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Bibliafarm
Reg. Jul 2008
Posted 2014-11-26 10:24 PM
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PLEASE get another opinion  .. post xrays if you can.
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Bear
Reg. Dec 2007
Posted 2014-11-26 11:27 PM
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I hope you think again after reading this thread. That's the beauty of a place like this. I think it's safe to say that consensus is that the horse really doesn't need to be put down. There's nothing wrong with changing your mind, especially when you could be saving your son's horse. Let us know how everything goes.
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CurlyQ
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Posted 2014-11-27 5:39 AM
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Bibliafarm - 2014-11-26 10:24 PM

PLEASE get another opinion  .. post xrays if you can.

I had one misdiagnosed. Good advice.
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komet.
Reg. Jun 2012
Posted 2014-11-27 1:24 PM
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I remember the owner of Oklahoma Farriers Collage (Bud Beaston) telling our class he had dissected hundreds of hooves of horses put down due to "navicular"... and only found 2 that really had it..

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Cowgirl_Tuff8403
Reg. Jul 2012
Posted 2014-11-27 6:00 PM
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I agree could be abscess. We had one last summer with a really bad abscess and he showed holes. Ended up slufin off half his hoof, had a brand new one under it
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rodeorun68
Reg. Jan 2004
Posted 2014-11-27 8:59 PM
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HotbearLVR - 2014-11-26 2:21 PM Rather than euthanize the horse, why don't you just find a home where someone is willing to spend some money on a good farrier? "Navicular" is such a wastebasket term anyway. The best remedy to begin with is a farrier who can do a nice, balanced trim.....for starters. That's what I would do, particularly on a 3 year old.

This is exactly how I am getting a very nice rope horse for my daughter. He was xrayed and told that he had "street founder." It's not traditional founder. No hoof wall separation and no coffin bone rotation. The coffin bone is VERY arthritic due to damaged blood supply as a young horse. The first Vet said put him down. 2nd vet says if I want, we will MRI his front feet to be sure, but he thnks that we can do OsPhos and stem cell therapy. 80% probability of bing 100% sound. 20% probability of him being able to work lightly. This horse is just that nice to take a risk on 
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FlyingHigh1454
Reg. Oct 2013
Posted 2014-11-28 10:57 AM
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A 3yo with navicular? Do you realize how uncommon that is? I would for sure have a second opinion. I've seen vets diagnose navicular, and then it just ended up being an abscess when we checked them out. I agree with everyone else, navicular is so over-diagnosed and is not even a death sentence. There are so many ways to keep a navicular horse comfortable, and useable for many years. I would consider changing vets if he did suggest putting it down without a second opinion.
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TMEquine
Reg. Sep 2012
Posted 2014-11-28 11:06 AM
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HotbearLVR - 2014-11-26 3:21 PM

Rather than euthanize the horse, why don't you just find a home where someone is willing to spend some money on a good farrier? "Navicular" is such a wastebasket term anyway. The best remedy to begin with is a farrier who can do a nice, balanced trim.....for starters. That's what I would do, particularly on a 3 year old.

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IRunOnFaith
Reg. Dec 2009
Posted 2014-11-28 12:02 PM
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I had a horse RUNNING for 10 years for me with Navicular. Special Shoes and de nerving. Works wonders. It isn't a death sentence. Many of today's top horses have it. It's just a condition, not a life sentence.

Prayers for you.

Updates? 
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pinx05
Reg. Nov 2009
Posted 2014-11-28 12:41 PM
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suzy2qtee - 2014-11-26 2:25 PM IF you decide to put her down I would be totally honest with the son... THEY are way too smart and I feel would resent you when they figured out what happend to his pony. AND he will find out some time... I have always been honest with anything with my boys and humane deaths are a part of that. 



I'd tell the boy that pony is hurting all the time and as a responsible horse owner sometimes they need to be put down. End of story... Don't put human emotions on the animal... WE are intelligent humans that are able to make these decisions. JMHO
 

 When I was around 9 or so I came home from school and was told that my grandpa sold my shetland pony Lady. I was crushed and for years I was afraid that everytime I went to school they were going to sell one of my animals. I held that against them until I was grown, I thought they really sold her and didn't even care that I didn't get to say goodbye or anything. Lady was actually put down but my mom thought it was easier on me if she didn't tell me my horse was dead... just sold. If they had told me she was dead I would have been upset, but that is part of life and I would have understood.

Because of that I have always told my son the truth when it came to things like that. From the time he was able to talk to now. I have cried many times with him when his favorite chicken "Sweetie-bell" died, or his favorite rooster, a dog or whatever it was. He understands though, and he will get past it. 
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Cowgirl Kat
Reg. Aug 2013
Posted 2014-11-28 1:40 PM
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3 years old seems young to me to have navicular. I would get a second opinion. Navicular is also super managable. You need a good farrier, special shoes and a supplement or what the doctor recommends. The horse will be good as new. I would try the supplement THE NutraWOUND to help. But honestly I don't think the horse should be put down. 
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Bear
Reg. Dec 2007
Posted 2014-11-28 2:16 PM
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I wonder what the OP finally decided to do. I hope she posts a followup.
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SmokinBandits
Reg. Dec 2003
Posted 2014-11-28 9:25 PM
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I admire people putting down their unsound (and unfixable) horses rather than unloading them on some unsuspecting buyer or sending them to the sale. But are you sure this is navicular? First of all, she's very young. Secondly, does navicular make them lame when it's cold? I never heard of that. But I'm no navicular expert. And even if it is navicular, there are so many things to try. My vet also told me about the new medicine that she is looking into for one of my horses. We also discussed denerving, which someone else on here suggested. My vet said it's a myth that they can't feel their feet. They just don't feel the pain. It just seems pretty radical to put a young horse down, especially someone's pride and joy, without really digging into it. Or maybe you have and we just don't know. 

And if it turns out that you do have to put her down because she's in pain and you can't fix it, be honest with your son. Keep in mind that he will pick up on how YOU react. It's okay to show sadness. In fact, you should. You will be teaching him empathy. But you will also be teaching him responsibility and how to have the courage to do what's right for an animal even though it hurts us. This is what we do for the ones we love. And then I remind them that the other animals need some love now because we are all sad. 
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Bear
Reg. Dec 2007
Posted 2014-11-29 8:19 AM
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Bumping for an update.
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Bear
Reg. Dec 2007
Posted 2014-11-29 8:07 PM
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CurlyQ
Reg. Sep 2006
Posted 2014-11-29 10:16 PM
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HotbearLVR - 2014-11-29 8:07 PM .

 With the long weekend, she may be busy and not able to get another vet check yet. 
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Bear
Reg. Dec 2007
Posted 2014-11-30 8:43 AM
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I would just like to know what a vet plans to accomplish in just two weeks with navicular. So if no progress is made, then it's a hopeless situation? Is that what he thinks? Just wondering.
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hammer_time
Reg. Jul 2007
Posted 2014-11-30 2:18 PM
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 My moms old good mare was diagnosed as navicular as a 6 year old.  My mom competed on her until she was 15.  A majority of my brother's calf horses have been navicular because it's all we can afford.  A little maintenance and they are good to go.  We've nerved a couple, but mostly keep them on isoxuprine and corrective shoeing and a little bute when needed.  
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Black Horse
Reg. Jan 2009
Posted 2014-12-01 12:55 PM
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HotbearLVR - 2014-11-30 7:43 AM I would just like to know what a vet plans to accomplish in just two weeks with navicular. So if no progress is made, then it's a hopeless situation? Is that what he thinks? Just wondering.

 He's going to a conference this week were ther will be discussion on a new drug "osphos" that is comming out in the US, has been used in Europe for years.  He wants to get more information about it from someone that isn't selling it.
 
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TessBelle
Reg. Mar 2014
Posted 2014-12-01 1:07 PM
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hammer_time - 2014-11-30 2:18 PM

 My moms old good mare was diagnosed as navicular as a 6 year old.  My mom competed on her until she was 15.  A majority of my brother's calf horses have been navicular because it's all we can afford.  A little maintenance and they are good to go.  We've nerved a couple, but mostly keep them on isoxuprine and corrective shoeing and a little bute when needed.  

Isoxperine did wonders for both my navicular horses. So will corrective shoeing. And a good daily joint supplement.
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