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Location: London Ontario | "he thinks I'm telling people what an a-hole he is, and this and that" Uhhh a spade is a spade is it not????? Keep your head up chicky. He's lucky cause if he left me, my foot would be so far up his behind we wouldn't be able to find it.....Oh and all the tires would be slashed on his vehicle....BUT that's just me hahaha....not giving you any ideas BTW lol
Edited to say "claimed it was about his "puppies" and that was it" yeah my hubby has a pair of "puppies" too but that's not G rated ahahahah
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Location: DUMPING CATS AND PIGS IN TEXAS :) | Ummmm, nope. A man would be secure enough to stand there and talk to the dude with you or say later, "hey, that kind of bothered me." Him calling you a piece of s*** does not make it a true statement. YOU ARE VERY FAR FROM THAT! You aren't even close to a fart. So, just shake that crap off. |
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Location: In the Hills of Texas | Were you married before?
If so..how long have you been divorced?
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Location: LuluLand~along I64 Indiana | girl.... im sorry you are sad but the real issue here is you see no self worth. Why are you putting your mind and body thru heck when some pos left you high and dry.... You have no reason to feel ashamed.... Hang him high and dry on FB and stand up for yourself instead of letting him give you yet another guilt trip....
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Location: Kansas | Nevertooold - 2014-11-20 3:09 PM Were you married before?
If so..how long have you been divorced?
I've never been married. I was in a relationship with my daughters father, who was very abusive....he use to beat me really bad so I left him. Since then, her father has made my life a living hell.....and still is. |
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Location: Buffalo, TX | You do not want guys like him in your life role modeling this atrocious behavior for your daughter...what an immature jerk...there were probably a few red flags before this pointing to his jealous side...and, sorry to point this out, but I'll never understand why people put anything at all about their personal lives on facebook for the whole world to see and interpret, so I would completely keep your relationships private...like the others here, I say good riddance...you deserve better, so raise your standards... |
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Location: DUMPING CATS AND PIGS IN TEXAS :) | hoofs_in_motion - 2014-11-20 3:10 PM
Nevertooold - 2014-11-20 3:09 PM Were you married before?
If so..how long have you been divorced?
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I've never been married. I was in a relationship with my daughters father, who was very abusive....he use to beat me really bad so I left him. Since then, her father has made my life a living hell.....and still is. Â
This one is no better. I agree with Lulu, your self esteem is low. What you have been through was not/is not easy, but you are going to have to find some strength and self worth. You need my friend, Jessie Quarles, Herbie. She always has really great words and can pull anyone up. Come back, Herbie! We need you! |
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Location: Buffalo, TX | hoofs_in_motion - 2014-11-20 3:10 PM Nevertooold - 2014-11-20 3:09 PM Were you married before?
If so..how long have you been divorced?
I've never been married. I was in a relationship with my daughters father, who was very abusive....he use to beat me really bad so I left him. Since then, her father has made my life a living hell.....and still is.
Coming from someone who has learned the hard way...please take some time for yourself and be alone for awhile before you jump into another relationship...your picker is off and you need to learn who you are and think more of yourself and that you deserve a good life...I'm willing to bet you come a family with either an absent, abusive, or alcoholic father...I did, and it took me a long time to put the puzzle pieces together...so don't settle for the first old boy who comes along and acts like he's head over heels.... |
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Location: DUMPING CATS AND PIGS IN TEXAS :) | Also, I did not like his gotee and he didn't have any butt. |
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| hoofs_in_motion - 2014-11-20 3:00 PM
What sucks even worse....is I posted that I was "feeling heartbroken" on facebook......I never said anything else, people automatically assumed he had done this and that.
I just commented under the post saying that I couldnt eat/sleep, and was upset. I then deleted the post because everyone was jumping to conclusions about what happened. I never shared what happened to anyone, and because of that post....he thinks I'm telling people what an a-hole he is, and this and that...when in fact I haven't said anything to anyone about it! I'm ashamed. I'm not perfect, I understand that....nobody is perfect. It hurts me when I get called a piece of crap (other word though) because I apparently told people he was the one that "wronged" me. I never should of said Hi to that guy at the concert, I know I was in the wrong for that. I honestly didn't believe he would have an issue with it...since it wasn't even a conversation with the guy! It was hi and that was basically it. Â
Oh pal !!!! Chin up and HUGS from me to you!
You should never feel like you cannot talk to someone - regardless if you had a past relationship with them or not. Really - he is the one being insecure if he can't take you saying hi to an old flame ... AND he never should have left you ANYWHERE. I don't care how mad a man is, but as soon as he leaves you somewhere, he is not a man. That is crap that a freakin' high school boy would do.
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I Prefer to Live in Fantasy Land
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Location: In the Hills of Texas | hoofs_in_motion - 2014-11-20 3:10 PM Nevertooold - 2014-11-20 3:09 PM Were you married before?
If so..how long have you been divorced?
I've never been married. I was in a relationship with my daughters father, who was very abusive....he use to beat me really bad so I left him. Since then, her father has made my life a living hell.....and still is.
I would say you have a few more relationships to go through before you find a real man that wants a real relationship.
Good luck and like Cindy said..never put stuff like that out on FB. It will always turn around and bit you in the butt. |
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Location: Kansas | LRQHS - 2014-11-20 3:17 PM Also, I did not like his gotee and he didn't have any butt.
LMAO!!!!! Thank you for the smile on that one!!!! |
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Location: Kansas | Cindy Hamilton - 2014-11-20 3:17 PM hoofs_in_motion - 2014-11-20 3:10 PM Nevertooold - 2014-11-20 3:09 PM Were you married before?
If so..how long have you been divorced?
I've never been married. I was in a relationship with my daughters father, who was very abusive....he use to beat me really bad so I left him. Since then, her father has made my life a living hell.....and still is.
I agree, this time I'm just going to be alone. My father has never really been in my life, my mother was an alcholic and drug addict. I've had to pretty much raise myself over the years. |
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Location: DUMPING CATS AND PIGS IN TEXAS :) | hoofs_in_motion - 2014-11-20 3:19 PM
LRQHS - 2014-11-20 3:17 PM Also, I did not like his gotee and he didn't have any butt.
LMAO!!!!! Thank you for the smile on that one!!!! Â
I kept wanting to pull his pants up lol. |
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Location: Oklahoma | LRQHS - 2014-11-20 3:20 PM hoofs_in_motion - 2014-11-20 3:19 PM LRQHS - 2014-11-20 3:17 PM Also, I did not like his gotee and he didn't have any butt. LMAO!!!!! Thank you for the smile on that one!!!! I kept wanting to pull his pants up lol.
Thanks LRQHS... I just spit tea on my screen..... |
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Location: DUMPING CATS AND PIGS IN TEXAS :) | TwistedK - 2014-11-20 3:23 PM
LRQHS - 2014-11-20 3:20 PM hoofs_in_motion - 2014-11-20 3:19 PM LRQHS - 2014-11-20 3:17 PM Also, I did not like his gotee and he didn't have any butt. LMAO!!!!! Thank you for the smile on that one!!!! Â I kept wanting to pull his pants up lol.
Who wants to go through life with a buttless man? Not this cowgirl! I need something to hold on to. |
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Location: Oklahoma | LRQHS - 2014-11-20 3:25 PM TwistedK - 2014-11-20 3:23 PM LRQHS - 2014-11-20 3:20 PM hoofs_in_motion - 2014-11-20 3:19 PM LRQHS - 2014-11-20 3:17 PM Also, I did not like his gotee and he didn't have any butt. LMAO!!!!! Thank you for the smile on that one!!!! I kept wanting to pull his pants up lol. Who wants to go through life with a buttless man? Not this cowgirl! I need something to hold on to.
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Location: Gainesville, TX | Let's talk about the way this should have gone based on my experience.
We're at a restaurant. An Ex walks up, surprising me. I've told my husband this guy was a bit of a pain. The ex and I parted on relatively good terms though, something along the lines of "I'm going to be moving a lot and this isn't the best thing for me right now. So he says hi. I say hi but not much more. He talks to my sister for a minute. After dinner, my husband mentions he was a bit upset that I had not immediately introduced him. I apologize and promise to always do so in future. He gets over it, drives us home, and we're married for six years and counting. THAT would be a reasonable response. |
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Location: Kansas | oija - 2014-11-20 3:33 PM Let's talk about the way this should have gone based on my experience. We're at a restaurant. An Ex walks up, surprising me. I've told my husband this guy was a bit of a pain. The ex and I parted on relatively good terms though, something along the lines of "I'm going to be moving a lot and this isn't the best thing for me right now. So he says hi. I say hi but not much more. He talks to my sister for a minute. After dinner, my husband mentions he was a bit upset that I had not immediately introduced him. I apologize and promise to always do so in future. He gets over it, drives us home, and we're married for six years and counting. THAT would be a reasonable response.
that's kind of how I thought it would go in my mind......but it went south as soon as I walked back up to him. He ignored me the rest of the night, then left. I had 3 beers that evening, and had to have a police officer drive me to perkins so I could sit and wait for my grandmother to pick me up. I was embarassed. |
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| LRQHS - 2014-11-20 3:17 PM
Also, I did not like his gotee and he didn't have any butt.
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