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Location: Displaced Iowegian | Bear - 2018-12-04 3:13 PM NJJ - 2018-12-04 8:46 AM I post this every year or two ..... LOL 
1. This is a PUBLIC board – it is hard (next to impossible) to control someone else’s thought and opinions.
2. If you (“general” plural use of the word ”you”) post a question, opinion, or controversial statement, perhaps, you should not be surprised if it does illicit comments that fall into the Good, Bad, or Ugly category. (Refer to #1)
3. If you feel that you are not able to process or ignore the “Bad or Ugly” comments, perhaps you should refrain from commenting until you feel more confident.
4. If, at any given time, you do feel the “need” to resort to personal attacks or name calling, perhaps, you should look in the mirror to ensure that you have NEVER been guilty of the same sin (i.e. Those who live in glass houses, should not throw stones OR Judge not lest YOU be judged).
5. If, at any given time, you STILL feel the “need” to attack or call names, perhaps, you should not be surprised if the person you attack jumps in your “Rose Garden” and stomps all over your pretty flowers!
6. If, at any given time, you DO feel your “panties (shorts or whitey-tightys) in a wad”, perhaps you should step away from the computer and change your underwear.
7. If, at any given time, you feel the “need” to tell someone what they should or should not, what they can or can not post, or where they should “go”, perhaps, you need to check your name tag to see if it reads “owner” or “mod” of BHW.
8. If, at any given time, you feel the “need” to “fabricate” a story or your life history, please be assured that there are many sleuths and detectives on BHW who will “ferret out” the TRUTH. So try not to be “offended”.
9. If you are a "right fighter" (one who will fight to the death to prove you, and you alone, are RIGHT), perhaps, you may want to schedule your appointment with Dr. Phil soon!
PS..............my appointment is Friday at 4 PM........
10. If your thread goes “south”, don’t whine and cry to the “mods”. Walk away, with dignity, with lesson learned….Refer to Rule # 1
11. When all else fails………………ALWAYS Refer to Rule #1
I type this all in “tongue in cheek” BUT if it offends you, you are probably guilty of one or more of the above……… Norma, you’re kidding, right? You actually write things like this and save them for future use? So do you have a collection of things like this you pull out from time to time? We need to talk.
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Location: Kansas | Bear - 2018-12-04 3:13 PM
NJJ - 2018-12-04 8:46 AM
I post this every year or two ..... LOL 1. This is a PUBLIC board – it is hard (next to impossible) to control someone else’s thought and opinions.Â
2. If you (“general” plural use of the word ”you”) post a question, opinion, or controversial statement, perhaps, you should not be surprised if it does illicit comments that fall into the Good, Bad, or Ugly category. (Refer to #1)Â
3. If you feel that you are not able to process or ignore the “Bad or Ugly” comments, perhaps you should refrain from commenting until you feel more confident.Â
4. If, at any given time, you do feel the “need” to resort to personal attacks or name calling, perhaps, you should look in the mirror to ensure that you have NEVER been guilty of the same sin (i.e. Those who live in glass houses, should not throw stones OR Judge not lest YOU be judged).Â
5. If, at any given time, you STILL feel the “need” to attack or call names, perhaps, you should not be surprised if the person you attack jumps in your “Rose Garden” and stomps all over your pretty flowers!Â
6. If, at any given time, you DO feel your “panties (shorts or whitey-tightys) in a wad”, perhaps you should step away from the computer and change your underwear.Â
7. If, at any given time, you feel the “need” to tell someone what they should or should not, what they can or can not post, or where they should “go”, perhaps, you need to check your name tag to see if it reads “owner” or “mod” of BHW.   8. If, at any given time, you feel the “need” to “fabricate” a story or your life history, please be assured that there are many sleuths and detectives on BHW who will “ferret out” the TRUTH. So try not to be “offended”.
9. If you are a "right fighter" (one who will fight to the death to prove you, and you alone, are RIGHT), perhaps, you may want to schedule your appointment with Dr. Phil soon!
PS..............my appointment is Friday at 4 PM........ 10. If your thread goes “south”, don’t whine and cry to the “mods”. Walk away, with dignity, with lesson learned….Refer to Rule # 1  11. When all else fails………………ALWAYS Refer to Rule #1Â
I type this all in “tongue in cheek” BUT if it offends you, you are probably guilty of one or more of the above………Â
Norma, you’re kidding, right?
You actually write things like this and save them for future use?
So do you have a collection of things like this you pull out from time to time?
We need to talk.
Bear, I was looking to see which one of those commandments you may have violated up there with this comment. I think maybe all of them. Dang !!!
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Location: Under The Big Sky Of Texas | Douglas J Gordon - 2018-12-04 12:24 PM I think that the discussions should be open but people use common sense and if they can't then the Mods step in.
No Lords name in Vain.
No Swearing.
Don't attack people personally.
I liked the idea of a persons real name being added to the (Chat name). People won't be so brazen if it were.
People can dicuss stuff, agree or disagree but be kind to one another!!
I vote on having OUR real names under our board names...
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Location: Somewhere between S@%&# stirrer and Saint | Southtxponygirl - 2018-12-05 9:31 AM Douglas J Gordon - 2018-12-04 12:24 PM I think that the discussions should be open but people use common sense and if they can't then the Mods step in.
No Lords name in Vain.
No Swearing.
Don't attack people personally.
I liked the idea of a persons real name being added to the (Chat name). People won't be so brazen if it were.
People can dicuss stuff, agree or disagree but be kind to one another!!
I vote on having OUR real names under our board names...
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Location: Displaced Iowegian | Douglas J Gordon - 2018-12-05 10:54 AM Southtxponygirl - 2018-12-05 9:31 AM Douglas J Gordon - 2018-12-04 12:24 PM I think that the discussions should be open but people use common sense and if they can't then the Mods step in.
No Lords name in Vain.
No Swearing.
Don't attack people personally.
I liked the idea of a persons real name being added to the (Chat name). People won't be so brazen if it were.
People can dicuss stuff, agree or disagree but be kind to one another!!
I vote on having OUR real names under our board names...
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LOL .....Roxie....do you hear the crickets??? I would venture to say that most won't want to put their name to their posts .....That is what I like about FaceBook .... you have to "own" what you post!
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Location: Under The Big Sky Of Texas | LOL, Its getting a little loud now, not as quite as I thought it would be, how awesome is that there is alot more then I thought of us that are proud of who we are, I know that alot do have their name in their profile's but seeing it in a post is pretty cool, I like what NJJ posted {you have to own what you post}
Edit because I liked what NJJ said and I meant to be quoting her on her post 
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| jbhoot - 2018-12-05 5:02 PM jbhoot Jack Hootman it is on my profile.
got to ask do you look like ur picture?
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Location: Under The Big Sky Of Texas | vjls - 2018-12-05 7:24 PM jbhoot - 2018-12-05 5:02 PM jbhoot Jack Hootman it is on my profile. got to ask do you look like ur picture?
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jbhoot - 2018-12-05 5:02 PM jbhoot Jack Hootman it is on my profile.
got to ask do you look like ur picture?
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Location: Kansas | I've been on this forum since 2004 and not one single solitary time can I ever remember anyone giving a hoot what anyone's real name was. I do remember tons of wonderful folks and fun contributors leaving because of harassment from new members, cranky old members, and because people like Mecom destroyed a worthy topic which I believe was the goal. Back then only the offending post was deleted, not the whole thread.
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Location: Under The Big Sky Of Texas | Thats ok I just thought it would be fun and a good ideal about real names with board names so maybe it would cut out the naughty ones that like to start pot stiring and trolling on here, some of us do have a bond with a few different members on here so we all know who we are and I know these ladys and men are as honest as the day is long..And if you dont want your real name on here thats ok, your secert identily is safe, lol.. Sometimes I wonder who is male and who is female thou.. |
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Location: LuluLand~along I64 Indiana | jbhoot - 2018-12-06 3:37 AM vjls - 2018-12-05 7:24 PM jbhoot - 2018-12-05 5:02 PM jbhoot Jack Hootman it is on my profile. got to ask do you look like ur picture?
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The only thing that would have made this question better is if Vicky had started it with..."jb... i mous-stach you a question"
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Location: Under The Big Sky Of Texas | luluwhit - 2018-12-06 10:01 AM jbhoot - 2018-12-06 3:37 AM vjls - 2018-12-05 7:24 PM jbhoot - 2018-12-05 5:02 PM jbhoot Jack Hootman it is on my profile. got to ask do you look like ur picture?
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Location: Kansas | fulltiltfilly - 2018-12-06 1:55 PM I'll play too.
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