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   Location: Texas | So i've been set on a private university for a while and it is super expensive. I qualify for a scholarship that makes it do able if I live at home. This is a nationally ranked school. I wanna say like number 85 in the nation? I've also been considering another state school recently(not nationally ranked, but not a bad school), they have a beautiful campus, it's right outside AustinTX, I found an amazing place to live, I could rush to be in a sorority there(which for some reason seems important in my head). I just feel like i'm getting a lot more out of the state school. It's a hard decision because I've been dreaming of going to this private school for 4 years now and my dads really pushing me to take that route. My heart is telling me state school and my brain is telling me private. Any help on how to decide? |
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          Location: 100 miles from Nowhere, AR | I went with what would be the cheapest and graduated with zero debt. No regrets. |
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| What do your financials looks like after school? Do you project you'll have to take out loans for one or the other? Student loans suck, and that's coming from someone who doesn't have many (and someone who hopes to pay them off in 90 days! Yee Yee!)
What is the rate of employment in the chosen field for seniors 6 months after graduation?
Consider that extra curricular activities look great on a resume as well. As someone who occasional recruits I would rather see a well rounded student with extra curricular activities out of a good school with a solid GPA vs a "prestigious" private school with minimal extra curriculars because they couldn't be afforded. I'm recruiting for a business/ag business type field though - so that could be different if you're end goal is medical school or something, I don't know. |
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   Location: Texas | Im getting my degree in Marketing and my parents will pay for my school, which i'm very thankful for!
Right now it seems like where I go to school is the only thing that even matters in my life, which i'm sure won't be a big deal 5-10 years from now. I'm not worried about not finding a job as marketing is something that everyone needs so the demand seems pretty high. I do feel I would be involved in a lot more at the state school. |
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      Location: Arizona | In general, quality is more important than experience. What end result do you expect out of college? It should be education and skills, not social. If social is most important to you, go the route that will save your parents money until you're ready to focus and be serious with their investment.Is there some added value in a marketing degree from big name private u over a local/state school? You should be able to quantify that as part of your decision, too.You can build an enjoyable experience anywhere-it is what you make it. You can't necessarily build greater quality and value than is inherently resident in the program you choose.
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   Location: WI | I think it depends on what you go to school for. Private looks better when you are planning on continuing to grad school or going into politics, I think. For marketing though, I don't think it matters as much. Who knows, maybe you'll want an MBA after?? I went for engineering and hold the same position now as some private school grads. We make the same, but he's paying a lot more in student loans than I am! Which, you said you're parents are paying for... I guess it doesn't matter then! |
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| If you have an idea of what type of marketing you may want to do, or some companies you may want to work, see if they recruit at either of the schools you are looking at. You can get a good job out of school through either one, but giving yourself the advantage of getting in front of recruiters while still in school will be a good start! |
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| If you haven't considered Tarleton State in Stephenville you should. Beautiful campus, cool small town, TONS of barrel races, an hourish from Fort Worth, 3rd cheapest State university and growing extremely quickly. HUGE sense of family here, if you're going through a door and someone is going before you they are guaranteed to hold the door open for you. Plenty of really nice sororities. I think that being where you're going to be happy is the most important thing. I know tons of people who just don't like the small town atmosphere and are miserable. A good education is important, but so is having fun and enjoying yourself. You only get to do this once. |
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   Location: Texas | RustyLove - 2015-02-09 9:08 PM If you haven't considered Tarleton State in Stephenville you should. Beautiful campus, cool small town, TONS of barrel races, an hourish from Fort Worth, 3rd cheapest State university and growing extremely quickly. HUGE sense of family here, if you're going through a door and someone is going before you they are guaranteed to hold the door open for you. Plenty of really nice sororities. I think that being where you're going to be happy is the most important thing. I know tons of people who just don't like the small town atmosphere and are miserable. A good education is important, but so is having fun and enjoying yourself. You only get to do this once.
I toured Tarleton and loved the campus, but I could never live in Stephenville... It is just not for me. The 2 schools i'm looking at are Texas State University and Southern Methodist University. Both in big cities which is what I think works best for me, I live in Weatherford currently and am really unhappy. |
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| Didn't read the whole thread, so sorry if this has been answered - but are you talking undergrad or graduate school? And if it's undergrad, do you plan on attending grad school? If you do, I don't think it matters where you do your undergrad unless you're really trying to get into a prestigious grad school. They're just generals - seriously not going to matter when it's all said and done. I was one of those people in high school that said I HAVE to go to a good school - and then I ended up at a state school an hour from me and I'm SO glad I did. Generals are generals pretty much anywhere you go and I would have hated spending $20k a semester just to go to a "good school". |
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          Location: Kentucky | I went to a private, prestigious high school and college. I'm back at the same college getting my masters. I think it definitely sets me apart from the crowd, plus a lot of folks I work with went to the same college so it's a nice way to connect. |
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| outrundaizy - 2015-02-09 11:29 PM
RustyLove - 2015-02-09 9:08 PM If you haven't considered Tarleton State in Stephenville you should. Beautiful campus, cool small town, TONS of barrel races, an hourish from Fort Worth, 3rd cheapest State university and growing extremely quickly. HUGE sense of family here, if you're going through a door and someone is going before you they are guaranteed to hold the door open for you. Plenty of really nice sororities. I think that being where you're going to be happy is the most important thing. I know tons of people who just don't like the small town atmosphere and are miserable. A good education is important, but so is having fun and enjoying yourself. You only get to do this once.
I toured Tarleton and loved the campus, but I could never live in Stephenville... It is just not for me. The 2 schools i'm looking at are Texas State University and Southern Methodist University. Both in big cities which is what I think works best for me, I live in Weatherford currently and am really unhappy.
Oh boy, you and I are so different! A big city to me is 60,000 people. Places like ft worth, Houston, Austin etc just aren't even feasible. Stephenville is like Mecca to me.
Sooo, honestly, private school for you, along with the sorority etc etc is probably going to make you happiest in the long run, along with the great place to live and city culture there. That's what gets my vote! Do what makes you happy! |
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| Three 4 Luck - 2015-02-09 6:24 PM I went with what would be the cheapest and graduated with zero debt. No regrets.
THIS ^^
Now, I realize you are not paying for your schooling - however, take it from people who did - "quality" can be found at a state school. Your education is what you make of it. Yes, a piece of paper that states you graduated from "insert big Uni. name here" will get your foot in the door but if you don't interview well, don't intereact well with others, and have a resume of jobs and work experience behind you ... well, no one wants to hire you regaurdless of the demand in that market.
SO - my 2 cents - go to the school that will offer the best opportunities for your career. Not the social aspects, but what can YOU get out of the school that will set you up for the career that will pay your bills when you graduate, allow you keep your horses, and will set you up for retirement and financial peace? Choose that schoool. |
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   Location: Nebraska | Quality hands down for me. You need to look at what each school will offer you as far as you getting where you want to be in your career. I went to both a public University and a private school. I HATED the public school. There, I was treated as a number and I truly felt that no one cared whether I excelled or not. I did have a full ride there so I got all my gen ed's done and got the heck out!
After that, I went to a private nursing school. Since I had no loans from my gen ed's, I didn't end up with much more debt than "normal" as far as student loans go. I owe about what a new car costs, which I don't think is bad at all. Anyway, the private school was much smaller and I was treated as a person. Our instructors were much more helpful because they weren't teaching lectures with 400 students. I think there were about 40 in my program. My school also was well known for having 100% board passing rate the first time and also a 96% rate for graduates having jobs within 6 months. That was important to me. I ended up graduating, passing boards the first try, and having a job within 1 month of me graduating on the floor that I wanted to be on.
It all depends on what you want to get out of college. I wanted a career. Because I got a quality education, I think I got a great experience. Although my college experience is anything but a typical one :) |
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        Location: My perfect world bubble | SMU - HANDS DOWN!!! Much better school and much better job opportunities upon graduation. I wouldn't think twice about this. Plus uptown & the SMU area is great for college kids - even if you're at home you can still be involved in the SMU community and have a great experience. |
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    Location: Deep South | Marketing is not one of those majors where attending a prestigious school is going to give you a huge advantage. (Think doctor, lawyer, etc.)
Your experience is going to give you the advantage in a field like that. Getting involved in activities/groups/etc that relate to your field.
I think state schools are better equipped to provide that experience. You don't have to devote all of your efforts to your studies. |
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| I think its more important to attend a college that is well known for what ever your are majoring in. So lets say you were wanting to major in Physics, attending MIT would probably be more important for your future. You need to be at a school that is going to give you the best experience in your field. Doesn't really matter if its private, state or otherwise. Personally, I don't find that sororities benefit your education all that much. You need to concentrate on school and studies. |
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| 4Horse - 2015-02-10 2:08 PM
I think its more important to attend a college that is well known for what ever your are majoring in. So lets say you were wanting to major in Physics, attending MIT would probably be more important for your future. You need to be at a school that is going to give you the best experience in your field. Doesn't really matter if its private, state or otherwise. Personally, I don't find that sororities benefit your education all that much. You need to concentrate on school and studies.
I wasn't part of a sorority in college, but I'm going to respectfully disagree with you in this instance. For someone going into marketing, a sorority can be a huge asset - maybe not as much during the years you are in college, but you will reap the rewards in your career. In marketing, people skills and connections with others are your two greatest assets, and a sorority is the perfect place to develop those. |
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| k.maddocks24 - 2015-02-11 9:50 AM 4Horse - 2015-02-10 2:08 PM I think its more important to attend a college that is well known for what ever your are majoring in. So lets say you were wanting to major in Physics, attending MIT would probably be more important for your future. You need to be at a school that is going to give you the best experience in your field. Doesn't really matter if its private, state or otherwise. Personally, I don't find that sororities benefit your education all that much. You need to concentrate on school and studies. I wasn't part of a sorority in college, but I'm going to respectfully disagree with you in this instance. For someone going into marketing, a sorority can be a huge asset - maybe not as much during the years you are in college, but you will reap the rewards in your career. In marketing, people skills and connections with others are your two greatest assets, and a sorority is the perfect place to develop those.
I think the important thing to remember about sororities/fraternities/extracurricular activities, is that while they are fun in college...you are making connections. Those connections could serve you very well in your career. I know that I got my first job out of college because of someone I went to school with that was a few years older than me. His referral helped me get the interview. Make your time in college count - get to know professors well (great references!), do research or special projects, and meet as many people as you can. You never know where you will end up in your career, it's nice to know people that could help you get to where you want to be. |
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         Location: North Dakota | Quality is way more important, IMO. You're going to be done with college in 4(?) years. The rest of your life is impacted by your education. How much money you make, where you work, etc, etc. Having warm fuzzies for your school and being in a sorority is only temporary then is worthless once you graduate. Also college is a rip off so if you have a scholarship then don't throw that away. Personally I HATE college and can not wait to be done. Granted I have NO idea what I want to do.
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