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Location: Louisville, KY | CYA Ranch - 2014-04-16 9:01 AM I find it absolutely unreal how a beautiful young woman losing her life to a horrible disease is still having to live a drama filled life....even in death. 
Obviously, you believe that if family members do not want to make a scene about all this.. that, that would be drama.. well in that case, perhaps you should take a closer look..
Either you don't have family and know that death is a personal thing to family members, or you are just straight up daft!!!
Randy !
Ps. Your attitude is exactly the attitude the family don't need... because the only drama is those that talk without knowledge, those that ask a family of the suffering to render information as if it was a new cast you were talking about. Learn to be respectful and don't cover up your disrespect by calling it drama.. Again, death is a private matter and her family wants to keep it that way. You should have the decency of respecting that fact!!!
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Location: So. Cali. | rjockey57 - 2014-04-16 6:35 AM CYA Ranch - 2014-04-16 9:01 AM I find it absolutely unreal how a beautiful young woman losing her life to a horrible disease is still having to live a drama filled life....even in death.
Obviously, you believe that if family members do not want to make a scene about all this.. that, that would be drama.. well in that case, perhaps you should take a closer look..
Either you don't have family and know that death is a personal thing to family members, or you are just straight up daft!!!
Randy !
Ps. Your attitude is exactly the attitude the family don't need... because the only drama is those that talk without knowledge, those that ask a family of the suffering to render information as if it was a new cast you were talking about. Learn to be respectful and don't cover up your disrespect by calling it drama.. Again, death is a private matter and her family wants to keep it that way. You should have the decency of respecting that fact!!!
Randy,
The only person causing a stir here is you. People are interested in knowing about the service to send donations, flowers, etc. Not to show up and cause 'drama'? Her FB has been removed, the FB Support group has been removed. There is no evidence in obituaries of her passing. Not sure why this is so 'hush hush'....It seems any drama caused by herself or others in the passed has been forgiven, so why are you causing more now?
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Location: Riding Crackhead. | Three*C*Champs - 2014-04-16 10:23 AM rjockey57 - 2014-04-16 6:35 AM CYA Ranch - 2014-04-16 9:01 AM I find it absolutely unreal how a beautiful young woman losing her life to a horrible disease is still having to live a drama filled life....even in death.
Obviously, you believe that if family members do not want to make a scene about all this.. that, that would be drama.. well in that case, perhaps you should take a closer look..
Either you don't have family and know that death is a personal thing to family members, or you are just straight up daft!!!
Randy !
Ps. Your attitude is exactly the attitude the family don't need... because the only drama is those that talk without knowledge, those that ask a family of the suffering to render information as if it was a new cast you were talking about. Learn to be respectful and don't cover up your disrespect by calling it drama.. Again, death is a private matter and her family wants to keep it that way. You should have the decency of respecting that fact!!!
The only person causing a stir here is you. People are interested in knowing about the service to send donations, flowers, etc. Not to show up and cause 'drama'? Her FB has been removed, the FB Support group has been removed. There is no evidence in obituaries of her passing. Not sure why this is so 'hush hush'....It seems any drama caused by herself or others in the passed has been forgiven, so why are you causing more now?
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Location: Cap'n Helga Deadbones | I do not know why death is so private. Illness was very public when donations were being solicited. |
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Location: SW MO | OK this thread is for Ashley it is not for people to debate, argue, or post conflicts. If you want to do any of that take it to PM's and be respectful to Ashley here.
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Location: NE Texas | emmylou - 2014-04-16 10:40 AM I do not know why death is so private. Illness was very public when donations were being solicited.
This ^^^^^^ |
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Location: Somewhere between S@%&# stirrer and Saint | I text Laramie's/Ashleys phone number thinking that someone may have it asking about a funeral date and where. |
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Location: Great NW | This whole thing has been so sad. Prayers for Family left behind may they find Peace. |
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Location: Louisville, KY | Three*C*Champs - 2014-04-16 11:23 AM rjockey57 - 2014-04-16 6:35 AM CYA Ranch - 2014-04-16 9:01 AM I find it absolutely unreal how a beautiful young woman losing her life to a horrible disease is still having to live a drama filled life....even in death.
Obviously, you believe that if family members do not want to make a scene about all this.. that, that would be drama.. well in that case, perhaps you should take a closer look..
Either you don't have family and know that death is a personal thing to family members, or you are just straight up daft!!!
Randy !
Ps. Your attitude is exactly the attitude the family don't need... because the only drama is those that talk without knowledge, those that ask a family of the suffering to render information as if it was a new cast you were talking about. Learn to be respectful and don't cover up your disrespect by calling it drama.. Again, death is a private matter and her family wants to keep it that way. You should have the decency of respecting that fact!!!
The only person causing a stir here is you. People are interested in knowing about the service to send donations, flowers, etc. Not to show up and cause 'drama'? Her FB has been removed, the FB Support group has been removed. There is no evidence in obituaries of her passing. Not sure why this is so 'hush hush'....It seems any drama caused by herself or others in the passed has been forgiven, so why are you causing more now?
I will say this in the kindest way.... I posted the original post you saw this morning. NO DRAMA, NO BULL CACA...
If you don't get it, I am sorry for you. You don't hear nothing nor what you hear is truth, because you obviously did not know her well enough to communicate with her family...PERIOD!!!
Probably by the time anyone hears of service the real service would have passed you buy already...
So for you PAPARRAZIs OUT THERE...PUT AWAY YOUR CAMERAS AND RECORDERS..... THE QUEEN CAN NOT BE SEEN...
Randy ! |
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| Ashley was a very good friend of mine even though we lived far away from each other. You could not have known any better of a person or anyone with a bigger heart!! I met her on when back when I was ashleymac_07 in 2005 maybe and we have been friends ever since. We texted each other often and spoke on facebook almost daily! Roper was almost the same age as my daughter Langston who passed away and Baylor was a little younger than my daughter Harley. We shared horse stories, pregnancy, kids, and everything else imagiable. She confided in me many times for things I have never spoke of to a soul and vice versa! I always thought very highly of Ashley and all of her children. I loved the fact you never had to question what was on her mind and she wore her heart on her sleeve. I am saddened that I was never able to meet her here on this earth, but I do not doubt for one second that I will meet her when my day and time comes and I dont doubt one bit that she is with my Langston!! Ashley you will live on in the hearts of many and fly high until we meet again sweet girl!! I love you and thank you for always being a true friend to me!!!
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Location: Louisville, KY | Although I confirmed with her family that they don't know you. Her family asked me to post to you. They were extremely touched by your words and send you their blessings and thank you for your honesty and sharing of what their daughter has meant to you.
Randy !!! |
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Location: Midwest | rjockey57 - 2014-04-16 1:16 PM Three*C*Champs - 2014-04-16 11:23 AM rjockey57 - 2014-04-16 6:35 AM CYA Ranch - 2014-04-16 9:01 AM I find it absolutely unreal how a beautiful young woman losing her life to a horrible disease is still having to live a drama filled life....even in death.
Obviously, you believe that if family members do not want to make a scene about all this.. that, that would be drama.. well in that case, perhaps you should take a closer look..
Either you don't have family and know that death is a personal thing to family members, or you are just straight up daft!!!
Randy !
Ps. Your attitude is exactly the attitude the family don't need... because the only drama is those that talk without knowledge, those that ask a family of the suffering to render information as if it was a new cast you were talking about. Learn to be respectful and don't cover up your disrespect by calling it drama.. Again, death is a private matter and her family wants to keep it that way. You should have the decency of respecting that fact!!!
The only person causing a stir here is you. People are interested in knowing about the service to send donations, flowers, etc. Not to show up and cause 'drama'? Her FB has been removed, the FB Support group has been removed. There is no evidence in obituaries of her passing. Not sure why this is so 'hush hush'....It seems any drama caused by herself or others in the passed has been forgiven, so why are you causing more now?
If you don't get it, I am sorry for you. You don't hear nothing nor what you hear is truth, because you obviously did not know her well enough to communicate with her family...PERIOD!!!
Probably by the time anyone hears of service the real service would have passed you buy already...
So for you PAPARRAZIs OUT THERE...PUT AWAY YOUR CAMERAS AND RECORDERS..... THE QUEEN CAN NOT BE SEEN...
Randy !
I think a lot of us are confused as to what you are trying to accomplish here, Randy.
I think most people here asking for information would like to send something, such as flowers, to be present at her memorial service as we are mostly nowhere near her location. Perhaps some want to send something to her children. The questions come from a place of love- NOT a place of spite.
I was not close to her, but I know several here were in terms of exchanging online communications, or in some cases, meeting up in person. The forum is a bit like a bar or social club for many of us. We all hang out together, and we mourn together when we lose one of our own.
RIP Ashley. You have left this world much too young. You will be missed by many. |
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Location: Louisville, KY | barrelracr131 - 2014-04-16 2:32 PM rjockey57 - 2014-04-16 1:16 PM Three*C*Champs - 2014-04-16 11:23 AM rjockey57 - 2014-04-16 6:35 AM CYA Ranch - 2014-04-16 9:01 AM I find it absolutely unreal how a beautiful young woman losing her life to a horrible disease is still having to live a drama filled life....even in death.
Obviously, you believe that if family members do not want to make a scene about all this.. that, that would be drama.. well in that case, perhaps you should take a closer look..
Either you don't have family and know that death is a personal thing to family members, or you are just straight up daft!!!
Randy !
Ps. Your attitude is exactly the attitude the family don't need... because the only drama is those that talk without knowledge, those that ask a family of the suffering to render information as if it was a new cast you were talking about. Learn to be respectful and don't cover up your disrespect by calling it drama.. Again, death is a private matter and her family wants to keep it that way. You should have the decency of respecting that fact!!!
The only person causing a stir here is you. People are interested in knowing about the service to send donations, flowers, etc. Not to show up and cause 'drama'? Her FB has been removed, the FB Support group has been removed. There is no evidence in obituaries of her passing. Not sure why this is so 'hush hush'....It seems any drama caused by herself or others in the passed has been forgiven, so why are you causing more now?
If you don't get it, I am sorry for you. You don't hear nothing nor what you hear is truth, because you obviously did not know her well enough to communicate with her family...PERIOD!!!
Probably by the time anyone hears of service the real service would have passed you buy already...
So for you PAPARRAZIs OUT THERE...PUT AWAY YOUR CAMERAS AND RECORDERS..... THE QUEEN CAN NOT BE SEEN...
Randy !
I think most people here asking for information would like to send something, such as flowers, to be present at her memorial service as we are mostly nowhere near her location. Perhaps some want to send something to her children. The questions come from a place of love- NOT a place of spite.
I was not close to her, but I know several here were in terms of exchanging online communications, or in some cases, meeting up in person. The forum is a bit like a bar or social club for many of us. We all hang out together, and we mourn together when we lose one of our own.
RIP Ashley. You have left this world much too young. You will be missed by many.
I posted nothing such that indicate spite...
Please read from the thread I first posted.... it says, IF YOU GET AN INVITATION THEN HURRAY.. YOU GOT ONE.. BUT IF YOU DO NOT.. THEN SORRY.. YOU WON'T !!!
They do thank everyone who cared for Ashely, but since only four or five actually relayed that to her family, then this is the measure they are taking...
You can PM me any time.. after all, they talk to me often... I was able to see what they were going through for a short time, because I have to work, but I always talk with them...
Sorry if any of this makes you sad, because you might be confused or miss-lead...
Randy !!! |
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Location: Midwest | Sad? no
Confused? greatly lol
I would have no way of talking to her family. Like many others, I simply miss her posts here, and I feel for her children who will grow up without their mom. I did not know her well- just from her forum postings. |
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Location: Displaced Iowegian | crossspur - 2014-04-16 11:04 AM OK this thread is for Ashley it is not for people to debate, argue, or post conflicts. If you want to do any of that take it to PM's and be respectful to Ashley here.
Do not turn a prayer/ memorial thread into stirring pot
Then YOU should remove Randy's posts....he seems to be the only one on this thread who brought the drama.......... |
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Location: Wonderful Wyoming | rjockey57 - 2014-04-16 12:30 PM Although I confirmed with her family that they don't know you. Her family asked me to post to you. They were extremely touched by your words and send you their blessings and thank you for your honesty and sharing of what their daughter has meant to you.
Randy !!!
I'm glad you all liked her words, but why on earth would you have to "check if her family knew her" I'm sure Ashley touched a lot of people that her family never met. I talked to her several times on the phone, go ask her family, sure they don't know me as well. |
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Location: In The Land of Cotton | wyoming barrel racer - 2014-04-16 3:56 PM rjockey57 - 2014-04-16 12:30 PM Although I confirmed with her family that they don't know you. Her family asked me to post to you. They were extremely touched by your words and send you their blessings and thank you for your honesty and sharing of what their daughter has meant to you.
Randy !!! I'm glad you all liked her words, but why on earth would you have to "check if her family knew her" I'm sure Ashley touched a lot of people that her family never met. I talked to her several times on the phone, go ask her family, sure they don't know me as well.
I will also say the same. I liked Ashley and she and I had a lot of conversations about vaccines, tattoes and kids. I am sure she never mentioned me either to her parents/family. We all have watched her kids be born and grow. She had a gift, was delightful, aggrevating and loving all at the same time. We all miss her, whether we knew her family or not. |
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| wyoming barrel racer - 2014-04-16 2:56 PM rjockey57 - 2014-04-16 12:30 PM Although I confirmed with her family that they don't know you. Her family asked me to post to you. They were extremely touched by your words and send you their blessings and thank you for your honesty and sharing of what their daughter has meant to you.
Randy !!! I'm glad you all liked her words, but why on earth would you have to "check if her family knew her" I'm sure Ashley touched a lot of people that her family never met. I talked to her several times on the phone, go ask her family, sure they don't know me as well.
Me too. I had business dealings with Ashley and doubt her family knows who I am either. |
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Location: WYOMING | Dang that girl could always cause a rukus! Bet she is just giggling away right now. RIP Ash. You will be missed. |
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