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 Location: Louisville, KY | emmylou - 2014-04-16 11:40 AM I do not know why death is so private. Illness was very public when donations were being solicited.
yeah right.. Solicited by who.. I am sure people can go back and read who solicited donations.. be real ladies..God is listening.. :)
Oh and hurry.. they might just delete the post so you couldn't tell who they were....LOL Pathetic....
Well, by for ever ya'll... I am sure to get kicked out now...LOL
Randy... !!! |
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      Location: NE Texas | rjockey57 - 2014-04-16 4:04 PM emmylou - 2014-04-16 11:40 AM I do not know why death is so private. Illness was very public when donations were being solicited. yeah right.. Solicited by who.. I am sure people can go back and read who solicited donations.. be real ladies..God is listening.. :)
Oh and hurry.. they might just delete the post so you couldn't tell who they were....LOL
Pathetic....
Well, by for ever ya'll... I am sure to get kicked out now...LOL
Randy... !!!
All I can say is wow....emmylou was one of the people who was closest to Ashley from this board. This is an injustice to Emmy and IMO you owe her an apology. I pray for you, Randy, bless your heart, for you cannot see the forest for the trees. |
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      Location: NE Texas | geronabean - 2014-04-16 3:23 PM Dang that girl could always cause a rukus! Bet she is just giggling away right now. RIP Ash. You will be missed.
Well said, Bean, well said! |
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          Location: Bastrop, Texas | I don't understand why everything about Ashley's passing has to be shrouded in secrecy. I think that's what a lot of people are asking. I was available to her for questions either by text, email, pms, or phone for years. We've never had any kind of falling out. I talked to her on the phone about a month before her passing, and she sent me txt messages about riding horses, etc, up until about a week before she passed away. We taked off and on ever since her dad had some health concerns, then her husband's hospitalization, and finally her own health issues, up until the very end. I just don't understand all the anger and hatred. This is just ugly.
Ashley is fine. Why the Eva Perone schtick? Funerals and memorials are for the living, not the dead. The dead are in a better place than we are. People are sad to know of her death. They feel for her children. Many want to donate to memorials. What is the purpose of shrouding her death in secrecy? |
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   Location: Its on the House | This is probably the sadiest thread I have read on BHW. 2 words Randy "Seek HELP" Or 1 Word "Meds" what ever floats your boat.
RIP Ashley and peace and comfort to your children. |
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          Location: DUMPING CATS AND PIGS IN TEXAS :) | My 2 cents is that it is time to let Ashley rest in peace and let this end. |
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| jtd - 2014-04-16 6:46 PM This is probably the sadiest thread I have read on BHW. 2 words Randy "Seek HELP" Or 1 Word "Meds" what ever floats your boat.
RIP Ashley and peace and comfort to your children.
I agree, very strange. RIP Ashley. |
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| RIP Ashley. I always remember you will all the tatoos. We never spoke one on one but envied those tats! One day, ill get mine and you will be one who inspired it. I have learned so much more about your life in the last few days. Enjoy the weather, the beautiful world you are now apart of.
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| I don't get the chance to get on here often but have checked back to stay updated on Ashley. I am so saddened by this news. I prayed for a miraculous healing for her and wish that were the case right now. May the Lord hold her babies close and guide them through this time. |
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| rjockey57 - 2014-04-16 1:40 PM barrelracr131 - 2014-04-16 2:32 PM rjockey57 - 2014-04-16 1:16 PM Three*C*Champs - 2014-04-16 11:23 AM rjockey57 - 2014-04-16 6:35 AM CYA Ranch - 2014-04-16 9:01 AM I find it absolutely unreal how a beautiful young woman losing her life to a horrible disease is still having to live a drama filled life....even in death. If this is how you feel.. all I can say for you is .. sorry for feeling like this..
Obviously, you believe that if family members do not want to make a scene about all this.. that, that would be drama.. well in that case, perhaps you should take a closer look..
Either you don't have family and know that death is a personal thing to family members, or you are just straight up daft!!!
Randy !
Ps. Your attitude is exactly the attitude the family don't need... because the only drama is those that talk without knowledge, those that ask a family of the suffering to render information as if it was a new cast you were talking about. Learn to be respectful and don't cover up your disrespect by calling it drama.. Again, death is a private matter and her family wants to keep it that way. You should have the decency of respecting that fact!!! Randy,
The only person causing a stir here is you. People are interested in knowing about the service to send donations, flowers, etc. Not to show up and cause 'drama'? Her FB has been removed, the FB Support group has been removed. There is no evidence in obituaries of her passing. Not sure why this is so 'hush hush'....It seems any drama caused by herself or others in the passed has been forgiven, so why are you causing more now?
I will say this in the kindest way.... I posted the original post you saw this morning. NO DRAMA, NO BULL CACA...
If you don't get it, I am sorry for you. You don't hear nothing nor what you hear is truth, because you obviously did not know her well enough to communicate with her family...PERIOD!!!
Probably by the time anyone hears of service the real service would have passed you buy already...
So for you PAPARRAZIs OUT THERE...PUT AWAY YOUR CAMERAS AND RECORDERS..... THE QUEEN CAN NOT BE SEEN...
Randy ! I think a lot of us are confused as to what you are trying to accomplish here, Randy.
I think most people here asking for information would like to send something, such as flowers, to be present at her memorial service as we are mostly nowhere near her location. Perhaps some want to send something to her children. The questions come from a place of love- NOT a place of spite.
I was not close to her, but I know several here were in terms of exchanging online communications, or in some cases, meeting up in person. The forum is a bit like a bar or social club for many of us. We all hang out together, and we mourn together when we lose one of our own.
RIP Ashley. You have left this world much too young. You will be missed by many. I posted nothing such that indicate spite...
Please read from the thread I first posted.... it says, IF YOU GET AN INVITATION THEN HURRAY.. YOU GOT ONE.. BUT IF YOU DO NOT.. THEN SORRY.. YOU WON'T !!!
They do thank everyone who cared for Ashely, but since only four or five actually relayed that to her family, then this is the measure they are taking...
You can PM me any time.. after all, they talk to me often... I was able to see what they were going through for a short time, because I have to work, but I always talk with them...
Sorry if any of this makes you sad, because you might be confused or miss-lead...
Randy !!!
I was friends with Ashley on here and Facebook and we talked on the phone - although I'm SURE her family doesn't know me - I guess my family wouldn't have known her either - I don' t tell them EVERYTHING! I guess I've never been "invited" to a funeral - that's just weird! I DO know that I LOVED and I MISS that sweet girl a LOT. I think of her daily and pray for her kiddos - I am SO sad that they have to grow up without their mom. |
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           Location: Kansas | So heartbroken for her family and those babies of hers. Many many prayers, I saw it announced on facebook.    |
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            Location: Cap'n Helga Deadbones | I just miss my kind hearted, loving, free spirited sweetpea and that is all I know. I am at peace as I KNOW her spirit soars with Christ now, but I am missing her daily and my heart has a void and grieves. |
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       Location: Oklahoma | Although I've followed them closely, I haven't commented on Ashley "Laramie" posts much, primatily because of all of the drama, but I have to confess... I'm also reluctant to post on serious threads because of the name on my avatar! LOL Silly, but true!
Nonetheless... I thoroughly enjoyed Laramie and prayed endlessly the last few months. She and I visited a few years back when I went to WY to pick up a colt. We even attempted to make plans to meet, but our schedules wouldn't abide.
My heart aches for those babies... RIP Ashley!
AND will someone please PM me and tell me who the heck "Randy" is?!? I always miss the good stuff!!! |
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   Location: Sperry, OK | Kellie - 2014-04-17 11:48 AM Although I've followed them closely, I haven't commented on Ashley "Laramie" posts much, primatily because of all of the drama, but I have to confess... I'm also reluctant to post on serious threads because of the name on my avatar! LOL Silly, but true!
Nonetheless... I thoroughly enjoyed Laramie and prayed endlessly the last few months. She and I visited a few years back when I went to WY to pick up a colt. We even attempted to make plans to meet, but our schedules wouldn't abide.
My heart aches for those babies... RIP Ashley!
AND will someone please PM me and tell me who the heck "Randy" is?!? I always miss the good stuff!!!
Me too, Kellie.. I would like to know who he is also! I missed that part.
RIP Ashley! May God bless your soul and the lives you have left behind! |
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          Location: end of the world | WOW.. ive missed so much workinig two jobs... sad to hear this,,, LET HER REST,, prayers for her kids... |
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 Location: NM | I am so very sorry for all of her family especially her children. I have enjoyed reading and commenting on her posts over the years. R.I.P. Ashley.....
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| This is absolutely horse sh$t... randy, grow up and get off this thread. Ashley had a ton of friends on here & fb. The whole secrecy behind this is questionable. |
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              Location: Under The Big Sky Of Texas | I didnt want to post on this thread any more, but this has been on my mind, so when did people start sending Invitations out for a funeral? There is alot here to me that is just hog wash, Randy why all the anger, what did this family do to you are what did Ashley do to you to make you come on here to be saying all this hog wash, I feel like all your anger is pointed to Ashley and her family not at us here on BHW, this is just an excuse to come on here and vent. And when did she become a Queen? This is some really strange stuff you have been saying. Let us remember Ashley for who she was please. And please dont be sending any PM's to me.... And another question who are you to this family to be coming on here acting like you have been? Sorry Ashley just had to vent, prayers for all your baby's         |
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AMEN SISTA!! (All this is just flat WEIRD)! Ash would probably have a good laugh at all this! |
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       Location: Displaced Iowegian | Griz - 2014-04-18 5:48 AM AMEN SISTA!! (All this is just flat WEIRD)! Ash would probably have a good laugh at all this!
I don't think that Ashley would like what this person is doing and saying........she may have had problems with some here but she had a good, loving and forgiving heart. Additionally, no one in that family could possibly know ALL of the interactions that Ashley has had with people here nor know who she did or did not consider a friend..... This person's rants and raves were deleted and the log-in was blocked last week as they should have been........Prayers for her beautiful children..........              |
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