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rachellyn80
Reg. Jan 2004
Posted 2015-07-17 12:02 PM
Subject: RE: Why is it so HARD for people to be honest????



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Runaway - 2015-07-17 11:27 AM



Some real good advice in posts on this thread so far.  Here's one more.  When you're PONY shopping for your kid, ask the seller to put THEIR kid on first.  When their kid starts bawling and won't get on it - you can get in the truck and go home.  True story, this happened two times!







 

I won't even look at a pony from someone that doesn't have kids...and at least some videos and photos of their kids riding it.

Also, I'd like to add that I have unfortunately had people show up to ride our horses and were able to make even our brokest horses buck or kick out.  Some people have no feel, seat, or sense even though they may have been riding their whole lives.  Our horses are broke enough that if you hang on their faces and lock your legs down that they're eventually going to get frustrated.  It's usually not hard to tell who is not going to be a good fit.  I just politely tell them that the horse probably won't work for them and they would just be wasting their time. 
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redmansmyman11
Reg. Jan 2012
Posted 2015-07-17 3:06 PM
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Another thing is, after I see the seller ride the horse, if I'm in any way uncomfortable I absolutely will not ride. I used to feel guilty about wasting a seller's time but not anymore if I don't feel safe I'm not getting on
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Reg. Jan 2011
Posted 2015-07-17 5:30 PM
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Runaway - 2015-07-17 10:27 AM



Some real good advice in posts on this thread so far.  Here's one more.  When you're PONY shopping for your kid, ask the seller to put THEIR kid on first.  When their kid starts bawling and won't get on it - you can get in the truck and go home.  True story, this happened two times!



 

Learned this the hard way lol
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kakbarrelracer
Reg. Dec 2003
Posted 2015-07-17 5:52 PM
Subject: RE: Why is it so HARD for people to be honest????



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 One of my friends thought I was crazy when I told her that I have the owner ride the horse first. Then I can watch the riders cues and see how the horse reacts.
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rodeomom3
Reg. Dec 2007
Posted 2015-07-17 6:04 PM
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So sorry for your friend.  I drove quite a few hours for one of my daughters to try a horse.  My daughter has been riding the mare for about 15 minutes, broker is telling me what an honest been there, done that horse she is, safe, etc. As those words are coming out of her mouth the horse breaks in 2 with my daughter, she stayed on and did not get hurt.  We got in the truck and went home.  I did not know the horse's history so have no idea if this was a first, regardless, it was not the horse for us.
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got boost?
Reg. Sep 2003
Posted 2015-07-17 7:08 PM
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I think I would sue them for medical
 
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cheryl makofka
Reg. Jan 2011
Posted 2015-07-17 9:48 PM
Subject: RE: Why is it so HARD for people to be honest????


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got boost? - 2015-07-17 7:08 PM

I think I would sue them for medical
 

This attitude worries me about selling horses.


We don't know the story, and it is possible that the horse bucked prior to these people gettingff the horse. It may have never bucked with the people who are selling the horse.

It is horrible that she got injured and prayer to her healing, but she got on the horse, isn't this informed consent? Horses are animals, and are unpredictable.

Not sure sueing is appropriate, as it will also black ball her from buying another horse as word in the horse world traces quickly and gets distorted
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livexlovexrodeo
Reg. Oct 2009
Posted 2015-07-17 11:56 PM
Subject: RE: Why is it so HARD for people to be honest????



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I know it wasn't the case with the OPs story, but its actually not that far-fetched for an owner to say a horse has never bucked, and then have the horse buck. When I sold the pony I'd had for 5 years, he had honestly NEVER bucked, never even so much as pinned an ear. But the day someone came to look at him he bucked when I first asked him to canter. I have absolutely no idea why. The lady still bought him and they loved him though.

Another situation, my friend was selling a very well-broke, level-headed gelding. She saw no reason why he couldn't be a kids horse so she advertised him as a potential youth horse. Younger people had rode him, but probably all at least 14. Well a family came and tried him out and he kept wanting to crow hop with the younger kids (8 and under). After this happened with a few different people we finally figured out he wasn't used to where the kids' legs were cueing him in the side. He'd only ever been ridden by people with longer legs.

And while this horse wasn't for sale, my dad bought a rope horse. Super nice gelding, we'd had him for a few months and I had taken him to playdays and my dad had roped off him a lot, so we felt like we knew him pretty well. We let my mom ride him at home one day and i don't know what vibes my mom was giving off, but that horse was ready to BLOW the moment she stepped on. I've still to this day never seen him act like that, I don't know if she was really really nervous and he fed off it or what.

So I guess what I'm saying is, you can't ALWAYS assume that just because a horse does something that the seller says is out of character that the seller was lying. Horses are weird, none of us can read their minds.
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FLITASTIC
Reg. Jun 2012
Posted 2015-07-18 8:46 AM
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That reminds me of a girl I went to high school rodeo with. Her parents bought her nice horse after nice horse and for some reason they always blew up! She was a sweet girl and didn't do anything wrong. She just had an electric shocking butt I guess.
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Buckles
Reg. Feb 2010
Posted 2015-07-18 9:48 AM
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Very hard to find an honest seller. I have a "kid safe" quarter pony I bought a year ago. He rode great when I tried him out, tried bucking me off the first ride a had him at home and has tried bucking me off several times since. People like the "trainers" I got him from are going to get someone's child really hurt.

My parents actually did get sewed buy a guy that fell off my horse I had as a teen and broke his wrist. I had the horse 4 years and she never once tried to buck. He was on her less than 2 minutes, dug the heel of his boot into her ribs hard, she took off bucking. It was his own fault for mishandling to the horse, but how can you prove that.

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cow pie
Reg. Nov 2009
Posted 2015-07-18 12:23 PM
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I know a man who would buy small 2 year olds. Get on away from the barn and run them back as fast as he could and within 30 days or less sell them as kid broke horses. He would set his kids on them lead them around for 5 minutes and make a sale. Buyer beware.
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got boost?
Reg. Sep 2003
Posted 2015-07-18 7:27 PM
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cheryl makofka - 2015-07-17 7:48 PM
got boost? - 2015-07-17 7:08 PM I think I would sue them for medical

 
This attitude worries me about selling horses. We don't know the story, and it is possible that the horse bucked prior to these people gettingff the horse. It may have never bucked with the people who are selling the horse. It is horrible that she got injured and prayer to her healing, but she got on the horse, isn't this informed consent? Horses are animals, and are unpredictable. Not sure sueing is appropriate, as it will also black ball her from buying another horse as word in the horse world traces quickly and gets distorted

I don't belive in sueing at all but this might stop the fibbers.  Also I always have my buyers ride the horse in a round pen to eyeball their riding abilities too.  See if they know how brakes work on the horse and can see pretty fast what kind of rider they are.......


PS  I never sell buckers I don't sell that many horses and if I had a bucker I would send them to be recycled.........yes slaughtered..............
 
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Fairweather
Reg. Jan 2004
Posted 2015-07-18 10:27 PM
Subject: RE: Why is it so HARD for people to be honest????


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Good points Cheryl & Livex.

I've also seen horses that people said bucked not do anything. Sometimes it's not the horse, sometimes it's the rider. I've seen horses that did fine with someone who could ride have a complete meltdown with someone that didn't know where their feet & legs were. I've also seen good lesson horses that didn't have a buck in them at all go sour and start bucking because they didn't get ridden enough and got spoiled on top of that.

Even with your own horses, every time you put a foot in the stirrup there's no guarantees. They're animals and we're supposed to be the smarter species and remember that but somehow we forget it pretty easily. 


 
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cheryl makofka
Reg. Jan 2011
Posted 2015-07-18 11:06 PM
Subject: RE: Why is it so HARD for people to be honest????


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got boost? - 2015-07-18 7:27 PM

cheryl makofka - 2015-07-17 7:48 PM
got boost? - 2015-07-17 7:08 PM I think I would sue them for medical

 
This attitude worries me about selling horses. We don't know the story, and it is possible that the horse bucked prior to these people gettingff the horse. It may have never bucked with the people who are selling the horse. It is horrible that she got injured and prayer to her healing, but she got on the horse, isn't this informed consent? Horses are animals, and are unpredictable. Not sure sueing is appropriate, as it will also black ball her from buying another horse as word in the horse world traces quickly and gets distorted

I don't belive in sueing at all but this might stop the fibbers.  Also I always have my buyers ride the horse in a round pen to eyeball their riding abilities too.  See if they know how brakes work on the horse and can see pretty fast what kind of rider they are.......


PS  I never sell buckers I don't sell that many horses and if I had a bucker I would send them to be recycled.........yes slaughtered..............
 

Your comment really worries me.

Sue the fibbers

So you are willing to sue or think any potential buyer should sue any seller who fibs.

Then the potential seller has to spend their hard earned money to defend their name in court.

Sounds like you are sue happy.

Horses have taught me even the best broke horse can make a liar out of me even once. Horses are not robots and no one can predict what a horse will or won't do in a certain situation, we can make a educated guess, but can still be humbled.

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Chandler's Mom
Reg. Jan 2015
Posted 2015-07-19 1:27 AM
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cheryl makofka - 2015-07-18 11:06 PM

got boost? - 2015-07-18 7:27 PM

cheryl makofka - 2015-07-17 7:48 PM
got boost? - 2015-07-17 7:08 PM I think I would sue them for medical

 
This attitude worries me about selling horses. We don't know the story, and it is possible that the horse bucked prior to these people gettingff the horse. It may have never bucked with the people who are selling the horse. It is horrible that she got injured and prayer to her healing, but she got on the horse, isn't this informed consent? Horses are animals, and are unpredictable. Not sure sueing is appropriate, as it will also black ball her from buying another horse as word in the horse world traces quickly and gets distorted

I don't belive in sueing at all but this might stop the fibbers.  Also I always have my buyers ride the horse in a round pen to eyeball their riding abilities too.  See if they know how brakes work on the horse and can see pretty fast what kind of rider they are.......


PS  I never sell buckers I don't sell that many horses and if I had a bucker I would send them to be recycled.........yes slaughtered..............
 

Your comment really worries me.

Sue the fibbers

So you are willing to sue or think any potential buyer should sue any seller who fibs.

Then the potential seller has to spend their hard earned money to defend their name in court.

Sounds like you are sue happy.

Horses have taught me even the best broke horse can make a liar out of me even once. Horses are not robots and no one can predict what a horse will or won't do in a certain situation, we can make a educated guess, but can still be humbled.


I agree with Cheryl----horses have the ability to humble you everyday. My bf rode his 8 year old gelding yesterday----we've had him 2 years and he's never offered to buck. . . . In the round pen he started a slow lope after walking and trotting for about 20 min and Lynn started picking that butt up!! Did it twice, but his rear end is getting some wet blankets starting tomorrow. It wasn't a "break in two" buck, but shocked the poo out of both of us!
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stayceem
Reg. May 2007
Posted 2015-07-19 10:57 AM
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I learned recently that I think some horses are never exposed to a variety of people and act up.

I recently bought a 4 year old that had supposedly had all the basics done. Was ready to start under saddle. I drove from MN to OK to get him. He was a nightmare the first week. The owner I do think exaggerated his level but I also don't think he acted this way with her. I think hes never had to work or listen to anyone else (bred and raised at her farm.)

As he warms up to me, hes made huge changes in his behavior. But had he been broke, it wouldn't not have shocked me to see him do something out of character for him. He was kinda a 1 person horse...

With that said, riders can also cause bad behavior and sellers can also be dishonest but I think this is also a variable. I know quite a few horses who are puppy dogs for their owners but naughty with others because they've just not been exposed much to others.
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bellablue
Reg. Jan 2015
Posted 2015-07-19 11:20 AM
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This is why after years of being in the horse world I find it so hard to buy a horse from someone I don't know. I've even gone as far as to buy weanlings because at least I know how they are being trained.

Many of my friends have gone through the same thing, one girl even shattered her pelvis because of being dishonest. I would rather someone know everything and anything about the horse when they buy it so that I am not thought of as dishonest.

Drove 4 hours to see one and the girl said she had been saddled and ridden. Get up there and the horse looks nothing like in the pictures and she puts the saddle on and no more sat in the saddle and she went straight up in the air... glad I asked her to ride the horse first.

When you find the honest sellers its almost like you feel something is wrong lol!! I bought a horse from someone who told me all the bad about the horse going to the extreme... When I got there I was prepared for a disaster, well lets just say he was way better than what was described I bought him on the spot. Maybe it's because his behavior was described so badly that I thought his quirks werent bad at all.

Edited by bellablue 2015-07-19 11:41 AM
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ozcancrasher13
Reg. Nov 2004
Posted 2015-07-19 11:35 AM
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 Had a friend die trying a horse for her kids.  While she was at their place looking at it, she got on before she let her daughters on it.  It bucked and threw her into a fence.  She never went home from the hospital.  

We had become friends when she bought a horse from me.  She and her kids won a lot of money on him.  They were looking for another one like him.  


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RunNitroRun
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Posted 2015-07-19 6:48 PM
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I have one here for training and resale. I know the previous owner casually and she had the horse for 8 years and she said he never bucked. Sold them to a family who bought him on Monday and took him to a jackpot on Tuesday. Horse put it's head between it's knees and bucked the kid off between the barrels. I have no clue why it happened but it did. The horse also refused at the gate and had to be led in.

I've had this horse for two weeks and not once has it offered to buck. I've hauled him and he walks into the arena calm and quietly and ready to listen. When I finally get him ready to sell for them I'll be honest in why he's for sale but I think it was just the combination was a bad fit.

I feel bad for your friend because that was flat out deceit and karma will come around for those people but sometimes it's just the combination that doesn't work.

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Posted 2015-07-19 6:55 PM
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  Another reason to have the seller ride first is to see how the horse acts with someone that knows them. If I see a horse ride perfectly for their owner then I get on and he just isn't the same I know it is something I am doing and not the horses fault usually. Im not talking about bucking. Maybe I can figure it out and we still might click. If that makes sense. I had an older horse, had him for 15 years. When I rode him he did great, if someone else got on him you never knew which horse you would get. Some people would "cue" him without even knowing it, then they are holding him back and he would be wide eyed head in the air prancing around. Granted he never bucked or offered to he just didn't know what they wanted so he looked like a wreck waiting to happen. I could help them stop giving him mixed signals and he would calm right down.
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