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Location: Choctaw, OK | cheryl makofka - 2015-04-21 4:56 PM
Whiteboy - 2015-04-21 4:39 PM
 So for the last several days I have been surprised at the effort and persistance that has gone into the thread about the vet and the cat both here and on other social media outlets. One thing we all need to realize is that people come from different backgrounds. Morals are not the same across the board.  What is wrong to some is acceptable to others. Much of our personal morals are established by our surroundings, our community, faith, family, and everybody we interact with.Â
I have sat back and watched you guys hang this girl up to dry for something you have no personal knowlede of or tie to. It is all based on blogs, facebook posts and an occasional vague press release from the local sherrifs department. Not much of it can be truely verified. And yet we have people trying to create a MOB to call in and get her lisence revoked, and ruin her life.Â
I do not condone what this girl has done, I would not have done it, but I know good people that would have. But regardless she made her choice and the consequences will follow. What I want to know is why people feel it is their responsibility to sit here and regurgitate the information you have seen and heard on social media? This is nothing more than bullying. The law enforcement have been involved, that is their job and purpose. I think it is okay for us all to step back and let things fall where they may.Â
Lots of people have made bad decisions in their lives...I'm sure each of you have been there. What you probably didn't do was post it on Facebook for all to see and criticize. So why sit and throw stones and this young lady, when you yourself has probably done something equally dispicable in someone elses eyes?
The second thing I notice is the length of this thread. While on Facebook today I saw a post about a young pregnant mother that was being told she would be forced to terminate the life of her unborn child because of a test result that indicated the child might have down syndrome. She felt forced into doing this because under her Obamacare insurance any issues would not be covered. Now I don't know how much of that is fact or not but what concerns me is DOCTORS ARE RECOMENDING THAT A MOTHER KILL HER UNBORN CHILD and nobody really even blinks an eye...but someone shoots a cat...and the entire would of social media is up in arms, and we think the liberal media is bad.  Â
So are we really that detached as a nation that this cat becomes our call for action against a dumb kid and all the rest of the REAL issues that are going to destroy us as real people are just a side show for those that are interested?Â
I'm not trying to pick a fight...I just wanted to share a different perspective.Â
Why does my font keep changing?...
I doubt the doctors are recommending the girl abort, but are giving her all her choices, as should a competent doctor should.
If the health care will not cover predisposing issues on a newborn, I hope her community/state are trying to change this for all newborns.
I disagree that they don't recommend abortion. They were pressuring my husband and I to abort because a blood test showed positive for cystic fibrosis. .they were really pushing it. And it was a false positive..she's 100% healthy. This happens all the time. |
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| RidenFly - 2015-04-22 3:02 PM I thought I was the most hated person? I don't want to give up my shiny crown, I don't wanna..... **get away from me WhiteBoy. You can't have it. **
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Huh, I'm not nearly as hated as Itsme. He is the one that staked claim to that title. I want people to like me. |
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Location: Under The Big Sky Of Texas | Whiteboy - 2015-04-22 3:04 PM RidenFly - 2015-04-22 3:02 PM I thought I was the most hated person? I don't want to give up my shiny crown, I don't wanna..... **get away from me WhiteBoy. You can't have it. **
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Huh, I'm not nearly as hated as Itsme. He is the one that staked claim to that title. I want people to like me.  but Whiteboy I still like you and I bet others feel the same way 
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| Thanks Roxie. I'm still not sure how I feel about Riden including me in her "group". lol |
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Location: Under The Big Sky Of Texas | Whiteboy - 2015-04-22 3:14 PM Thanks Roxie. I'm still not sure how I feel about Riden including me in her "group". lol Believe me you ARE NOT in that group And I didnt know that we had a group that was not being liked, I thought that everybody just like each other for who they were. We all have different opinions but why not like someone for theres, we all get over 
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Location: SW MO | The decision to leave the thread up really had nothing to do with the right or wrong of the vet, but a lesson to people about what posting your whole life on FB can do. |
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Location: Oakdale, CA | I don't have time to judge other people but man there is alot of hate directed at her......
We've all made mistakes I have too many of my own to worry about other peoples.........
I do feel sorry for her though wish these haters and opinions were as fired up for voting.
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Location: Under The Big Sky Of Texas | crossspur - 2015-04-22 3:21 PM The decision to leave the thread up really had nothing to do with the right or wrong of the vet, but a lesson to people about what posting your whole life on FB can do.
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| Southtxponygirl - 2015-04-22 3:25 PM
crossspur - 2015-04-22 3:21 PM The decision to leave the thread up really had nothing to do with the right or wrong of the vet, but a lesson to people about what posting your whole life on FB can do.
And thats why I dont FB Â
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| got boost? - 2015-04-22 3:25 PM I don't have time to judge other people but man there is alot of hate directed at her......
We've all made mistakes I have too many of my own to worry about other peoples.........
I do feel sorry for her though wish these haters and opinions were as fired up for voting.
That is the point I was trying to make! Lets be constructive not destructive. |
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Location: Bastrop, Texas | got boost? - 2015-04-22 3:25 PM
I don't have time to judge other people but man there is alot of hate directed at her......Â
We've all made mistakes I have too many of my own to worry about other peoples.........
I do feel sorry for her though wish these haters and opinions were as fired up for voting.
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Are premeditated pointless, cruel, evil acts which, by your own words, you enjoy doing, "mistakes"? If A sociopath stated publicly "I love killing things" would you write it off as a mistake if he then drove an arrow into your horse's head?
Did this person ever come out with an admission of wrongdoing and admit she simply made a mistake? Serious question. |
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| Southtxponygirl - 2015-04-23 1:17 PM Whiteboy - 2015-04-22 3:14 PM Thanks Roxie. I'm still not sure how I feel about Riden including me in her "group". lol Believe me you ARE NOT in that group And I didnt know that we had a group that was not being liked, I thought that everybody just like each other for who they were. We all have different opinions but why not like someone for theres, we all get over
Everything was tongue in cheek. Who has time to really hate anyone they haven't met? Beyond that, I respect you WB for telling it how it is despite the fact you knew you'd get flack for it. |
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| RidenFly - 2015-04-22 3:44 PM Southtxponygirl - 2015-04-23 1:17 PM Whiteboy - 2015-04-22 3:14 PM Thanks Roxie. I'm still not sure how I feel about Riden including me in her "group". lol Believe me you ARE NOT in that group And I didnt know that we had a group that was not being liked, I thought that everybody just like each other for who they were. We all have different opinions but why not like someone for theres, we all get over
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| Bear - 2015-04-22 3:37 PM
got boost? - 2015-04-22 3:25 PM
I don't have time to judge other people but man there is alot of hate directed at her......Â
We've all made mistakes I have too many of my own to worry about other peoples.........
I do feel sorry for her though wish these haters and opinions were as fired up for voting.
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Are premeditated pointless, cruel, evil acts which, by your own words, you enjoy doing, "mistakes"? If A sociopath stated publicly "I love killing things" would you write it off as a mistake if he then drove an arrow into your horse's head?
Did this person ever come out with an admission of wrongdoing and admit she simply made a mistake? Serious question.
The answer to your question is unknown. All of her social media sites have gone dark. |
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Location: Texas | jbhoot - 2015-04-22 4:17 PM Bear - 2015-04-22 3:37 PM got boost? - 2015-04-22 3:25 PM I don't have time to judge other people but man there is alot of hate directed at her......
We've all made mistakes I have too many of my own to worry about other peoples.........
I do feel sorry for her though wish these haters and opinions were as fired up for voting.
Are premeditated pointless, cruel, evil acts which, by your own words, you enjoy doing, "mistakes"? If A sociopath stated publicly "I love killing things" would you write it off as a mistake if he then drove an arrow into your horse's head? Did this person ever come out with an admission of wrongdoing and admit she simply made a mistake? Serious question. The answer to your question is unknown. All of her social media sites have gone dark.
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Location: Buffalo, TX | EqualRanch - 2015-04-22 4:25 PM jbhoot - 2015-04-22 4:17 PM Bear - 2015-04-22 3:37 PM got boost? - 2015-04-22 3:25 PM I don't have time to judge other people but man there is alot of hate directed at her......
We've all made mistakes I have too many of my own to worry about other peoples.........
I do feel sorry for her though wish these haters and opinions were as fired up for voting.
Are premeditated pointless, cruel, evil acts which, by your own words, you enjoy doing, "mistakes"? If A sociopath stated publicly "I love killing things" would you write it off as a mistake if he then drove an arrow into your horse's head? Did this person ever come out with an admission of wrongdoing and admit she simply made a mistake? Serious question. The answer to your question is unknown. All of her social media sites have gone dark.
I think there's something about the actual act of holding it up and being proud of it and posting on FB that speaks volumes for how she was raised to be so insensitive, so I would guess since mom took the picture (condoning the act in itself)....that her parents contributed in a huge way to her actions and the need to show the world...either she witnessed a lot of killing of animals and became de-sensitized to it, or she really is a sociopath with tendancies to enjoy killing things that she has complete control over...a true sociopath will show no remorse after killing, so I'd like to know if she apologized to the cat owners. |
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| I didn't have time to comment this morning. How many times have we read on here about stray dogs coming one one's property and the three S's are thrown out? Is this THAT much different? The girl is an idiot no doubt, but I will not call her evil, just stupid.
As to the FB post about the child, I read it over there. IF this person really wants to do the right thing and have the child, they will not let Obamacare stop them. After my mare lost her foal last year, I determined I would pull out all the stops, flush her, breed her back and then breed a back up mare. I will be making huge cutbacks everywhere else to find this. If I can manage that, I think ways could be found to have this child. Perhaps they are unsure if they can handle the other issues that come along in this situation.
Bottom line, we are all flawed, we all do bad things and some are stupid enough to post it on FB.
I don't think we have ever been friends, but I'll not let this cause you to be an enemy.
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Location: Bastrop, Texas | kmcsunshine - 2015-04-22 5:28 PM
I didn't have time to comment this morning. How many times have we read on here about stray dogs coming one one's property and the three S's are thrown out? Is this THAT much different? The girl is an idiot no doubt, but I will not call her evil, just stupid.Â
As to the FB post about the child, I read it over there. IF this person really wants to do the right thing and have the child, they will not let Obamacare stop them. After my mare lost her foal last year, I determined I would pull out all the stops, flush her, breed her back and then breed a back up mare. I will be making huge cutbacks everywhere else to find this. If I can manage that, I think ways could be found to have this child. Perhaps they are unsure if they can handle the other issues that come along in this situation.Â
Bottom line, we are all flawed, we all do bad things and some are stupid enough to post it on FB.Â
I don't think we have ever been friends, but I'll not let this cause you to be an enemy.
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There's a huge difference, Tia, and you know it....HUGE. You are omitting some very important differences. |
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| Cindy Hamilton - 2015-04-22 5:03 PM
EqualRanch - 2015-04-22 4:25 PM jbhoot - 2015-04-22 4:17 PM Bear - 2015-04-22 3:37 PM got boost? - 2015-04-22 3:25 PM I don't have time to judge other people but man there is alot of hate directed at her......Â
We've all made mistakes I have too many of my own to worry about other peoples.........
I do feel sorry for her though wish these haters and opinions were as fired up for voting.
 Are premeditated pointless, cruel, evil acts which, by your own words, you enjoy doing, "mistakes"? If A sociopath stated publicly "I love killing things" would you write it off as a mistake if he then drove an arrow into your horse's head? Did this person ever come out with an admission of wrongdoing and admit she simply made a mistake? Serious question. The answer to your question is unknown. All of her social media sites have gone dark. Â
Have owners of the cat ever come forward? There have been several who claim it matched a lost cat but none claimed to the owner.
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