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My little Fred made me a better person

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LRQHS
Reg. Nov 2011
Posted 2015-04-14 4:16 PM
Subject: My little Fred made me a better person


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 I said this on Facebook a few minutes ago and it is true. My Fred taught me unconditional love, he taught me patience, kindness and emptiness. To say that I loved that little dog was an understatement. I picked him up and put him in bed 10 times a night because he pretended that he couldn't jump that high (which was not true). Bryan and I took him everywhere. We snuck him in every hotel we stayed at. Shoved him in bags. He love chicken and cracklins and to ride horses and the lawn mower. He loved going to the Dollar Store and Walmart. My heart is so empty. So, very empty.

But, Linda Glaze went to a shelter in Texas looking for a Fred today. Tia sent me a picture of a dog on the other side of Texas. Shelly found a puppy and contacted a girl for me and sent pictures. Murphy found me one in Indiana lol. Karen Campbell stepped up and said she'd go get that dog on the other side of Texas (wow). So, I called. His name is Hootie. He's had a broken leg that healed bad and a piece of his ear is missing. He's had a rough little life. They said he is loving, loves to take rides and sit in your lap. His eyes look like Fred's. So, with help, I'm going to get him.

They didn't ask, but it's a small rescue and I saw that they need supplies. Once they are full they have to stop accepting dogs until their numbers decline. In honor of Fred, I am going to send a box of the supplies they asked for: paper towels, bleach, latex gloves, laundry soap and pine sol. They will take donations too. There address is:

Critter Oasis of Monahans
3703 South Janice Street
Monahans, TX 79756

Here are some of my favorite pics of Fred and the last one is Hootie. I know that Fred would want me to take care of him :)

 



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Herbie
Reg. Oct 2003
Posted 2015-04-14 4:41 PM
Subject: RE: My little Fred made me a better person


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This post makes my heart smile, Jen, it truly does!  Our animals change us in ways that we never realize and yes, they are our children in many ways.  Fred was a part of you, and he has taken a part of you with him without a doubt.  The way I have always tried to think of this type of loss and to handle the pain that goes with it is to think that maybe it is God's way of saying that it's time to start a new chapter, a new part of life.  That is not to say that we shouldn't remember these great friends we've had and the great times we've spent with them, but rather to honor them and their lives going forward smiling at those times and laughing about the silly things they did and we did with them.  Hootie will not be a replacement, but rather and addition, a new chapter....complete with new memories, new experiences, and new laughter.   Our life will be made up of several chapters throughout the book, some end sadly and begin sadly and others go by so fast that we forget to enjoy them.  I'm happy to see that you're starting a new chapter in your book and I know that Hootie is going to be a great addition to your group.  He will not take the place of Fred, but maybe somehow, someway he can allow you to let Fred go in knowing that giving Hootie the chance to experience that same great love.  Hootie and Fred are both lucky little men to get to live with you and be loved by you, my good buddy! 

I too am going to send a box of donations to the shelter and if I can help get Hootie to you, i'd be happy to!  I love you dearly, there are so many of us that do, and whatever we need to do to get this crazy chihuahua to his new crazy owner, i'm in!!!!!  Love ya, buddy!

 
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oija
Reg. Feb 2012
Posted 2015-04-14 4:45 PM
Subject: RE: My little Fred made me a better person



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Hubby and I are working on the logistics for this weekend or next week (if we can't stop on our way through working cattle--we're moving some furniture too--he has some orders out there next week and could pick him up on a MWF depending on scheduling). We'll let you know the exact plan pretty soon. :) Excited to help you add this lovely little boy to your family.
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Katie's
Reg. Dec 2004
Posted 2015-04-14 4:47 PM
Subject: RE: My little Fred made me a better person



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Adorable. So sorry for your loss.... It's the saddest, most gut wrenching pain ever and they they leave a huge hole in our hearts.   
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LRQHS
Reg. Nov 2011
Posted 2015-04-14 4:51 PM
Subject: RE: My little Fred made me a better person


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Herbie - 2015-04-14 4:41 PM This post makes my heart smile, Jen, it truly does!  Our animals change us in ways that we never realize and yes, they are our children in many ways.  Fred was a part of you, and he has taken a part of you with him without a doubt.  The way I have always tried to think of this type of loss and to handle the pain that goes with it is to think that maybe it is God's way of saying that it's time to start a new chapter, a new part of life.  That is not to say that we shouldn't remember these great friends we've had and the great times we've spent with them, but rather to honor them and their lives going forward smiling at those times and laughing about the silly things they did and we did with them.  Hootie will not be a replacement, but rather and addition, a new chapter....complete with new memories, new experiences, and new laughter.   Our life will be made up of several chapters throughout the book, some end sadly and begin sadly and others go by so fast that we forget to enjoy them.  I'm happy to see that you're starting a new chapter in your book and I know that Hootie is going to be a great addition to your group.  He will not take the place of Fred, but maybe somehow, someway he can allow you to let Fred go in knowing that giving Hootie the chance to experience that same great love.  Hootie and Fred are both lucky little men to get to live with you and be loved by you, my good buddy! 



I too am going to send a box of donations to the shelter and if I can help get Hootie to you, i'd be happy to!  I love you dearly, there are so many of us that do, and whatever we need to do to get this crazy chihuahua to his new crazy owner, i'm in!!!!!  Love ya, buddy!


 

Thank you, buddy. You always know what to say. Karen lives in Gordonville and could maybe get him to you. I need to take my mare to Kasey's next Sunday...so maybe we could meet somewhere?? No pressure. Just anyone willing to drive a few miles would really help. I could bring live crawfish for anyone meeting me :
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LRQHS
Reg. Nov 2011
Posted 2015-04-14 4:52 PM
Subject: RE: My little Fred made me a better person


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oija - 2015-04-14 4:45 PM Hubby and I are working on the logistics for this weekend or next week (if we can't stop on our way through working cattle--we're moving some furniture too--he has some orders out there next week and could pick him up on a MWF depending on scheduling). We'll let you know the exact plan pretty soon. :) Excited to help you add this lovely little boy to your family.

Thank you. I owe you a huge debt. 
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rodeomom3
Reg. Dec 2007
Posted 2015-04-14 4:52 PM
Subject: RE: My little Fred made me a better person



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Hootie found a great home with you and yes Fred would want you to take care of him :
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oija
Reg. Feb 2012
Posted 2015-04-14 4:54 PM
Subject: RE: My little Fred made me a better person



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LRQHS - 2015-04-14 4:52 PM

oija - 2015-04-14 4:45 PM Hubby and I are working on the logistics for this weekend or next week (if we can't stop on our way through working cattle--we're moving some furniture too--he has some orders out there next week and could pick him up on a MWF depending on scheduling). We'll let you know the exact plan pretty soon. :) Excited to help you add this lovely little boy to your family.

Thank you. I owe you a huge debt. 

It's not a problem. We're through there a lot anyway and we like to help out.
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MS2011
Reg. Mar 2005
Posted 2015-04-14 4:55 PM
Subject: RE: My little Fred made me a better person



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My heart breaks for you, there's nothing like a dog to teach you about unconditional love.  Hootie won't be a replacement, but he sure looks like he could use some love. Thank you so much for stepping up and helping the little man out.    We get so attached to our dogs, it's like losing a family member.
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Longneck
Reg. Mar 2004
Posted 2015-04-14 5:01 PM
Subject: RE: My little Fred made me a better person


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 Fred will be very proud of you.  I love to see the kindness and generosity of the people on the board!  It warms my heart.  Continued prayers going out to you during this tough time.
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runningk
Reg. Jan 2005
Posted 2015-04-14 5:22 PM
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I'm so sorry about Fred.  But so happy for Hootie and you.
Hootie is so blessed.  (((hugs))) to you. 
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total performance
Reg. Nov 2007
Posted 2015-04-14 5:28 PM
Subject: RE: My little Fred made me a better person



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Herbie - 2015-04-14 4:41 PM This post makes my heart smile, Jen, it truly does!  Our animals change us in ways that we never realize and yes, they are our children in many ways.  Fred was a part of you, and he has taken a part of you with him without a doubt.  The way I have always tried to think of this type of loss and to handle the pain that goes with it is to think that maybe it is God's way of saying that it's time to start a new chapter, a new part of life.  That is not to say that we shouldn't remember these great friends we've had and the great times we've spent with them, but rather to honor them and their lives going forward smiling at those times and laughing about the silly things they did and we did with them.  Hootie will not be a replacement, but rather and addition, a new chapter....complete with new memories, new experiences, and new laughter.   Our life will be made up of several chapters throughout the book, some end sadly and begin sadly and others go by so fast that we forget to enjoy them.  I'm happy to see that you're starting a new chapter in your book and I know that Hootie is going to be a great addition to your group.  He will not take the place of Fred, but maybe somehow, someway he can allow you to let Fred go in knowing that giving Hootie the chance to experience that same great love.  Hootie and Fred are both lucky little men to get to live with you and be loved by you, my good buddy! 



I too am going to send a box of donations to the shelter and if I can help get Hootie to you, i'd be happy to!  I love you dearly, there are so many of us that do, and whatever we need to do to get this crazy chihuahua to his new crazy owner, i'm in!!!!!  Love ya, buddy!


 

^^What Herbie said!  I'm so sorry for your loss, Jen.  Fred would want you to start this new chapter with Hootie.   
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Southtxponygirl
Reg. Nov 2006
Posted 2015-04-14 6:07 PM
Subject: RE: My little Fred made me a better person



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Hootie's a lucky little man
I know that little Fred will be missed. 
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jbhoot
Reg. Jan 2010
Posted 2015-04-14 6:16 PM
Subject: RE: My little Fred made me a better person



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So sorry about Fred. But HOOTIE is a KEEPER!!!!
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MissouriJen
Reg. Dec 2011
Posted 2015-04-14 7:14 PM
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 Quit making me cry!

In all seriousness, I am so so sorry for your loss of Fred, but Hootie looks like he could really use some love and I'm so glad you are going to be giving him a home.  I'm going to put a check in the mail tomorrow in honor of Fred.
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sorrel horse ranch
Reg. Apr 2006
Posted 2015-04-14 7:24 PM
Subject: RE: My little Fred made me a better person


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I don't know where Hootie is exactly but as I told you I will certainly be happy to drive him part of all of the way to you.  One of my all time best ever horses name was Hootie....you don't hear that name much.
Please whoever is in charge of the trip let me know.  I just know that Fred would want to help this little guy.  It looks like he just needs some loving.
I couldn't wait to see pictures of Fred on Facebook.  It brought such joy to me and smile to my face.  I will miss his pictures.  I have cried a bucketful of tears along side you my friend. 
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EqualRanch
Reg. Jan 2015
Posted 2015-04-14 7:27 PM
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This made my cry. I am very sorry for your loss, Jennifer! 
Fred knew he was loved and I'm sure he thought he was part human. Losing a great dog is like losing a best friend. There isn't anything we can say to make this easier, but we are praying for you. 
Fred would want you to have Hootie and give him the same love. Share pictures when you get Hottie!
Still praying for you 

 
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kmcsunshine
Reg. May 2007
Posted 2015-04-14 7:48 PM
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Well, I never intended to start a movement...

Let me just say this.  I never liked chihuahuas, never wanted one and while I might have sympathized with Jennifer just as I would anyone who lost a pet, this little guy made me emphathize.  If you have never known one of this willful, obnoxious, sweet, loving, hardheaded (that's a not nice way of saying willful) I think you are missing out.  Ocho showed up last July.  I never planned to keep him yet he is sitting on my lap as I type this.  He can't lay on the blanket by my feet, he must have the lap.  He screamed at me the whole time I fed because he wanted out to be with me and then ran away from me when I came in the yard.  We all love our dogs.  I put a 14 year old down this year and it hurt, but she had good life.  Another younger one is having health issues and I am worried, but regardless how much their loss hurts, I cannot imagine a life without dogs and or horses.  Anyway, here is my brat.  I am 45 minutes from that shelter if I can help.

The small photo is day one, it really doesn't show how skinny he was.




 
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mreklaw
Reg. May 2008
Posted 2015-04-14 7:48 PM
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I think Fred would want him to take care of you. Goes both ways. God bless you for adopting. So sorry for your loss. Fred was a beautiful boy. You can tell he was much loved!
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Kaycee
Reg. Jun 2005
Posted 2015-04-14 8:32 PM
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Oh Jen, Fred will be soo happy if you take Little Hootie in. Like Herbie said, he is certainly not a replacement but a new chapter for you. From experience losing one and having another there to cuddle with has definitely helped my broken heart. 
I can help out any way you need me to. You know I'm not too far from Kacey. Let me know if I can help!  
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