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  Warmblood with Wings
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Location: Florida.. | SG. - 2015-01-29 7:29 AM rodeomom3 - 2015-01-29 6:25 AM Hugs and prayers for your safety. Take that first step to a better life and don't look back. Give us an update when you arrive in Cali. Life is too short to be unhappy, stay strong. I agree. dont beat yourself up about the past. Today is a new day. A new start to your new life. Chin up and smile and say Yes, I can do this. Put your faith on the Lord and know he will guide you safely. Prayers
I agree!!! you went back because we women always feel we can "fix" it.. I did this for many years to girlie.. they never change..
Next time you think about going back to him call your dad or come here.. and read the other threads to remind you he wont change. be safe, give the dogs a hug and you can do this. |
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Location: NE Texas | Many prayers for you and your dogs and a safe trip for your all. I pray that you will make a choice to not let him affect or hurt you anymore. I know that is easier said than done, but it is a choice and you absolutely can do this! It takes a strong person to take a stand but I can tell by your posts you are strong and you are capable and very deserving of moving on and having a great life without him! Please keep us posted on your journey and know that there are many people whom you have never met nor had a conversation that are praying for you and thinking about you!!!!!  |
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Location: 100 miles from Nowhere, AR | I pray you don't look back this time. You can do this! You deserve a good life and this ain't it. |
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Location: Displaced Iowegian | Nothing more to be said than what has already been said....just sending you prayers..... |
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| outrundaizy - 2015-01-28 11:26 PM
Haven't you posted this before? Not sure if i'm remembering the right BB, but I thought I'd ask?
If so, i'm not sure why this is happening again, I have no advice, I just hope you can make it somewhere safe and get on a good track. Please update us so we know you are okay
I'm sorry, and please try not to be offended, but I HATE this attitude. No, you will never understand the mental he'll of being in the cycle of abuse unless you have been there. It's not as simple as being strong enough to walk away. It's a black hole that sucks your soul right out of you and changes who you are as a person.
Good luck. I don't know if this will be the last time you leave but I don't hope you don't go back. I DO know you are strong enough even if you don't know right now.
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Tried and True
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| Praying for a safe trip for you and your dogs and for a clean break for you. Look forward - never back! |
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Warmblood with Wings
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Location: Florida.. | erin you will like this.
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Location: White Mountains of AZ | I understand how difficult this is for you. But you are so brave and strong and beautiful!! Don't let anybody tell you different! Prayers for you and your 4 legged babies on your journey....make the most of it! Roll the windows down, put some good tunes on, SMILE!! |
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 Serious Snap Trapper
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Location: In The Snow, AZ | Sending you prayers! God has a plan for you. And praise be to him that you are strong enough to get out again. Can't wait to hear about your new life! |
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| Have a safe trip and let us know when you get where you're going! |
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| I was where you are 25 years ago......I went back several times before I finally found the strength to never look back. The most important thing to remember is you HAVE to break the cycle. Some woman never do. They either continue to go back until there is a tragedy or they continue to choose the same type of man. I can promise you...there is a life waiting for you on the otherside of this darkness.....there are men out there that aren't abusive...I've been with one now for 23 years :)
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Location: Buffalo, TX | Nothing wrong with doing all you could to salvage your former life...at least you can leave knowing you did all you could do....
Look at the trip and your new life as an adventure...nothing is coincidence, this was meant to be and there are great things ahead for you....so be strong and positive....a new door is opening for you so embrace it....sometimes you don't see the silver lining for a few few years, but trust me, it's there....I'm living proof....
I left a bad marriage many years ago and at the time, I didn't know what was in store for me.....looking back, it was the best thing that ever happened to me and turned my life around for the better in every way...so...to the girl that cheated with my husband back then (I know you are reading this)...a big THANK YOU...I owe you BIG TIME!!!!...I wouldn't be where I am today without you....
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 Balance Beam and more...
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Location: 31 lengths farms | Hope this finds you getting stronger as the miles to your new life get shorter. I'm in Nor Cal F-Bar, have several horses that need to get their winter fluff off of them and would love a riding buddy even if its for a day. Dogs are welcome too. |
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 Dancing in my Mind
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Location: Eastern OH but my heart is in WV | Many hugs to you and prayers for a safe journey. I know I don't know you personally but I have always pictured you as a strong willed individual. NO ONE knows the whole story of your life but I sincerely hope the new chapter you are starting as of today, is going to be one of strength, hope, and new beginnings.
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 Scorpions R Us
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Location: So. Cali. | I think had you not gone back you would've always wondered "What If". You can't say you didnt try, you fought more than enough. It's not giving up, it's doing what is best for you. Far too young to be stuck in that life style for any longer. Have a safe trip.
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 Sorry I don't have any advice
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Location: Sunnyland Florida |
A better life awaits you. Get in the truck and safe travels!!
Peace be with you!
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 Namesless in BHW
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Location: At the race track with Ah Dee Ohs | Safe travels for you and your fur babies. Nothing but moving forward, don't look back and hold your head high that you tried to make things work. Update us when you can. |
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| I'm so sorry you are going thru this - sending prayers for safe travels and strength to get you thru this. I wish you the best and know that you deserve to be happy |
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Location: Ohio | Lots of prayers going out for you. Keep your head up and safe travels!  |
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