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Location: Hill Country of TEXAS!! | Possible regret? I went dress shopping with my mom friday and saturday. I found two dresses on friday at one store that i fell in love with one looked amazing on as its fitted and mermaid type. The one that i think i made a mistake not choosing is a horse hair edge looped skirt with a high waist. its simple chiffon roughing top and big skirt. So fun and airy! BUT i decided to wait to see what i found saturday. Last store saturday i went through 6 dresses and fell in love with one that is A line ( not my go to shape) but different look than every other bridal dress. Which is what im wanting, different and ME.. my mom cried, i did not get the giddy feeling as much as the friday dresses. I think i let my moms emotions influence me but I do truely love the dress.. its very pretty but the unique dress from friday is haunting me with i made a mistake in picking the one on saturday.. Unfortunately there are no refunds, just exchanged only 3 days after purchase. Did I make the right choice or am i over thinking it wanting the perfect dress and not going to get it? Im posting here as everyone has gone through this and not sure where else to ask this type of opinion from.. Hope yall dont mind.
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Location: Under The Big Sky Of Texas | Dash4KJ - 2016-11-07 11:45 AM Possible regret? I went dress shopping with my mom friday and saturday. I found two dresses on friday at one store that i fell in love with one looked amazing on as its fitted and mermaid type. The one that i think i made a mistake not choosing is a horse hair edge looped skirt with a high waist. its simple chiffon roughing top and big skirt. So fun and airy! BUT i decided to wait to see what i found saturday. Last store saturday i went through 6 dresses and fell in love with one that is A line ( not my go to shape) but different look than every other bridal dress. Which is what im wanting, different and ME.. my mom cried, i did not get the giddy feeling as much as the friday dresses. I think i let my moms emotions influence me but I do truely love the dress.. its very pretty but the unique dress from friday is haunting me with i made a mistake in picking the one on saturday.. Unfortunately there are no refunds, just exchanged only 3 days after purchase. Did I make the right choice or am i over thinking it wanting the perfect dress and not going to get it? Im posting here as everyone has gone through this and not sure where else to ask this type of opinion from.. Hope yall dont mind.
What do i do???
Awww Krystal,,,,, I dont know what to say to you on the dress, you get what makes you Happy, can you just take the dress back and see if maybe they can order the one you love. Maybe they can order it for you.. You can ask,  |
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Location: Hill Country of TEXAS!! | Southtxponygirl - 2016-11-07 10:53 AM Dash4KJ - 2016-11-07 11:45 AM Possible regret? I went dress shopping with my mom friday and saturday. I found two dresses on friday at one store that i fell in love with one looked amazing on as its fitted and mermaid type. The one that i think i made a mistake not choosing is a horse hair edge looped skirt with a high waist. its simple chiffon roughing top and big skirt. So fun and airy! BUT i decided to wait to see what i found saturday. Last store saturday i went through 6 dresses and fell in love with one that is A line ( not my go to shape) but different look than every other bridal dress. Which is what im wanting, different and ME.. my mom cried, i did not get the giddy feeling as much as the friday dresses. I think i let my moms emotions influence me but I do truely love the dress.. its very pretty but the unique dress from friday is haunting me with i made a mistake in picking the one on saturday.. Unfortunately there are no refunds, just exchanged only 3 days after purchase. Did I make the right choice or am i over thinking it wanting the perfect dress and not going to get it? Im posting here as everyone has gone through this and not sure where else to ask this type of opinion from.. Hope yall dont mind.
What do i do??? Awww Krystal,,,,, I dont know what to say to you on the dress, you get what makes you Happy, can you just take the dress back and see if maybe they can order the one you love. Maybe they can order it for you.. You can ask,
ugh i wish. Its two different stores and all dress stores have a zero refund policy and can only exchange with in 3 days of purchase which im still in. I paid for one saturday. This store didnt have the one dress i think i should have bought :/ I love the one i bought but i got more excited about the other one |
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Location: Texas | You could go try the other one on again and see how you feel. Maybe it isn't as great as you remember, or maybe it is significantly better and would be worth trying to return or sell the other. Usually looking at something again and on a different day can put things in clearer and better perspective. Good luck!
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Location: Under The Big Sky Of Texas | Dash4KJ - 2016-11-07 11:56 AM Southtxponygirl - 2016-11-07 10:53 AM Dash4KJ - 2016-11-07 11:45 AM Possible regret? I went dress shopping with my mom friday and saturday. I found two dresses on friday at one store that i fell in love with one looked amazing on as its fitted and mermaid type. The one that i think i made a mistake not choosing is a horse hair edge looped skirt with a high waist. its simple chiffon roughing top and big skirt. So fun and airy! BUT i decided to wait to see what i found saturday. Last store saturday i went through 6 dresses and fell in love with one that is A line ( not my go to shape) but different look than every other bridal dress. Which is what im wanting, different and ME.. my mom cried, i did not get the giddy feeling as much as the friday dresses. I think i let my moms emotions influence me but I do truely love the dress.. its very pretty but the unique dress from friday is haunting me with i made a mistake in picking the one on saturday.. Unfortunately there are no refunds, just exchanged only 3 days after purchase. Did I make the right choice or am i over thinking it wanting the perfect dress and not going to get it? Im posting here as everyone has gone through this and not sure where else to ask this type of opinion from.. Hope yall dont mind.
What do i do??? Awww Krystal,,,,, I dont know what to say to you on the dress, you get what makes you Happy, can you just take the dress back and see if maybe they can order the one you love. Maybe they can order it for you.. You can ask,
Since this is a different store that has the dress you love maybe ask the store where you bought this dress from and ask them if maybe they could order the same dress for you tell them who the maker is and style and see if maybe they could get that dress. Just saying |
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Location: Hill Country of TEXAS!! | Thanks TBone, I like that idea. I think ill go try it on one more time and see how I feel.
Roxie has a great idea! I hope they will give me that info haha maybe i can find it on their site :) Thank you!
I still love the dress i purchased. I just think its something i have not been picturing in my mind as ive been planning so far and now im having a hard time changing that image in my head to the one i bought. Wedding planning is not for me lol! |
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Location: 100 miles from Nowhere, AR | I wore the dress my mom loved and don't regret it. It looked great in pictures and I knew I was beautiful wearing it. It wouldn't have been my first choice, but the wedding itself wasn't that important to me anyway and she offered to buy the dress if I got that one. |
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Location: Under The Big Sky Of Texas | Dash4KJ - 2016-11-07 1:12 PM Thanks TBone, I like that idea. I think ill go try it on one more time and see how I feel.
Roxie has a great idea! I hope they will give me that info haha maybe i can find it on their site :) Thank you!
I still love the dress i purchased. I just think its something i have not been picturing in my mind as ive been planning so far and now im having a hard time changing that image in my head to the one i bought. Wedding planning is not for me lol!
Congrats on your up coming wedding Krystal  , may your wedding be the dream you dreamed of. Tell momma to hang in there, lol..I know shes going to be crying big tears when her baby is walking down that aisle..Let us know what dress you'll be wearing on your speical day.. |
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Location: Displaced Iowegian | Southtxponygirl - 2016-11-07 1:23 PM Dash4KJ - 2016-11-07 1:12 PM Thanks TBone, I like that idea. I think ill go try it on one more time and see how I feel.
Roxie has a great idea! I hope they will give me that info haha maybe i can find it on their site :) Thank you!
I still love the dress i purchased. I just think its something i have not been picturing in my mind as ive been planning so far and now im having a hard time changing that image in my head to the one i bought. Wedding planning is not for me lol! Congrats on your up coming wedding Krystal , may your wedding be the dream you dreamed of. Tell momma to hang in there, lol..I know shes going to be crying big tears when her baby is walking down that aisle..Let us know what dress you'll be wearing on your speical day..
You can't just talk about the wedding or dresses......Pictures are REQUIRED !!!! |
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Location: Under The Big Sky Of Texas | NJJ - 2016-11-07 1:38 PM
Southtxponygirl - 2016-11-07 1:23 PM Dash4KJ - 2016-11-07 1:12 PM Thanks TBone, I like that idea. I think ill go try it on one more time and see how I feel.
Roxie has a great idea! I hope they will give me that info haha maybe i can find it on their site :) Thank you!
I still love the dress i purchased. I just think its something i have not been picturing in my mind as ive been planning so far and now im having a hard time changing that image in my head to the one i bought. Wedding planning is not for me lol! Congrats on your up coming wedding Krystal , may your wedding be the dream you dreamed of. Tell momma to hang in there, lol..I know shes going to be crying big tears when her baby is walking down that aisle..Let us know what dress you'll be wearing on your speical day..
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Location: The best kept secret in TX | Southtxponygirl - 2016-11-07 1:39 PM NJJ - 2016-11-07 1:38 PM Southtxponygirl - 2016-11-07 1:23 PM Dash4KJ - 2016-11-07 1:12 PM Thanks TBone, I like that idea. I think ill go try it on one more time and see how I feel.
Roxie has a great idea! I hope they will give me that info haha maybe i can find it on their site :) Thank you!
I still love the dress i purchased. I just think its something i have not been picturing in my mind as ive been planning so far and now im having a hard time changing that image in my head to the one i bought. Wedding planning is not for me lol! Congrats on your up coming wedding Krystal , may your wedding be the dream you dreamed of. Tell momma to hang in there, lol..I know shes going to be crying big tears when her baby is walking down that aisle..Let us know what dress you'll be wearing on your speical day.. Yep, I agree
Been lurking and I'm agreeing to the pictures!
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Location: Under The Big Sky Of Texas | IRunOnFaith - 2016-11-07 1:40 PM Southtxponygirl - 2016-11-07 1:39 PM NJJ - 2016-11-07 1:38 PM Southtxponygirl - 2016-11-07 1:23 PM Dash4KJ - 2016-11-07 1:12 PM Thanks TBone, I like that idea. I think ill go try it on one more time and see how I feel.
Roxie has a great idea! I hope they will give me that info haha maybe i can find it on their site :) Thank you!
I still love the dress i purchased. I just think its something i have not been picturing in my mind as ive been planning so far and now im having a hard time changing that image in my head to the one i bought. Wedding planning is not for me lol! Congrats on your up coming wedding Krystal , may your wedding be the dream you dreamed of. Tell momma to hang in there, lol..I know shes going to be crying big tears when her baby is walking down that aisle..Let us know what dress you'll be wearing on your speical day.. Yep, I agree 
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| I kind of feel the same way, so hang in there!
I bought a dress that I like, I like it very much. But I didn't really have the giddy butterflies tears yes to the dress you see on TV and all that jazz. For a while I doubted that I made the right choice!
But I'm not really that kind of girl for one, it's a beautiful dress, and the day is not about the dress.
Hugs and congrats!
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Location: Hill Country of TEXAS!! | Ill post both dresses so you can see what im talking about although im now ok and happy w my purchase. It is more of a bridal dress. I was just set with ideas of one kind since i started planning .
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| I'm one of those crazy brides that ended up buying two dresses. But in my defense, the first one was pretty cheap and I was able to resell it. Good luck with your decision. It sounds like you're happy with the first one now. |
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Location: Hill Country of TEXAS!! | countrygirl2006 - 2016-11-07 4:01 PM I'm one of those crazy brides that ended up buying two dresses. But in my defense, the first one was pretty cheap and I was able to resell it. Good luck with your decision. It sounds like you're happy with the first one now.
If i could afford both, id def do it! They ended up the same price.. I was happy until i see them posted and the one i picked isnt showing the detail since its resized so small to post :( the bottom one is the one i feel like i should have gone with although nobody agrees. Ill just have to suck it up and be happy with the top one haha |
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Go Get Em!
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Go Get Em!
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Location: OH. IO | I love the first one,especially the skirt part of it!!!!Im sure you will be a beautiful bride! Whens the big day? |
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