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Location: Somewhere between raising hell and Amazing Grace | Thank you. Today has been a little bit better. Hubby got to stay home and was ordered to stay home tomorrow.
We go from talking about if we even want to think about trying again to never wanting to go through this again.w e both keep telling ourselves and each other that we just need to take time. As much as I want all the answers right now I have to have faith that we will figure this out as we go |
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Location: Riding Crackhead. | missroselee - 2013-12-02 7:14 PM Thank you. Today has been a little bit better. Hubby got to stay home and was ordered to stay home tomorrow.
We go from talking about if we even want to think about trying again to never wanting to go through this again.w e both keep telling ourselves and each other that we just need to take time. As much as I want all the answers right now I have to have faith that we will figure this out as we go
And you will figure it out. Time. They say time heals all wounds. I'm not sure of that. Dulls the pain maybe but heals is another matter. Just stay away from the in-laws. You don't need their B.S. |
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Location: Somewhere between raising hell and Amazing Grace | CYA Ranch - 2013-12-02 8:19 PM missroselee - 2013-12-02 7:14 PM Thank you. Today has been a little bit better. Hubby got to stay home and was ordered to stay home tomorrow.
We go from talking about if we even want to think about trying again to never wanting to go through this again.w e both keep telling ourselves and each other that we just need to take time. As much as I want all the answers right now I have to have faith that we will figure this out as we go And you will figure it out. Time. They say time heals all wounds. I'm not sure of that. Dulls the pain maybe but heals is another matter. Just stay away from the in-laws. You don't need their B.S.
Thank you. Even hubby says he doesn't feel ready to deal with them yet. A part of me feels bad for them being the last to know but At the same time they sort of brought it on themselves. I will pray I am wrong and they will be civil and compassionate. But I don't expect them to be which is ok because I know I have the support we need |
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Location: In Ky following Barrel Races & Walker hounds. | You have been on my mind all day. Many prayers. |
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Location: Where ever there's sunshine! | I really dont know what to say. I just want to reach out and hug you...so here . Just look at it as God needed that angel... |
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Location: Somewhere between raising hell and Amazing Grace | Thank you guys again. Hubby is going to tell his parents this morning. He's already stressing about their reactions. I just want to get it over with so he can stop worrying. I do t have to deal with them, but he does since they are his parents. |
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Location: OH. IO | Thinking of you today, I see God has put you in anothers life this morning,helping another BHW member on another thread, I want to say, with your huge loss, IM PROUD OF YOU,giving advice on something that has been so painful to you recently. This is why im so PROUD TO CALL YOU FRIEND, and why JOSH IS SO LUCKY TO HAVE MARRIED YOU. Love you Tiff. |
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Location: Somewhere between raising hell and Amazing Grace | jake16 - 2013-12-03 11:16 AM Thinking of you today, I see God has put you in anothers life this morning,helping another BHW member on another thread, I want to say, with your huge loss, IM PROUD OF YOU,giving advice on something that has been so painful to you recently. This is why im so PROUD TO CALL YOU FRIEND, and why JOSH IS SO LUCKY TO HAVE MARRIED YOU. Love you Tiff.
Because if I can make a difference for anyone else, no matter how small it may be, then at least I know my life on this earth hasn't been for nothing. We were put on this earth to serve each other and help when we can, not to serve ourselves........ |
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Location: Somewhere between raising hell and Amazing Grace | He told his mom. His dad was sleeping. I chose to not be there or go inside when I went to pick him up. He said it went better then expected. Obviously she was upset. He said he made it very clear that I did not want them talking to me about it at all. I guess time will tell. I think we can start moving on now and healing now that they know and we don't feel like we are hiding from them |
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Location: On The Move | Shoot Tiff, I'm just seeing this. I am *so* very sorry!!! You guys are most definitely in my prayers. I know when the Lord allows, you will be amazing parents. Keep your chin up, and know that I'm sure thinking of you!!  |
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Location: North Dakota | There are no words that will make this better, so here's a cyber hug and prayer that you find your own way through this. This is not the end of the world, but dam sure close. :'( shedding a few tears with you.
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Location: Somewhere between raising hell and Amazing Grace | Thank you guys so much. Hubby finally told me tonight he does want to try again, I don't know if I will want to but at least I know how he feels and that lifts a heavy burden off my mind. |
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Location: Riding Crackhead. | missroselee - 2013-12-03 12:37 PM He told his mom. His dad was sleeping. I chose to not be there or go inside when I went to pick him up. He said it went better then expected. Obviously she was upset. He said he made it very clear that I did not want them talking to me about it at all. I guess time will tell. I think we can start moving on now and healing now that they know and we don't feel like we are hiding from them
I'm going to think happy thoughts. Not that it will work.....but just maybe they'll treat you with a little respect. Here's a big hug and squeeze my friend. |
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Location: Somewhere between raising hell and Amazing Grace | CYA Ranch - 2013-12-03 7:55 PM missroselee - 2013-12-03 12:37 PM He told his mom. His dad was sleeping. I chose to not be there or go inside when I went to pick him up. He said it went better then expected. Obviously she was upset. He said he made it very clear that I did not want them talking to me about it at all. I guess time will tell. I think we can start moving on now and healing now that they know and we don't feel like we are hiding from them I'm going to think happy thoughts. Not that it will work.....but just maybe they'll treat you with a little respect. Here's a big hug and squeeze my friend.
I think they will. I think they are finally realizing how close josh and I are and that they can either get on board with our relationship or move on. I'm not saying it will be a good relationship but I think it's one that can still be repaired. I will never be close to them but I do hope we can all drop our barriers and be civil and get along for the sake of being family |
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