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 Location: Texarkana | Red Raider - 2015-01-06 6:55 PM
notwhouthink - 2015-01-06 5:15 PM wish I could have been born a red head.. then I could use that excuse too
Meh, I wouldn't worry too much. You'll get more mileage out of blaming your horoscope sign for craziness, moodiness or whatever than your hair color.
True true. I wonder how that goes in court? Can I get off since I'm a red head? You know, since I don't think I should be held accountable for my actions. I'm not stalking the young whipper snapper. I want my 20 bucks back that I spent getting our invitations sent out. Isn't there a male on here that has had stalker issues? I wonder what color his hair is.
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      Location: Oregon | You're an idiot ^ lol
Since when is one phone call a stalker lol
Get over it hunny! |
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 Location: Texarkana | You really show signs of maturity by your postings. Im proud of you! Keeping it classy  |
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 Location: Texarkana | Luvmyebstang - 2015-01-05 6:57 PM I have moved on! I have learned from him. Don't pay for a date if a dumbass can't lol. He's an idiot ass. On a another side not....what do you all think about a guy a few years younger interested in you?? Anyone have a bf or husband few years younger? I've always gone older because of maturity and time in life we are at in 20's. Last a hole was 22 and I tried younger and that went bad...
older ones see you as eye candy maybe? And the younger ones see you as someone who will pay so they dont have to..
Serioulsy, look at it from an outsiders prospective. Go back and read your posts as if you are reading what someone else wrote. You will see what we are saying, and how you are portraying yourself as clingy and very insecure. No matter what you say you are or are not, we can only go by what we see you saying on here. You are giving off the signal that you are all of what I mentioned above.
I understand the want and desire to find a partner, however, from things you are posting on here, if the guys you are chasing are seeing even a hint of emotional insecurities, and obsessivness, they will run the other way quick. Lighten up and dont be looking so hard. It will come. Just enjoy your youth without worrying about guys. Eventually the right one will come along, and it will just click and work... |
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    Location: Southeast Louisiana | Maybe the $20 thing was him testing you? The only thing that would bother me is that he said he was going to do something (give you the twenty bucks back) and then didn't follow through. But, he may have been looking for you to tell him not to worry about it. I know guys who think some girls are users when they just want a guy to spend money on them all of the time (not saying that's the case with you, just what I've heard guys say). Either way, just forget the twenty bucks and move on.
I don't like chewing or smoking, but I agree that one bad habit is not a reason for me to dislike someone. |
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       Location: Displaced Iowegian | Luvmyebstang - 2015-01-06 10:25 PM You're an idiot ^ lol Since when is one phone call a stalker lol Get over it hunny!
I just hate it when people can't keep their stories straight...... texts DO count as "calls"........As in your words....Get over it hunny! YOUR words.......... Well I met a guy and we have been talking for couple weeks and going to meet soon |
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| Threads like this are why I like to come on BHW...Entertainment!!! They make my day go by faster..  |
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       Location: In The Snow, AZ | TNcowgirl88 - 2015-01-07 7:43 AM Threads like this are why I like to come on BHW...Entertainment!!! They make my day go by faster.. 
It is cause you have a crappy life too?
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          Location: DUMPING CATS AND PIGS IN TEXAS :) | ~BINGO~ - 2015-01-07 9:45 AM TNcowgirl88 - 2015-01-07 7:43 AM Threads like this are why I like to come on BHW...Entertainment!!! They make my day go by faster..  It is cause you have a crappy life too?
You have a crappy life and come here for rude beat downs just like the rest of us. Admit it. |
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| LRQHS - 2015-01-07 9:48 AM
~BINGO~ - 2015-01-07 9:45 AM TNcowgirl88 - 2015-01-07 7:43 AM Threads like this are why I like to come on BHW...Entertainment!!! They make my day go by faster..  It is cause you have a crappy life too?
You have a crappy life and come here for rude beat downs just like the rest of us. Admit it.
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| Man, everything you say can and will be held against you in the court of BHW. I'm sorry OP, you kind of asked for it, but I bet you didn't expect AAALLL THISSS....LOL
Can we get back to the man chewing issue? Did you all get my Barbie Kotex joke? I must be losing my touch.
And...I'm liking this post so I can walk away with some pride. |
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     Location: NM...the Land of Manana | RidenFly - 2015-01-07 8:52 AM Man, everything you say can and will be held against you in the court of BHW. I'm sorry OP, you kind of asked for it, but I bet you didn't expect AAALLL THISSS....LOL
Can we get back to the man chewing issue? Did you all get my Barbie Kotex joke? I must be losing my touch.
And...I'm liking this post so I can walk away with some pride.
I just now slogged through this thread and I totally get the joke. My dad chewed those when he quit smoking. At least with those it doesn't get all stuck between their teeth and such, eww! |
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     Location: Do I hear Banjos? | Ok...I''l admit to not getting the Barbie Kotex thing at all....maybe I'm sloooow? It could be the auburn hair....it has blond streaks (natural ones)
And I'm a natural Auburn...the miss clairol was a joke for the OP...I'm too cheap/lazy to color my hair until I go gray.  |
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| Lightfoot - 2015-01-08 7:55 AM RidenFly - 2015-01-07 8:52 AM Man, everything you say can and will be held against you in the court of BHW. I'm sorry OP, you kind of asked for it, but I bet you didn't expect AAALLL THISSS....LOL
Can we get back to the man chewing issue? Did you all get my Barbie Kotex joke? I must be losing my touch.
And...I'm liking this post so I can walk away with some pride. I just now slogged through this thread and I totally get the joke. My dad chewed those when he quit smoking. At least with those it doesn't get all stuck between their teeth and such, eww!
My husband chews those. When I told him what it reminded me of, he shot me the dirtiest look you can imagine. "Going into the store for your can of kotex, honey?" |
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| TrailGirl - 2015-01-08 7:56 AM Ok...I''l admit to not getting the Barbie Kotex thing at all....maybe I'm sloooow? It could be the auburn hair....it has blond streaks (natural ones)
And I'm a natural Auburn...the miss clairol was a joke for the OP...I'm too cheap/lazy to color my hair until I go gray. 
Yeah, we all knew you're kinda special. It's the tobacco in the little white square pouches. |
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    Location: Texas | TrailGirl - 2015-01-07 9:56 AM Ok...I''l admit to not getting the Barbie Kotex thing at all....maybe I'm sloooow? It could be the auburn hair....it has blond streaks (natural ones)
And I'm a natural Auburn...the miss clairol was a joke for the OP...I'm too cheap/lazy to color my hair until I go gray. 
I didn't get it either. Of course, I am a brunette but come from a VERY long line of blondes. I'm also boring that way I guess since my hair is brown. I do have a blonde spot from birth. Unfortunately, I cover it and my few gray hairs every six weeks. On the bright side, my color is not Clairol and I do go to a salon.
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     Location: Do I hear Banjos? | RidenFly - 2015-01-07 9:58 AM TrailGirl - 2015-01-08 7:56 AM Ok...I''l admit to not getting the Barbie Kotex thing at all....maybe I'm sloooow? It could be the auburn hair....it has blond streaks (natural ones)
And I'm a natural Auburn...the miss clairol was a joke for the OP...I'm too cheap/lazy to color my hair until I go gray.  Yeah, we all knew you're kinda special. It's the tobacco in the little white square pouches.
Ahhh...gotcha!
I'm not very savvy on the various forms of tobacco. I AM however a plum wine expert if anyone needs tips there. That is my vice. Well...that and candy corn...and funnel cake... |
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     Location: Texas | RidenFly - 2015-01-07 9:58 AM TrailGirl - 2015-01-08 7:56 AM Ok...I''l admit to not getting the Barbie Kotex thing at all....maybe I'm sloooow? It could be the auburn hair....it has blond streaks (natural ones)
And I'm a natural Auburn...the miss clairol was a joke for the OP...I'm too cheap/lazy to color my hair until I go gray.  Yeah, we all knew you're kinda special. It's the tobacco in the little white square pouches.
I got the joke! For those that need visuals lol. |
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| pinx05 - 2015-01-08 10:44 AM RidenFly - 2015-01-07 9:58 AM TrailGirl - 2015-01-08 7:56 AM Ok...I''l admit to not getting the Barbie Kotex thing at all....maybe I'm sloooow? It could be the auburn hair....it has blond streaks (natural ones)
And I'm a natural Auburn...the miss clairol was a joke for the OP...I'm too cheap/lazy to color my hair until I go gray.  Yeah, we all knew you're kinda special. It's the tobacco in the little white square pouches. I got the joke! For those that need visuals lol.
Those are women's hands removing those out of the can. I know women chew, but I get a little squeemish thinking about it. |
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I came back and read this entire 9 pages and I would love you to show your grandmother this.
You are using excuses saying you are a red head, if your natural hair color is of you in a picture to me that is not red. I have cousins that are carrot top red and they handle themselves with class, integrity, and pride. Yes their attitudes can be firy hot, but they know how to act responsibility.
You have no class, as you have attacked everyone on BHW saying we have less superior lives then you (you used deroggitory words) and we are trying to "beat you down" which is not the case.
You say you are not immature but you have used your hair color as an excuse, BHW didn't you did. Just because you own a business doesn't make you mature, as I said I know carrot top redheads that act mature. Mature people don't make excuses, they don't blame the other person, thy do not belittle other people. When things go south they pull up their socks and reflect back then respond.
For you saying you should have never paid for the thing YOU SO WANTED TO GO, I ask why shouldn't you have paid?
You wanted to go! I believe in equality, so why shouldn't the girlfriend pay?
Also after things went south, why resort to name calling? Mature people don't name call!
From all this you say you have been unlucky picking men, but you haven't learned anything. I remember reading a guys top 14 people on who not to date, hairdresser is in the top 5, as they say crazy. You need to break the mould, not be a statistic.
Age is just a number, you need to look past that. I have met very mature 18 yr old men and very immature 40 yr old men.
You saying you know you are ready to settle down and start a family. People your age who are doing this majority have been with their SO since high school. You are putting too much stress on yourself and if you jump into it, you will become a divorce statistic.
Dating has changed, if you really know what you want in a man, as others have said try eharmony, match.com, one where you actually have to pay to put your profile out. Be honest, be ready for rejection as not all the men who you will be interested in will be interested in you.
Take is slow, I read a research statistic that stated people don't start showing their true self till after 6 months.
Also learn about yourself, and quit jumping into relationship after relationship, as you are just rebounding from one to another.
You say you are independent, prove it, stay single for 6 months, pick up a different hobby, learn something.
If you want to message me you can to bounce ideas off, or for an unbiased opinion. I am not beating you down, I took the time to write this, as I do wish you success.
Take this time to grow and become a better human being. |
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