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 Water Weight Barbie
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Location: Oz, Kansas | My husband is a non horsey person & has cows & I'm a non cowy person. I always tease him that if something happens to him his cows will be at the sale before his wake. I quit trying to get him to come to barrel races years ago because I spent more time trying to entertain him then I did preparing my horse. He goes above & beyond at home with chores, fence or whatever else I need. We tease about the horse quite a bit but he supports us the best way he can. |
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Location: Never in one place long | Mine was a non before he met me, he kinda got into it but now other things have taken priority. He will still ride with me occasionaly, mostly if I get everything ready, he likes to round up cows and pet the horses and will go to my races if he isn't working or at college which is rare but I'd call him a non-horsey person... he lets me spend whatever I want on horses though so thats really nice and he doesn't gripe about the money we "waste" on them. I do wish he was more into horses though! |
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Rad Dork
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Location: Oklahoma | My husband could be horsey if he wanted to (he can better read a horse in the roundpen), but it's not just something he goes out of his way to make time for. He rides when he elk hunts, and that's about it. We used to trail ride when we first started dating, but he is too busy now and sold his horse. He really doesn't have the time to go with me, so I don't ask. He doesn't question what I do or what I spend on it, so I won't complain!! |
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 Scorpions R Us
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Location: So. Cali. | Non-Horsey. But very understanding and supportive of them. Goes to the barrel races and films for me. I can probably count on both hands how many times he's ridden in the 8.5 yrs together, but I'm completely ok with that. He doesnt quite trust them, and hates that a 1200lb animal can be scared of its own shadow. haha.
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| Very horsey.. he is a roper and we spend more time together at a barrel race or a roping than we do anywhere else. we work opposite shifts. |
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Married to a Louie Lover
Posts: 3303
| He's a horse person.
That being said he currently doesn't have his own and only occasionally trail rides with us on a borrowed horse. He did spend 2 years wrangling in Arizona after high school. Trails and youngsters are more his style. He's currently in school and working full time so there's really not a lot of time to do stuff by the time he mows the grass and gets some sleep. Hopefully when he graduates he can get back into it.
That being said he does support me. Sometimes at the height of the season he gets frustrated because of how much I am gone. There will probably be a few weeks this summer that between jackpots and rodeos, his work and school that we won't see much of each other but maybe him leaving for work as I'm pulling into the drive from a race. But he doesn't say no. I pay for all my own horse stuff so he can't complain about that.
He was getting a little obnoxious about how many new bits and wraps and stuff I had showing up in the mail (ok...it was a lot) but then he discovered tool buying on Craigslist and eBay and he a no longer permitted to talk bad about my buying habits... |
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Location: Southern IL somewhere between KY and MO | Mine is so non horsey but he feeds every day and supports me bulids fences stalls sheds loves on them...but would rather be on his Harley. |
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Location: Displaced Iowegian | Hubby is “Horsey”….In fact he was a horse person LONG before we were married. Our family life has revolved around showing horses, barrel races, Jr and High School Rodeos, IPRA rodeos and then Team Penning. There WERE years that he did not travel with us due to owning his own business……but he has always been the MAIN support (financially) of our addictions. |
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 Am I really the Weirdo?
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Location: Kansas | Matt rides barrel horses and bareback horses, so he definitely counts as a horse person. Sometimes I think his barrel horses are more pampered than mine! It is really nice that we can plan our weekends around barrel races and rodeos, plus my horses have their own pen at his place so when I'm there overnight I don't have to leave mine tied to the trailer or in the stalls. I also like that we can borrow tack from each other to try new things, like treeless saddles or bonnet tiedowns. If I can't find a hoof pick, he has one in his trailer, and if he needs to borrow some Maalox, I have a bottle in my trailer.
The difficult part is balancing which barrel races and rodeos to go to. He picks rodeos based on the bucking horses and distance from home, while I'd rather drive 3 hours and run in a big pen with good ground than drive an hour and run in a 14 second pattern with concrete ground. When it comes to barrel races, he likes little indoor pens and I like big outdoor arenas. There is literally only one arena we've been to that we both like. Honestly I can't stand his two favorite pens and he thinks I am NUTS for loving the big outdoor pens. It is also hard for either of us to explain a pen to the other - what I say is pretty decent ground, he usually thinks is way too shallow, and what he says is a big pen is generally still a small pen to me.
We also don't see eye to eye on some things about the horses and since we both have more than one horse to run, the district NBHAs get pretty crazy with trying to get all the horses warmed up and cooled out properly. Often I'll leave the jackpot frustrated because I didn't get any help when I needed it but yet I interrupted my own prep time to help him. |
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Location: 100 miles from Nowhere, AR | Non-horsey, but he grew up with a horsey mom and step-dad and occasionally rode for fun as a kid. Just not his thing, but at least he has half a clue and is supportive. We have plenty of other things in common, we are outdoor people, don't want to live anywhere except in the country on acreage, and are both involved in the agriculture industry. The biggest gripe I hear is that our house is a wreck because I spend too much time at the barn. This is highly inaccurate tho, because even with the nasty winter we just had, the house was still a perpetual wreck. I just hate housework!! |
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 Serious Snap Trapper
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Location: In The Snow, AZ | Mine used to be non-horsey. But a few years ago we found him a nice, easy, older gelding. We rode most any chance we could. He has graduated up to a rope horse. They get along great. It's nice because I don't have to worry any more. Hubby is a pretty good rider when he's into it. Nowadays it's difficult to find time to ride for him. He works 6 days a week. But he is still more then supportive of my riding and racing. He's usually the one looking for the next race for me.
If not for my love for horses, he would have never ridden. But we each have our own thing. Mine is horses. He has come to enjoy them as well. He loves off road, prerunner trucks. And I have come to love them. If we aren't riding, were building on the truck, or out off roading. It's a win-win. |
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Elite Veteran
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Location: SE KS | Mine is horsey! He lived in town when we met, but grew up with a shetland!!!
He team ropes, but lost his good horse a few years ago & really hasn't found a "suitable" replacement. (We currently have 2 "suitable" replacements, as well as an up n coming colt) He has been working 6 days a week the last couple of years so therefore hasn't gotten to rope, last year we used the same horse, I barrel & poled on him he roped off him, so the horse was always in shape. Sometimes we hit 2 shows in a day.
We have several horses so we both can't always go with each other, but we go together when we can!
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 Ms. Marine
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Location: Texas | My husband is of the non-horsie type. However, he is extremely supportive of my passion for horses and barrel racing and does all he can to help out. |
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| Husband is as supportive as they come, but definitely NON HORSE person. He comes to almost all the jackpots/rodeos/barrel races, cleans stalls, helps the best he can, etc. But he doesn't ride and doesn't find it very interesting lol |
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 A Lady with Fight
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Location: NC | Mine is more horsey than me, at least in the riding skills department. He's been riding since he was 15, and training almost as long, so he has a whole lot more experience.
I started "riding" in 2009 and just started actually RIDING this past fall. On a gelding my hubby started, patterned, and finished himself. So it was really good to have him there to help teach me how to ride my horse. He's been an asset for sure.
Sometimes, I'm thankful that he's a horsey person. That he doesn't even question if I want to spend extra money on a big show or that I budget for groceries but I'll splurge on horses. LOL. Other times I wish I could just go off by myself and not share the same hobby. We get into arguments and stuff over it at times, being as it is what we are both passionate about.
But he's there to take care of the truck, look after the trailer, help tune on my horse, and never questions me if I start talking about getting another horse. So I guess I'm a pretty lucky lady. |
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Location: on my horse | Mine is very horsey, it's actually debatable as to who is more horsey 
He grew up riding and showing western pleasure horses, started roping in high school, and recently made the jump over to reiners. He still loves his pleasure horses though and I just don't get that, just like I love my barrel horses and he just doesn't get THAT. That being said, we still support each other, I spend weekends bored to death at pleasure shows and he spends weekends "suffering" at barrel races. We both enjoy watching each other doing what we love, and I literally could sit and watch him ride all day. He's just so natural in the saddle.
Now that we are both on the reiners it's really fun to bounce ideas off of each other and critique each other's rides I know that doesn't work for a lot of couples but we make a pretty good team and have joked about starting our own training business together. |
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| Non-horsey but extremely supportive and helps feed horses when I can't, supports my riding and barrel racing, listens to all my horse talk patiently, and believes in me!
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 Money Eating Baggage Owner
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Location: Phoenix | Mine grew up non-horsey, but I'm slowly converting him. He knows they are my life. He's purchasing a horse that will be good for him to learn to ride on (and conveniently is a nice rope/barrel horse). He does have allergic reactions sometimes, but he's a good sport. He usually doesn't come to rodeos over the weekend but will come watch me rope in town. He loves fixing cars and guns and stuff--so he's not completely useless. Not going to lie....if he was the type that didn't know how to change the oil in his car.....we probably wouldn't be dating. ETA: even when we first started dating he would help me feed when my family was away for a couple weeks at National's. He's responsible and helpful like that.
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 I Am Always Right
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Location: stray dump capital of the world | Mine was nonhorsey, but I converted him. We've been married 30 years and he was hesitant at first, but it didn't take long to bring him to the dark side. He was talking to a friend the other day saying while he doesn't ride as much as I do, the horses are the first place he goes for a stress reliever. He loves to trail ride and we always look for different parks/places to ride. If I have a race, sometimes he comes and sometimes he doesn't it just depends on what he has going on around here. |
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Location: South MS | Phxbarrel - 2014-05-22 11:19 PM Mine is a non horse person. I find it difficult sometimes. He HATES going to barrel races and often gets headaches around the boarding facility. He says he is allergic to hay or the dust. It is his personal hell if he does get dragged to a barrel race lol. He doesn't understand it. Doesn't get 'it', but he supports it in the sense that he doesn't get mad if all I want to do is go ride my horse and race on the weekends. Lol. So there is that. What's your experience? I'm totally not dogging on my SO at all. I appreciate that he is supportive. He is supportive in letting me do my ventures. Supportive in helping me save for a truck/trailer and getting on board on buying a house with horse property when we are ready to buy a house. So I'll take that cake and eat it! Lol.
My husband rode horses some when he was a kid - he doesnt ride now.
He prefers to just give them treats at the house - its hilarous as all the horses come running when they see he like he is the ice cream man - LOL
We have a rhythm to our relationship. He comes to barrels races 1-2 times a month and I go do things with him or us/kids do something 1-2 weekends a month as a family. Our relationship is really strong because we both give and take. I use to go every weekend somewhere and it put a strain on our relationship as he didnt want to do that all the time so we started compromising and our life has never been better.
Now he really hates watching 400-500 barrel racers so alot of times he hangs out at the trailer and then comes in to watch us run |
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