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Location: DUMPING CATS AND PIGS IN TEXAS :) | As Forrest Gump would say, "and, that's all I've got to say about that." |
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Location: Texas | All I have to say is WOW this thread went way Bad! |
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Location: Oregon | Enough of the mean comments please. It was funny in the beginning but many of you are quick to judge and have gone too far. Making jokes and such is disrespectful and just plain cruel. I'm also a human being and not perfect and none of you are either. I've realized a lot of people on BHW are super judgemental fast and that's pretty sad. All I was asking for was positive advice and not a cruel beat down and made fun of. Some of you should be ashamed for such comments and for attacking me as a person. Exactly it has gone too far and now is the time to stop. I had a few BHW people contact me about how disappointed they were in some of you and have lost respect. I've been thru a lot the past few months (not with guys) and all I wanted was positive advice like as if I asked my girlfriends. Thank you to people who offered positive advice. Enough is enough
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Location: Do I hear Banjos? | You have called people names and been disrespectful yourself. Not just to the people here...but much more so the guy that had the temerity to let you pay for an outing you wanted badly to go on. I don't see that you apologize or own any of that.
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Location: Midwest | Some people here took the time to give the op some heartfelt advice.... Good grief. |
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Location: Kansas | It never would have gotten this far.....if you hadn't of changed stories. There are good fish, and bad fish in the "sea" I guess you could say. We understand the guy wasn't exactly the right man for you, but the way you handled the situtation is kind of how this began. There was no need to call any of the BB's names.
Let me tell you this, I'm assuming your the same age as I am (23), or a few years older. Instead of trying to find a man, just because you want to be dating....you need to focus on what you can do with life...or what life can do for you. Just because you don't have a boyfriend/husband doesn't mean your a failure at dating....it just means the right one has yet to come along. |
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| No matter what, despite all the jokes, I for one, hope you don't take the teasing to heart. This too shall pass. Smile and move on with your day. |
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Location: In The Snow, AZ | Ay yai yai. I didn't really read anything necessarily mean or cruel. More comical if anything. I pretty well enjoy my crappy life. And I found this more amusing than finding BB's "disappointing". But then again, the fun wasn't poked at me. However, I doubt I would keep coming back to fuel the fire with more silliness.
Ok, ok. Back to topic (even tho he's looong gone by now) if his chewing bothered you enough to have to come online and post about it, it's probably not worth pursueing. Carry on. |
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Location: DUMPING CATS AND PIGS IN TEXAS :) | You can look at things positively or negatively, the choice is yours. The tough love came from those of us that have read all of your posts about your guy problems in the past and, I spoke to you like I would speak to my sister or my friend. At first you were given encouragement, advise, "he's a jerk," "you're better than that" advise on the previous posts......and, maybe some were jerks, maybe they all were.....we don't know their sides of the story, but now, based on the words you typed, I gave you my advise and called it as I see it. And, yes, it did get comical, because it really is in my eyes. I own everything I said. You ask for advise and you get it from different people, from all over.. even Canada. We interpret your words and give you our opinions and advise.....because you posted asking for it. You didn't like some of it. You used excuses. You name called. You say that people pm'd you about losing respect for some of us.....I would respect someone that made an attempt to help me, even if it wasn't the attempt that I wanted. I would respect someone that told me the truth as they saw it and not sugar coat it and blow butterflies at me. Perhaps you should just PM them next time so they can tell you what you want to hear, because we seem to be incapable of doing that adequately. Learn to laugh at yourself.
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Location: Displaced Iowegian | LRQHS - 2015-01-08 10:23 AM You can look at things positively or negatively, the choice is yours. The tough love came from those of us that have read all of your posts about your guy problems in the past and, I spoke to you like I would speak to my sister or my friend. At first you were given encouragement, advise, "he's a jerk," "you're better than that" advise on the previous posts......and, maybe some were jerks, maybe they all were.....we don't know their sides of the story, but now, based on the words you typed, I gave you my advise and called it as I see it. And, yes, it did get comical, because it really is in my eyes. I own everything I said. You ask for advise and you get it from different people, from all over.. even Canada. We interpret your words and give you our opinions and advise.....because you posted asking for it. You didn't like some of it. You used excuses. You name called. You say that people pm'd you about losing respect for some of us.....I would respect someone that made an attempt to help me, even if it wasn't the attempt that I wanted. I would respect someone that told me the truth as they saw it and not sugar coat it and blow butterflies at me. Perhaps you should just PM them next time so they can tell you what you want to hear, because we seem to be incapable of doing that adequately. Learn to laugh at yourself.
^^^^ THIS.......You, actually, could have let this thread die....but YOU came back to stir it up again......relax, breathe.....and have a good day! |
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Location: hot, humid and dry...Gulf coast East of Houston.. | Y'all are just so dang mean!! I hope you all feel good about yourselves for giving your opinions that differ from others, and saying how things appear to you by reading whats being said. Oh the horror!!
BTW... No way am I reading this whole thread, so at this point, I dont even have a clue what it may have turned into with 10 pages.. LOL
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Location: DUMPING CATS AND PIGS IN TEXAS :) | shellyh1971 - 2015-01-08 11:17 AM Y'all are just so dang mean!! I hope you all feel good about yourselves for giving your opinions that differ from others, and saying how things appear to you by reading whats being said. Oh the horror!!
BTW... No way am I reading this whole thread, so at this point, I dont even have a clue what it may have turned into with 10 pages.. LOL
Suit yourself lol. There was some good stuff in there. |
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Location: hot, humid and dry...Gulf coast East of Houston.. | LRQHS - 2015-01-08 11:22 AM shellyh1971 - 2015-01-08 11:17 AM Y'all are just so dang mean!! I hope you all feel good about yourselves for giving your opinions that differ from others, and saying how things appear to you by reading whats being said. Oh the horror!!
BTW... No way am I reading this whole thread, so at this point, I dont even have a clue what it may have turned into with 10 pages.. LOL
Suit yourself lol. There was some good stuff in there.
Im sure there was.. I mean with 10 pages. I know its not only about chew by now... No way.. I know this site.. |
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Location: Displaced Iowegian | shellyh1971 - 2015-01-08 11:25 AM LRQHS - 2015-01-08 11:22 AM shellyh1971 - 2015-01-08 11:17 AM Y'all are just so dang mean!! I hope you all feel good about yourselves for giving your opinions that differ from others, and saying how things appear to you by reading whats being said. Oh the horror!!
BTW... No way am I reading this whole thread, so at this point, I dont even have a clue what it may have turned into with 10 pages.. LOL
Suit yourself lol. There was some good stuff in there.
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Location: hot, humid and dry...Gulf coast East of Houston.. | NJJ - 2015-01-08 11:34 AM shellyh1971 - 2015-01-08 11:25 AM LRQHS - 2015-01-08 11:22 AM shellyh1971 - 2015-01-08 11:17 AM Y'all are just so dang mean!! I hope you all feel good about yourselves for giving your opinions that differ from others, and saying how things appear to you by reading whats being said. Oh the horror!!
BTW... No way am I reading this whole thread, so at this point, I dont even have a clue what it may have turned into with 10 pages.. LOL
Suit yourself lol. There was some good stuff in there.
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Location: Oregon | When you start attacking a person yes I am going to defend myself! I'm
Not going to sit here and have rude people that assume and don't know me personally attack me like they think they can. Karma is a ***** and shame on some of you, you know who you are. I'm not going to respond to anymore disrespectful comments so let it go. Be careful what you say to some people...
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Location: Great Places Great Faces | Luvmyebstang - 2015-01-08 6:46 PM When you start attacking a person yes I am going to defend myself! I'm Not going to sit here and have rude people that assume and don't know me personally attack me like they think they can. Karma is a ***** and shame on some of you, you know who you are. I'm not going to respond to anymore disrespectful comments so let it go. Be careful what you say to some people...
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| Luvmyebstang - 2015-01-09 5:46 PM When you start attacking a person yes I am going to defend myself! I'm Not going to sit here and have rude people that assume and don't know me personally attack me like they think they can. Karma is a ***** and shame on some of you, you know who you are. I'm not going to respond to anymore disrespectful comments so let it go. Be careful what you say to some people...
Ask anyone--even the peeps that don't really care for me, I'll defend something to the grave if I think it's just. But girl, you are the one who called somebody an Idiot. You don't really have to point something like that out, if they are an Idiot, the rest of the world would know it. By coming back here and going off again and again, you're just either, A; very young or B; enjoying any kind of attention--even bad.
Secondly, you can start a thread but you don't OWN the thread. It can go in several directions and not in anyway reflect the OP.
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| Luvmyebstang - 2015-01-08 7:46 PM
When you start attacking a person yes I am going to defend myself! I'm
Not going to sit here and have rude people that assume and don't know me personally attack me like they think they can. Karma is a ***** and shame on some of you, you know who you are. I'm not going to respond to anymore disrespectful comments so let it go. Be careful what you say to some people...
I stood up for you because some things were taken to far and I still feel like they are wrong for doing it but I cannot continue to feel sorry for the way you have been treated when you continue to get on here and antagonize the situation. Sometimes our need to be right can result in defensiveness permeating our lives, resulting in our relationships(not only love but friendships too) to be affected. I'm not sitting here telling you that you have no right to be upset by some of the comments, you do/did but remember that it's not what is being said or done to you that matters but how you choose to react. Maturity is humility.
Focus on you for awhile and I'm sure the right man will show up when you least expect it!
Ps: I'm on my phone so please excuse any errors, these things do what they want! |
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