also, I've had roommate problems too and the best it just to stay out of all drama. |
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Location: Texas | I had a friend... I saw her boyfriend naked in his truck with another girl (also naked). I told my friend... and somehow I ended up being the bad guy. Not sure how that happened but I have learned my lesson. My friends are getting annonymous tips from now on lol.
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| Is there a chance he could have just forgot to change his relationship status on facebook? |
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| It's absolutely none of your business. Stay out of it. Especially given that they are FB friends which means she is privy to the same info that you are and by "confronting" either of them you would be meddling where you've not been asked to nor have any right to. "You were curious so you and looked at his FB....you didn't want to confront them" etc. etc. What the heck? Who are you to check up on him, her or be concerned one way or the other except for the fact that you are being nosey and putting your nose in where it doesn't belong. I appreciate the fact that you may be concerned for your friend but I also wonder if maybe you don't have enough going on in your own life which might be the true cause of you being overly concerned about someone else's??? |
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