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Location: Oregon | Do anyone have a boyfriend or husband that chews??
Thoughts?! |
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Location: Texas | My husband use to. I've dated guys who have. What do you want thoughts on? |
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Location: SE Louisiana | Do the same thing. See how he likes it.. |
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Location: FL | My husband does, as do all of our buddies. For his health, I would love for him to quit; but I knew it was part of the package when we started dating & it wasn't a dealbreaker. The only thing I ask is that he keep up with his bottles/cups! |
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Location: FL | komet. - 2014-12-20 10:58 PM
Do the same thing. See how he likes it..
Lol, I used to have that mindset. Unfortunately, quite a few men around here think it contributes to a girls "bad-assery". No thanks hoss. |
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Location: SE Louisiana | CalamityKate - 2014-12-20 11:08 PM
komet. - 2014-12-20 10:58 PM
Do the same thing. See how he likes it..
Lol, I used to have that mindset. Unfortunately, quite a few men around here think it contributes to a girls "bad-assery". No thanks hoss.
Find a flavor he hates :)
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Location: Oregon | Well I met a guy and we have been talking for couple weeks and going to meet soon. He's chewed since he was 12....
I've never dated a chewer. He also smokes on occasion but he said he stopping the smoking. I told him I won't date a smoker for sure and very hesitant about a chewer. He said I'll stop the smoking thats the easy one but chewing will be hard since he's done that for years.
Just like how gross is it and is it all over their teeth?!? I mean it's bad and not sure if it's a deal breaker but smoking I told him def is.
Edited by Luvmyebstang 2014-12-20 11:17 PM
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Location: FL | It's only all over their teeth if they're pigs. Lol. My husband usually swishes a drink around after he unpacks his lip and it's not a problem. Its A LOT better than kissing a smoker if you don't smoke.
On a serious note though, don't go into a new relationship expecting to eventually change a man's habits. It's not fair for either party. |
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Location: Eastern OH but my heart is in WV | My bother, who I love dearly, chews. I can NOT understand his logic... for YEARS my brother and I battled with my dad to stop smoking... we begged, pleaded, & his health was an ISSUE.... We lost my dad 11 years ago, mainly to MS but the smoking did not help him. And now...my brother chews. His teeth are literally rioting out of his mouth and what is left are mostly black. It is gross and sicking. Oooh...and the kicker... my brother works in the medical field.
So my thoughts... GROSS, GROSS, GROSS (there is NOTHING sexy about those spit bottles sitting around everywhere either).
It would be a deal breaker for me. |
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Location: Oregon | Yeah it's like I have no idea since I've never dated a chewer. I def WILL NOT kiss a smoker though and also cuz it bothers my asthma I can't breathe around smokers. He said he is discreet about
It but idk!! I'm not trying to change him but he knows straight up I'm not a fan and not sure if I would date him fully. He wants to pursue me cuz he's very interested but idk I guess I'll have to see once we hang a few times whether it's ok with me or not. Do any of you allow it but say only when you're not around?? |
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Location: Montana | My dad does on occasion...my mom doesn't like, it doesn't really bother me. It wouldn't be a deal breaker for me. It seems like I almost always attract guys who smoke (of course I don't find out until I know them better)...while that isn't exactly a deal breaker for me, I'd prefer they didn't as I had a grandmother die of lung cancer. But right now I'd settle for cute even if he did chew, LOL.
Edited by mtcanchazer 2014-12-21 12:14 AM
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Location: Texas | My husband started dipping snuff when he was in high school. I hated it. It is a nasty habit any way you look at it and expensive. He quit cold turkey after about 30 years and started sucking on peppermints. Almost ruined his teeth but it was better than snuff. He switched to sugerfree gum and I am much happier. A smoker would have been a deal breaker.
Edited by RocketPilot 2014-12-21 12:13 AM
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Location: Oregon | I agree! A smoker is def a deal breaker for me too!! That's why I straight up told him the smoking is a no go, but chewing idk why. I'm curios too like when you get close and intimate what that's like with the chewing haha it
Do you say not for 3 days before! Lol |
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Location: In The Snow, AZ | My hubbs chews.... So do I. My teeth are clean, white and all in tact. Never had a cavity. Never lost a tooth. Never let it sit in my teeth. But yes, I chew. Gross? Ya. Unhealthy. Yep. But you would never know I chewed. So judge me. |
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Location: In the land of peanuts and cotton | I can tolerate a chewer but defiantly not a smoker. As long as I don't see it I'm good. Spitting into a bottle is better than on the ground when your in public but spitting into a cup is even better that way I don't have to see the juices. |
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Location: North Dakota | My uncle chews, so I've been around it but never in a relationship. Being in a relationship with a chewer would bother me because the thought of them developing "hairy tongue" from it would haunt me.
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Location: southeast Texas | Some of the guys at work chew. They leave spit cups, spit bottles, spit cans. Yuck |
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Location: 100 miles from Nowhere, AR | My husband quit 2 weeks before we met. He's had an occasional lapse, but making the decision on his own to quit made it stick better, I think. Smoking would have been a deal breaker, dipping was not, although I wouldn't kiss on anyone with that crap in their mouths. Yuck. |
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Location: Florida.. | Luvmyebstang - 2014-12-21 2:27 AM I agree! A smoker is def a deal breaker for me too!! That's why I straight up told him the smoking is a no go, but chewing idk why. I'm curios too like when you get close and intimate what that's like with the chewing haha it Do you say not for 3 days before! Lol
does he brush is teeth? I think its gross to but all of my cowboy friends do it.. its in their lip .. id not date a smoker so this doesnt bother me but i would not kiss him if he hasnt cleaned his mouth out.lol.. and oh never drink from a bottle unless you know its yours and has been with you. you cant pick and choose.. if you date then its who he is..cant expect to make rules this soon |
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Location: LA Lower Alabama | I'm grossed out by spitting so the thought of bottles and cups laying around with it makes me gag. Just pick and choose when you kiss or make him go brush his teeth. I can't imagine having to stop an in the moment moment for someone to rid themselves of that mess. It's a deal breaker for me. |
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